If you need a Getaway car this might just be the package. For the owner had personalized his license plate – ESCPLAN – and this might be the one. But it could also land you behind bars.
Be safe on the roads. Take these beasts to the track.
Getaway
Rooms
Home sweet home. And boy is it after 4 decades away from it far too often. I’ve developed a real love for it in retirement. Yeah, it’s old and small and needs some things, but it’s HOME.
My Favorite rooms in the house in descending order.
The Bedroom – It’s not the room I spend the most time in, but it’s the room the most fun is in. And some sleep.
The Office – No not the TV show. Not the work office. I was thinking of my home office. I used to spend some time in it before I retired but now it’s my full-time space.
The Workroom – This moved way up the list in retirement. I’m spending more and more time in it working.
The Basement – Where some of the exercise equipment is. Where the big screen is. Where a lot of the power tools reside.
The Kitchen – Always a favorite. I thought it would be getting more attention because I hope to cook a lot more but that’s only increased slightly.
The Decks – I’m out on the Decks quite a bit. I take breaks from doing yard work. I lay in the hammock or lounge chair from time to time catching some rays. Sometimes to chat with my better half when she is outside. Plus, there is a firepit there now so that is some extra time also.
The Family Room – When we watch TV together upstairs. Or have a fire.
The Living Room – The only time I’m in there is when I’m passing through or we have company.
The Dining Room – Thanksgiving and Christmas.
The Laundry Room – Contains a couple machines I’m not familiar with and most importantly my fridge full of drinks.
The Furnace Room – Storage and Equipment. Nothing but work in this room. And every 25-35 years a huge hit with a new furnace and A/C.
Garage – WISHING I HAD ONE.
The Shed – It’s not that I don’t like it. My back has a hatred of it because of the work it means and the pain it gives. Otherwise, it’s the proud parking space for the old John Deere. Both the shed and the JD need replacement.
And being winter is over, I’ll be spending a lot more time getting tools out and back into the shed from now on.
Tentacles
Some days I have trouble focusing. That isn’t entirely bad, sometimes I’ve made some great strides by stepping away from the computer to the easel to the workroom, then picking up the cameras and heading out. Like this post, which I started yesterday.
It’s good when I hit a sticking point or that I complete a step in the painting and want to look more closely or think about modifying my idea. After photo editing for a few hours, sometimes I must get up and away from the screen.
I thought I would lose that feeling of being lazy if I relaxed or slept. I haven’t. And when I do those things the flashback to beat myself up over it seems to be returning.
My mind feels like it’s in a million fragments. Split between decades of warring factions for my time and efforts.
When I started to schedule my time, it worked for a bit but then it became uncomfortable. Most of my life I’ve had to be very flexible. Able to respond to emergencies at all hours. At the same time having several projects and regular duties. So, my normal comfort zone is moving from task to task, task to project, project to project, project to meeting, meeting to meeting and emergencies thrown in between each often. And the fun days of going from emergency to emergency or the best one, multiple system or network failures at the same time.
Doing the job of two people is nice job security when they are only paying you for one. Makes it hard to replace you. It also helped me at times with my outspoken personality at times. That and some good people around me, that stood up for me.
Now I’m my own boss. It might look like I don’t work as hard as I used to. But in creative ways I do and much more. I like learning, observing, thinking and practicing. While a picture or carving might be good in time when I acquire some more skills, that work before it will be significant and maybe the most enjoyable part.
As I think back to my professional career, the journey was the fun part. There were several moves in positions that challenged me in ways I didn’t know I could accomplish. Some technical, some managerial, some personal.
People made it fun along the way and I’m grateful for that. I don’t have that so far in my retirement pursuits. Not that I don’t have people around me, just not working together on my arts. That was why I was kind of excited when my granddaughter seemed to like drawing with me.
Part of the dynamic that made me better was working with others. I’m feeling the need to return to that in the future in some way.
Under the Radar
Most of us are under the radar. In life, in jobs, in relationships. Think about how well you know the people closest to you. How well do those closest to you actually know all about you. From my observations we know little about each other. Even close and long-term relationships know only a small percentage of a person.
Think of how few people have been part of your entire life. Yes, a lot of you might say your parents, but most of you will outlive them.
I reflect on a lot of long-time co-workers who I spent decades with that only know parts of me. They might know a drive or skill that others, even the closest, never see.
The experiences shared with friends who are no longer with us. The secrets all of us carry. The hurts, the longing, the missed opportunities.
Only the luckiest will know over half a person. Think of all the things you have never shared with anyone. Yes, people may know of events or circumstances, but they don’t know your feelings.
Think of how many things you don’t share each day. And that is normal and good. There should be things that are special to you. Maybe some very tough memories and experiences. But maybe some good realizations or insights.
It could be a simple discovery. For instance, one day late in my career, I realized it was just a job. Duh. Now admitting that isn’t a proud thing, kind of embarrassing so not often shared by me.
How well do we know our own children? I’d like to think well but I’m sure there is a lot I don’t know. As time has gone on, I’m slowly learning about the things I did that made them laugh or embarrassed. I don’t know all their friends. I don’t know how they are when with their in-laws.
I’m a very open person and I’m guessing a fair number of people might think they know me pretty well. They know the pieces I allow them to or share.
I do have a mission of sorts, and this blog is part of it. I’d like my children to know me better and that is why I write here and why I’m starting a book for them.
A good friend just showed me a project, her and her husband together of their family history in a book. A wonderful thing but I’m hoping for a lot more. For them to know more about the person I am. Good and bad. Professional and unprofessional. As a friend to many. As a father and husband.
I have so many holes about my own father and so many questions that will never be answered. It’s an uncomfortable feeling to have and I don’t want my children to have it. Plus, I’ve made so many mistakes along the way in life maybe I can save them from hitting the same potholes.
Not easily bored
I have a lot of emotions and feelings, but boredom isn’t one of them. I guess I find or think about things to entertain myself. I’m lucky in life to be full of things to keep me interested and engaged. I guess we learned that as kids when we were sent out the door and had to make our own fun.
Creating games, building forts in the woods, making contests up, modifying conventional games to new games.
I used to think school was boring. I was just ignoring what I was there for. Luckily, I got excited about learning shortly after.
I find bored to be kind of a sad emotion.
Life is full of opportunities to be bored. Yeah, sitting in traffic is boring for some. I used to see how many personal license plates I could find. Or guessing the year and model of the cars around me. Listening to music and seeing how in tune I could sing and remember lyrics or stay in rhythm playing drums on the steering wheel.
Some people get bored on long drives even when not in traffic. Not me. I love seeing different places. Even the same route to the beach I take, which is just short of a 3-hour drive, I still find interesting. Noting the changes over the decades along the way and stopping at new places.
People in waiting rooms look bored because they have their faces on their phones and frown instead of smiling from talking to the person seated next to them.
And yes, I know the difference between board and bored. I just didn’t have a good shot of a bored person.
Have a good afternoon, everyone.
Happy 5
What are 5 everyday things that bring you happiness? – Asks the daily writing prompt.
- I’m always happy waking up each day.
- A Coke in the morning.
- Talking with family and friends.
- Food
- A hug and kiss.
Dashing along
I’ve dashed into the weekend and it’s going well. I’m feeling a bit better this afternoon after not pushing the body today.
I do have to shift gears and accomplish some things this evening because I’ve got a full day of plans for Sunday.
Random Thoughts of the Day
- I wish pollen wasn’t so sticky and had to be washed off instead of blown off.
- I hope tomorrow is the last cool day for a long while.
- Sleep and I will be good bedfellows this week.
- One of my goals this week is to read a book.
- Starting my week on Sunday is getting a jump on the week.
HS plus 50
The daily prompt asks – Describe something you learned in high school.
Now there is a question that is asking me to go back a lot of decades. I went back and looked at the answer I gave to this question 2 years ago in a post called Early Learning, so I thought I’d give an update to that being my reunion was after that post.
We had our 50th HS reunion last year. Here are a few things observed or heard and learned.
I almost didn’t go to my own reunion. One of my closest classmates and friends passed away. Another best friend and some other close ones in those days also weren’t coming because of distance and funds. There were a few neighborhood friends that were going so that was enough for me to say yes.
Wow, people change. Thank goodness for nametags with pictures from our senior year. At the same time some people stay remarkably the same.
Lots of people moved away or stayed for a while and then moved when they retired.
It was nice to see how easy it was to pick up some conversations with the ease we had in high school. But with an adult version. Watching people smile about family and professional updates.
There were laughter and smiles. Hugs and photos. Arnie and Mike stood side by side again (tallest and shortest guys in our class).
People spoke of trips or wishes for trips. There was a slide show and group photo.
Some were still trying to impress. Some had grown into comfortable adults.
Some retired, some working, some unwillingly retired because of health.
Lots of classmates had died. And in the few months right after that we lost 3 more.
It was a pretty good turnout and time for a class that was a bit apathetic. Of course, those were troubled times and a lot of troubled families.
Another beautiful day
A good Friday evening. Knocking out some tasks and working on my hobbies.
Just thought I’d share a few more images from Wednesday.
I won’t be up much longer. A rather painful late afternoon and evening.
But first a late dinner and a few emails.
This fills up every so often.
An early morning walk is in order for Saturday.
Color just springs to life this time of year.
Let me finish this work of art and move on to the next piece.
Memory
Two wonderful partners and I started a business in this building a long time ago. I’ve always loved the look of this structure, and it’s always great returning to the town I started my newspaper career in.
Having the Patapsco River right beside it was a beautiful and calming thing. Except when it rained hard. That stream can turn into a raging river in no time.
The OEC (Old Ellicott City) sign wasn’t there when we were residents.
I have great memories each time I wander this town. Unfortunately, the days of a local community newspaper have passed it seems.
End one, Start another
Describe one positive change you have made in your life. – Asks the daily prompt.
Two years ago, I answered this question by saying I made a healthy body weight. Glad to say I’ve kept that up.
Today I’ll answer by saying retirement was a positive change I made. I’m so glad I did and I wish I could have done it sooner. I worked hard for almost 6 decades and I had enough by my mid 60s but was worried about funds so I continued to work a bit longer. Fortunately for me the company offered a buyout.
Now retirement isn’t for everyone as I’ve found out. Many continue to work of their own choice. Some by necessity. I’m one who has embraced retirement and will use the time to pursue a second career, enjoy life and relax a bit.
I’ve moved away from technology to more creative efforts. I’ve moved from a harried pace to a hammock.
Keep on truckin’
The walk around Ellicott City Wednesday took an unexpected turn and I headed up Main Street north of the downtown area. I was shooting for my Thursday Doors update and came upon one of the new trucks at the West End Service – All Roads Trucks.
And the detailing. I’m a sucker for chrome and pinstriping designs.
They have done a nice job in this business location.
Of course, I had to throw on some Grateful Dead on the way home from the walk.
Doors v12.26
Time for the weekly Thursday Doors challenge with our host Dan Antion. For those who love entrances, exits and the buildings and art that surrounds them this is the spot for you. The wonderful contributions from everywhere will delight. Share your own link in the comments on Dan’s weekly Door’s page.
I took a walk around wife’s hometown of Ellicott City again. Not necessarily the best doors but some unique entrances.
Note the flood mark on the door.
I like the bells attached to the door handle.
This door is going to be a challenge to get to.
Come on in.
Bill Knapp Sculpture and Fine Furnishings shop above.
Is this door worth getting to?
Moving fun
What is the most fun way to exercise? – Asks the daily prompt.
Besides the obvious one we all enjoy. I’d say basketball was the most fun I had exercising. But this body doesn’t play much anymore so I like to walk with my camera. I did about 4-5 miles yesterday.
Weightlifting is fun. I always enjoyed playing baseball as a youth but never thought of that as a lot of exercise.
Working on my home and yard is good exercise. Sometimes too much.
Detailing my car is fun exercise.
But the MOST FUN way to exercise for me is playing with my grandchildren.
Going
Back roads here I come. A midweek midday drive through some country roads, maybe stop at a little local shop for lunch and talk with some county residents.
It’s good for clearing my head and doing a reset.
Random Thoughts of the Day
- I wonder if I’ll ever fully know myself.
- I try to write to my kids frequently. I don’t always get a reply and that is fine because they told me they like them.
- There is always a time of day when I feel at peace. Just wishing it was more often.
- I could watch water flow in a stream or waves hitting the shore forever.
Book
Another friggin book question from the daily prompt – What book could you read over and over again.
I need to read the book called “Show Your Work” again. It inspired me to do a lot more and instilled some more confidence in me.
Maybe by the end of this year, I’ll be reading something I’ve written because I’ll probably be moving from the writing part to the editing function by that time.
Who you would be
The daily prompt asks – If you could be a character from a book or film, who would you be? Why?
I would like to be the grandfather in the book my kids gave me called Grandpa’s Wish List. It’s a book I can read to the young ones on all the things I’d like to do and build for them and adventures to go on. It’s a short children’s book but one that reminds me to be that person for them. Not that I have much problem remembering their importance to me.
Tis the season
We attended our first Columbia Cruisin Night, partially to get a 3 Brothers pizza and for me obviously the dual benefit of wandering around some of my favorite automobiles.
Plus, yellow was a nice color to start off the day after Easter.
Yellow, one of my daughter’s favorite colors.
Sunny days, warm temps, the smell of burnt fossil fuels and some nice people like the owner Tom of this car.
Hoods up
I could use this powerplant in my Miata.
Classics on display.
He didn’t get the memo that it was a top-down day.
We have our Maryland Miata Club meeting in the same parking lot in Columbia.
Love your pet
The daily prompt wants to know – What animals make the best/worst pets?
I’m not sure what is the best or worst. But I am sure of one thing. If you have a pet, you have better be responsible and care for it correctly and love it. I see far too many pets without the love they need.
Family day
A wonderful day with the family was had. The first quarter holidays are in the books and onto the next ones. I’m not sure how I got lucky to have such a great family but I’m so glad.
The kids must have worn me out because I sat on the couch and was out cold around 8pm. Woke at 11pm and thought I should end the day with a thankful thought.
Saturday night is alright
Saturday was grey morning but a bright afternoon. I feel good about accomplishments that day but kind of sore from the workout with the yard tools.
Trying some new pain treatment for a week. If that doesn’t work, as the doc says so often, there is a shot available.
I’ll be hibernating this Tuesday and Wednesday till some warmer weather returns Thursday. I have a lot to do indoors on the list so there won’t be any slacking off. But first an Easter Sunday with the family.
I’ve got some birdseed when we were at the hardware store, so hopefully I’ll have a lot more detail and variety of birds in the future.
Random Thoughts of the Day
- Layer 1 of suntan complete without burning.
- Route 29 is becoming a lot like Interstate 95 through Maryland. Lots of cars, lots of idiots.
- The house is about to start smelling like a feast is going to be served.
- I know my grandson will ask me if we can go for a tractor ride in the raid today. And even though saying no will make 100% sense, I will still feel guilty for saying no.
Freebies
What job would you do for free? – That’s a tough question from the daily prompt.
I’m doing a few jobs for free now in retirement. I’m a photographer, artist and writer. In other words, a hobbyist.
I do all kinds of jobs for free each day. I play doorman whenever the opportunity presents itself. I guess I’ve worked free at grocery stores because I’ve helped old people load their cars with bags.
I’ve done landscaping for free by cutting neighbors yards for nothing when they have been down or away. I’ve been in the consulting business for some time now giving out free advice. Some people really should have listened to me.
I’ve been involved in free construction from time to time building decks, boat houses, sunrooms and more. I’ve been a free chauffeur to some inebriated friends.
I’ve been a free night watchman because I’m usually up most of the night and aware of what is going on while others sleep.
I hope to start a job for free next month. I won’t only be working for free I’ll be donating my car and gas to the effort. I’ll let you know how it goes.
I would play for the New York Yankees for Free
Da Weekend
I still like Saturday mornings even though I no longer work for someone else. The excitement it generates in others is infectious and leaves me in line with that party bus. Also, that chocolate doughnut my grandson left behind yesterday was a nice start. Now that I have my sugar buzz on, we can proceed with the day’s activities.
It’s grass cutting day, so I hope to knock that out early afternoon when it dries. There is a local car show that is just starting up, and I thought I’d go for a slice of pizza and see what locals show up. There are the semifinals of March Madness this evening and I have a ton of creative work to squeeze in sometime today.
We rode by our local butcher shop the other day and I passed on going in. But I ran across this image this morning and I feel I made a mistake. My better half has prepared a feast for tomorrow so I won’t be needing steak this weekend but after that cold front rolls through for a few days I think Thursday will be grill day.
Random Thoughts of the Day
- The 2- to 4-year-old age range is so adorable.
- If our planes are being shot down, we do not have control of the skies.
- I didn’t accomplish what I hoped for this week. One thing I didn’t finish bothers me. The rest rolled off because I did accomplish a lot. I’m learning to set my goals a little higher each week.
- If we are taking away Iran’s nuclear capabilities where is the Uranium?
- I have a taste for a burrito today.
- We are headed to the gas station. I hear it’s taking longer than usual to fill the tank.
Olympic sport viewing
The daily prompt asks – What Olympic sports do you enjoy watching the most?
Basketball, boxing, track and field, beach volleyball and swimming/diving are the ones I watch the most of.
Opinion – I know big money has reached into every area of sports there is and the Olympics are no exception. But in my opinion, it’s still where you are going to find the truest athletes who train and love the games, they compete in more than the money.
Main Street Fashion
Just a few random street shots from a while back. From Main Street in Ellicott City. I haven’t done any shooting today and I’m worn out from a 3 1/2-year-old. Yeah, I hate to admit that but, it’s a lot of lifting, being ridden like a horse, being made helper to his FORMAN of the construction site.
My grandson had seen a YouTube video if I can recall correctly something called Handyman Hal. Anyway, we watched one day it was him using a post hole digger. Well, you know who saw one in my shed this morning and had to dig a post hole. So, I showed him the technique and found a pole to put in the ground for him. Showed him how to check depth, and tips digging.
I also showed him how to use a vice which was in my workroom holding a piece of wood I was carving and of course I got the “What’s That Papa” so I showed him how it works and of course safety in using any tool.
Since I titled the post with the word fashion, here are a few thoughts of mine. I’ve never been into colorful fashion, but I have added some brighter pieces and colors I hadn’t worn before to the limited wardrobe. My better half would probably trash half of it or more if I gave the okay.
I’m not much of the suit and tie type guy but I hear I clean up nicely. I love casual wear, but I do need a little better styling and color.
I’m getting more into footwear lately also. One for comfort and one for ease. And slip-ons are easy and save the back. Comfort I’m still looking for being the feet are showing advanced wear and tear.
Random Thoughts of the Day
- This is the start of the 2 months that Mother Nature turns my red car orange.
- Hegseth is so overcompensating for something it’s pitiful.
- It’s so easy to get tired of pain. Unless it comes from multiple spots at once and then I get angry.
- I’m not sure who will sleep better tonight, my grandson or me.
- And yes, this poll finds Trump to still be the most disgusting human being on earth.
Fun Friday
What a change from morning to afternoon. Drizzle and cold to sunny and warm. Typical Maryland weather. It’s been a wonderful time with my grandson this day. Nothing makes me happier than making my grandchildren and children happy. All it takes is effort and love. And I have plenty of that to go around.
Tomorrow is a day that I will be out and about. Both working in the yard and out on the road. For now, the shed will be closed, I’ll take the cover off the car and wipe that off. Maybe a ride tonight if I find myself alone.
Random Thoughts of the Day
- I’ll be working on my tan tomorrow.
- That mower battery might not have the life left in it I thought it had.
- There are few more satisfying words than “come play with me Papa” especially when said with such enthusiasm each time.
- Each day that idiot is in the White House, we are all in more danger.
- Grandchildren find muscles I haven’t used in a while and exercise them.
This way
The daily prompt asks – How would you improve your community?
A serious question to ponder so early in the morning.
Stay involved. Elect responsible people. Help when needed. Communicate.
Take and share good images of it. Write about the good things in it. Be a positive member of it.
When I retired, I thought I’d do some volunteer work. That hasn’t materialized yet and it’s time for that to happen this year. I’ve got an organization picked out so it’s time to start that work. Maybe it will help and motivate me to do even better.
Oh yeah, I’d replace the current administration in power.
Doors v11.26
Time for the weekly Thursday Doors challenge with our host Dan Antion. For those who love entrances, exits and the buildings and art that surrounds them this is the spot for you. The wonderful contributions from everywhere will delight. Share your own link in the comments on Dan’s weekly Door’s page.
Shot above from Bethany Beach on a morning walk a while back.
On a walk-up Church Road. Looking at Emory United Methodist Church above.
This way to the DOOR.
Lock up that beach time
Almost time to return to the ocean. It’s been calling me all winter long. I hope to lock in some reservations for a short trip early in the season. The family trip is already reserved. There will be spur of the moment stays. All my day trips have been day trips, but there might be a day when I’m just tired and feel like staying over.
This misty overcast morning certainly doesn’t remind me of beach season but yesterday did and tomorrow will. I can’t wait to smell that salt air and cool ocean breeze.
I’ve knocked out my morning doctor’s appointment, my better half picked up meds, life is good. Time to clean up for the weekend visitors.
adapt
The daily prompt asks a question that isn’t one of my favorites – How have you adapted to the changes brought on by the Covid-19 pandemic?
Fine I get my shot each year. Just like I get my flu shot every year. I believe in science. I know it’s not exact. Not much in life is.
Hold On
Holding on by a thread, or nail? Are things slipping between the cracks? Are boundaries failing? Welcome to life. I feel like that wall from time to time. I’ve been standing for a long time. I’m weathered and beaten. But I’m still here. And so are you.
So, continue to hold on, repair, rebuild and be revived.
After a morning of yard work and cleaning outdoor furniture it’s time for a shower. Then a quick ride before the rain comes.
The morning hours
What are your morning rituals? What does the first hour of your day look like? – Another personal question from the daily prompt.
I’m not a coffee drinker so my morning beverage is Coke. Sometimes I eat a large breakfast and sometimes nothing at all.
A little stretching to release the old body. Most days some light dumbbells. Some days the treadmill.
Check email and text, start my first blog post of the morning.
Look at the sunrise if there is one. Listen to the wildlife outside if it’s not winter.
I usually turn on the TV but try not to sit in front of it. Sometimes music which I’m trying to make more the norm.
Pretty much every morning I’ll write my kids a short email.
A good morning to my better half.
I’ll look around my office and change something. Then to the to-do list and update.
I’m trying to remember to watch or read something funny to start the day.
Fight for Spring
A lot of us have been waiting for spring. It’s been a fight but were ready to break out and enjoy this 82-degree last day of March. So be gone winter and cold temps and salt on the roads. I hope to spend the day outside enjoying it.
Special in each way
Which aspects do you think makes a person unique? – Asks the daily prompt.
In some ways, just about everything about us is unique. Appearance, speech, mannerisms, smell, taste, interpretation and more. And in some ways, we are all the same.
Everyone laughs, just a little differently and maybe sometimes at different things. How a person grieves is unique. A lot of it may look the same but it’s personal to that individual and them only. The memory of that event will be their own and different from yours. The way we experience things is unique.
That is what makes all our interactions so special because other people can’t replicate it.
That is something AI can’t replace – our uniqueness.
We are like leaves on a tree, looking the same, but no two alike. Headstones all similar, yet a different story underneath each.
I also answered this question in a previous post 2 years ago called Uniqueness.
Possible problem
Good luck climbing over this gate. Maybe you can float over it when the water starts to rise. Or guess the combination.
No bad Mondays
When I retired, Mondays stopped being an issue. I hope that continues to be the case. It’s no different than any other day of the week. No dread of the beginning of another workweek. No morning commute. No stress of a boss and his follies. Well, it wasn’t my bosses. It was usually the people over them that were the issue.
Sorry I digressed. We are past that trauma. So, onto appreciating another fine start to the day. Something that I always didn’t consider when stressed or concentrating on other priorities of the day. Now I’m more relaxed and thankful that I have another day where I set the priorities.
And the priorities today are keeping a smile on my face and finishing a few art projects. I don’t know why but I feel different this day. Like I might be regaining some sense of control again. Been lacking a little energy lately but I feel it returning. Maybe putting the headphones on and getting into some positive thoughts have me buzzing.
I took advantage of the power and did some weightlifting this morning. I’ve been reading where that is more important in your senior years to keep that muscle strength and tone. Nothing serious just some dumbbells and bands.
I’ve got to download some bird shooting I did yesterday. Sent my kids the morning greetings and wish them a good week.
My better half did a good job cleaning up some of the basement and I have to follow suit and pick up my area. We have company coming this weekend, so I have to pretend I’m not sloppy.
But the main objective today is to detail the go-cart. I’m going to celebrate it’ 10th year anniversary a day early tomorrow being it’s going to be sunny and 80 degrees. That is a top-down cruising day if I’ve ever seen one on the horizon. I’m going out to burn some $5 a gallon fossil fuel and have a great time on some back roads and cruising towns.
And I can’t have a dirty car for the club meeting a week from today.
But first a trip to the hardware store.
Named 2
The daily prompt asks – If you could have something named after you, what would it be?
I answered this same question in a post 2 years ago titled Named and its one I’m going to have trouble topping today with an update. So, I’ll just have a little fun today.
I’ll start this list with Mike’s Snowball. Cherry with vanilla ice cream in the middle.
This one is from my past. A drink called Judges Juice – 151 Rum with a splash of cherry coke and 2 maraschino cherries.
After I finished styling my Miata, they could call it Mike’s Miata Madness
I’d like to have that Chuck Berry duck walk named after me. Call it the Hartley Hustle. Okay, Chuck Berry, some of you might not be familiar with so I’ll try to give another reference even though they are pretty dated now. The guitarist for AC/DC Angus Young does a pretty good imitation of it. I’ve been known to do the imitation on occasion.
I bet Alfred Nobel would give up his name on the Peace Prize if someone could bring about PEACE in this world. Jeez, when will we stop killing each other. Sorry, got a bit melancholy there, I was listening to Aerosmith Seasons of Wither.
Visiting
Wildlife is always visiting my home. From deer to woodchucks and hawks and squirrels and rabbits. I guess just about anything outside in this region is sometime passing through, hunting or living in my yard. I like seeing them all. A pair of foxes were chasing each other and screaming and occasionally catching and playing with each other.
Last evening I had 10 deer in my backyard.
Living in harmony with our natural habitat is important to all of us. I guess I could be asking a bit much. We are having trouble living in harmony with each other.
Random Thoughts of the Day
- Working outside is rewarding. If you limit it to nice days.
- Deadpool is when your bracket is busted.
- At one point in time, some people amazed me. Now most of them do.
- Mindset is very important throughout the day. Be prepared for resets.
Sunday salutations
Another early but slow start to the day. There was one victory though. The John Deere tractor started up for what I think is either the 27th or 28th year of service. I was smart and took the battery out for the winter and had charged it indoors. I sent a video of it cranking up for my grandson who loves to ride it and has asked all winter long if he could get on it.
It has been a productive afternoon. Making some progress on chores and my hobbies. Started sanding a wooden heart earlier. Also moving some images to the photo site and this evening I hope to crank up the printer and cover a few empty spots on my office walls.
My back is starting to talk to me so I’m going to put in another hour or two and call it a day on the heavy stuff.
I saw a note in another post about it being Kidney Cancer Awareness Month. I’m aware of it because I had it. Well, it had part of me to be correct. A good reminder for myself to make a few donations to my favorite cancer organizations.
Help me laugh
The daily prompt asks – What Makes you Laugh?
Wow, lots of things thankfully.
I’ll start with life in general. Hundreds of things make me laugh each day. Even when I’m sad, I sometimes shake my head and laugh.
My family, especially my children and grandchildren, make me laugh. My friends certainly make me laugh.
Comedians make me laugh. Cartoons make me laugh, comics make me laugh and stupid things make me laugh. Nature sometimes makes me laugh. Politicians make me laugh.
The actual what is even more of a list that is too big for one post. I guess the power to see humor and sometimes share in making others laugh is a nice trait to have.
I do know I’m thankful laughter has been such a big part of my life. It’s saved me several times from traumatic events and troubled times. Laughter is a survival skill at times in life.
Flaming Out
Is the orange one flaming out? Could be, it looks like the ship is taking on water and listing badly. I salute those showing up today at the No Kings Rally.
I was going to go to the local one here, but my body is not cooperating. Cold weather and wind are not a combo that is going to untwist my body. My daughter is representing in DC today. I may change my mind. I’m hitting the shower now. The local one starts at 1pm.
Don’t worry, I’ll be very involved in change this year. Including my vote and support for anything that is opposed to the current cult and moving the country forward instead of backwards.
Five
A post called To Be or Not to Be – answered the question posed today – When you were five, what did you want to be when you grew up?
I just reread it and recalled a few more memories from that young age. Some of it difficult. I have a lot of trouble remembering some of my early years. I wish I could figure it out. I’m not sure if the troubling memories keep overriding other positive ones or what it is.
5 years old was probably the year I started hanging out with Rusty, Billy and Brad because we had just moved to the neighborhood the year before. Sports, bikes, playing in the woods and games were our common thread.
To be honest, I don’t think any 5-year-old knows what the hell they want to be other than having fun with friends and being part of a family. I know I liked to play baseball a lot then and remember having a bat that was too big for me.
Opportunity
Gooood morninggggggg Vietnam. I just love that line from Robin Williams in the movie by the same name. No, I don’t like war and I don’t find myself happy in the one were in now. But onward to making it a good day.
It’s early morning and I’ve got to find a bright spot like a sunrise I captured years ago that I’ll use for inspiration because there won’t be one visible this morning in central Maryland.
I see a lot of opportunities for growth today. Then again, I’m having trouble seeing because the lighting SUCKS in parts of this house. The fixture in my workroom just went out and I was hoping to do some carving today because my better half just gave me some blocks that will be nice to experiment with. Maybe outside if the rain stops.
Well, back to the opportunities.
- The first snowball of the season.
- A trip to the hardware store.
- Clean my office.
- Write my children.
- Get some exercise.
- Take a nap so I can stay awake for tonight’s games.
- I’m really a huge college basketball fan. I’m still in first place in the pool after last night’s action. So, tonight’s will be another nailbiter.
Please understand
What’s something most people don’t understand? – An interesting thought and question from the daily prompt.
I revisited a list on this question I did 2 years ago, and I think the following are still true.
- How lucky most of us are. If you want proof go to a children’s cancer ward, war zone, or cemetery. Have some appreciation for life, safety and health.
- How important it is to use the time we have wisely and in the right way. Well, maybe this one is just me.
- How very interlinked as human beings we are. Separating us by color, ethnicity, or religion is WRONG. We are one. We need to stop the HATE.
- We are going to destroy the earth if we aren’t careful.
- That the job is just a job, it doesn’t define you, it provides a living. Yes, you can be proud of your work but don’t live for it, unless it’s your life’s passion.
- That love takes work and effort. If you put little into it, you will get little in return.
- That you aren’t connected with your face in your smartphone all day.
- People used to understand the word Compromise, but that has been removed from Webster’s.
But as always, I’ll try to update this with hopes I’ve learned something more after 2 years.
- Most people don’t understand how things really work.
- Some people don’t understand that money isn’t happiness.
- I didn’t understand the percentage of people that could be willfully ignorant.
- I’m surprised at the number of people who worship and idolize the wrong people or things.
- I bet most people don’t understand Bitcoin. Even a lot of those in it. I guess the same could be said of the stock market.
- Why do people get so wrapped up in online influencers?
And some people don’t understand the sound of the waves is all some people want to hear.
Productive Day
It’s exciting putting the deck and patio chairs out again. Watching my neighbors working in their garden, looking at the fully charged mower battery I need to reinstall. All brings a smile to my face.
I love having some property but it’s a good bit of work. Which reminds me I should stop at the local hardware and get some more crabgrass killer. The never-ending battle with mother nature. Most of our neighbors have yard and landscape services. Notice to crooks, you should be able to tell the difference, those are the homes with money.
The thought of a smaller yard is nice, but I like my space. This little garden above is found along Church Road in Ellicott City. My back aches a bit from trimming trees and the last hour of picking up branches and sticks that have fallen without my assistance.
It’s so nice to see people outside again. Talking for periods of time instead of the quick helloes between shivering from the car to the front door.
Almost time to kick back and watch the beginning of the second round of March Madness and plug in the heating pad.
Looking for that angle
I’m always looking for a unique or special angle that highlights the wonderful design of automotive or motorcycling styling. It’s a quest I’m going to get better at, this year. I just hope people are out and about with their rides.
In another hour or two the temps here will pass 70 degrees and then I’ll be looking for my keys. I’m going out now to take the cover off my go-cart.
I look at the style of today’s cars, and it doesn’t excite me much. Maybe because everything is a pickup or SUV on the highways. In reviewing the Car and Driver 2026 Editor’s Choice the Best New Cars, Trucks, SUV’s, Vans, Wagons I find very little difference till you get to the Sports Car section and even some of those are getting close.
Luckily the classic car community is alive and well and I’m looking forward to an active 2026 blinded by chrome, overcome by burnt high octane fuel, hearing gone as the V8s roar to life and speechless at the beauty of some of the restorations.
Just one of the many adventures to take advantage of in spring, summer and fall and bring to this blog.
To the road
Chrome, a V8 and blue sky. Not a bad combination. I sense a good driving day today. And I saw a gift card on my desk for our local ice cream venue that I’ll use in the warmth of the day. It’s also a good spot to watch cars cruise Route 40. Not that it’s a hot spot but if it’s a nice day out there will be some rides strutting their stuff.
My little go-cart gets some looks when it’s clean. Which it is most of the time. I didn’t buy it for the looks it gets though. I was pretty set in my thinking that I wanted a high horsepower V8. Like a Dodge Challenger. But I had seen the Miata at the car show over the winter, and it caught my eye.
I kind of went to the dealership with the mindset I’ll rule this out and then go get what I want but from the time I saw it in the showroom and the color I had to sit in it. I loved the interior; it was so snug. Then the salesman said let me pull it outside for a ride.
Well, that did it. I couldn’t wipe the smile off my face and every time I sit in it it’s like taking that first test drive. I didn’t even go to the Dodge dealership. I bought the car that day and it just might be the last car I own. Well, my car at least. We will have to replace my better half’s SUV sooner or later.
In another week it will be 10 years old. As the dealer notified me my factory warranty is expiring. It’s still totally stock. The dealership would love it because it’s only got 60K on it. Just for grips and grins I called and was connected with a very helpful person who went over the details and cost of the 5-year 60K-mile extended warranty. A total cost of $5180.00 is something I can’t consider and I’ll detail why.
I’ve had several Mazda’s over decades and luckily, they all have been reliable and low maintenance. The warranty doesn’t cover regular maintenance. Each visit for covered items is $100. Now if they find multiple things it’s still just 100.
This car is in cherry condition. I keep it covered, clean and maintained. I’ve driven it very easy so far. So, in my mind this is like giving away my money for something that won’t be needed.
There is a also the fact that it would have to remain stock over the next 5 years. And while I love it now, I’m going to love it better with a slightly better exhaust note when I change the axle back parts. And if I keep going to these club meetings, I’m going to be tempted to lower it just slightly. All which would be a no-no with a warranty.
I’m going to call her back because she was helpful and give her the reasons, I’m not going to take it and thank her for the time. If it was only $2k I might have thought about it and kept it stock for another 5 years.
I’d rather put the 5-6 thousand into modifications. Funny how that is how much a Supercharger cost.
techy
How has technology changed your job? – Asks the daily prompt.
I used to be a techy. Technology constantly made changes to my career in publishing. It came fast and furious and was exciting as hell to try to keep up with or set the trend.
Being over two years into retirement the changes I used to have to keep up with have passed. I’ve had to learn about E-tickets and Apple wallet. I’ve still to fully explore my navigation system in my car because most of the time I don’t care or I know where I’m going.
I’m getting away from tech, not because I’m scared of change or can’t learn new things. I just prefer a simpler life. Connecting with people in person instead of computer or phone. Not that I don’t like meeting people or having correspondence at all, it’s just not as special as seeing someone smile when they see you or a warm hug or handshake. That feeling will never be replicated online.
I guess one of my jobs in the future is maybe learning the technology of cornering mechanics and driving skills. I’ve been thinking of doing some autocross in the future. Or maybe some track time.
I guess the largest tech interactions I have are with my camera now. That is until my grandchildren start getting into in and I’ll have to learn again to keep up with them.
Bike
The E-bike or Electric Bicycle is something that I’m seeing a lot more of. Being older maybe it’s something I should consider. My better half enjoys riding bikes at the beach. We’ve ridden with friends on Kent Island. I like riding also and have been pondering a trip to the local bike store to check out various rides.
I don’t think I’m interested in an e-bike though. I like exercise. I don’t plan on riding much around here anyway. Too much traffic for me. Maybe some trails or parks.
So that means a bike rack to take us to our destinations, which is fine. I’d rather enjoy the experience than be run over.
I’ll have to add this to the list of things to do this afternoon.
No thanks
The daily prompt asks – How often do you say “no” to things that would interfere with your goals?
The answer used to be rarely, but I’ve grown much better at it. I’m finding a much better balance now and I’m happier for it. Saying no is an important part of life. Following your goals is an important part of life.
But remember when you say no, do it politely. No thank you.
No mam, you cannot chase the lifeguards.
Peaceful easy feeling
What’s not to like. The Chesapeake Bay, markers for crab pots and Annapolis on the horizon at sunset. I can’t wait to get back to the bay and ocean soon.
I thought about going to the local airport where ICE is deployed. Seeing how many ICE guys I could round up and talk to in one spot and say follow me boys you have come to the right spot finally. The DE-ICING Machines are right out on the runway waiting for you.
Random Thoughts of the Day
- It’s good to rediscover yourself every so often.
- I love how CBS is rebroadcasting all the March Madness games. I’m close to have seen the whole first round action now.
- Found a great picture of one of my best friends. Just made a large portrait for him.
- I love the handwritten notes my family used to leave me. Saved a lot of them.
- The more photos you have around you of your family and friends, the more you know you have a good history with people close to you.
- And yes, I’m still sick of the cult of Trump.
Boundaries are important
So is a fence. I’ve never been big into fences. I had one around the pool but that was mandatory. And not having the pool any longer when this fence has seen its day it won’t be replaced. Then again, you never know who is going to move in next door, so I won’t take it off the list of possibilities in the future.
It’s a good start to a Tuesday so far. Feeling better physically and will see some friends today. And big plans for my hobbies later. Hopefully downloading and editing the days shooting, working on some illustrations and maybe even grabbing a brush with some paint on it.
It’s time to get on my feet and get moving. Have a good morning, all.
Hit your target
The daily prompt wants to know – What’s a secret skill or ability you have or wish you had?
I wish I had the secret skill that allowed me to work harder to achieve more skills and abilities. Because I’m old enough to know you don’t get them by wishing.
Some other thoughts.
- I wish I had the skill to play basketball at a high level.
- Secret ability – I used to be able to ride a skateboard well in the 60s.
- I wish I had the ability to manage my time better.
- Secret skill – I’m a good marksman.
- I should have tried my hand in music. I think I could have been good at it.
- I bet I have the skill to be a good autocross driver.
- I wish I could rebound faster from adversity.
- Someday I’m going to have to see if I can play golf again with my surgically repaired shoulders.
Low
I’ve thought about doing a series of low angle shooting. My back doesn’t care for it, but I should power through.
Restless
Both the mind and body are restless this Monday morning. I feel like I should be doing a lot more. At the same time, I’m tired. I’m struggling to find the right words. I’m not picking up the camera as often as I’d like. I do that when I’m blocked creatively. I’ve got to change this week and get back into the grove.
It’s not like I didn’t have a great weekend. I certainly did and I did accomplish a good bit around the home and yard. And most importantly, time with family and friends.
So, the morning rain has passed, or at least that is my understanding. Still kind of cloudy so lights are still on at this home and other spots.
I have to flip my switch and get busy. And no time like the present.
Random Thoughts of the Day
- My youngest grandchild is still taking naps. When she stops, I’ll step in and pick up the slack.
- To the white Mercedies SUV that passed on a double line in a 30-mph zone doing at least 60 on Old Annapolis Rd approaching a school zone the other day, may Karma visit you soon.
- That was some great basketball this weekend. I love the college game. And being in 1st place after the first weekend of action is a nice feeling. Sometimes a fleeting one. Time will tell.
- I get to make kids smile today. That’s a nice feeling.
More Weather
What is my favorite type of weather? – Asks the daily prompt.
Sunny and hot. 80-90 degrees and I’m not opposed to 95 degrees. Above that limits my time outside unless I’m in the water.
I live for summer. Yesterday was a nice teaser of the coming season. But first we must make it through spring and that is usually a up and down ride.
I also like to watch lightning. I’ve got to get out and capture more of it this season.
End in Style
What a beautiful day in Central Maryland. Being outside in shorts and a tee shirt is sweet. Our local snowball stand was drawing a crowd all day. I’ll go tomorrow when it’s cooler and everyone is back at work.
Felt good to stay busy and active today. In walking the yard and picking up sticks I noticed 2 things. There is a mole, maybe a family or one that is on a mission in my front yard. Second, is the grass is greening up quickly and growing. If it cools off again it might slow it a bit but no more than first weekend in April it will need a cut.
So therefore, motor maintenance is needed on all the tools. I have all the oil and filters. I do need to check the blades. That will be on this week’s agenda.
Feeling like I accomplished a lot today and fit in a few minutes of fun in the Miata for a short ride. About to throw the cover on it before the rains tonight.
It would be nice to be at peace as this sunset is.
Random Thoughts of the Day
- I never had dry skin on my legs till the last few years. Guess that is one of those senior bonuses.
- What Trump said about Mueller passing is disgusting. Compare the background of the two men, I hope that Karma will visit DJT sooner than later.
- Looking forward to a soothing shower in a few minutes.
- I’ve enjoyed writing to my children over the years knowing it might make their day a bit better sometimes.
Are you happy
Happiness is sometimes an elusive thing. But when you are, you know it.
Today has started off well with the recharge with the family yesterday still providing a smile to my face. The anticipation of a beautiful day outside and a good week ahead.
Teach 2
Who was your most influential teacher? Why? – Asks the daily prompt.
I answered the same question 2 years ago with a post called Teach and not much has changed since then. All those answers are still true.
So today I’ll answer this question a bit differently. I think I’ll list some things that hopefully I’ve taught others along the way.
- I hope I’ve taught manors and courtesy.
- I hope I’ve taught respect and admiration.
- I hope I’ve taught truth to power and not being afraid to speak up.
- I hope I’ve taught compassion and caring.
- I hope I’ve led by example by a strong work ethic and ability to do well under pressure.
- I hope I’ve shared as many life skills as I have trained people in work skills.
- I hope I’ve shared love and laughter with you.
- I’ve taught myself in retrospect I could have done better with the opportunity I had. But we all can.
- I hope I have a lot more to teach. It’s almost as much fun as learning.
One thing that won’t need to be taught anymore is being a pressman. I hear the Washington Post is shutting down its Springfield Plant at the end of the year. That will spell the end of the 8 presses they purchased (4 for each plant) in 1995 for $250 million. I started out in Engraving rooms and learned a bit on an old 9-unit Goss press.
The things below are monsters compared to what I learned on.
Funny how a newspaper won’t even be in my grandchildren’s vocabulary in the future apart from me boring them with my history.
Waiting for YOU
You can find some real characters on the beach. I guess that is why I feel so comfortable there. I’m one of them.
Yep, it didn’t take much. I had the top down on the car a few times this week and now all I’m thinking of is getting to the beach a lot this year.
By a quick calculation of mileage and cost per gallon, it’s going to be about $60 per trip. That’s what I get for driving a car that runs on high octane. Good thing the mileage is great.
No problem, counting down the days until I have sand between my toes.
Wish
The daily prompt asks – What do you wish you could do more every day?
I thought I remembered this question from a while back and found my answers (in the first batch below) to be pretty similar to what I would still pick today a few years later into retirement.
- I wish to spend more time in my better half’s arms.
- I wish to get outside more each day.
- I wish to see or hear my kids and grandkids every day.
- I wish I could sleep more each day and get more done.
- I wish I could shoot and edit a few hundred more images.
- I wish I could see or talk to my close friends more.
- I wish to be in my workroom and more sawdust on the floor indicating more progress.
- I wish I could help a few more people each day.
- I wish I could write more each day.
- I wish I could play a sport or exercise each day.
- I wish I could listen to more music.
- I wish to be in my Miata with the top down more.
- I wish to spend more time watching the sun rise and set.
- I wish to feel sand between my toes and hear the sound of waves hitting the shore more.
I’ll update and add a few things to the old list.
- I wish I could spend more time painting
- I wish I could read more.
- I wish I could utilize my printer more and make that thing run like a press.
- I wish I had the time to observe and interact with nature more.
- I wish I had more appreciation for each day.
Blue
Sometimes when I’m feeling blue, I hit a creative wall. Not unlike this one found in Ellicott City.
Down the Tubes
Seems like we’re going down a path that wasn’t the wisest choice AGAIN. A bit over a year into this mess it keeps getting worse, and like the current war the end is not in sight. The two meanings of Down the Tubes I found are, wasted and unrecoverable and deterioration or failure. Either case it’s bad.
From what I see and hear, most countries think the reputation of the United States is stained badly and may be unrecoverable depending on the continued damage done to it. We certainly have spawned a new generation of terrorist at a minimum.
We are struggling to get a grip on ourselves and take back power from a narcissist toddler who has never been told NO. Well, he is going to hear it soon and it’s not going to be pleasant because till now it’s been his way or the highway.
I don’t know how long the struggle will take. I don’t know if he will be like Hitler and just try to burn this country down if it doesn’t follow his ideology. I don’t know how ugly it will be between now and then. But somehow, I feel majority rule will play out even if he tries to fix the midterm elections.
The drama may end quickly with a whimper. Or it could go out in a civil war over a long period. Our choice. One thing we need to remember, well those in the US. We are all Americans.
As the sign says
This is an easy question to answer from the daily prompt. – What tattoo do you want and where would you put it?
First off, I have nothing against tattoos or other body art. To each their own. I consider myself an artist. I like finding new canvases. But I have no desire to get a tattoo. I was given this body with all its imperfections, and I’ll keep it that way because I’m fine with it and I like myself just the way I was made.
I’ve grown my hair long a few times. I’ve had a beard most of my life. My hair is starting to grey, well in some areas it’s grey and I have no desire to switch my hair color back. I have no desire to replace where it’s starting to thin a bit. I am what and who I am.
I’m also a believer in buyer beware. Age changes our bodies. So maybe the name of this tattoo shop is appropriately named for some choices. (Time Bomb Tattoos)
Layered
There are lots of layers to our lives. Sometimes parts of us hold up remarkably well and others become quite weathered. In some ways I think I’m just beginning to scratch the surface of my senior years. So maybe time for a new roof and siding. Nah, what the hell, I’ve gone thought life with this coat on, why change now.
Random Thoughts of the Day
- There is just enough patience left to get through the day. I hope people don’t use it up too quickly.
- It’s a basketball junkie’s weekend of the year. And after 4 days of nonstop hoops, Sunday night I’ll be in a coma.
- When the family you made is all that remains. It’s both happy and sad.
- I wish the hurt in the world didn’t overwhelm all the joy in it.
- There is just what you can do today and what you have done. All those plans and goals don’t mean nothing to anyone else if you’re not here to fulfill them.
Dad
The daily prompt wants to know – What is the one word that describes you?
In a post titled Tough Question, I answered this with the word Considerate two years ago.
So, being they asked again I’ll try to pick another word that describes me. Well, it’s one word but I’m going to make it two. The answer would be Dad and Papa. I had no idea how important those words would be early in my life. But they are the things I’m proudest of in my lifetime.
I never got a chance to know if my father was proud of me as a son and father. I hope he is.
Ready
I’m ready for Spring. Ready for merchants to put up the outside umbrella’s and prepare to throw some shade for us outside dining patrons. Come on Mother Nature, I know you have some warm temps saved up for us.
I think I’m ready for what life throws at me when I’m not. That’s okay, I’m adapting. Life is about adapting to change.
I’m ready to watch a live sunrise at the beach instead of on webcam. Even though it was a beautiful one this morning.
I’m ready for March Madness.
I’m ready for a loved one’s birthday.
I’m ready for some rest because I’m tired mentally.
Compliment
What was the best compliment you’ve received? – A fairly simple question from the daily prompt.
I’m not sure which is exactly the best, but when my children say I love you Dad or my grandchildren say I love you, Papa from doing something for them, that is the best. It can be as simple as sharing a snack with the young ones or sharing a meal with the kids. Usually with the young ones, it’s from spending time playing with them. Or the kids saying thanks for our family week at the beach.
When friends belly laughs at my humor that’s a great compliment. When a friend tells me years later how important some photos I took and gave him are to him.
I haven’t been on the professional side for a while now, but I used to like when managers were perplexed in how I saw systems in trouble so early or how I fixed things so fast at times. Or when we discovered fixes that weren’t in the manual or tech data in the early years before the internet. I remember vendors coming to us at times to see what and how we were using their equipment or software.
Sea of Green
A Happy St Patrick’s Day to those who enjoy celebrating the wearing of the green. My mother liked St Patrick’s day a lot. She visited Ireland several times. I’m going to have to organize her photos from there someday. Maybe when I finish organizing my own.
Despite the temps feeling below freezing today, I hope to venture out and maybe catch some of the green spirit through my camera lens.
I also hope to spend part of the day interacting with the blogging community which I’ve been neglecting the past few days. I have some reading and viewing to catch up on.
I guess the luck of the green was with us yesterday and this morning. Just a few power hits for a few minutes each, some large branches crashing in the woods behind us and a lot more small ones to pick up in the yard. I hope everyone was also safe and sound from the storms that rolled east.
I think I’ll test my luck today at the new burrito place down the road. I know, it’s not Irish. I’ll go order some Reuben Egg Rolls from Oscars later.
Train
The daily prompt asks – You’re going on a cross-country trip. Airplane, train, bus, car, or bike?
Now that life grants me time to be choosy about transportation I would like to take the train. Yes, it’s a longer journey than by plane but I’d like to see more of this country and I’m not going to do it from 35 thousand feet.
I would never go by bus. I love to drive so a car is possible. If I was a young man again, I would consider a motorcycle.
Looking up
The Museum of Howard County History below. A nice structure for sure. But what drew my eye upward was the huge buzzard that just landed at the top of the tree next to the spire.
I like shooting in Ellicott City. It’s full of good spots to try. I should take a building like this and just try to get creative with it.
It’s a town full of hills. I’ve hiked just about all of them.
I think I’ll head down there tomorrow if the sun is out and capture a few fresh images.
Monday Darkness
I have a feeling our power is about to be out for a bit. Especially with 7-8 outages last week. These storm warnings look particularly strong for later this morning and especially the afternoon. And I got to thinking about what I can do when the power goes out.
- Play with our granddaughter who will be over this morning.
- Read – I’ve got a book in mind already.
- Paint and Draw – I’ve been meaning to pick up a brush for a bit now. What better time.
- Photograph – The cameras still work in a power outage. As long as the batteries last.
- Woodworking – Might be difficult without light in my workroom.
- Rearrange my photo collage on my office wall – A project I started last week.
- Make a fire – If the power is out that means the heat is out.
- Clean out my desk drawers and office – A long overdue task.
You know, I think I’ll do those things if I do have power also.
Hiding out
I was out shooting some homes the other day and ran across something unusual. I’m guessing it’s an old mile marker showing its 20 miles to Baltimore from this spot. Found along Rt 99 just west of Marriottsville Road.
When I saw this, I thought of how we used to navigate in the old days. Old days being when I grew up in the 50s and 60s. My parents used maps. Big bulky things that could stretch across the entire front windshield if unfolded completely. Or the good old AAA TripTik. A much more user-friendly guide to your destination.
Ah another memory from the past, the Rand McNally Road Atlas map books.
I’ve always had the knack of being able to remember a destination and route if I’d been there once before regardless of the time between. Age is taking its toll now though and that memory isn’t as good as it used to be. So maybe these will come in handy again.
Confident
Who is the most confident person you know? – I answered this 2 years ago in a post called TIE and not much has changed. My two best friends are the most confident people I know.
I’ve known some people that are very confident and shouldn’t be. I’ve been overconfident myself at times and I guard against it now.
I love seeing a child ride a bike for the first time on their own and seeing that confidence take over their face and body.
It’s going to blow
Just took another power hit to the neighborhood and the storms have yet to begin. I guess they are getting us ready for what is to come. No disrespect to the hard-working men and women linemen out there in nasty conditions restoring power.
I’m going to prepare a few posts and schedule them today for the next 3 days. If I have power, I’ll do fresh ones. If not, it will keep my daily streak going. The streak really isn’t that important but it’s kind of nice to keep rolling if I can. Plus, I’m trying to finish up some old drafts I’ve found that might be worth the light of day soon.
I’ve been outside securing lose items. Weighing down others. Brought a few things inside. I need to bring in some wood when the temps dip if the power goes out. With an inch and a half of rain coming and those winds not much is going to stay dry.
Good old one two
Back to my earlier start to the day. About 3:30am I believe, was the rise and shine. Well, I’ve got the rising part down. Let’s see what I can help shine today.
Yesterday morning, brought some early spring color to my backyard.
I noticed the grass starting to recover and start to green along with some sprouts in the garden recently.
The migration north of our feathered friends will add to the spring palette of color. I’ve got to remember to bring my monopod inside. Shooting handheld at distance is hit and miss. Especially with back spasms going on.
I’m so ready for spring but this month’s forecast isn’t looking that positive for central Maryland. No problem, I’ll just extend my hibernation season.
Random Thoughts of the Day
- Just watched another beautiful sunrise. Great way to start the day.
- It’s Jellybean season.
- Strong storms on the horizon for Monday. Guess I should get a disaster post ready in case I lose power again.
- A day without a plan brings a smile to my face.
- My cars are clean in and out, as a matter of choice. I don’t know why that gene didn’t transfer to my kids.
- Ah, another day that is the dumpster fire of an administration going down in flames. We haven’t even gotten to the good part where they start turning on each other.
Struggles
What strategies do you use to cope with negative feelings? – An interesting question that we all should ponder.
Music helps me with negative feelings. So does driving my Miata. Writing or photography helps at times. Exercise helps a little but not much. Watch some comedy clips. Call a friend to laugh with. Sometimes though, being alone to sort through things is what I need.
I have gotten better at turning around negative feelings more quickly than in the past. A best friend reminds me that you can’t control what happens to you always, but you can control how you react/respond to it.
How you respond sometime is even more important than what causes negativity to enter your life. I’m glad my friend reminds me of this every so often in our conversations. We’re pretty good at picking up when each other struggles.
Not the best start
Thinking about the late start I got on the day both here blogging and in general and I don’t like it. I did get a little rest, but it was a fight and one I’m not sure which side I came out on. At least it was more rest than some nights this week.
I’ll just have to work a little harder, a little longer into the day today. I’ve already got a few shots I liked earlier of some winged wildlife returning to the area. Also cooked up some bacon for breakfast and vacuumed the basement.
The afternoon is free, so I’ll do a little more photography and work on editing some shots I took yesterday and early this morning.
I should get cruising and set out to the sea that is today. To celebrate the peaks and troughs of the waves of life and get to work on the above mission. Either that or kick back and watch some basketball on the heating pad.
Random Thoughts of the Day
- When things are clean, I feel better.
- Pain is a schedule adjuster. So much for the car show this morning.
- I saw a headline saying Trump gives rambling speech to GOP. Has he ever given any other type of speech? Why is that news?
- Holly trees are beautiful. Stepping on the thorny leaves is not.
- Remember to say “I love you” to those you do.
Lose yourself
What activities do you lose yourself in? – Asks the daily prompt.
Photography and writing are two that I currently lose myself in. Being it’s March Madness that is certainly an activity that I dive headlong into for about 3 weeks.
Last night I lost myself in fighting pain and trying to sleep. I’d say that activity was a draw at best.
I can look at my better half all day long and get lost in that beauty.
I certainly can get lost playing with grandchildren.
And I can’t leave this one out because it’s one of my favorite things to get lost in. My Miata is a driving experience that I regularly get lost in, but I have the nav system to get me back to where I need to be.
I get absorbed in car shows. I used to lose myself on my bike, but that activity is gone.
March Swings
A beautiful start to the week quickly changed on Wednesday and Thursday. Mid 80s and sunshine to tornado warnings and maybe a glancing blow from one to rain and then snow and temps in the 20s. And here we are on Friday the 13th and we have sunny and 40 degrees. So, like a drunk leaving a bar at closing, we are all over the place.
I don’t have a real good spot for storms coming. Took these from my deck.
We lost power 4-5x Wednesday night but only for short periods.
And 2 more power outages on Thursday morning that were a little longer in duration but nothing bad.
If it’s not a problem Mother Nature, could we have a calm weekend please.
5 times the fun
What movies or TV series have you watched more than 5 times? – Asks the daily prompt.
I answered this question a few years ago in a post called Watched. And I don’t like being redundant and have nothing new to add.
So, what else entertainment wise have I done more than 5x?
Ah, – What groups live, have I seen more than 5 times? Well, most of this is going to date back to some older decades but here it goes.
I know I’ve seen The Who at least 5x. Also used to go to a lot of Jethro Tull and Bad Company shows, at least 5 for them. Maybe RUSH and The Doobie Brothers also.
Bands I’ve seen at least once that I would have loved to see 5 or more times. Lynyrd Skynyrd, Eagles, Santana, Aerosmith, Yes, Fleetwood Mac, Pink Floyd, ZZ Top, Led Zeppelin, Frank Zappa, Creedence Clearwater Revival, Van Halen, Little Feat, Kansas,
Bands I’ve never seen but would love to see 5x – The Beatles, The Rolling Stones, The Doors, Genesis, Crosby Stills Nash & Young, The Allman Brothers, The Blues Brothers, The Grateful Dead, AC/DC, Tom Petty and the Heartbreakers, Jimi Hendrix, Black Sabbath, Queen, and Metallica.
Doors v10.26
Time for the weekly Thursday Doors challenge with our host Dan Antion. For those who love entrances, exits and the buildings and art that surrounds them this is the spot for you. The wonderful contributions from everywhere will delight. Share your own link in the comments on Dan’s weekly Door’s page.
Down and Out, Doors this week. I ran out of time this week again. I had an idea for some interesting doors but only got one of them, but on the way home passed a few doors that looked like they were on their last legs.
Next week I’ll have something more appealing to share.
Seeing old homes falling apart or in on themselves are sad.
Sometimes the door is the last thing standing.
My Garden
My Garden is my family and friends.
I was listening to a song this morning called The Garden by RUSH and I really loved the song’s lyrics. In addition to being a great drummer he wrote some wonderful lyrics.
In this one of many possible worlds
All for the best, or some bizarre test
It is what it is, and whatever
Time is still the infinite jest
The arrow flies when you dream
The hours tick away
The cells take away
The Watchmaker keeps to his schemes
The hours tick away
They tick away
The measure of a life is a measure of love and respect
So hard to earn, so easily burned
The measure of a life is a measure of love and respect
So hard to earn, so easily burned
In the fullness of time
A garden to nurture and protect
In the rise and the set of the sun
‘Til the stars go spinning, spinning round the night
Oh, it is what is it is, and forever
Each moment, a memory in flight
The arrow flies while you dream
The hours tick away
The cells tick away
The Watchmaker has time up his sleeve
The hours tick away
They tick away
The measure of a life is a measure of love and respect
So hard to earn, so easily burned
In the fullness of time
A garden to nurture and protect (it’s a measure of a life)
The measure of a life is a measure of love and respect
The way you live, the gifts that you give
In the fullness of time is the only return that you expect
The future disappears into memory
With only a moment between
Forever dwells in that moment
Hope is what remains to be seen
Forever dwells in that moment
Hope is what remains to be seen
In the fullness of time a garden to nurture and protect (it’s a measure of a life)
In the fullness of time a garden to nurture and protect (it’s a measure of a life)
In the fullness of time a garden to nurture and protect (it’s a measure of a life)
In the fullness of time a garden to nurture and protect
It’s a measure of a life
It’s a measure of a life
It’s a measure of a life
It’s a measure of a life
Lookout
The daily prompt asks me – Are you superstitious?
I answered this question 2 years ago in a post called Nope. I reread it and really don’t have anything to add.
I do believe that your spirit can live on through others if you have had the right impact.
The eyes have it
I had the annual eye exam this morning and there has been no substantial changes which is nice to hear a doctor say. I didn’t think much had changed but I didn’t think I needed glasses till I got them either. What a relief to hear a doctor say you’re good for another year. Now if I can get the rest of them on board with this attitude.
I’ve gotten used to wearing glasses. I always keep a pair nearby.
Low and behold it’s MARCH MADNESS time. And Maryland made it by the first round of the Big 10 Tournament and played again today so that had my attention for a few hours. One of my two best friends and I watched the last game of the season.
Tonight, I’m getting away from this box and trying my hand at some painting. This afternoon I spent working in the yard but hope to put in a few hours editing images before calling it a night on this system.
Saturday resumes the biggest area car show/meet and I’ll probably attend that for an hour or two. The weather isn’t going to be that warm that day so attendance might not be what the summer months bring. Plus, it will give me a chance to grab a sandwich from the sponsor of the event Mikey and Mel’s Deli.
Rocky Raccoon
Which animal would you compare yourself to and why? – Another question I’m not really into from the daily prompt.
Okay, I’ll play along for a second. – The first thing that came to mind was a racoon. I’m usually up and about at night. I’m curious and resourceful. I like to play and have fun. I’m a problem solver at times.
It’s also a Beatles song I kinda like Rocky Racoon
I love animals. I hate it when I see them treated poorly. What we do to our environment is harmful to most animals. We complain when we see them in our over developed neighborhoods. I guess they missed the redevelopment planning/zoning meetings.
I try to live in harmony with animals and respect them.
We Deliver
Deliver everything. How friggen lazy have we gotten. I’ve never used Door Dash or Uber Eats or many other delivery services. We will drive to pick up our carry-out. Yes, we have deliveries. From Amazon which does not make me happy because I’m no Jeff Bezos fan.
I find it amazing how fast our society has transitioned to buying online. You can see it caught a lot of people off guard, like the ones who own all those shopping malls and strip centers and invested in building more. These are now great spaces for car groups to meet up or seasonal carnivals. Huge empty parking lots and empty buildings.
It spurred a whole new industry, porch pirates. It’s certainly put more, not less trucks on the roads. It’s further reduced human contact and experiences. I bet it increased the use of fossil fuels, think of all the people ordering one or two items at a time. How many times did you go shopping and just get one or two things. You picked up what you needed for a while. You thought and you made a list. Now it’s when the whim strikes.
Not to mention the manipulation that goes into online buying.
Oh, and online ticketing is very uncomfortable to me. I like physical tickets. I don’t want to be forced to take my phone to an event. And that uncomfortable feeling if my phone were to die.
If you think we reduced our destruction of forest for the newspaper industry which is disappearing, for the most part guess again. It has been replaced by the cardboard box industry.
Yes, it has a lot of great advantages for the elderly, disabled and those needing meds fast and many other things. But I liked running into neighbors or old friends at the store or parking lot. Yeah, I’m older so I’m not with this because I think I experienced something better and now it’s getting lost.
You’re NEVER NEVER going to see me buying a car online. If I can’t get the dealer to flip me the key and let me test that stick shift it’s NEVER NEVER going to be a deal.
Random Thoughts of the Day
- I haven’t added my thought on Trump and his team of knee benders being one of the most disgusting groups of human beings on the planet for a day or two now have I. Well, there you go.
- March, a month of temperature swings.
- I wonder if delivery will be free if gas starts getting outrageously expensive.
- Nice to be able to get a few tanning days in March.
I’m Up
Just went looking around for someone else who is up. Didn’t find anyone. Pretty normal for this time of night. No problem, I’m an expert at entertaining myself. Loneliness is not possible when there is always me myself and I to have a group chat with. I’ve always been a bunch of mixed-up personalities anyway.
Just put the headphones on so I won’t disturb those resting. I needed some music this morning. Was a bit down last night and fell asleep early so I’m up early. What a tangled mess I weave. Music is helping as it always does, getting my thoughts moving in a more positive direction.
Funny I just had a flashback to when I worked a shift where I was getting off work around 3-4am in the morning and those drives home on hot summer nights were great. The pinnacle of NO TRAFFIC. Once I cleared the city line and got onto the highway, I would crank up the volume on my favorite songs and just cruise along at the speed limit or less because of all the wildlife out at that time.
Those were some of the most relaxing rides imaginable. Just having completed a long shift. The dark, quiet and empty highways. Yeah, there was the occasional drunk who finally found his/her keys an hour after the bar closed still trying to make it home. And yes, I used to see a lot of them. But for the most part it was a sweet trip.
Speaking of sweet trips. Today was a top-down day filled with country roads. Boy was it beautiful and did it feel good.
Random Thoughts of the Day
- I hope I can go through the rest of life and not need all those drugs I see advertised on TV.
- Getting my mind to slip into exercise mode is the trick I’ve learned to be consistent.
- Party like it’s your last week. Thought inspired by the band The Doobie Brothers song, The Doctor
- When a child smiles it’s genuine. When an adult smiles you can’t always be sure.
Century
Write a letter to your 100-year-old self. – Now there is an interesting task from the daily prompt.
Dear Mike,
First, congratulations on your making it to the century mark. You are a medical miracle at this point and have defied just about everyone’s expectations.
Secondly it must have been great to have that last 30 or so years to fulfill our dreams. You had better finish a few books and of course built an incredible library of images and art.
I hope our better half is still by our side. Your great grandparents by now. I know you’re driving a stick shift of some kind, be it the old Miata you kept or the wheelchair you might be in.
Probably still rocking out to our old classic rock as you are the 3am hour of night like tonight.
You had better still be laughing as best possible and making others laugh.
I’m guessing you have had to endure some great losses along the way. I know you had losses throughout life. That must be tough not to have many if anyone left to share them with you.
If you’re getting this message, take a ride in this. You will both be 100 years old and still kicking. Look out at the ocean, remember your young self with your family on the beach and in the pool.
I love comic strips and cartoons
I ask for daily desk calendars usually for Xmas. The old Far Side ones are great and had me chuckling this morning. Anything that makes me laugh each day is great. I enjoy political cartoons and some of the older comic strips.
I’ll look at the daily comics occasionally and follow a few cartoonists online but it’s for the laugh. You have to laugh. And late in life, I’ve learned the more you know the more you can laugh at.
I loved watching Looney Tunes and Warner Brothers cartoons and still load the occasional YouTube clip to just sit in mindless enjoyment for a few minutes.
Sometimes I think someone could make a cartoon of some of my friends and my life. Just ask our wives, our logic is impeccable. Well maybe impeccably flawed most of the time but we make them laugh. And I mean we make them laugh hard sometimes. We are often called a bunch of characters by many. It’s certainly an animated group. Of course, the dialog boxes about the characters might not have enough room for all our banter.
But the important piece here is that you find something yourself, to help you smile, to elicit a laugh, to make you feel better.
I wrote this piece well before I took these photos, but I couldn’t resist combining two of my passions here.
Oh yeah, Coyote
And the winner is Road Runner
Watch your doors with this guy.
Big Block
Where would you go on a shopping spree? – An interesting question from the daily prompt.
I’m not much of a shopper and never had the money to go on a spree. And if we did, we went for the kids.
Let’s see, what do I like shopping for? Classic cars are nice, always wanted one. So, I guess car shows is where I could pick and choose what I want. The one below would be more than fine.
Getting a nice camera, not that I’m embarrassed about what I use, it’s just not top of the line stuff. Anyway, it’s not the camera picking the subject matter or choosing the time to press the shutter.
But if I did have money to blow, I’d probably use it to make sure my kids and grandkids are better off or get them something special. And get my better half something nice.
Just strolling through life
Saw a friend out and we acknowledged each other. He’s not too talkative. Occasionally he has an attitude where he will stomp his foot which means I’m not in the mood for it today. Sometimes though he and others will stand there and let me yap at them. They will even resume grazing.
I won’t be strolling the next two days. I’ll be out strutting. I’ve been waiting all winter to get that top down on a nice day and stretch my legs in that Miata. Also, a nice long walk outside instead of the treadmill will be nice. I think I’ll get some carry-out also and have lunch outside. It’s been a while since that treat.
Random Thoughts of the Day
- Does it feel like the good old days are behind us?
- I spent a couple of hours working for free for Verizon again today troubleshooting their issues. This is getting old.
- The weekends activities are wrapped up. Time to relax and enjoy a quiet evening.
- If you like Krispy Kreme doughnuts tomorrow is the day to go. A free dozen with a purchase of a dozen glazed.
Obscurity
There are benefits to being a rather obscure blogger. I don’t get hate comments, so far. My grammar or images might not be the best that day, or many days. That’s fine with me because I’m learning by doing.
I’m fine with it because it’s kind of a selfish effort. I do it for me and anyone else who could get enjoyment out of it. Be it a laugh, an emotion from a picture. Or maybe a random thought that connects with someone.
I do it for my family so they might have something to reflect on later because I know they are too busy to keep up with this now.
I create in hopes that something comes together that fits in with the wonderful work I see others create with such ease and frequency.
I’ve been reminded through my professional career that it’s the journey that’s the fun part, not the destination. So, I’ll get my lunch pale, tools and gloves and get to work each day.
I’ve always liked to work. I don’t like to refer to my hobbies as work, but they are work. I devote time and effort to them just like a job. Just with a lot more personal passion and fun, mixed with the limitations of time being a senior citizen and busy grandparent.
Sometimes in life I’ve felt obscure, almost invisible. Lots of times actually. And the older I get the more that feeling seems to come around. I guess that is why I feel okay with it. I’m cool with doing my own thing and enjoying life as I cook it up each day.
Another thought instead
I’m not into the question of the day – What is your middle name? Does it carry any special meaning/significance?
The only person who used my middle name was my mother and that is when she wasn’t happy with me. So that is all I have to say about my middle name.
Onto this thought then. – Days I spend with my grandchildren, I find life much clearer, fun, loving and simpler.
Waiting for your ship to come in
Waiting for your ship to come in? Referring to becoming successful or wealthy as the dictionary says. Not me, because I’m not interested in it either. I do feel successful in my own ways but not in a way society would judge as successful. And I have wealth but not the monetary kind.
I think I’m happier not chasing riches or fame. I’ve chased financial stability, which is also quite illusive, but never riches. Success is not measured by others. You have to be good with yourself. I bet if Michael Jordan had only given 50% effort and was still the best player in the game the success wouldn’t have been as sweet.
That term – waiting for your ship to come in – is one I think of when I see people playing the lottery or gambling. That ambition for much more. The disappointment when it doesn’t come. I’m drawn to that, but I know how dangerous that mindset is for me. So, I don’t gamble.
I refuse to do these betting apps or services. It’s too easy and too addictive. When I think about gambling, I think there is someone who is hungry, that could use a meal or sick and in need of a cure. So, I donate to those causes instead.
I don’t know where the right balance is. My current impression is that we swung too far the other way and have incorporated gambling and sports together and I worry that it could be the death of some sports when coaches, players, refs, owners get caught up in it. It’s just too much money for some people to pass up.
Many don’t even realize their ship has already come in with the gifts already received. That is kind of sad. One of the good things about not having it all is you appreciate what you have more. I look at some having it all in monetary wealth, as a burden.
Random Thoughts of the Early Morning
- I get to see children smile later today. I’ll let that good feeling carry me till then.
- Care about yourself, there can be many times in life where you will need that.
- Work on creating a space in life where you can thrive.
- It’s a very exciting family day.
The spot to be
Good morning isn’t it wonderful to wake up to another day. I’m beginning to wonder if the sun is going to make an appearance again. Talk about your dark, foggy, wet dreary weeks. Here is hoping for much better days ahead.
I’m looking forward to getting to the beach before sunrise and laying in the sand or standing out on the rocks watching the day begin this spring, summer and fall.
I could spend the day looking out over the water.
I took my first Uber this year.
I’ve never watched UFC MMA fighting. But I love the sport of boxing.
I always had a beard because I like it. But the time and expense I save by not having to shave each day is a nice side benefit.
I like placing good memories in my children and grandchildren minds for all time.
When I retired, I dropped keeping up with technology like a hot potato.
Did you ever have a day without one problem? Me neither.
I used to like watching CBS.
I finished my first painting in decades this year.
I have the desire to ride a skateboard again, but the sense not to.
This has been a year of big changes. Keep’em coming.
Ignoring spell/grammar check at times, makes me feel powerful.
Learn again
What is the last thing you learned? – asks the daily prompt.
I learned my energy bill was high again when it came yesterday. I learned that starting and ending the day with music is a positive way to go. I learned my expectations of people are far too great.
Swimming Along
I didn’t answer the daily writing prompt till almost 11am this morning. Usually, I knock that out well before 6am. I was up early this morning at 12:30am but failed to do it before I went back to bed for a few hours at 6am.
Now I’m feeling better and I’m back in the swim. I’m getting my weight back under control. I got a little sloppy with sweets the last few weeks.
This is going to be a good year. A good start and hopefully a strong spring season ahead. I’m feeling a little more inspired today hopefully I can maintain that and make it a productive Friday.
There is a song by The Who called Who Are You. I find asking that of myself often. I think I’ve discovered it’s a journey of constantly finding out more about yourself. Just when I think I know myself pretty well, I’m amazed at finding something new. One might think by this age discoveries would be far and few between.
On the contrary, you’re tested more as you age into your senior years. You find courage and mental coping abilities you never suspected you would need. Challenges still are there every day plus some you didn’t count on.
I’m trying to embrace this stage of life. Mentally, I still feel very young. The grandkids seem to think so because they like playing with me. I’m trying to stay more active than I’ve been in years. I escape depressions faster. I’m still learning each day and figuring out what is important.
Random Thoughts of the Day
- Even in retirement I wear a suit for half the year. A sweat suit that is.
- Hegseth is really overcompensating for something.
- Sometimes I miss standing in a crowd of tens of thousands of people at a rock concert singing along to one of my favorite bands. But watching live performances on YouTube is a lot more comfortable now. Not that I don’t get out of the chair and play a little air guitar.
- Another day and Trump is still a blight upon this country and the world.
- There is wealth in happiness.
Question
The daily prompt asks – What is one question you hate to be asked? Explain.
Would you like fries with that? No, I’m just kidding. This is a tough one for me because I like questions. They make me think. Hopefully I will have the answer to help someone. And in the process maybe learn something new myself.
Where do you want to go to dinner is up there but not a hate level, just dislike.
How are you feeling? The question is okay as long as the first answer I give is enough regardless of what it is. If I look like crap and I say I feel fine, please leave it at that.
How did your cancer test go? This is far too personal except for my family. Other people I know that have also survived I don’t even ask about tests. I ask how they are doing. If they want to share, I’m all ears but if they say fine or so far so good, I say great. I’ve had to tell my children 2 times that I’ve had cancer and that is one of the worst parts about it. I hope I never have to tell them that something is wrong again.
Doors v9.26
Time for the weekly Thursday Doors challenge with our host Dan Antion. For those who love entrances, exits and the buildings and art that surrounds them this is the spot for you. The wonderful contributions from everywhere will delight. Share your own link in the comments on Dan’s weekly Door’s page.
Well, I missed posting on Thursday by 40 minutes but better late than never.
Life consumed me again this week. That and poor weather when the opportunity did rise has led me to the photo vault again this week. A mish mash of entrances. Some with an OPEN-DOOR Theme today.
On a trip about 16 years ago to Florida with my best friends, we visited the Navy Seal Museum in Fort Pierce.
This open door seems lost on Main Street traffic.
Doors of the Georgia Grace Cafe in Ellicott City.
I never ate at Bobby Van’s in Washington DC, but heard it was very good.
The Big Sale – No Sale
What’s behind door #2
Amazing it still goes up.
