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Crawl this way

Watching a young child learn to crawl is so exciting. You can see the mind clicking once they finally get over that leg and end up on their hands and knees. That sudden confidence. The rocking back and forth on the hands and knees like they are getting the band together for a march onto the football field. A few misfires forward that lead to a few faceplants, but then success. Several strides forward and a stop to survey the new landscape we just traveled to. That first look back to you with a mix of joy and accomplishment and then worry about the further distance from you.

Photo by Mike Hartley

That is what I remember from my daughter’s first movement on her own. And I remember that look of success and also the uncertainty of moving further away. But as all babies do they continue on to explore which is the beginning of a long process to their own independent life.

I’m a lucky father because now I got to experience it a second time now when I saw my granddaughter crawl the other day. I’m glad I view those things with such joy still.


At times in my life, I’ve been depressed and stressed and in a general state of unrest. Some days I wonder how I made it to this point with the thoughts and actions in life I’ve had. Now I look at those times and think how nieve and how small my world was. And the things that I considered big stuff was really small stuff. But without the wisdom of time and perspective, you don’t know those things. The knowledge that the world is so full of joy and wonderment and satisfaction that those things seem invisible.

That is why its all our jobs to help each other out during the different stages of life. If you see someone in need and think you can help, do it. For instance, I’m going to reach out to someone young who I’ve known for a while and see if I can help with their career.

But it doesn’t have to be complicated. Sometimes a well-timed and placed smile or compliment. Maybe a “how are you doing” and taking time to listen. Being there for a friend or family member. Being honest with people who need some honesty. Being compassionate when everyone is just making the best of a bad situation.

There are so many of us in need of help. We all see it every day in our lives. From someone dealing with a tough job. Maybe someone who lost a loved one. Those struggling socially. You know it. Its a list, several hundred miles long. If we do our part we can help shorten that list at least.


Random Thoughts of the Day

  • When your family and friends are inspired life is enjoyable. It’s like your a predator of fun and laughter.
  • I would love to get on a motorcycle again.
  • Wishing a speedy recovery to a special person.
  • Its good to be one top of both the old and young.
  • Tomorrow is a special day for someone I love and therefore its a special day for me.


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Lurking

Lurking in each day is an opportunity. How to spend a few minutes here and there that can really turn into something special. I’m learning how to take advantage of those and build on them. Like tonight. I could have come home and hit the rack for some much needed ZZZ’s. But NOOOO, I’m going to stay up and work on the photo site. Maybe one day behind that work another opportunity will be lurking.

Photo by Mike Hartley

Tomorrow lurks a special opportunity. A chance to practice some people photography. Yep from young to old and everything in between. I think I’ll get some video also. And right now I’m going to try a few product shots just to take a break once in a while from editing.

I didn’t feel that spark for a few days there. 10-12 hours work a day can take make that spark difficult to find. I keep searching each week for that energy I remember having. I know its hiding someplace and I will find it.

But its the weekend now and I have some time to shoot and tinker with the crafts. So Life is Very Good for me right now. I hope it is for all of you also.


Random Thoughts of the Day

  • Wishing someone very close a speedy recovery.
  • We toasted my best friends Lab tonight. He was a special dog.
  • I fixed a few things today. That’s a good feeling.
  • I used to let the fact that I may not be cut out to do some things stop me. Wisdom has tough me not to care about that anymore and to keep trying.
  • I’m worried about the lack of things that tie a community together. Things like a community paper.


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Peaceful

Feeling rather laid back today and peaceful. Maybe that is why I selected the photos below from Arlington National Cemetery. I love visiting in the summer. But its time to make my winter visit. So I guess I’ll bundle up this Sunday and head over.

Arlington National Cemetery
Photo by Mike Hartley

If it’s a nice morning I think I’ll take a long way out and see a few sights and snap a few new images. I think I’ll try to snap a few images every morning this weekend. I’ve got to get moving on some photographic projects around the county I live in.

Air Force Memorial in the background.
Photo by Mike Hartley

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • Welcome to town Sister In-law. Enjoy the visit.
  • I wonder if the internet ever goes down for any length of time if anyone is going to be capable of doing anything?
  • I’m making a lot of progress but its certainly not as fast as I would like.
  • I know I need to watch less TV. But its a constant battle. Sort of like food. They keep putting stuff in front of me that looks good and I fight to stay away from it.


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What I hope they feel

Now that we have our first grandchild, I want to make their visits to our house, like a visit to the Magic Kingdom. I want them to have such fond memories of it as they grow into adults.

Photo by Mike Hartley

I thought about this as I saw the importance of my own children seeing their grandparents home for the last time. Talking about the rooms or parts of the yard they liked the best. You can see the memories in them.

I can envision one memory there so clearly. It is one that I will always have and take with me. When the children were very young we took them to their grandparents and my better half and I went to look at a kitten that was rescued. We ended up getting it and bringing it back to their home and the look and tears of joy on my daughters face can still bring a tear to my eye today.

I hope to make many happy occasions for many years to come for them. I want to watch them run from the car to the front door someday. I want them to walk in the kitchen and just start looking around like my children do.

As usual my better half is way ahead of me. The toy collection has begun and a toy box was needed already, and she isn’t a year old. And some recent larger toys and a stroller have invaded. I love it. I see something new and I can’t help but smile.

Maybe one day some of these will be part of their collection that they pass down to their kids. Time moves so fast. Seems like just yesterday we brought our own children back from the hospital after being born.


The outdoors were not fit for man or beast today so these artificial ones will have to do. That was some bright sun today. It was quite deceiving. Because that cold was as cutting as that beak.

Photo by Mike Hartley

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • If only they knew.
  • If only I knew.
  • Does anyone know?
  • Oh no, everyone might know.
  • I do know that time got the best of me again today.
  • I do know my heart is a bit heavy for an important friend tonight.


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Monday liftoff

This is going to be a great week. I’m trying to start thinking more positively and going into a new week with a good attitude is key. Initially, it’s easy to look at this week in a positive light. Birthdays coming up with those close to me. A close relative who lives on the other side of the country coming to visit. The short work week and family plans for the weekend. What is not to like.

Photo by Mike Hartley

Why not think of the great times and work ahead to be done. Why not look at the possibilities. Why not act and do something positive. The negative and tough times will come on their own. Let’s make good use of every good moment we can draw from every week.

So find yourself something good to hang your hat on this week.


Random Thoughts of the Day

  • Take a moment to send some love or kind words or a phone call to someone who’s under the weather or has a child or pet who’s ill.
  • Wow, I got a note from WordPress that its been 6 years now. Well, at least I’ve used it to get more motivated, more confident, more creative, more inspired, more positive and filled with thoughts about what I can do in the future.
  • I’ve got to get busy saying all the things I’d like to say before I don’t have the time left to say them anymore. And yes kids, that is why I say I love you so often.
  • Remember to learn from history before your doomed to repeat it said a wise man I believe.


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Let it pass

Had a few things start off the year in a less than optimal fashion but I’m learning to let them pass and move on to better and brighter things. Some things and some people aren’t going to change. And that is fine, I just accept it and move on.

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By a stroke of luck I have off on a holiday Monday. I hope to make good use of it and capture some new images. I’m doing a favor for a friend in the morning and then some quick rest and a productive rest of the day. The only thing that beats a short holiday workweek is a week of vacation.

And the only thing that I hear beats a week of vacation is retirement. Each day I start a new week I cross off a number on my desk that looks forward to that day of retirement.


Random Thoughts of the Day

  • Well the team I had a rooting interest in lost this evening so that ends this years football season for me.
  • I’m beginning to think that Snickers commercial is real. I feel much more like myself after eating one.
  • I’m glad I don’t wager anymore. I bet with my heart instead of my head.
  • I’ve got to accomplish more each day.
  • I was almost in too much of a hurry today.


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Saturday with my Son

I had the pleasure today of attending the Maryland basketball game with my Son, a wonderful Xmas gift from him. Nothing beats spending time with my kids. Well, spending time with their children and pets also comes in a close second. Family time is so important to me.

Photo by Mike Hartley

Really everything I do now besides work is more important. It didn’t use to be that way but its the reality now. What used to seem so important is now down the scale. Work is what I used to measure my worth by at one time in my life, counts for a much lower percentage than in its heyday. At times in my life, my reality was out of whack in regards to my balance in life and my work. Well, more accurately my work was my life. That is very wrong when it hurts other important things.

Please don’t get me wrong. I work hard and take it very seriously. I’m a lead in my group and constantly strive to improve. I believe I’m a good team member and the only thing that ever puts me in danger of losing a job is my outspoken mouth.

But the passion in my life is back in the right places. Family, friends, helping, hobbies and crafts along with taking the time to appreciate living.


Random Thoughts of the Day

  • Picking this year’s NCAA basketball tournament is going to be a crapshoot this year.
  • I like it when people are honest with me.
  • I believe a good night’s rest is in order.
  • I have something deep in my heart that I hope works out.


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Taking the Time

If you can help someone or many people have a better life then there is no better gift that you could give yourself than to just do it. I know the days I do something like that, it makes my day feel more complete. It feels like accomplishment even though you have nothing tangible in your hands. Well, sometimes that hug and handshake go a long way.

Photo by Mike Hartley

Taking the time often entails you giving up something most precious to you. Yep, you have to take your time and give it to someone else. Sometimes it tough while you are actually doing it. Sometimes it’s not fun. Sometimes you cross the balance of doing too much by delaying other important things. But that payoff at the end is nice.

Photo by Mike Hartley

Keeping your sense of optimism each day is important.

This is kind of funny because the line above is where I left off writing this post earlier. I was all excited about some pictures I took this afternoon but I believe my oldest digital camera may be on its last legs. I could get the images off if I had a card reader but its download ability seems to have disappeared. I’ve spent some time troubleshooting but without luck so far.

So I’ll reread that line above where I left off earlier to make it to the end of this post because I’ll miss that old camera if this is it – Keeping your sense of optimism each day is important.


Random Thoughts of the Day

  • Experiences in life aren’t always fair says everyone who ever lived.
  • I thought about taking some snow pictures tomorrow morning but it’s cold outside. Well maybe I’ll go outside, but if I do that cover your ears.
  • I think I’ll go take some steps tonight. Yep, the treadmill comes alive.
  • One good way to make people happy is to listen.


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Come to the Point

I’m getting scared of the accepted carnage on the highways. From the fender bender to the most gruesome collisions. The inmates (drivers) have taken control of the asylum (highways). People have realized there is not enough law enforcement to keep them from doing what they want on the roads. And the priorities of the few are wreaking havoc out there for the many.

Photo by Mike Hartley

This doesn’t even take into account the people that never had the skills to drive in today’s fast-moving pace. Or those whose skills have eroded. It’s magnified by the volume of traffic so the margin for error is reduced.

Then again I guess with the list of things that are wrong in this world that’s small potato’s unless you’re caught in a mess because someone thought they were more important than everyone else.

Well, let’s hope we all kind of relax in the coming year, maybe be in less of a rush and maybe more courteous.

Really when I started this I was just really pissed off about someone who tailgated me for a few miles. I’ve got to get me a few of those James Bond weapons installed. I’ll have to make an appointment with Q.


Random Thoughts of the Day

  • Laughter is really good. When its with friends it’s great.
  • Sometimes in life, you got to be prepared to say “whatever”.
  • If I appear in a tired state this evening, it’s really more like a tired country.
  • Notice when it was warm out this past week I posted snow pictures. Today is a spring photo because it’s cold as %@$#*@(*#&^ outside.
  • And here I thought I had a good amount of free time today.


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Man Alive

Yes, I feel alive today. It’s amazing what a good night’s rest will do for me. And with a weekend ahead my mental spirits are rising fast. I can’t wait to get the camera in my hand and get some fresh work done.

Got a jam-packed weekend so I figure it will be flying by as usual. So I’m going to try to soak up every minute of it I can.

Photo by Mike Hartley

The next few days are pretty stacked with things for others but there are a few hours this weekend that I’ll be doing a few things for me. I’m glad I don’t spend a lot of time worrying about that balance. I feel selfish when I do. Actually I’m enjoying the things I do for others very much. I guess I was wise in choosing whom to help.

I’m so glad I was able to break out of a negative outlook cycle of life. When I look at the mistakes it was related to selfishness. Also not appreciating all the gifts I’ve been given in life. Maybe even not appreciating every opportunity. I try to do better each day now.


Random Thoughts of the Day

  • It’s better to just do the difficult stuff and get it out of the way than to look at it and wonder about doing it.
  • Even people you should be able to trust can be deceptive.
  • If I can start and finish each day with a smile I’m doing well.
  • I’m in need of some music, and some dinner.


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Preparing

Rumor is the COLD is on its way. I know some are very happy with this thought. I do not share that sentiment. But it does provide some beauty that I do like to view. It’s one of the things I’ve always liked about Maryland. It has a nice balance of all seasons. They seem to equal out in duration and they all have very unique qualities.

Along Rt 99
Photo by Mike Hartley

I just have issues with being cold so Winter is my least favorite. I don’t like the shorter sunlight. I don’t like the bareness of nature but the snow does show something wonderful. Its a peaceful thing. All I think about is the special kind of quiet it provides. Natures sound room.

Winter also brings out the youth in you. Of course, the emergency room business goes way up also. I think I’ll like it a lot more when I’m retired. At least that way when and where I go will be determined by me.

Along Rt 99
Photo by Mike Hartley

A busy week ahead but with the cold coming, I think I’ll split some wood for some exercise. I know my son can use some for his fireplace. And it’s a nice seasoned pile.

Photo by Mike Hartley

So the rumor has it we have some winter precipitation headed to us on Saturday. Well, bring it on Mother Nature. I got my big winter coat out. We have the prerequisite family SUV with 4 wheel drive. I guess I should fire up the generator and test it before the power goes out sometime this winter.


Random Thoughts of the Day

  • I’m glad I’m not an Astros, Redsox or Mets baseball fan.
  • I wonder if the number of corrupt things in this world finally outnumber those that aren’t?
  • That was a good College Football game last night.
  • I’ve got to get back to looking for the humor in situations.
  • The accident that happened next to me yesterday reminded me how dangerous it is out there on the road. Someone just not paying attention.


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Monday Minutes

I chose the title Monday Minutes because that is about all the time I have free on Mondays, just a few minutes. So let’s make the best of it and see what we can come up with today. Sometimes a deadline will inspire greatness.

Photo by Mike Hartley

I saw this image and I thought about hidden beauty. Everyone has a hidden beauty inside them. It can come out in many ways. And sometimes that beauty leads to wonderful things.

My first thought of something beautiful in nature is like a wildflower on a hillside on a Hawaiian Island that is so stunning it stops you. But today I’m thinking of the hidden beauty of the people involved with the care of sick children all the way to elderly and their loved ones and circle of friends. From the nurses and caregiving attendants to the staff and in a lot of cases the family and closest friends who care and try to make life good.

I can’t remember what clip is was I saw recently over the holidays of athletes visiting hospitals and the reactions and joy it brought. And while it seems the beauty is in the act of the stars visiting and bringing those smiles and a few minutes of normalcy in life, I believe its the ones visiting who might have received the best gift of all if they were open to it. And that is seeing how fortunate they are in health and ability, to learn how much joy they can bring others and share that, to realize that its not just the person in the bed or wheelchair or medical tree of tubes that go with their every step that they are helping.

Lots of times its also a brief reward and respite for those loved ones and friends. The joy of just seeing a smile or excitement for those enduring life challenges that they cherish is like medicine for their hearts also. These people are also hero’s who do extraordinary work. They are there throughout the weeks and months and sometimes years of treatments or recoveries. And they are there for sometimes unfortunate endings.

Many of these people might be members of your family, or neighbors who are doing wonderful things. And it doesn’t take extraordinary efforts to make an impact. Just making the time to visit elderly parents on a regular basis improves their lives a lot. Donate some time supporting the caregivers. Just tell them the amazing job they are doing or something to brighten their days.

Some people try to hide it or minimize their work and contributions. That humbleness is a beauty in itself. These people don’t blow their horns. They do this work from a labor of love. Wouldn’t be nice if we could all care for each other even when we aren’t sick.

But I just felt like I need to say thanks to all the people out there doing the hard work each day in and out.


Random Thoughts of the Day

  • Help yourself and you will be better prepared to help others.
  • Appreciate all you do have before complaining about what you don’t.
  • I sense cold weather coming and I’m not a happy camper.
  • Life is easy if you don’t over complicate it.
  • It feels good to keep your spirits in the positive direction. Even with some pain.


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Stay Challenged

Just pick something to challenge yourself. Both physically and mentally if you can. At least I hope this philosophy will work in my senior years. I’d like to take on and experience a number of things in retirement.

In some ways, I’m looking forward to being more active and challenged in retirement than I’ve been in my professional career. Mainly because I’ll be in charge of direction and challenges to take on. So light that grill and take off.

These are grilling temperatures.
Photo by Mike Hartley

But retirement is a few years off so I got to get busy utilizing the time well now to prepare for it so I can hit the ground running. Like having a portfolio of work ready to go. I’m working steadily on that. About 6,400 images so far. Yeah I know, quality not quantity. But always remember, sometimes it only takes one more image to make a really good series of images.

I’ve promised myself to get out and shoot some this week. And I think I’ll start this evening. Also I think I’ll try to prepare a few special and smart dinners this week.


I did better this past year but far from where I should be in terms of eating right. So I’m going to try to do better again. Because I’d like to live for a long time. Well, let me rephrase that. A lot longer than I have already.

Eat right=live long=prosper.
Photo by Mike Hartley

So I’ve got a couple of pieces of fruit for my lunch tucked away for the beginning of the workweek. Maybe some nuts and I’ll try to stay out of the snack room this week. It just comes down to making smart decisions each day about eating. From what to how much. Its all a matter of choice. I even ate some spinach during dinner. I guess that was a correct choice.


Random Thoughts of the Day

  • Not a good weekend for the local sports teams here in Maryland.
  • Finding something you think you misplaced is a nice treat.
  • Some things take time and effort over a long period to finally start to look successful.
  • It’s a good thing to maintain long distance friendships. You never know when you might be living close together again.


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Signs

Not all people obey the SIGNS. Like the NO DIVING sign below, some take liberties and use them as suggestions. Take the Speed Limit sign for instance. Is there a sign more abused? Well maybe STOP signs come in a close second. Maybe the Yield sign. Then again No Parking signs get abused.

You just passed your Exit signs are fun. Signs like Welcome to Your Town bring a smile to our faces. Especially when we have been away for a while.

We buy your used car flipping sign guys in front of Carmax. Emergency Room signs become very important as you make your way through a strange hospital. Increasing gas price signs along the highways.

Big Numbers on Lotteries signs flash at every store. Signs in your neighbor’s yard for a Home For Sale. Signs supporting the various Candidates for Election. Signs indicating accidents ahead. The many and inventive Yard Sale signs.

Signs its someone’s Birthday with balloons on the mailbox. Builders signs at every corner. Bent Street signs. 2 for $5 Burger signs. Do you Need a Lawyer sign (most of these you won’t see because they have been run over)?

The Left lane must turn Right at the next intersection signs. Even signs where your Dog Can’t Crap. I didn’t know dogs could read. Important signs like Restroom signs. Always look closely.

Oh, I have a tremendous issue with people abusing Handicapped Parking signs. Pray, I don’t see you. Another one you might not want to ignore, the good old RxR Crossing sign.

The Bar sign over your local watering hole that you dream about having in your basement. The sign next to your daily horoscope. The Pancake Breakfast sign in front of the local church.

And remember – Not all signs are on the Level.

Photo by Mike Hartley

So today I’ll spend the rest of my time looking for positive signs. Mainly from people instead of objects.


My apologies for posting a strange picture yesterday without explanation. That machine in front of the old Washington Post building with the entry gate down is a Linotype Machine. It was used decades ago, yeah when I first started in the industry to set type for newspaper pages.


Random Thoughts of the Day

  • Everyone needs a recharging station.
  • The more humor I read or hear, the better my day is.
  • Do you ever have those days where you think you should get out and do something but the call of the house to stay home and do nothing is so loud it can’t be ignored?
  • Taking Christmas lights down is depressing. But then again having 68-degree weather to do it in is nice.
  • One of my favorite drummers passed recently. Thanks for the great music, Neil Peart. I loved seeing Rush live.


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Freedom to write

We all have the ability to write. One of my best friends is an incredible writer but he would never fantom writing for writing sake. I thought about writing for many decades before I decided to try it. I really should have been working on it all my life.

My 9th grade English teacher would probably roll over in her grave if she heard me say that. I think my parents might like that I try to write. Then again is my writing about nothing really writing? Well, who decides what is nothing and what is life and observations.

These days you don’t have to be a writer for newspaper/magazine or write a book or short stories. Like me, you can write away with abandon. Yeah, the audience is few but that is OK. If it was just my family I’d be a happy man.

Photo by Mike Hartley

And who knows, I might write something good someday. And even if I don’t its helped me. I slow down when I write. I try to think. I try to balance. I don’t always succeed but I keep writing. I hope to write about the many experiences I have yet to have. Today I got tickets to a concert for my better half and me to attend this summer. I hope to write about how special that evening is.

A good book on a nice day on the patio of Whole Foods building. Photo by Mike Hartley

For the past 10 years, I’ve had the idea and half-hearted effort at writing a book to my children. I started and didn’t get very far on a book on living in the nocturnal world for periods of time in my life sprinkled with Night photography.

I always think about writing on how important family and friendships are and can be. And yes those can be painful at times also but the best is so rewarding and right that it outweighs the pain of the few that go sideways.

I write about getting old, about having a changed look at life after cancers. I write about hating cold weather. I have yet to write about how each Sunday makes me nervous because the Packers are playing and that is my Son and my favorite team. And yes we pull for the local Ravens team also but if its a Super Bowl were backing the Pack.

I haven’t written more than a few of the hundreds of wonderful experiences I hope to have as a grandparent. Or for that fact the wonderful experiences of being a parent. And yes I could probably fill a few bookshelves with mistakes I made in that. But they survived me anyway and did very well.

I haven’t written about my life in newspapers. No, it’s not that exciting. But I’ve watched a lot of exciting things. And I’ve had a view that few had until recently.

I don’t know if I’ll ever write about some of the mistakes I’ve made in life. (that would fill a few isles in the library). Sometimes I start to write about a friend who has passed and I feel its too personal to share. But sometimes it feels good just writing it.

I thought about writing about the special group of guys who played ball at Hammond Village. I thought about writing about how awkward I felt growing up.

Each day I sit and either a photo inspires me or a thought races across my mind and my fingers at the keyboard and I blog away that day. So it’s nice having the freedom to write. It’s good therapy for me to be more positive.


Random Thoughts of the Day

  • Being a Maryland basketball fan takes a lot of medicine to get through some nights.
  • I’m getting much better at not wasting time being mad.
  • My day was a success. I made a child smile repeatedly.
  • If I didn’t work so hard during the week I’d be a lot less tired on my weekends.
  • I wonder if I’ll ever ride a motorcycle again?


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Pathways

I had an ambitious project that started before the new year. It’s a little larger than I thought but I’m also glad of that. Because the more I work on it the better I feel. The more I work, the more I think about what more I can do with it. And the thought of filling it up with even more content as each day passes.

You can encounter a great number of pricks in a day.
Photo by Mike Hartley

It’s part of my daily routine now to add, edit, label, position. Almost 6,000 images so far and lots more to go. Already starting to organize it a little differently. I see weeks if not months of work ahead. Ain’t it great.

I love that I’m finally organizing all my family and friend’s photos. And I’ve got an area for all the old family slides once I get them transferred.

I feel alive. I’m feeling like opportunities are there if I just step up and follow through on some of my ideas.


Random Thoughts of the Day

  • I’m almost giddy about seeing my grandchild in a few hours. Let me charge the camera batteries.
  • Having a day a week where you can gather with your best friends is so important.
  • Taking some things as they come is part of life. But always have your lines.
  • I try to take every image as it belongs in a nice frame. I’ll settle for 1 per week.


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Ta-Dah

I don’t know why I thought of that as I rolled out of bed today but I went ta-dah as I woke. And I kind of chuckled as I did because ta-dah is a bit pretentious when not used as a joke. I’m not one for grand entrances or grandiose proclamations. But just waking up today felt good. So Ta-Dah.

Photo by Mike Hartley

Waking up each day feels like a victory. So why not celebrate it with a joke and a laugh. And maybe if I’m happy it will rub off on someone else.

Photo by Mike Hartley

Instead of shooting today I’m going to try to learn something new about my camera. Yes, I’m lazy and don’t know every one of the controls. But I’m trying to be less lazy and it is fun. I’m also working on my photo portfolio on Zenfolio. I got about 5,500 images on there so far. Not all public but a large percentage. Still finding stuff stashed away to upload. Like the two photos used today.


Random Thoughts of the day.

  • The pen may be mightier than the sword. But it’s losing to the electronic devices.
  • I wonder what the ratio of friends on Facebook to real friends is?
  • That is one bright moon out there this evening. Guess that and the snow on the ground help brighten up a cold evening.
  • I’m looking forward to working hard this weekend. That way I’ll be too tired to worry about the work week ahead.
  • Today I’m going to do something important. Not sure what it is, but at least that is my hope.


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The first snow smile

Ah, the first snow of 2020 in the area. Well, the term snow is relative. Here it means it snowed anywhere between an inch to a few feet. We get mostly the inch kind in the mid-Atlantic area. I had a few minutes to watch it start and check every once in a while till it covered the grass slowly and then the driveway and street in front of my house. And it brought a youthful smile to my face.

Long gone are the days of “Killer HILL” sledding or neighborhood snowball fights. Or going to the ballfield and doing imitation slides to home plate in the snow. The building of the giant snowman in the front yard vanished decades ago. Laying in the middle of fresh snow making snow angels and listening to the quiet that snow provides are memories.

Getting out in the snow and playing like a child is something that should continue through life. When my kids were growing up we would make a snowman, so I did that as an adult also but I haven’t in a long time. I’ll still make a snowball once in a while and throw it at my better half while we shovel the walk and driveway each year. I haven’t made a snow angel in decades but maybe if we get good snow this year I’ll flop down and make one. I’m trying to remember how to be a youth. Maybe if we get a good snow one day I’ll build a ship next to my lighthouse.

Photos by Mike Hartley – I love the views around my home.


Trust is something that is going around in smaller amounts and continues to decline. It’s a shame and it’s part reality. There always have been bad people on earth that prey on others. Now not only are we more aware of them the number of them goes up. From simple phone scams to robberies.

Trust on so many levels has come into question. And it should. If you don’t have trust what do you have? It has been eroded on so many levels. Maybe that is why the few relationships you have where you have explicit trust are so special.


Random Thoughts of the Day

  • Happiness is the day I can choose what road to drive and when instead of the trek to the office and back.
  • Each day I learn lessons about myself.
  • Snow is cold and I don’t like cold.
  • Snow is beautiful because it replaces grey.

A verse for today from Ozzy Osborne song Crazy Train

Crazy, but that’s how it goes
Millions of people living as foes
Maybe it’s not too late
To learn how to love and forget how to hate


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Thoughts to Actions

Sometimes I have to start small to get in the routine of doing something good. I was looking at a number of talented people near the end of the year and how they have posted their favorite photo of the month for 2019 or significant projects.

Steps to Where? Photo by Mike Hartley

When I started looking at my photos by month I realized I was using a number of older photos that I had in my library of images taken before I started blogging regularly. I’m not saying that is a bad thing or they don’t count, but I started this to promote shooting more.

Cloudy Morning Photo by Mike Hartley

So tonight I begin again anew. Well those are pretty words aren’t they? More like “about time I got my ass in gear” would be more appropriate. So I’m going to try to grab a few frames this evening and keep shooting every day of my life. I’ve let myself get lazy and not think like a young man where everywhere you look is a good opportunity for an image.

When my mind is right, photography is a joy and ease. When its cluttered with issues and troubles it’s hard to see the opportunities. So here is to keeping the mind free of those stresses.

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • Mondays are always the roughest day of the week for me. In one way that is good. The rest of the week is cake.
  • My old camera is starting to show its age. Just like its owner.
  • I’ve gotten used to working alone. Even though I consider myself a social person I bet I’d have a few issues working in a populated office.
  • I’m in love with so many people. Life is great.


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Why not today

Why not today. It’s a good a day as any. I’m fired up. Production is in high gear and projects move forward. I got a special one with a due date in early March so that leaves me only two months to follow through with that but a great start was made today.

I’m excited, I’m focused, I’m positive and thinking ahead and acting now. Getting on a positive roll is nice. So many things impact that when you can just get into that mode and sustain it for a few days or weeks if your lucky, it’s a wonderful experience.

I don’t know what got me going today, I’ve been making some progress while I was off for a few days from the job that pays the bills and I guess it got contagious. I’m excited about learning some things to help make my sites look more professional. Well at least attempt to spruce up the amateur I am.

Guns a the ready Capt. Photo by Mike Hartley

I’m within a week of having my photo site updated. At that time I’ll start posting some links here to Galleries. I’m starting a Facebook page that I guess I link to this site. I’ve got some learning to do. Speaking of FB, I’ve got to communicate with a few people using some of my photos. I just want credit when they do use them.

In some ways when negative things happen, I’m doing much better at turning them around to positive things. Didn’t always used to be my forte. Sometimes I’d get really mad and make them worse. But I guess I’m getting a little smarter as time goes along.

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • I miss my better half and its only the first day of the workweek.
  • In some areas of my life the hits just keep coming but people will learn I hit back also.
  • Working on my own work is so much more rewarding that working on someone else’s. Well at least in the feeling department. Maybe not so much in the financial area.
  • Partners who don’t speak aren’t partners.
  • This is my decade.


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The Attic

We rooted some pieces of history from the attic today. Some of the kid’s things we saved from their youth. Brought a lot of ooh’s and ahh’s from each of us with each box or toy we passed down. And then when she opened the clothing box of their favorite things it stopped both of us.

I didn’t even come close to taking everything out. It will still be a while till the grandchildren need bikes or wagons. But I’m so glad we saved some things. Well, actually a lot of things. Just the books and stories alone bring back so many memories of reading to them and the games we would play doing that. My better half reminded me of the storm noises we used to have to make at a certain page in one of the books. She held it up fast so I didn’t catch the title and this old mind memory for that would be stretching things.

I also found a few boxes of my Mom’s items also that I stored after she passed several years ago. I was kind of intrigued by this one piece I believe she got when she traveled to China. From the descriptions, I’ve found online it’s a Classic Blue/White Porcelain Ginger Jar.

Photo by Mike Hartley

It looks nice, is large and is fairly heavy. I can’t read what looks to be a Chinese mark on the bottom of it. Time to enlist more experienced help. I did find one interesting site called Invaluable that had some good info. I’ll look for a local dealer experienced in these wares also and keep searching.

Photo by Mike Hartley

The decorations are down. Well most of them. I still have to take the outdoor lights down and the basement tree and lights. But in the next few days, the home will be back to normal. It’s kind of sad, I enjoy them so.


Random Thoughts of the Day

  • My least favorite season is chapstick season.
  • A normal workweek on the horizon. Lord help us.
  • I’m trying but I’m not sleeping well.
  • Terps basketball wins make me feel really good.
  • Is the dynasty over? Could the Pats be OVER? And yes I did pick the Titans.


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Snapping out of it

I had a real setback earlier this week that I’m still trying to snap out of. I’m extremely disappointed about the negative effect it has had on me and my family. I’ve always had trouble letting go of things when I’ve been wronged. I think the phrase that applies is “It sticks in my craw.”

Karma baby, may it bite those who deserve it.
Photo by Mike Hartley

Each day I try to get better with my temper. I consciously make a serious effort. But there are still people and actions taken in this world that really rub me the wrong way.

Luckily we had our granddaughter today and that innocence and joy, the love and trust, the warmth and appreciation was a nice relief from some poor feelings. And the day was finished with a nice visit with my father and mother inlaw.

It didn’t cure me because I’ll be dealing with long term effects of this issue for some time but it helped me refocus. Not forgive, but to not let it dominate my time. Not let it dominate my attitude or dampen my joy of life and each day. Even though it’s not a small thing, I’ll put it in that category when it comes to worrying about it.


Random Thoughts of the Day

  • Desire does the job.
  • If you add chores to your already busy routine, but you see the payoff, they no longer are chores, they are just routine.
  • Hopefully, I’ll turn the corner tonight and wake up totally motivated on Saturday.
  • My dental hygienist has the softest touch with my teeth. I don’t dread a dental visit when I know I’ll have her cleaning the pearly whites.
  • Sometimes when you feel like you have the most time to do a post, it’s actually the least amount, as I finish another one just before midnight.


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Ornaments

Almost time to start taking the ornaments off the tree. Seems like I just started putting them one. The day I started I got the reminder to make sure the “special ones” are up and displayed. After almost 40 years of marriage together we have a few more ornaments than we can use. Even with the big tree I get and the one in the basement.

Photo by Mike Hartley

Some items like our kid’s first ornaments from births and ones they first made in school or ones from our parents that were part of their trees for decades. A few sets or series of ornaments that are our favorites. That is the special part of every tree. I love seeing everyone’s interpretation and sometimes history on the tree at holiday time. I like making our tree different every year.

I love the smell of a fresh-cut tree. We also have a smaller artificial one in the basement. I hope I’m well enough to go get that live one each December for a long time to come. And even though we might not celebrate every year at our home, it’s going to be decorated well because we both enjoy it. Of course, my better half is the far superior decorator and the place is really nice with the touches and items she brings to each room.

I guess I’m just a little sad the season came and went so fast. But its always like that when you have a good time. So till next year Christmas and New Year.


My how life changes. I just thought of something I have to add to the bucket list. I want the grandkids to bury me on the beach on our family summer vacation. I know its a few summers off but the idea of that just popped in my head this afternoon. See, even during winter, I can have warm summer thoughts that put a smile on my face.


Random Thoughts of the Day

  • Friendships are getting together, laughing, sharing, helping, remembering and planning. It’s also fun to add some good food and drinks.
  • A short but successful day. Some rest, some fun. And finish strong with some work.
  • It’s hard to smile about a rain-filled 2-day forecast. I guess I could practice some foul weather photography.
  • Why I chose to start my Friday off with the dentist appointment is beyond me. I might want to consider the checkup from the neck-up.


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Day 1

Well, to be honest, I don’t have much new to do today. a working holiday for me so that is pretty consistent with the past. I did get on the treadmill but I started that a few days ago. I did communicate with friends and family about the wishes for the coming year. Mainly listened to theirs.

Being a better listener is something I’m going to try to do better in this coming year. I’m pretty good at it already but I can always get better. For I think I talked more this past year than I normally do so I’ll try to cut back on that which makes time to listen. I get much smarter by listening more and talking less anyway.

My new year hasn’t started out the way I had thought it would in some respects. I got to adjust to some sudden changes. As usual poor communications made it worse. And no they weren’t on my part. But I’ll recover. And I’m looking for positive ways to make the year better despite a setback.

Select your direction wisely. Photo by Mike Hartley

As you get older and nearing retirement age (or past it) and your still working its harder and harder to go back to work after some time off with family and friends. It’s all we want to do now (be able to be retired). Yes we still work hard but it’s not the focus of our lives it once was. And now we look at each other and say how are we going to do more years of this?

Of course the new grandchild has been a strong draw to spend time with and we can’t wait for our days together each week. Its that time to share with the people important to you that really is the joy. Yes I know most all of them have to return to work also so it can’t be a holiday week all the time. I also know that what makes it so special now is because they are limited throughout the year. But the balance is way off. We all focus to much on our jobs and not each other.

The long commute seems to be longer and more difficult and more dangerous. The rude people are harder to tolerate as well as for things that go wrong. The desire to be a leader has eroded. And no I’m not in a position of leadership anymore so its not like I’m not doing my job. I’m a natural leader by the work ethic I have anyway.

All I know is that I look with glee each time I get to cross off a week on my countdown chart at the job for the day I can hopefully retire. Of course that was dealt a blow this week already.

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • If you can start off a new year with the kiss of the person closest to your heart, then you’re off to a fine start.
  • I love those funny daily desk calendars. Nothing like starting your day with a smile.
  • OK, I’m ready for a snow day from work. But I see none in the forecast.
  • I’m glad twinkling lights on a Xmas tree still make me feel good.


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Happy New Years Eve

Ah, the last day of the calendar year. A fresh start for a lot of people. A huge party for some others. And just another day for some. People celebrating, People working. People staying up late. People going to bed early.

I sit here and smile at a few of my past New Year’s Eve’s. There were some parties when we were younger. I remember being young and dancing with my better half and the strong embrace we shared. I think we will just be embracing on the couch this evening and not out dancing.


Today I was thinking about how fragile life is. The more we live, the more we become weathered, we become more fragile. Both in mind and physical abilities. What was a stumble and fall as a youth where you get up and brush yourself off and return to the game, is a serious medical emergency at times as a senior?

Photo by Mike Hartley

I need to change my thought process on most of the activities I do physically because my objective as always is to stay away from doctors and hospitals and rehab facilities as much as possible. And if I pretend that I’m half my age that won’t happen.

Yesterday on the treadmill I started to turn it up a bit fast for someone who needs more of a steady pace to build up some aerobic stamina. Old me would say power through it but now I listen to the body and think long term. I’d like to be exercising a long time into the future without the heart attack in between.


Redefine. It’s good to redefine some relationships over time. All things change. Sometimes for the better and sometimes the worse. Sometimes back and forth if you stick with it long enough. I’ve been stronger in the past than I realized I could be and I hope to draw on that and my creative resources to make this work.

Photo by Mike Hartley

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • Even if we don’t go out and celebrate it doesn’t mean we don’t worry about those who do. Be safe kids. It’s an amateur night out there this evening.
  • With so many examples of people doing the wrong things, be different and do the right thing.
  • Messages are sent in many different ways and if you’re not looking you could miss some.
  • Be in tune with the people that are important to you. That way you will know when something is right or wrong.
  • Wishing everyone a happy and healthy New Year.


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Tallies

As is tradition, people quantify by numbers and accomplishments around this time of year. Not just in our personal lives but our professional ones also. I’ve seen a few posts of yearly numbers/blog stats already and I’m sure I’ll see some more. And the other day HR sent along our self-appraisal part of our annual review to fill out. More numbers.

Maybe I don’t worry about numbers because this blog isn’t that impressive, but then again, that isn’t why I’m doing it. I’m doing it to improve. For instance, my goal from the start is to do this daily. After 5 years I hit my top of 331 days posting and 339 total of 365 days this year. I do it to encourage myself to shoot more when I get the opportunity. I do it to force myself to think and then write. I want to get good at both of these and the only way to do that is practice, practice, practice.

How many sunsets do we have left to count?
Photo by Mike Hartley

So some numbers are important in some minor ways to me. But really its all in how you value something. Sometimes I more glad about 1 comment than all the likes. Sometimes if I get a like from an artist whose work I admire I feel successful. So it’s not always the largest number.

Numbers on performance reviews mean little to me anymore. For some time I’ve put too much attention on those numbers. Needless worry most years. Now I don’t worry about an annual review because I know how I do all year long. Just like I always had but I would get all worked up about how someone who rarely works with me rates me. If I’m impressing the peers I respect and am happy with my effort and results, that’s all that matters to me.

No place for numbers here. Photo by Mike Hartley

Really the only important tallies of the year are: does everyone make it through it healthy – Can you quantify how you helped yourself improve – have you helped others. Whoops, I almost skipped the most important tally of them all. Family +1 this year with a new granddaughter.

In an era of statistics and percentages, there is some merit in numbers. So they shouldn’t be ignored. It all depends on what you want to do and how you wish to go about it. If numbers inspire you or others then, by all means, use the hell out of them. And remember if you have risen to the top don’t just manage by numbers, take people into account.

I’m an amateur photographer and a hack amateur writer and I’d rather have fewer followers now than the pressure of being popular and putting out less than stellar work. I used to think that the hours I put in had an effect on stellar work. Yeah maybe sometimes but not all the time and I realized I still might be able to do something good within a few minutes each day.

If my mission was to have X number of followers I’d apply a lot more effort in that area. But I’d rather have better content and let them come naturally. When my work merits it, there will be more.

I’ve never been one for a lot of New Year resolutions. I come by most by accident. For instance, in late April I look down and say to myself that is not a beach shape unless I’m doing a Shamu impression and I lose weight. Unlike the masses who somehow decide the New Year is good for going out in the cold to a gym each day, that you will give up by mid-February.

Ready, set, drink. Photo by Mike Hartley

I started writing yearly goals when I first started blogging. That lasted about 2 years and then I realized I need to break things up into much smaller tasks. I feel like I’ve been more successful and it’s felt more rewarding doing it that way.

Some numbers are easy. The more I post, the more views and likes and comments usually. Some numbers are difficult. The number of photos I wanted to display is far fewer than I hoped. Other numbers are puzzling. I had no idea I could just ramble on for so many words each year. When I first started I was panicked about writing much of anything. I hadn’t looked a yearly stats till today and saw that I had written over 118,000 words this year.

Yes, I realize I could say more with less. And I’m learning slowly how to do that. I know I need to become a better editor and proofreader. So I will end today’s rambling session here.

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • The family time this holiday season has been one of the best ever.
  • I gave myself a pass for a week but that time is up. Time to start eating right again.
  • In some ways today was the best of days. And in some ways, it was the worst. I usually don’t have such a contrast on the same day. That’s what happens when work invades vacation time.
  • When fairness isn’t in both people’s interests, things get ugly.
  • My daughter makes a mean batch of cookies. And sometimes life is as simple as that.


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Soup & Sandwich and more

It was a soup and sandwich type day today. Steady persistent rain, all day it seemed. So a grilled cheese and tomato soup were served today by my better half at lunch. That about took me out for the afternoon. It’s easy to relax when you know you don’t have to rush back to work this week.

But tonight we had some long-overdue homemade crabcakes. I was going to eat both of mine but I managed to save one for later on tonight. It’s been a great year and I’ve eaten a good number of crabcakes. I still think the best I had was from Pappas in Parkville.

Broiled crabcakes tonight.
Photo by Mike Hartley

But there were several good ones in Ocean City this year and about a dozen other towns in Maryland. I could eat seafood every day. And Maryland crabs would be at the top of the list.

Tonight I used the main Old Bay recipe but I used some Frenches spicy brown mustard instead of the standard mustard. I also added a touch of Worcestershire sauce. Instead of the 2 teaspoons of Old Bay, I used 2 1/2. Also, a touch of ground mustard and just a little more mayo than called for. And maybe a little less parsley than called for.

Usually, I pan fry them but today I broiled them. I might have to go this route more often. All I know is I can’t wait for the season to begin again and the fresh Maryland crabs to be plentiful.

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • Not having to step foot outside on a sloppy day is key to a good attitude.
  • Well, I’m only human, I can’t totally ignore that tin of cookies.
  • I’ve got to spend some time this evening writing a few notes and catching up with some friends.
  • I’ll do better Monday because I’m getting outside a good bit. Which reminds me to go charge the camera batteries again.


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Spring?

I stepped outside in a tee shirt today and I wasn’t cold. Now that is something I didn’t expect to do for a while yet. So I took a short ride with the top down. I must be the adventurous one because I saw a number of other convertibles with the top up still. I did have one biker give me a nod to the drop-top.

The definition of attention. Dogs have it.
Photo by Mike Hartley

But the treat of the day was watching our Son’s dog for a few hours. She is a joy to have. So loving and well behaved. And she knows I’m the ice cream man so the first thing she does when she gets to our house is going to the front of the freezer and alternate sitting and standing till I get her a few small slivers of vanilla ice cream.

How can you look into a dog’s eyes and not feel the love?
Photo by Mike Hartley

I’m so glad to see the love my children have for their pets. In another week or two, I’m going to make a donation to our local animal shelter. I got lucky and won a bet so no better use for it than our 4 legged friends.

I was just playing with her profile today.
Photo by Mike Hartley

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • This has been a great year. I’m so thankful for it. Just about all my personal relationships are better.
  • I feel bad eating habits creeping back in.
  • If you buy a convertible its a crime not to use it.
  • I think I’ll start giving each new week the attention I give each new year.
  • I’ve realized to be a photographer it would behoove me to have the camera in my hands each day.


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What day is it?

It’s funny to me how quickly when you break your routine that the day of the week becomes a mystery. Today was one of those days for me. Several times I caught myself thinking it was another day but Friday. I can’t wait for retirement when I’ll start wondering what week or month it is.

Well, my better half and my daughter and granddaughter went shopping and left me to my own devices today. So I made the following sandwich. Yeah, I know its just wrong. But the voices said go ahead and try it. At least I didn’t add any mayo to the bread. Yes, it bacon surrounding ham and bacon cheddar cheese.

So no heart attack so far. I even went out and washed the car after eating this. It’s ready to hit the road tomorrow for a short spin sometime. And with the temp approaching 60 it might inspire me to put the top down.

A mixed emotion day was had. It was about the thought of returning to the normal work weeks after this coming week. The limited amount of minutes or a few hours for a quality visit. The time with family and friends shouldn’t be such a rare treat. And I’m someone who makes it a priority throughout the year and it still seems greatly limited. So I’m going to change that this coming year.

First with my better half. Because she deserves some fun and travel. And also with my children, friends and extended family. I thought about how much I enjoyed taking my mother and father in law to dinner last night and thought we should do that more often. I can think of a million and one things I’d like to do so I better get to it.

Don’t forget to turn your tree lights off before bed.
Photo by Mike Hartley

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • Lots to do is a wonderful burden to carry.
  • Time to practice with new studio light.
  • What is the proper length of time to leave the decorations up?
  • I think I have a good plan going into the coming year.
  • I think I have the right attitude going into the coming year.
  • I hope I have my health going into the coming year.
  • I know I will accomplish much if these few things hold true.


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Inspired

I was losing my balance between work, chores and life and what is really important in life. Spending good time with family is wonderful and inspiring. And making time for those friends who are really like family now and throughout the year is critical to my happiness.

Morning sun over Ellicott City. Photo by Mike Hartley

I’m going to get back to eating right after a few days of feasting. Well maybe after Sunday because we have a ton of leftovers and sweets around, but between now and then I’m back on the treadmill and if it’s as nice outside as I think it might be this weekend, there might be some outdoor activities planned.

Photo by Mike Hartley

I’m hoping the best for a best friend who is going under the knife again. At least his second time this year. I’m wishing for him a much better new year. Each day of health is like a special blessing, not to be taken for granted, but grateful and appreciative of it.

I’ve noticed over time that the more I think about what others need or I can do for them that life is that much more special. I wish I had discovered this earlier in life. I always knew it but didn’t act on it as much as I do now.

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • I’m going to throw out all the pens that I have that no longer work before the beginning of the year.
  • It was a beautiful dinner and drive with my mother and father in law today. I’m blessed with another family that feels like my own.
  • I don’t need to join a gym to get in good shape. And I’m proud of that.
  • I feel sad when I see someone sitting in their car outside a 7-11 alone rubbing scratch-off ticket after ticket and not looking happy. Bet you won’t catch state lotteries running that in a commercial for the FUN.
  • My apologies for not having something insightful to say. Obviously I was short on time and just rambled on today. Tomorrow will bring a better effort.


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Happy Holidays

Today was wonderful. I was blessed with the joy of family. I also had a few moments choked up about the family I miss. And I miss them very much around holiday time. Everyone misses someone around this time of year. I even miss my pets that have passed many years ago around this time because I might find ornaments about them or see an old holiday photo or remember them loving the Xmas tree.

Some people just need a bigger yard. And I’m guessing this one is at least 2 acres.
Photo by Mike Hartley

It’s very important to move on and make new memories of each opportunity. It’s also very important to remember those who can no longer celebrate with us. But don’t let the later overshadow the first.

So in that vein, I’m in pretty good spirits now. And I’m ready to enjoy a few days off. Tomorrow I’m going to do some more family photography and I’ll be out and about so that might afford some other opportunities.

I met this 13-month-old beauty today. He is a happy pup.
Photo by Mike Hartley

I think I’ll get up before sunrise and go out and grab a few images for an hour before coming back home to have some breakfast with my better half. Maybe I should pick some breakfast up while I’m out?

Oh, and apologies for that first shot today. I didn’t have my tripod and it was COLD out and you know how I hate cold so I was probably shaking trying to hold that 3 lb, Nikon, still. So tomorrow no laziness, I will have some stable light shots. But I couldn’t pass the chance to record this display I saw on the way home this evening.

I hope everyone had a safe and wonderful day.

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • Each day is a beauty to celebrate but today has that extra special feel.
  • Today I got hugs not only for the gifts I gave but what I do throughout the year. So it was an extra special day for me.
  • I feel like I’m accomplishing a little more each day. At least its the right direction.
  • My daughter and son-in-law had one of the most beautiful celebrations today. It was a huge effort on their part and I’m very thankful.
  • Sometimes I sit down and feel like I have nothing to write about. Then I get inspired and write about nothing.
  • It’s ok to enjoy old movies that aren’t always politically correct today.


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In the spirit

I was up too early this Christmas Eve. I’ll pay for it tonight and tomorrow. But I do have some time off after that so I can catch up on some rest which is much needed.

The snow-covered roof of the barn on Bethany Lane.
Photo by Mike Hartley

No white Christmas for this area this year. I don’t even see any in the forecast ahead. I’m sure we will get our share later.

On his way.
Photo by Mike Hartley

Another holiday evening at work. It really takes a toll on the holiday spirit but I’ll snap out of it as soon as that quitting bell rings. The ride home should be a very quiet one. Not many people out and about before daybreak on Christmas morning.

All the camera batteries are charged so its time to load up and fill a few memory cards. And no better time than the present to get going.

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • I know why SUV and pickup truck sales are higher. You need them because streets are becoming more like off road highways.
  • This is one of the few days a year that you can look at the person in the cars next to you and get a smile and a wave.
  • I hope Santa gets me some sleep for Xmas.
  • I hope to be around a long time, but just in case I’m making gifts a little more special each year.


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Let's all get there

I’ve only got about two hundred miles to do in the next two days so while I’ll be out and about I won’t be doing any long journeys. That doesn’t mean I won’t see some madness on the highways, I just hope I’m lucky and smart enough to keep it at a distance.

Be safe please.
Photo by Mike Hartley

I see Baltimore and Washington placed in the top 10 of the rudest cities’ top 50 list, by a recent Business Insider article. And it comes out when people are in cars also. Maybe more so in many ways. Aggressive rude behavior can be multiplied by poor driving skills either of the aggressor or the people caught in their way.

I know each one of us can do a better job on the roads and life. Not just at this time of year but throughout. Save a life, maybe yours or someone else’s.

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • I have the desire to read a book over the holiday weekend.
  • I think I heard my car threaten me about being washed. Maybe tomorrow.
  • Ah, yet another year to demonstrate my lack of gift wrapping abilities.
  • Pine Orchard must have been giving away Liquor based on the traffic there today.
  • Maybe being #1 in college basketball isn’t that safe a position this year.


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Relax

Have you done your best? Have you tried your best? Then relax.

Pressures mount, expectations run wild in your head. Time runs short. Go ahead, relax, you earned it.

Don’t feel you need to top yourself each year. Don’t cut someone off going for that parking space. Relax and take a few deep breaths.

Captain Skully Photo by Mike Hartley

As Christmas ornaments come out from family member that has passed, take a deep breath, smile at their memory. Relax and go sit down and look at a photo of them.

Are you stressed about what greeting to say? Merry Christmas, Happy Holidays, Happy Hanuka, Merry Kwanzaa. Relax, just say what comes to you naturally and smile.

Are you uptight about the travel involved? Cramped airline seats, long trips in a car. Waits in lines at the gates and on the interstates. Relax, you will get there and in better spirits.

Are you frustrated that you couldn’t do more for your family and friends? Relax, just showing up and being there is a gift that is most important. Give the gift of time throughout the year. That can top anything you can buy.

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • Hard not to smile while hanging Christmas ornaments.
  • Does it seem there is less of an emphasis on New Years Day?
  • Most families have real problems. Some never overcome them.


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Summary of a Saturday

A fine Saturday indeed. The first chance my better half and I had time to spend together in a while. I missed it greatly and she indicated the same. We went out and had an early dinner of steak and shrimp. No fine dining, just Texas Roadhouse in Columbia, which is the first time we have been there. Service and food were very good and it was so relaxing to spend some time talking to each other.

Columbia Mall
Photo by Mike Hartley

So we just kept it going with a trip to the Mall. I know, what are we thinking on the busiest shopping day of the year? But it was a piece of cake. I did want to get one thing but they didn’t stock it anymore.

Photo by Mike Hartley

So we just walked, shopped, listened to people singing out by the poinsettia tree, went over and looked at the kids and parents visiting Santa, people watched, managed to walk in the Godiva Chocolate store and walk out empty-handed.

Photo by Mike Hartley

We walked holding hands at times. We stopped and overlooked the kids playing in their playland area in front of JC Penny.

We walked the entire mall, both levels. We got our grandchild something. I mean you can’t go into a children’s store and come out empty-handed. Maybe a chocolate store but never a children’s store if you have grandchildren.

Photo by Mike Hartley

I left my camera in the car on purpose. I didn’t want to take the time to shoot anything and break up our time together. But there were a few moments that I saw and passed on, and then (DUHH) I unlocked the phone I had in my hand and did a couple of old iPhone 5 shots. Yep, 8 megapixels. Of course, that is the same resolution I have on my old Kodak camera. But I’ve never really used the camera function much at all. Like almost never. I’ve had the phone for many years and I bet there aren’t 50 photos on it and most only recently with my Son’s dog or my new Granddaughter.

I’m going to make that one of my resolutions to use that tool a bit more. I’ve got to admit carrying that heavy Nikon around is a chore. No problem when I have some time or can use a tripod but carrying that 3 lb. weight around my neck usually gets to my back.

I’m trying to get an early start on a resolution to do some new shooting each day. I see a lot of people in the blog environment taking a break over the holidays. I’m looking forward to gearing up. I’ve got a few thousand more images to upload to my photo site. I’m hoping to shoot like there’s no tomorrow, I hope to write something inspiring. I hope to pull my video camera out and try my hand at that again. I hope to get my Dremel tool out and create some sawdust. No offense to those taking a break. We all need one. But a few days off during the holiday season is like a feast of time that I can selfishly devote to my pursuits in between the family and gifts and friends and laughs together.

Thanks for a great day today Patti.

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • Leave the TV off and see how much more you get done. Turn your computer and cell phone off and go out and enjoy life and someone’s company
  • Is it sleeping in when you haven’t really slept well all night?
  • I grew back into a wardrobe I had a while back. I also discovered the need for a belt again, because I almost lost a pair of jeans the other day. I know the kids wear them low but that would not be a cool look for an over 60 dude.
  • No, not another work week on the horizon.


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Crunch Time

I did something today I haven’t done in ages. I got started on my Christmas shopping only 5 days before the big day. I pretty much finished though because I was organized, had a plan and it went flawlessly. In recent years I’ve usually been pretty much done the first week of December maybe with the exception of some stocking stuffers.

Man-eating Sign. Or is that Sign eating Man?
Photo by Mike Hartley

There were 7 stops today. Every one of them went smoothly but the thing I really enjoyed was the courtesy of both the fellow shoppers and the workers in the stores. Everyone was in good spirits. The attitude was upbeat and smiles were all around me today. Something I really wasn’t expecting to see this late in the season and everyone else completing for gifts and parking spaces.

The first thing that caught my attention was the drive to the stores. People were being courteous in the parking lot. You know, people respecting crosswalks, or not blocking intersections to allow people in and out. Every other car merging seamlessly without any unwanted birds being flipped. No horns heard or any harsh words. I even witnessed two people approaching a single space from the opposite direction and each gave a wave for the other person to take the spot.

Along Rt 108 a few years ago.
Photo by Mike Hartley

Holy crap, are we giving respect to everyone now? This is great. I wish I could see this year-round. Maybe I’ll look in the mirror also to see what I can do for the better this coming year.

Oh yeah, I forgot that one special moment that made my day. I was coming into the department store and outside was the Red Kettle for the Salvation Army. I pulled a few ones from my pocket and put them in walking. As I opened the store door and glanced back I saw the guy behind me do the same thing. As I smiled and held the door open for him I noticed two women approaching and they pulled money out and put it in. So I held the door for them. It was nice to see everyone in a group donate. If every person in this world did, there would be a lot less pain.

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • I like it that our building takes up a collection for the garage, security and cleaning crews for a seasonal gift.
  • I’ve got the camera out again. Finally. Tonight is some home shots for the family album and tomorrow I’ll venture out with my better half and photograph some county holiday light displays.
  • The thought that made me happy today was that my daughter and daughter-in-law are both off till the beginning of the new year. Teachers really deserve the break.
  • Is it dangerous to get water while at Taco Bell? I only thought of that after I did today.


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Can I do it

It’s a question I’ve asked myself for a long time. I think I’ve been afraid to really do what I’ve wanted to do for decades. Professionally speaking that is. I don’t regret my choices professionally, but some days I wonder what it would have been like to pursue my creative dreams. There is a lot of safety in working for a steady paycheck. There was no shortage of excuses on my part though in the past also. I’m working to remove those feelings. Actually asking myself “Can I do it?” is kind of a fun reminder that I say sure, why not.

Don’t get me wrong, I had a moment the other day when came across my pastel set and it gave me that chill of intimidation. I haven’t dabbled in that in decades. But I hope to soon. But it does make me think back to some younger days when everything had to be perfect and if it couldn’t I’d be intimidated by it. Yeah, pretty much everything because very few of us are perfect and I can tell you even by accident I’ll probably never be perfect.

So I’ve taken the safe route most of my life working for mid and large size companies with one exception for a short period which was a wonderful experience. But now towards the last several/few years, I’m excited to give whatever I Can Do a shot. If nothing else I’ll enjoy the learning journey. Yes, I agree I’m getting a late start. I can’t recapture what I never did or attempted. But I’m finding happiness in the effort I can make so far.

Photo by Mike Hartley

So now when I see obstacles. I think of ways around them instead of stopping.

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • Waking up was a bit painful.
  • Watching the Maryland basketball loss was painful.
  • Not having the lights on the upstairs tree is painful.
  • Having to go out and shop tomorrow is going to be painful.
  • But it’s been a great day today and a better one tomorrow.
  • A grandchild’s smile can make the pain disappear.


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Sometimes

Sometimes when you think you probably haven’t done your best work, there is a pretty good chance you haven’t. But sometimes when you feel that and put something out it gets an unexpected positive response. Of course, there are the times where you are really pleased with some work and it gets a less than enthusiastic response.

Sometimes a single response to a post is enough to make my day. Especially if it was from making a friend or family member feel better. Or if it helped anyone or they enjoyed an image?

Patapsco River Photo by Mike Hartley

Some days I don’t need a positive response to a post. I just feel good that I’m doing something that interest me. So sometimes just doing something feels good. And I try to remember that each day and try.

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • Some days you wonder what will unite us again.
  • Last workday of this week. That is a nice feeling.
  • For some reason my mind keeps whispering SLEEP into my ear.
  • Something very strange happened today.


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Good morning/evening

Being I have a rather strange schedule where the night is day and day is night, and then in the same week, the opposite is true also. In other words, there are days I get up and start the day at 6-7 am and there are days I’m going to bed at 7 am. Yeah I know, kind of messed up, but such is life when things professionally change drastically.

Thank you Mother Nature.
Photo by Mike Hartley

And adapt professionally I do and have enjoyed for many decades. But these last 5-6 years have been different. I know I’m getting older and nearing the end of my time in newspapers. I’ve seen a huge drop in average age over the last 5 years. Many old coworkers have retired or moved on or been moved out because our business is changing.

Some people adapt well to change. Others not so well. Some things are impossible to overcome when a drastic change in technology takes place. This has also happened to us.

Then there is the comfort or discomfort level of drastic age differences. I work with a young man who is younger than my son. This company has reinvented itself in many ways. Some of it exciting, some not.

But anyway, the thing that I thought about when I made the title of today’s post was when I walk out after working a night shift and I usually say goodnight or goodmorning to the security guard at the front desk. I’m never sure which is appropriate.

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • When you have a lot of people to love, getting through the day is easy.
  • Age offers wisdom if you’re open to it.
  • Blink – the year is gone.
  • I wanted to take 100 images today. So far I’m up to two. I better get to work.


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Wealth by day

Wealth is all in your value system. A lot of it isn’t monetary. For instance, I feel wealthy when I have my health. Even today when I’m hurting I feel wealthy in that I can work a job and a half, put in a few minutes here, work on my portfolio project and have a good meal.

We all spend a lot of time in the pursuit of material wealth. Some of it is very well-intended and justified. For instance the betterment of one’s family. Providing opportunities you might not have been able to afford yourself to your children.

We all look at what we make. Some of us even plan for a future, but it’s hard, I know we have lived week to week for most of our lives and continue to do so today. As does most of society I believe.

Snowcaps.
Photo by Mike Hartley

I feel wealthy again having a young grandchild to hold and feed. One of my favorite things that were never measured in dollars was family time. Wealth is having the ability to be out and about.

Wealth is something you can’t get back at times. I’ve worked too hard at times in my life when spending more time with my children was more important. I try to correct that each day now but its wealth lost.

I think if we concentrated on the real wealth of life we all would be a lot happier. But greed has gotten in the way.

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • I’ve been seconds behind two major accidents in the last two days. It reminds me not to be in a hurry.
  • There is nothing like sleep. So I hear.
  • Waking up and knowing its going to hurt getting up isn’t the way to start the day.


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Chains off

Besides doing some photography of my granddaughter and a few quick grabs here and there, I’ve been chained up in my shooting time. I hate that I let myself slip in shooting regularly.

So today I charge both the camera and my batteries to attack this fresh week. I’ll be out and about shopping in between a very busy week at the job that pays the bills.

I love their breakfast.
Photo by Mike Hartley

But working on my photo site has kind of gotten me recharged on getting new images. One because I can go refine some original ideas and shots I’ve taken with better ones. Sometimes I look at a shot and thought about a better angle or taking it during a different season.

I work on it every day now, adding images, editing and learning the tools. Who knows, in a few years it might be a good launch point for my next career.

Will this be the view tomorrow morning?
Photo by Mike Hartley

Till then I’ll keep plodding along putting up images that I’ll takedown in a while with better ones. But one big bonus also is that now I have my family and friend pictures organized also. I can’t wait to share them with the family. I went back a good number of years.

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • Wind and Cold when combined equal one of my least favorite things.
  • Getting a Xmas tree late (like today) gives you a more limited selection. I usually have one shortly after the first or by the first weekend in December. I still like it a lot though.
  • OK, it feels like Christmas now. I got my lights in the basement up.
  • Wind and Cold and Snow and Ice, thanks for the nice start to the week.


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Candle

I’m liking having a candlelit in the office at night. Well, my home office at least. I think it probably would be frowned up at the job that pays the bills. I like the flickering flame. I like the sent (most of the time) it fills the room with. I like them with no cent other than the burning wax.

I always hesitate to start a new candle. And even after burning it for the first time I hesitate to light it again. The homes I’ve lived in have mostly had candles for display. But this guy likes to have them burning.

Sometimes malfunctions create interesting shots.
Photo by Mike Hartley

This day turned out far different than I had planned. Such is life as we age. Schedules get changed. That is why its good to appreciate each visit. Savor it. Ask how someone is doing. Listen to a friend.

I’m sorry I have nothing today. I’ve had such a run of luck with my back that I guess I got careless at some time in the last few days. It’s taking any concentration and threw it out the window. I can’t get comfortable, sitting standing or lying. Such is life. Maybe it’s a temporary setback. I was on one of the best rolls in the last few months.

It’s funny. The spasms and aches today wouldn’t have touched the radar much 6 months ago. Tonight I was questioning doing something about it. Funny how time and changes for the better can change your perspective.

I haven’t even humped the live Christmas tree in the house yet. Something else I didn’t get to this fine rainy Saturday. I wonder how much trees are costing this year. Used to be I didn’t blink an eye at what a Christmas tree would cost. I’d usually get the biggest thing I could fit through the slider door. But now with it just being us and starting to travel some years for Christmas, I’m not sure I’ll go all out like I used to. And who knows, maybe I’ll just get down to one tree eventually.

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • Energy levels are low, just when I need extra. Bridge to engine room, come in Scotty.
  • Life is short. Wear good pairs of socks.
  • I’ve got about 4K images on my photo site. A few thousand more and I’ll start sharing sections of it. Still on track for the 1st of the year.
  • Once I have them there I’ll have to do a good edit and get rid of some. And then learn the tools of the site available and put them to use.
  • If you can show someone a photograph and it gets them excited about the image or photography, you have shared a gift.
  • I’ve got to call my sister. I haven’t touched base in a while.


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Fear

Sometimes fear creeps into my day. Each day I see some horrific incident on the news I worry for my loved ones. Not every incident (you would go crazy) but some really give you pause. But today my fear is visiting my parents grave again. I guess it comes from not being over to visit for several months now. That combined with the holiday season has me very emotional.

Wreaths at Arlington. Photo by Mike Hartley

And that is the fear I get. The fear of struggling emotionally. And not just that morning. It sometimes doesn’t leave me for a few days. The summer and spring visits are kind of easy and more relaxed. I even leave there feeling good like I’ve had a nice talk and catch up session. Even though spring and summer is the time they both passed, but for some reason, the Xmas season brings about that sense of loss in a different and difficult way.

Tomorrow many volunteers will spread hundreds of thousands of wreaths there. I thank those wonderful people. That is one of the organizations that I contribute to every year. Wreaths Across America

So I’ll face my fear on Sunday morning, this week or next. I’ll have a nice visit and talk. I’ll shed some tears. I’ll snap a few photos. I’ll drive out and as I see others visiting loved ones I’ll say a prayer for them.

Sometimes you really miss loved ones who are no longer alive. I hope I’ll always keep them alive in my heart and therefore in my children’s hearts and in their children’s hearts.

I remember so how my mother loved Christmas time. Decorating and cooking and giving gifts were her loves. Helping others was also important to her throughout the year but especially during the holidays. I don’t think I ever saw her walk by a Salvation army pot without putting something in it.

I’m going to continue in her spirit and pick another cause or two this week to donate to. And this coming year I’m going to try to do better in my donation of time also.

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • Pain is reminding me it was just on vacation and its family of aches is returning.
  • It’s not really the time of year for ice cream but I went for it anyway.
  • It’s tissue season.


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Holy drafts folder Batman

I just looked at my draft folder and saw 254 posts started and never completed. Yes, some will be completed. I draw on some ideas or finish some thoughts I’ve started but I’m guessing there are some things in that pile that is dying to see the trash can.

But there are a few gems in there also that aren’t ready to see the light of day yet but someday soon. My first thought was a bit of guilt over that mess. But then I thought about just doing something and then doing something more and on and on. That is how I keep going now, opportunity by opportunity. Thought by thought. Image by image. Day by day.

Some days I might start 2-3 posts before I get on a roll. Sometimes I’ll start something and then be editing photos and find something that spurs a thought in a completely different direction. Like today’s post.

Yeah, I know a lot of days aren’t my best work. But I don’t feel like I can stop because losing momentum is deadly. That is why I look forward to days ahead where I can devote more time to pulling something special together more often both here and other areas of art I’m interested in.

Every office needs a character. I’m like that one chair that is out of the norm.
Photo by Mike Hartley

The Farm – I’m torn on how I feel about cube farming. You know, how is your companies space is used. I’ve seen and worked in so many variations of office and production spaces and I’ve liked very few of them.

Most of the time you can’t personalize space at the office as you would really like. And with shared spaces now even putting up a family photo seems strange. I’ve worked in totally open spaces in both production and office settings. In offices, I’m just not into it. Even when private spaces/rooms are provided it just doesn’t do it for me. A simple example and maybe this is an old man effect but when I’m alone and at the keyboard, I’m a wiz. Put someone behind me or in view and my klutz impulses just overtake the normal eye-hand coordination. I don’t know if that is just paranoia or not.

I guess the best offices I’ve had were three different roles in my newspaper career. The first was in an old (1970’s) production job. Engraving and Pressroom areas. The office was on your feet and at the various equipment.

You might be crawling through what looked like a giant jungle gym that was very dangerous when running and only slightly less when not. When the presses stopped and you had 2 minutes to catch your breath and your office chair was a skid of bundled papers that you laid on as a forklift moved them and you to the loading dock area before you got up and did a roll change. The quiet room was the darkroom, with the exception of someone yelling out from another room if it was a halftone or line shot and the exposure time and a pound on the wall when he/she had the enlargement or reduction set so you could load the film and make the exposure, develop and run it out into the light for a quality check. You see this camera was almost 15 feet long. Of course, by quiet I mean it had a few thin walls separating it from the roar of the press. I remember doing a lot of yelling at that job but it wasn’t in anger.

Or that 15-20 second rest you could take while burning plates by laying over the plate burner to take the pressure off your back of being on your feet 15-20 hours a day. And it was a great warm-up in the wintertime because when you work in an old building, it gets COLD.

Those were long hard days. Some of the most physically demanding work I’ve ever done for the longest time durations ever only broken up by a lunch break at the 8 Mile House or the Bloody Bucket or Judges Bench. There only was one office and it was shared by the production manager and foreman. And when you got invited in for a drink or beer after a 30+ hour day it was the most relaxing moment of work because you would go over all the difficulties of cramming 2-3 days of work into one and have a few laughs. That job had no office but it was one of the best because where ever you sat for a minute, be it the floor or a pile of papers or over a roll of paper yet to be printed, it felt good.

The second most enjoyable office was one where I had 4-5 offices at the same time. And by offices I mean a table in a computer room or space in a conference room or a spare desk loaded with old computers in the tech services area and one home cubical at mission control. Basically one at each plant and data center that I would cover as a UNIX admin. It was great, different locations, different people, different feels, different chairs. The travel wasn’t the greatest being it was in and around the DC/MD/VA area but on a nice day, it was great taking a different route in or home.

The next one was one of my shortest stints but it was a huge departure from previous environments. It’s when two partners and I started our own newspapers. All of a sudden my office was mainly outside. Photography, sales calls, events, and circulation landed me in the elements every day of the week. When it was nice weather, you can’t beat it. When it’s not you try to survive. But getting that fresh air. Meeting new people constantly. Getting to know your community was cool.

My last one has always been my favorite. My home office. Comfort, convenience, feeling, temperature control, peak creative space, control of inputs be it people or things. You control the sound inputs and outputs. You’re always on time when you get there and when you leave it, it’s a perfect time. It’s the easiest commute you will ever have. It’s no problem to go to the office late. And while all this is true and much more about the home office I wouldn’t trade it for all the gold in the world for all the good friends I’ve met at the many offices/cubes I’ve had.

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • As I watch a Hawk hunt from the trees and sky behind my house I’m reminded of a shark.
  • I wonder if I put more things on my to-do list if that would increase what I’m able to get done because it seems I finish only half of it every day no matter what.
  • I’m worn out by all the contentious people who seem to get an undue amount of attention.


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Warmth

I looked out on what appeared to be a full moon and opened the door and was greeted by what felt like the coldest temps to date this season. Good thing I’m working from home today because my instincts were that of a bear. Find a warm cave and stay there till it warms up.

Photo by Mike Hartley

I got a feeling I’ll be starting the space heater for some extra warmth later also. Speaking of warmth I’ve been thinking of going out soon and splitting some of that seasoned wood I have on the old pool deck. And then share it with my son and call to get an insert in the main chimney because some of the tiles are bad I’m told.

Well enough rambling about home repairs. I’ve got Xmas lights to put up.

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • Helping is more rewarding than hating.
  • There is tired and then sleep-deprived and then there is me.
  • To be successful in not eating too much I have to think about not eating too much. The default mode is to EAT.
  • I wonder if anyone under 50 knows what “getting punchy” means.


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Comfort

  • That minute before falling asleep.
  • That first day of the weekend when you get up and don’t have to rush out the door.
  • That first hot chocolate of the cold winter season.
  • That shower after working outside on a 100 degree day.
  • That first time your new pet curled up on your lap.
  • That moment your children are born healthy.
  • That first time your hair on your neck stood up on end at a concert.
  • That first step on the beach after a long winter season.
  • That first crabcake or dozen steamed crabs.
  • That piano solo by Billy Powell during Free Bird.
  • That hug after I haven’t seen my better half in a while.
  • That time your children open their gifts and you see a smile you were hoping for.
  • That feeling in looking at a picture of a family/friend who has passed and remembering good times and smiling.
  • That uplift you feel after helping someone.
  • That memory of the favorite meal you mother used to make you.
  • That knowledge that you gave your chosen work the best effort.
  • That assurance from your pets of their unconditional love for you.
  • That incredible high from holding your children’s children and making them laugh.
  • That reward you feel that is invisible to others from following your dreams.

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • I could never work downtown 5 days a week. Thank goodness for work from home days.
  • OK, I got two weeks to make everything happen.
  • I try to envision myself driving to the ocean on a warm summer day this time of year.
  • I can’t help but blacken asphalt when the song Kickstart my Heart comes on.


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Monday madness

Started with nothing. Trying to make something. Always short on time on Monday’s. So tired ideas are hard to come by and frustration builds after starting 2 posts and not being excited and starting a third. Too much time on the road and it bumper to bumper traffic. And no I didn’t even go shopping.

The Howard County Conservancy Photo by Mike Hartley

Worried about cramming in 4 weeks of chores and must do’s into 2 weeks. But one thing I’ve learned late in life. Just keep taking a step and then take another and another. It might not accomplish everything but it keeps you marching in the right direction.

So it seems like Wednesday morning we might have some white stuff falling from the sky. I do hate cold and cold and wet is just piling on, but the first coating of snow each season is beautiful.

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • 4 hours sleep doesn’t cut it.
  • I’m rediscovering soup.
  • I actually get uncomfortable when I’m overdue for a haircut. My how the times change.
  • The best gift ideas are not on the internet. There the ones in your heart because you know someone so well.


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How many more

I was sitting here thinking about how many more office chairs I’ll need in my lifetime. As the two I have are starting to show some age like their owner.

Then I wondered about how many more sunrises. How many more hugs. How many more photos. How many more handholds. How many more racks of ribs. How many more songs. You know whatever stuff you love. When you get older the thought crosses your mind every so often. I don’t get depressed about that stuff but I do remind myself to appreciate each step, each breath, each day, each relationship.

Sanibel Island Fla. Photo by Mike Hartley

Boy these weekends sure do go by quickly but I do have a lot to show for it. I added a thousand images to my photo site. It’s going to take me another week or two but I hope to have that site updated by the end of the year and ready to share with you all.

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • It felt good to help someone out today. I should do it more often. If it weren’t for the full time job it would be a lot easier.
  • Well I missed getting to Arlington this weekend. Looks like I will see all the wreaths at the headstones next weekend after all.
  • As you get older its harder to remember where every one of the thousands of potholes are in the streets of DC.
  • Sometimes working alone is OK.
  • Before you know it some young children might be waking you up to inform you its Christmas morning. I miss those days.


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Pressures and Pearl

The good ole pressures of the holiday season are creeping in. I started my shopping today. What a zoo out there. No wonder online shopping is becoming more popular. I’m surprised how much we do already and my guess is it’s going to be even more in the future.

This home delivery craze does bring one question. How much cardboard are we going through? A box for every item? It seems like a problem in the making.

I managed to get a few gifts today and maybe I’ll get in the swing and try to finish up this coming week. Which reminds me I should go get a tree tomorrow and then get some lights up outside soon also. Pressure pressure pressure.

Actually it’s a blessing to have those things on the agenda. This season is going to be a special one. As long as you have your health, there isn’t much of a reason to complain.

Picked up some holiday flowers for my batter half today. Something I’m long overdue in doing for her.
Photo by Mike Hartley

I’m worried as the generation that fought in World War II is quickly lost, that this day is losing its significance. And the worst thing you can do is forget about history because then you are doomed to repeat it. I salute my Uncle Frank who was on the battleship West Virginia at Pearl Harbor this day in 1941. And I salute all Veterans.

That may be one of the curses of this technology boom. We’re more interested in reading about Kardashians instead of Kamakazi’s. Were more interested in Scandals instead of Sacrifice. And who’s getting Botox instead of being Brave. I’m not sure what it’s going to take to get the proper balance between living a good life but not forgetting the sacrifice many gave and continue to give to get it. But it seems like we are losing it. Some older ones might say we lost that balance long ago.

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • You can see the best and worst of our world by just going to a parking lot this time of year. You can see people being both very courteous and very selfish within seconds of each other.
  • I’ve got to do some fresh shooting. So when I get my behind from behind this laptop I’m going to do something.
  • It scares me that my close friends might be moving away someday as we get older.
  • At forty I wish I had the energy that I had when I was twenty. At over 60 now I wish I could remember the energy I had when I was 20.
  • This is a tough time of year for those who have experienced significant loss. That is just about all of us so be patient, be respectful, be compassionate and be sympathetic.


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Building

I got back to work on building my long-neglected photo site today. And I hope I can keep going and get a base of work like I did here and just continue to build for years. I just looked and I have about 1200 images in it already but have a lot of other work to add.

Then comes the work of organizing, labels, the order of images and who knows, maybe putting some things up for sale. Of course, I’ll go back and do an edit and pull a few out. I should have finished this up earlier this year but as with all the projects I start, they just take some time.

I’ve fished off the green boat in Florida.
Photo by Mike Hartley.

It will also allow me to look at some items by category and I can start doing prints of my best work again. I got a fairly good printer, I should make use of the tools I have. Which reminds me I’m out to the supply store tomorrow.

Photo Editing – I was looking at a post on Photofocus about some software for sky replacement for Real Estate photographers recently. It raised something I feel I should clarify about my own photography. I don’t own sophisticated software for photo editing and if I did I wouldn’t use it to change an image in a way that changes the original scene. Bright/dark highlight/shadow corrections. Maybe a crop is what I do and you see. I guess that is from working around photojournalist.

If I ever manipulate an image in that way, it won’t say Photo by Mike Hartley it will say Illustration by Mike Hartley.

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • No matter how many pictures I take, it’s never enough.
  • I haven’t had so much fun just clapping back and forth with a child in decades like I did today.
  • Sharing is important. Therefore I made a donation.
  • To be wealthy without money is a wonderful thing.


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Some days you just faceplant

It’s not possible to ride every wave perfectly. Some days you can dive under the waves. Some days you catch each one that looks good and you’re in heaven. Other days you get beaten up and thrown under churning waters. Some days you might miss one entirely and get your back adjusted.

Watch for speedbumps of surfers who have been planted.
Photo by Mike Hartley

We all have those days. Thankfully today wasn’t one of them but they do roll around. So whether those storms bravely and pick up and move on as quickly as you can when they do come around.

I can’t wait to see this view and smell the salt air and feel the warm breeze.
Photo by Mike Hartley

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • The question isn’t why we are so divided and don’t get any governing done. The question is what are we going to do about it?
  • Looking deep into a child’s eyes is a wonderful experience.
  • I’d much rather watch the tachometer than the speedometer.
  • The limit on the number of times you can have soup in a day is waved when its this cold.


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What's important

Many things are important. The last few days of work have been important. With the coming holidays, I’ve got to get thinking and shopping because that is important. I’ve been trying to remember to get proper rest which is important.

But the most important thing of all is that I’m going to see my granddaughter for the next two days. Children always have a way of showing you what is the most important thing in life. Giving children a good base of love and support and direction is critical and it takes a family.

Now there is a creative way to get a child to use a toothbrush. Photo by Mike Hartley

I wish I had time to brush up on a few more things but midnight approaches and my 10-minute break is over.

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • Isn’t life grand? Well, most days at least.
  • Time for a change maybe.
  • I’ve got a book I really want to read. I wonder if I lay it open to a different page each night over my head as I sleep if I could absorb it?
  • OK, I didn’t shoot today but I did work on my makeshift studio.
  • I promise a more visual post tomorrow.


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Marvelous

I was just laughing at the way Billy Crystal used to say the word “Marvelous” in his skit imitating Fernando Lamas on SNL. Life is Marvelous and always can be even when it’s not optimal. I’m reminded by this by the inspiration of children who are sick and their belief in each day. The strength to look beyond limitations or illness or even less than rosy outlooks astounds me. It embarrasses me when I think of my small problems. They inspire me to take advantage of every day.

Now there is a formation. Photo by Mike Hartley

Feeling better again – Wow, sometimes a reminder of feeling poorly for a while really makes you appreciate the times you are feeling good, which I hope for all of you is most of the time. Last night I was feeling like I was going to throw up for about 10 hours while sitting at my desk. That is when I wasn’t in the bathroom. I know TMI. I’ll move on to another topic.

Writing a book – For a while I thought about writing a book. I still am and have several ideas. Some like existing in a nocturnal world. Maybe some about my photography. And a half dozen other ideas. But my first one and most important will be to my children and I’ve decided this will be just for them.

Tomorrow I shoot – No not a gun, my cameras. I see there is some sunshine in the forecast so I think I’ll get out and soak up some rays.

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • It’s Giving Tuesday. I still have a few minutes to make a few donations which I’m going to do once I finish this.
  • It’s marvelous when you don’t need to touch the pharmacy in the med cabinet for relief for a good period of time.
  • Is it me or are drivers getting worse by the day. Oh yeah, it must be that holiday spirit.
  • I didn’t get out on Small Business Saturday but I will be supporting some small business in the area shortly. Do the same if you can. Not everything of value is found on Amazon.
  • I’m too stressed out. Time to relax a bit.
  • This is the first car I’ve ever owned with a seat warmer. It’s the greatest thing since sliced bread.


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Sick Day

I was thinking about not doing a post today because I was under the weather. Let me rephrase that, I was sick last night and this morning and I’m not feeling 100% yet but had a burst of energy and thought I’d attempt something.

Arlington National Cemetery
Photo by Mike Hartley

So I went looking for a photo being I didn’t shoot anything new today and ran across this image which reminded me I haven’t been over to visit my parents in a while. I think I’ll cure that this Sunday. The wreath laying won’t take place till the following week and its really beautiful when they are all out but time gets tighter as the days pass so I’m going to go when I have time.

And the next 3 weeks are packed so the time is now. I’m going to have to get ahead and prepare some posts for the next three weeks because work is really kicking into high gear. And with elections and olympics next year its going to be nuts.

Working in the news business has some interesting years. After 40 plus years I’m looking forward to the day I’m out of the rat race in a few years down the road. I just heard today that a few more old timers have left the company, which reduces my pool of people I even know down even further.

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • The weight scale is now my friend.
  • I’d like to say that age discrimination isn’t real but once you get older you will find out it is.
  • Working on your skills is a never ending job.
  • I’m sick of working holidays.
  • Stand up for what you know is right. Even if it has a price.


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Thinking ahead

Thinking ahead is something that is good most of the time. It’s good to have goals and plans and dreams and act on them. Sometimes thinking ahead is disconcerting. Anytime I go to the doctors I get nervous the days preceding the appointment. And now they call you a few days in advance to confirm the appointment.

I particularly don’t like followup cancer checkups. So until some of this week passes and those tests are done I’ll be on edge a bit. I’ve gotten much better at these followup appointments in terms of spending less time each time worrying about them. But occasionally it still shakes me.

Wristband I wore during treatments. Photo by Mike Hartley

You know it’s not the surgeries or radiation, it was those meetings with the doctors because they always have the key. The things that come afterwards are the results of an appointment and test and news. Tomorrow I hope for good news again.

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • Welcome to Decembuuuur.
  • I’m starting to see age in our group. But usually I need my glasses to focus on it.
  • Feeling under the weather tonight, but powering through.
  • Already back in some bad sleep habits. Time to change that again.
  • Some of the strongest people I know are some of the sickest.


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Festive Saturday

I had a wonderful treat today at the Festival of Trees at the Maryland State fairgrounds with my family and a relaxed and fun lunch afterward. This has been a weekend to remember. It makes the hard work during the week an afterthought. It makes my blood pressure steady and good. It makes my body relax and the tension to melt away.

Entrance to the 30th annual Festival of Trees.
Photo by Mike Hartley

It was a little frosty outside and inside. But we can’t complain here in the mid-Atlantic area because it seems the rest of the country is struggling with some winter nastiness.

Frosty.
Photo by Mike Hartley

The crowds were something. I hope they raised a boatload of money.

If you don’t have plans for Sunday it might be a nice treat to attend.
Photo by Mike Hartley

I had my first piece of chocolate-covered bacon today. And yes it was good. I can’t believe I liked it but it’s proof that bacon and anything are good together.

Photo by Mike Hartley

Even though our granddaughter is a bit young still she had a great day. Her eyes sparkled today and I’m excited about the coming Christmas holiday again like that excitement you get as a child. I’m almost giddy with anticipation and joy with the first hand made gift from her in a few years down the road.

Even though we all wish for peace, it’s an elusive goal.
Photo by Mike Hartley

Even though it’s going to be a bear of a week ahead, I’m ready for it because of the past few days.

Photo by Mike Hartley

I’m inspired to stay positive and relaxed. And to get in the spirit of giving and sharing. I’ve done that the past few days and hope to keep it going in many ways and deeds.

So December 1st is just a few minutes away, its OK to get the trees out, go cut one or stop at your local school or fire station sale and start decorating.
Photo by Mike Hartley

I’m not usually into crowds but today’s was fine. I guess I’m in the season.

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • There is no such thing as a doctor’s appointment that you don’t fret about.
  • I should get on the treadmill. See, those are the type of thoughts that are brought on by having a small piece of apple pie.
  • Life is a lot easier when you feel loved.
  • I’m looking forward to a good night’s sleep.


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A breeze

Just after midnight Wednesday I was listening to the wind propel things at my house. Well, mostly small branches from the oaks in the front yard and maybe. In the backyard, we lost another tree. Mother Nature decided to do some pruning. I heard it go. Just like I heard the one that took the power lines down on Halloween night during the last big blow.

I’m all for a nice breeze, it feels fresh outside after a good wind. But living next to woods gets a little tricky in the increasingly frequent stronger storms. I’ve seen a few of our neighbors take some pre-emptive actions. I’ve done that also. Had 7 trees out less than two years ago. I can see 3 more this spring on the agenda.

Breeze in the treeze. Photo by Mike Hartley

Most are the ash trees that have been hit by the ash bore. But some pines have been hit hard with something also. And then there are the very healthy oaks I have out front but too close to the house. I keep them trimmed well but they were too close together.

I love the trees. That is one of the reasons I like our area so. Its surrounded by woods and streams and wildlife. I used to be more concerned in the summertime with the severe thunderstorms but these fall storms seem to be just as bad. Or at least in my neck of the woods.

I think I’ll go look at some trees that won’t be affected by Mother Nature at the Festival of Trees this weekend. We haven’t done that as a family in several years so it should be a grand time.

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • I spent some quality time with my Son today and it was a great reminder that there are few things if any, better than being a father.
  • I think I’ll get up early tomorrow just so I can take a late afternoon nap.
  • Once I find out I have very little shopping time left I’ll start to panic, but not until then.
  • You know its scary when you realize you’re not as sharp as you used to be. Either that or my keys now have legs.
  • I thought I wouldn’t have time for this today. I was glad I was wrong.


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Thankful Thursday

I’m really too tired to even be starting this. 3 hours of sleep early this morning isn’t enough to power me through the remaining few hours. But I love this blogging and sharing a few thoughts with my friends and family along with whoever stumbles across these pages.

Because there are many who don’t get to spend holidays like Thanksgiving together be it for their Service for their country, or Service for their communities, we salute your commitment and sacrifice. You know this world is not a simple place. It’s not a 9-5 for everyone. It’s not even a Monday to Friday. It’s not a safe working environment. Its handling situations not of your own making and dealing with life and death situations regularly. I salute and wish for your safety.

And then there are those of us who due to social changes in how holidays are observed are working extra hours, extra days, extra shifts. Just because of the almighty dollar for stockholders.

Of course, distances separate families and weather also complicates arrangements so things don’t always go as planned plus travel is stressful and everyone is traveling it seems. Sometimes it’s not even possible because of the cost. And then there is just the shared time with multiple families that sometimes means important people aren’t there.

Holidays also give me pause. It’s a reminder of those who have passed who aren’t there. The dishes they would make or the laughter they would provide and of course the love they shared. Sometimes those feelings are overwhelming because of the special sense of loss that each of us feels.

But as I sit here and reflect on the day, I’ll say what I was thinking earlier. It was one of the best Thanksgivings I’ve had. I’m not totally sure why I feel that way. It was special because we had 4 generations together for the first time at Thanksgiving. It was special because all the food was made with love. It was comfortable because it was in my own home. It was easy going because everyone seemed so relaxed. It was a nice amount of time together instead of those short visits. It was started and ended with hugs and I love you’s. It was smooth because everyone helped and brought lots of containers for the take-home feast from leftovers. I was able to get a family photo for one of my best friends who lives a long way away as requested. I don’t feel overstuffed and actually have started to pick on leftovers. I’m so proud of my other half for making such a great feast, having the children that love to come home and be with us and express their love and thanks to us. It was just a warm feeling all over from the combinations of things. I hope everyone had a good or great day.

Wonder if there are a few left?
Photo by Mike Hartley

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • I found something that really aggravated my back pain, standing there carving the 18 lb turkey. I’m going to pass that on to my Son in future years.
  • I yearn to live to be a happy old man. But I’m in absolutely in no hurry to accomplish that goal.
  • It was nice to see the Terps get a victory in round one of their Tournament.
  • Don’t forget to support Small Business Saturday this weekend.


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Wandering Wednesday

No, I didn’t go for a walk except for some time on the treadmill. It’s so difficult to squeeze anything in while working full-time plus, but I give it a shot each day. I’m a little short on sleep so I may be a bit punchy today. Yeah, I can hear you saying how can it get more scatterbrained than it has been in the past?

The sliced nuts that will be added to the green beans.
Photo by Mike Hartley

The house is going to smell good tomorrow. I’m hoping everyone gets to their destinations safely. I remember getting a flat one Thanksgiving about 3 miles short of my Mom’s home. Back then there wasn’t much of anything open. And back then spares were real tires but of course, I didn’t have one because I just put my snow tires on and took off the L60 Crager Mach 8 mags for the winter. I can’t remember exactly but I think I had to go home and get those monsters and change them in some very cold weather on the side of the road. Of course, the air shocks didn’t have enough pressure so I had to take it easy till the next morning to avoid scraping the sidewalls. I have no idea what took me down that tangent other than it popped in my memory as I saw one of the few old pictures I had of that car on my wall.

I wish I had some shots with the chrome traction bars and the flat black Hooker headers and side pipes. That thing sounded great. And you haven’t lived if you haven’t had a Hurst shifter with the nice handle grip.

My Camaro from back in the old days.
Photo by Mike Hartley

So anyway back to the Holiday feast. I’m going to feast on the family visiting and soak up every minute of each of them. I’m going to try to take it easy and not overeat too much. I’m going to watch some football and pick some Maryland basketball games to go with my Son. I’m going to make strange faces and noises for my granddaughter. I’ll let her pull the glasses off my face because she loves to do that. I’ll help clean up and maybe even take my Mother and Father inlaw home.

And then I’ll try to throw together another post for another new day.

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • Have you seen these commercials for something called Calm? Usually, a shot of some tree leaves in a steady rain. And it says to do nothing for 15 seconds and that is all you see except a timed circle. When I’m sitting in front of the TV I already thought I was doing nothing? Now I’m doing nothing on top of nothing. Now if I was sleeping on the couch with the TV watching me and that commercial comes on is that the trifecta of doing nothing which equals calm?
  • That was a long random thought.
  • The hardest decision tomorrow will be which slice of pie to have, Pecan, Pumpkin or Apple? Well, maybe 2 out of 3. Well maybe if I didn’t stuff myself at dinner all 3. Oh crap, there is vanilla ice cream so I guess I should cut back to just 2 pieces.


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Chose Wisely

You can see, sometimes very clearly afterward how the decisions you make affect your life and others. Having that clarity when making them is far less clear. Simple decisions like should I go out and put the top down on the car and go for a joy ride or should I take care of the task at home and prep for the coming company? Which direction to take?

Ships Wheel Photo by Mike Hartley

And to hear I thought I had time to go out and do some shooting on the joy ride. Well, I covered the outdoor A/C unit for the winter, stored the patio furniture, vacuumed the upstairs, made some dinner and a few other chores instead.

Life is filled with choices. I’ve made many a bad one, so I’m far from perfect. But most days now I have a bag of choices that really don’t have many bad apples in it so whatever way I go, its productive most of the time.

Simple wheel for a simple time. No cruise control here because that isn’t driving. Photo by Mike Hartley

There is one friend I really wish I could get to about making better choices. I’m going to keep trying, but my batting average isn’t good so far. But being he is a friend there is no stopping.

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • Only a full bottle of dressing can overcome a salad.
  • I feel like a cow when I eat salad.
  • Salads are just an excuse to get rid of square bread cubes and call them a fancy name like croutons.
  • Did you get the impression I got the salad instead of the large order of chicken wings? It was the smart move but not the fun one.
  • Ok, next train of thought that isn’t Salad related. I see far too many sports shows related to or entirely about betting. Even the normal pregame shows have too much emphasis on the players to sit and start in fantasy leagues which I’m assuming are betting related in some way. Or the lines on the game and who is giving points and how many. I’m beginning to detect a problem here society.
  • At one time I gambled on sports. I quickly found out I enjoy sports much more when no money involved.
  • Funny how I lost interest in NASCAR when all my favorites weren’t driving anymore. And now with Kyle Bush winning the cup, it gives me less of a reason to get back to it.
  • I love college basketball.


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Monday minute

A minute is about what I have in time to work on this today. And for a change of pace it wasn’t poor time management on my part, just no time available. But maybe that means I didn’t have my priorities straight.

Mill at EC. Photo by Mike Hartley

I think tomorrow will be better and I hope to put together a meaningful post. The temp outside might touch 60 which means I can go outside again. And while I won’t be shooting any snow pictures the season does offer new views of things with the trees bare again.

Also tomorrow is the last day I can go near the kitchen. My better half will be taking over and has a dim view of anybody taking up space or time in that area as she prepares the feast for Thursday.

Leg, check, wing, check, breast, check. EAT Photo by Mike Hartley

So my apologies for this lackluster post. I felt the need to check in though and get back to my daily routine of working on this blog.

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • Getting proper rest is really cutting into the rest of the day.
  • If you can avoid moving yesterdays to do list to today, your making good progress.
  • I think I’ll fast a little bit the next two days so I can really pack it away on Thursday.
  • Why would I pay through the nose for an NBA ticket when you can’t predict who will show up for the other team.


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Parking

Most of my life I’ve worked in rural places where parking wasn’t an issue. But the last 21+ years I’ve been parking in downtown D.C. My current monthly cost is $150.00 which is after-tax dollars. If that seems like a lot the day rate is close to double that.

How are you feeling about parking costs?
Photo by Mike Hartley

I’ve paid that day rate also for a number of years and it really affects the bottom line on the paycheck. And yes it pays more when you work in D.C. but there are a lot of expenses associated with it.

For instance not parking in a garage at night. During my tenures working a night shift most if not all of the people that I’ve known to park on the street have had their cars broken into. One just took place recently for a friend with a nice car.

And we work right downtown near the White House on K street. For those of you not familiar with D.C. that is a good area. I know that my car could be vandalized at my home. I know crime doesn’t have any boundaries but I would never park on the street in D.C. be it day or night.

For even if your car isn’t broken into the likelihood of damage just by people parking is enough for people to buy rubber pads to put over their bumpers when they park. You can clearly see the action on the cars that are a few years old with scratches on the bumpers. Not just a few either. I’ve seen some where it looks like it must be almost a daily occurance. Another reason I’ll never live in a city.

All I know is I’ll be very glad when I don’t have to pay for parking and not worry about door dings in the small spaced garages by inconsiderate people.

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • It was a nice weekend and the dinner with my better half on Saturday was so good in both company and food. Stella Notcha has some fine calamari.
  • Its only Sunday night and I’m already excited about having the family later this week.
  • Sometimes I think I hear my car say thank you after an oil change.
  • I look forward greatly to the day I have a few minutes to write.
  • I’ve got to force myself to get out in this cold and do some outdoor photography Monday.


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Last visit

Today was the last visit I believe in my wife’s family home. They have moved and we were picking up the last thing at their place. It’s a bench seat that says welcome on the back of it that they had on their front porch. We got this for them a number of years ago.

Photo by Mike Hartley

We are going to keep this in the family and pass it down. There were many things that were distributed to family members. From mementos to yard tools. I saw that my father in law and I shared the same thing in one way. We would both bring back seashells from the shore as one of his sons held them up and said Dad do you want these. I have small groups of shells that I’ve gathered that represent each of my family members. It takes me back to those vacations when the kids were young.

As I stepped to the road to take a picture of the house I reflected on how I always felt welcome here. Well, a lot more than welcome in fact. Very welcome and loved. I remember my first visit to pick up Patti for a date and a house full of people that I thought I’d never remember all the names of.

Photo by Mike Hartley

I remember the first dinner my better half made me in her home. The holiday celebrations and birthdays gathered around the dining room table singing Happy Birthday. The soccer and baseball games in the side yard. The cookouts and lunches around the large kitchen table. The visits with relatives down from Philly.

Lots of very warm memories. I thank them all for letting me be part of their family. I especially thank her parents for while they have always been very special to me they have become even more so since my Mother passed.

What was once the family gathering spot will become a new home for a new family. I hope all the love that was shared in this home helps the new owners in their lives. For if a house could speak, it would say thank you for the memories.

Homes of many decades become something more than a home. One of my best friends lives in my old neighborhood and I still ride by my old home and circle the streets I used to peddle on my bike with friends or delivering newspapers.

Each time this comes to pass I wonder if it will be my day someday. Where taking care of a home and yard will become too much and or too expensive to outsource all the time. Or that our health will no longer allow us to be here.

This is always one of the toughest things to do in a lifetime and this is my second personal experience with it. Moving parents into more suitable living for their senior needs but leaving the family home of 4-5 decades.

I can see the trama and emotions in this transition. I see the children questioning themselves if this is the right thing. We all know it is but it doesn’t make it any easier. I can see the parents asking themselves the same thing. I’m sure the answer is much harder for them as I could see it was in my Mom.

Now things are memories. But memories do live on in families. Ones where you flashback to Christmas mornings or graduations and all the events of life and raising children in a home. They live on in both our minds and in our hearts. Sometimes in photos of these events. And sometimes in those rides past your home. But the most important thing is we still get to celebrate together but just at a different location.

This morning I had no idea what I was going to write about. I didn’t even think of it on the way over after we went to the dump. But once I got there I had to pull out my camera to get a few last shots inside and out. As I took a shot of the dining room I remember how cramped it was to get everyone in there. Especially as we got older and a little heavier. Well some of us did. But we would all cram in there and blow out the candles on cakes or share an after Thanksgiving dinner table full of deserts and retreat to the couch in the living room for more football.

Thank you, Mom and Dad, for all the wonderful times there. And thank you again for my better half.

And while a home is a special place, the people inside are what makes it special.

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • It’s getting colder out and I’m really going to start complaining soon.
  • For a lot of people, there is no such thing as a holiday weekend.
  • I’ve got to do some good deeds this week.


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Everybody, Needs Somebody to Love.

There I go listening to upbeat music again. What am I thinking? I’ve always liked the Blues Brothers version of this classic. Gets me in a good spirit for the holiday season.

And today I’m in very good spirits. Because I got somebody to love. Actually I got a lot of people to love. And if I was more open-minded and forgiving I’d have even more. But I’ll go with the list I have because its nice and big and I have trouble sometimes letting everyone know I do love them in both actions and words.

Tomorrow is catch up day. Got to get the home ready for company next week. Also some time with some friends should keep my spirits high.

Lets give it a shot. Photo by Mike Hartley

Emotions – I was doing something I meant to do last week. I still made it before the deadline. For some years now I’ve been making a donation to Wreaths Across America. To have one put on my parents grave at Arlington. I always feel good when I pay my respects on visits. But its always tough around the holidays because I miss them so. I thought about getting a second one but I thought I’d do something for living veterans also. So off I go to look into that.

Another beautiful time of year at Arlington.
Photo by Mike Hartley

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • I made the best garlic parmesan flounder tonight. I’m getting into cooking again.
  • What happened to the sun today? Pretty much a no show.
  • I’m feeling guilty about not looking at my followed blogs much this past week or two. So let me get reading.


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Home by the Sea

I kind of got inspired by listening to some music again. And Home by the Sea and Second Home by the Sea from Genisis got me in a good mood again. I’ve always thought about a home by the water. We usually stay on the water on vacation and it does my spirit wonders.

Some colorful waterfront property in Florida.
Photo by Mike Hartley

But given the unpredictability from Mother Nature, I’m not sure I’d like to own waterfront property. I don’t know what it is about water but it’s such a calming influence on me. I even watching the storms roll in almost as I like a bright sunny day or an afternoon filled with puffy clouds floating by. I guess the big factor is just the time to be outside and enjoying Mother Nature. The smell of the salty air. The sounds of waves. The warmness of the sand. The cool feel of the breeze on a hot day.

And what do they say about driving through standing water?
Photo by Mike Hartley

It’s kind of hard to appreciate those things sitting in a cube farm with lots of glass windows like a goldfish bowl. But I’ll let my mind float to the shore this winter many times. Its what gets me through the cold months. And then in March and April, I start getting excited at the return of temps more to my liking. I can hardly contain myself in May in anticipation of the sand between the toes.

Too bad we can’t sit and have civil conversations anymore.
Photo by Mike Hartley

It’s about time I got out and got some new images. And this week with temps in the 50’s for a few days I thought I’d take advantage of the opportunity. Let’s hope for some sun tomorrow. And the motivation to get my behind outside.

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • The longer you live the more answers there are to why things happened in history. Because humans aren’t good at remembering it and keep repeating it.
  • I’ve got to keep from getting so tired that I can pass out in a few seconds.
  • Do you remember the days where you could eat ice cream each day and not pick up a pound?
  • I was getting worn down with the work week but I think I’m finding my second wind.


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In the air tonight

I wonder what will be in the air tonight. I was hoping for some good news on Sunday evening but it didn’t come. So my radar will really be up for it on Monday. And low and behold that good news came through.

Time is a gift.
Photo by Mike Hartley

Life is about accepting and responding to changes. I’m learning how to make those changes work for me. For I just improved my quality of life with one request that was granted. I just got back 130 hours per year of my time that I don’t have to spend sitting in traffic. It might not sound a like a lot to you but that is just a change of 1 day per week that I recoup all that time.

That is over 3 weeks of full time production that I can devote to my crafts and interest. Now the trick is to not waste that time. I didn’t do too well today but I did help someone out for a bit which always makes me feel good.

Looking forward to getting out on the water again this spring.
Photo by Mike Hartley

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • Wall calendars will never get old for me. The only objection I have is they go by so fast.
  • I’m so proud I’ve been able to keep some weight off its given me incentive to loss a few more pounds.
  • One thing I’m always late with. My Xmas list.
  • I’m going to make a long overdue visit this coming weekend.


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I’m free and not

I started this post on Thursday intending that it would be that day’s post. Well, that and the next two were missed. The combination of some fun things and being in a little bit of a funk. I’m not going to say I’ve been too lazy to get to it. Actually I did work on it day by day till this morning when none of it made sense because it was time-based. I was so excited that my weekend was starting on Thursday evening and looking forward to watching our grandchild on Friday and the Terps basketball game on Saturday and kind of an open Sunday for a change of pace had me giddy.

I did a bit of walking myself.
Photo by Mike Hartley

I was so glad the workweek was in the rearview mirror. It’s always such a stress relief. The jobs I’ve had have always been stressful. And I put more stress on myself to be the best I can. So when I’m signing off on Thursday this past week it was especially relaxing.

Thursday night I spent with my best friends. I think it had been at least a month since our last get together which is a long time for us. Usually, we meet each week. We had a great time and shared some laughs as I had thought we would.

Friday we had our beautiful granddaughter. And what a pleasure that is. And my better half and I went out to dinner for a change of pace and had a very good meal at Shannon’s in Ellicott City.

Saturday I was off to see my favorite team’s basketball. This sure beats the last few weekends where I’ve been under the weather. I got some good rest this weekend and it reminded me what not getting that rest was doing to me.

Can you swing it? Photo by Mike Hartley

Some busy times ahead with the holidays upon us very shortly but instead of getting all stressed out I’m just going to try to enjoy each day. We will have 4 generations together which is a first this year and to be celebrated.

I’m going to celebrate many things this year. Because I’m getting in the proper frame of mind and the mindset is to do, experience and accomplish many things.

So my freedom this weekend is done. I’m back to work and my spirits have changed. Sunday is always the toughest day of the week. And I’m doing a solo so that isn’t much fun either. So I find myself looking forward. And I hope to be back to my daily schedule. My apologies for the absence.

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • The scale in my bedroom is now my friend. It used to make me feel guilty all the time and now it’s giving me the good news I’ve been hoping for so long.
  • Evaluations of everything should be an ongoing way of living. Constantly taking on new information. Reevaluating and forming new paths.
  • The more I take charge of myself, the happier I am.
  • I’m learning not to get upset at the politics going on. All I need to do is VOTE. I will have my say there.


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Writing

I write a good bit but don’t consider myself a writer. So what am I doing? Obviously, it would be good to know what direction I was going. At first, I started this blog to exhibit my photography. Words hadn’t been given much thought of at the start. But after 5+ years of rambling on, I’ve found it very fun and rewarding to put my thoughts down.

I started to think about my writing more when my father in law talked to me about his writings and wanted to share them with me for some inspiration. Then I thought about the type of writing I’m doing. Because the writing he has done is more short story related. I’ve never thought about writing fiction. I find it hard to even start down that road because I don’t think my mind likes working in that mode. It just doesn’t seem comfortable.

I can’t remember who gave me this.
Photo by Mike Hartley

I don’t consider myself a storyteller. I’m just someone with a pile of disorganized thoughts and experiences relating some of them and the feelings and emotions they invoke or inspire or haunt me. And most of the time being inspired by a random thought or photo I’ve snapped.

I see other bloggers weaving these nice stories or poems or insights on life and I marvel and enjoy them greatly. And I’m learning (painfully slowly for you) how to not only write but create something with worthwhile content and style.

Days when the really wrote a story.
Photo by Mike Hartley

I’ve always marveled at writers that I’ve met and worked with over the decades. People writing on deadlines. Now that is pressure. Again, I’m not a writer in the publishing jobs I’ve had. I should have taken advantage of all that talent around me over the years. I certainly did a lot of reading through. One would think that it might help but I guess I’m a slow learner.

Each day I feel lucky to be able to share life in words and photos.
Photo by Mike Hartley

I’d still like to write a book for my children. I’d like to write about some of my professional experiences. I’d like to write about the special friendships I’ve shared. I could write forever about my better half. I thought about writing about my observations on politics but I’m not into the ramifications of sharing those opinions.

Each day I wake, there is no preconceived notion of what the fingers will put together on the keyboard. I take writing like life, a day at a time. I find it makes me think. It helps me stay on the positive side because despite how pissed off I might seem in real life I want to let everyone know life is a wonderful blessing and experience if you use it the right way.

Writing shouldn’t weigh you down. It should lighten the load.
Photo by Mike Hartley

Each day I hope to find or share an inspiration, maybe a thought that lights a fire for someone. Maybe something to make you chuckle or pause in retrospect about a similar experience. Maybe to just make someone think they can write also. I’d like to see my kids write. One because they are much sharper than their old man and as I listen to them they make a lot of sense and have some great observations of life themselves.

Well, its time to write me off for the day. Tomorrow I’ll work on some better writing. And maybe have a discussion with my Father in law about writing. I bet he would enjoy doing something new.

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • I wonder what writing would be called if we started with the computer instead of the pen?
  • I’m so glad my children take their health seriously.
  • The things we accept as normal shows how little we care about life.
  • It’s a good thing the keyboard makes my writing legible.


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Refresh

Got some sleep, not enough, the rest of the day will be tough.

The mind is better today. No battles to do on the highway. Just sitting in my home and enjoying life my way.

I spoke my piece on a few professional issues on the job today. And no it wasn’t about extra pay.

I communicated with family and friends. That is an enjoyment that never ends.

Select your direction wisely.
Photo by Mike Hartley

I looked in the mirror and saw a little more grey on the hair. No problem at least it’s still there.

The pursuit of one’s goals is a fine thing. For happiness, it gives has a nice ring.

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • A full moon and cold temps produce some clear conditions.
  • I’m looking forward to not stepping outside in the next 36 hours.
  • Two small things that make me feel much better. Getting a haircut and a fresh pack of photo paper and some ink for the printer.
  • I’m glad I’ve been given another day to make up for some of the days I’ve wasted.


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No Time

I tried to make some time today but the guys cutting down trees and mulching them up early today really cut into my sleep. I then got up early for an afternoon meeting and the crap software that is used to log in remotely and catch the meeting wasn’t working today. I came in early to work to get updated on some things that should have been communicated and done weeks ago.

So its not the best of Mondays which area already tight on time. But my attitude remains upbeat.

Strapped for Time Photo by Mike Hartley

But I decided to take a few seconds to try to get back to one of my passions. And this is one of them. The rest of the week looks much better and I hope to do some shooting for new images.

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • Trying to sleep during the day is a lost cause.
  • Life is a negotiation.
  • Medical insurance confuses the hell out of me.
  • I thought the decisions would get easier later in life. Seems the opposite is true at times.
  • It’s too early in the season for the coming temperatures.


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Veterans Salute

Tomorrow is Veterans Day. I’ve spent some time thinking about that. I was watching some history channel and there is a lot of WWII segments. My father and two uncles fought in that war. One flew in B-17’s over Europe. One uncle was on the USS West Virginia at Pearl Harbor. And my father served on a Destroyer (USS Converse) in the Pacific.

I try to imagine what that must have been like for men so young. Just as I wonder about what we put our youngest through with repeated tours as has been the case over the last two decades.

I’m moved by the sacrifice so many have made. Even if you come out without physical injuries the mental part may be just as bad or worse. I have great respect for all who serve in whatever capacity for our defence and safety.

My Dad died about a month after this photo. Photo by Shirley Hartley

I also thank my Son in law and my cousin and nephew for their service. I thank my coworkers who have served. I salute all the families that have sacrificed much to provide that security our armed services provide.

Dad in uniform downtown. Photo by Shirley Hartley

Which reminds me I think I’ll make my annual donation to Wreaths Across America again this Monday. I love the look of Arlington when all those wreaths lay up against the headstones.

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • Cleaning out a house you have known for decades for sale is an interesting emotional experience.
  • Spending time with my children is the most rewarding experience.
  • I’m having snowball withdraw being the Snowball Stand in Woodstock is closed.
  • I can’t believe another work week is underway again.


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On track

This is my new friend. Yep, a treadmill and resistance bands. Maybe some weights once in a while but mainly putting on miles inside this winter will be my goal. And I mean many miles. I’m on a mission to keep this weight down and lower it a bit more.

Photo by Mike Hartley

My initial goal is to do at least an hour every day. When I’m off of work I’d like to put in 2-3 hours. Let’s see how it goes. I’m actually looking forward to working out again. Been many years since I’ve had any physical routine.

Also going to try to get in the daily routine of shooting again. I’m tired of letting opportunities pass me by. It’s the only way I’m going to improve. I practiced with some lighting and angles last night with a bottle of Crown Royal and a crystal glass. I also did some reading on still life photography.

Of course, I could go outside this weekend and do some still life photography when the temps drop into the 20’s. Frozen people exhibit is what I need to do. I hate winter and I can illustrate it in pictures.

But tonight’s goal is to form a more complete still life setup. Use the Nikon this time and try some different directions with the flash. Last night I was using the light I provided.

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • Tomorrow my attention will be to the very young and very old. Watching my granddaughter and visiting my wife’s parents. What more could you ask for?
  • Today was a day without proper rest.
  • It’s not just how you measure up, its what you measure against.
  • I was pleased with my first attempt at some product photography last night. I tried some different lighting and angles and have a few more things in the arsenal now.
  • It’s always good to be excited about learning.


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The studio is now open

Well truth be told, I don’t have a studio other than a makeshift one I set up from time to time in my basement till my better half reminds me that I’m taking up too much space and the place looks a mess.

When I started looking at the 10-day forecast I thought to myself if I’m going to be shooting it’s going to be indoors. So I got the tripods out along with a folding table and I’m trying to find some lighting so I can get started later today.

I have no idea what I’m going to do. I’ll root around for some subject matter and get started. It should be a good learning experience.

It looks like an awkward place to lay my head on a pillow. But my better half is the decorator.
Photo by Mike Hartley

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • I feel like I grew up in the age of beautiful music.
  • If love is your feeling when you wake and when you rest your head for the evening then the day has been a success.
  • Its college basketball season. All is right with the world again.
  • Won’t get fooled again is a great tune. And truer words have never been spoken. “meet the new boss, same as the old boss”


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Simple does it

I was just sitting here thinking about expectations of myself that started to gear up as I’ve been feeling a little better again the last day or two. It seems the more I think about expectations for myself the less I get done. The more I think and then act the more I get done. Just repeating that simple approach, to keep moving forward, the more I’m accomplishing and the less I have time to think about expectations.

Things are looking up.
Photo by Mike Hartley

Because then I can look back at each day and feel good about what I’ve got done instead of looking at a long list that I always make impossible for myself to meet.

From Notre Dame Basilica of Montreal.
Photo by Mike Hartley

If I can get some new images posted, along with a few thoughts then I’m moving forward.

From Notre Dame Basilica of Montreal.
Photo by Mike Hartley

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • Hopefully, I’ve cut the yard for the last time this year.
  • I wish I could talk without coughing.
  • I have a taste for pizza, is midnight too late to cook one?
  • I’m proud to have a mower that is at least 21 years old. Yeah, it’s going to need a little work this winter but it still runs like a champ. And yes it has some duct tape on it.
  • Make life work for you.


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Shiver

Wow, it was chilly this morning when I stepped outside. The first time a complete body shiver was experienced in some time. Some feel refreshed and invigorated by this feeling. That is not my reaction at all. And it’s just the beginning of the season of dread for me.

I’m ready for it. I think.
Photo by Mike Hartley

One thing I dread about winter is the driving. People in the DMV (District, Maryland, Virginia) area have enough issues when its a dry track. Throw in some wetness that freezes and its nuts. My record long commute on the way home once was 6 and half hours. I’ve had dozens of rides of multiple hours each way. Of course now my desire to risk my car and my own health isn’t what it used to be. Not that my employer would endorse that attitude, they don’t own my body or pay for the repairs on the car so I make my own rules now instead of the blind devotion I once had. Plus I have more of a work from home option now than I used to which is a real perk.

Winter season is also harder for me to stay in shape other than round but this year is going to be different. It seems all my close friends are also watching their weight so I’m on that bandwagon and plan on eating smart and putting that treadmill in my basement to very good use.

Last weekend I saw my better half taking my summer shorts to the basement for the coming season. I can’t wait till they are back in my drawers and temps are once again on the way up instead of down.

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • Reading is good. Listening is better. Understanding is tops.
  • The thing I see in most businesses now is the lack of closeness between people who work there which can’t be good for teamwork.
  • The older you get the less you enjoy driving at night.
  • Pride in one’s children is a wonderful experience.
  • After not having been on the road for almost 2 weeks I was rudely reminded yesterday as to how many idiots we have amongst us.


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Starting again

So glad to have my power on again after a 34-hour outage from Thursday evening to Saturday morning. Also just starting to feel human again after this illness set me back for the last 11 days. I’m still not near 100% but going in the right direction. Now I have to watch myself and not push it and end up on my back again. A common mistake I’ve made a few times in my life.

Fire from down power lines behind my home.
Photo by Mike Hartley

Well, I blinked and woke up in November. My how fast life passes along. This reminds me to get on my horse and accomplish as much as possible each day.

Opportunities are there for us each day to take advantage of or let pass by. Today’s opportunities are creating space to create new work. I’m a bit of a packrat and I’m purging. And by clearing space I don’t just mean physical space. I mean clearing time also. Time spent on useless activities, time spent worrying, time spent choosing the wrong activity or interest, time spent helping the wrong things or the wrong people. Today I begin moving on.

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • Perspective change is always something to pay attention to after you have been under the weather for a while.
  • I missed seeing the fall season this year. Bummer.
  • I miss seeing my granddaughter so much.
  • I’ve got to give someone some tough news tomorrow. It’s no longer healthy for me to continue to support someone who won’t make an effort to support themselves.


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I have to do better

There are lots of things we all can improve on in life. Personally I have to do better at utilizing each day. I have to be a better listener. I have to love more and learn more patience.

I have to practice forgiveness and kindness more often. I have to tell people I love them more. I have to take care of myself so I have the best opportunity to see my children and grandchildren grow even more.

I have to learn to eat right most of the time instead of sometimes. I have to stop drinking so many sodas. I have to start exercising again on a regular basis.

I have to spend more time helping my elderly inlaws enjoy life. I have to buy my better half flowers more often. I have to be a good example for my grandchildren.

Cast a nice shadow in life.
Photo by Mike Hartley

I have to learn to be more charitable. I have to go fishing with my friends again. I have to learn what to say to a friend who has a hard time listening to any good advice.

I have to apply myself more to the things I love doing in life and less with those that I don’t. I have to drive my friends Corvette with the new supercharger before I get too old and scared to handle that much power.

I have to get another pet. I have to get some snowballs before the stand closes soon. I have to get a snowblower if I’m going to live in this home a few more decades because I’m getting too old to shovel.

I have to do a lot of things and that is a good thing because it means I’m looking forward to life each day. Because when I don’t have things to do I don’t do the right thing.

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • It would be nice to retire early. Well earlier than I was hoping for at least.
  • Exciting baseball game tonight. I’m going to have to write about the underdog tomorrow morning.
  • Sometimes I don’t understand the changes people go through. But being they are close to me I try very hard to accept them.
  • Don’t you just love the ability to have some long term relationships that you can seem to just pick up like it was yesterday even though you may have not seen each other for a good period of time?
  • I wonder if anything I write tonight makes sense? Sometimes codeine can cause me to ramble on foolishly.