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Not forgotten

The daily prompt asks – What’s something you’ve forgiven but haven’t forgotten?

That question triggered a few highly personal and painful memories that I can’t share. Took me a few moments to regroup actually.

I had to think about that for a while and then I remembered a few work situations in my professional career. The first where someone lied trying to cover their ass and I had to go toe to toe with them in front of the VP. I had to still work and sit across from him for another year or two, but he moved on. I can’t say it was comfortable because when trust is broken, I’m never at ease with that person.

Another time I was asked to lie on overnight reports by a manager a couple levels above me and I wouldn’t. He threatened me and went to my manager and then Director. Truth and facts at one time counted and he found out that his opinion didn’t go far and didn’t work out well for him.

He eventually became my director, and we butted heads the whole time. Not because of that incident so much as he was no leader and didn’t know his backside from a hole in the ground. I think that might have been the only person I ever did my air guitar Chuck Berry duck walking down the aisle when I heard he was leaving. I think I heard the whole team exhale also.

Professionally I was blessed with some very good mangers and leaders. Most of my career in fact. But those few that made life hell didn’t deter me. I spent my career at basically 2 organizations. In jobs I really liked doing and I wasn’t going to let someone change that, so it was a battle of wills and I’m undefeated at that with the few who came at me.

And in proofreading this it may sound like I haven’t forgiven them. I have and hadn’t thought about them in decades, but when forced to think about what I had to forgive people for, those few that tried to wrong me came to mind easily. Now I can go back to putting them in the distant past again.

Silhouette of a beach access sign and weather station against a cloudy sunset over the ocean
My forecast feels bright. Outside, not so much. Photo by Mike Hartley


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Veterans Day

My thanks and respect to those in uniform and those who have served. The very old quote that comes to my mind on this day – “Never was so much owed by so many to so few”

So, I’m just starting to calm down from my last political rant and thinking about what picture I have that would be good for Veterans Day when I hear something on the news about Hegseth and Arlington National Cemetery. Anything with that hallowed ground catches my eye and ear because that is where my parents reside.

I’m at my computer and didn’t hear it well so I search. The first article from The Washington Examiner (conservative publication) has the headline – Arlington guard scolds Hegseth’s entourage for laughing near Tomb of the Unknown Soldier

And the article stated the following:

Hegseth, his wife, and several others in his group were posing for photos at the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier when live TV coverage captured the moment. A U.S. Army sentinel guarding the memorial shouted a reprimand at the entourage after it seemed a woman in the group laughed near the tomb following a Veterans Day ceremony.

“All visitors will maintain an atmosphere of silence and respect at all times!” the guard yelled.

The Pentagon thanked the soldier’s action when pressed for comment by the Washington Examiner.

“The Secretary and the entire Department have always honored—and will always honor—the sacrifices our military men and women have made to keep America safe,” spokesman Sean Parnell said. “While commemorating this solemn day, a soldier correctly and respectfully reminded everyone to maintain decorum.”

No, he didn’t remind everyone, there are signs there for that if you don’t have the common sense for it. The guard had to do it because someone in Hegseth’s group of supposed adults couldn’t behave for a few moments while they took pictures and acted like disrespectful piece of crap.

I’ve been to the Tomb of The Unknown Solider many times. I usually make it part of my visit to my parents. To think that an adult on Veterans Day would laugh at that location, is such a disappointment. I’ve seen Tomb Guards reprimand people. Usually, it’s that 5-year-old child that a parent needs to get control of, not an adult.

Person in formal military uniform with medals and peaked cap standing outdoors
A member of The Old Guard. Photo by Mike Hartley


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No more missteps

Democrats you let me down this week. So, I will share my heated opinion.

I have issues with people not doing their jobs. And when I read 11 Democrats didn’t show to vote on the Hegseth impeachment I was taken aback. Well, a little more than pissed off, so I read more hoping some kind of justification was to follow. After examining several articles, I’m still pissed off.

The first excuse I saw was a few members stuck in traffic. Bull Crap – I worked in that city for 2 and 1/2 decades and I got to work on TIME. It’s your damn job to get to work on time no excuses. You leave early if you have a job in DC. Very early. Excuse #1 null and void.

Nance Pelosi flew back to San Fran for a Veterans Day Celebration. Your job was not off celebrating. Your JOB was working. You were the friggen Speaker of the House at one point. If anyone should have known better, it, was YOU.

Two members are excused. Horsford and Correa due to personal emergency and a medical.

And Jefferies, if you can’t marshal the troops, you’re not going to be the man.

I don’t give a damn if it would have passed or not if they were there, that isn’t the issue. The issue is do your damn job. I don’t want any apology; I want votes and action. And I know that you won’t win every time but not showing up in unacceptable.

Way to start this session. Shoot yourselves in the foot. Nice work boneheads. Keep this up and a 3rd party will come along and put both existing ones out of business.

Here is the list of 11 as supplied by The New Republic article. I added the EXCUSED.

  • Melanie Stansbury (New Mexico)
  • Marilyn Strickland (Washington)
  • Julia Brownley (California)
  • Lou Correa (California) – EXCUSED
  • Laura Gillen (New York)
  • Steven Horsford (Nevada) – EXCUSED
  • Jonathan Jackson (Illinois)
  • Nancy Pelosi (California)
  • Brittany Pettersen (Colorado)
  • Haley Stevens (Michigan)
  • Frederica Wilson (Florida)


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Worlds Different

Well, I’ve chosen not to answer today’s question from the daily writing prompt because I have no answer. It asks – If you got to live inside a video game world, which one would you choose?

I haven’t played a video game in many decades. And back then they didn’t have worlds from what I can remember. I do remember playing foosball and pinball machines. Lots of it in my teens and early 20s. One of many games inside we would play. Two of my U of MD friends were pinball wizards.

These along with ping-pong were our staple of active physical activity games. The only games we where we sat was a ton of board games and chess also.

Thinking back, we were much more active than today’s kids sitting for hours behind those controllers. Mostly because when it was light outside, we were outside. Game like ping pong, foosball and pinball were night activities.

People playing chess at a park table while others watch.
Did I hear someone say next? Photo by Mike Hartley


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Charleston by photos

In late October my better half and I visited Charleston South Carolina for a few days. I put up a few shots when I returned. I now have 247 shots in a gallery for your viewing pleasure if interested.

Along the waterfront, fountains, people. Lots around town shots on King Street which is the big shopping area and place to be seen apparently. Architectures shots and many entrance shots that I’ll be using on Thursday Doors posts in the future along with our visit to the Boone Hall Plantation. Oh, almost forgot some images inside and around the Gibbes Museum of Art. Oh and a few unique street shots mixed in.

Charleston Photo Gallery

That might have been my favorite place visited this year. A beautiful city, one I could spend a lot more day’s photographing.

Historic brick church with a tall conical tower, surrounded by trees, and a horse-drawn carriage in the foreground
Loved the carriage rides. Photo by Mike Hartley


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Recovery Thoughts

My mind was unable to think about other things than feeling better for several days last week. What a relief it is to have control again. Still only about 75% of myself but being on the mend is a nice feeling.

The last few years have been more difficult fighting off viruses. Usually, I get one or two a season. Either the flu or covid and the obligatory sinus infection. Didn’t use to be that way. I guess I had a fairly strong immune system and when I did get something it didn’t last long.

Being from an older generation, most of the time I was sick it didn’t stop me from working. Only a few surgeries slowed me down and I always came back much earlier than recommended. Yeah, I was that fool. Thinking I must have a stake in the company that I worked for.

I’m sure age is partly responsible for not being able to fight off infections as I did years ago. I’m at a healthy weight. I get some exercise and stay active. I could eat healthier. I get my shots and wash hands. At my physical I’m going to talk to the doctor about getting some meds for help. I know there are things that if caught early can help.

I hate taking meds. I don’t even like taking Tylenol. The only reason I take cholesterol and BP meds is because I couldn’t find a way to fix it without meds. I have no problems with vaccines and will take whatever my doctor and science recommends.

We are an overmedicated society. Healthier lifestyles might mitigate the need for a lot of drug use. Not that I’m a poster boy for the healthy lifestyle but my dresser isn’t filled with pill bottles either.

I’m back to starting my day like I normally do. Up early, working on a few posts and editing pictures. Hitting the webcams in Ocean City MD and watching a beautiful sunrise. Seeing the same light come through my windows a few minutes later. I don’t have that fog of mind, while not totally clear, visibility and outlook is much improved.

And like the lady below, I’m doing a mental handstand on the beach this morning and ready to resume life again. With a slightly persistent cough

People on a beach watching the sunset over the ocean, with waves and a glowing sun reflecting on the water.
Kicking it to sunrise. Photo by Mike Hartley

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • Rotating my head around this morning my neck is making sounds like driving down a gravel road.
  • I have very few random thoughts when I’m sick.
  • Looks like the king with no clothes is gearing up for a nasty fight.
  • It’s nice to feel my appetite returning. And the taste has returned.
  • The measles outbreaks and deaths are on the hands of RFK Jr and DJT


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Life lessons – late

What life lesson did you learn too late? – Asks the daily writing prompt.

To eat healthy – To sleep well – To relax – To focus on my own interests more – To realize it was just a job – To take better care of my body

I could go on, but I’ve got to save some things for the next time they ask this same question.

Fruit-topped birthday cake with colorful lit candles
Fruit Cake. Photo by Mike Hartley


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The wind changed it

The winds really took the fall foliage away. There is still some holding on but the view out my back looking into the woods changed considerably.

I was lucky enough to grow up with woods behind our home. When we got this home and it had the woods behind it also. And I love looking at them every day. Watching wildlife or the beauty of spring and fall.

It’s also some work because I need to get down there and clear a little brush out and move some large, downed trees.

Pileated woodpecker clinging to a tree trunk and pecking at the bark
Noisy backyard friend. Photo by Mike Hartley

Soon all the leaves will be on the ground providing nutrients for the coming season of new growth. Tomorrow, I get the mower out for the last time and do some leaf roundup. Then the winterization takes place, battery removed, fuel treated, complete cleaning.

I brought the snow shovels in the other day, so I didn’t fill up the shed first and then have to figure out how to get them out without crashing everything after that. I hear mention of it on the news. Nothing more than a few flakes so I’m not concerned other than it’s going to be colder earlier than I like. And here I thought that El Nino was bringing above average temps. Time will tell when it all averages out.

It’s that day when you feel your recovered enough to start resuming some limited activities but at the same time, you’re aware that overdoing it is bad. So, I’ll use a Navel term my father would have taught me, “Slow Ahead”.

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • Something I’ll never need. A crypto trading app.
  • You don’t appreciate being able to breathe through your nose until you can’t for a while.
  • I don’t think even AI could develop a Trump Stain Remover in time to help Rubio, Vance or Cruz and others.
  • I believe today is the latest I’ve ever responded to the daily writing prompt. Usually that is posted early morning, not at 4pm.
  • It could be an ugly 8 weeks ahead. I’m hoping not and that I can concentrate on the holidays and joy.
  • I’m not opposed to a free market. I’m opposed to a rigged market.
  • I’m proposing a name change. DOI – Department of Injustice.


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Good Friend

Has your idea of what makes a good friend changed as you’ve gotten older? – Asks the daily prompt.

Not really. What changed is as you learn more about yourself and others and those things change friendships sometime. Luckily in most cases it’s made them stronger. When I was young, I thought good friends went on forever. And in some cases, I’ve been lucky and had that come true.

Good friends stay in contact with each other. Good friends are honest with each other. Good friends are there for you in times of crisis as well as the good times. Good friends adapt. Good friends have compassion. Good friends listen. Good friends share willingly without expectations or keeping score.

You learn about professional friendships as age in your career. So that is a change. That day-to-day relationship you had at the job turns into something special over the years and decades with some people. You shared a passion and love in a moment of time together and created something special and had a lot of fun doing it together along with those shared experiences under difficult circumstances. The massive time you spend at work together you get to know them and their families.

I’ve had some very good friends at work for years. One of my best friends I met at the job 46 years ago. I have several other very special relationships and good friends that go back 3,4 and 5 decades from friendships that started on the job and lasted well beyond the profession part.

It’s easy to be friends when young. Most are just looking to have a good time together. Going on adventures, playing sports together, and other interests. Staying friends over time is sometime easy and at other times challenging.

I’m sure a lot of people ran into a recent phenomenon that never existed before in friendships and even between some families. Politics never mattered much in friendships even if you supported different parties. I remember having active political discussions many years/decades with friends and family. None of that ever even budge the needle about changing a relationship. With Trump that all changed. It caused old friendships and families to break with each other which is really sad when you think about it. One-person dividing a country like that.

But it happened. I’ve lost one of my best long-term friends over that unfortunately. What changed is that he made it personal and he drew lines, and if you believed in Trump, you couldn’t be friends with the enemy because they were wrong and against everything you believe.

You know your good friends when you get older by one thing that wasn’t common in your younger years unless alcohol was involved. When we leave each other or finish a conversation now, we end with a “Love you (name/man), take care.” I don’t know when it started with each, but it did and it continues with each of my good friends. Be it in each time we speak or in writing now.

People sitting on a wooden dock beside a calm lake, with boats and marina structures in the background.
Friends. Photo by Mike Hartley


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Inspired Again

Just thought I would share a few observations now that life is returning to this body and mind.

Laughter

A sense of humor is so important in life. The more I laugh the more I love life. It adds a better perspective when I’m not laughing. And that sometimes helps me find laughter in difficult times. Which helps me recover and get back on track.

Health

I know I’ve been sick when I notice several days have passed since I changed my daily Farside desk calendar.

A Mess

I can’t feel good about having an organized and clean office till I’ve made a good mess of it first.

Look Forward to the Holiday Season

Having young grandchildren for Christmas is a highlight of my year.

Helping

Stepping up in the assistance of family is tough but you do it. And you might do it many times in a lifetime.

It Bothers Me

That I’m still not well enough to attend our monthly Miata club meeting this afternoon.

Despite the recent Joy

There is still an idiot in charge. And much work to be done.

New Leadership

I’m looking for new leadership in the Senate. No disrespect Mr. Schumer you just don’t inspire. I have more research to do before I say the same thing about the House.

Time Well Spent

I love seeing my grandchildren and children. But when I can’t I enjoy writing to them.

Good Feeling

I can’t tell you how good it feels today, to return to my hobbies and crafts. Even if it’s a few hours less than normal.


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Can’t live without

What is one thing you can’t live without? – Asks the daily prompt

That’s an easy one. The love of my family. Or my health

But if you mean inanimate things. I guess either my camera and printer or my Miata.

Oh yeah, almost forgot, Marylanders can’t live without steamed crabs.

Close-up of cooked crabs seasoned with spices on a platter
I could claw my way through a few of these. Photo by Mike Hartley


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Saturday musings

I thought I was feeling better and then I got up. The older I get the more difficult it is to recover from some bugs.

I see Trump has appointed Steven Miller (aka Joseph Goebbels) to chief of staff. Talk about doubling down on stupid.

The Cybertruck is history. Who couldn’t have seen that coming. The ugliest piece of crap on the road manufactured by the world’s 2nd most arrogant person on earth. May he go the way of his truck.

I can hear that cold wind howling outside. Glad I’m inside.

Not picking up a camera for the last 4 days is wearing on me.

Tuesday was just the beginning of the hard work ahead.

Sports are losing me. Too many games on streaming services. Good thing listening to Maryland basketball game on the radio never got old for me. Go Terps

Crowded Xfinity Center arena with fans waving a large Maryland Terrapins flag during a basketball game.
Photo by Mike Hartley


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Small Moments

What’s a small moment from your past that you still think about years later? – Asks the daily prompt.

I still remember and think about the moment we first saw the home we have now been in for over 40 years. I kind of knew from the moment we saw it that it was ours. Walking up the driveway to it felt so right.

That feeling of riding my motorcycle on a warm Sunday morning, the silence and solitude of the air and road.

The sounds and sights of my kids playing green ball after dinner. A game where they threw a green rubber ball at each other and laughing so hard the whole time.

Dinner with my better half before children at a restaurant called Reflections.

How careful I was driving my better half and newborn children home from the hospital.

Seeing my children holding my grandchildren for the first time.

Vintage Honda motorcycle parked on a driveway in front of a brick house
My old therapist. Photo by Mike Hartley


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Success

How do you define success in life? – Asks the daily prompt.

Success can be judged in many ways. Success to me is having love of and for family and friends. Being able to provide a better life than I had for my children.

Having a successful career. And one not measured by money. No, you don’t have to be the president of a company. You can be happy in many roles. I’ve seen people go up the food chain very far and become more unhappy even though it might have the appearance of success.

Being able to appreciate the small things in life that make it very special. Never being hungry and always having a roof over my head.

Having the opportunity to do something you love.

Living a long, happy life next to family and friends who are doing the same.

Being able to live a little of it and not spend the entire time working.

Today success in my life would be recovering from the Covid bug and regaining my taste.

Boats docked at a marina under a blue sky, with a person cleaning a yacht.
We once had a great day fishing on the Floridian. The boat in front being cleaned. Photo by Mike Hartley


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useless

What’s a completely useless fact you love sharing? – Asks the daily prompt.

I like to share how much fun it is to drive the Mazda Miata with the top down. How good a cold Coke tastes on a hot summer day. What the weather is in the mid-Atlantic. How much I dislike winter. I do my own yard work. Some people drive like idiots and shouldn’t have a license.

Of course, you can continue to read my blog for more useless information and the occasional insight.

Like this coming season. Will these be the only people you see on the baseball field?

Grounds crew members in orange shirts use hoses to water the grass beside a baseball field.
My yard could use some advice if you’re not busy. Photo by Mike Hartley


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Burst

Finding words when not feeling well is difficult. I’ll let the image below speak for me this afternoon. I’m hoping for a burst of energy later.

Close-up of vibrant pink flowers with spiky petals, surrounded by green foliage.
Photo by Mike Hartley


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Jumped

What’s a book or movie that genuinely scared you? – Asks the daily prompt.

I’m not big into horror movies and have never read a book that scared me. So, I’ll go with “The Shining” or “Jaws” as the movies that scared me the most.

A graphic featuring an orange skull above the text 'MOVIE' and the phrase 'Grab your seat' on a black background.


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Holding On

Holding on is tough some days. I’ve been struggling today. I’ve got to snap out of it this evening.

A large, yellow teddy bear-shaped hot air balloon with a blue balloon in the background and various colorful hot air balloons in the distance, set in a grassy area.

I feel an unknown sense of urgency. One that is both exciting and scary. I’m still making progress on both hobbies and chores. I’m tired though, both mentally and physically.

I’m off to a good start this month. I’ve got to keep it rolling so I need to find my comfort bear.


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The latest

The latest example of GREED meeting GAME will be on display this offseason for Major League Baseball. One that I’ll be watching not for the back-and-forth crap that will fill the airwaves from each side. But the time that it’s done in.

Opening day is slated for March 24th, 2027. If that comes off without disruption as well as spring training, I’m still a committed and loving fan. Screw that up and we have issues.

You have made major changes to the game that made it more attractive. The just finished World Series proves it’s not how much money you spend, it’s how you do things. Do the right thing. Both sides get in behind closed doors and solve this fast. Be an example to other sports. Or not, your choice.

Your attendance is up. TV viewership is way up. Don’t pick this time to make another mistake. Don’t make me use the phrase that comic Ron White does. “You Can’t Fix Stupid” on you.

A baseball player in a gray uniform prepares to swing at a pitch while a catcher in an orange and black uniform crouches behind home plate. Coaches and players are seen in the dugout in the background, with spectators in the stands.
The interesting thing is minor league baseball is unaffected by the MLB contracts. Photo by Mike Hartley

I like baseball. I played a good bit when I was younger. I was going to start working with the grandkids if they are interested. There are so many good values and lessons from baseball. Don’t screw that up. Your already on the brink by bringing in gambling and that already may be the death blow in the long run.

But you have an opportunity to put the integrity back in the game from a business standpoint. Make it ugly back and forth, let it affect the coming season. And see what happens. Go ahead, test the fans one more time. You might think you control the purse strings. I’d say we have a pretty good say in that also.

A young boy and an adult are cleaning home plate on a baseball field using a large blue brush. The boy appears excited, standing close to the adult, who is helping him.
Don’t brush off the fans again. We might just rush the mound. Photo by Mike Hartley

And most of all don’t ruin it for the younger generation. We already have enough bad examples of wealth making people do the wrong things.

Ironically the photos above are from Ripken Stadium. He helped bring the game back the last time with that Iron Man consecutive game streak coming out of the strike. Remember owners, he’s retired.


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Free seat

If you had a free round-trip ticket to anywhere, where would you go? – Asks the daily prompt.

Probably Hawaii or Alaska. I’m not sure I could tolerate a plane ride to Australia or not but that would also be a destination. Whatever the destination, it will be next year because I’m all traveled out this year.

Interior view of an airplane aisle with passengers seated on either side.
View from my seat on a plane this past Thursday. Photo by Mike Hartley


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Charleston

Discovering a new city is a great feeling. I did too much admiring instead of collecting more images. But it felt good when I got back.

A large pineapple-shaped fountain surrounded by water, with people walking and enjoying the park-like setting in the background.
Photo by Mike Hartley

I equate it to being at a concert. You want to take in the actual event. In this case, with my own eyes instead of through the lens all the time.

Street view of a picturesque neighborhood featuring colorful historic buildings, palm trees, and parked vehicles along the road.
Photo by Mike Hartley

I didn’t research the city much in terms of photographic spots. I had seen images of a colored row of homes, now I know called Rainbow Row.

A scenic view of a bridge in the distance, surrounded by grassy wetlands and a body of water, with a chain in the foreground.
Photo by Mike Hartley

The first day was a bit overcast but the rest of the week was sunny. I should have gone back and done another bridge shot with the blue sky instead of this one.

A decorative fountain with water shooting up in various arcs, located in a public square. People are walking nearby, with a pier and palm trees visible in the background under a blue sky.
Photo by Mike Hartley

We really loved walking the waterfront.

Historic building with a distinctive tower featuring a cross, surrounded by trees and a horse-drawn carriage on a street.
Photo by Mike Hartley

As we were finishing our walk through the Gibbes Museum of Art I looked out the window and had this view.

A scenic view of a fountain shaped like a pineapple, surrounded by palm trees and visitors. The background features a waterfront and a clear blue sky.
Photo by Mike Hartley

This is one beautiful city. We had temps in the 70s during the day which was nice.

Exterior view of Magnolias restaurant showing the main sign with the name and description, alongside a secondary sign. People are seen at the entrance.
Photo by Mike Hartley

Good eats everywhere.

A horse-drawn carriage with a driver in a hat, gesturing while guiding the horse through a charming street lined with trees and historic buildings.
Photo by Mike Hartley

This looked like a good way to see the city.

Historic white church with tall steeple and columns, set against a clear blue sky, with people gathered outside and palm trees nearby.
Photo by Mike Hartley

It seemed like there was a beautiful church on every corner.

Outdoor café scene with several people dining under umbrellas, surrounded by greenery and a historic building.
Photo by Mike Hartley

Or it was people dining or enjoying a beverage outside.

It was a great visit and a city we will return to again if we finish up the list. I have a number of shots from the Boone Hall Plantation to share later. Also, some works from that art museum.

The next two weeks of the Thursday Doors posts will include a lot of doors from Charleston also so stay tuned if you want to see more of the area.


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A walk

I blew through (slowly of course) my favorite town (Ellicott City) Saturday. And I only had a second to pull over and grab this shot of the renovated mill, bridge and some color on my way to my destination up the road. I think I’d like to take a walk there today and do some more photography.

A view of a multi-story building framed by trees with vibrant red leaves in autumn.
Ellicott Mill. Photo by Mike Hartley

I was talking to a close friend who misses it very much. He grew up in this city so it’s home to him. As well as home to my better half. I spent some years working in that town myself.

Having taken a few days away this past week, I’ve missed some of the fall color, so I’ll be out and about trying to catch a few whiles still attached to the trees once that sun comes out.

I hope your Monday is off to a good start.

Random Thoughts of the Morning

  • When you wake and feel good about the previous day, it makes it easier to be optimistic about the coming day.
  • Pop Tarts are a breakfast food group.
  • Do you remember when, me neither.
  • If you can act on something while thinking ahead about something else, you can save a lot of time.
  • Just because things get old, it doesn’t mean they have outlived their usefulness.


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This one

What’s a song that changed your life? – Asks the daily prompt.

The song Simple Man by Lynyrd Skynyrd. From the day I first heard it till today, it’s a song with a simple but important message.

The title reminds me to try to stay humble each day. It has values in it that my mom who raised me installed. It speaks against greed and that all you need is within you. About being true to yourself. It talks about finding your love. And someone above.

Ronnie’s voice and the melody I can feel in my body. How the song is both soft and hard driving. Sort of like life.

The first verse always reminds me of the day my mom spoke to me about my father’s death when I was young.

Mama told me when I was young
Come sit beside me, my only son
And listen closely to what I say.
And if you do this
It will help you some sunny day.

Take your time… Don’t live too fast,
Troubles will come and they will pass.
Go find a woman and you’ll find love,
And don’t forget son,
There is someone up above.

And be a simple kind of man.
Be something you love and understand.
Be a simple kind of man.
Won’t you do this for me son,
If you can?

Forget your lust for the rich man’s gold
All that you need is in your soul,
And you can do this if you try.
All that I want for you my son,
Is to be satisfied.

And be a simple kind of man.
Be something you love and understand.
Be a simple kind of man.
Won’t you do this for me son,
If you can?

Boy, don’t you worry… you’ll find yourself.
Follow your heart and nothing else.
And you can do this if you try.
All I want for you my son,
Is to be satisfied.

And be a simple kind of man.
Be something you love and understand.
Be a simple kind of man.
Won’t you do this for me son,
If you can?


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It’s November, have some pie

Welcome to November. I got an early start to the day with some music and exercise along with a few blog posts and some photo editing. Also, some work around the home this afternoon.

The calendar has some good things scheduled and the ever-present doctor appointments that seem to be a staple of our age. At least we are done with the pumpkins and can move onto prep for Thanksgiving.

An important time for me to keep exercising because it’s a good eating season. And that provides the balance I need to enjoy it.

A slice of pecan pie topped with chocolate drizzle and served with whipped cream and caramel sauce on a white plate.
From Kaminsky’s Desert Cafe in Charleston, Pecan Pie. Photo by Mike Hartley

With the family gatherings and big meals followed by pies and many other desserts, it also brings back the memories of those earlier celebrations. Ones that have you longing for those hugs and dishes they made that are missing now.

Last night with the family on Halloween, we were creating new memories. Ones I’ll cherish as I get older. Ones the kids or grandkids might recall when they are our age. So, onto another holiday season.

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • I’m back on a learning track again. Trying to pick up a few new skills or experiment a bit more.
  • Pain is a formattable opponent.
  • One thing I like about the arts, there isn’t an age limit.
  • Looking forward to a relaxing but productive evening.


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Sharp edges

I keep trying to smooth out life, but rough edges seem to catch me often. I guess that is just the nature of life.

Close-up of yellow and green leaves with distinctive patterns and shadows.
Photo by Mike Hartley

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • Admiring others hard work is inspiring. But make sure to spend time working hard to inspire someone else.
  • Living on other people’s timeframes can get old.
  • I always prided myself on being technically proficient in my jobs. Not so much in retirement.
  • All hail the charcoal grill.
  • It’s so sweet when your adult children make you part of their lives.  


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No thank you

The daily prompt with another good question. – What are your thoughts about cryptocurrency?

My first thought when I heard about this was SCAM. Another way for rich people to extract wealth from poorer people. Personally, I avoid it like the plague. That was just my gut instinct and to be honest I haven’t kept up with the technology of it and advancements since its inception.

I see it as another tease, to get rich quick. That greed mentality is pervasive in the world today.

Then again, the markets with all the insider trading and deals going on, this isn’t the safest place either.

But back to Crypto. Wasn’t the news headline the other day about a 6.3 BILLION dollar hack that happened?

Nope, you’re not going to catch me with a digital wallet. I’m having trouble dealing with people who don’t accept CASH.

I’m guessing a lot of people invest in it but barely understand it. Seems dangerous to me. But I’m older and maybe out of date on this topic.

And my final example of why I stay away from it. I read where Trump has earned 1.4 BILLION in 2025 in it. I don’t want to be on his sucker list.

Close-up of a black ship's anchor secured with ropes on a boat deck, with blue water in the background.
Watch what you tie your money to. Anchors away. Photo by Mike Hartley


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Halloween

I hope everyone had a safe Halloween night. Ours was great as we were invited to trick or treat with our children and grandchildren. It was great seeing them so excited. We had dinner before heading out with them and walked their neighborhood and saw them light up as our kids came to their doors.

Some were waiting outside for them, and some were just as excited as the kids. I managed to only have a piece or two of candy and a cupcake.

A window box filled with colorful autumn flowers, including orange, yellow, and white blooms, alongside a small pumpkin, set against a house with blue shutters.
Photo by Mike Hartley

I miss that about our neighborhood. Very few children and I guess the few we have go to other neighborhoods. Nobody again tonight.

And now we are in November. Is it just another month or is it a turning point? Is it the start of something new?

For me personally, I plan to finish the year strong and set the tone for 27. Making what I’ve been doing look like I was coasting. So, let’s get at it.


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Doors 34.26

Time for the weekly Thursday Doors challenge with our host Dan Antion. For those who love entrances, exits and the buildings and art that surrounds them this is the spot for you. The wonderful contributions from everywhere will delight. Share your own link in the comments on Dan’s weekly Door’s page.

I’m back. Apologies for some missing the last few weeks. Health, responsibilities and maybe some laziness on my part. But I’m back and ready to share. I’m just under the wire again this week due to just flying home late Thursday night from the wonderful city of Charleston South Carolina.

Tip to the wise. If you’re going to Charleston to photograph doors maybe make a reservation for a few months at the minimum. I could spend a week on one street at different times of the day.

Exterior view of Charleston Crab House, showcasing a colorful mural depicting local scenery, with people walking by and a one-way street sign visible.
Photo by Mike Hartley

It’s a great town to walk in.

A brick building with a wrought iron door, featuring green plants and flowers at its base, set against a clear sky.
Photo by Mike Hartley

If you love brick, this is a town for you.

A close-up view of a historical entrance featuring a white door with a decorative arch and a lantern above. The adjacent brick wall displays house numbers 75 and 71. Shadows from surrounding trees fall across the doorstep.
Photo by Mike Hartley

Watch your step, the sidewalks are a bit uneven.


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Goodbye Sun

Just like these sunflowers, I’m bowing my head at the change of seasons and shorter days of sunlight. And while I’m an admitted night owl, I do spend a lot of time in the sun. I love its warmth. I love that it puts things of beauty in a wonderful glow. I love how it warms the ocean for my body to get in.

A field of wilted sunflowers with yellow leaves and drooping heads, indicating they are past their prime. The background features blurred greenery.
Sad Sunflowers. Photo by Mike Hartley

I love stepping outside and watching the sunrise without shivering. I love how it warms the breeze. I love the shadows it gives and the rainbows it creates shining through the water droplets. I feel it baking me when I have the top down on the car. I love how it shines through the leaves in the trees above me when I lay in the hammock.

Look at this, we’re not into November yet and I’m already longing for next Summer. There could be some complaints in the coming months.

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • It was a beautiful sunrise this morning.
  • My knee is hurting again. I hate wearing a brace, but I might have to consider it when working.
  • Be careful tonight. And have fun kids.
  • Tailgaters beware; you might just run into a former biker who now drives a car.
  • Taking some time painting today I think will be well spent.


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Life philosophy

The daily prompt has asked a tough question – If you had to sum up your life philosophy in one sentence, what would it be?

Trying to love and help others along the way while working hard and finding ways express myself.

Well, that was my first attempt. Putting a life philosophy in one sentence is a tough ask. For if you asked me this question, I would probably answer differently on different days.

For instance, if I was out with my two best friends the philosophy might be short and sweet.

That’s a penalty shot.

If I had just spent the day watching a grandchild, it might be.

Life is so simple, precious, sweet, loving and made of smiles of children.

If I was on a day trip by myself to Ocean City in my convertible the philosophy might be.

Wind in the hair, a manual gearbox, toes in the sand, waves in the ears and sun on the skin.

If I’m out photographing for the day, it would be.

Eyes move constantly, seeing opportunities, the body spinning around, the head looking up and down, measuring light and framing life with a camera in hand.

If you caught me with this question on family vacation.

Being woken up by our grandchildren jumping and screaming with joy, while their parents stand at the door laughing and smiling.

A silhouette of a person walking along a beach at sunset, holding a surfboard.
Catching the first rays of the day. Photo by Mike Hartley


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Work and Horsing Around

It’s nice to have time to just horse around. Be it 5 minutes or 5 hours like I have now in retirement. At work I remember many times taking just a few seconds or minutes to take the pressure off and make those around me laugh. Being it was a pressure cooker, it seemed to help. Most of us took that approach so it was manageable.

At times with some though it was frowned upon. Like when Directors came by. Most mid-level managers who knew if the work was being done the best, allowed and enjoyed our banter and occasional antics/pranks.

A brown horse peering through bars of a stable, with equipment visible in the background.
From the stables at Old South Carriage Company. Photo by Mike Hartley

Today I’m sitting here between chores around the homestead. Storing hoses, hammock frames, patio furniture, blowing off decks and raking leaves. There might even be time to cut the yard for the last time. If not today definitely tomorrow.

A wall displaying various horse saddles and horseshoes organized on hooks, showcasing equipment for equestrian use in a rustic setting.
Stable supplies. Photo by Mike Hartley

My better half has been working hard also. So, it’s a household in action. But as I type this, my foot and back are having a conversation about the continued pace.

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • If I can make picking up the camera and using it every day a permanent habit, I’m going to have a lot more work to share.
  • If I didn’t enjoy the whole process of photography from prep to shooting to processing to editing to displaying, I wouldn’t do each of them. It does take some time though.
  • I’m relaxed, I’m enjoying life, I’m working on my goals, hobbies and loving people each day. I’ve also never been so worried about a civil war breaking out, than I am now.
  • Flying up the Chesapeake Bay yesterday at sunset was beautiful.


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Similar

This shot reminds me of the view I had seated yesterday at the airport. One at the terminal, one warming up on the runway and one just taking flight.

Two white herons wading and flying over a calm body of water reflecting the sky.
Photo by Mike Hartley

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • Endless Summer is my mindset. That’s tough to pull off in the state of Maryland but I’m going for it.
  • Seems like a lot of leaves are falling before changing color.
  • Make an impact, go ahead, give it a go. You’re never going to find out unless you try.
  • It’s a top-down day for the Miata.
  • When you make the most of what you have, you’re a success.
  • I heard the voice of a very important friend today. I’m going to build on that and make a few more calls.


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With joy

The daily prompt asks me – Share a few recent shots from your camera roll, no context needed.

Oh, hell yeah. As an amateur photog being asked to share from your camera roll generates excitement. The trouble with that is I still use a camera and manually download that to my computer. That most recent roll is well over 300 shots. Sorry, after using a camera for over 5 decades I just can’t get used to using that phone to do that function.

The context of these shots will become clear over the next few days as I share more from that batch.

A Monarch butterfly with orange and black wings perched on bright red and yellow flowers, surrounded by green foliage.
Photo by Mike Hartley

I really should get used to using that phone for more photography.

A butterfly perched on vibrant orange marigold flowers in bright sunlight.
Photo by Mike Hartley

There are a lot of advantages to using a phone for photos, but also some disadvantages.

Spanish moss hanging from tree branches against a blue sky.
Photo by Mike Hartley

A quick skim through sites talking about shots taken with conventional cameras is under 10%. Guess I’m showing my age.

A butterfly perched on vibrant orange marigold flowers in bright sunlight.
Photo by Mike Hartley

Maybe as I get older, I’ll get tired of carrying those heavy DSLRs.

A bird perched on top of a wooden post against a clear blue sky, with leaves and dry flowers in the background.
Photo by Mike Hartley


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Returning

I’m just catching up this evening with the blog. We were away a few days playing tourist in Charleston South Carolina. What a beautiful place. I’ve got about 400 images to download and edit. I hope I have a few good ones. We did a ton of walking and eating and sightseeing in 4 1/2 days. The weather was perfect, sunny with highs in the mid-70s and upper 50s or low 60s at night, which is nice for us older folks.

We sampled carriage rides, galleries galore, shopping, museums, waterfront dining, plantations and fountains. We walked many miles each day and it felt great. And it’s a good thing we did because this is a great food paradise. It was one of the cleanest towns I’ve been to. It also felt safe no matter where we went.

The style, color and design of the architecture was unbelievable. The people are friendly and helpful. It all made for a great trip with my better half.

A horse-drawn carriage with a driver and passengers travels along a city street lined with buildings and palm trees.
At the corner of King and Queen Streets. Could this be royalty in the carriage? Photo by Mike Hartley

Oh, it’s good to be back. Now to work, I love it.


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A Desk

The daily prompt asks – What’s one thing you own that holds deep sentimental value?

I have several things, but I guess the oldest and deepest if my father’s desk which I work on every day. Well except for the last few days because we were away in Charleston South Carolina. That is why this post is so late in the day. We just got home around 7:30pm.

But back to the desk. Yes, it’s a bit smaller than I’d like and need but that helps keep it pretty clean also. It’s old so it’s a heavy one for a small desk. I believe it’s all white oak.

It feels like I belong at it. There is an ease when I work at it. Even though it’s starting to show a little age and could use a sanding and refinishing coat.

The other item I have that holds deep sentimental value that I almost went with a tea cart my mom loved. I’ve sanded that down and I’m fixing a broken handle. Once that’s complete, I’ll stain it.

I’ve told my children about these items, and I hope that they make them part of their future when I’m gone.


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Rainbow

My oldest granddaughter loves rainbows. She loves seeing a rainbow in the sky. She loves rainbow stickers. She sometimes gets rainbows on her tennis shoes or unicorns.

I’ve always loved them myself and actively look for them during and after rains. Simple light and water creating beauty.

A rainbow arches over a stadium filled with spectators, with bright stadium lights illuminating the scene against a cloudy sky.
At Orioles Park. Photo by Mike Hartley

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • I love eating breakfast at small diners.
  • There is an end table in my basement. It contains a heating pad, a blood pressure machine, a back brace, a knee brace, a shoulder brace and two ankle braces. I’m saying this as a note to my doctor that I don’t have any more room in this cabinet.
  • Companies used to make engraved name plaques for people. I noticed that going away towards the end of my career. Guess people weren’t staying long enough to make it worthwhile.
  • Do you ever feel unusually relaxed and wonder why?


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Writing

When it comes to writing in my blog I’ve done a fair amount. I’m in my 12th year and have no intention of slowing down. WordPress tells me I’ve already used 1,459,000 words in the years of blogging with them. That sounds like way too many.

I see the average word count for a book is between 70-120K. Jeez, I’ve written several books, it appears by the numbers I rang up in WP. I didn’t start the blog, to write. It was going to be a photography blog. It still is but the opportunity to ramble on was irresistible. It would probably be more popular if I just stuck to photos.

Of course, writing isn’t about total number of words. It’s how those words and thoughts are crafted and put together. Sometimes few words are the best words. In some ways writing is like photography. I’m capturing something that might send a message or evoke a feeling or communicate or connect to another individual.

Improving the content means I have to improve my writing. There are so many eloquent blogs I follow and see that are so well written. It’s intimidating and inspiring at the same time.

And for me it does come down to time. I got a late start on my creative interest and still struggle to make the time I’d like to devote to it. I’m doing it though, increasing my practice and knowledge all the time.

I’m starting a few books and while that may be way premature, when you’re in your senior years the time for thinking about doing something has well past, and the time to do it is now.

I know I’m not a writer yet. Might never turn into a good one but that won’t stop me.

Things I’ve learned so far in my writing journey.

  • I write best late at night and early in the mornings.
  • My photos inspire my post ideas.
  • My random thoughts from day to day are fun to come up with.
  • Writing so far these years has always been fun.
  • I wish I had an editor and proofreader.
  • Sometimes I do feel I should spend more time on other artistic interests and less on writing.
  • Writing at times is therapeutic.
  • There is a ton of stuff in life, I don’t write.
  • I think maybe my grandkids in the future, might read about their Papa and pick up an important tip here and there.
A collection of blue and black markers with various caps, arranged in a green container.
Penmanship, remember that. Photo by Mike Hartley


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Rarely

I love seafood but I rarely get lobster. It’s not that I don’t like it, I do. With some drawn butter and a light touch of old bay and it’s perfect. It used to be that lobster was the most expensive seafood item on the menu. It is in some cases still but not in all cases in all seasons.

Location also matters when getting lobsters. I personally can’t wait till we take a trip to the New England area in the coming years and get near a coastal community and sample some real fresh lobster.

A plate of peeled and deveined shrimp, seasoned and partially cooked, arranged on a styrofoam tray.
From one of our seafood feasts. Photo by Mike Hartley

I believe I’ll indulge in some seafood this week. This is still one of the prime months for Maryland Blue Crabs. October is also a good month for scallops. And shrimp along the east coast is still plentiful and fresh.

Yesterday, I had a grouper sandwich from Oscars in Woodstock that is always great and this one was one of the best.

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • I find when I give myself less time to come up with random thoughts, the better they are.
  • Don’t waste minutes, they become increasingly valuable with age.
  • My old car and my old body are starting to have more things in common than I like.
  • Pain is limiting even if you’re successful fighting it because you had to spend time on it.


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Roots

Where to live. One of the toughest questions in life. My better half and I were discussing the choices we have made. In the beginning, it was being close enough to our parents to help them. Then to be close enough to our own children to help them out and be able to see our grandchildren.

Would it be nice to live at the beach or out in the country a bit more, sure would. But only for a short time. Because the distance to loved ones and friends would be greater and create a whole new set of challenges I’d be uncomfortable with.

I love being part of my grandchildren’s lives. It’s tough sometimes but very gratifying. I know being a parent wore me out. Trying to keep up with grandkids requires some resources you have to dig deep for as a senior. I’ve injured myself a few times thinking I’m a kid when playing with them.

But oh, the joy in hearing them laugh or the determination you see in them to get around you to destroy the Lincoln Log tower I just built without them seeing. Or how they settle in your arms as you read them a story or 10. Or the chance to help mold them and impart knowledge and skills.

I’ve watched the dynamics of families who live close to their children and ones who live great distances. I’m making no judgement on other decisions, but I see at times those who do live that distance, longing for their children’s and grandchild’s contact.

I see the 2022 it reported: Nearly six in 10 young adults live within 10 miles of where they grew up, and eight in 10 live within 100 miles, according to a new study by researchers at the U.S. Census Bureau and Harvard University.

All I know is when I get a text saying, “do you want to meet at the park?” it’s nice to say yes and be there.

Two adults walking on a path toward a playground, one pushing a toy while a small child plays nearby.

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • There are those who have to finish first, and can’t just enjoy being in the game and contest.
  • Excitement and anticipation. College basketball season is about to begin again.
  • The more, bad decisions you make, the tougher it is to move past them.
  • Our ability to ignore how fragile life is can be remarkable.


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Something I miss

I was going back through some old shots and came across this one. Nothing significant about it but its origin. It came from a place called Duchess Sandwich and Shake shop in Ellicott City. It was only open from 11am to 4pm M-F. Ms. Maggie would make sandwiches to order, and you couldn’t beat the price. I believe this turkey and cheese was $3.50.

My first stop there was in the mid-70s I believe when her husband ran it. I would either go there or Georges on Rt 40 for a good quick inexpensive lunch. I miss both those places because they were so friendly. People there were courteous and talkative with each other. And they didn’t break the bank.

A hand holding a sliced sandwich filled with turkey, cheese, and tomato, set against a blurred background.
Photo by Mike Hartley

Those little community places have mostly gone by the wayside. And what ones there are now, are difficult to afford. In some ways it’s part of the normal cycle. It was time for her to retire and when her freezer broke that was just the push she needed.

There are a lot of people who miss this place and other local stops that closed their doors. Chains are dotting every corner it seems and more open every day. For instance, a new Popeyes and Taco Bell are coming to Rt 40 soon.

I loved that it was cash only. Sandwiches wrapped in paper and a brown paper bag to go. That shakes were only $3.75. Things were so cheap I think everyone felt a bit guilty because I always saw people leaving her extra and this is carry-out only. And people spoke while waiting in line. Because she was the only one behind the counter working usually. I think her daughter helped now and then with the shakes.

People held the door when you had your hands full and were patient in the limited parking area. You might be in line and have a doctor in front of you, a construction worker behind you and everyone from all walks seemed to visit here. Lots of locals who often said to each other, “hey how have you been” and go outside and catch up after getting their food.

Which is another reason I loved it because I would my sandwich and either alone or with my better half go down to the Patapsco River and eat along the banks watching the water flow by and the occasional Blue Herron come by and fish. A lot of my car rides to wherever the car wanted to take me always seemed to roll by that spot to get a bite to eat and then find a beautiful scene to enjoy the food in.

Maybe a trip down to Danials and the dam.

A person fishing by a serene waterfall surrounded by autumn foliage and rocks.
Another shot fishing at Danials Dam. Photo by Mike Hartley

Maybe I’ll make my own sandwich and head out later today with the top down and find another sweet spot to enjoy fall.

Have a great day.


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Late night

Being up while most are asleep is like having the world to yourself. I used to drive home at the 3-4am window after getting off work in some early years commuting back and forth from DC. For highways usually jammed with traffic it would be only the odd car at best every few miles. It was great.

When I worked the overnight shift years later, usually I didn’t take my break until the last edition was released to the pressroom which was around 2am. Sometimes I would wander the streets downtown which were jammed with life during the day but eerily empty overnight. With only the homeless dotting the sidewalks and grates.

Of course, you can meet some not so well-intentioned animals in the evening. I’ve walked out the door to a fox, snake, raccoons and other creatures of the evening. I’ve also seen some danger when walking the streets of DC at night and other towns.

One of my interests is in night photography. I haven’t done much in that area as I’d like, which I hope to change.

I’m not out and about like I used to be. Might have to change that and start venturing out more again.

A damp, overcast, cool day at the beach still beats just about anything else.

An elderly man sitting in a beach chair on the sand, wearing a cap and reading a book or device, with grass and shoreline in the background.
Photo by Mike Hartley

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • Who is the real “Enemy of the People”
  • Boy when Aerosmith was on as a band, they were one of the best. I also witnessed a few shows that were plagued by equipment or people failures. But when they are right you can’t help but shake your body and try to imitate Stevens screams. I still love listening to them.
  • A fact about my state that I didn’t know about till today – Maryland is the only state in the United States that has an outright ban on the possession and use of flamethrowers.


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Work

Working the fields which I believe are part of the University of Maryland Extension off Homewood Road just before Folly Quarter. One of my favorite back roads to get home, when I worked in Columbia. Anything to avoid that traffic on Rt 29.

Much respect for our agricultural workers. And to the University of Maryland for keeping that expanse of the county working, beautiful and open.

Two tractors working in a green field, creating dust as they move. Hay bales are scattered across the landscape.
Photo by Mike Hartley

Speaking of work. This blog is work. The kind I like doing and get a charge out of because it’s my creation. The only thing I’ve used recently was to let it generate metadata which I was always too lazy to do before this.

But any images and writing are my work. No AI manipulation. If I take a photo and do anything other than crop and do a slight brightness adjustment for my lack of skill getting the right exposure. If I do something it will be marked photo illustration. I’m not against doing those things. They create beautiful work.

But I came from the industry that was guided by photojournalism ethics. Adjusting reality wasn’t tolerated. So that is where I tend to live most of the time.

I use spell check to help me with my poor grammar skills, but I don’t let it write and keep things in my own words when it feels more like I speak. Even though that might not be correct all the time.

Letting machines do some work I’m all for. Letting it take the place of artist in any form is a loss for all of us in what that person isn’t creating from inside themselves.

AI scares the crap out of me. The internet before AI showed how easily people can be manipulated. Speaking to AI systems, taking my prescription refill order freaks me out. It won’t be long that I’m longing to speak to a real person. Whoops, that has already happened when I try to call Verizon.

Well, back to my simple life without AI as much as possible.


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Goals here and there

Do you set personal goals for yourself? – Asks the daily prompt.

Yes, I set a lot of goals. It’s fun and keeps me on track for accomplishing things. Some are easy, some are hard. Some I work on for a while and then change the goal. Some I even accomplish.

I used to let my own goals overwhelm me at times when I wasn’t getting things done at the speed I wanted. I’ve stopped that. I get done what I get done.

A lacrosse goal on a green artificial turf field, with colorful markings and a fenced background.
First and 10. Photo by Mike Hartley


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AI thoughts

The daily prompt with a good question – What do you think is the future of AI?

There is a question I could probably fill a book with speculation about. A question that I hope for the best but fear for the worst.

An old term/saying comes to mind when thinking about AI at this point of time. I think it went – Don’t get too far out over your skis.

And that is where I think we are now. Getting ahead of ourselves in a relentless pursuit of the almighty dollar and to be first.

When it has the possibility of so much good and yet we seem to want to unleash an unknown beast untethered. Instead of doing something for humanity we are making our implements of war stronger.

I grew up in the 60s and 70s and thought I knew what turbulent times were. I’m afraid this technology might eventually cause even more turmoil than those decades.

In some ways maybe solutions provided could solve very troubling issues for our planet and society. Issues of health, food and water management, and others. But if the worst of human nature gets its hands on things which have been the case many times in our history, we could be in for monumental problems.

I do know I wouldn’t want the roar of a datacenter next to my neighborhood. I’ve been in these warehouses of machines. They are already going to take more energy to run than we have. As is common, the people are footing the extra bill in power along the way and may pay a lot more in the future for it. Unless AI comes up with a clean cheap technology for energy.

What scares me is I hope we aren’t looking at a repeat of end of 2007 and instead of a subprime mortgage failure we AI investment bubble burst.

But I’ll end on an optimistic note. I hope some really bright and ethical people get a hold of this technology and that it takes life on earth and improves it for us all and our planet.

Close-up image of several rolled black cables secured with black straps.
Wire bundles. Photo by Mike Hartley


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Stress

The daily prompt with one of those questions I have no use for this morning. It asks – Which book’s world would be the absolute worst to live in?

My first thought was reality is usually stranger than fiction and the world in the coming future is certainly going to have more struggles than we have today. So, these could be the good old days we are in now. I’m going to try to improve it for my kids and grandkids in the time I have left.

My better half says we have a free day today. I like the sound of that and to quote a good friend of mine, “all up.”

Some good music is pumping through my ears; I’m almost finished editing a shoot of 191 shots and about to upload them. Once that is done, I’m back on the treadmill for some heart exercise.

After a few minutes of thought, my question is – Are you seeing more people in your orbit under greater stress and are you overwhelmed yourself?

In our group of family, friends and acquaintances we are seeing more people struggling. Hard-working people, educated people, even retired people who have worked hard. And it’s not just financial struggles. It’s that atmosphere of tension and aggressiveness that is troubling.

People wondering if their profession is going to be around and if they will have to learn new skills and start over again. My children are grown but 2 of them are teachers. I have grandchildren that go to school. Imagine being nervous of family being in school because you know it’s no longer safe.

Just taking a drive can be a brush with death every time you buckle up because of an ever-increasing number of idiots and selfish F’s. Or is that food safe at the store now? And what germ or virus is lurking around the corner for our next health crisis.

Then again, the suns out, it will be warm enough to put the top down, and a good song has my spirits flying high and the hope it to make the best of the day.

I’m not overwhelmed, but I sense it on the horizon.

Remember to enjoy the colors of the season because soon it will look like this.

A dense grove of bare trees during winter, showcasing their white trunks and branches against a backdrop of brown foliage.
Photo by Mike Hartley


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Good Afternoon

It’s been 13 years since I’ve paid a visit to Vietnam Veterans Memorial. We need to get back and see this and other sites in DC. But waiting till spring seems like a good call with the possible election turmoil coming up.

Visitors walking along a paved pathway leading to a reflective black wall monument, surrounded by green grass and trees.
A moving place. Photo by Mike Hartley

I’m glad I go back through some older folders and find some shots I haven’t shared before. DC is so close I should take advantage of the photographic opportunities more often. I’m not going to miss them like I did this year.

A section of a black granite memorial wall engraved with names, surrounded by greenery.
If these walls don’t give you pause, I’m not sure what will. Photo by Mike Hartley

Unfortunately, it’s time to balance out the day and take care of a few chores around the homestead. Covering the AC unit, bringing in some firewood, finishing some caulking and schedule some electrical work.


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Underrated flick

What’s the most underrated movie you’ve ever watched? – Asks the daily prompt again.

Kelly’s Heroes, Silverado and Hell or High Water. I’m not a huge movie buff so my choices were limited.

A large orange pumpkin displaying several purple award ribbons at an exhibition.
Pumpkin from Bumpkin. Yes, that is a full-size skid under it. Photo by Mike Hartley


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Here’s looking at you

I love animals. They look so deeply into your eyes. I love how they read and react to you. Especially dogs. They get so in tune with their dads and moms. And the kids if they are around.

A golden retriever laying on a carpet with its head resting on its paws, looking directly at the camera.
All four paws and a face. Photo by Mike Hartley

Been a very busy day and feeling good about the progress made. Learning my new photo site and tools. Also, a bit of research for a project. Well actually a lot of research. Hope to relax a bit and then back to work later tonight.

Being a blog is part of the new photo site I’m going to use that to kind of track my progress and activity. And if I learn something along the way I’ll share it.

Utilizing the tools I have has not been one of my strong points. I have enough problems making the time to create content and read and view other efforts which inspire me to do better.

Winter is on the way through which means I’ll be indoors a lot more and hopefully end the year strong and get a great jump on 2027. I can’t believe I mentioned 2027 but it will be here before we know it.

See you all later this evening.


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Share and survive

What’s something you’ve done that you never thought you could? – Asks the daily prompt.

I began to share my photos and thoughts/writings and soon maybe some of my other attempts at my creative endeavors. Which I never thought were good enough. Of course, I could still prove myself right there.

Survived a few cancers and was lucky enough to learn to appreciate life like I didn’t do for the first 50 years of it.

Close-up of a vintage Kodet lens mounted on an old folding camera, with visible film compartment and lens markings.
Photo by Mike Hartley


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Tempting

Did you ever have a day you just felt like losing yourself. Letting life take you where it will. Today feels like that. I woke up early and worked on a few posts. I’m almost finished editing the 500+ photos I took from the car show in Ocean City and uploading them.

I feel like getting some exercise so as soon as I get up from here, I’m hitting the weight and treadmill.

The cameras are fully charged and ready to capture some fall color and local life today. And by noon it will be warm enough to drive with the top down.

It’s leftovers day for food and I don’t care in the least because I have something good to eat. Knowing people that struggle with that simple thing (lack of food) keeps me appreciative.

Spending some time reading and writing also sounds appealing. What I don’t want to spend time reading is that Medicare and You 2027 book that came.

I might take the Dremel tools outside and work on some wood. And I put a fresh piece of watercolor paper on the easel.

All this involves ignoring other chores. I wonder what I’ll get away with doing, before responsibilities are acknowledged. I have my irresponsible days though.

I hope yours is a good day.

A view of Inlet Park sign with a boat cruising in the water and a sandy shore in the background.
I won’t be cruising past this sign for a few months now. Photo by Mike Hartley

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • I see a lot of opportunities for moving the bar today.
  • The coming months of political fighting will make a serious attempt to ruin the holiday season.
  • What amazes me is that so many so-called Americans are still willing to vote for the Putin/Trump ticket.
  • Time to crank up the fireplace or the firepit tonight.
  • Only one more cut of the lawn anticipated. I always feel like I have won against mother nature after surviving another season of lawn care. And then comes winter and it knows I have no power tools other than me and a shovel and she wins again.


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For a week

The daily prompt asks – If you could switch lives with a famous person for a week, who would it be and why?

My first thought was why would I want to do that. One being away from my life for a week means I might miss something important in my own life. Second, I don’t aspire to fame. It comes with a price. And even for a week that’s means with the good comes the bad.

Your loss of privacy, the constant demands of fame. With that fame sometimes comes fortune and with that comes everybody who wants something or a part of it.

You have to sort out people who want to be true friends and those who want to be next to famous people. That part is easy now, if people hang with me, they are my friends.

Even if I play along it would be very hard to choose. I thought about my favorite baseball player right now, Aaron Judge. I thought it would be cool to experience that natural talent and skill he has, plus he seems like a nice person. But then I thought about coming to bat in Yankee Stadium and the few drunks would say something stupid and I’d respond, “hey fat boy, come on down here and do better” and I’d ruin his good reputation which I don’t want to do.

So next.

I love comedy and thought about experiencing the brilliance of writing, creating and performing and getting those great laughs. And then I thought about the tortured souls of three of my favorites Robin Williams, John Belushi and Richard Pryor and I’m not sure I want that pain.

Next

Ah, Muhammad Ali – One of the most known people on the planet at one time. I’d want to know what it’s like to have that motivation and drive he had. That focus and physical talent and skill combined in the ring. But also, that mindset in life and following his own path. Speaking what was on his mind and following his own convictions. Of course, before all those blows took its toll, which is a heavy price to pay for those early years.

Well, I’m back to my original answer. None. For the simple reason that it’s not specifically specified which week of their lives you would be switching with. For example, if I wanted to be Richard Pryor, I wouldn’t want to be the week he set himself on fire and nearly died.

So, I’ll continue happily in anonymity. I wouldn’t want to miss that facetime with my children and grandchildren for any fame.

Now if you want to give me a week at a bed and breakfast with a front porch overlooking the ocean and a sandy 100-foot path to it, I’m all in.

A charming porch with white furniture, featuring a welcome sign and an entrance sign pointing to a parlor. The porch has decorative trim and is surrounded by greenery.


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Stress

The daily prompt asks – How do you manage stress?

Over this long lifetime I’ve handled many stresses in both good and bad ways. In truth it’s managed me at times in life. When I reacted poorly to stress, I sometimes used drinking and drugs.

I realized life was about managing stress. Like a wise friend shared with me, you can’t control a lot of things, only how you react to them. Life is one continuous stress test.

Being older and retired, a lot of those big stresses have passed or changed, and some new ones took their place.

The major ones have passed in some ways. but also changed in some significant ways. For instance, the stress of being a young parent through infancy till they are getting a college degree and one day are saying goodbye to you and their home. But you never stop being a parent or caring or worrying about them. And now we stress with the grandchildren.

The stress of the job is gone. Answering to someone else has passed. But I’ve always answer to myself, and I can be a tough taskmaster. Answering to someone else was a major stressor. I have trouble with authority when I don’t agree with it. And some who knew me professionally might have thought I was outspoken. Which usually meant saying what others lacked the stones to say.

A huge stress, especially in this area, is the daily commute. I avoid rush hours like the plague now. That is a stress I’m so glad is passed because I love to drive, but those 100-mile commutes to the middle of Washington and back were brutal.

The stress of being a caregiver for parents last years is a major one a lot of us go through. But when it’s over you miss going shopping for them, picking up after them, taking them to the doctor’s and caring for them.

The financial pressures are still here, that is a lifetime one for most of us.

The stress of health becoming an issue and eventually leaving this world. Health is the most important thing and it’s what you realize and stress about the most as a senior. Both for yourself and especially those significant others growing very old with you.

The stress of trying to have the energy of a young parent when watching grandchildren.

Thankfully I haven’t had the stress a lot of seniors go through when they retire. I’m loving it.

My stress reducers

  • Music
  • Get in a stick shift car with rear wheel drive. Pull up the light, focus, bring RPM up, put in 1st gear and let that clutch go.
  • Exercise
  • Tell the boss where to go.
  • Good friends you can unwind with.
  • A motorcycle
  • I guess I could have reduced your stress by making this post a little shorter.
A man in a red jacket sits on a bench with his hands covering his face, appearing distressed, while several people are seated or walking in the background near a pavilion.
Don’t Stress over the coming Holidays. Photo by Mike Hartley


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Wow

I’m late getting this out and I hope an important person to me sees this post.

I mentioned earlier something special on Monday happened to me. But the story starts a good while back when I did a post about my father’s burial flag from Arlington and I needed to get a case for it. Out of the blue a nice one shows up anonymously, which I immediately filled and put in a special spot where I have maybe 30 or so 8x10s of Arlington National Cemetery.

Until Monday I didn’t know the generous person behind this wonderful gesture. I had already questioned all those close to me when it came a year or more ago and I was stumped.

When I went outside to put the 5-gallon gas can in the car to go fill again for mowing and I noticed a note and a pack of photo printing paper beside it.

A quick summary of that note. Bob was here from far out of the state of Maryland and wanted to meet me. He was in town for a 50th HS reunion. He said he followed my blog and was the one who sent me the flag case. WOW. I was blown away. Fortunately, he left his phone number, and I called him back and he was able to come by for a visit.

We had a wonderful talk for at least an hour, probably 2, and found we shared a lot in common. I’ll be calling him back again and thanking him for the visit and wonderful gifts that I cherish.

This action Bob has taken reminded me in his kindness that I should also pass it on. I’m going to sit down this week and spread some love to some of my favorite charities. Then I’m going to go buy some toys for a friend’s children’s hospital charity.

And then I might find a stranger who needs something.

A triangular display case holding a folded American flag with white stars on a blue background, placed on a table. In the background, various framed photographs of cemeteries are mounted on a wall.
Thank you Bob for the case and visit. Photo by Mike Hartley


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Late to the day

I always feel frustrated when I get a late start to the day. Be it missing the morning sunrise, the first post of the day delivered late in the morning or just waking up later than I normally do and not getting my morning exercise in. So, my Sunday start hasn’t been the best one by far.

My mind was willing yesterday and last night, but the body wasn’t. It was the first time in a while that it stopped me in my tracks repeatedly. I was a very uncomfortable day. I made a lot of progress despite that. I backed off on the physical work a bit and used the computer.

Today is a day I’m going to power through to the best of my ability. Because that is what we do, because the alternative is to give in or give up. And the list of things to do for the house and yard is a list that just keeps growing so giving up or in, can’t be considered.

A view of a bridge from the roadway with a clear blue sky and sunlight shining in the background.
The Chesapeake Bay Bridge eastbound span. Photo by Mike Hartley

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • It’s good to know that you aren’t a good gambler before you go gambling, it can save you a lot of money.
  • I was not prepared for that cold this morning. I’m not putting my shorts away yet, but I will be careful stepping outside in them.
  • If you find joy in creating, you have unlocked an important part of your life.
  • Seeing a granddaughter give her mother flowers with pride is a nice moment.
  • Taking better advantage of every opportunity to create is getting more important every day.


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Forward in Time

The daily prompt asks – If you could go back in time and give your younger self advice, what would it be? I feel like I answered this question before. And when I search for the word advice on my blog, I see many questions answered on advice for the younger me and others.

So, I’ll pose this question another way today.

Thinking forward, what advice would you give today for a senior citizen, like me.

  • Do it today. You’re not going to feel any better tomorrow or the next day.
  • Appreciate your senses and memories, for they will slowly fade.
  • Know that each meeting with family and friends is more special than the last.
  • Pursue what you want to do. Act on your ideas and don’t stop.
  • Share your feelings now before the opportunity is lost.
A person fishing on rocks by the water during sunset.
Photo by Mike Hartley


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Proud

The daily prompt asks – What’s something you’ve done that your past self would be proud of? – I hope I get the concept of this question correctly.

  • That I returned to dreams I had in my younger days of trying my hand at art and writing in my senior years. – Better late than never.
  • That I was a very good professional despite my continuing self-doubt.
  • That I might have been a good parent. – you will have to verify with the kids and grandkids, but I think you might get an affirmative.
  • That I had the strength to be a caregiver for parents.
  • That I’m still here, despite those thoughts in my head to the contrary.
  • That I’m still driving a stick shift.

Fall is here.

A couple sitting on a wooden bench by the water, with one person wearing a pink hooded jacket and the other in a light gray sweater and cap. The background features green plants and shimmering water.
Photo by Mike Hartley


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Transitions

We are really entering the fall season now. Don’t worry, I’m fully aware that I have to work on my negative attitude towards the cooler seasons. I can’t guarantee it won’t sneak out from time to time, but I’ll try to keep it to a minimum.

I tried another transition today but I’m not having much success moving my photo site to a new system. So, I asked for help from them. The start of this process has not been inspiring so far. But a few hours later we are successful and the transtion to learning new software and processes begins again.

There is a close friend going through some difficult times and transitions. I think he is getting to the point where he is finally realizing that he must help himself and that he has some difficult times ahead of him. Not a pleasant place to be but he’s fully aware he put himself there.

We’ve tried repeatedly to help but it’s fallen on deaf ears or opportunities, help and advice have been squandered. And while we will never abandon him, there are limits to what we will do for him now.

There is a worry that we might not have a smooth and orderly transition after the coming election. That would have very dire consequences for this country.

Soon there will be a transition among close friends. One will be moving a distance away, still within driving distance but not the 10-15 minutes we all have had for all our lives. This makes some significant changes for our regular weekly vigil. It’s going to be interesting to see how we adapt.

Transition in seasons means it’s almost time to winterize the outdoor equipment.

It also means I transition from having the top down on my car to using seat warmers. I park my fun machine most of the winter season and use my old beater car for the nasty days. Another seasonal transition I don’t care for.

Close-up of vibrant orange autumn leaves against a clear blue sky.
Color by Nature. Photo by Mike Hartley

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • With the money he’s spending you would think Elon Musk was running for office in Texas.
  • I smile as I take the backroads that go over the Baltimore Beltway when it’s at a standstill, which is most of the time.
  • I think the only thing that will change the minds of politicians to act on gun issues is if their own children are shot in school. Because it seems that as long as it happens to other people, it’s okay.
  • I see Trump said he doesn’t go around mocking people. I kind of agree with him. He doesn’t go around it. That is what he does all day long.


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Last blast

Indian summer returned here in the mid-Atlantic for a few days. I was floating like a butterfly on the back roads of the county enjoying the warmth. A day of mowing in the sunshine with just a tee shirt and shorts. As opposed to the last cutting or two of the season with a big sweatsuit and jacket on.

It’s going to hit 80 today and I doubt we will be seeing that number or higher till next spring. Just typing that depresses me. But I’ll hold onto the past few days and the memories of a nice summer with family and friends.

A butterfly perched on a pink flower with a blurred black cat in the background.
My neighbor’s cat in the background thinking about playing with the butterfly. Photo by Mike Hartley

Random Thoughts of the Morning

  • Oh, the irony of today’s Fox News Poll. Just under 90% of their respondents said they were extremely concerned about government corruption, putting it ahead of inflation, healthcare and other issues.
  • Test of endurance and strength today. Yep, we’re watching grandchildren.
  • I feel like eating a meal out today.
  • There is a lot to be said for saying very little.


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Mentor

The daily prompt asks – What’s the best online course you’ve ever taken?

To be entirely honest, it’s been years since I have done an online course. I can’t even remember a remote favorite. I know, I’m wasting all that knowledge and experience.

Not that I don’t watch YouTube videos for tips and tricks.

What I will do instead is talk about the importance of a mentor. Online courses and manuals will only take you so far. That personal experience with someone with decades of experience can be an invaluable way to learn. At least that was my personal experience.

The people being mentored know the importance of it. The people doing it understand that it’s important for the group to succeed. The mid-level managers and supervisors know it because they trained the trainers.

It was especially important throughout the whole of my 50 years in newspapers. Having worked at small, medium and large companies, it was the one thing consistent throughout. Now whether some upper management realized it was even going on or not or the importance of it is another thing.

Maybe it was just the era I came up in or the work experiences I had, but people shared knowledge. Well yeah, you always have some that try to use it as power, but a majority of people were mentors or being mentored. The amazing thing to me is that it was so informal.

When you paired the right people together the gains were immediate and significant. In the IT environments I worked in, we wore many hats. Way too many hats in most cases.

Even early on when it was with production equipment, in the engraving and press areas. There were no safety training or warnings or manuals. When people started in the pressroom, you were taught where to and where not to put your hands. What to do when you hear a bell. What path not to be in as to not to be run over by the clamp truck bringing couple ton rolls of newsprint to the press. How to climb through a running 9-unit web offset press like a jungle gym to adjust ink settings because that is how it was done on old presses.

Later, as a UNIX Admin, we had to know operating systems, network, security, storage, backup, database, applications, performance tuning, redundant disaster systems at multiple locations on platforms from every company known to man.

At each stage and many in between, I was either being taught or teaching someone.

Only towards the end of my career did I notice companies pitting employees against each other. That internal competition has its own set of problems, which they are finding out.

Sorry to ramble on so long. Online courses are cool. Mentors are a more powerful learning tool though. IMHO.

Two individuals wearing white uniforms and hats are walking away, each carrying a large red bag. They are on a brick-paved outdoor area near a building.
Back to work partner. Photo by Mike Hartley


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Caution

Caution, older generation coming through.

Two vintage cars on a street, one is a yellow convertible and the other is a white classic car, with people and modern vehicles in the background.
Photo by Mike Hartley

Random Thoughts of the Morning

  • Part of staying safe on the roads is picking the right ones to drive on.
  • You know what is fun. If so let me know because I’m always looking to add to the list.
  • Looks like Saturday is the start of hibernation season. Anytime the temps dip to the 30s or below I’ll be in the mancave.
  • I always anticipate the opening of new restaurants. Usually not fast-food ones, but we are getting both a Popeyes and Taco Bell and I’m excited.


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Robin

The daily prompt asks – Which celebrity would you love to meet, and what would you talk about?

I would love to have met Robin Williams. I would love to talk about his natural gifts of humor and how he crafted it over his life. I’d like to make him laugh unexpectedly and know him as a person instead of a celebrity.

I’d be interested if he wished he had a more private life instead of the celebrity? If he ever thought about just stopping performing.

Also, his feelings on how drugs affected the comedy writing and performances. Not stories about what transpired but if he thought parts were better or worse because of it.

I’d ask who his favorite people were to work with. I’d ask what he thought were the best parts of other comics.

Comedy is an art form that is not only good for the soul, it can also save lives. I’m sure people have told him how they have been pulled out of despair or saved by making them laugh again and turn a corner the positive way. Is that a good feeling or a weight?

I’d ask if the hospital visits, he made in private to those in bad shape, were the most rewarding performances for himself personally?

I’d ask him how he liked his burgers cooked, what kind of cheese and if he wanted grilled onions.

Two raw hamburger patties on a grill over hot coals.
Conversation and Food. Always a good combo. Photo by Mike Hartley


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Bye Bye

2 seats, sunshine, no top, bye-bye I’m gone. It’s not my ride but my Roadster will be out and about. For those I see cruising today, I salute you.

Overhead view of a classic sports car's interior, featuring a polished dashboard, circular gauges, and two chrome roll bars.
From the Endless Summer show in Ocean City MD. Photo by Mike Hartley


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Good

The daily prompt asks a good question today – What does it mean to be a good person?

Words like respect, compassion, empathy, sharing, honorable, loving, truthful, come to mind. Little things and big things can make a good person.

Simple acts like holding a door for someone. Letting someone merge on the road. Smiling for no reason other than to maybe make someone else smile.

Maybe checking on an elderly neighbor or keeping in touch with a friend who is struggling physically or mentally and giving support.

Pulling over to see if a disabled motorist needs help. Saying have a nice day after an elevator ride together.

Sometimes being a good person is something that is thrust upon you. Seeing someone being abused verbally or physically and intervening.

Maybe charitable donations to help those in need. Some donate organs.

Taking the time to speak with someone who is lonely. I saw a lot of them when my mother was in assisted living.

Share some hope and optimism. Help someone remove obstacles, keeping them from being successful.

Sometimes it’s difficult for me but my mom always taught me that there was good in everyone. And I believed her till Trump and his minions came along.

If I wasn’t doing this at 3am, I’d probably have had a few more but off to the next project of the day. Have a good one.

Decorative display in a window featuring large burlap letters spelling 'LOVE', adorned with red heart-shaped accents and a cozy-themed red container.
Photo by Mike Hartley


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Coming around the bend

The weekend took more out of me than I thought. Because I didn’t make it past the pregame show for the MNF game. I never sleep all that well when I’m away from home and even though it was just a few days that was enough to throw me off.

Monday was a special day, and I want to digest it before I share the great visit I had in a post later today.

Like this Camaro I’m coming to the junction of the fun of shooting the car show this past weekend, and the task of editing 500+ shots and the effort. A labor of love.

A classic black and silver Chevrolet Camaro SS parked near a waterfront, with a person standing in the background.
BigBlock Camaro in Ocean City MD. Photo by Mike Hartley

A task that is both fun and challenging due to the volume. Funny thing is that I wish I had doubled my shooting. But I have that feeling every time I go out and raise the camera, and I hope I never lose it.

Most of the cars at this show were more straight-line monsters. And while there are few feelings like being pinned against the seat as one of these feats of engineering roars off the starting line and down 1320 feet. That’s the quarter mile race for those of you who aren’t car nuts.

Life isn’t a straight line. It’s filled with many twists and turns. Too often I’ve gone through life where twists and turns present a chance for new opportunities or time to ask yourself important questions and look at direction choices and I’ve missed them. Everyone probably has at least one or two.

In some ways life is easy. It teaches you many lessons along the way. The question is do you want to live life learning the same ones over and over again or do you want to move onto the next one.

I’m hardheaded and had to repeat a few over time. Thankfully wisdom comes and progress is made.

So, what I’m learning finally is how to be comfortable and happy with myself and what I accomplish each day.

Random Thoughts of the Morning

  • It felt good to positively touch someone close to us that needed it this past weekend.
  • Music is a huge part of my life. It’s like my daily surfing time for my mind and inspiration. And sometimes sadness.
  • This office needs a good cleaning and organizing.
  • The excitement on my granddaughter’s face when she saw me last night is still a nice feeling this morning.


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Travel

What’s a country that’s at the top of your bucket list? – Asks the daily prompt.

The one I live and grew up in and haven’t scratched the surface yet of seeing. The United States is huge and is loaded with natural and manmade beauty. Even if I spent every day of the remainder of my days, I wouldn’t even begin to touch all the spots I would like to visit.

I’ll do my best to see some of it, but I’ve also learned something about myself in retirement. I like home also because I’m still exploring the state I live in and finding all kinds of great things.

Maybe the question today was a trigger to take a trip with my two best friends because I had just run across this photo while looking for a shot for another post. This was the last time we went deep sea fishing off Florida well over a decade ago.

Two men walking in a parking garage, each pulling a suitcase. One man is wearing a black shirt and a cap, while the other is dressed in a light-colored shirt with a sweater draped over his shoulders.
My buddies. Photo by Mike Hartley


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Get Your Wings

A great album title (Get Your Wings) by the group Aerosmith but also a good thing to do in life. Everyone has something special about them. Find your joy and pursue it.

A group of birds flying over ocean waves with a sandy beach in the foreground.
Photo by Mike Hartley

Like these birds I’m flying low and close to home today. And like them I’m going where the wind takes me. It’s the one day I can pace myself and relax a bit. It’s too wet to mow so I’ll do that Tuesday. There are many other chores to take its place not that I’m in a hurry to get to them.

Usual stuff, like getting the compressor out and fixing a couple of low tires. Blowing off decks from leaves, doing some caulking. You know, harry homeowner crap. It’s good for me because it gets me vertical and out of this seat till the next creative urge hits.


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Engine Optimization

What are your strategies for SEO? – Asks the daily prompt.

In one way, this is going to be a short answer. Maybe I’ll pick up some tips from others on this question.

Only in the last month or two did I even turn on Optimize SEO and let it autogenerate metadata. I didn’t even put anything in that before. So probably a part of the reason I stay obscure, but it doesn’t bother me in the least.

In another way this is going to be a visual answer to the question. The era we grew up in we were always in Searching for Engine Optimization.

Close-up view of the engine compartment of a vintage car, featuring multiple carburetors with chrome accents and red hoses.
Close-up view of a Chevrolet 409 engine highlighted in orange with a chrome air filter and various engine components.
Close-up of a polished chrome engine with a supercharger and various components under the hood of a classic Chevrolet Nova.
Close-up view of a Chevrolet engine with a blue air filter and chrome components.

Photos by Mike Hartley

I’m sorry, I just got back from a large car show this past weekend and engine only means one thing to me today.

Close-up view of a shiny red classic car's front end featuring a prominent grille and a high-performance engine with multiple chrome components.
Photo by Mike Hartley

Going my way?

Close-up view of a polished chrome car engine with a distinctive blower and a unique seat design featuring cartoonish eyes.
Photo by Mike Hartley

I love the custom work done on the engine bay.

Close-up view of a polished engine with multiple chrome intake manifolds and mesh filters, set against a bright red background.
Photo by Mike Hartley

Keeping it simple.

Close-up view of a polished engine compartment showcasing a shiny chrome intake system, air filters, and various engine components against a vibrant red background.
Photo by Mike Hartley


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Great time

My better half and I were at Ocean City Maryland this past Thursday to Saturday afternoon enjoying the Endless Summer Car Show. A wonderful dinner with good friends on the way home and all unpacked and ready to resume activities at mission control.

I threw the cover on the car after it cooled off from that long drive. Word is a monsoon is on the way today. At least that is what I heard in passing. I’ve been overdosing on the smell of high-octane fuel being burned and the roar of high-performance engines.

Given the perfect weather for the first 3 days of the show, attendance seemed to be very good. There are thousands of beautiful works of art there. Maybe the most crowded I’ve seen the fall show in the last few years. Just my humble opinion. Traffic Saturday was nuts. I loved Thursday and Friday though. Everyone was wearing a path up and down Coastal Highway and Baltimore and Philadelphia Ave.

The shows at the inlet and convention center are great but the action is on the streets, day and night.

My cameras were out and firing away, probably 500+ shots. I already know my favorite. And for a change of pace, it wasn’t a car but a couple in it. It was from early this morning. Part of the show is the boardwalk parade. Ocean City has a very long boardwalk, almost 3 miles. Cars line up from the inlet to 27th street where they enter the boardwalk single file and a slow profession takes place.

I had done a bit of shooting along the boardwalk but decided to walk down the street where the line to get on the boardwalk ran. I had probably walked about 10-15 blocks as the cars slowly moved up and I walked down capturing them from different angles. I moved to the center island separating the 2 lanes north and south.

A classic yellow convertible car driving on a street with a man wearing a cap in the driver's seat, surrounded by modern buildings and parked cars.
Photo by Mike Hartley

People were saying thanks and giving me thumbs up as I complimented them on their ride. I had just finished a shot of an old Plymouth above, and I looked down for a second to change settings and looked up and this young lady who was about to burst with joy looked out the window at me and I’m assuming here pointed to her engagement ring.

A beige Honda micro truck with two passengers, one waving and smiling, driving on a crosswalk in an urban setting.

Normally this is the last vehicle I probably would have photographed. But I’m so glad I was able to capture this moment and their joy. Congratulations to both of you and have a great future together.

A man and a woman sitting in the front seats of a beige pickup truck, smiling. The woman is showing a peace sign with her hand and has long hair. The background features a building and greenery.
Photo by Mike Hartley

I’m glad I saw this young couple in love and at an event where there is a lot of love between all the people who love cars/trucks and some things I can’t describe.

People are willing to talk and share their passions for building, driving, racing, modifying, painting, styling with unbelievable skill sets with almost whoever asks. And while the couple above is just starting out, most attendees were older couples like my better half and myself.

In other words, lots of senior citizens which leads me to think about another post on just that. What will happen to all these classics and the high dollar value attached to them when the owners are passing and the market for these maybe shrinks because I don’t see the younger generation taking up the interest in the classic cars. They want the new tech.

And before I forget, thanks to my better half for sharing one of my favorite things to do.

Oh, be pre-warned. The likelihood of car photos making into some posts for the next weeks is high.


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Know now

What’s one thing you know now that would have saved your younger self a lot of pain? – Asks the daily prompt.

That is one long list to sort through on a Sunday morning. I guess I’ll go with the knowledge that you don’t have to drink or can drink in moderation.

I don’t get the impression people share a lot of their past experiences and the knowledge and wisdom they gained with others. I’m guilty of it myself. There are a lot of young people who could use some sage advice. Not that all will take it but if it helps some why not. Though watch what sage you choose to take advice from. There are many different paths to happiness.

Just a few things off the top of my head.

  • Life is short and goes by fast, but don’t live it day to day like there is no tomorrow.
  • You get one body, take good care of it. Stay active.
  • Love is great, love is tough, love changes over time.
  • Work hard. Give an honest day’s effort. But save the best for your own interests and desires.
  • Playing or coaching sports is immanently more fun than watching it, gambling on it or fantasizing about it.
  • Try to peacefully coexist with people, nature, environment, because it benefits all of us.
  • Compassion, empathy, charity are not weak traits.
  • Smile, laugh a lot, share your emotions.
  • If you are lucky enough to have children and grandchildren that love you, you have life by the tail.
A boat sailing across the ocean under a colorful sunset sky.
Caught this yesterday just after sunrise coming into Ocean City MD. Photo by Mike Hartley


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Weirdest movie

What’s the weirdest movie you’ve ever watched? – Asks the daily prompt.

Either The Shinning or A Clockwork Orange.

Front view of a bright orange vintage car with distinct grille and headlights.
Photo by Mike Hartley


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Doors 33.26

Time for the weekly Thursday Doors challenge with our host Dan Antion. For those who love entrances, exits and the buildings and art that surrounds them this is the spot for you. The wonderful contributions from everywhere will delight. Share your own link in the comments on Dan’s weekly Door’s page.

Very busy week so just including an image of a door looking downward shot through an art exhibit at the Art Academy Museum in Easton Maryland. Late again as usual.

A colorful abstract background with horizontal lines, featuring a bright red 'EXIT' sign above a doorway.
Photo by Mike Hartley

Where different colors of string were pulled between walls.

Colorful installation of strings creating a gradient effect in an indoor space, with natural light filtering through a nearby window.
Photo by Mike Hartley


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How is your window this day?

The color inside and the reflection of the outside made this a complete window for me. I love looking out windows. Be it the front windshield of my car or the kitchen window overlooking the woods behind my home or the screen door window to the front yard and porch that squirrels and deer seem to visit each day.

A close-up of a vintage window with a grid pattern, set in a textured stone wall, displaying colorful potted flowers inside.
Is your window looking good? Photo by Mike Hartley

Every year near this time I remember a window I had at work for almost 2 decades that looked out over a preschool next door. And for Halloween they would parade all the young ones in costume around the parking lot circle which was right outside out big window. Seems like the whole company would be glued to any rear window in the building on the second floor for that event.

An artistic installation featuring colorful strands of thread hanging from the ceiling, creating a gradient effect from blue to yellow to orange, with windows visible in the background.
Some windows come with natural color, others get help. Photo by Mike Hartley

Inside the Academy Art Museum in Easton Maryland.

A window display featuring various decorative glassware, including painted wine glasses and a decorative heron figurine beside it.
Some windows get a little extra glass treatment. Photo by Mike Hartley

This shot above was from inside a great store in St Michaels Maryland called Captains Cottage Antiques and Shore Decor. We always stop and shop here.

A vintage window with multiple panes, framed in yellow, set against a brick wall. The glass is slightly dirty and shows reflections of trees outside, while creeping vines are visible along the edges.
In need of some loving care. Photo by Mike Hartley

I love windows. They have character. I saw this one walking between some older buildings. I guess it had storm shutters at one time by the hinges left behind.


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Morning routine

The daily prompt wants me to – Tell us about your morning routine.

I wake up early. I stretch out a bit, hit my home office, check email and then get to work on the morning posts here. Oh, before I sit down, I get my morning Coke. I never was a coffee drinker.

Before I write I always step outside no matter what the weather is to check out the morning and sometimes the animals that greet me by surprise before daylight hits.

After I write for a short bit, I check the news of the morning and usually get on the treadmill for a bit.

As far as eating sometimes, I’ll have a full breakfast and other times nothing.

Several hours later my better half usually wakes.

Two sunny-side up eggs cooking in a frying pan.


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Selfie reflections

I shared a shot the other day (Oct 4) of myself in a shadow reflection. I found another reflection shot of myself, but this one includes my daughter beside me also taking a picture of the same spot in Ellicott City a good while back. I wonder if she noticed the window next to me saying “Call Your Mother.”

I love details in photos. Have a nice day.

Exterior view of a vintage shop named 'A Journey from Junk' with colorful signage, displayed items, and retro decorations.
Portrait of my daughter and I in the window across the street. Photo by Mike Hartley


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Meeting in transit

What’s the best way to meet new people while traveling? – Asks the daily prompt.

Being I’m not an experienced traveler; buyer beware of advice.

My first thought was to turn my phone off and put it away. That way my head is up and attention to meeting other people is possible. Sounds kind of simple. But everywhere I go that seems to be the case most of the time. People’s faces buried in their devices.

Ask a question, introduce yourself.

Maybe if you see people you’re traveling with dining at the same times or spots see if they want to join you.

Ask locals about traditions or what they think is special about their community. Lots of people like to talk about where they live. Watch out for the negative ones though.

Being an amateur photographer, I ask others what they might be shooting with and how they like it and of course where good spots are in the area.

Those were just a few off the top of my head. I’m no world traveler. When I was younger and traveled a little bit with my mom I learned. Be respectful, be positive, ask questions, express thanks for help and suggestions or time and the company.

Interior view of a large, open train station featuring tall columns, a statue in the background, and various people waiting and moving about. The space is well-lit with large windows and hanging lights.
Photo by Mike Hartley


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Chilly start, nice finish

That chill makes for some good sleep. Haven’t used a blanket in a while. 40 degrees out this morning was too cold for this early in October. My instinct is to start to prepare for hibernation. Must be the bear in me. An instinct I have to fight against all winter long.

So, I got extra busy to warm up the basement and get the day off to a good start. A few posts here, some exercise and off to a doctor’s appointment and back home. Funny timing my best friend was at the doctor’s also this morning.

The day is filled with opportunities. I’ve made use of a few already. Had time to drop off my vote, hit the pharmacy and capture a few new images.

Close-up of a stone bridge with overgrown plants and flowers along the archway.
Photo by Mike Hartley

Back at my favorite town, Ellicott City.

A person fishing in a river, wearing waders and a hat, standing on a rocky riverbed surrounded by trees.
A person in fishing waders standing in a shallow stream, wearing a straw hat and blue shirt, casting a fishing line while surrounded by rocks and greenery.

Photos by Mike Hartley

Nice day for waders.

Blue three-dimensional letters spelling 'OEC' surrounded by pumpkins and straw.
Photo by Mike Hartley

Tis the season.

A skeleton sitting on the roof of a car with a church steeple in the background on a sunny day.
Photo by Mike Hartley

I should get one of these. Maybe people would tailgate me less.

A male mallard duck swimming in clear water near rocks.
Photo by Mike Hartley

I’m going with the flow this week like this guy.

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • Lzzy Hale reminds me of Janis Joplin. I saw her cover an old Bad Company tune and it was incredible.
  • We could be only a few weeks away from civil war. Don’t underestimate his desire to stay in total control.
  • Looks like I could overdose on baseball today.


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Boating

Just a few shots of the John Smith Shallop, that is outside the entrance but part of the Chesapeake Bay Maritime Museum in St Michaels Maryland.

A historic boat displayed outdoors in front of brick and wooden buildings, accompanied by an informational sign about the John Smith Shallop.
Photo by Mike Hartley

A beautiful town and I think I’ll tour the museum in the coming spring.

A scenic waterfront view featuring an old boat on land, surrounded by green grass, benches, and lampposts. In the background, a dock with several boats and a multi-story building with balconies can be seen.
Photo by Mike Hartley

The waters of the Miles River in the background.

View of an old wooden boat's interior, featuring weathered planks, ropes, and a rustic design, with two people walking in the background.
Photo by Mike Hartley

Wood has life, no matter the age.

A weathered and abandoned wooden boat displayed on a grassy area, with a red building in the background and surrounded by trees.
Photo by Mike Hartley

This subject had some great backdrops.


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Ask them and yourself

If Aliens arrived tomorrow, what’s the first thing you’d ask them? – I dislike these type questions from the daily prompt.

Okay, I’ll play along.

  • What’s with the big heads?
  • How many galaxies per gallon does that thing get?
  • Why did you decide to land on the armpit of the universe?
  • You think that thing is fun, let me take you for a ride in my Miata.
  • Well, you landed in Maryland, let me teach you how to eat crabs from the Chesapeake Bay. Also, you’re going to need special driving lessons for this state.

But seriously, maybe there are some questions that we should ask ourselves each day.

  • Did I touch base with family and friends and tell them I love them.
  • Did I improve others day.
  • Did I respect my environment.
  • Did I learn something.
  • Did I share something I know or a skill.
  • Did I smile and say kind things.
  • Did I accomplish something.
  • Did I have fun.
  • Did I do things people will remember me fondly for.
A serene sunset over a body of water, with silhouetted street lights and a bridge in the foreground, casting a warm glow across the sky.
Sunset over the Rt 90 bridge coming into Ocean City. Photo by Mike Hartley


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Underrated LS

What’s the most underrated life skill? – Asks the daily prompt.

This is a tough one; I’m torn between 3 of them. Decision Making – Problem Solving and even though I don’t see this on many lists I’ll add Common Sense.

I was going to say Empathy and Compassion, but a large segment of the population has ditched this ability.

Here are a couple of underrated life skills some might not think of and some of my personal favorites off the top of my head this morning.

I’m glad I grew up thinking without the help of the internet. It taught me to not give up and find the answers myself.

Coping with loss is a unique life skill I haven’t mastered yet.

Knowing your circuit breaker panel.

Being married to the same person all your life and being happy. Well, most of the time at least.

Being a good driver is an underrated skill. It’s kept me alive hundreds of times.

Knowing that your friends know that you can be counted on.

Listening to doctors instead of politicians.

Having the courage and drive to not give up and pursue your dreams.

Swinging a hammer without hitting fingers.

Having a great memory is so important.

Go ahead and be outspoken, most don’t have the courage to say what is on their mind and they need a voice.

Knowing where the flashlight is when the power goes out.

Don’t go through life without having cut loose a few times.

Being able to create an image, story, painting, song, film. engine or anything creative and beautiful is an underrated skill.

A group of mechanics working on a yellow race car in a garage, focused on the engine area. Several individuals in black and yellow team uniforms are gathered around the vehicle, with tools and equipment visible in the background.
Pit crew – skills combined and multiplied. Photo by Mike Hartley


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Flying Start

The blue skies have returned to central Maryland today and I’m loving it. Light lifts my spirits. So do these warming temps and breeze. It’s going to take a bit to dry out but were on the way.

Colorful kites of various shapes and sizes flying against a blue sky with fluffy clouds.
Kites off Ocean City beach. Photo by Mike Hartley

One second, I feel the need to get a lot accomplished today. The next minute I’m fine with whatever I get done today. Now that is what I call balance.

To be in great spirits on a Monday morning is pretty much par for the course now. I’m trying to decide what hats I want to wear today. I was thinking about cooking being my better half has been doing all of it lately. But I think we might have dinner out. I’m going to put on my painter hat later, along with my photographer cap.

But I’m starting to get the itch for a real hat and wearing more than just the floppy beach hat or baseball caps.

Tomorrow is landscaping hat day.

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • It’s funny what you develop attachments to, over time.
  • I feel like I’m always calling in a prescription. Why can’t they just give me a year’s supply?
  • The leaves are changing too fast already.
  • Don’t hesitate to share it, nobody will see the greatness if it’s left in your drafts folder.
  • I should trim my beard before I’m mistaken for a member of ZZ TOP.
  • Could be less than a month till Civil War.


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Live by

What’s a personal mantra or philosophy you live by? – Asks the daily prompt.

No one philosophy, but I guess a hodgepodge of little ones. I try to be a loving person. My mom taught me to look for good in people. In a short time, my dad taught me courage. I try to be a good father, husband and friend. I work hard and play hard. I respect till I’m disrespected.

Mantra for each of my personalities.

  • Personal – Love, Laugh, Appreciate
  • Professional – It ain’t going to get done looking at it.
  • Driver – Miata is always the answer. The Camaro was my first love. V-Twins rule the world.
  • Hobbyist – Create it, Share it.
  • The Other Side – The Doctor is in. Kickstart My Heart
A large decorative heart sculpture made of intricate patterns, displayed on a pedestal in front of sheer curtains.
5 foot glass heart. Photo by Mike Hartley


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Shadow selfie

I’m not a selfie guy. I never understood why it’s popular with so many people. Maybe because I’m not entirely at ease in front of a camera. So being behind it is nice and comfortable. While I was in NYC earlier this year, I did sort of a selfie when stopping to look at a sign and entrance I liked.

Usually, I’m conscious about cutting myself out of reflections but I think I’ll try some more on purpose in the future. Seeing how I can capture my shadowy self in the middle of other shots.

Entrance of a building featuring a marquee with promotions for Saturday Night Live, The Tonight Show with Jimmy Fallon, Late Night with Seth Meyers, and The Kelly Clarkson Show, along with decorative architectural details.
Photo by Mike Hartley


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Plan it

What’s the best way to explore a new city? – Asks the daily prompt.

Do some investigation on what you would like to see and do before going. Have plans for good and bad weather. Study transportation and food. The less spur of the moment things you have to decide on the better.

Then go and have a good time. Be flexible. Ask people when you get there about your assumptions. When you’re there note places, you would like to go next time.

And don’t forget to be a human being. Respect local culture and traditions. Be courteous and not that ugly American.

Oh, don’t forget getting there and back. We discovered the train and that was the perfect solution for this city. We will be taking it to other cities.

Things worked out for us on our first visit to NYC earlier this year.

A group of people sitting on an observation deck, overlooking a vast cityscape filled with tall skyscrapers and a clear blue sky.
Photo by Mike Hartley

Sometimes it’s helpful to get an overview of the city.

A group of people standing on a glass observation platform, looking and pointing at something in the sky on a clear blue day.
Photo by Mike Hartley

So, look down, look up, look all around.

A large, ornate gothic-style cathedral with tall spires, located next to modern skyscrapers, under a bright blue sky. People are gathered at the entrance and around the surrounding area, with city traffic visible in the foreground.
Photo by Mike Hartley

And have a great time in your next CITY.


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Doors 32.26

Time for the weekly Thursday Doors challenge with our host Dan Antion. For those who love entrances, exits and the buildings and art that surrounds them this is the spot for you. The wonderful contributions from everywhere will delight. Share your own link in the comments on Dan’s weekly Door’s page.

Very late of me again for a Thursday challenge. Just under the wire, with a few hours to spare. A very busy week so I’m using some images from a shoot I did a few weeks ago in Easton Maryland.

Entrance of a building featuring brick architecture, decorative red, white, and blue bunting, and a sign indicating it's open. A colorful art piece resembling grass and flowers is positioned at the bottom of the steps.
Photo by Mike Hartley

Building used for the annual Waterfowl Festival and other community events.

A brick pillar supporting an ornate black wrought-iron gate, with greenery visible in the background.
Photo by Mike Hartley

One of the many ornate gates.

A weathered yellow door with a white frame, set against a corrugated metal wall and a white metal roof.
Photo by Mike Hartley

Hinges on the outside don’t provide security.

Front porch of a blue house featuring a pink door with a wreath, white columns, and a small staircase.
Photo by Mike Hartley

An entrance with guardrails.

A brick wall featuring a metal roll-up garage door on the left and a weathered pink door on the right, with visible signs of wear and tear.
Photo by Mike Hartley

Every building has one of these entrances.

A small brick building with a gabled roof and a white door, surrounded by greenery and flowers.
Photo by Mike Hartley

An old smokehouse.

A quaint antique shop entrance with a red door, surrounded by flowers. A lifelike statue of a dog sits next to potted plants on the brick sidewalk.
Photo by Mike Hartley

Side-eye

Entrance of TRA Gallery featuring an open door under a black awning, with planters and a sign promoting an exhibition.
Photo by Mike Hartley

The Talbot Resident Artist Gallery. Some nice work in here that rotates each month I believe.

Exterior view of Troika Gallery, a fine art studio with a blue awning and an open sign. The storefront features large windows showcasing art and a bench outside.
Photo by Mike Hartley

Our favorite gallery in town. Wonderful works and lots of them.


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Feeling Alive

What’s a moment in your life that made you feel truly alive? – asks the daily prompt.

Wow, I guess I’m lucky. I had a lot of things pop to mind when I read that question. Falling in love, watching my children being born, 145 mph on a motorcycle, holding each of my grandchildren for the first time and every time I see them.

The hour ride with the top down yesterday I was feeling truly alive again. And again, this morning when I woke up, thankful as I am each day I open my eyes and I’m able to get vertical.

If you ever rang a bell at a hospital, you feel alive. Maybe not your best, but you’re on your way.

I like finding something each day to make me feel truly alive.

Entrance to the I. Lee Finkelstein & Louise Kovers Goodman Family Waiting Area, featuring a closed door with a caution sign and a waiting area chair nearby.
The bell some get to ring. Photo by Mike Hartley


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Sunset

Another day’s light passes below the horizon. What a great day it was. And there is still time to enjoy some fun this evening. There is still time for me to get my Thursday Doors entry done. Some images to download from last evening. And I put the tripod/monopod in the trunk so maybe I’ll venture out later for some night shots.

A view of a wooden pier leading to a gazebo at sunset, with silhouetted people gathered under the gazebo and a calm body of water reflecting the colorful sky.
Dock and Gazebo at Fager’s Island in Ocean City MD. Photo by Mike Hartley

If I manage to get back to the beach this year, I’ll certainly visit this site in person at this time of day. Of course, after finishing a fine meal inside.

Back to some photo editing I go. If you can call it that with the slack tools I have.


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Cast a line

Not a bad day to cast a line and see what bites. One of my best friends sent me a note he has done the Friday early out and on his way to the Chesapeake Bay. Not to fish though.

A person fishing from a yellow kayak in shallow water surrounded by greenery.
You’re going to need a bigger boat. Photo by Mike Hartley

I just cast my images and thoughts out into the vast expanse and see what hits.

It’s time to take advantage of this nice weather and go capture some of life that passes me by when I’m at this computer. I have a dog resting his head on my thigh as I type looking for attention and not liking my music selection.

The Snowball Stand is calling my name, but it was packed, so I’ll wait till tomorrow or later tonight. I was able to take a joy ride for an hour this afternoon and it was wonderful. Except for a few tailgaters. I think that car takes away stress more than the motorcycle did.

Rain is predicted for this evening so it will be time to cover it for another few days. But it looks as if I’ll be able to resume my sun worshiping activities next week.

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • Apparently, there are limits to lies.
  • Seeing color in the trees already.
  • I feel like standing in the rain tonight.
  • Time to call a few old friends.
  • A hot sunny day in the beginning of October was not to be wasted.


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Set the wish sailing

The genie grants you a wish. What is it? – A question from the daily prompt

More wishes.

Just kidding. The first thought that rolled through my mind was health and happiness for my family. And then my personal selfish wish that summer was just starting again.

Now a question for you all. How much time do you spend wishing?

For me it’s a fleeting thing.

Oh, I wish I had got two scoops instead of one. It would be nice to have that 69 Camaro as one goes by. When I was working, I would wish it wasn’t Monday again.

If it’s something I’m going to spend time wishing for I’ll spend it working on that. Like my art. Usually at the end of the day, I end up wishing I was a better artist and then I’m inspired when I wake up to get to work on being a better one.

A sailboat navigating on water with a city skyline featuring the Domino Sugar factory in the background at dusk.
Baltimore Harbor with Domino Sugar plant in background. Photo by Mike Hartley


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It goes by fast

How is life treating you? A friend reminded me of something important about it today. Most of life you have little control over, except how you react to it.

A display board featuring various covers of Life magazine from 1939, showcasing historical imagery and themes. The covers include photographs of people, events, and advertisements, highlighting significant moments from that year.
That’s Life. Photo by Mike Hartley


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Just playing along

What are your favorite side-hustle ideas? – Asks the daily prompt.

Side hustle ideas used to flow like water but since retirement, they have disappeared. But I’ll play along for a bit this morning.

Being I have a new mower maybe I’ll cut neighbors yards being they all have these services that charge an arm and a leg to come each week. I could undercut them and still make a nice profit. I would have to hire a young kid for the trimming and blower cleanup.

I like detailing my own car and I can see doing others.

Writing a book is something that I’m slowly working on so I guess that could be seen as a side hustle. But I’m not writing it to make money.

I’m going to keep all my paintings hidden till I pass where they will become famous when seen and my kids will make a fortune off it.

An older man sitting under an umbrella on a street, sketching on a drawing board while wearing a headset. He is wearing a blue shirt, plaid shorts, and has a bag beside him.
Now this is nice work
Photo by Mike Hartley


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Goodbye September

A beautiful day in Maryland to end the month with. Why each month seems busier than the last is always a wonder to me. I guess that means I’m having a good time. This month was filled with both good and hard times.

I enjoyed the view below and more like this in the state of Maryland. We ventured into Pennsylvania for a 90th birthday party for an aunt. In addition to 9/11 being my mom’s birthday it was the 25th anniversary of the tragic 9/11. I spent some time remembering that event. How the country came together.

Hopefully we can all start pulling in the same direction together again.

We spent time with our children and grandchildren. Saw another grandchild start school. We had a wonderful day on the Chesapeake Bay with my best friend and his wife. Attended a music festival and a funeral.

Luckily no doctor’s appointments and only one dentist appointment. Did some pet sitting and got our vaccines.

Not enough time devoted to my hobbies which I’ll be on a mission to correct in October.

A Maryland flag flying on a pole beside a dock with a wooden building in the background and clear blue skies.
St Michaels Maryland. Photo by Mike Hartley

Today I have to finish transitioning my photo site between some home chores. There is much to be done on that front to prepare for the seasonal changes. Yesterday was the first of several more cuts that will involve chopping up the multitude of leaves that fall.

One chore I don’t miss is winterizing a pool. One, it’s hard work and two it’s depressing.

In some ways it was a great month, in others it was very disappointing.

I worry about a good friend who had significant loss. I worry about another friend who’s near rock bottom.

Onto October my friends.


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Good morning

I’m all pumped after that Yankees win last night. Also, something is breaking through the clouds for the first time in days and that means I can do my sun worshiping thing. And we can’t do that with a dirty car so washing that is job 1 this morning so the top can be down later.

It’s a great day to get the cameras out also and work on some more nature shots.

A gray bird perched on a thin branch, facing slightly away from the camera with a soft focus background.
Photo by Mike Hartley

Better start catching some species before they head south for the winter. That is a contrast in winter. Leaves are down and the view through the woods is clear. But so, fewer birds in the winter.

A small gray bird perched on a branch, surrounded by green foliage.
Photo by Mike Hartley

Of course, these deer are a fixture in all seasons. I feel like my yard and woods are a hotel for them for as much as they sleep and rest here. I guess they feel safe.

A deer resting on grass, with another deer lying beside it, in a natural setting.
Photo by Mike Hartley

Maybe it’s that patch of long grass I leave them.


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5 simple ones

What are five simple exercises to do at home? – Asks the daily prompt.

I’ll have some fun with this first.

Mow yard – Clean gutters – Powerwash deck – Put mulch down – Shovel snow

I try to do the treadmill, work my upper half with some dumbbells, and lots of stretching w/exercise bands. Try to stay mentally sharp. Oh yeah, the grandkids make me run up the street as they leave with their parents.

Close-up of a treadmill with colorful resistance bands hanging from the handlebar in a dimly lit room.
Work it. Photo by Mike Hartley


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Act

After witnessing the lack of movement for emergency services on the roads I feel moved to make a plea to get out of their way. I guess this isn’t going to touch the people it needs to. But if it reminds one of use to move over or out of the way for EMS/FIRE/POLICE so someone else might be helped or saved it’s worth the space it takes up here.

Yes, they can catch you by surprise but don’t delay, take action. It can be risky to move ahead at a stopped light but it’s your job to do it as fast and safe as possible. Make a path.

A fire and emergency medical services (EMS) ambulance on a roadway, showing its red and white color scheme and emergency lights.
Photo by Mike Hartley


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Tuesday thoughts

I see the winter predictions are already starting to get posted. I don’t pay much attention to them. I consider it lucky when the forecast is accurate for the next day. Think about how often the 7-day forecast is for crap.

I’ll take it like this guy, flying in the face of adversity and power through whatever comes. Which means I should test fire that generator and get some extra gas. I want to be ready for power outages.

A whimsical snow-covered decoration resembling a sheep, with a fluffy head of snow and a small base sticking up from the ground, set against a snowy background.
Photo by Mike Hartley

I do hope the forecast for the next few days is accurate because they say it’s going to be nice. That means I should get out and about.

Random Thoughts of the Morning

  • Dogs have eyes that look deep into you.
  • You can run into a chill in the air regardless of the season.
  • I didn’t have that sense of accomplishment yesterday. Guess we will double up today.
  • The case for better education in this country is that 30+% still believe in Trump.
  • People who take too much rope have to look for taller trees.


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Relationship and Learning

Which relationship has taught you the most about yourself? – Interesting ask from the daily prompt.

Being I’m approaching 5 decades of marriage to my better half, it’s certainly her. So many things we’ve been through together and learned through that time. Some very fun lessons and some difficult ones.

The relationship we have with ourselves can also be a learning one if you are honest with yourself. If you learn from the own decisions you make, then you progress. It helps to be happy with yourself so you can learn other things about yourself. Me, myself and I are always learning.

This question made me think of a lot of things different relationships have taught me. I’ve had some very close friends that have shared great insights and experiences that taught me more about myself.

Work friends who taught me things like confidence in my professional abilities. Many of these work friends became more than that and I just call them very good friends now.

I know he didn’t intend it that way. But my dad, passing a young age taught me a lot about myself. Though I think life might have been better if he could have shared his knowledge with me.

A black and white photograph of a man and a boy playing with a ball in a grassy area, with residential buildings in the background.
Dad showing me the proper grip on a football. This is the last shot of us together.
Photo by Shirley Hartley


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Brightness

There wasn’t a hint of sunshine yesterday. Clouds and near constant rainfall. I missed that orange object in the sky. And then I came across this image when looking for something else from this shoot in Annapolis and was pleased again. It feels like late November instead of late September here in the Mid-Atlantic.

Close-up of a bright orange Harley-Davidson motorcycle with chrome details and the iconic logo visible on the fuel tank.

A day without sunshine leaves me feeling incomplete. And tired also. As my better half reminded me, this is prime sleeping weather. Hopefully a hint of sunshine on Tuesday to revive me and others.

Random Thoughts of the Day

  • A good day to fill out my voting form and submit that.
  • Played with my grandchildren this morning. Nice start to the day.
  • The neighborhood is under construction. They are trying to rehab a home that should be torn down. Even the guy who bought it said it would have to be demolished and a new one built. I wonder what changed his mind.
  • My doctor believes in vaccines and therefore I got mine this morning for Covid and flu. It puzzles me how people start thinking they are smarter than doctors.


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no thanks

If you could start a new business right now, what would it be? – Asks the daily prompt.

Before I retired, I thought I would start a small business based around my hobbies. I quickly realized that is not what I wanted to do. I enjoy doing my creative arts for myself and sharing them with others.

There are a lot of things in running a business that people have no concept of. I did it once before with two partners and you wouldn’t believe the effort it takes and the time and energy you must put into it for it to have a chance to be successful.

My time now is split between my children and grandchildren, my better half, my friends and the many hobbies I enjoy.

There is one thing that I think about doing and that is if I were to be offered money for my work, I’d have them send it to one of the charities I like.

A woman kneels on the grass taking a photo of a man with two children, one girl in a pink jacket and a boy in an orange jacket, who are posing together.
Families are doing their own portrait work now. Photo by Mike Hartley


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Personalization

People that bring a personal touch to everyday items inspire me. Like this jeep I saw across the street when visiting Easton MD last week. From plates to paint to wraps and styling. I love it all.

A white SUV with a floral-patterned spare tire cover and a distinctive license plate reading 'YETIGRL'.
Photo by Mike Hartley

I’m tired of seeing just black, grey and white cars on the road. Let’s get some color and style going again.

Rear view of a red Mini Cooper car with a personalized license plate reading 'K3TCHUP' and dual exhaust pipes.
Another fitting vanity plate. Photo by Mike Hartley

Not my shade but it works for Patty.

A pink Dodge Viper sports car parked in front of a bar, displaying a personalized license plate that reads 'PATTY E'.
Photo by Mike Hartley


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Eating

What are your best healthy eating habits? – This question from the daily prompt is going to be a stretch.

It’s going to be a struggle to answer this question with a straight face.

Well, I eat regularly. My better half helps me to eat healthy. But that only goes so far.

I do eat some vegetables, nuts and fruits. Not enough though. I try to keep the amount of red meat I eat in moderation. I love seafood.

Limiting processed meats, I do well with limiting, except bacon.

Pizza is a food group.

In short, I’m not the healthiest of eaters. But I do keep my weight in check and exercise.

Sizzling strips of bacon frying in a pan with bubbles and grease.
Photo by Mike Hartley