Both my writing and photography aren’t in perfect focus all the time, so I rely on luck some days.
So far, we’re a surviving combination of determination and effort.
Sometimes
Differences
We all have them. None of us are exactly alike. How we deal with our differences is often the issue. In the last few months, it seems like I’ve encountered an increasing number of differences with people. Some, that I used to overlook, but now are much harder to accept.
I don’t know if it’s age and a growing lack of tolerance for BS or maybe I’m just noticing the differences more and accepting them less. Maybe it’s because differences have turned into non-negotiable points with some people. Like it or leave it sort of mentality.
Could be those around me are also getting older and struggling with differences also compounding situations.
Maybe I’m the one who’s different and people are just less accepting of it now.
Or maybe others are just more front and center in my face now.
For today, I’ll pick get a haircut and look a little different.
Torn
I think it’s something old in me that makes me think every time I need a haircut or trim my beard, should I let it go. Should I let it down past the shoulders again, or bring back the burly beard?
I hadn’t trimmed the beard in a while, so it was getting thick and a bit long. I looked in the mirror with trimmers in hand motionless. Do I skip it and let it grow long? Do I change the setting to a longer setting than I normally use?
Damn, this happens to me every time. Same with the haircut. I start with stupid crap like thinking of the money you could save. Think of how good that long hair felt in my teens, 20s and 30s. I never went the tattoo or piercing routes so maybe that was the rebel in me.
I haven’t cared much what others thought of my style except my better half, and she is tolerant with me. The only thing that stops me is the time in between it takes getting long again. I remember letting it go during Covid and it still wasn’t near being long again.
Plus, I do remember the extra care and it being a pain in the wind. So, I guess we’re sticking with the short cut and neatly trimmed beard.
Share
You get some great, amazingly fantastic news. What’s the first thing you do? – Asks the daily writing prompt.
I share it. I smile and then tell my better half.
Photo by Stranger with my old digital.
Rolling like waves
I try to be consistent. Like the waves hitting the shore. Some days smoothly, some days with thunder. But every day, every few seconds we break onshore. Blogging is one thing that keeps me consistent. Trying to get new images for it keeps me consistent.
I’m much more pleased with the images I share than the words. I wish I could express my thoughts more clearly at times and come up with interesting and witty topics/subjects.
I think it’s partially because I’m confused as to what I want to do and accomplish. In some ways the blog is a lot of fun and play. In other ways it’s kind of serious to me. I don’t mind doing it in obscurity for the most part. I do it for the few that might come across it and see or read something they like, a few family members and a very few friends who look at it and mainly for myself.
In some ways it’s like a daily challenge. I go through other blogs reading and gazing at wonderful words and images. And I think to myself I want to be part of that and see if something I create works. In other ways it’s practice for the book I hope to write for my kids someday.
Occasionally blogging is for my own therapy. Maybe expressing some things or thoughts that are part of me. It certainly helps me start the day right and in better spirits. Well, most days. Blogging inspires me to read more and open my mind. It allows me to see places and learn about them that I won’t get a chance to visit and see in my lifetime.
I do know one thing. I’ve been inside for far too long and I’m getting out this week and will have a ton of new shooting to share.
Random Thoughts of the Day
- I see we tied the record low temp for this day at 3 degrees this morning. Not a record I like to see tied or broken.
- It’s much easier to know people now by just listening to them.
- A great opportunity is before all of us. We can fix things.
- It’s surprising how few friendships last a lifetime.
- Taking daily meds is how I keep track of the day of the week.
Get at them again
The daily prompt asks – Are there any activities or hobbies that you’ve outgrown or lost interest in over time?
When younger I had a stamp and coin collection but gave those up many decades ago. My son and I had the hobby of going to the pistol range, but we changed our positions on owning handguns and stopped that activity a few years ago.
I used to ride a motorcycle for a few decades and I miss that activity. I used to play a lot of games and chess when I was younger. I haven’t played games in many years.
My friends and I shot a lot of skeet when younger. We just went to a skeet range a year ago and it was a blast and I think a few of us might do that each year now. It’s something we took a 45-year break from.
Unfortunately, I lost interest in playing basketball. I’m looking forward to rediscover that love again. I lost interest in the arts when I was working so hard in my career but luckily, I’ve rediscovered my love for them and actively pursuing many of them again now.
Having activities and hobbies is a good way to feel alive and stay healthy. Pick up a few more things and feel even better.
Set the bar high
Go ahead, set the bar high for yourself. That way you’re doing it for yourself and not someone else. And by choosing what you set the bar for, success is more likely.
Doing a bit of a reset myself. I’ve been frozen like this weather in my progress. This coming week that all changes.
Random Thoughts of the Day
- I just realized how many choices I’ve made already in the short time I’ve been awake, and it’s scary.
- From Washington Post hero to zero in a little over a decade. Nice stewardship.
- I’m surprised at how some are surprised that Trump posted something racist. Duhh
- Dogs have so much love. And I’m a loving person. But it can get annoying.
- There is a collective sigh of pain from a lot of people who worked at The Washington Post.
Return
With the feels like temp at -18 degrees when I started this post, I think this might not be the season yet for this guy. But I’m dreaming of warmer weather soon. I have to think of warmer weather with that cold wind whipping outside.
Thankfully we have been able to stay under power today. The lights flickered once or twice but that was it. I do see lots of branches and sticks that will need picking up once the big melt comes along. That won’t be today unfortunately or anytime soon unfortunately.
My friends have been talking about spending more time in a warmer climate. Easier said than done for some of us. I don’t have the money for a second home or to live in another spot for a few months out of the year. And that is okay because I’m not sure I’d want to own a home in Florida for instance.
Insurance for storms, upkeep, renting it when not in use are all headaches I don’t need. Plus, I’m not a big fan of flying and that is too long of a drive to do on any regular basis.
We have settled on a few trips here and there. But till then, we endure.
Random Thoughts of the Day
- I never knew it could be this cold out with bright sunshine.
- I see the publisher of The Washington Post resigned. In the 2 years since I’ve been gone you and JB have pretty much destroyed that publication. Should look good on your resume Will.
- The house is filled with smells from the kitchen as snack day gets underway.
- MAGA cheering against our Olympic team because they hold a different political view is typical of the intolerance of anyone who holds a different view than theirs.
Candy Out
Oh crap, the daily prompt is asking – What’s your favorite candy?
I’ve put on a few more pounds than I’d like to carry from eating too many sweets of late. Well, being it’s the season of hearts, my favorite candy is the Brach’s Valentines Conversation Hearts. Also, the Smarties Valentines bags have been good.
Sweets are the one thing I struggle with. Most other foods aren’t an issue. I was doing well for a few years, and I have to get back into the mindset of moderation.
The only thing sweeter than candy is life when it’s going right.
Goodbye
Yesterday I saw a note about an old high school classmate who passed. It was kind of surprising because I saw her for the first time since high school at our 50th reunion. She looked healthy and was even on the walk the day after the reunion.
I got a chance to talk a little bit with her at the reunion. After the walk around the lake the next morning everyone was going over to Whole Foods for a snack before splitting up again. I ran over to my car and got two pictures I had found in my old HS yearbook. One was her and one was for another old friend who grew up the street from me.
The shot of Helen was from when I did yearbook photography, and it was of her with the homecoming court because she was the Homecoming Queen. She was in her cheerleader uniform because it was halftime at a football game where they were announcing the homecoming court for our senior year.
When I caught up, she was still walking up outside, and I gave her the shot. It was black and white and only 5×7, but she looked deeply at it for a bit, slowing her walk substantially. 50 years ago, is a lot to look back at yourself. She looked up and smiled and said thank you and started to hand it back to me, but I said it was hers. She slowly slid it into her purse, and we joined a number of friends in the food court for lunch.
We talked a little there and went our own ways. I wonder if she was sick then and not sharing it with anyone. She looked good so I didn’t suspect a thing. But a lot of us have been through some trials and face things while looking completely or almost normal. But for some reason her death less than 3 months after seeing and sharing with her startled me a bit.
I’m glad I was able to catch up with her, hopefully the picture gave her a few more smiles. I just downloaded the group shot that was taken at the end of the reunion. I looked at her face and many others. I saw people that day that were very at ease with each other. None of that teenage awkwardness. People introducing spouses, discussing careers and retirement, catching up and sharing names and events with laugher. Hugs and handshakes, goodbye again not thinking we won’t be here tomorrow.
Seems like yesterday we entered high school and then graduated. Seems like yesterday that I retired, went to my high school reunion and remembered.
So thankful for the reminder of how precious each day is and hoping to make the best of it today and tomorrow if I’m granted such a gift. Rest easy Helen.
Breaks
The daily writing prompt asks – Do you need a break? From what?
The easy answer is yes, I need a break and it’s from the weather. The feels like temp is 4 degrees and that is probably the warmest it’s going to be today. The 24-mph wind right now is expected to double which is going to make exposed skin dangerous. I really need a break from the wind over the next 12 hours so the power will stay on.
I also need a break from politics but taking one is dangerous because things move very fast right now.
I need to take a break from TV. I need to take a break from eating sweets. I need to take a break from negative people. I need to take a break from the routine. I need to take a break from being inside (when it warms up) and be outside with nature. I need to take a break from reading online and pick up a book more.
Invent 2
The most important invention in your lifetime is…
What a question from the daily writing prompt. One answered 2 years ago in a post called Invent.
How does this update answer sound?
The answer is, of course life itself. Something that reinvents itself each day. We go on. We struggle. We adapt and change. We bring new life into the world. We raise and nurture our children. We love, share, laugh, cry, morn, celebrate, and relax with family, friends and strangers. We invent ways to survive.
There might be something someone somewhere is working on today that will be the most important invention. Maybe that invention is another person.
I think I’ll invent communication. Oh, you say it’s already here with the massive devices, tv’s, radios and meetings we have? Well, getting the message out is one thing. Having people listen and understand is another. It is part of the same cycle, isn’t it?
I have no idea of the gazillion things invented in my lifetime. what is most important. I do know that I’m not totally comfortable with the emergence of AI. If the past isn’t a good example of inventions that have gotten away from us, we might want to take a moment to pause and get a grip now.
Thursday Doors v5.26
I’m enjoying participating in the weekly Thursday Doors challenge created by Dan Antion for those who love entrances, exits and the buildings and art that surrounds them. The wonderful contributions from everywhere will delight. Share your own link in the comments on Dan’s weekly Door’s page.
These were shot around the town of Ellicott City Maryland. The same place last week’s images were taken but from a different year.
Looks like a house built with a prank door.
I know there is a door around here somewhere!
This establishment moved up the street a few years ago and is still thriving in a larger spot.
Our County Welcome Center. Greetings
This is a sad one. Closed after 50 years of fine dining in December. Tersiguel’s
A Place to Hang your Hat – One Fresh Hat
Doors No More?
The Miracle on 15th Street
I worked at The Washington Post for 26 years. The former Miracle on 15th Street. Yesterday’s news of layoffs by the hundreds of people hurt to hear. I saw people I knew on LinkedIn yesterday saying they were some of the affected and putting their names and skills out there for new jobs. And what a time and industry to be looking for work.
In my opinion, Jeff Bezos had some guts in the beginning but then lost his nerve and bent the knee to Trump. And in its wake is the remnants of a once proud institution. And if it continues on its present course will soon be a complete non-factor. Wonder what happened to that golden touch.
But then again, he didn’t lose his golden touch, he’s continued to get much, much richer. The Post is just a pawn to keep those other ventures thriving. It’s a sacrificial lamb. He knows nothing about the business or integrity or truth. The Washington Post is like a nickel and penny and some lint in his pocket.
It is my opinion that he missed a very important and special opportunity to change history. He could have led the change. But no, he chose to follow the path he’s always taken. Chase that $$$. Hey, nobody is perfect. It would have taken a lot of courage to tell the narcissist with dementia to shove it and then compete with his lies. But of all the people on earth in a position and opportunity to do that, you didn’t.
Hey, I understand, new wife. You can push off on one of I guess many ocean-going vessels or planes and leave this country anytime you want. It’s an easy call not to want to deal with the crazies in this country. Why put yourself in danger of the extremist that would take your challenge like general on the other side leading the charge against them.
But even with all that said, maybe if you didn’t back the movie Melania, you could have saved these layoffs. If you have no future intentions to let the Post regain its integrity, mission and place in the industry, please consider selling to someone who is.
I just hoped if I were in your shoes I would have made a different choice.
To those losing their jobs. My heart goes out to you and your families. I wish you much luck and success in your future.
Ideal 24
The daily prompt is asking me to – Describe your most ideal day from beginning to end. I did a post on this question 2 years ago called Ideal Day, that is still pretty much my fantasy ideal day. But I’ll update it with the below.
My ideal day is today. It’s just beginning and I have no idea what is in store for me. I try to make each day the ideal day. I’ve had that mindset for a little while now. I don’t go into every day like that, but I do usually come around and make part of the day ideal.
My ideal day includes seeing my children. But if I can’t I still think about them and look at pictures of them and write them. And while it’s not like seeing them it still makes the day ideal for me because we are sharing.
My ideal day starts with being able to wake up and get upright. If I got those two things, I got the day by the horns.
Sometimes there is no end to my ideal day. For instance, yesterday ran into this morning which made yesterday great.
When you can appreciate a day, you have had an ideal day.
If you’ve felt loved, it’s been an ideal day.
If your stomach didn’t ache with hunger, it’s been an ideal day.
If you were able to help someone it’s been an ideal day.
I could go on and on about all the wonderful things that make an ideal day. I remember once having the most brutal day when nothing was going right. I got out of my car after a brutal drive home from work. The sun had risen an hour earlier. My neighbor’s garden that is on the edge of our yard was loaded with butterflies. I went over and stood there just watching and actually got one to crawl on my finger. It wasn’t the ideal day at all. But the last couple minutes by that garden allowed me to get a good night’s rest.
I hope you all have an ideal day today.
Yeah
Some views I always return to. This former lighthouse was a place we have stayed a few times before. Like everything the price has gone up a bit, and it’s been a while since we have been back. When it’s just the two of us, I’ll always check the rates before heading down. The view from the bayfront rooms is great.
It’s one of the few places in town where you feel you have some space and it’s still a quick walk to the beach.
The Route 90 bridge behind it has a beautiful sunset over it and then the lights of the cars coming into town flicker between the railings. A quick walk over a foot bridge to Fager’s Island for some fine or casual dining. Then out to the gazebo out on the water after a great meal to feel the warm summer breeze.
Many enjoy the bands and dancing that goes till closing. Of course, this can get a bit crowded during the peak of the season. Which is great because the whole place is one big party.
If I can just hold on for another month or two and escape winter, I’ll be okay.
Good morning
Good morning from Maryland. I like our state flag. When I come across a shot I’ve taken with one, I’ll find a way to work post it here and there. I love living here. So much of it is positive. I think I also lived here at the perfect time. When it changed from rural to suburbs and city.
I’m loading up one of the Ocean City webcams to catch the morning sunrise over the Atlantic. I’ve been up for a bit, editing and writing. I make a lot of progress early in the mornings. Less distractions, errands, tasks, chores and appointments.
Went to another funeral service yesterday with my better half. Wishing it was the old days when we went to weddings back-to-back weeks instead of funerals.
But today is filled with opportunities to be had. I’ll start the day with improving my personal appearance with a much-needed haircut. I’m going to load the photo bag up and maybe do an hour or two of shooting around our area. Still pretty cold to be out long stretches, for me at least.
My better half has been prepping the house for a visit from a family member. I’ll share a picture of her tomorrow evening. She is certainly the neediest member of the entire family but also easy to love.
It’s funny some days I realize how limited I’ve looked at life for long periods of time in my life. Glad I removed a lot of those obstacles.
Isn’t it great when the waves of life are in sync with your step.
Sands
The daily prompt wants to know – How do significant life events or the passage of time influence your perspective on life?
Sounds like more of a question for a book instead of a blog post. Both time and events greatly influence my perspective.
For instance, getting married gave me an entirely different life than if I had stayed single. Staying married for almost a half century has shown me things and presented many gifts I didn’t dream of as a youth and has been a wonderful way to experience time.
Sometimes it stands still, but mostly it flies by. I can still see her walking up the aisle with her father. Now with a bunch of grandchildren. I blinked my eyes and wow, here I am. All those things in between have given me a true sense of what is important in life.
My father, passing at a young age has affected me all my life. But the passage of time has made it possible for me to deal with it better.
Retirement changed my perspective about work and careers.
I’ve been around and worked for some very strong women. My mom being the first one of course as a single mother.
When I think of the passage of time, I relate that to all the decisions I’ve made along the way. Some good, some not so. I learned a lot by watching the results of other people’s decisions, so I don’t have to make those mistakes.
foCus
Choosing what to focus on today. I was thinking of doing some painting. Yesterday I downloaded and edited a ton of studio shots I did last week and uploaded some family images. Also, a few blog posts, some housekeeping and emails. Then I worked on a few illustrations.
Making choices each day is harder than I thought in retirement. I guess that is a biproduct of having a lot of interest. But am I losing focus on the one important thing? I never know really with the exception when I make the call to spend time with family and friends.
People and relationships are always the most important. If they are the right ones.
Even though I wonder recently, should I use a little of that family/friend time to work on a few of my projects more. It actually just worked out that way for a while when I was sick and some friends were out of town for a bit. It was an unusual gap in time which turned out to be productive in other ways.
Right now, it’s time for a little face maintenance or as some would say, trimming the beard. Which reminds me I like the few videos I’ve seen of young fathers shaving their beards and then surprising their young kids with the new face. It’s funny how strongly the young ones associate the facial hair with their father and when it’s gone how upset they get. I’m tempted to do it to one of my grandchildren, but I like my beard too much.
Random Thoughts of the Day
- Monday was Groundhog Day. Sort of feels like it’s been that each day for the past year.
- I’m not thrilled about having to go outside today.
- Lies are always harder and harder to sustain.
- I can’t imagine being in law enforcement now and being faced with the coming decisions. I think there is something in there about protect and serve.
Walk or Ride
I like how pictures I take sometimes inspire me to post. I saw this street sign and biker combo and thought of myself. I walk now, but I used to ride. And did I enjoy that. I learned on an 82 Suzuki GS 250 Twin if memory serves me right. Might have been a 450 but I think it was just the 250cc.
Graduated to a larger 1100cc 85 Honda Shadow after that. I wasn’t a daily rider except for short stretches of time. Things have gotten more dangerous around here since I road. Lots more traffic volume and of course lots more people taking chances. If I road now it would be with a group. Most drivers aren’t stupid enough to piss off several bikers, old or not.
I read where sales of new motorcycles have been declining. And the average age of the rider has gotten much older so when these guys stop the numbers will be even worse. An article said the average age of the rider today is 47 and when I got my big bike in 1985 the average was 27 years old. To me that tells me young people are not buying bikes and as these older riders go will a younger generation emerge or will the art be limited to a few.
Then again, the way some states maintain roads you may need a motorcycle to get around in the future.
Get r done
The daily prompt is asking – Something on your “to-do list” that never gets done.
Well, let me go look at my long list of lists. Wow, I’m better than I thought I would be. I thought I would have a long list of things that I never get around to doing.
But just a few.
- Fix front gate door and entrance area to patio.
- I’ve got some old VCR tapes and slides that I need to get digitally converted.
- I need to start both my chainsaw and generator to make sure they are in good shape.
- I’ve got to sort out and get rid of some old family items that someone else could make better use of.
I might have to revise this after my better half reads it and could probably add a dozen things I’m not thinking of but is on her mind.
Good Porsche
Looks like it listens to commands. But it won’t be out and about in these weather or conditions in the mid-Atlantic.
Our monthly Miata Club meeting yesterday was postponed due to weather. I thought I had missed it because I had a chance to have a meal with my daughter and that is a much higher priority, even if it was a nice summer day.
With it being windy and very cold, like single digits or less, depending on the strength of the wind someone made a wise call. But we have some diehards in the group apparently because they are going to shoot for this coming Sunday and the long-term forecast for that day says a high of 22 degrees and a low of 8. I’ll get back onboard next month.
These winter months are hard on car guys. No shows, no cruising, no washing and waxing and detailing, no top down. AHHHH it’s killing me. I need a garage so I can at least sit in comfort.
Random Thoughts of the Day
- When the temperature is like this, I will find any excuse I can to not go outside.
- Work, work, work, isn’t it great. Guess I like what I’m doing.
- When I lose sight of the desk, it’s time to clean.
- I think I’d like to get a dartboard again.
Location, Location, Location!
Wine, candles, beautiful fixtures and tub. Bathing on Main Street? Well, to each their own.
I would say another start to the week, but time and weeks have become almost irrelevant. Yeah, I have things to do as businesses and government offices reopen. Schools are getting back in session. But really, it’s an open day. The kind I like.
An early start on the computer and some exercise have my spirits up. I’ve had to change my exercise routine a bit. More weights this week while the toe heals. It will be a nice change of pace being I’ve concentrated on the time on the treadmill for the most part.
One thing that is on the agenda for today is dealing with the Department of Motor Vehicles. They have cashed the check for our tag renewals, but we have not received them. And as of yesterday, we don’t have current stickers on our vehicle. This better not result in me having to make a personal visit to a DMV office.
Random Thoughts of the Day
- Mondays don’t feel like Mondays used to. And that’s a good thing.
- Progress begets progress.
- I’ve got to write and call a few good friends today.
- I apologize in advance for the cursing outside I’ll be doing while inflating a low tire pressure issue on the car.
- I find myself smiling at the opportunities ahead of me some mornings.
- It’s nice to see the sun rising earlier each day now.
Cook
What’s your favorite thing to cook? – An interesting question from the daily writing prompt.
I have to slip into a different mindset here because I’m usually thinking of my favorite thing to eat. This is really an easy question because I like to grill.
I like cooking burgers and steaks but doing seafood on the grill is a lot of fun. Salmon, scallops, shrimp are a few I do. I’m going to try some lobster tails this year and maybe some stuffed rockfish.
I do like making that pasta dish with grilled peppers, mushrooms, onions, prosciutto and various spices in a light sauce.
Oh, this seems so simple I almost overlooked it. I love to cook bacon because I can’t wait to get a nice crisp warm piece first thing in the morning. I think I’ll make some in an hour or two.
Flowing
Another water picture to indicate how my weekend is going. That’s because life is flowing smoothly. That calm stream is like my thoughts on this fine day. Ah the first day of February also. Not that dates mean much anymore except for appointments.
I saw my son and his family yesterday and I saw my daughter today. Maybe that is why my spirits are so high. Opportunity to do something special this evening is strong.
Then again so is the throbbing pain in my right foot where I have a severely discolored toe due to ramming it into a piece of ice outside earlier. So, a doctor’s visit might be on the schedule tomorrow in addition to a haircut.
Being that the treadmill is off the table I’m going to pick up some weights tonight.
Random Thoughts of the Day
- That SNL cold open was a scream last night.
- The roast for Sunday dinner was great.
- I could be wrong, but I think this extreme cold has slowed drivers down.
- Pain can be a re-prioritizer.
- It seems like the colder it is the more I seem to need rest. Must be that bear in me.
Computers
The daily prompt wants to know about my first computer again. I answered this question 2 years ago in a post called First Computer.
What I’ve learned in my experiences with computing. And what I’m quickly forgetting.
These tools can be used to help make you smart or stupid.
Like many things man has created, it has made possible wonderful advancements for humanity. It has also been used for much evil.
In some ways it has accelerated the separation of classes in society.
It’s one of the most challenging things I’ve ever done.
Computing through the last several decades was like reinventing yourself every few years along the way because things change so fast.
Some of the most brilliant advances have been made by teams of people who work well together. And sometimes that involves someone who has never touched a computer before explaining and detailing a craft or skill with someone who does know computers.
Computing has been a great part of my life. I have also wasted some of my life on the computer when I should have been living more experiences away from it.
Computing advances so fast and so much equipment becomes obsolete way too fast and creates an incredible amount of waste I suspect.
Computing before BBS systems or the internet was a trip. A fun and frustrating experience at the same time.
I should have kept track of the total of the gazillion miles of cable I’ve strung in my lifetime.
Or thousands and thousands of backup tapes created, stored, stored offsite and demolished in my lifetime.
The hundreds and hundreds of racks assembled and unassembled and moved and the contents within the same in my lifetime.
The storage systems that would take up rows in a datacenter, to the old 20mb SCSI hard drives in a MacPlus if my memory serves me correctly. Well, I did start when we swapped 5 1/4-inch floppy disks in and out of 2 drive bays.
Days in the computing world will seem like Groundhog Day. You know you’ve seen and solved this problem before.
Computer Server rooms and Datacenters are loud. At least the old ones were.
At one time in computing UNIX System Engineering and Database Engineering had to work together to really make things hum. But talk about two different groups of people. Wow. Both extremely skilled but like oil and water a lot of times. Not all cases but just my observation.
For some it’s an endless source of frustration. For others it is an endless challenge of opportunities.
Being I worked in computing environments for decades, the type of people I gravitate towards are the ones who are open and share their knowledge and experiences. And I try to be one of those people for others. I also don’t make personal judgements of you based on your knowledge or lack of in computing.
Quick story. – I had just started at a daily newspaper. I worked in IT and the company was shifting technology, and they were retraining people to use computers for layout instead of the manual ways of doing it piecemeal on a table. Well, a lot of user type problems were generating calls for system issues that weren’t system issues. So, on my way to another area we supported I would always stop and ask how things were going and see they were struggling with the basics. One or two had ok skills but were still entry level. While there I’d just show them easier ways or proper ways to execute things just by watching them or helping with errors they would create or come across. To cut to the chase. A few of them would thank me and say, “you’re the first person from IT who didn’t make me feel like an idiot.”
Well crap, I hadn’t intended on this being so long. And I want to get back to the workroom and do some sanding. Now days, I balance life at the keyboard and away from it much better. In that way retirement has been good to me.
Movement
It’s the weekend so it’s a fluid situation. A swirl of activities, plans and places. As much as possible inside of course. Like this water I’m going to try to increase my movement to keep from freezing over.
There is a sense of urgency in me now again after the holiday season and being under the weather for a while. I have so many half-finished projects that need to be complete. This coming month is a good time to knock all of them out. I’ll refer to it as Finishary.
I have prepped one area for a new display. I’ve decided to expand the large print collection of Arlington National Cemetery and add another wall in the basement to it to help me decide on a final series.
A little more sanding on a wooden mug for an old friend and I can get to carving a special figure into it. His initials are on the other side. I’m thinking of adding his nickname to the piece also but might skip that one.
The list is long of things to complete and there is a task at hand before I get to those things. Plus, it’s still the last day of January so I will get a running start this afternoon.
Have a great morning all.
Jump, ah no
The daily prompt asks – What’s the thing you’re most scared to do? What would it take to get you to do it?
There are a good number of things I fear trying to do. For example, skydiving, bungie jumping or cliff diving leap to mind. They all involve substantial heights so no thank you.
What would it take to get me to do these. The plane would have to be about to crash for me to jump out of it. Nothing is going to get me to bungie jump because I’ve never seen a rubber band that hasn’t broken. I’ve gone off the high dive, but you wouldn’t even get me near a cliff.
Good morning frozen tundra
I know it seems early to be throwing in the towel or crying uncle, but you win COLD.
White Out and In
A ton of snow and ice outside that’s going to take a while to disappear. So why not add some white from the inside. Flowers in the heart of winter give hope that there is spring.
I’m starting to feel like a block of ice the longer I’m outside.
Random Thoughts of The Day
- It had better be a very hot and long summer to make up for this winter.
- Crap, almost out of a few inks for my photo printer, better order today before I run out.
- I’m worried that my normal dark tan this summer might lead to an unfortunate encounter. I can see a border control asking me a question and my smart ass answering No Habla Ingles.
- Amazon acquired the film Melina for 40 million dollars and is spending another 35 million dollars on marketing. I see Bezos is going to cut staff at Amazon by 16,000 people and at The Washington Post with number much smaller but with devastating impact. Wonder if that is the tradeoff to make up for the loss?
Live more, complain less
The daily prompt asks – What do you complain about the most?
I’m trying and being somewhat successful at not spending time in life complaining as much. Oh, I do complain, and the things below are true and I do spend a few minutes each day now but moving on or changing it or adapting to something more positive is the goal.
Right now, I complain about the COLD the most. I don’t complain as much as curse below my breath or out loud. I’m not encouraged to go outside and shoot when it is 2 degrees as the temp reading indicates now. Plus, camera equipment in that cold sometimes is difficult to operate.
I certainly can’t leave out complaining about the current administration in charge of the US Government or whatever is left of it. There is no Republican party, it’s been hijacked by a cult. And a dangerous one at that. This is where I’ve changed complaining into action to make it different for my children and grandchildren.
Oh, let’s see what that leaves on the list of most complained about. I’m sure bad drivers were high on the list at one time but I’m driving less now. Not that I don’t run into one or several each time I leave the driveway.
There is always the constant one of when the price of something/anything hits you in the face and you say #%$*!!!! and complain because the reason for the increase doesn’t make sense.
And every 3-4 weeks I look in the mirror and see that I’m having a bad hair day and complain that it’s time to get to the barber again.
Doors V4.26
A change of pace for me getting in on the action early in the day for Thursday Doors. I have a fairly long list of excuses for not shooting new doors, it’s cold, it’s very cold, the snow and ice are making it colder, I know I’d be cold, and I bet the camera batteries don’t like the cold.
Therefore, I have reverted again to my vault of photography.
As always, thanks to the creator and host of Thursday Doors. Please follow the link to Dan’s site – No Facilities for far more talented posts and wonderful doors from parts near and far.
Doors with my Comments this week.
No, I don’t care if the sign says Open Come on in! – I’m not going through that door.
These were all shot the same day in November of 2018. About 6 months after a nasty flood which destroyed a good portion of the town.
Security System – If they can’t get to your front door, that’s secure.
Debris is still in the street’s months later. Almost 10 inches of rain in a few hours and overdeveloped surrounding areas spelled devastation for downtown. This old firehouse sits up on the hill, on Church Road, but Main Street is right beside it, and much was lost there.
That’s a hell of a doorbell.
Have a great weekend all.
Sports likes
The daily prompt asks – What are your favorite sports to watch and play?
Basketball and Baseball are still my favorite sports. College Basketball is my favorite sport. I loved playing basketball and the excitement of watching college games live.
Major league baseball has made some significant changes and is much easier to watch and enjoy now the game has quickened. I also enjoyed playing as a youth. Even made a few all-star teams. Still have my favorite bat.
Sports are a great teaching tool. Lots of things about sportsmanship are important in life also. Working as a team. Having dedicated your mind and body to something. It tests your mental and physical toughness. It can teach respect, admiration, compassion, leadership, and honesty. Sports are GREAT.
I’m depressed to see what they have become at times though. Even down to little league ball. Parents and coaches treating it like life and death. Poor behavior by parents. Kids with attitudes that obviously came from home.
But despite that, the true nature of sports and its benefits are still present in our society despite commercialization and gambling and making it a business that goes down to kids way too young, which is disgusting.
Kids are still learning important values from competition. People are still enjoying the games.
The most recent issue with sports I can think of is sports becoming a class thing. In the last few years, I’ve missed games I could always see because they are moving some to streaming services. Ticket prices for professional sports and some college sports are out of range now for a lot of people. Even middle class. Salaries of players and greed of owners are making the distance between the ones who watch and buy the merchandise to a point where it will break.
Even the cost for the kids to join leagues now is tough for a lot of people to afford.
That’s my little girl about to drive that softball DEEP. I enjoyed participating in both my children’s various sports for some years. Coaching kids is a lot of fun.
Philly and back
We attended my wife’s uncle’s funeral services today in Philadelphia. Picking up my brother in-law and sister in-law on the way up. Leaving before the sun came up and getting back as it had set. The service was very nice. We had lunch, got some Philly Soft Pretzels and some bakery goods.
My better half and her family are from Philly originally before moving to the suburbs of Baltimore. So, all their family is from there. It’s a great group of people and this leaves only one Aunt still alive and kicking strong. Her husband passed, 13 years ago. He was a fellow lifer in the newspaper business like me, so we hit it off very well. He worked for the Philadelphia Inquirer and I worked for the Washington Post. I miss him greatly. His children and wife are always so welcoming and seem so glad to see me.
After spending about 6 hours behind the wheel today on interstates and city streets not totally clear of the weekend’s snowstorm, I’m back at my desk and ready to ready to create more useless space on the internet.
But before I get back to my twisted programming.
A Couple of Takeaways from Today –
- Family is important and can be a great source of support and strength.
- Life is short. And uncle Ron lived to 92. And I know he thought it went by in a flash.
- Faith and love can carry people a long way in life.
- It’s very hard to carry on without your longtime better half.
- Holding hands is a sign of deep love. Especially when the same person has been beside your side for a long time.
- I don’t deal well with death. It brings back very difficult memories.
Warmer thoughts
Sorry, I needed a warm photo to look at. I spent 3 hours outside removing snow and ice yesterday. And given the temps we will be looking at the white stuff for at least another week or more. And talk of another possible storm this weekend. Isn’t life grand. Someone please transport me to spring.
This shot appealed to me for another reason. I’m kind of relaxed and this shot merged with that feeling. I love watching horses graze in the fields during the spring, summer and fall months. There are more than a few horse farms around this way so a short drive will always get me to some.
There are a few obligations today but some more time on the treadmill and picking up a paint brush will be on my agenda and maybe a simple meal out with my better half.
Random Thoughts of the Day
- When I write my grandchildren, I imagine the smile they have when they get my notes and pictures.
- There is cold and then there is this week.
- The grouper sandwich at Oscars is great. I also love their crab soup.
- Look for the good people. They are all around you.
Win by not playing
What would you do if you won the lottery? There is a question from the daily prompt that I spend very little time thinking about because I don’t really play the lottery.
Oh, I’ve bought a ticket here and there but most years without purchasing tickets at all. The very few times I do buy a ticket I do fantasize for a few moments and then realize I just pissed away a few dollars I could have given to someone who is hungry. Or maybe a disease that needs help in looking for a cure.
The few seconds I do think about it I think I’d give half to my charities and set my kids and grandkids up for life and have a little fun with the rest.
Gambling is so in my face now that I’m pretty much swearing it off. As I’ve said before I think gambling will kill a lot of sports eventually. It’s going to and has already hurt a lot of people. Then again life is a gamble, so have at it if you want. It’s just no longer for me.
Choose wisely
The killings in Minneapolis are unacceptable. My eyes know what they saw and Alex Pretti was executed in public. And while our government who killed him paints every protester injured or killed as a terrorist, I know different. I believe a lot of other people know different.
I’ve had it with the cowards that hold the check and balance in government unwilling to do their jobs. I’ve had it with the Nazi administration and the lies it spews.
This country is going to crap because of the idiot at the helm and the few puppet masters manipulating the fool along with state television. It’s time to hold people responsible for these murders and people above them accountable. It’s time all of us to combat mistruths and wake up from lies.
Details
Details in life are important. I was very detailed in my work because it was a necessity. So many in life are easily overlooked.
Like this photo. A bit drab indeed. But the guy in the red hoodie by the beach and faint shadow of the freighter in the distance just to his left are easily missed. Especially if you’re looking at this image on a phone or even small laptop, I’m guessing.
I wonder if I’m missing details. Being removed from that type of work for a few years now has certainly changed me. I’m not as hyper or fixated on minute details. I couldn’t take my eyes off screens before. Now I walk away without hesitation.
Retirement is nice. It allowed me to see other things I wasn’t when I was wrapped up in another’s life (the job). Just being more relaxed allows me to look at things differently.
What I once passed by as a throwaway image sometimes now catches my eye and pleases me.
Books
What books do you want to read? – So, ask the daily writing prompt.
I’ve got two books I just started reading. One I started last year and put down right at the start because something else took priority and one I just got for Christmas this year. They are – How to Know a Person by David Brookes and Steal Like an Artist by Austin Kleon.
My better half is the book reader in the house. She goes through them like crazy. Not that I don’t read a lot, just more online than books. Most of the books I read in my lifetime were technical in nature for my job. And the other reading was the daily paper.
Two
Two too Shy
And two, not so shy.
Day two of shoveling snow. And it’s certainly way to, too, two cold outside, with that windchill.
Vantage point
Some days it’s good to change your perspective. Getting a view not normally taken can bring things to light.
Traditions
The daily prompt is asking to – Write about a few of your favorite family traditions.
My favorite is the family trip to the beach each year. It’s the time together that we don’t get to spend the rest of the year. Watching grandchildren enjoy the beach, water, games and food is a treat for us grandparents. And the time to catch up with our own children and learn more about their lives.
We just did something for the second year in a row now and I think it’s going to be a tradition. Last year for my wife’s birthday the kids and grandkids were over to go out to dinner. Low and behold the surprise was they were going to all spend the night here. If you don’t know, the most precious gift is time itself. It’s a great evening together. The grandkids have the run of the house and our own kids love being back in their home. We made a huge breakfast the next morning and continued the fun. It’s a great way to celebrate.
Over time some traditions fade or morph into others. I’ve been thinking about establishing some new traditions for the family and friends. I’m going to host a summer family party at the house. And hopefully revive our summer fishing expeditions. I’d like to get back to having a periodic lunch with my son. And maybe add a few more with my daughter.
Family traditions are great. They help keep families together and in contact with each other. No family or friendship is perfect and there will always be people who choose not to participate. But keep trying because the positives for the people who do choose to share time together is well worth it.
Beach Thoughts
The snow and sleet are here. So obviously my mind wanders to the shore and sun and sand.
I was just looking at the event calendar for the Ocean City. There are a few things I think we will attend this year that we haven’t before.
Maybe a daytrip for Springfest. We were down for the International Kite Festival and that was cool and I’d love to try some more photography again. There is another kite event in September. Maybe one of the car shows, in May or October. I hear the air show in June is great.
We’ve been wanting to return to the Peach Festival in Berlin MD in August. And if I have my way this year I’ll be hoping in the Miata and taking a few day trips when the weather is warm and sunny.
We haven’t stayed at Bethany Beach in a while so we will add that to the list this year. I was disappointed in my effort to spend time there last year but that won’t be the case this year.
Leisure time
What do you enjoy doing most in your leisure time? – The daily writing prompt asks today.
I like to create. I like to eat. I like to laugh. I like to spend time with my better half. I like to write and photograph. I like to write to my children and grandchildren if I can’t see them. I like to exercise. I like driving. I like to listen to music.
Sorry about the short response this morning, there is snow to shovel.
White Out
Word is there is a white out on the way in Central Maryland. Just a little moisture coming. So, I’ll think of spring.
I guess I can deal with a few drops of moisture.
But after stepping outside a few minutes ago it’s the cold I’m worried about. I guess I should make sure the batteries on the cameras are charged because this kind of weather takes a toll on them fast.
Random Thoughts of the Day
- When you having trouble going on with life as normal, when things aren’t normal and you stop going on with life as normal, you’re having a normal reaction.
- It bothers me that trying hard and being smart is difficult for some people to deal with. And no, I’m not talking about me, I’m not smart, but I do know some people who are.
- And on the health front – Houston, we have a problem – CDC Measles page
- Fingers crossed that we maintain power to our homes this week. I’d miss working on the blog and photo editing.
What a weekend
Our children again gave my wife the wonderful gift of time for her birthday. They came yesterday and spent the night and morning with us. I spent the afternoon cleaning up and recovering. I love playing with grandkids so much. And the 9-month-old girl is so precious and expressive she reminds me how special life is.
My spirits are up this evening after catching up on some rest. I figure I’ll be out in the middle of the night shoveling a bit depending on how fast and much is falling.
Which reminds me if you don’t see me for a few days we may have lost power. Otherwise, I’ll be right here spitting out some snow pictures and thought of the day.
Random Thoughts of the Day
- How many more lies about people murdered in plain sight will we endure before we all say STOP. Does it have to be one of our own children who is shot before we raise our voices.
- Been a lot of years since I shoveled significant snow. And my daughter reminded me yesterday that I missed the last really big one 10 years ago because I had just finished radiation treatments for a few months. And my children dug us out.
- I love the quiet of snow in the early morning hours before sunrise.
- But right now, I’m enjoying some aggressive rock and roll. I’ve got to get in the right frame of mind to get through the mess of weather on the way. I’m going to be Neil Peart with a shovel.
Next Stage
I’ve always thought of life as one continuous thing as I was going through it. I never broke it down in stages. Maybe because it’s been kind of scrambled. I was doing a lot more mature things when I was young and sometimes behaving like a youth when much older. And too busy most other times to be concerned with anything other than surviving the next day.
As I was working throughout my career I wasn’t thinking about retirement till the last 4-5 years of it. And that was because I wasn’t happy where I found myself at the end of the run. It wasn’t that I disliked what I did though.
There were a few factors like the night shift which after many years was getting to me like it didn’t when I was younger. The new ownership and changes in upper management were something that I also thought was going in the wrong direction and the personal feel and draw it once had was gone. As were many old friends.
Here I am now 2 years and 3 weeks into what is coined “Retirement” and I’m loving it more each day. In some ways I’m still adapting to it. Sleep is still an issue. I go back and forth between establishing some routines and then going freestyle.
I think the word retirement gives some negative connotations. In some ways it could make one think of someone no longer being of use or being put out to pasture. That knowledge or value was no longer keeping up. Or maybe no longer working on anything.
I do know that even though I have Retired on my LinkedIn profile, I still get a lot of contacts about people wanting me to come back to work. Thanks, but no thanks, I’ve found some things I’d much rather spend the rest of my life doing and pursuing.
In some ways I didn’t think about retirement as I was going along for a few reasons. The ride was a wonderful one and why get off a train, that is so fun. And of course, the financial needs of providing for a family.
But the incentive I also had periodically was people my age and younger passing away. Not that I hadn’t had my own personal wake up calls a few times, but the balance of having enough money vs the time in life left to enjoy a few more days with my better half and children was swinging towards the latter.
Wanting to spend time with children and grandchildren, old and new friends was overwhelming. And experiencing some places, adventures, foods, loves, feelings and sights that work couldn’t make time for is something I finally have prioritized.
Just having the time to work on my favorite hobbies while doing these other things has been a great opportunity that not everyone is able to enjoy. So, I feel fortunate. I have friends my age and younger that probably can’t afford to retire.
We won’t be jet setting around the world. Don’t have the money or desire but some trips are possible, I hope. And we are smart enough to know that we can enjoy a day trip as much as an extravagant vacation.
To Visit Yet
The daily writing prompt asks – Name an attraction or town close to home that you still haven’t got around to visiting.
I’d like to get to the National Air and Space Museum Steven F. Udvar-Hazy Center. If you would like to see large aviation this is the place. The Concorde, A B-29, The space shuttle Discovery, and the SR-71 Blackbird spy plane. Plus, admission is free. Parking is $15 I hear.
I’d also like to see the National Museum of the American Indian in Washington DC. I’d better get to this one quickly the way someone is trying to erase history.
Found the spot
Finding the right spot in life is never ending search.
I’ll be finding my peaceful spot on Sunday while shoveling snow. It’s always so quiet outside early in the morning. I’m always the first one outside. Especially when it’s going to be a deep snow, I’ll do it in a few sessions. Now if the back will hold up for the duration, we will be good.
Advice
The weather is about to turn to crap. So don’t leave the door open or be a pushover for the cold wind.
Doors v3.26
A mishmash of doors from small towns near me.
As always, thanks to the creator of Thursday Doors and please follow the link to Dan’s site – No Facilities for far more talented posts. I hope you’re continuing to feel better Dan.
I’m sliding into another Thursday Doors a day late, unprepared and having to dive into the archive again, so I thought it appropriate to start with a sliding door.
This door is closed but they also post a sign that says Be Happy in the window.
Watch your step outside that second story door.
Isn’t anything open today?
Photos by Mike Hartley
Five Funs
The daily writing prompt wants me to – List five things you do for fun.
Be with my children and grandchildren. Spend time with my better half. Drive my roadster. My artistic hobbies. And spending time with friends.
Burst
No, it’s not the 4th of July. But I still like the burst of color and if you use your imagination, you can hear a boom. I’m not feeling as spry as this flower and there is still much to do today.
Interesting, it will be almost 10 years to the day that this area had its last big snowfall. 2016 was 2 feet or more. I’m not sure just like anyone isn’t about this weekend but each day the target on us seems to grow.
I’ll need gas for the generator which I’ll get today. I also have a few other tasks before test starting it Saturday afternoon. Then I’ll bring it back inside and hope it isn’t needed.
The shovels are at the ready. I’ll be doing it in stages. Hopefully it will be light and I can plow it.
Good morning
In editing some photos this morning, I ran across this image just as I was contemplating either a pop tart or piece of cinnamon toast for breakfast.
The waffles, strawberries, and grapes look more appealing than that pop tart in the foil wrapper. Saturday I’ll be cooking a big breakfast for the family. Well, I’ll be helping with the bacon, sausage, toast and muffins, preparation and cleanup. My better half is making the main dish.
I almost didn’t recognize this as our kitchen. It’s got to be almost 10 years old. The table is gone, the walls are not green, and I know the floor has changed. My better half redesigned our kitchen, and it’s beautiful. I know she wants to get into the basement, but I’ve kept her at bay so far.
Random Thoughts of the Day
- Feeling recharged after seeing my best friends last night.
- Looks like an opportunity to get some snow pictures coming up.
- Managing to increase my exercise time this week.
- What an embarrassment that speech was yesterday by Trump. Then again aren’t they all.
- This coming week I won’t be going outside without my gloves on.
Pets and Love
If you could make your pet understand one thing, what would it be? – Asks the daily writing prompt.
The one thing would be that they are loved. And yes, I believe I’ve made all my pets understand that. And I’m glad that skill and ability is in my children also.
This girl was our most recent love and yes, she did love us. She was so affectionate and playful and even though she was our son’s dog, we treated her as our own. She passed recently so our hearts are still heavy.
I still remember
This was still an active fire station growing up and even when I worked in the town in the 70s. Those sirens would blare through our building and especially the pressroom when the loading dock door was open, which it was most of the time unless it was cold.
That was about the only noise that could drown out the roar of the press. I always liked that the guys would come in from the pressroom to get the plates for the next run, and they would forget they weren’t standing by the press, and they would yell, and then catch themselves and laugh.
In 1977 the Montgomery Road fire station opened. I missed the sirens when they left.
Today it’s The Wine Bin. A great store that anchors the top end of Main Street.
Goalpost
Had a very productive day in many aspects on Tuesday. Lots of logistics and orders taken care of. Spent some time editing and uploading images, added some images to a few picture walls I’m working on and got dinner ready.
WordPress just sent a note that this is my 12th anniversary with them. Time does fly. I’ve had fun sharing some photos and thoughts. I like this community.
Our grandchild sitting got postponed so I’ve had a lot of time to devote to the computer and get some exercise. I’m so glad I have that treadmill with this bitter cold outside.
This old body and very cold temps aren’t a good mix. I’m starting to look forward to that workout like I do working on the blog. Each day, every day.
First
The daily writing prompt is asking – Write about your first name, its meaning, significance, etymology, etc.
I think I did this before, but I’m not even interested in looking that post up. Or looking up again what etymology means again.
My first name is Mike. Some other first names I’m called by friends, Mikey, Doctor, The Judge, Dirty and Admiral. And no, I’m not explaining any of them.
I’m also Dad and Papa to my children and grandchildren.
I’m sure in some of my less than stellar moments in life some co-workers or even my better half have had some choice names for me, but I didn’t hear them so we’re good.
The Capital Wheel
A fitting name (The Capital Wheel) for something going round in circles overlooking DC.
Those on the plane could be smart for getting out.
I didn’t know I had so many shots of the wheel.
I’m drawn to Ferris wheels for some reason.
I’ll have to do a cruise on the Potomac River someday.
Photos by Mike Hartley
Sizzling Start
A good Tuesday morning to all. I guess most of you are back at work and school today. Feeling kind of inspired again today myself, but I no longer have those commitments. Not that I don’t continue to learn and keep active, just no job or classes to attend.
Music always helps things move in the right direction. Do you remember the days when the DJ on the radio had control over your playlist? Whoa, I just dated myself.
I was just thinking back when I started to listen to music on the AM radio in the car in the early 60s. There was still a record player in the house that played 78 rpm vinyl records. And I still have some of those from my parents. The holiday music was nice, but they had some big band and orchestra records that were kind of upbeat.
I believe in 66 I got a 33-rpm record player and stereo. Music took on a whole new meaning because of two things. The sound quality on FM and more progressive formats introducing new music and albums instead of early Beatles singles on 45 rpm disk.
I’ve gotten so tired over my lifetime replacing my music. Albums, 8 tracks, cassettes, CDs, iPods, MP3s, iTunes and Streaming.
When I found out that the new models of the car I like don’t come with CD players, I decided to keep mine for much longer. It’s got all the technology I need so I’ll just rebuild it as it ages.
I like listening to instrumental music when I paint. I like classic rock most of the time but especially when driving and exercising. I like ballads when reflecting on something. There are a couple songs (Hey Jude, Wish You Were Here, House of Pain), that give me pause and make me miss some close people.
Blues and Motown sometimes while writing. Maybe some hard rock while photo editing. Maybe that is why I’m so ruthless when first going through fresh images. It does help my pace though.
Got the Dream Job
The daily writing assignments wants to know – What’s your dream Job? – A little late for that question for this guy. I’m retired, but I’m still working hard in many ways. And I guess you could call it my dream job.
I’ve become my own little publisher here. I’m enjoying some photography and arts. I’m my own event coordinator and exercise mentor. During the warm months I’m a roadster driver with the top down.
I’m working hard on becoming a grandfather the grandchildren remember and admire. I’m studying the balance of exercise and challenges while acknowledging my age and not hurting myself.
A chef hat is occasionally worn, and I hope to add party host to the list of titles I’m working on.
I’m still playing landscaping crew and home handyman. I dream of subbing these out someday.
Oh yeah
A great meal was had at Kelsey’s Restaurant Irish Pub on Sunday afternoon. We started with Crab Toast which is always great. I had the Wagyu Smash Burger with onion straws, and my better half had the Veggie Bowl with Steak. And both of those were excellent.
Service was good as usual and they had the early NFL game on all the sets, so life was good as the food.
We did go there with a bit of a heavy heart. My better half lost her uncle, and they used to eat there with her parents when visiting from Philly. So, maybe the 4 of them have a table together again.
When you see a review it’s at a place that we would return to anytime. I’m not going to do bad reviews. As mom said, if you don’t have anything good to say about someone or something it’s better to not say anything at all.
Not so funny
I never thought about living in a police state. One where freedoms are illusions. But that certainly seems to be the direction we may be headed in. Calling out the military will be the last step. It will just expand from there and the election will be in jeopardy.
If I’m not mistaken the term Marshell Law comes to mind. Hey, I’ve been shocked about the last 12 months and the failure of both congress and senate. And they say take people at their word and he has said to beat, shoot or hang those that oppose him.
I guess it’s possible. There are countries where that is the case. Ones controlled by criminals.
The current administration is the closest thing in my time to feeling that. Basically, if you disagree with anything he proposes, says or does, you are the enemy. And I’m fine with that. Never thought I’d be labeled the enemy in my own country but hey, this isn’t the first Civil War.
And I have no problem being the opposition to the orange one. Bullies are never as tough as they pretend to be. We can make a difference.
Insight
Sometimes words provide an insight into life and purpose that we know is there but not defined well. I went back and found some words that I think provide those insights from the man whose day we celebrate today.
Important Quotes from MLK I like.
It is always the right time to do the right thing.
May I stress the need for courageous, intelligent, and dedicated leadership… Leaders of sound integrity. Leaders not in love with publicity, but in love with justice. Leaders not in love with money, but in love with humanity. Leaders who can subject their particular egos to the greatness of the cause.
The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy.
The SILENCE of the good people is more DANGEROUS than the BRUTALITY of the bad people
We may have all come on different ships, but we’re in the same boat now.
Never, never be afraid to do what’s right, especially if the well-being of a person or animal is at stake. Society’s punishments are small compared to the wounds we inflict on our soul when we look the other way.
History will have to record that the greatest tragedy of this period of social transition was not the strident clamor of the bad people, but the appalling silence of the good people. Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere. We are caught in an inescapable network of mutuality, tied in a single garment of destiny. Whatever affects one directly, affects all indirectly. He who passively accepts evil is as much involved in it as he who helps to perpetrate it. He who accepts evil without protesting against it is really cooperating with it.
Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere.
Life’s most persistent and urgent question is, ‘What are you doing for others?’
No work is insignificant. All labor that uplifts humanity has dignity.
If you can’t be a sun, be a star. For it isn’t by size that you win or fail. Be the best of whatever you are.
Leadership
The daily writing prompt wants to know – What makes a good leader? – A question I answered in a post from my own experience as a leader and being managed by other leaders called History Has Taught Me.
I liked reading that again. One of my better observations. It took me back to some days and situations that I tied to the word leadership. Being retired now I’m leading myself and maybe the family still.
But I’ve thought about getting more involved in some causes and maybe some of my background could be helpful.
I will add that what we have parading as leadership here in the states is a joke and should be removed before we have the second coming of the 1940s. And a message to the rest of the world. While it may not seem like it, many of us are working to change this direction.
Please
Bigfoot beach flash.
No photoshop, just an interesting crop and sculpture.
Good morning
I was looking for a sunrise this morning but that doesn’t seem to be on the agenda. When I checked the webcams at Ocean City this morning I saw overcast and rain. Out my window there is light snow mixed with rain. Crap.
I’m missing my sunrise this morning and that is not good for the inspiration. I get a lot of energy from the sun.
Looks like I’ll have to find the inspiration within this day. A good start was made on the treadmill already and I hope to keep the exercise going strong. I’ve also done some studio work today and have a hundred or so shots to download and edit.
We are having a meal out today so maybe a food review later. Certainly, some painting today. Maybe even a little football watching. What’s not to like about this day.
Change of Question
I remember this question from before. The daily prompt asks – If you could un-invent something, what would it be?
Yep, found my answer to this from back in 2024 in a post titled Take It Back and it’s pretty much the same. Except I’d add that I’d un-invent this question.
So instead, I’ll answer the question – What should I accomplish today. I’d like to take my better half out to lunch or dinner. If there is snow, I’d like to snap a few frames. I’m going to knock out 2-3 more designs and maybe another 15-20 prints.
At least an hour on the treadmill. Watch some football and continue the basement cleaning. Write or call my children. Call one of my best friends who just returned from vacation. Crank up the fireplace and maybe fall asleep in front of it.
Of course I’ll write, download, edit and even pick up a brush. Maybe continue sanding down 4 wooden mugs that I’m going to do some carving with.
Providing I’m given the privilege of waking up later this morning, I hope to accomplish this and much more.
Strength in numbers
There is a saying “Strength in Numbers”. Time to make it felt before it goes off the rails.
In a photo like this it’s hard to tell if that steel is hot or cold to the touch. In some videos, some things become very clear to see.
Who’s yours
My Hero today is my better half. See made brownies.
MIA
Okay, who stole the beach? I used to like these walkways to the beach at Bethany before storms took them away. Nature gives and nature takes away. Maryland and Delaware spend tens of millions of dollars on beach replenishment almost every year.
Luckily these and other efforts sustain these beach towns we all enjoy. And while storms have certainly been severe, none have been of the destruction you see with the hurricanes in south. The thin beaches and dune lines get taken away or pushed back often as it is.
I fear what I see happening in the Outer Banks, possibly happening here one day. I just hope it’s not in my lifetime.
You might have noticed I haven’t been crowing about my favorite University of Maryland Basketball team as much in previous posts. I still love them, I knew it would be a tough year replacing the whole team and coaches. I’m still going to get to games. I’m enjoying the regular season because chances of making March Madness go down early in the season with key injuries, but our chances were still slim. I have no less enthusiasm for them. I’ve adjusted expectations. Something a lot of fans do, because you can’t win every year.
Random Thoughts of the Day
- First time I’ve slept past noon in a while. Of course, going to bed at 7am was the incentive.
- I can’t believe they sent snowplows out in our neighborhood for a dusting of snow. And no, I’m not one of those people who complain about how long it takes for them to plow when it does snow good.
- Remembering my wife’s uncle who’s on his last days. I liked both her Uncle Ron and Uncle Fran.
- The purge has started. Yep, I’m cleaning the basement.
Where’s love
The daily prompt asks – Can you share a positive example of where you’ve felt loved?
The most recent location I’ve felt loved was at my son’s house when my grandson saw me and was so excited to hug me, he tripped coming up the stairs. Notice how I interpreted that literally.
I’ve felt loved when a stranger smiles at me. I’ve felt loved when someone lets me in on a crowded highway. I’ve felt loved when someone said they loved a photo I shot. I’ve felt loved when good friends hugged me. I’ve felt loved when I get an extra pickle slice with my Reuben. I’ve felt loved when I get a drawing/painting from my grandchildren. I’ve felt loved when that bag of candy hearts comes home unexpectedly from the market. I’ve felt loved when someone de-iced my windows and warmed my car up. I’ve felt loved when my daughter squeezes my hand.
Feeling loved is important to everyone. If it isn’t, you’re really missing out on a big part of life. There are times in life where you don’t feel loved and those are painful days.
Feeling loved is a complex thing. It can be spoken and unspoken. Many actions express love from a simple touch to a note that says I love you to a romantic weekend away.
My parents have passed long ago but I still feel their love in the faces in the pictures of them I look at often. My children are adults now and have their own families but our love for them is just as strong as it was day 1 of their lives.
That is one of the toughest parts about your love for your children. You have to let them go and have their own lives and families and share them. But in every note, or text or call or visit that love comes through, which carries the minutes of the day without them with love.
Love can ebb and flow. It grows and diminishes and grows again. Have a smile on your face and be ready to catch it.
Clutter this, clutter that
The daily writing assignments asks – Where can you reduce clutter in your life? Not a bad question and one I’ve been pondering this year. Sounds like one I’ve also answered before. No problem, time moves on and conditions change.
I’ll start with my office. Then move to my workroom, next to the space between my ears. Oh, maybe my bedroom dresser top. Otherwise, we are good.
Now if someone looks back and I’ve said the exact same thing, I’m not making much progress, am I?
Sometimes we are good at controlling clutter. Other times we are less successful.
Photo by Mike Hartley
Dark
The sun has set. The dinner consumed. The days chores behind us. My better half is asleep early. The feels like temp is -9 degrees so it’s too cold to venture outside.
I guess I’ll have to be content with the tools in my office and basement to be happy this evening.
Random Thoughts of the Day
- I look forward to every day. Some more than others though.
- A day where I didn’t feel like I accomplished anything till I looked back and saw allot completed.
- If you’re not scared, you should be. Idiots in charge are dangerous.
- I have my weekly pill dispenser to tell me the day of the week. I have my daily desk calendar to tell me the date, and my computer monitor to tell me the time. Somehow my innate sense of all those things without help left me sometime in the last two years.
- When I can find something to inspire my grandchildren it’s a very good day.
Which to swim in
Which pond do you swim in. One might be safer, but the other may present more opportunities. We make these decisions about jobs throughout our lives. I might not have made the right ones from time to time, but I guess it’s okay in the end.
In some ways I thought I was through with those choices when I retired. But when I think about how to use time, it’s the same way. Do I choose a comfortable path or maybe challenge myself more. The calm or choppy waters.
I find it harder to leave my comfort zone the older I get. I have to fight that and challenge myself more.
Doors v2.26
I’m digging into the archive again. Not that I’ve been lazy, just a few other things taking priority. But I’m on a mission to be here regularly and start a few more challenges this year. I’ll come with a stronger selection next week.
As always, thanks to the creator of Thursday Doors and please follow the link to Dan’s site – No Facilities for far more talented posts of this week’s doors and much more.
I can’t let the week pass without commenting on how many NFL coaches have been shown the DOOR. Or have chosen the exit stage left door.
I’ve got to admit, the first door on Time Bomb Tattoos is missing in action.
And this door with the no trespassing sign on it, with the don’t walk crossing light and traffic guard. Pretty building for not wanting business.
Nature’s Front Door
You Rang?
Memories
Usually there is a candle on the table I work at with my easel. I was closing up the other night and had turned off the lights and was walking away when I noticed I hadn’t blown it out. I walked back and put my head down to do it and saw my dad’s flag in its case about 10 feet behind it on the wall.
Took a few moments to think about him.
After I smiled, picked up the camera from the coffee table that was acting as a studio spot and took this shot before heading to bed.
Prompt + 3
Oh jeez, another question from the daily writing prompt that doesn’t inspire much enthusiasm. What is your favorite animal? – Cat – Always have been and always will.
So, time for my own made-up questions.
How much wall space in your home is taken up by kids or grandkids pictures, artworks, awards, certificates, handprints, height charts on doorframes?
We have quite a few pictures up in frames upstairs. We have 3-bedroom doorframes that measure the height of our constantly growing grandchildren. The fridge has pictures. We have a digital picture frame. In my office I have half a wall of grandkids artwork and another wall with a collage of 200 family pictures so far, it’s still a work in progress.
Here is another question. What was my favorite quote I heard recently?
A Ford UAW worker shouted “pedophile protector” at Trump at a visit to the plant in Detroit. More guts than most reporters.
And the last one. How many bobbleheads are in your home?
I believe we have 3. Not counting me.
Wired Communications
This might be a question you’re careful in answering from the daily writing prompt. In what ways do you communicate online?
I use email quite a bit. Very little Zoom. Little to no chat anymore. Through this blog mainly. An occasional comment on Facebook. With other bloggers with comments on their topics and observations.
I hope to communicate with my images through my photo site. A work in progress.
Obviously support for everything from your doctors to your dishwashers has moved online. And with AI the chance of getting an actual human being to help you is getting closer to 0% each day. So, everyone is communicating with businesses, governments, hospitals and pharmacies, ordering food and everything else under the sun online now.
I’m thinking of reducing my fingerprint online. I have an Instagram account but I’m dropping that because I never use it. LinkedIn is about to go this month or next because I’m retired.
I’d love to drop Facebook, but I keep up with people I worked with for a long time, my car clubs and some old school and neighborhood kids I grew up with. But I’ve cut back on it a good bit. I comment on almost nothing because there are too many hateful uneducated people willing to drag down most meaningful conversation. I will send individual messages.
Good communication is being taken away from society. I refuse to go to those self-checkout isles because I like talking to people taking my money and wishing them a good day. Hopefully, exchanging smiles and maybe some other pleasantries.
I walked out of McDonalds a while back when I realized there was nobody to take my order other than a kiosk. I don’t order online, I still call it in, and I pick it up.
I guess I should count startling my wife as she comes home at the front door with my voice coming through the ring camera is online communication. I like that one.
Make time to Communicate with Nature.
Blooming hump day
Feeling at peace with myself early this Wednesday morning. Both relaxed and excited. The anticipation of seeing some of my grandchildren this week is putting a smile on my face. Spent some time with one of my best friends, Tuesday evening identifying and fixing the problems of the world.
I was tempted to do a food review. We went to a local spot that we know has good food, but other things bring it down. And I’ve vowed to just do reviews on establishments that leave me feeling good on a lot of levels. Therefore, I can say positive things I like about the restaurant and make everyone happy and maybe not misjudge someone having a bad day.
Unfortunately, this isn’t the case here because it’s the same issue repeatedly. Too bad because the kitchen does a nice job. So maybe a good food review tomorrow.
So, no more words, just a picture to bring some calm to a tough day. I’ve got to get to work on the daily writing prompt.
Random Thoughts of the Morning
- One of the best parts of being retired is no more rush hour driving.
- I’m trying to train myself to sit with proper posture. After decades of poor positioning, it’s a struggle.
- Does everyone have a good luck charm?
- Websters has added a line to the definition of the word Lucky. = grandparents who get to see their grandchildren often.
- It’s a neat trick to tell someone what the saw with their own eyes, isn’t that, but something else and having them believe you.
- It would take a hell of a lot of exercise to compensate for the number of Coca Cola’s I’d like to drink every day. Good thing I learned control.
The Big D’s
Dentist and Doctors. We all see them, well at least we should. Recently the dentist asked me to come back for work that must be scheduled to get done. I’ve never had more than a few cavities in my lifetime. I need my first crown I’m told. Anyway, I asked questions about this procedure and the reasons for it and they satisfied me.
In a sense that’s a no brainer. But other decisions get more difficult as time goes on. I’ve seen it with our parents and older friend. From tough decisions like hip and knee replacements to more serious ones like treatments for serious health challenges.
Health to me comes down to quality of life. I’m trying to prepare myself all the time for adjustments I may have to make. For instance, my hands one day won’t be able to type with the fluid motion I once had. I already noticed I’m not as fast as I used to be. I may have to use voice recognition at some point in the distant future.
Mobility has also changed. When younger, there wasn’t obstacle or path that couldn’t be overcome. Now I stick to better trails because I don’t need a torn ligament, broken ankle, kneecap or hip. I even use the treadmill some days that it’s nice outside just because each step is predictable and not challenged by me looking around and not watching where I’m going.
A while back life started being about adaptability to change. Not to just those external things but within your own body and mind. Of course, we are the lucky ones. Many face these challenges early and have lived a lifetime with a disability or disease and persevered.
While each of us will be faced with our own challenges and decisions, we all have to make a collective decision on how to move ahead with healthcare. By not making a decision, we are making one to leave a significant part of the population without healthcare while at the same time making hospitals and ones who have insurance pay for those uninsured because they will go to hospitals for treatment covered or not.
It’s a moral, financial, logistical and industry discission. It’s too complex to be taken as separate pieces. In my opinion it must be fixed as a whole. It’s going to still include painful decisions. Do we spread the cost for those in need of the greatest financial care due to the complexity of their illness or disease. Or do we change them much more for insurance, making the cost for others less.
How do we structure prescription and insurance industries. How do all the hospitals survive, do the profitable ones share with the rural ones struggling? Same with people, those decisions are being made every day in every country including this one. Many different levels of care are available to those with the money for it than those without resources.
There are some brilliant articles from many scholars on the issue of healthcare. Many with some good ideas. But it comes down to you and I and how we vote to solve this. I don’t see anyone on any side pushing any plan that will get to the heart of the issue because it all involves tough choices.
So, we push the broken barrel down the road for another year while the system gets worse. And more people go bankrupt each year from medical bills, (you should look at those numbers). Hospitals continue to struggle till they shut down. People in the profession get burnt out or don’t have the supplies, tools or meds needed or aren’t paid for the incredible job they do.
And when lots of people go bankrupt, hospitals and doctors don’t get paid so they pass it on to those of us still able to pay.
It seems we’re starting from a strong point. The following is an assumption on my part. I’m guessing we have some of the best hospitals, doctors, equipment, prescription meds, research, caregivers, Ems, insurance people and systems in place for healthcare in the world. How we work on it, change it, modify it again, or just push it down the road will say allot about us as a society and the leadership we choose to address it.
We need to talk about this and many other issues. We need leaders who have plans that can adapt and modify to make a better plan and then get consensus and implement.
Found this link below for the Maryland folks wanting to know about what is going around the state now with flu, covid and rsv.
Road Trip
The daily prompt has asked me to – Think back on your most memorable road trip.
Okay, I did that. What a time. Most details are classified as are most of my memorable road trips with friends. We were young, our early 20s. Maryland to Daytona Beach Florida in my 74 Camaro with stops in Greenville SC and Vienna Ga on the way down. What I can say is that trip was the week the movie Animal House was released in 1978, and we saw it on the way down near Clemson University on day 2 of our 11-day adventure. The rest of the trip was spent topping that.
Some of the simplest road trips are the most pleasurable. These are with my better half and are so enjoyable. We have taken many road trips to Western Maryland and some to the Eastern shore of Maryland. Both very beautiful places. Sometimes day trips sometimes overnight. Sometimes a few days trip to different spots.
I think back to the memories of taking our children on vacations, mostly to the beach. I still can’t figure out how I packed all that stuff and people into a small car. But if the kids had a good time, it made our trip.
If it’s up to me, I prefer a road trip, no planes, ships, buses or trains. I don’t mind trains but the other three I can leave. I love to drive so road trips are my favorite form of travel.
This year I’m going to make a lot of road trips in the Miata. Mostly pointed east towards the shore but many other destinations also.
If I may add one thing. Could we all just try to get along on the roads and stop trying to kill each other for a car length or two advantage.
The Power of Sand
Some things hold power over me. The call of a beach is one of them. But what is it? The sound of the waves is lovely. The smell of the salt air is unique. The warmth of the water in the summer months is a welcome feeling. Nope, it’s something else.
But those feet touching the sand as the flip flops are slipped off. The feeling of the ground molding to the shape of your foot. The sudden tug on the calf as you’re using leg muscles not challenged on a hard surface.
Warmth from the sand heated by the morning sun while the cool breeze is still coming off the water. Kids excited voices and screams as the touching of the sand signals the start of a beach day. The many toys and buckets lugged to the beach by parents and grandparents occasionally dropping and being picked up.
That older couple walking towards the beach that suddenly join hands as they hit the sand. The teenagers and young adults running as footballs and Frisbees are thrown around on the way to the beach with the random towel snapping at each other.
The rabbit or fox sitting on the sand dune watching people walk the path to the beach. The blankets and beach towels are all laid out. The sound of music (loosely defined) fills the air. And then begins the endless trips to the shore and back to the family area of the beach to build the foundation of the Great Wall of Maryland. Well until the kids decide to play Godzilla and knock it to pieces while laughing their heads off.
And then at times it’s the coolness of the sand that is so embracing. That early morning walk as I turn on my camera as I touch the sand an hour before sunrise waiting for the morning painting of the sky. Or that evening walk with my better half on the cool sands after a nice dinner, while a warm summer breeze makes it a beautiful evening as the moon rises over the water.
Maybe catch some of the fishing fleet leaving port. If you’re out early you can catch the surfers entering their realm.
Or the father putting up the tent staking out the prime spot on the beach.
There is nothing I don’t like about sand. I don’t care if I get caught in a wave and it’s in my shorts. I don’t care if kids accidentally kick it in my hair. I don’t mind if I’m covered head toe in it when I leave the beach. I don’t even care that the car is covered with it and needs a deep cleaning upon return from the shore.
Sand is very cool with me. I could use some sand, but weather people are talking about snow.
A few more
What snack would you eat right now? – I was hoping for better quality questions from the daily writing prompt.
A Hershey’s cherry filled chocolate kiss. Maybe 2 of them.
Now onto something more pressing. A good question to answer. How about this – Do you think you could write a year of fresh and interesting daily prompts?
I think I could, but I’d have to be honest there might be a few clunkers in there just like the questions we get now and then. It’s hard to write anything good. You just have to keep trying.
Or this question. Do you check for bed bugs when checking into a hotel room? – I haven’t but I’m thinking about starting that practice.
Maybe this question. If you had to lose one of your senses which one, would you choose? I think I would choose smell.
Well, enough new questions, I’m sure I’ll have to come up with some more because there are questions from the daily prompt, I have no interest in.
Out and about again
A busy week ahead with lots of goals to be met. I’m going to force myself out of the house more. Rumor of some snow later in the week might provide some weather shots I didn’t get a chance to take advantage of in December due to flu.
It hasn’t been the most productive day of the week yet, but there are still 6 hours left to finish strong. It’s been a good week. Got a few dozen prints made and uploaded images, took care of some computer issues, read a bit, learned a lot, played with Canva, spoke to friends and made plans with family.
I’m trying to take the whole of days into account when I think of what I hope to accomplish. That is taking exercise and rest into account when summarizing a week now. This was a well-rounded week. There were a few restless nights, but also a few with good sleep.
I worked on my photography and writing mostly, so I’ve neglected to increase my painting skills or lack thereof so far.
This week is going to be even better. I started to push myself a little harder yesterday in the exercise area and I’m keeping it up today. Now to stretch it out all week and make it routine.
Random Thoughts of the Day
- Another day, another test of this country’s morality.
- Had a great beef stew this evening.
- Talent isn’t always natural. Sometimes it comes from a lot of hard work.
- Blindly following lies seems to be a difficult path to walk.
Neighbors
Some neighbors build bridges to each other.
Not so much here but maybe I’ll work to start changing that. I met a new neighbor who is replacing one of our longtime neighbors whose children grew up with ours. He seemed very nice. We haven’t had the chance to meet his wife or son yet.
As the weather warms, I’ll be walking more outside so that can lead to some interaction.
I grew up in a time when everyone seemed to know everyone in the neighborhood. And these weren’t small communities. The kids were the main source of bonding the community and there were a ton of us. Back when people didn’t lock their doors unless they were going away and then several neighbors probably had a key. Because everyone watched everyone else’s pets when they were away.
I don’t remember anyone locking their car doors. Lots would give a quick knock and stroll right into a home. I remember our next-door neighbor Mrs. Mulligan giving a quick yell “It’s Me” and in she came. Some didn’t have to knock or yell because you could hear the basketballs bouncing from several homes away or the sound of wooden bats tapping concrete all the way to the front door.
Most of our time was spent outside unsupervised until we got hungry and raided someone’s home for lunch. And then back outside till dark or beyond or till you heard your mother calling both your first and middle name which indicated you were more than late. Wow, so much has changed since my own youth. And it changed again when we had kids. And now it’s changed again for the worse for our grandchildren.
Lots of us don’t know our neighbors. I can’t say I know most of them. I think I’ll work to change that a bit.
Crazy business
Come up with a crazy business idea. The daily prompt asks.
Why don’t we start a TV network that can take actual things you see like January 6th, 2021, and make you believe it was something other than it was. Ops, we already have that.
How about a security firm that protects every school in the country. I mean what parents wouldn’t want that now with all the school shootings.
How about starting a TV network that would tell the truth about things. Ops, we would never get a license now.
How about a company that could take all the gambling away from sports and return it to the people who play and love to watch it for the love of the game itself.
Maybe start a firm that takes up the tremendous amount of food waste in this country and feed the poor and homeless and sheltered animals.
On a large-scale water management for the country. We either have way too much water or not enough just about everywhere, every year. Oh, throw water safety in that loop also.
I hear this country is in need of a new electrical grid. Got to think big at times.
Now here is one I’d like to pull off again. Start a local community newspaper. I know, they all died off. But look at what you’re left with.
Create a device that captures all the ideas we lose before we get to the computer or to a piece of paper.
Feeling it
I’m feeling my age today. Maybe, a bit older. Time to get some exercise before I stiffen up more. I’ve been pretty good at walking every day, but the weights haven’t been moving much. Feeling younger takes a bit of work regarding the body.
The mind has no problem thinking or acting young. Like tonight, I’ll stay up way past normal and probably work on several areas of photography.
Even though the mind thinks young, it’s not telling the body to do the active things it did in its youth. And there lies the issue. I’ve really got to turn that around this year. Besides walking and light weights, I have to add another aerobic activity.
It’s going to be tough because I spend a lot of time seated working on the computer and reading. I did hear my neighbor’s son outside with his basketball and hoop. Maybe I should get outside myself. I had it out a few weeks ago dribbling keep away from my granddaughter.
I think I’ll work on some of my favorite nature shots. I guess I should order some more ink tomorrow because I’m going to be doing some larger prints. Now I just have to find room or people to give them to.
In between those coming out of the printer I’m setting up something to test my lighting and angles on some old cameras as subject matter. Have a good evening, all. Go Packers.
Random Thoughts of the Day
- Don’t lose your perspective if you find yourself talking to yourself more than others.
- I don’t know why I got away from doing Random Thoughts for a while. It’s not like I didn’t continue to have them.
- I’m using change to help with my motivation.
- I have a daily desk calendar again. I like that. I haven’t had one in a few years, so this is nice to keep me up with the day and date. No wonder the last few years have gone by so fast. I lost track of time.
Attachments
The daily prompt asks – Describe and item you were incredibly attached to as a youth. What became of it?
I have two things that I was attached to as a youth. My Louisville Slugger baseball bat from little league days, and my first camera. I still have both of these. One is now a security device and the other sits with all the old antique cameras I have collected over the years from the family.
Lucky
When I was trying to discover what I wanted to be in my teens, I thought I wanted to be an artist and photographer. I spent my first and only year of college as an Applied Art and Design Major.
The term starving artist exists for a reason. And I was scared to move ahead because of that and the fact I saw more talent around me and wondered if I could compete over the long run. I was used to having money having worked a lot of my youth. But not in the art field.
I was worried about making a living. Having funds to go out, keeping my car running and fueled, keeping my own engine fueled. So, when offered a position as a cameraman in the engraving department in a publishing operation I jumped at it.
It was an easy out of my initial dream and I didn’t look back till a few years before retirement. I discovered I still had that desire. But this time the pressure is off. I can pursue those interests without the financial pressure of having to support a family.
I still do things on a shoestring budget. I ask for printer paper for birthdays and Xmas. I stretch life out of every computer and camera I use. I pick up a pad of drawing paper and paint when I can. I make old scraps of wood come alive.
At one time before I retired, I thought I might make a business out of my arts and photography. But I discovered I don’t do this for money. I do it because I like it. I’d rather give something I’ve created as a gift than earn a dollar from a stranger. Not that I won’t give a gift to a stranger.
Mission
What is my mission? – Asks the daily writing prompt.
Well, let’s see. I need to write to both of my children this morning and get the cover on the car before any rain starts. I’m thinking of someone very close to me undergoing some test so my mind will be there for some time.
I’d like to work on my photography skills today in shooting and editing. I’d like to get some thoughts between the ears to paper or computer. I’d like to finish the book I started today. I’ve got to call the garage for an appointment.
I’m going to pick up the paint brush and put a few miles on the treadmill. I’ve got a few more blog posts to make and then do a little sanding on the dolphin I’m working on for my granddaughter. I might work on planning a short trip and setting up my makeshift studio.
My mission is to smile. To make other people smile. To be a good father and grandfather, to love. To be a good friend, to be truthful and ethical. To have a good time this weekend and maybe watch some sports. To get the fireplace going and trim my beard.
To clear some wall space for a new photo project. Hang a few more hooks in the storage room ceiling for grandkids toys I’m tripping over. Work on some illustrations and order some Chinese food.
I’m probably forgetting a few things on my current mission. The mission is modified day by day because life changes minute to minute. Missions are important, but sometimes it’s also important to let life just come to you. Like if you hear a song you like, get up and dance if so moved.
And if my better half doesn’t like the idea of Chinese food today, I’ll suggest some Mission BBQ.
Doors v1.26
I had some doors from the Eastern Shore of Maryland I don’t believe I’ve used here for Thursday Doors. It’s a mish mash of sights. I hope to get out this weekend for some fresh images.
As always, thanks to the creator of Thursday Doors and please follow the link to Dan’s site – No Facilities for far more talented posts.
This first shot was from doors at Secrets Distillery in Ocean City.
I believe this home below was in St Michaels MD.
And a building with several stages of doors in Easton MD.
Live long and prosper
I’ve heard that line “Live long and prosper” somewhere in my lifetime.
The daily writing prompt wants to know my thoughts on the concept of living a very long life.
I hope to live a very long life. In some ways I’ve already have. I’m thankful for each day and the healthy ones especially. I hope to grow old with my better half and watch my grandchildren grow into young adults.
I have a lot to do and accomplish myself. I’d like to live it as healthy as possible. The concept of living a long time in ill health worries me. Whether mentally or physically it would be a struggle. Of course that is asking for a lot.
I’m guessing the percentage of people who grow very old and healthy, and then just pass peacefully in their sleep is very low. I’ve seen some of the end-of-life struggles and it bothers me, but it’s kind of out of our control.
Staying sharp both mentally takes work just like keeping the body in shape physically. I haven’t done the best job here but it’s never too late to start. I think we all have started over several times with these goals.
The thought of a long life like living till my late 80s or early 90s makes me smile. I can see myself shuffling through the bleachers to watch a grandchild play a high school or college game and attend their graduations. I can feel myself holding my better half’s hand on the deck as we catch some sun. Well, I’ll catch rays, she will be under the umbrella.
I can see myself in what will be then a very classic Miata that I have sitting in the driveway now cruising down some back roads and remembering what was there decades ago. I hope I still have a camera in my hands and that the hands can still tickle the keyboard with speed and agility.
Each doctor’s appointment now scares the hell out of me. Ever since some medical challenges in the previous two decades I fear that I might not be able to see some of those plans. Just as any senior fears when they get to this age.
A while back I learned and then relearned the importance of living in the present. So, it’s going to be a great day today and productive day.
The Pizza Search
I get cravings for food often. Like daily because I love to eat and drink. My mind wandered to a warm summer day thinking about a large pizza from Tony’s on the boardwalk in Ocean City. Some Shrimp Jammers and a cold drink on the deck part above the restaurant below.
Unfortunately, Tony’s is no more. Well yeah, I heard the new owner/operators have a small carry-out, but rumor is it’s nothing like the old Tony’s pizza. We will miss that spot. The family would always make a stop there every vacation. And I’d get a slice or two if I was down on a day trip to the beach by myself.
Anyway, I got to thinking what is my favorite Pizza in Howard County Maryland. And said to myself why not a post about the search. Notice I didn’t say the best pizza because that is too subjective and not everyone likes the same toppings. And that matters a lot in how pizza comes out and tastes.
I’ll describe what I like about each one. I’m trying to keep a positive mindset so hopefully there are many great things about each but I’m sure I can find something good to say about each. Even if it’s the box it came in.
Just kidding. It’s hard not to like pizza. There are some frozen ones that could test your love for pizza but most you get at a restaurant are going to be pretty good.
I like thin crust so that is the style I’ll be ordering. Sorry to those doing the deep dish as their specialty.
And what better way to begin, low and behold we have a Tony’s Pizzeria right here in Howard County. Not affiliated with the one in OC but special none the less. We went there for subs mostly because they have great cheesesteaks.
The Fat Tony Meat Combo Pizza appealed to me – Yeah that heart attack can’t get here quick enough. Anyway, I ordered a medium because my better half wasn’t joining me for lunch. Which also allowed all the meat toppings she wouldn’t normally go for. Sausage, ham, bacon and pepperoni.
This was a very good pie. Very generous on the toppings and they all had a nice flavor. Good crust, sauce and cheesy. Cooked perfectly. I’ll be back.
This is actually the second post on pizza. Here is a link to my thoughts on Anthony’s Pizza in a post called Pizza in Howard County from December 25.
Box’em up
The decorations are down, and everything is bare again. That is the part of the season that I dislike. There is something about holiday decorating that raises my spirits. Now we are back to the grey winter months. Yes, there is a birthday this month that the cray paper and balloons will come out. And I might have a gathering for some old and good friends.
But those lights and the smell of a fresh tree and ornament’s hanging signals a time of family and smiles and peace to me. Here we are a few days into the new year, and they are gone again.
As I boxed up the last of the lights, I think how quickly this year came and went so in no time we’ll be pulling these boxes out again.
Doing differently moving forward
What could you do differently? – Now that is one open question from the daily writing prompt.
I’m guessing all of us have a long list of things we could do differently. I just spent a few minutes and came up with a list. Now I’ve got to add these things to my many existing lists.
- I could get more serious about exercising.
- I could love more.
- I could spend more time on the things I like doing.
- I could sit with proper posture and get more sleep.
- I could volunteer more.
- I could modify my stock Miata.
- I could organize this blog. Nah I like the mess.
- I could get busy remodeling the basement.
- I could try to adjust my attitude about winter and cold.
- I could start following through on more of my ideas.
Late start
It’s a music day. My better half is out so there is no need for headphones. Just speakers belting out the tunes for me to feel. And I do feel music. The lyrics, the beat hit my soul. Even in the toughest times it can put a smile on my face.
So, my shoulders are bouncing and the swivel in the chair is getting some action, and I can still type fairly accurately. It won’t be long though till I have to get up and move with some energy.
A day of errands and chores ahead, but some fun will be had for sure. The streets are dry, so I think I’ll exercise the Miata for a few minutes. It’s so strange driving that car with the top up. I rarely take it out in the cold, but I miss driving it, so I do when the roads aren’t bad.
Now tomorrow is another story with the temp maybe hitting 55. That’s the magic number for folding that top back. Now the side windows will be up most of the way and maybe the seat warmer on, but with the sun it will be nice.
History
This day January 6th is a disgusting day in this country’s history. And what has been done since regarding that day’s activities is an injustice of justice. A warning and message we didn’t take and was changed into a different narrative to suit his followers. A hateful day that everyone condemned and then many changed their tune.
Why so many continue to bow to this false narrative and continuation of other lies is one of the many that continue to puzzle me.
Creativity Ebbs and Flows
Some days the words flow like a lazy stream. Relaxed, rolling and free. Effortless positive thoughts flow along with the images.
Other days words are dammed up. The mind in turmoil, the body tense, painful and rigid. I get more of these days. I work hard in overcoming them and not making them apparent. So far, I’m pretty good at disguising them. A word actor. An actor in life.
Some days I’m reluctant to pick up a brush or a camera. Others I can’t get enough of them.
Today feels like a good creative day.
Random Thoughts of the Day
- My sleep is getting more and more inconsistent. Guess it’s having a flashback.
- There is a dance inside of me dying to get out today.
- The live version of Simple Man from 1975 might be my favorite song of all time.
- I believe in the Manual Gearbox Preservation Society.
Billboard
If you had a freeway billboard, what would it say? – Now there is an interesting ask by the daily writing prompt.
Wow, that is a tough one because my mind raced through several emotions and messages. And I quickly realized I’d need a lot more billboards. Here are just a few that covered my first 5 minutes of thought on the topic. Wish I had the time for some artwork for each.
Respect each other – Love each other
Hold on, it can get worse.
If all decisions are made with children and grandchildren, in mind. The world would be a better place.
Democracy takes work. No more sitting around expecting others to do it for you.
Welcome to Maryland. Safe driving times are between 3:00am and 3:30am. Except holidays, full moons and weekends coming home from the beach.
We are at a very important point in history; the decisions we make now will affect generations to come.
I’d like to send the Seal Teams against Scammers.
Malignant Narcissism and Dementia = Great name for a carnival ride but not a President.
Won’t wait
I won’t wait for winter to end to visit the Eastern Shore of Maryland again. One of these days I’m going to have to eat crabs out on the deck at the Crab Claw restaurant in that red building across the water here.
St Michaels and Easton have lots of good spots to eat and I love walking both towns. Speaking of walking I need to get on that treadmill today and make up for the slack effort put forth on Sunday.
But the ocean calls and I’m going to start a countdown till I’m sitting at the bar at The Wedge watching the boats go in and out the inlet while eating a crab flatbread and a cold beverage.
But today I’m also working on sorting out inputs to get control of. For instance, I can stay well informed while not getting overwhelmed with politics. So, I’m reading more and watching less TV.
Getting back to listening to more music as I work and exercise is a good feeling again. I got so away from my norms in December when under the weather. They feel that much more special as I resume them again. A reminder that health is everything.
I’ve got one appointment I’d like to avoid today but that wouldn’t be smart. So, I’ll knock that out and return to the office and easel and work hard this afternoon and evening on my passions.
Future by a nose
The daily writing prompt asks – Do you spend more time thinking about the future or past? Why?
I guess it depends on the day and situation. Most of the time I’m thinking about the future. Holidays and certain anniversaries I’m thinking about the past and reflecting. Certain locations or events might trigger more past thoughts.
I like looking forward but I also have a lot of good memories so looking at the past is nice sometimes also.
Now I’d say I spend more time thinking ahead than behind. Trying to live more in the present.
