THREW Mikes EyEz

Original Writings, Images, Video and Artworks of Mike Hartley


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Memories

Monday was a very special day in my life. It was a simple day, a short trip to an amusement park. A few raindrops and some lines, but otherwise it was one of the best days.

We got to spend it with our children and grandchildren and one of their friends and children. A day at Hershey Park Pa. that came off perfectly. We went with THREE – 1-year olds, TWO 4-year-olds and a 7-year-old.

Spending a day making little and big kids smile is the definition of satisfaction. I’m beat, but a wonderful kind of beat. I’m even a little sore but I’m sitting here smiling ear to ear.

Times like this are hard for me to describe. It’s such a simple thing but at the same time so important in my memory book. Kids held my hand, wanted me to carry them, wanted to go on rides with me, played with my beard, got hugs for winning them prizes, pushed some in stroller, shared my lunch. I almost smuggled a sip of Mug Root Beer to my grandson, but my son caught me and said no. We got gifts and kept them dry when it rained.

It was a blast making stupid faces, playing peek-a-boo with them, tickling them, and watching all the strollers so the entire family could ride together as I waved to them on each circle of the merry-go-round. I danced with them when the band came by and gave the older grandchildren high fives each time they finished a ride. I helped them hold their bag while they picked what candies they wanted from the bins.

I just realized that I spent the entire day making others smile and I couldn’t be happier myself. I was so busy I didn’t even have one piece of candy the whole day I was in chocolate town. I did have two small Krackle bite size bars when I got home.

It was over a 14-hour day for us, and we slept like we missed a night’s sleep the night before.

I must admit I was a little apprehensive of how the day would go with all those young ones. Plus, the weather forecast couldn’t have been worse (rain all day and thunderstorms that never materialized). But it couldn’t have been better day.

We’d taken our children there decades ago. The park certainly has grown. It’s a park we will go back to with the children again and hopefully put some more files in the mind that I can recall as my time here fades.

I’m breaking one of the rules I have. I don’t normally run pictures of myself or family. But I was so touched by the children’s smiles and love and my own children having a great day with us and them that I’m sharing 2 of myself holding both my granddaughter’s hands that my family sent me last night.

We got to the park as they were opening.

I can’t believe how much this 1-year-old wanted to walk. Most of the time with just one of us holding on or on her own.

This one really likes my beard. She ran her hands through it as I held and walked with her.


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Lend a hand with advice

What’s the best advice you’d give someone younger than you? – A dangerous question from the daily prompt.

Advice can be dangerous. Good advice is priceless. I’ve given a bit of advice to young people over time. I’ve worked with a lot of young people and I’ve enjoyed it. Yes, I was frustrated at times but the energy and new looks they can bring inspired me during my career.

Given the fact that most people are younger than me this is what I do most days. You’d think I’d be an expert by now. But I’m not.

So, I’ll keep it simple young people –

Never give up hope, believe in yourself, find a passion, work hard at it and love a lot.

Now here is some advice, on advice.

  • Lots of people will give advice far beyond their reach.
  • All advice comes from someone else’s perspective. That necessarily isn’t bad, but it might not be the best path for you.
  • Consider the source of the advice.
  • A lot of advice is best displayed by examples.
  • If you’re giving advice to someone important to you and it isn’t received the first try, please try to find another way to impart the important information.
  • Giving advice is a lot about the proper timing for the advice.
  • People will give advice that was good in their day and may not apply to current times. And that isn’t intentionally bad advice, it’s just what worked for them in their time.
  • Most of the time people giving advice have good intentions, but there are a few people in this world that will give bad advice intentionally. We’ll let me correct that. There are a lot of bad people in this world who will give you bad advice, but thankfully there are still more good people. But this should be a word of caution on accepting all advice.
  • I’ve listened to great advice and horrible advice. Don’t beat yourself up over the bad advice and learn from it. And don’t get too cocky over the good advice, remember that came from someone else and you just used it.
Photo by Mike Hartley


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Inspire

The daily prompt asks – Who are you most inspired by?

That is a hard question to answer because there have been different people at different times in my life. My mom inspired me early on. Various co-workers and managers have inspired me over the professional years. My children always inspire me to be a great father.

My better half inspires me. But I think most of my inspiration comes from within.

Upon further reflection, I think my grandchildren inspire me the most right now.

Three children standing together outdoors, one holding an American flag.
Now there is a formation. Photo by Mike Hartley


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Before sunrise

I like being up well before sunrise.

A beautiful sunset with pink and purple hues lighting up the sky, silhouetting trees in the foreground and a grassy field.
Photo by Mike Hartley

I’m going to find some new spots this week, but it was easy to start off at the Howard County Conservancy this morning.

A picturesque sunset over a field with vibrant orange and pink hues in the sky, silhouetted trees in the background, and tall grass in the foreground.
Photo by Mike Hartley

Two things happened that I wasn’t thrilled about while shooting.

A scenic view of a field at sunset, with vibrant purple and pink clouds reflecting the setting sun.
Photo by Mike Hartley

I happened to stand on an ant colony.

A picturesque sunset over a grassy field, with vibrant orange and pink hues in the sky and a forested area in the background.
Photo by Mike Hartley

The second was it started to rain. Now the benefit of that is when I turned around, I saw this rainbow over the Snowball Stand.

A colorful rainbow arcs over a quaint building surrounded by green trees at sunset, with a gazebo visible nearby and traffic lights in the foreground.
Photo by Mike Hartley


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Best job I ever had

Happy Father’s Day. It’s not an easy role, but a very rewarding one. I work hard to be a good dad to my children and always be there for them.

Being a dad is the proudest thing I’ve done in my lifetime.

It’s a lifetime commitment to make. Many don’t realize that.

In the title of this post, “Best job I ever had.” The word job and father don’t seem compatible. I don’t look at being a father as work. But it is an incredible job to have and tremendous responsibility.

I had very limited time with my dad, so I’ve been kind of winging it since the beginning. My children will be the judge of how successful I’ve been.

Now I’m working on being both a great dad and granddad. The rewards of being a father just keep coming.

A man and a child enjoying cotton candy at a baseball game, with the baseball field visible in the background.
I can’t believe you’re going to eat that DAD. Photo by Mike Hartley

This shot reminded me that my son is taking his young son to a game soon. We are watching his baby granddaughter that evening.

Happy Father’s Day Dad.

A man in a naval uniform with a hat, smiling while crouching in front of a tree.
Dad


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Success

What’s your top tip to be successful in life? – That’s a tough one because there are so many ways people define success.

Find people you love, be with them and work hard at a passion you have.

A brown horse and its foal standing in a grassy field with trees and a fence in the background.
Stealth Colt. Photo by Mike Hartley


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Power weekend

It’s okay to feel blue.

Close-up of a light purple flower with delicate petals and a yellow center.
Get that blood flowing. Photo by Mike Hartley

I forgot that power washing is tough on the back. About 5 hours straight on the front privacy fence and I’m a bit sore. I’ll recover shortly and get mobile again.

Once I find the keys I’m going to go wind up the rubber band on that Miata and put the top down and enjoy a short ride.

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • Rumor is its Father’s Day weekend. I sense a good meal ahead.
  • Fajitas for dinner. Oh yeah
  • I’ve always missed my father.
  • You can always try harder the next minute.


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The right idea

Sometimes the simplest things make a day great. I think I’ll stop at Bruster’s today and get a cone of my own.

Two girls sitting by the water, enjoying ice cream cones, while a duck swims nearby.
Photo by Mike Hartley


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Flashback

We were in a chocolate shop in Frederick Maryland the other day and when I saw this picture from a shop in Annapolis it took me back to the smells from earlier this week. And I just gave my last piece to my better half this evening. I think she said it was liquid caramel.

A tray of chocolate-covered treats, including several caramel apples coated in nuts and chocolate drizzles, alongside chocolate-covered pretzel sticks.
Kilwins Ice Cream – Chocolate – Fudge. Photo by Mike Hartley

There is a chocolate shop in Ellicott City I haven’t been to yet. I think I’ll scope that out this weekend. As Homer Simson would say “Mmm… chocolate!“

Random Thoughts of the Evening

  • Nature put on a beautiful display of lightening bugs last evening. Swarms of hundreds in my backyard and trees.
  • I love the still and quiet of 3am in the morning.
  • When you have a smile on your face about the upcoming day, you got the reins on life in your hands.
  • Just keep plugging away, sometimes progress isn’t as evident as it really is.


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Another choice

What’s a book, movie, or TV show that you wish you could experience again for the first time? – Interesting ask by the daily prompt.

Let’s see, I plan on spending some time at the beach, so I don’t need to see Jaws again for the first time. And the more I think about this question it’s almost impossible to answer. I think back to books, tv shows, and movies and most of my favorites are linked to that point of time in my life a good while back, so seeing again for the first time now wouldn’t be the same at all.

So instead of those choices I’m going to pick music and a concert because music is timeless and hearing The Who or Led Zeppelin again for the first time live would be wild. Of course we would have to reincarnate a few of the musicians.

Silhouette of a person playing guitar with arms raised, text says 'LET THERE BE GUITAR' and 'TODAY'.


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Bird Watching

Saw this old 64 Ford Falcon Furtura in Annapolis a while back. This thing was clean.

Rear view of a classic 1964 Ford Falcon Futura showcasing its chrome accents and distinctive lighting.

Dirty Gangster Gourmet Hot Dogs –

My better half and I stopped on the way home from some shopping and had lunch. We listed about a half dozen fast food places and some others but was coming up St John’s Lane and decided to pull into DGHD. It’s right next to Rita’s.

This is such a great diversion from the standard fare along Rt 40. And I will be back for some more of their off the wall combinations.

Today though I tried the, Lucky Luciano – Mac n’ cheese / bacon / crushed potato chips

My better half had the OG with everything except the Dijon mustard. Both were very good. I think I’ll give the Ma Barker or the Kingpin a try on the next visit.

A father/son operation that is local. One in Sykesville and one in Ellicott City.

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • Tried Dr Browns Black Cherry soda today. This is on my list of unhealthy things I like.
  • The good thing about physically working on something is that you can see progress easier.
  • I think the Art of The Deal just screwed us again.
  • Kickstart My Heart is a great song if you need a little motivation to get going.
  • I wonder if people who retire and miss the aggravation at work take up golf on purpose.


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As the sign says

The sign says, “BACKYARD BOATS” and it isn’t lying. I once had a pool, and yet I feel a boat could be infinitely more expensive than that.

A stack of colorful kayaks, orange and yellow, resting on a wooden dock with vertical posts, surrounded by other boats in the marina.
Photo by Mike Hartley

A good start to the day. I’m swimming along without a boat or paddle. Just pulled the cover off the fun cart (Miata) and we will be putting the top down sometime today.

Music is filling the home this morning and I’m about to fire up the outside box. Been working on some foundation sealing and hope to finish that project tomorrow. I need more supplies so back to the hardware.

We are going shopping for something I like today. An outdoor lounge chair to replace the one my behind, fell through a week ago. It was old and even though I would get in and out of it gently, it finally gave way.


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Happy arms

What’s a common misconception people have about happiness? – An interesting ask from the daily prompt.

Wow, when I read this question my first thought went to Robin Williams. Someone who seemed so happy and spread so much of it in his lifetime was dealing with such internal pain. Behind a lot of smiles, there can be a lot of pain.

I read a simple term a long time ago. It said, “Happiness is a Choice.” I took that to heart more and the opportunity to use it has been great, but it isn’t always true. Life will throw things at you that take happiness away. Sometimes for short periods, sometimes for longer ones.

I don’t know if you can be truly happy if never experience the other side of the coin.

Happiness most of the time just doesn’t appear. Usually, it’s something you do

There is another phrase that goes, “Happiness is fleeting.” I used to think that when I was younger but now, I’m stringing longer periods together.

And you don’t have to be happy all the time. Contentment, satisfaction, listening, observing, rest and relaxation are cool.

Some people are happy just being unhappy. Puzzles the hell out of me but to each their own.

Money and prestige don’t always equal happiness. I’ve had some of the best times in smaller minor league baseball parks than the major league ones.

A young girl in a pink shirt enthusiastically cheers while sitting on a person's shoulders at a baseball game, with spectators around her and a scoreboard in the background.
It’s not the size of the fan its the size of the spirit in the fan. Photo by Mike Hartley


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Doors v21.26

Time for the weekly Thursday Doors challenge with our host Dan Antion. For those who love entrances, exits and the buildings and art that surrounds them this is the spot for you. The wonderful contributions from everywhere will delight. Share your own link in the comments on Dan’s weekly Door’s page.

I was in Frederick Maryland on Tuesday this week and captured a few doors. I know I have shot in this town before, but it’s been a few years. My apologies if I’ve captured some previous ones again. If so, I hope, it’s a new angle at least.

A bright orange door with 'Frederick Cheese Shop' signage, located at the entrance of a basement with a 'CLOSED' sign. The door is surrounded by a black metal railing and has a warning sign above that says 'WATCH YOUR HEAD'.
Photo by Mike Hartley

Tuesday’s a lot of shops are closed but there are still a ton of them open.

A brick building with a red door and a decorative wreath, featuring a rainbow flag with a triangle design hanging beside the entrance.
A close-up view of an elegant black double door with brass handles, framed by white trim on a brick building. The door features a small mail slot and is accompanied by decorative lanterns and a sign that reads 'Elliott's.'
Entrance of The Body Lab at 32, next to Treaty General Store, featuring a brick facade and a welcome mat.
Front entrance of a blue-colored storefront named 'Kitchennette,' featuring large windows, a black door, and a sign with a rolling pin design.

Photos by Mike Hartley

Different but same.

Exterior view of Classic Electric Tattoo shop featuring a red door and colorful signage.
Photo by Mike Hartley

I love art, just not on my body. Not that I have anything against it on someone else.

Exterior view of InBloom Jewelry store featuring a decorative sign, large windows displaying jewelry, and vibrant flower pots at the entrance.
Photo by Mike Hartley

A touch of green.

View of a barber shop window decorated with lights, featuring various vintage signs, barber tools, and promotional posters.
Photo by Mike Hartley

Lights, camera, cut.

A red-brick building entrance featuring the number 25 above the door, with a brown door partly open, and a potted plant on the stairs. The door has posters and a sign with 'A & D' visible. A fire hydrant is located at the base of the steps.
Photo by Mike Hartley

R&D – No parking on these steps. Fire hydrant.

Entrance doors of the National Museum of Civil War Medicine featuring hours of operation and a 'No Soliciting' sign.
Photo by Mike Hartley

With RFK as Secretary of Health and Human Services, I’m wondering if he will make this site his new office soon.


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Skill

The daily prompt asks – If you could instantly master any skill, what would it be and why?

I’ve always wanted to know either how to play drums or piano. I just have an interest in those instruments. And to have mastered that and be able to create music all day would be wonderful.

Close-up of a drum with 'THE BEATLES' printed on it, displayed in a shop window.
Drum set in window of Bill’s Music in Catonsville. Photo by Mike Hartley


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Green with envy

Some days you just walk by something that you wish you had the keys to.

Classic green car with white racing stripes parked at a car show on a sunny day, surrounded by trees and a crowd of people.
Beauty by Chevrolet. Photo by Mike Hartley

But back to reality. A beautiful morning breeze complementing the sunshine. My camera battery is fully charged again, and I’d like to get another hundred or two images taken today. But the mower called my name and now it’s afternoon. A trip to the hardware for supplies for more work this weekend.

I did take a quick joy ride for about 40 minutes and now the day is almost behind me. I’m going to have to buckle down and work on the hobbies this evening with a vengeance.

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • Is it really better to be alone with your thoughts? I guess it depends on the day and thoughts.
  • There may be a lot of intelligence in the USA. I guess we have chosen not to utilize it.
  • People make a lot of commitments they have no intention of filling.
  • If your parents are alive, make it so you don’t have to look back and say I wish I knew them better after they are gone.
  • Trump is a cancer that has metastasized and is killing this country.


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Finding my path today

Don’t know where I’m headed, but it will be forward and with a smile.

Close-up of yellow flowers in front of a calm pond surrounded by greenery.
Just like a good handling car it’s good to have a nimble mind to handle life’s twist and turns. Photo by Mike Hartley

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • I have lots of pictures on my walls because I like the memories they invoke when I get a moment to pause from the screen.
  • There is a sticker inside the trunk of my car that says, “I’m on island time.” I like seeing it when I load my camera equipment.
  • The need has started to look up finger exercises because these digits don’t seem as strong and nimble as they used to be. I fear arthritis may be coming.
  • There are days I feel I have no control.


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Growth

What is one way you have grown this year? – Another good self-evaluation question from the daily prompt.

My beard is longer. Just kidding even though it is a bit longer.

These questions are good for me because sometimes I get too busy making the right and wrong decisions and moving on at times.

I’d say I’ve grown better knowing what I want and using time better and on the right things. Both with people and activities. I didn’t get off to the best start in this area but I’m hauling now.

And speaking of time I haven’t been in the seat of my Miata in a few days and I’m about to put my shoes on and go warm that up, put the top down and show my support for The Manual Gearbox Preservation Society.

A red convertible sports car parked on a road with green trees in the background and a partly cloudy sky.
Photo by Mike Hartley


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Go west they said

We took a trip to Frederick Maryland today, which is west of us. And what a beautiful place to walk on a sunny but very comfortable day.

Group of people standing near a waterfall feature surrounded by flowers in a park-like setting.

And a good opportunity to take my camera out.

A view of a clock tower with a golden cross on top, situated against a blue sky with scattered clouds. In the foreground, a building with a deck and colorful umbrellas can be seen.
Photo by Mike Hartley

Our first trip to The Wine Kitchen and a wonderful lunch outside. Both service and food were excellent. And we will be going back to try dinner someday soon.

Exterior view of the Wine Kitchen restaurant with outdoor seating and patrons dining at tables under red umbrellas.
Photo by Mike Hartley

We walked the Carroll Creek path which is 1.5 miles after lunch. We will incorporate the park next time, which I think I read this is a 3 mile walk total. We also walked a bit of the town.

A scenic urban park featuring a curved pathway beside a pond with a fountain, surrounded by greenery and benches under a clear blue sky.
Photo by Mike Hartley

There were a small number of lilies out, but peak season is July and August I believe.

A vibrant pink water lily blooming amidst green lily pads on still water.
Photo by Mike Hartley

The skies were that indescribable shade of blue today. Because as the day moved along so did the shades of blue.

View of a church with two tall spires against a clear blue sky, partially obscured by green trees.
Photo by Mike Hartley

And as the sign below says, “FOREVER FESTIVE FREDERICK” and it does seem like a festive place. I always leave happy.

Corner view of a brick building featuring large windows and a sign that reads 'Forever Festive Frederick'.
Photo by Mike Hartley


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And we’re off

What a beautiful day to be out and about. It’s your choice of what you want to do with it. You can be laid back, with the years showing but still rolling and relax and enjoy OR you can meet the day like a ball of fire and burn through it with many adventures and rowdy behavior.

Today I’ll try a little bit from cup A&B.

Two classic cars cruising on a road, one with a vibrant orange and yellow flame design and the other in a sleek gray finish, amidst a backdrop of urban buildings and signage.
Rolling art. Photo by Mike Hartley

Got a good night’s rest for a change of pace and ready to attack the day. The body isn’t in full cooperation yet but were working on that.

It’s going to be a good day. I’m going to will it into effect. Be it here, there or everywhere I go.

Random Thoughts of the Morning

  • A rarity, I was up before sunrise but so busy I missed it.
  • I tried to talk to the deer out back this morning, but they weren’t having it.
  • Never take a shower for granted.
  • Found a new source of inspiration today.
  • I dread to look at what the Commander and Crook is up to this morning.


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So many things

What is something you wish you could tell your 20-year-old self? A good question from the daily prompt.

Wow that is a long list of things to tell myself now that I have almost 50 years of experience beyond that age.

First, even though I was serious about my work I was busy raising so much hell I probably wouldn’t have listened to much advice. You think you know a lot by the time you’re 20.

I’m going to give two quick answers even though the list I have running through my head now is a long one.

You only have one body. Take care of it and don’t abuse it.

Your mind is your strongest asset. Have confidence in yourself. Make good decisions. Choose friends wisely. Be inspired. You’re capable of much more than you think you are currently, so go for it.

An elderly man with glasses and a straw hat is painting on an easel while a young girl in a pink shirt watches him attentively. The background features a crowd and some green shrubs.
Art and youth. Photo by Mike Hartley


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A busy Monday

Lots to do this fine Monday in the Mid-Atlantic. Some great weather ahead following those storms of last night to do it in.

I love early mornings. Sometimes long before sunrise. But watching light come through my window while I’m working away is a nice feeling. This isn’t the view out my window but it’s a 5-minute walk away.

A serene landscape at dawn featuring a misty field with silhouettes of trees against a pastel pink and purple sky.
Photo by Mike Hartley

Random Musical Thoughts of the Morning

  • Live life like Angus Young plays guitar.
  • It’s not a bad idea to start the day with a song about love.
  • If it’s too loud you need to think younger.
  • I got up around 2am so Train Kept a Rollin All NIGHT Long here.
  • The Land of Confusion is in our Nation’s Capital.


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Boundaries

Write your guide to setting healthy boundaries in relationships. – Not such a simple ask from the daily writing prompt.

Wow, just thinking about this is complex because boundaries are different in different relationships. It’s also something that I don’t think about much. I guess I’ve set boundaries over time that people who know me know what they are.

I think one boundary that a lot of my friends and I have come to in our senior years is that we don’t want a lot of negativities around. Life is too short to negative. Not that we don’t get there now and then on a point, but we don’t stay there and stay on topics we enjoy more now.

Okay, I admit I’m a little soft on my knowledge on the topic even though I feel like I’ve been good at communicating with people on this topic on what mine are. So, I found a chart to help me.

Physical – I’m a physical person. I shake hands with people, I hug people, I kiss those close to me. I respect others physical boundaries and don’t expect them to be the same as mine.

Emotional – I respect other feelings, as long as they respect mine.

Intellectual – The thoughts, beliefs and ideas of others are theirs. And they can have them because it’s a free country. That doesn’t mean I have to accept or agree with them.

Time – this is a tough one for most people. Who do you spend your time with and how much. People have expectations of time, and this is often the cause of tension in relationships. It’s not just showing up on time. It’s the quality of time you give people and would like from them.

Material – property, giving and lending. Be very clear in these areas. As with all boundaries, communication is key.

Spiritual – Wow this is a touchy one. I once had a close friend of many years who became very involved in faith to deal with another issue. He said to me that I’m going to hell because I didn’t believe exactly like he did. Our relationship was changed for the worse when that transpired.

Sexual – Having been married many decades you would think we got this one down. But as we age, that also changes, so you need to adapt and talk.

A rustic wooden fence along a grassy area with small trees in the background under a cloudy sky.
Don’t forget to set those boundaries and communicate them early. Photo by Mike Hartley


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Milestones and mowing

I always have my eye open for colorful shots. I’m not sure how to describe this one. But it’s one I’m leading with tonight because like those shirts I feel bright and happy.

And there is good reason for this. My one-year-old granddaughter said Papa Papa today. And I got to play with my grandson most of the afternoon.

Four colorful mannequins in rainbow 'Love Wins' shirts are displayed outside a stone building, surrounded by ivy and outdoor seating.
Shot in Old Ellicott City. Photo by Mike Hartley

I didn’t get out to shoot because before the children came, I was mowing grass. And that’s not a short task. The sun was bright today and hot. Not as bad as yesterday but still a warm one.

In keeping with the goal though I will find something to shoot before the day is over. I did get some photos uploaded to my Zenfolio space. That is going to be a big effort this summer. Getting images into that system every day.


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Flag Day

I’m not a big flag waver. We put some out on Memorial Day and July 4th but that is about it. Just a few small ones along the garden. But today is Flag Day so I thought I would participate here.

Close-up of an American flag waving on a tall ship, with rigging and blue sky in the background.
Our flag, it doesn’t belong to the right or left, it belongs to all of us. Photo by Mike Hartley

I have a military funeral flag from my father’s burial that is displayed in a nice case some kind person sent me and is displayed in front of 34 8×10 prints of my favorite shots from Arlington National Cemetery where my parents are buried.

Close-up of a stone sculpture depicting a draped American flag with stars and stripes against a blue sky.
Beautiful headstone at Arlington National Cemetery

A neighbor up the street has a flagpole and had theirs up all the time before they moved. They have sat empty since.

A house with a gray exterior featuring two flags: the United States flag and the Maryland state flag, surrounded by a neatly landscaped yard.
Flags at attention today. Photo by Mike Hartley

For the last 9 years of my career, I looked out my window at these two flags that flew over the Washington Post building on 15th street NW. For the first 17 years I walked under them to enter the building.

A display featuring two flags: the American flag on the left and the District of Columbia flag on the right, both framed and illuminated in a modern setting.
Photo by Mike Hartley


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No more part time effort

Part of blogging in my opinion is the interaction. I started off with a nice balance and maintained that for many years. This last year as I’ve increased my own production and worked harder on some of my other hobbies creating, I’ve dropped off reading and interacting in WordPress.

That was a bad development because a lot of the enjoyment of working in this environment is reading and seeing all the wonderful work others produce. I started to pick up my reading this past week but I’m going to start carving out more time to look at the creations of others.

Close-up of an orange lily flower with yellow and red accents, featuring a small fly perched on one of the petals.

In a lot of ways even my own creative efforts have been part time. Time to cure that oversite also. I’ve always hated the thought of being on any schedule in retirement, but without one I’m not accomplishing my goals. I’m off to discover a better mix. That might mean cutting some other things out. Or finding more efficient ways to do other things. Taking advantage of opportunities, I’m missing now.

Close-up of two vibrant orange daylilies with yellow and red accents, surrounded by green foliage.

An easy adjustment is to reduce my time on the TV. Also, I’ve got to find a more efficient way to get my news. I waste time on both those things.

Yesterday I was pretty busy working around the house and yard, but I said I’m going to pick up the camera every day. So right before I got in the shower at the end of the day, I walked over to my neighbor’s garden and snapped a few flower shots.

Close-up of a vibrant orange daylily flower with ruffled petals and a slender stamen, set against a blurred green background.

I’m going to get more efficient in the blogging process. Preparing more posts in advance and working on more weekly challenges.

Then the hobbies that have gotten off to a much slower start than I had hoped for. Both painting and drawing are way behind, and I have several unfinished carving projects.

Long as I have my health, I know I can turn this thing around.

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • I hear there is a big party in NYC this coming Thursday.
  • Though I complain about the aches and pains of life, I certainly have great appreciation for all the years I’ve been given.
  • We can pull his name off buildings but it’s going to be harder to erase the stain on this country he’s made.
  • I thought someone was trying to break into my house this morning. It was a red-headed woodpecker pounding on my fence near my back door.
  • Now I know why my mom had so many magnifying glasses around her house.
  • MAGA fans don’t forget to get your $11,999.99 Trump coin before their sold out.


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I like this planet

The daily prompt with an out of this world questions this morning. – Do you think humans will ever colonize Mars? What would life there actually look like?

The answer to the first question is no. The answer to the second question is, I don’t care. I like life here on earth and if we start taking care of ourselves and this planet it could be a beautiful place.

So, what to pontificate on this Sunday morning.

I think a day trip is in order this week. And I’ll get the firepit roaring in the evenings again, being it’s going to cool off a bit this week.

How to make the best use of today? Stay busy. Take a ride with the top down. Love and play with my grandchildren. Eat smart.

There was a deer with her newborn fawn in my backyard this morning.

The Knicks won the NBA championship. Proving it’s still a TEAM game. No superstar, just a bunch of guys playing together.

Well, it looks like the timing for that bad weather and the UFC fight on the White House lawn are set to kick off around the same time. Thank you, Karma. The place looks like hell. Half the house torn down, cock fighting in the front yard. I’m sure they’re bringing some outhouses in for all those people. All we need is a few cars up in cinder blocks and a few more trailers and were there.

A wooden waterfront building beside a marina, featuring boats docked next to a pier, with a cloudy sky in the background.
Some high broken clouds this morning in Maryland. Photo by Mike Hartley


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Slipped by me

I thought I was good on automotive history, but I completely whiffed on this one. I had never heard of Fisker before I shot this picture when I was in NYC and looked it up as I was editing what I thought was a throw-away shot. I’m not sure I’d want a vehicle with Pacman painted on the roof.

Top view of a blue Fisker electric car with a solar panel roof featuring a blue geometric design.
Photo by Mike Hartley


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Fishing again

We need to get out on the bay or offshore on the Atlantic Ocean soon. We always had more than just a good time together. Epic weekends for the history books are the norm.

The 3 brothers and Kim and I make up the Allview Fishing Team. We lost one teammate a bit over a decade ago. And the rest of us are no spring chickens, so we better get our behinds in gear and get out on the water again.

A man smiling while fishing from a boat, holding a fishing rod with ocean in the background. Another person is partially visible behind him.
I was a little heavier on this trip. It’s been a while since this team was out together. We might have to rectify that situation soon. Rumor is that 2 of our team of 5 was out yesterday on the blue waters off the Florida coast. Photo of me, by Capt. Dan McMullen if I remember correctly?

I rarely if almost ever run a shot of myself. But this one reminded me of some good times. We have caught marlin, sailfish, tuna, rockfish, shark, and mahi mahi, if I remember correctly. Nothing like fresh caught fish and prepared that day.

Sort of reminds me of the younger days catching crabs off my friends dock and steaming them up and having a feast. When I was very young my Uncle Frank taught me to fish on Lake Ontario, when we would visit in the summer. Unfortunately, most of the time it was around a funeral.

Even though I love to fish we have been caught in a few storms which always makes me respect the water. Fortunately, we had good captain’s and came through fine.

I won’t be needing my sea legs today unfortunately. I do know I’d rather have a pole in my hand than the weeds I’ve been pulling half the morning.

Oh, the eye patch is a joke. One of my nicknames has pirate in it.


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Fav meme

What is your favorite meme? – Asks the daily prompt.

I love comedy and memes are funny, but I don’t spend a lot of time with them. I pass a few on FB but that is about it.

This is one of my favorite old ones.

A smiling man with disheveled hair, accompanied by a humorous quote about hearing voices.


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Doors v20.26

Time for the weekly Thursday Doors challenge with our host Dan Antion. For those who love entrances, exits and the buildings and art that surrounds them this is the spot for you. The wonderful contributions from everywhere will delight. Share your own link in the comments on Dan’s weekly Door’s page.

I’m a day late, can’t keep my schedule straight in retirement. Certainly not my best work this week. Just some shots as I was passing through areas on my way to someplace else. This coming week I promise a much better post. I hope you all have a wonderful weekend.

The first three shots are from a small town in Maryland called Lisbon.

A brick building featuring a sign for the Maryland Horse Council and an entrance with white stairs and a green door.
Photo by Mike Hartley

The screen door on the side wasn’t as attractive as this guy out front. Hey it’s Maryland, what do you expect. We love our crabs.

A gray house with white trim and a large white crab sculpture in the front yard.
Photo by Mike Hartley

Doors, I don’t need no stinking doors, if the gate is shut, I make my own. Plus I don’t have to lean over as far in this pasture.

A brown and white cow grazing in a green field, with a wooden fence and pasture in the background.
Photo by Mike Hartley

Some of us are still looking for our door.

Abandoned white building with a brick entrance, overgrown with vines, surrounded by greenery.
Photo by Mike Hartley

I was standing on the sidewalk when I took this shot. And I didn’t zoom in.

A red door with window panes next to a white chair on a front porch, featuring shutters and a light fixture above.
Photo by Mike Hartley


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Carry on

The daily prompt asks – What’s a cultural tradition from another country that you wish existed in yours?

I was aware of a few traditions from other countries, but when I looked at some of the others, I was enlightened and somewhat surprised.

One stood out to me that I wasn’t aware of. In Finland, it has been traditional since the 19th century to participate in eukonkanto – the sport of wife-carrying. There’s even a Wife Carrying World Championship.

So, if the World Cup isn’t your thing or coming to the USA isn’t desirable now (I understand and apologize) you can get to Finland for the 2026 championship in July.

A person carrying a child on their shoulders while walking along a pier with a clear blue sky in the background.
Carry on. Photo by Mike Hartley


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To create like a child again

Like this young man dancing on the piano keys below, I wish I had the freedom that youth allows, to create magic. I feel like time has taken some of that away from me. That is why I like watching my grandchildren so much. To see them explore and create freely. Without too much thought, without delay, without preconceived parameters.

Interior view of FAO Schwarz with toy zebras and giraffes displayed in the window, a large piano mat on the floor, and children playing.
At the FAO Schwarz store in NYC. Photo by Mike Hartley

It’s still inside me. Just pushed down by the weight of time. That magic that just gets you working with abandon. I’m going to work to unleash that again.

So, if you see me dancing down the street on my imaginary keyboard just smile and say he found his mojo.


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Zoom Zoom

In addition to driving a Mazda, I also have a Zoom lens.

A panoramic view of a city skyline featuring tall buildings, with the One World Trade Center prominently in the center and the Statue of Liberty visible in the distance across the harbor.
Skyline looking out to Statue of Liberty. Photo by Mike Hartley

I’m just getting back to doing some editing of some shooting I did when visiting NYC. There is so much more to see there that another 2-3 visits will just scratch the surface. I’d like to get out to the Statue of Liberty next time. Instead of reaching out through the camera.

A distant view of the Statue of Liberty situated on a small island in the harbor, surrounded by water with a boat passing by and a backdrop of city buildings.
Zoomed in from the same spot above shot was taken. Photo by Mike Hartley

Another spot I needed my monopod that I didn’t have it. I’ve really got to start taking that with me every time I step out with the camera.

We will do some local trips before heading NYC again or other destinations. This weekend it’s going to be too steamy, and we have grandchildren commitments.

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • The Grifter and Chief
  • Age sneaks up on me most of the time when I see a mirror.
  • It’s pizza for dinner. Life is Good.
  • Nobody is noticing I’m letting my beard get longer. I guess it’s a gradual thing.
  • This month is moving by too fast. Flipping my daily calendar is like flipping a day away.


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Share the ROAD

I love riding bikes. I don’t do much of it anymore but seeing this group got me thinking about visiting the local bike shop again.

A view from a car dashboard looking out onto a rural road with two cyclists riding on it. The road is flanked by greenery and a fence, under a partly cloudy sky.
Photo by Mike Hartley

There had to be a group of 30-40 riders along Route 99 that day. It’s a great stretch of road between Rt 32 and Rt 94 and beyond really. Everything going west is good.

It’s going to be tough working outside. Feels like temp is 102 now. Looks like it’s time to sweat a few pounds off.

Random Thoughts of The Day

  • I said it a while back and I’ll say it again. The Knicks look like a team of destiny.
  • Those moments where you’re doing things and then a few more things and suddenly realize that you did them without pain of any kind. It’s like this victory that nobody saw. And then a pain of some kind returns and normal life resumes.
  • Bank of America is pissing me off again.
  • Keeping a positive mind is a lot of work at times.


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Visiting

What are the biggest mistakes people make when visiting your country? – Tough question from the daily prompt. Hope I don’t misinterpret it.

I would guess people think there is a lot more crime and violence here than there actually is. Another thing I might think people visiting would make is with food. Portion sizes here are large compared to other parts of the world I believe.

I’m thinking America has a reputation of being a rather rude or in your face country. I’d say a small percentage of us behave like assholes. Most of us are very friendly.

When you’re traveling state to state pretend you just entered a different country.

Don’t assume we have competent leadership here.

This is a tip and tax country.

I guess most countries have some form of racing. And some of you might have seen racing in the USA also. Maybe the Indy 500 or Daytona 500. Well, we don’t really separate that from our highways here so if you’re renting a car, get ready to compete.

There is a lot of Natural and Man-Made beauty in this country. It’s also a very BIG country and if you are out wandering be careful and know the environment/weather before venturing out. Speaking of weather, don’t underestimate it. We have it all, hurricanes, earthquakes, tornados, floods, blizzards, ice storms.

There are a lot of chains here in the USA. But just like your home country some of the best places are local independently owned restaurants. Locals will gladly share the best spots.

Have a great visit please. Despite our incompetent leader and his circus clowns we love other nationalities and ethnicities. Those who hate are too stupid to realize they built a lot of this country.

View of the Washington Monument with American flags in the foreground and the U.S. Capitol building in the background under a clear blue sky.
Washington Monument and Capital. Photo by Mike Hartley


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And the winner is

The most colorful couple I saw today. I love seeing people hold hands.

Two people walking hand in hand on a city sidewalk, one with blue hair and the other in a black hooded garment, surrounded by urban shops and street signs.
Photo by Mike Hartley

The winner of the largest family in town today.

A group of eight young ducks resting on the ground, surrounded by greenery.
Photo by Mike Hartley

And the winner for best seat in the house goes to this at the back of parking lot D.

Two wooden lounge chairs with footrests placed on a gravel area, surrounded by greenery, with a red barn in the background.
Photo by Mike Hartley

A spot I’ll be trying next week for breakfast or lunch. The Little Market Cafe.

A cozy outdoor seating area with white Adirondack chairs and a stone fire pit, surrounded by green plants and a black iron fence. In the background, a shop with colorful decorations and tables can be seen, along with umbrellas providing shade.
Photo by Mike Hartley

Stopped by and saw the participants and winners of the Paint It contest by the Howard County Arts Council. They will be on display for a while and there were some wonderful pieces at the old City Court House 8360 Court Ave.

I hope your Wednesday has been a good one.

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • Feeling unusually tired today.
  • I wonder why we are allowing an unstable person to have the nuclear codes.
  • Didn’t get caught in that thunderstorm today. Still got a walk in, luckily.
  • I see the circus has come to the White House lawn.
  • Ellicott City looks stronger than it has in years.


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So many to choose from

What’s a song that always puts you in a good mood? – Now there is a good question from the daily prompt.

I’ve been listening to music this morning as I’ve been working on several things. And I’m in a good mood so the group that has put a pep in my step this morning has been The Doobie Brothers. Here are some songs from them that have been filling my headphones.

  • Long Train Runnin’
  • Neal’s Fandango
  • China Grove
  • Need A Little Taste of Love
  • Rockin Down The Highway
  • Without You
  • Dangerous
  • The Doctor
  • Slow Burn
  • Listen To The Music
  • Nobody
Graphic featuring a guitar silhouette with the text 'Music & Connection' and the tagline 'The Key to a Great Time' on a dark background.


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A weekend, with no end

I used to look forward to the end of the work week and the beginning of the weekend. After almost 2 1/2 years of retirement that feeling is pretty much gone. Only the calendar, pill box, and other people’s schedules that are still working keep me on that cycle.

I do have some weekly goals that do focus on that timeframe but not like a work week. It’s very liberating but also a sense of detachment from the rest of the world. I stay as flexible as possible and try to accommodate other’s schedules.

My professional life in newspapers started off on a weekly basis because I worked for a weekly firm that published 12 local papers and did printing for several other weekly or monthly commercial products in the region. So, everything was tied to a weekly schedule. That went on for 23 years.

A blue banner with white text that reads, 'I love the smell of newsprint in the morning. NEWSEUM.'
I do miss it, the smell of newsprint and some great people, not the grind. Photo by Mike Hartley

Then a sudden shift to a daily newspaper for the last 26 years of my career. That is a strange existence. Daily means 365 days. No break, no holidays, no weekends. It just all blends together. The only differentiation between the week was when I was getting called at home on the weekend instead of being there.

And sometimes during my career the weekend was during others workweek. Most of the time there it never really felt like there was a weekend. So many were interrupted or spent working. I’ve worked hundreds of holidays over the years.

Daily businesses always do their critical work like upgrades, at the least busy times. Could that be weekends, nights, holidays? That was the most exciting and pressure filled work I’ve done. I loved the work I did and the areas I got to work in. It was also brutal on life.

Now I’m into the rewarding part as a senior in retirement. I still have a boss in my better half, and truth be told the kids and grandkids think they are assuming control. My granddaughter has already told me this is her house. And my almost 4-year-old grandson claimed my tractor a few weeks ago

I’ve completely made life about looking at just the next day. Yes, there are a few errands and chores, as there is every day. But that need to get up and go work for someone else for 5 days is history and I feel for my family and friends who are still in that cycle.

Today I put my heart and soul into my hobbies and those close to me.


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More and less fear

I’ve written before on some fears I’ve overcome, and how I did it. – But the daily prompt insists on asking it again.

For a while after retirement, I thought the number of fears I had were increasing. Now a couple of years into it, I feel less fear than I did before.

Some have changed. I used to drive back and forth to Washington DC and some of the busiest surrounding areas. So, driving in some of the most congested and dangerous areas was nothing. Now the beltways and interstates aren’t that comfortable anymore now that I’m not competing in the daily death race back and forth to work.

As I was getting into my 50s, I used to fear getting older and sick again. That fear is faded because I guess we all eventually accept the inevitable. I just make the best of each day now.

I never feared speed before. I don’t think I fear it now; I just don’t have that desire anymore. I don’t think it’s out of fear, but I guess anything is possible.

You ever stop fearing for your children or grandchildren. I just spend as much time loving them and with them and that helps.

I used to fear people who I thought were super intelligent. Then I realized that most of them have big deficiencies in other areas.

The thing that scares me the most now are those ads for these meds with all the nasty side effects like death and things like that yet living. I hope I never have a need for them.

My main fear now is the messed-up world we are leaving our children with. I’m going to try to overcome that fear by working on changing it for the better.

A tall amusement park ride featuring a drop tower with seats for several people, topped with an American flag and surrounded by colorful banners.
Screams from above. Photo by Mike Hartley


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Remember Eye Contact?

I remember eye contact. And I miss it on many levels. Damn technology.

A man and a woman sit on a curved concrete bench in an urban park, both using their smartphones. They are surrounded by trees, modern seating, and city buildings.
The new art of conversation. Photo by Mike Hartley


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Paths today, paths yesterday

I think a lot about paths. I’ve walked a few different ones. All 4 of my newspaper companies had unique paths. I remember the day I drove into the Times building on 8307 Main Street in Ellicott City. This was my entry into the field.

Here is this Newspaper plant in the middle of the sleepy town. Across from the lumber mill and a few doors down from the firehouse, which was a daily reminder as they sped by with sirens blaring to save life and property.

This pathway (below) is behind the old Times building in Ellicott City. That used to lead to a dirt/gravel lot used by employees.

Two individuals walking on a wooden ramp leading to a parking area, surrounded by parked vehicles and bare trees in the background.
A path started in Ellicott City. Photo by Mike Hartley

The small walkway pictured above actually was built on top of that old bridge which if you look closely, you can still see below the freshly constructed walking path. Yeah, we used to drive cars over that rickety structure and park in a lot behind the building.

That is all paved nice big parking lot D now. Both of those bridges are gone now courtesy of the floods last decade and weren’t replaced.

One day my path took me to that Times building where my mom worked to pick her up from the job on the way home from my first semester in Community College. There were two guys just a little bit older than me arguing in a hallway leading to the Composing area. We might have called it flatting back then I think. 1975 was a long time ago so bear with me.

Anyway, the argument escalated and someone said, “you’re fired” and then someone said, “I quit,’ And I heard one gentleman mumble now I got to hire someone. BINGO. I spoke up and said I was looking for part-time work. And so, my career (didn’t know it at the time) began. That part-time gig quickly turned into full-time with as much overtime as I could work, which was anywhere between 20-30 additional hours a week.

I was just starting my second semester at the time and funds weren’t plentiful. Plus, I was working in a photo reproduction/engraving area. Which was somewhat related to my Applied Art and Design major. Well, those hours and paychecks quickly became more important than school so my career in Newspapers had begun and college came to a close.

I always park in that lot now behind the building and look at it. And think of those days over 50 years ago. I was standing on that bridge for the last picture they took of me for last employee edition of the company paper when we bought out in 79.

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • I like jerk seasoning much better on chicken than shrimp. Secrets in OC has some good jerk chicken.
  • Some doctor visits can give you a good perspective on what is important in life and what is the small stuff.
  • I just noticed on the bag of animal crackers that the animals are no longer in their cages. Lions and tigers, oh my.
  • So much for the rule of law. Being that’s been usurped I’ll be making my own.


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Just a Thought

Wasn’t my idea but I don’t mind promoting it. Found it outside a shop in Annapolis MD. I do know they got one part of that shirt right. We have lost that lovin’ feeling.

A navy blue t-shirt and matching cap displayed on a mannequin, featuring the text 'Maverick Goose 28' and the slogan 'You lost that lovin' feeling.'
Photo by Mike Hartley


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Build some by doing

What’s the best way to build self-confidence? – Asks the daily prompt.

This might not be the best advice. I’ve always had issues with self-confidence and still do. Just doing this blog each day is a bit scary to me.

But through the help of others and the assistance of age I’ve learned a few tricks.

  • Good mental health. You can’t do your best when you’re not feeling your best.
  • Watch, Learn, Practice
  • Even if you’re afraid, go ahead and do it anyway.
  • Study and work hard.
  • Acknowledge your achievements, no matter how small.
  • Try not to worry about what others are doing.
  • At one time I thought things had to be perfect. Once I lost that anchor I started to do more.
  • Success can come in an instant. But most of the time it can take a lifetime. So don’t give up.

Take hold of the wheel and go.

Close-up view of a wooden ship's steering wheel on a boat, featuring a chrome center and polished finish.
Photo by Mike Hartley


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Chipping away

A far more productive week than the previous one has me feeling good this Sunday evening. Concentrating more on what I accomplished than what I didn’t.

So, let’s set the bar a little higher this week. I got a great start on chores today so I should have some creative time to work on a few projects this coming week.

Workers using ladders to paint the exterior of a white building on a sunny day.
The side of the new River House Pizza. When it opens.

These guys got more painting done this week than I did but it’s the first thing on my list for Monday morning.

A cluster of white daisy flowers, including fully bloomed and partially closed buds, surrounded by green foliage.

My better half has been busy making the gardens look great.

A close-up view of vibrant pink and orange begonia flowers, creating a lush floral arrangement.

I was going to stay up late and work, but I think I’ll crash and get up well before sunrise and work then.

Close-up of pink flowers with green buds and foliage in a garden setting.

Photos by Mike Hartley

Maybe I can get out the door well before sunrise for some night shots.


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Passing and Pain

This is Woodstock Road in Howard County Maryland. One of the many single lane roads that connect this county, like blood vessels through a body. Many of these back roads have hills, corners, blind spots and PEOPLE who live on them pulling in and out.

A cyclist wearing a bright neon shirt rides on a rural road, with trees lining the sides and a vehicle approaching in the distance.
We can do better. That double line is there for a reason. Photo by Mike Hartley

I’ve been run off the road by people passing on hills. I’ve had to come to a skidding halt to avoid being hit. I’m tired of it.

When we first moved here many decades ago, the speed limit was 40 mph. It was probably 20 maybe 30 years ago when the county changed the speed limit to 30 mph. It makes sense given the change in elevations of this road and the serious curves and hills beyond this stretch of road photographed.

That part is even worse with no shoulder, just a guardrail and rock in some spots. At both ends of Woodstock Road are busy establishments that have been here forever. The Snowball Stand and The Woodstock Inn. Both are popular and have patrons walking in and out most of the day and night. Right on the ROAD.

I’m trying to think of solutions because someone is going to die soon. We recently had another long-time neighbor move and one of the reasons was the crazy drivers here and almost being hit several times on this road.

Look, I’m not talking about being a bike rider on this road which I also think is insane but, in a car, and being almost hit. Lots of times it’s just people not paying attention to and crossing the center line. As you can see there is no place to go in spots. This happens almost every time I go out.

This road gets every kind of traffic from motorcycles to 18 wheelers. There is a lumber mill further up the road so trucks with monster trees and dump trucks sprinkled in. I like them because they slow things down and people rarely risk passing something that long.

Hey, this isn’t just a problem here, it’s everywhere. Too many risk takers for a few seconds’ advantage. And on Woodstock Road, that is usually negated by the train crossing at the bottom of the hill where EVERYONE waits.

Have a good day. I’ve got to drive the mower a bit before I venture out to this road. Wish me luck and may you all have luck on the roads today.


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Missed one

I neglected to include this image of one of the talented artists working in Ellicott City Friday for Paint IT in my earlier post about this event. The actual exhibit Howard Country Arts Reception is June 8th from 6-8pm.

An artist painting outdoors on an easel, wearing a straw hat and blue apron, in a vibrant green park setting.
Photo by Mike Hartley

Those storms this evening knocked out my power 4-5 times, but they were short outages. The winds were blowing pretty good and I’m sure I have some branches to pick up once daylight hits again.

I’m torn about what I want to accomplish today. Some mental turmoil going on so laying in the hammock, taking a ride, getting an ice cream sounds good. On the other hand, the yard needs cutting, a gutter is clogged, I need to change the oil on the mower, I’m sure the storms have the decks littered with debris and that is off the top of my head before looking at the to-do list.

And then there is my desire to photograph, paint and finish a carving for my granddaughter. I got a good start on cleaning my office last week but there is more to do that would help production. I’d like to read some today.

I guess it’s nice to have options. I’ll end up doing a mix of chores, fun and hobbies as usual, but it would be nice to have a day to just focus on the hobbies all day.

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • I’m beginning to feel the nocturnal life is more suitable for me.
  • The stillness after a storm is eerie. Especially at night.
  • It is my belief that you appreciate the good times much more because you’ve experienced other extremes.
  • I find it sad that some people going into retirement feel like they don’t have anything left to accomplish. I guess I’m not wired that way.
  • I used to stretch before playing sports. Now I have to stretch every morning because life is now a sport.


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Subscribers

The daily prompt asks a good question today – How do you build loyal subscribers?

We used to have a saying in the newspaper business that “Content is King” meaning if you have good and interesting content, well displayed organized and illustrated, they will come and stay.

I hope something I present here connects with people maybe an image makes them smile or laugh. And I thank you for subscribing if you choose to.

It’s not that I don’t care about people looking at this. I’ve met some very nice and supportive people here and I love this environment more than other social media platforms. Not that I utilize others much. A little Facebook that I’d like to ditch because of ownership, but life is short and I’d still like to keep a few long-distance relationships I have going through that platform.

I’m puzzled by some of my subscribers, some are just doing it to get their site attention and they are selling something. Others in faraway places in the world puzzle me also.

I’m guessing a few may subscribe for nefarious reasons.

But back to the question, (my mind wanders often). Obviously the first change I’d make is to make navigating my blog easier. I’d switch off this out and no longer supported theme. I’d have sections for the work I’m presenting. I’d build more things to promote interaction. I’d build value into the site by providing expertise, experience, information, and views that are important to a target audience.

You find out what your subscribers want and provide that information to them. You can entertain them, maybe it’s finding other like-minded people to that bond to build something bigger and better. Like the challenges that people run.

I do this for fun. I do this to improve my skills. I do this to grow mentally and challenge myself. I do it in bits and pieces between a very busy life. None of this probably builds loyal subscribers. I do this because of my daily publishing background has somehow ingrained in me to publish daily on my own.

One day I’ll get my act together and make this something that will have some significant subscribers because I hope to have much better content. And Content is King.

But it won’t matter a bit to me if that doesn’t happen either as long as keep having fun at it. Thankfully subscribers aren’t what drives this effort. Not that I don’t appreciate them, the comments and likes makes me think someone enjoyed my somersaults.

A person performs a handstand on the beach at sunset, while another individual photographs them. The sun sets over the ocean, casting golden reflections on the water.
Kicking it to sunrise. Photo by Mike Hartley


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Shine on

Keep it coming sunshine. I’m loving it. Got out this morning for sunrise.

A beautiful sunrise with vibrant shades of purple and pink clouds in the sky, over a misty landscape with trees and a lush field.

Left my monopod in the other car so these are handheld.

A vibrant sunset over a misty field, featuring colorful clouds in shades of pink and purple against a clear sky.

They were shot at the corner of Route 99 and Woodstock Road in Howard County MD. Overlooking the Howard County Conservancy. I love mornings like this.

A vibrant sunset with orange and purple hues, silhouetted clouds, and dark tree outlines in the foreground.

I was up well before sunrise and got the whim to head up to the corner by the Snowball Stand.

A vibrant sunset with shades of pink and purple, featuring scattered clouds against a silhouette of trees in the foreground.

A nice mix of clouds and clear sky.

A serene landscape at sunset, featuring a vibrant pink and purple sky, with silhouetted trees and a misty field in the foreground.
A colorful sunset with shades of purple, pink, and orange visible among clouds, silhouetting trees in the foreground.

Played with a few different settings, angles and focal lengths.

A vibrant sunset with orange and pink hues spreading across the sky, silhouetting trees in the foreground.
A vibrant sunset with a colorful sky filled with clouds, silhouetting trees in the foreground.

I like getting out on summer mornings. I wish I could make that a habit year-round but that isn’t happening.

A vibrant sunset with shades of orange and yellow, casting a warm glow over silhouetted trees against a colorful sky.

Photos by Mike Hartley

Some time with family today will limit shooting this afternoon but I hope to get out this evening for some more images. I do have a few more hours this morning to play. Maybe some bird shooting from the deck. Let me get at it. Have a good morning, all.

Restaurant Review

Grille 620 in Turf Valley MD – It had been a few years since we ate there last. Not because we didn’t like it, there are just tons of great places to eat around here. But I had a taste for a good steak, and I wanted one close by. Both were accomplished.

Service was great. If I remember correctly, our servers name was Gabe. We did two apps; the Crab Stuffed Mushroom caps and the Thai Shrimp which was the best I’ve had. For the stuffed mushrooms I’m used to the shroons being a little more done, but they were still very tasty.

The 8oz. Fillet was perfectly cooked and very tender. The potato/mushroom/onion side was also very good. We split a Creme brulee which was also good.

Outside seating on a perfect evening. The umbrellas took away the sun and made the evening perfect. Inside looked a little dark for me. Maybe it was just coming inside from the bright sunshine to be seated. Overall, a great meal and time. We will be back.

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • First cortisone injection in my foot. An interesting experience.
  • Each ride is its own slice of heaven.
  • The entitlement of some people always surprises me.
  • Always rely on yourself. That way if others disappoint, you still survive.
  • The overpopulation of people makes it seem like there is an overpopulation of deer.


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wrong proverbs

The daily prompt asks – Share a proverb you think is completely wrong and make your case.

Blood is thicker than water. – That can be true with some family members but maybe not all. I’ve seen and been part of fractured families. I’ve had friends closer to me than family.

Don’t cross that bridge till you come to it. – Wrong, planning is important. If you don’t think ahead, you might not consider the options you have when you get to that bridge.

Every cloud has a silver lining – While a lot of them might, not everyone does. Just like storms, some roll in right behind one another with bad news.

Fall seven times, stand up eight. – I’m all for perseverance but see a doctor if you’re falling that much.

A view of a bridge spanning over a body of water, with multiple bridge structures visible under a clear blue sky.
Photo by Mike Hartley


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My contribution

I’m not a painter yet. I saw many talented artists out working today at the Paint Ellicott City Plein Art paint fest. So, as well as photographing them I thought I’d try to paint with the camera also and came up with this shot.

A reflection in the water of the stone walls and a tree. I should have flipped it over.

Reflection of green leaves and structures on a calm water surface, capturing the interplay of light and shadow.

Oh, yeah, I like that angle even better.

Reflections of greenery and rock formations in calm water, creating a serene and abstract visual effect.

Well, enough playing, I’ve got to go clean up dinner dishes. It was good, I haven’t lost my touch.


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Friday Funday

Been out and about for most of the morning and home for a short bit before I headed out to capture some artist participating in the Plein Air contest. A few shots of some of the artist below.

I also got to attend my granddaughter’s elementary school picnic today. The second chance to attend her school events and I love them. Watching the proud parents interact with the children. The kids playing effortlessly with each other laughing and screaming. The danced together for the parents who all had their cameras on.

The teachers watch with eagle eyes over the children. So many smiles and laughs. Watching them run with abandon, fall, get up laughing and continuing to run, jump, climb, crawl, leap, roll and hug each other. 1st graders are so cute.

Almost forgot to charge my main camera battery before leaving today. I’ve got to get a spare for that.

Paint It! Ellicott City is an annual plein air event that is held in June with an exhibit that is on view through August. There is a juried portion with special awards and a reception hosted by HoCo Arts.

An artist in a wide-brimmed hat paints on a canvas outside a shop with a sign that reads 'Elizabeth Jane'. A mural of a boy on a bicycle is visible on the brick wall beside them.

I got to town late and I’m sure the heat made some get out early and pack up early.

An artist in a large straw hat painting outdoors, with a second person in a hat working with a camera under a sunshade in a park-like setting.
An artist wearing a straw hat is painting at a wooden easel on a sidewalk, surrounded by a clothing rack with dresses and a brick building.

There were a few artists still working hard in the heat.

A bearded man stands next to an easel in front of a store, intently looking at a blank canvas while holding a paintbrush. There is a decorative sign for 'Stone House Collective' nearby, listing various vintage goods and services.
A man with a beard and glasses is painting on an easel outdoors, with a colorful storefront in the background.

Photos by Mike Hartley

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • A nice evening for a drive.
  • When are one of these men or women going to call Trump out for being a rude to his face and tell him that he doesn’t know his own asshole from a hole in the ground.
  • Must have been a good time this week because Monday – Friday flew by.
  • Time to attempt to fix my special dish again. I’ll take a picture of it later. Unless I’m starved and dig into it before shooting.
  • I guess CBS expects to steal viewers from FOX to make up for the loss of everyone else who used to watch. Good luck with that strategy.


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Window

A window into this person’s world.

A close-up of a red car's rear window featuring a sticker that says 'tell your dog i said hi'.
Photo by Mike Hartley

Kind of ironic I ran into this shot while editing this morning. It reminded me of last night with my best friends. One of which just had his dog pass unexpectedly. When we get together, he would always bring his dog, and my other best friend also has a dog so they would play and keep each other company when we get together each week.

Last week she knew something was wrong when he didn’t show up with his buddy. This week was even more pitiful. She followed him in, sniffing him relentlessly trying to pick up an essence of her old friend. She doesn’t understand. She spent the rest of the night looking down the hall for him.

Each of us has a lot of windows. I don’t open many of mine too often. But at other times I guess I over share with both windows open and the top down for a full view of the vast empty space between my ears.

Every now and then I feel like I find a nugget of inspiration and success. Be it here in the blog or a photo series I do.

I’ve always driven with my windows open. I’m not an air conditioner type person. I grew up without it at home or in cars, so I guess that’s why I tolerate heat better than most. I’m driving around in 90-100-degree weather with the top down many summers.

Today looks like a hot one so the top will be down on my afternoon jaunt. Speaking of which, it is time to get motoring.


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Mates

Do you believe in soulmates? Why or why not? – Asks the daily prompt.

Soulmates is a term I haven’t used a lot, but I feel like I’ve had several. So yes, I believe in them.

That connection that is stronger than most. The feeling that they know you and you know them on a deeper level.

Lots of marriages have found their soulmates and their love for each other is boundless and unconditional. Soulmates look into your eyes and you into theirs.

Soulmates don’t lose connection because they are naturally drawn together. You understand them easily. You can understand their pain and empathize with them. You say good things about each other and support each other. In ways that make you both better.

You’re in sync with each other, you listen better and interact with enthusiasm.

The other day I remembered an old childhood friend. We were soulmates. I’ve been married to my soulmate for decades. And luckily a few more are soulmates that I’ve had for decades.

Soulmates can rescue and save you at times in life. And you for them.

Why do I believe in them. I’ve experienced it.

Sometimes soulmates never speak a word but communicate more than most people.

A woman in a blue shirt and black shorts sits on a step, holding paws with a golden retriever beside her. They are in a garden-like setting with greenery in the background.
Getting by with a little help from my friends. Photo by Mike Hartley


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Doors v19.26

Time for the weekly Thursday Doors challenge with our host Dan Antion. For those who love entrances, exits and the buildings and art that surrounds them this is the spot for you. The wonderful contributions from everywhere will delight. Share your own link in the comments on Dan’s weekly Door’s page.

Sorry about missing last week. Life kind of got out of hand for a few moments, but I’m back in the driver’s seat. At least this is fresh shooting from this week. Trying my hardest not to reach into the archive.

I can’t resist this town (Ellicott City). One because I love walking it. And several other milestones in life happened here.

Historic stone building decorated for a celebration, featuring red, white, and blue bunting and hanging flower pots on the balcony, with a traffic light in front.
I’m having a hard time celebrating right about now, but I do appreciate the effort. Photo by Mike Hartley

Not the best doors but they have hinges and a handle, so they pass the mustard.

A small, closed wooden door set into a stone wall, featuring black metal hinges and a padlock.
A blue double shutter mounted on a beige wooden wall.

Photos by Mike Hartley

Too bad these doors below are on the second level. If memory served me right, I think there was a balcony there at one time in history.

The sign might be hard to read but it says “Warning – Due to the current workload, the light at the end of the tunnel has been switched off”

A barred window with a wooden frame on a building exterior, featuring a decorative wheel element near the top. A sign is attached to the bars.
Photo by Mike Hartley

The peeling words on the door on the right read Hocus Pocus.

A metal barred gate leading to a fenced area, partially revealing wooden shelves and a utility box inside.
A close-up of a black door with glass panels, featuring the words 'HOUSE POOLS' partially visible on the glass.

Photos by Mike Hartley

Sturdy Door.

Close-up view of a stone house entrance featuring a white door adorned with a wreath, flanked by large windows and a set of stone steps with metal railings.
Photo by Mike Hartley


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Love to see

What’s something you’d love to see in the future, but know you probably won’t live to witness? – Interesting question from the daily prompt.

I’d love to see peace in the world but that certainly won’t happen in my lifetime.

I’d love to see great leadership appear and guide this country in a better direction. I guess it’s a possibility, but it seems so far off.

I’d love to see people live in better harmony with the earth we live on. We are abusing our own home. And I probably won’t be around to see the real damage we have done.

I’d love to see all my grandchildren as adults finding their love and being happy.

Abstract metal sculpture resembling a tree or floral design, set against a clear blue sky.
The People Tree by Lake Kittamaqundi. Photo by Mike Hartley


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Get your goat

What issue will get my goat today? Politics, weather, gas prices, waiting to see if the guy doing my A/C checkup is going to give a thumbs up or down?

A goat resting on the ground, showcasing its distinct horns and multicolored fur against a natural background of grass and rocks.
One of the critters at the Howard County Conservancy. Photo by Mike Hartley

How about none of them. Yesterday was like that. Few things if any got my goat. Well, the occasional bad driver, which is unavoidable if you even start your car, but otherwise it was a stress-free day.

A doctor’s appointment is on the agenda but that is all the commitment I have for today.

The fact that the day is flying by so fast is troublesome but that just means I need to make better use of my time. Picking up the camera bag and doing a little shooting before and after the appointment sound like a good idea.

I hope few things if any get your goat today. It’s too nice outside here for any nonsense today.


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Keeping it simple

Do you believe in minimalism? – Asks the daily prompt.

I reckon so. And I find the less I have, the less I have to worry about.

The most important thing are not things.

A collection of various paintbrushes in a jar, featuring different sizes and bristle types, with a blurred background.
I like painting with minimal colors. Photo by Mike Hartley


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Utilizing

Feeling like I’ve got a good jump on being more active this month. Now to sustain that effort each day. This one was easy because it was just one of those early June days with low humidity and just a little below average temps with a slight breeze.

The only downside is the amount of pollen in the air. But we made it through without a sneeze.

Second walk of the month was at the Howard County Conservancy. What a great day for it also.

Exterior view of the Gudelsky Environmental Education Center featuring a stone facade, large entrance windows, and steps leading up to the building, surrounded by greenery and blue sky.
Exterior view of the Gudelsky Environmental Education Center featuring a stone wall and a staircase leading to the entrance.

Nothing but blue skies and comfortable temps in the low 70s.

A decorative metal sculpture featuring a bird surrounded by leaves, situated in a landscaped garden with a stone pathway and lush greenery.
Wooden bench in a garden surrounded by greenery and blooming white flowers under a clear blue sky.
A scenic view of a landscaped garden featuring a winding stone path, benches under a wooden pergola, and lush greenery under a clear blue sky.
A scenic view of a grassy field framed by two trees and a stone wall, under a clear blue sky.

It’s 232 acres that I plan on fully exploring.

A gravel pathway leading up to a house, with stone steps and a railing on the left. Lush greenery surrounds the area with trees and a bench visible in the background under clear blue skies.
A tall, green tree surrounded by lush foliage, with a partially visible tree stump in the foreground under a clear blue sky.

Wear your hiking shoes.

A serene forest scene featuring a small stream flowing through lush greenery, with rocks and grass along the water's edge.
A serene view of a shallow creek with smooth stones and lush green grass on the banks, reflecting the surrounding trees.

It’s nature so of course there is some color.

A cluster of purple flowers surrounded by long green leaves in a garden setting.
Close-up of a vibrant purple iris flower surrounded by green leaves.
A close-up of a large white peony flower with delicate, ruffled petals surrounded by green leaves.
A small fish swimming near the sandy bottom of a clear body of water, casting a shadow.

I plan on getting to know the 5 miles of trails well in the future.

Close-up of a vibrant pink peony flower surrounded by green leaves.

Photos by Mike Hartley


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Sun Work and Fun

What a nice stretch of weather. It feels so good to be outside in the sun, watching nature. Life is good again. Been working hard the last few days. But I’m sensing the need for balance so maybe a little relaxing this week.

My friends say I work too hard for a retired person. Maybe I do, I’m not sure. I know it keeps me more active. I know if I hired a lot of this work out, I wouldn’t have a tractor for my grandson to ride on. And I’d have a lot less money to spend on eating out and other things I like.

I do know I want to work harder on this and a few other things this second half of the year so there is no time like the present to get moving.

Yesterday I walked Ellicott City. Today I believe we will go for a walk at the Howard County Conservancy and grab a few images along the trails.

Observation. I saw the county road crew go up and down the street and into each court. I saw them doing some curb repair as I was pulling back into the neighborhood. So did they fix the 3-foot divot in the curb in front of my house. Noooo. That damage wasn’t by my doing either. I got back after a trip and saw that.

I thought the county would fix it when they patch the other parts of our decaying curb structure. Funny I paid my property taxes. Maybe I’ll send a note in with the next one and tell them to take off about 3 square feet on their next assessment. Maybe the supervisor will take a ride by and see they missed it.

A close-up view of a fire pit with flames engulfing logs, creating a warm and inviting atmosphere.
Photo by Mike Hartley

Meant to fire up the firepit last night but got tired again. Tonight it will be blazing again.

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • Trying to make the world a better place, one image or thought at a time.
  • Getting my weight under control again. Got a little sloppy with the sweets again.
  • Shell (the gas company) has lost my business for lack of customer service.
  • Ants are persistent beasts.
  • When the hell did I start being concerned about gas mileage when buying a new mower?


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Let’s Do It

What’s a moment in your life that felt like it was straight out of a movie? – Asks the daily prompt.

We were nearing the end of a wild vacation trip that ended in Daytona Beach Florida. We were debating whether to stay another day or two. That morning we were speaking with some friends back home and they told us about a party that evening. We said we’d be back the next day or the day after that.

But after having breakfast we joked about showing up and surprising them. We continued to joke about it but let some time lapse and then looked at each other and said “Let’s Do It.” That became our moto because the movie Animal House had just been released and we saw it on the 2nd day of a 9-day trip.

That drive was like a Smokey and the Bandit or Cannonball run movie.

We had my nice old Camaro and broke a few speed limits, we’ll all of them on the way back in record time and showed up and surprised the crew. We took turns driving, each tank of gas, which that V8 ate like candy.

One of those stupid things you do as a youth. It was the most fun I’ve ever had driving though. And one of the best vacations ever outside of family ones.

I don’t have a good shot of my old favorite, but it looked like this but in maroon color.

Classic orange muscle car driving on a street with buildings and greenery in the background.
Photo by Mike Hartley


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A start

Bang we’re off in the month of June and it’s one of my favorite times of the year. The beginning of the SUMMER season and the great outdoors and sun. I must have some secret sun worshiping genes passed down to me because I’m drawn to it.

I went for a ride this morning and got a haircut. Great way to start the day.

I thought I’d try to start taking a few shots around the county each day and posting them. A good way to get my butt out of the chair and out and about.

Construction worker in a green shirt and hard hat working on the rooftop of a building, with windows visible behind and greenery in the background.
Work continues at the old Flour Mill in Ellicott City. Photo by Mike Hartley

Above and below, inside and out of that giant structure.

A construction worker in safety gear is using a scissor lift to work on a building entrance, with plywood boards on the walls and a sign warning of overhead power lines.
A lower entrance to the mill project. Photo by Mike Hartley

A good seat to watch the progress.

Exterior view of a café with a brick facade and a black roof, featuring orange umbrellas over outdoor seating where customers are dining.
Breakfast at the Old Mill Cafe. Photo by Mike Hartley

The sun was hitting the castle nicely this morning.

A unique, partially stone castle-like building surrounded by greenery, featuring a large window and decorative architecture on top.
Historic Castle Angelo. Photo by Mike Hartley

By 10am I’d finished walking up and down Main Street. Good exercise.

A street view featuring a vintage clock tower in Ellicott City, Maryland, with an American flag waving above it. Nearby, there are parked vehicles, a streetlamp, and a fire hydrant, set against a backdrop of buildings and trees.

And the bell told me it was time to get going.

Bell tower with a weather vane and steeple in the background against a blue sky.
Bell at the Firehouse Museum. Photo by Mike Hartley

Personal remembrance –Today was one of my best childhood friend’s birthday. He passed a few years ago and I do miss him. He was one of those people that you have a connection with and in sync with them. Big Pete was one of those people to me. A genuine person that passed too early. RIP Bob.

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • Lots going on inside this head of mine. Unfortunately, more questions than answers at the moment.
  • If you like doing something, get busy doing it.
  • The yard, a love hate relationship. I hate it when I start working on it and love it when I’m done.
  • I don’t dislike shopping when I have something to buy and money to do it.
  • This is an interesting neighborhood I live in.
  • Hegseth is someone trying hard to be badass. If you compare his talk to military commanders who are quiet and measured in their tone and response, it’s because they know they are badass.


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Walk this way

The daily prompt asks me to – Go on a walk today and share a photo of something that catches your eye.

I had already planned on going for a walk today. Later this morning in fact and yes, I would have my cameras with me as normal. That is what I do now in retirement. I take pictures when I get the opportunity. I write, draw, paint, and carve also.

The problem in fulfilling this request is that I usually do the daily prompt between 2 and 5am. Not the ideal walking time on a cool first morning in June. Kind of dark also.

So, I’ll share a photo I took on a walk recently. And as always, my intent is as the sign says below. Framing Life’s Best Views is my mission. Along with some levity.

A view of blue storage containers behind a fence, with a yellow sign reading 'Framing Life's Best Views' in the background under a clear blue sky.
Walking in Annapolis MD. Photo by Mike Hartley


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Feeling

“Got a crazy feeling I don’t understand.” What a great line in the song Ozzy’s Flying High Again. I’ve had a lot of crazy feelings in life. Good thing I stopped acting on most of them. But many remain and surface every now and then.

I don’t know what I’m feeling today. A mixed bag of emotions, then again isn’t every day. I have trouble staying on an even keel. I worked hard and feel good about that but I’m restless and frustrated. So, time to turn it around this evening.

Sometimes I read inspirational quotes I’ve saved. The one today I liked was –

An artist cannot fail; it is a success to be one. – Charles Horton Cooley

Which has inspired me to finish a painting tonight. Might also attempt some night shooting. I’m certainly going to do some writing. And get a plan for shooting for the next few days.

Sunset view over a highway with cars driving on a curved road, surrounded by trees and clouds.
On the road again this week. Photo by Mike Hartley

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • I’ve got to finish writing a note to a good friend for his anniversary.
  • Confidence to overcome problems is a very strong asset. It’s gone in ebbs and flows in my life, but I feel it returning.
  • Lots of people are pretending all is fine, when it’s not.
  • So far, I don’t need any of those meds they advertise on TV. And I hope I never will because they sound worse than whatever they are treating.
  • Sometimes I feel like it’s too late. I hate that feeling.
  • The last day of May and I’m disappointed in a lot of things. Going to do better in June.
  • I’ve got to call an electrician and get some work done here instead of seeing if I glow or not.
  • I may have picked a bad season to start letting my beard get longer. It’s getting grey. I wonder if I could play Santa? I’m sure I could get it that long by the time the season rolls around.


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Simple can be best

The last two days with my children and grandchildren have been wonderful. My daughter and her daughter yesterday for some play, laughter, lunch and cake. We have used our deck two days in a row and have been loving it.

My son visited the day before with his children and we also had lunch and played for hours.

These simple times can have some real memories in them. From a young grandchild grabbing my hand strongly with so much excitement it’s hard to understand them talking about where we’re going and what we’re doing but I slowly pick it up. But just feeling one of them squeezing my hand is something I’ll cherish.

Mostly because I know it has a lifespan. Then again, I can see my granddaughters holding hands as I congratulate them on their graduation years from now. And certainly, a firm handshake from my grandson and a big hug from all of them.

So many things about a simple life appeal to me. Not having a huge home or expensive cars to worry about. Not having to travel far and wide to be happy. Being close to my children and grandchildren that we can see each other with ease. Having friends, I can gather with regularly.

We don’t need the Michelin 5 Star restaurants; we have some local favorites that suit us just fine. I don’t need a seat on a cruise ship; I have my hammock on my old pool deck.

I don’t need the latest and greatest camera equipment; I’m fine with my outdated and average cameras.

I think I’ll keep this Sunday simple.

A red and white beach umbrella providing shade on a sandy shore, with a beach chair and a straw basket nearby against a backdrop of the ocean.
Right time, right angle, right day. It’s easy when someone else sets up the still life for you. Photo by Mike Hartley


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2 Books

What’s the first book you ever finished and still remember to this day. – Asks the daily prompt.

That is a long time ago to remember the first book I ever read. I still have a few old books on my shelf that may have been the first I remember. The first is Operation Deep Freeze. From my dad that is signed by the author Rear Admiral George J. Dufek who he served under. Dad went on operation Deep Freeze I & II.

It’s also signed by several of the captains of the ships on those voyages. Those go over a few pages, so I just shot the author’s signature.

The other book is American Sports Hero’s by Fred Katz.

Cover of the book 'Operation Deepfreeze' by Rear Admiral George J. Dufek, detailing the story of a polar expedition, featuring a naval insignia and images of ships in a polar landscape.
A handwritten note that reads 'To James Hartley With Sincere regards George Duffle' on a blank page.


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AdVice

What’s the most profound piece of advice you’ve been given? Did you take it? – Interesting questions from the daily prompt.

A wise person once said to me at work. “Mike, you know this area in and out and you love it. You’re an excellent teacher and skilled but I need you to let go of it and be involved in new things that keep us growing.

Yes, I took it and it helped me take some more risks in the future that worked out well.

So, my advice to you is to go for it.

A traffic signal displaying a green light, with colorful flags, including an American flag, hanging from a building. Street signs for Main St. and Maryland Ave. are visible.
Its green and the town is trying to get going.
Photo by Mike Hartley


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24 hours

The daily prompt asks – If you had an unlimited budget for 24 hours, what would you do?

I’m cranky and don’t like questions like this. Spending time in fantasy land instead of doing something productive is counterproductive to me.

Thinking like this fuel’s addictions like gambling. That goal of money and greed isn’t good. But it seems that is the focus of so many of us.

Even if you were thinking of doing good for 24 hours that is an enormous task. And it’s too much responsibility for me to even map out in post this morning. Plus, my grandchildren will be here within the hour, and I have to turn into Mr. Entertainment.

Me, I’m going to stay and spend within my income budget and try to make the world a better place and enjoy the people around me today.

A vintage pocket watch is partially buried in shredded paper money, displayed under a glass dome on a wooden base.
Photo by Mike Hartley
A vintage pocket watch encased under a glass dome, surrounded by shredded currency, symbolizing the concept of time and value.
Photo by Mike Hartley
A vintage pocket watch displayed under a glass dome, surrounded by a mound of shredded paper.
Photo by Mike Hartley
A vintage pocket watch displayed under a glass dome, surrounded by a circular arrangement of shredded paper resembling currency.
Photo by Mike Hartley


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House of Pain

I chose the title of this post (House of Pain) because a song titled that came up this morning on a mix I was listening to. That song always causes me to pause and think about pain.

Today is the anniversary of my mom passing. 15 years seems like a long time, and no it doesn’t feel like yesterday, but it also doesn’t feel like 15 years. Mom meant the world to me, and she tried to make our home and my life and my sisters the best possible. And she did a great job.

No home is perfect. Families struggle with mental and physical health issues. Financial and career problems. Addiction monkeys on members. Trying to have a family meal together but family members are going off to war. The day-to-day pressures of life and relationships.

I’ve seen a lot of pain in a lot of households. And enough in my own home growing up.

A woman in a striped dress sits at a table, crafting with scissors. Various artificial flowers are arranged on the table, alongside a framed photograph and decorative items in a cozy, vintage-style room.
Mom doing one of the things that made her happy. I still have that picture of her and my father in the background on the shelf above my desk.

Families though have many things hidden to others. Ours was no different. But things only stay under wraps for so long.

In going through some more old family things yesterday and today I was reminded of some very worst of times. Tragic events that eventually lead to my father’s death. These must have shook her to the core and caused a lot of pain.

They lumped in with many others in my memories of that time that I didn’t realize the seriousness of or was shielded from it at the time before I was 5. But by time I was 6 or 7 years old, I knew serious things were happening. At 9 I was fatherless and at 42 mom was a widow.

I don’t know anyone who had dealt with more pain in their life than her. And I wasn’t the best of help in my teenage years shortly after his passing. I’m glad I changed and helped make her life better.

She had some good days later in life but her first 50 years were a struggle of epic proportions. Losing both of her parents at a very young age. Growing up in the Great Depression. A husband away in WWII and Korea. And many other personal family issues she dealt with my father and stayed by his side and tried her hardest to help him. She also had a great deal of courage facing physical problems both early and late in life.

I’m glad I have memories of better times with her, but I will never forget the sounds of her crying when I was young.


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Shows last

What’s a show that had the perfect series finale? – Asks the daily prompt.

I was always a big fan of the show M*A*S*H and thought that final was good. There were two others that I also liked. The Newhart show and Cheers had good finales.

Of course, Derek Jeter last game at Yankee Stadium was also great with a walk-off hit to win the game in the 9th.

Five baseball umpires gathered on the field near home plate discussing a play, with a player visible in the background.
It’s not over till we say it’s over. Photo by Mike Hartley


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This That There

There I go again, off on another tangent. This must stop. That rage must end.

Okay, I’m better again. Could be the music I just turned up. The prospect of seeing my children and grandchildren this weekend. The thought of the sun appearing tomorrow after a week of absence. Maybe that twitch in my left leg, and right hand can be cured by that manual transmission once I rip the cover off.

I’m sorry, after a week of sitting the traction control button is going to be disabled and the top will be down.

All these things have me looking up. I know I’m behind on some fresh shooting for this week. I captured my favorite Hawk Monday between the rain taking in the view from a power pole in my back yard.

A close-up of a hawk perched on a wooden fence post, surrounded by green foliage.
A close-up of a hawk perched on a wooden post, surrounded by green foliage.

Someone is pretending to ignore me.

A close-up of a hawk perched on a wooden post, showcasing its brown and white plumage against a blurred green background.
A red-shouldered hawk perched on a wooden post, viewed from the side with a blurred green background.

No matter how far he turned his head I bet he never lost sight of me.

A red-shouldered hawk perched on a wooden post, surrounded by green foliage.

Photos by Mike Hartley

And of course, after he finished pretending we looked at each other for a good bit.

I feel kind of creative today. Must be this cleaned up office. I just put a fresh stack of 8×10 semi-gloss in the printer, so I think I’ll make that hum for a bit.

I might try some night shooting when darkness rolls in.

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • I forgot that I really liked the Bob Segar song Shakedown a lot.
  • My mom had beautiful penmanship. I didn’t get that gene.
  • I have a choice to express myself or not. Why waste the opportunity to go wild.
  • Today feels like a day to mess with a telemarketer caller.


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Pony UP and Jump

The more I look at the classic cars the more I’m convinced if I ever need another car (I’m keeping the old Miata) I’d get a classic muscle car.

Well so much for the morning fantasy. I’ve gotten the latest start to the day today in a long time. Guess I needed to catch up on some beauty sleep. It’s not helping that aspect but mentally I do feel a bit more refreshed.

A classic 1960s gray Ford Mustang driving on a road with green bushes in the background.

Today is the last day of cloudy skies and rain for a bit. It’s been feeling swamp like the last few days, but at least it’s helped the drought situation here in the mid-Atlantic a bit. There is a downpour going on outside right now and some thunder.

A classic red Ford Mustang driving on a city street, showcasing its shiny chrome detailing and vintage design.

The Purge and the Priceless

It has begun. My office is already 100% better and it has inspired me to continue so I’m sorting through my old things and my parent’s things.

So many photographs, I’m both very thankful and feel like I’ve been assigned to be a photo editor for two people who have prints from 3-4 decades and they weren’t bashful in pushing the shutter apparently.

I’ve made purges in the past; my mom was an avid gardener. And she also loved taking pictures of her flowers and gardens. I mean lots of them. Years and years of blooms. Or holiday photos or the cat pictures. But as always, some old gems that are priceless and that I want kept in the family for historical purposes.

The few antiques that need to be looked up for value if any. Then comes some tougher things. The personal items. Most of which have gone through a sort or two before. I don’t want to leave my children an overwhelming amount of stuff to go through like we did.

I have a box in front of me of medium size filled with newspaper clippings. Most of my dad’s stuff from his later days in the Navy in the 50s and early 60s. Lots of historical things from ships travels and bases on Operation Deep Freeze I and II. His work in DC at Bethesda Naval Hospital.

Today I learned a lot more about my father in a letter to my mom from a Captain that served with him for years. I learned some great things, but it reminded me of some very tough things. Some that I experienced when I was young. My dad had health struggles late in his young life.

But I’m extremely glad to have a better picture of him when he was healthy and the work, he did and how he went about it. Things I never got to talk to him about.

Found a shot of his of this penguin jumping on Operation Deep Freeze. I have a number of slides he took that have a lot of nature there also that I have to digitize. I haven’t run into too many prints yet but there are a few more boxes.

A group of penguins on an icy landscape with some swimming in the water and a mountainous background, captured in black and white.

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • Family is a lifetime commitment.
  • Tomorrow the cover comes off and some seat time in the convertible will be had.
  • I’ve added ice cream to my list of additions. I wish I could help myself. I guess working in an ice cream factory at a young age scarred me for life.
  • By the end of the day, I will no longer be embarrassed to bring someone into my office.


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Dinner with friends

The daily prompt asks – If you could have dinner with any philosopher, who would it be?

I’ll be selecting my close friends. They aren’t on any list of any famous philosophers of the past or present. But we are all great philosophers and provide endless enlightenment and solutions, far and wide each time we gather.

We have been doing it for decades. For most of our lives it’s been weekly gatherings from the time we were teenagers. We have explored every facet of life with abandon and humor. We never run out of thoughts and almost die laughing together on many of our observations and takes of life.

Were a bunch of nuts who love to have a great time. Sometimes after a day of fishing. Maybe a ballgame. Or just our regular weekly gathering exploring fixes that are sometimes eye opening or very funny and absurd recommendations. Most of the time after a very hard week at work and raising a family and trying to stay sane.

In our younger days we were always gathering after we finished playing basketball together. Watching a football or hoops game or just raising holy hell which we tended to do regardless of the reason for getting together.

We have had so many fun dinners together. Where everyone contributed to the prep, cooking and cleaning. All the while getting toasted as Joan of Arc. Retiring to the front porch to watch the sunset over the water and continue pontificating on the world and everything in it. Then retiring to the firepit for the final analysis and shots for the evening.

When one of our stalwarts tries to stand and asks what round it is and someone says the “fights over man”, and others grab his arms and say “were going to the locker room” as we walk him back towards his house and bed.

Close-up view of a roaring fire with flames dancing around logs, casting warm light and creating glowing embers in a fireplace.
Thinking is always better by a fire. Photo by Mike Hartley


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Handle it, don’t crash

How do you handle fear and self-doubt? – Asks the daily prompt.

Interesting question to field so early in the morning. I believe I handle those two differently.

Fear is quick and I don’t let it get to me. Yes, it’s a natural response in situations but it’s how you deal with it. I learned about handling fear when riding a motorcycle.

One of the first things I learned is not to overreact. Grabbing the front brake too hard and you fly over the handlebars. Stomp the rear brake too hard you’re going to skid and lose control. The front brake is about 70% of the stopping power so it’s a balance of using both brakes the right way and staying in control that helps you stop the quickest. At least that is the old logic. It’s been a few decades since grabbing the throttle.

Luckily, I had a good friend explain that to me early on and practice makes perfect. Well almost, it’s still how you react in that situation. But if you’ve done it lots of times it’s more likely you will survive.

Next with fear is fixating on something instead of thinking and looking ahead. You go where you look on a bike and if you’re focused on the problem then you’re heading right towards it. What are your alternatives/actions you can take.

Emergency fear on a bike. Someone once told me that people react in one of 3 ways. Some just shut their eyes and shut down. Some are transfixed on the problem ahead and then there are those who react/avert and save themselves.

Self-doubt I have more issues with. It’s plagued me throughout my life. Few people can beat me up like me. Even when I know I’ve done well or a good job, I’m always picking it apart.

Self-doubt has kept me from even participating in things or taking positions at work.

Age helps overcome self-doubt. That experience leads to more confidence at least while taking the next step and moving forward. Having good people around you will help you with self-doubt because they will acknowledge that you have skills and smarts. And encourage you to do more.

I got much better in dealings with self-doubt in my 30s and 40s and had overcome it in my 50s and 60s at work when I had a duo of confidence and experience to balance it out.

But then an interesting thing happened. Age betrayed me. In my last year of work, I noticed things that used to be root knowledge I was suddenly questioning myself again and looking at my notes to make sure I was right. I was always right but self-doubt had crept back into my life.

And in retirement I feel that more again now not being so sure of things. I guess I have more work to do in this area again.

A person riding a red Harley-Davidson motorcycle in traffic, wearing a black helmet and a beige jacket.
Ride safe. Photo by Mike Hartley


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Paused

One of my best friends told me his (buddy) dog died last night. That’s a great loss for his family and I feel so bad for him and his wife. I’ve always admired all his relationships with his dogs over the many decades I’ve known him. A lot of love and time is spent between them. He would tell me about the walks they went on.

Or how he would just lay on the basement floor with them and play and love. The nuances of each of his pets were relayed always with a smile and grin. Where they slept, what they would do when he got home, what was their favorite treat, how good a swimmer they were, how they were protecters.

When we gather each week, the dogs are part of almost every vigil.

Q was a great dog. Very friendly and lovable. I enjoyed giving him attention and loven’s. It will be a solum meeting this week.

A golden dog stands on the porch in front of a blue door with decorative glass, surrounded by green shrubs.
Always ready to go. Photo by Mike Hartley

Pets become so much more and are family members to most. Many of us have experienced that pain of that loss. The void it leaves in our hearts and in our days.

It’s too much for some. My better half couldn’t stand to go through that again. And I understand this.

I’m fairly sure my friend will get another dog. He has always had one. I can’t imagine him without one.

I’m convinced animals especially dogs are so loving and squeeze so much into each day because they know how short life is and how precious each day is.

Between that gut wrenching pain my best friend is having I also hope he is remembering how much joy they gave each other.


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Arlington

Arlington National Cemetery – Having visited here to see family I’ve also taken some time to shoot around the cemetery. Being it’s Memorial Day I thought I’d share a link to a few hundred shots I’ve taken at various seasons and spots. I find it to be a beautiful place.

It’s strange how different my visits are. Some are easy and always feel good when leaving. Others have been difficult at best, usually when it’s been too long in between visits.

Here is the link to that gallery of images. You can select Slideshow in the upper right if you want to just sit and think about this holiday for a few minutes. Mike Hartley | Arlington National Cemetery

A gravestone marked with the name 'Michael Burns' and details of his military service, with a small American flag planted beside it, located at the base of a tree in a cemetery.
Time at ANC. Photo by Mike Hartley

This is the link to the cemetery site. Arlington National Cemetery – Home

A military honor guard stands in formation beside a horse-drawn carriage carrying a casket draped in an American flag, set against a backdrop of trees and a clear sky.
Burial detail at Arlington National Cemetery. Photo by Mike Hartley


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Questioning reality

The daily prompt asks – What’s a moment that made you question reality?

That’s easy 2016-2020 and 2024-present. Sorry, everything has seemed off during this time.

When walking down the beach about a decade ago I saw my duplicate. That was weird. I mean it was exact. Age, build, coloring, beard, height and hair.

Watching Jeff Bezos destroy The Washington Post.

A red and brown striped snake resting on a bed of small rocks.
I’ve seen several types of snakes in my yard but never one colored like this. Photo by Mike Hartley


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Memorial Day

Thank you for your sacrifice and to your surviving family members I wish you peace and fond memories of your loved ones.

A serene cemetery with white headstones adorned with small American flags, set on a grassy slope under leafy trees.
Flags for the fallen on Memorial Day at Arlington National Cemetery. Photo by Mike Hartley

Unfortunately, it’s a raining day here so there is no bright sunshine falling on the headstones and flags today. I hope to go next Sunday morning to visit.


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Sunday strain

Started off today with a muscle strain in my left calf. I had a bad cramp last night. I was trying to stretch it out this morning because it was still sore and might have hurt it more. Such is life, I’ll just add it to the list of pains to ignore.

I’m straining to keep a positive attitude with this weather. At least the rain has stopped for a few hours today. But remaining cloudy and cool with more rain tomorrow is challenging my patience. So much for the BBQ’s this weekend.

This week is a rebuilding and refinishing week for this body and mind. Just like this window I’m in trouble so a new frame, glass and some paint and we will be running strong again.

Close-up of a weathered window frame with peeling paint and damaged wood, set against a brick wall.
Photo by Mike Hartley

I’m not sure if the physical is affecting the mental attitude or the mental attitude has affected the body. Usually when I’m in better spirits the physical stuff isn’t as apparent.

And like the photo below says, “Don’t Give Up The Ship.” So, I have my marching orders for this week. Full steam ahead.

An American flag and a blue flag with the text 'DON'T GIVE UP THE SHIP' hanging between buildings, surrounded by trees and utility poles.
Photo by Mike Hartley

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • I was making progress cleaning my office, till I looked at the floor.
  • Made more prints and uploaded hundreds of new shots to the photo site in the last two days. I’m feeling a sense of accomplishment.
  • I’m in need of a good night’s sleep and this is good sleeping weather.
  • Be smart, it saves a lot of aggravation.


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The Summer WALL of SOUND

This summer I’m going to fill each day with so much music that I can’t fail to have a good day. I’ve been smiling ear to ear this morning with music filling my office. Well maybe the basement also and some of the upstairs.

I know Memorial Day weekend is the unofficial start to summer but this one looks far from summerlike. That’s fine, music can warm my soul. And the whole day and night will be filled with it.

And every friggin day this summer. Music makes me happy. It pumps me up. Music and driving have always been one of the great joys in life to me. I like to dance to music, even though I’m not too good at it. I don’t care; music makes me move. Sitting here tapping my feet to Rock of Ages now as I type.

Today I’m flipping back and forth between my favorites on YouTube and the local radio station 100.7 The Bay doing the Memorial Day 500 countdown.

So, turn it up, blow your own horn or bang a drum or sing out LOUD. Get out of that chair and duck walk. Chances are you will feel better.

Oh, Gimme Shelter from the Stones just came on, I have to get up and do my Mick Jagger strut. Have a nice afternoon.

A musician playing a trumpet outdoors, wearing a striped t-shirt and focused on performing.
He can play that horn. Photo by Mike Hartley

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • The shame is what we don’t accomplish while we have the opportunities.
  • I loved watching Phil Collins play drums.
  • The lies are getting thin and old. Proving there is a limit on how many times you can repeat falsehoods.
  • I don’t get drivers who buy convertibles and leave the top up all the time. It’s not right.


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Movie question

What’s a movie you expected to hate but ended up loving? – Asks the daily prompt.

The Shawshank Redemption is the movie that comes to mind. Never expected a prison movie to be so compelling.

I’m not much of an action movie fan but, the movie Venom surprised me and I liked it.

A decorative golden booth with a ghostly figure wearing a white top hat and long white hair, surrounded by two carved pumpkins, inside a building with intricate architectural details and a chandelier overhead.
Tickets please. Photo by Mike Hartley


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Da Duck

Given the wetness of the day, I pulled this old draft from the depths and thought it was appropriate for the weather. Because you have to be a duck to enjoy a day like today.

From the limited reading I’ve done on them it seems there are only a few in existence and in operation still. I was always hesitant to use them when they ran in Baltimore. I found a few old images I shot of them on land and in the water.

Ride the Duck on Land Photo by Mike Hartley
Ride the Duck on Land. Photo by Mike Hartley

It was called Ride the Duck. It shut down in Baltimore in 2009. I did enjoy seeing the tourists and kids liking this unique ride.

Ride the Duck at Sea Photo by Mike Hartley
Ride the Duck at Sea. Photo by Mike Hartley


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Dirt Monitor

In doing some sorting I found this draft from over a decade ago. It’s a shot of a pressroom monitor I took from when I worked at The Washington Post. It’s from the Maryland plant where there were 4 press lines. Pressrooms are dirty places. Even with enclosed control rooms.

I worked on a press in the 70s and it was all out in the open. Started flying papers off the folder and then learned how to do roll changes, brake adjustments, plate changes, operate the forklift and clamp trucks, unload trailers of fresh paper and eventually getting to set water/ink/speed. Very little temperature or humidity control so it was always a challenge to keep the presses running without web breaks. There was lint everywhere and ink on most exposed skin.

From the WP Pressroom Photo by Mike Hartley
From the pressroom. And yes, they cleaned them. Photo by Mike Hartley

It was never full-time gig out there. I worked in the Engraving department, but they were always short-staffed or had issues with the old press and missed deadlines. It was overtime most of the time so that was great. And if the old timers could get someone at 20 to do the heavy lifting, they could work with that. Learned a lot about printing climbing around that jungle gym. I was a 9-unit Goss Suburban. 4 on one end and 5 units stacked on the other side that we ran color and larger editions.

That first job in newspapers I work the longest average hours per week, longer hours in one stretch more times and physically harder than at any job since. It was a great experience and the knowledge I gained there was incredible. It was a nightmare at times and the best of times. I still have a very good friend from that over 5 decades later.

So, here’s to an art, craft and science that is fading from existence. The Pressman. A group of people doing a tough physical job that requires a lot of skills. You usually are working rotating shift because a lot of newspapers print at night. They keep those presses running at other times, but the bulk is in the evenings in most cases. You always had my respect. It was a little more dangerous, physical and dirty in the old days but it’s still a hard job even today.

Just an FYI. The downtown plant closed a year after I started there. The College Park MD printing plant this monitor was from, closed in 2009/2010, and the last remaining printing plant of the originals in Springfield I hear will close at the end of this year.


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Everywhere

I was looking at the morning news and that 40,000 people have been evacuated because of a chemical leak in California. And I got to thinking about how that could happen here and anywhere.

There are so few places that aren’t in danger anymore that it’s like being surrounded with ticking timebombs. The local businesses with hazardous chemicals. All the local gas stations. The trains that cris cross our towns, cities and countryside loaded with huge amounts of hazardous chemicals. Oh, and the trucks next to you on the highway.

Think of being evacuated and not knowing what will happen, when you might if ever be able to return to your home. Or if your home is left?

The large-scale disaster is hard to comprehend. A chemical plant, of which there are many, could have an accident. Some have and those have been deadly. But all these chemical releases, I bet no one really knows the damage that could have been done. It’s probably too hard to track how much is released and where it goes and in what quantities. Where does it settle or get absorbed?

Given the scale of the chemical industry, it’s kind of amazing there haven’t been worse incidents. I hope today’s situation resolves itself the best way possible but neither option looks good.

I’ve always loved the sound of the train passing about a mile down the road. I just hope they all stay on track.

Industrial facility featuring gray storage tanks and piping, enclosed by a fence.
Part of the gas pipeline plant along Carroll Mill Road. Photo by Mike Hartley

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • I should be either depressed or mad or both at the 40-degree temps and rain in late May on a holiday weekend. But I’m not for some reason and I can’t figure out why.
  • Given the wet weather I guess I should work with watercolor paints today.
  • I’m pretty sure we can’t go through another 2 1/2 years of this madness.
  • I’m going to have to resist the urge to nap today.


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Life means

Holy crap, what a question for an early Saturday morning after a late Friday night from the daily prompt.

What is the meaning of life?

If I had that answer, I wouldn’t be the screwed-up mess, sitting at this keyboard. I guess I should be looking for it being I’m in the later stages of life. Maybe pass on that wisdom to my family. Here is my best shot.

Sharing love, laughter and learning. Leaving the world a better place than you found it. Finding connections with people and opportunities to make yourself and others around you better. To always be there for family. To have appreciation. To find love. To find that thing inside you that makes you happy. To be grateful and share joy. Make a lot of good memories along the way.

Elegant interior of a hotel lobby showcasing a curved staircase, decorative wall paneling, and a welcoming seating area with plants.
Staircase of life. Photo by Mike Hartley


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Doors v18.26

Time for the weekly Thursday Doors challenge with our host Dan Antion. For those who love entrances, exits and the buildings and art that surrounds them this is the spot for you. The wonderful contributions from everywhere will delight. Share your own link in the comments on Dan’s weekly Door’s page.

Obviously, I’m late for the party this week. Busy schedule and not feeling 100%. But enough with excuses, I made it and even though it’s from the shoot I did the previous week in Annapolis MD. It’s better than missing a week. These didn’t make the cut the last week but being I didn’t get any new shooting done; they are this week’s contribution to the cause.

Have a great Memorial Day Weekend. And please pause for those who gave their lives for the freedom we live in today.

Exterior view of Lewnes' Steak House, featuring a red building with a black awning, showcasing signs for Prime Steaks and Chops & Seafood.
One of the best steak houses in Maryland. Photo by Mike Hartley

I wish it was sunny here in the mid-Atlantic, but it is a dreary weekend.

A life-sized bear statue wearing a white sweater stands outside a brightly colored shop with a pink striped door, holding a cane.
A little pink. Photo by Mike Hartley

I told my wife I couldn’t bear to go into one more store.

A historic building with colonial architectural features, featuring black shutters and a slate roof, alongside a small blue house. In front, a street lamp with a Maryland flag and outdoor seating area.
The Capital Hotel on the left. Photo by Mike Hartley

The door on the left below has a brutal step down. The door on the right has 4 steep steps up to it. I stood at the base of those steps to shoot the door.

A maroon door with a green frame and decorative trim, set against a light blue wooden wall, featuring a small outdoor light and a mail slot.
A close-up view of a wooden door with a rustic finish, featuring a decorative wreath made of dried leaves and decorative elements, mounted at the center of the door.

Photos by Mike Hartley

A landscaped garden with colorful flowers and greenery in front of a brick building, featuring a walkway of red bricks and a lamp post.
Photo by Mike Hartley

Above is the Maryland State House.

A door labeled 'Alarm Control Room' with the number '23' visible, located at a lower level, surrounded by a gray wall and a cracked base.
Photo by Mike Hartley

Passed a small stairwell down to this door.


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Have you

Have you ever been part of a crowd where everyone was moving in beat with the music and everyone’s arms were in the air together in unison, the crowd singing louder than the lead vocalist to the lyrics. Like those concerts in the 60s and 70s. No cell phones, nobody trying to impress anyone. Just absorbed by the music.

I can still get that feeling now even when I’m alone. Memories of those concerts and times make the hair on my neck tingle when certain songs come on at certain times.

That was such a powerful feeling and rush. 20, 30, 40 thousand people in sync and all focused on the band. The only pause in the energy is the seconds or minute or two between songs. Concerts seemed longer in the days I went frequently. Which is a long time ago.

A friend is going to a show this evening of a big star and an old one. The disappointing thing I see now is a lot of people sitting on their butts with phones in the air in the video and clips I see.

Recapturing that magic is tough, I guess. That and the fact that a lot of popular acts have aged. Some have lost members and it doesn’t sound or feel the same.

I experienced that a long time ago. When I followed The Who and Keith Moon passed. When they got Zack Starkey, it was close but never the same. I had the same thought when I thought about seeing Rush again but without Neil Peart, I’m sure it would be different. I’m not saying different isn’t good or maybe in a few cases better, but it’s changed.

Though for me when I see some of these groups I feel like I’m back in time and inhibitions fade. Even when I hear the songs at home or in the car it takes me to that special seat at a concert. Sometimes right up front. Yeah, we slept out overnight for seats from a ticket office window.

But the number of concerts I’m willing to spend hundreds or thousands of dollars on is 0 because it’s been a few years since seeing a big show. We might start looking at smaller shows and venues.

From some of the stubs I have from the 70s the average price seemed to be around $8 a seat. That inflation adjusted to today’s dollars in 2026 is around $45-$50. Most of the tickets for nosebleed sections are $150 or more. I just checked a show I was interested in Roger Daltrey playing at the MGM in National Harbor. $155 cheapest seat.

Such is life. I guess if you still have a lot of people paying that price, go for it. That could be about to change though.

Image featuring the text 'Music & Connection' with a guitar silhouette, emphasizing the idea that music is essential for a great time.


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CBS goodbye

This was the network of choice in the 60s at our home. Walter Cronkite in the evening. Others like Rather, Schieffer, Pelley, O’Donnell and more. Shows like I Love Lucy and Ed Sullivan were early staples in my youth. Then All In the Family and MASH captured me for years.

I’ve split my time between the CBS Morning Show and The Today show. We would tune in 60 Minutes each week. Weekends I always watch CBS Sunday Morning. That is probably the last thing I will tune into on the CBS network, but I can see that changing in the future if the show changes.

At one time they were noted as America’s Most Watched Network. Not for me anymore. It’s more than what happened to The Late Show, even though that was a prime example. The Late Show helped sustain me and gave me some hope and now that has been silenced.

To me it comes down to trust. This network has lost my trust. And I’m guessing I’m too old now for them to win it back so thank you for the years of integrity and great programming. Goodbye and good luck with the leadership you have.

Graphic featuring the word 'BROKEN' in bold yellow above a stylized eye icon, with the word 'Eye' in yellow below, set against a black background.


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Annoy

What’s a word or phrase that annoys you? – The daily prompt starts this Friday with a negative thought.

The term Work/Life Balance is a joke. Very few of us can ever achieve that.

Another one is Do What You Love. Another dream that few of us can pull off. I did a post recently with that and it was in the context of doing something else my entire life and now just getting the chance in my last years of life to do what I love. A lot of people don’t even get that opportunity.

There was a phrase at work that used to piss me off that management would use. Guarantee this problem never appears or happens again. The only guarantee in life is that you are born, and you will die.

People using the term Fake News in defending untrue positions.

The word MAYBE. Just give me a yes or no.

Another annoying phrase that comes to mind is MAGA. We will be decades making this country great again after the damage 47 has done.

The words HR (human resources) Is Here for You. HR is there to protect the company primarily.

And the last one, I Did My Best. I’ve tried never to say that, to me it means I gave up at some point. Instead, I would explain to the end of the earth my logic and actions. And most of the time someone else would say You Did Your Best or You Gave It Your Best Effort. Usually when people with more knowledge see that they would share more important information or skills.

In my later years at work when I was the one sharing knowledge, I got questioned why I was working more with some people than others and my reply was they showed effort and or initiative.

Okay, this exercise has been good. I thought it would annoy me even more recalling things like this, but I can move on not to more positive thoughts and actions.

Colorful hot air balloon viewed from below against a cloudy sky.
Looking up. Photo by Mike Hartley


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Who likes rain

Raise your hand if you like rain. Well as expected someone who lets rain roll off their backs would approve. The rest of us get wet.

A mallard duck preening itself in a pond, creating ripples in the water.
My granddaughter likes my Donald Duck voice. Photo by Mike Hartley

I’m trying to learn to let stuff roll off my back better. I haven’t been the best at that in my lifetime, but constant improvement has been made.

Rain used to be depressing to me. One because I can actually see the grass growing that I’m going to need to cut again. No really it always leaves me feeling kind of down. I do sleep better on rainy days because my incentive is gone to get outside in it.

I miss my car on rainy days. It sits under a cover. One that needs to be replaced. I miss laying out on the deck for a few minutes. I’m not watching nature as much as when it’s nice out.

Going out is a process that I have to mentally prepare for if it’s raining. Driving around here is a challenge and with a wet track the crazies are doubled.

A warm summer rain is tolerable but anything below 70 degrees and rainy is inside weather.

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • I have several fortune cookie slips taped to a shelf above me that I liked. One of them fell on my fingers as I was typing today and it reads “Cherish the simple moments that bring joy, they are the true treasures of life to remember.” If someone was looking out for me today, thank you.
  • Picking up some of my office has given me motivation to continue the effort.
  • I sense a late night.
  • I’m proud of myself for getting back to my ideal weight. I got a little sloppy a few weeks ago.


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Advantage

Taking advantage of each day is my goal. That doesn’t mean taking advantage of others at all. Sacrificing is sometimes part of taking advantage of an opportunity to help someone else. Therefore, the opportunity for a rewarding feeling.

Yesterday we were helping our son and his family. And helping family is always rewarding.

Falling asleep early on Wednesday evening wasn’t the plan but taking advantage of the early Thursday morning is working out well. It’s been a good writing morning, and I’ve fired up the printer and went through a pack of 8×10 photo paper.

A colorful sunset over the ocean, with vibrant orange and pink hues in the sky and a calm sea in the foreground.
Off Ocean City MD. Photo by Mike Hartley

And then I got tired again around 7am, so I went back to bed for 4 more hours. Wow, a total of 7 hours sleep. I’m improving, even if I have to do it in shifts.

The sun did break through at the shore for a short time this morning but it’s going away for a bit here in Maryland. A good time to work on the inside of the home as I feel it starting to drizzle outside. I can clean up this basement while knocking out some effort on hobbies.

Back to making some prints, I’m on a roll with that.

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • I’m really going to miss The Late Show.
  • Water, always the world’s greatest commodity.
  • The Knicks look like a team of destiny.
  • Being there is one of the most important things for another person.
  • I’ve been to Vegas once 40 years ago and have no desire to go back.
  • How can I make the best of today.


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Going Mobile

How do you plan the perfect road trip? – Asks the daily prompt.

The term (Road Trip) has brought a smile to my face since the day I started driving. I’ve been on a lot of road trips and some of them have been perfect, but they weren’t well planned.

Some of the best road trips were the simplest. Like my solo trips to Ocean City MD. on my motorcycle. Or in recent years in the Miata with the top down. And of course, trips with my better half. Those are better planned than mine.

I don’t think you really plan the perfect road trip. Some of the best things have been the new roads taken. Or the new people you meet. Or the things you discover along the way. And maybe what you do when you hit your destination.

The perfect trip goes with the flow of how you feel. I’ve had perfect timing crossing the Chesapeake Bay bridge as the sun rises. Other mornings I’m at the beach already watching it rise over the Atlantic Ocean. Both of those are perfect. And I’ve rolled into town hours after sunrise and pulled into my favorite pancake house on a whim and felt great.

Of course, the perfect road trip means having a reliable ride.

If everything works out my perfect road trip this summer will be a sunny day in the high 80s inland and low 80s at the beach with a mild breeze. The top will be down on the car, and I’ll ignore the $5 or $6 a gallon for gas. I will be going mid-week and off hours, so no traffic.

I’ll travel light, packing a beach towel, flip flops, bathing suit, cameras and a cooler. Leaving before sunrise and getting to the ocean between 7 and 8 AM. Some breakfast and head to the beach for a few hours of sun, sand and water. Lunch at The Wedge bar overlooking the inlet as boats go in and out.

Cruise Coastal Highway for a bit and maybe head to Bethany Beach for a visit there and maybe some more beach time. Then back to OC for sunset and dinner overlooking the bay. Maybe Fager’s Island where they play the 1812 Overture at sunset where the song ends as the sun escapes the horizon. I think they then break out the Ray Charles version of America the Beautiful after that.

Then the place starts hopping with a band. But I’ll go out for a night cruise and some night photography to go along with the shooting I do during the day. Hitting Dumsers after that for a cherry ice cream soda before heading home or finding a place to stay for the evening.

Considering there is constant rain in the forecast for the next 6 days it will be a bit before this road trip is mobile. I guess that gives me time to come up with more plans.

An intricate metal bridge structure with a view of the sunset in the background, featuring a vehicle traveling along the roadway.
Photo by Mike Hartley


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Cutting loose

Sometimes you just have to go for it. I mean what the hell is life worth living if you look back with much regret for not having cut loose now and then.

Cutting loose might just be standing up when the music strikes you and dancing or singing along. It could mean something extreme like jumping out of a perfectly good airplane or bungie jumping. And a gazillion things in between.

Every once in a while, the urge would/will strike me when in the car or motorcycle. Seeing a clear straight ahead of me and my right foot or wrist might twitch.

Close-up of a motorcycle wheel showcasing a chrome hub, brake rotor, and intricate spoke design.
Shine on you crazy diamond. Photo by Mike Hartley

Maybe grabbing a beach towel, shades, and flip-flops and pointing the Miata at the beach for the day on the spur of the moment.

I haven’t cut loose in a while, not that I’m worried about it. I’m happy and I guess not as adventurous as I was in my pre senior years.

If I look back though, I’ve cut loose a lot of times already. Some that still bring a broad smile to my face and others I just shake my head at and thankful I survived. And I’ve got enough friends with memories of my shenanigans that remind me of craziness that make me glad I didn’t grow up with all the recording devices available now.

But summer is upon us and those urges are entering my mind.

A speedboat racing along a calm body of water with a marina in the background.
Photo by Mike Hartley


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Keep plowing through

What’s a moment that made you realize you were stronger than you thought? – Asks the daily prompt.

I’m not sure if it’s good that I have a selection of moments to choose from or not. I guess it’s all part of what makes up life. Moments of great loss stand out to me. There were several of them between the ages of 9 and 29. Those were tough and made me stronger.

I never knew the strength needed to be a father till I was one.

I didn’t know I could stand up for myself on the job till I was faced with many situations that were turning points for me and my career.

Fighting a couple bouts with cancers were more tests. I’m not sure whether you just fight or if I was stronger than I thought. Probably a little of both.

I stopped drinking for decades and only dabble infrequently now. Not bad for a serious alcoholic in my youth.

But I guess the moment that popped to mind was each day. Fighting off moments of depression and great sadness. Some days it’s okay and easy to get past. Other days I shed tears and have to work and fight to get through emotions or the funk I get myself into.

At one point or many, each day the battle ensues. And each day I win because I’m still here.

A gray car splashing through a large puddle of water on a wet surface.
And what do they say about driving through standing water? YEEE HA. Photo by Mike Hartley


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Catch your breath

If you were outside yesterday it would be tough to catch your breath if you were active like our friend here. This little guy needed a break on the bench.

A small bird perched on a branch, surrounded by green leaves, with a blue and white basketball net in the background.
In need of a water break. Photo by Mike Hartley

That will be me today because I plan on spending a lot of the day outside. I’ll have to remind myself to stay hydrated in this heat.

A small bird perched on a branch, showing brown and gray plumage, with a background of green foliage and a blue net.
Put me back in coach. Photo by Mike Hartley

No time like the present to kick this into high gear. Felt good to get an hour of seat time yesterday. I’m going for a few hours today with the top down and cameras along for the ride when we stop for a break.

Speaking of catching your breath, my better half discovered this guy on our porch yesterday. I took him back to the woods behind our home. Not that he won’t be back. I don’t have an issue with them unless they surprise me which they do often. I walked into one resting on a tree branch at eye level a few years back

That long line behind the chair and table is a 5-foot black snake.

A corner patio area featuring a metal bench with a turquoise cushion next to a black side table, alongside a brick wall.
Slither me timbers. Photo by Mike Hartley

Each time I see one of these I end up looking down a lot more for a few days.

A black snake partially hidden under a table, with a smooth texture and a gentle curve on a concrete surface.
Portrait time. Photo by Mike Hartley

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • With 5 days of rain starting on Wednesday evening, I’ll be spending a lot of time outside today and tomorrow.
  • With me the words (mental health) are a contradicting term.
  • Looks like the clown show is starting to wear thin with his fans.
  • Staying out of the way of all the crazies is getting more difficult by the day.


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Simple man

What’s a simple pleasure in life that brings you joy? – Asks the daily prompt.

I’m getting a little out of sorts so I thought it would be a good idea to list more than one thing. And remind me that there are a lot of simple pleasures in life because it gets tough sometimes and these things are forgotten.

  • Being healthy enough to get out of bed each day.
  • A warm summer night.
  • Music
  • Convertibles and Manual Transmissions.
  • A warm shower.
  • The sound of my grandchildren’s voices and their hugs.
  • Watching a sunrise or sunset.
  • Washing my car.
  • A walk with my better half.
  • Taking and sharing photos.
  • A fall evening by the firepit.
  • Beach sand between my toes and the sound of waves hitting the beach.
  • Observing nature.
  • Remembering where I left my keys on the first try.
A pair of blue flip-flops resting on sandy beach ground.
My good friends Flip and Flop.Photo by Mike Hartley


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Season of Shine

It’s car show season again and the people and machines are out in FORCE. I drifted by Mikey and Mel’s Saturday and the place was packed. I’m working on my car photography and practice makes perfect. Plus, I’m looking for colors and patterns that appeal to me if I repaint my ride.

This show is changing all the time. From its growth and popularity to the age groups and variety of cars.

A bright yellow Chevrolet Corvette with an open hood, showcasing a colorful design that reads 'SUNSHINE'. The car is parked in a lot with people milling about in the background.
They got the color right. Photo by Mike Hartley

I’m seeing more exotics and high-end rides. No surprise, there is a lot of money in this area for some.

A lineup of colorful sports cars in a parking lot, featuring a blue car, a black car with a yellow emblem, an orange car, and a yellow car with black stripes, with people viewing the cars and a building in the background.
A vibrant green Lamborghini Huracán parked beside an orange car at a car show, surrounded by various other vehicles and a crowd of spectators.

Photos by Mike Hartley

I like it when old is parked next to new.

A car show featuring a classic blue Porsche and a sleek black Ferrari among a variety of vehicles, with attendees and trees in the background.
A classic green 1960s Mustang and a modern gray Mustang parked side by side, both with their hoods open, showcasing their engines, surrounded by trees and other parked cars.

Photos by Mike Hartley

The days of no plastic.

Close-up view of a vintage black Chevrolet truck with a polished chrome grille and custom wheels, showcasing its classic design and modifications.

Photos by Mike Hartley

Doors and hoods up

Three classic cars parked in a row with their hoods open, showcasing their engines. The first car is white with red stripes, the second is blue, and the third is red, set against a clear blue sky.
A row of sports cars with their doors open at a car show, featuring red and black vehicles and spectators in the background.

Photos by Mike Hartley

A little red, white and blue never hurts.

A sleek black and white car with butterfly doors open, showcasing its modern design and vibrant color accents, parked at a car event with spectators in the background.
A row of sports cars with prominent rear spoilers, showcasing a variety of designs and colors.

Photos by Mike Hartley

Taking flight.

A man pointing at a car with its hood raised, revealing custom modifications, while another person stands nearby, observing. The car features a unique textured pattern and a personalized license plate.
Close-up view of a red and a green sports car, both with their hoods open, showcasing their engines. The red car has a sleek design with a rear spoiler, while the green car is identifiable as a GT500. The background features people admiring the cars.

Photos by Mike Hartley

I’m more into the classics.

A close-up view of the engine compartment of a vintage yellow Cadillac, showcasing its chrome details and mechanical components.
Photo by Mike Hartley

That bumper probably weighs as much as my car. It’s going to be in the 70s and 80s this evening. A good night for a late spin. I’ve been waiting for this weather.


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Movie

The daily prompt asks – If you could erase one movie from your memory and watch it again for the first time, which one would it be?

If the above were true, I’d sit down with my almost 4-year-old grandson and watch Toy Story again for the first time. It’s been a good while since watching a lot of kids animated movies.

Also, an old one called (The Great Escape) and maybe (The Blues Brothers).

A light brown dog holding a blue plush toy in its mouth, standing on a light gray carpet.
Thanks for the toy grandma. Photo by Mike Hartley


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Maybe

I’ve ridden a lot of bikes but never one of these before. I’ll go with the chopper one. The one, the guy is on looks dangerous to me. Getting a bike (bicycle 2 wheels) has appealed to me in the last few years. My better half likes to ride but we would have to put them on the car and go to a spot to bike.

We love to rent bikes at the beach and ride the boardwalk. Or when we stayed in Bethany Beach in past years renting a bike in the offseason is the way to go around town. No traffic (cars or people) to contend with. A riding pleasure.

Two people riding tricycles on a beach promenade with an orange barrier and a clear blue sky in the background.

I won’t be cruising in the ocean this Sunday or in a self-powered vehicle, but I will be out and about in the Miata for the next few days with the temps warming significantly. Nothing like a convertible on a sunny day.

And after being out a few hours yesterday all I can say is WOW. Both for what an experience it is when it’s good and wow some people just can’t drive.

Such is life, some shots to download and change into my SUPER YARDMAN gear.

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • Watching one of the greatest heists in history right in front of our eyes.
  • You want Summer, you asked for summer, well we got SUMMER.
  • Remarkable what it takes to get our attention now days.
  • First slither of the season on the porch this morning, just a 5-foot black snake. Got a picture of it to post later. Unfortunately, my better half stumbled upon it first. She won’t be right the rest of the day. I returned him to the woods behind our home.


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Love what you do

The daily prompt asks – How do you stay motivated when learning something new?

I try to look at learning as an opportunity. If I can put what I learn into practice, I’m usually more motivated. If I see results in what I’m learning that is also good motivation.

I’ve found over time if it’s something you’re interested in, have a passion for, then learning is easy and staying motivated is just par for the course.

I had a hell of a time staying motivated for Oracle database training. I had no desire to be a DBA. Because I love being a UNIX Administrator.

Being with others, learning at the same time and then building on that knowledge together is motivating and fun.

When teaching something to people I tried to make it fun where I could.

I learned that learning got me places and that is motivating.

I’ve turned down titles and money for an opportunity to learn something different.

When working and I wanted to learn something new about an area I would always pick the person who seemed to love his work and or take the most pride in it.

In my last few years of work in my 60s I had the pleasure of working with some younger people. Lots of them with degrees and titles and backgrounds. What motivated me was to prove to them that this old fossil had a lot of important knowledge and could learn about their area and bring something more to the table.

Throughout my career in publishing, we were always learning something new. There was always constant change in technology. And I guess that is what made it fun with all the people I got to experience it with. Well, most of them.

Being retired now I don’t push myself like the old days. Motivation is easy because I’m doing some things I hoped to be doing when I got out of school at a young age.

I’m motivated to see what other bloggers and photographers are doing and learning from them. In doing something myself each day I hope I’m learning and improving my own creative efforts.

Love what you do.

A bride with red hair joyfully embraces her partner during a wedding ceremony, surrounded by floral decorations and an arch. A woman smiles in the background.
Photo by Mike Hartley