How do significant life events or the passage of time influence your perspective on life? Asks the daily writing prompt.
If I were to choose a one word answer to that question it would be “Profoundly.”
Significant events like deaths, early in my life changed me. Some of it made me stronger and other ways it took away confidence and security.
Time changes things over time. For instance the importance of the job over the years took on the shape of a bell curve over my career for me. Early on it wasn’t everything, then it really took off and it did become more important, and then more than it should have. And in the last few years many other things became priorities than the work being done for someone else.
Events give you experience and time gives you wisdom. For instance there is a lot of joy in creating a child. And that joy turns into a lot of wonderful smiles, memories and love in my heart and mind having helped raising them.
The passage of time changes all of us. We either adapt or not.
Every day you have the potential for events to change your perspective. It doesn’t have to be something drastic. It can be simple, from something someone says to you or how look at relationships in different ways from actions or inactions of others.
February 4, 2024 at 11:49 PM
Deaths of loved ones are hard ones to deal with.