I’ve never been a person to wear a hat. Maybe the baseball hat when a youth playing baseball. I have a few baseball caps that I wear during the summer but that’s about it. Oh yeah, I have a floppy summer hat I’ll use on the beach sometimes.
But hats have been intriguing me for a while now. I’ve ventured into a few stores and cruised online. I loved the hat that Ronnie Van Zant wore. Not sure if it would look good on me though.
I’m actually looking for a few hats. One summer like on the table in front here. But also, something stylish for the cooler seasons.
One Fresh Hat in Ellicott City. Photo by Mike Hartley
I’ll keep you updated and provide a photo if I make a decision. Maybe spend some time this week stopping in a store or two.
Random Thoughts of the Day
I’m older and I thought I lived through dangerous times before. Well, this one might take the cake.
You scream, I scream, we all scream for ice cream. Cherry Ice Cream Sodas are my favorite.
There is now a limit on how much sun I can get in a day. I don’t like that limit.
I’m trying to turn things around but having limited success. As a matter of fact, I feel like I’m losing. Not the best feeling in the world but there it is.
I’ve been pretty good at dealing with change in the past. Being in a technology area most of my career I didn’t have a choice because things moved fast. But I’m finding the more I’m removed from it being retired the more problems I have when I encounter something new. Like messing with that Park Mobile app a few years ago. And as time goes on the more F’ing apps you need to just get by.
With people, I’ve also had the ability to deal with changes over time. But that past success seems to be fading. And I can’t say if it’s my ability to deal with things is getting more limited or if the changes others are going through have changed things to where I’m not in a comfortable place.
Photo by Mike Hartley
There is work to be done in evaluating, adapting or changing some things. We will see if the old concept of older people being resistant or unable to change affect me or not.
Yes, I’m familiar with the adage “the only constant thing in life is change.”
One of the last bastions of journalism I admire, The New York Times.
Photo by Mike Hartley
Trust in anything is a hard thing to find now. Enough seeds of doubt have been planted. More biased ownerships have taken control of most media. Controlling the message like we used to think about communist countries has invaded our shores.
I’m old enough to remember a newsman called Walter Cronkite. He was known as the most trusted man in America. If that man said something I bet 90% or more of this country believed it as the truth. Newspapers were trusted sources of information. Most people believed what the government said.
So how do we reestablish so much lost trust. The easy part is first calling out the blatant bullshit that is being slung daily and must stop. Our children are being taught you can do one thing and say another and get away with it. That is the first lesson you teach a child that is WRONG.
One of my few hopes is that we haven’t confused the younger voting generation so much that they either don’t participate or haven’t blinded them with bullshit.
My thoughts are that we as a society must keep searching for the truth in every situation. That way we can move onto solutions that make sense.
No more beating around the bush this morning. It’s going to be a great day. And why you ask, because we are alive and we have hope. Notice, I said we. I figure there are some like-minded people trying to share that thought and feeling through their words and actions.
Photo by Mike Hartley
When working in DC I used to do something that threw some people off. Growing up in a somewhat rural area people spoke to each other when passing. That isn’t the case in Washington DC on the workweek in the business/government parts of town from what I experienced for a few decades.
On my walks from the parking garage a few blocks away from the building I’d always make a point to be smiling and passing along a greeting if someone made eye contact or maybe a positive node. Even the occasional “everyone’s looking good today” which usually evoked some smiles when I would say it waiting for the light to change so we could cross the street together. Sometimes I’d even notice a little extra spring in their steps.
I would always greet our security guards coming and going. I think it’s rude to just walk past people like they are some kind of machine. Especially when their job is to help ensure your safety.
Getting a smile back was a nice reward. Or just a nod was cool.
What amazed me was that co-workers would ignore the cleaning crew when I worked evenings. People wouldn’t acknowledge them as they kept their work areas clean. I always made a point to greet them and thank them.
Going into the parking garage I’d always slow to wave to the attendant on duty and say good morning as I came up the stairs by his station.
What was and still is appalling and I’m guilty of it myself now. Ignoring the homeless like they don’t exist. I was much better when I worked nights and would acknowledge all of them on my walks at lunchtime. Even bringing extra food for a buck or two for some of the nice regulars. Maybe they were easier to see at night because they weren’t being ignored by hundreds of people walking by every few minutes.
So that is my point this morning. I’m going to try to get back to my old friendly smiling self and share the hope.
Being up early in the day is a pleasure. I love the peacefulness of morning before daybreak.
Howard County MD. Photo by Mike Hartley
I think our county fair starts a week from today. I haven’t been there for the last few years, but I won’t make that mistake this year. It’s one of those throwback events that brings memories of working the announcements and information booth for our local newspaper. And handing out copies of the fair guide which we printed.
But no time like the present to make a good day. I’ve got a few challenges ahead of me today. Some physical ones that I’m a bit apprehensive of, not feeling 100% to start, but we will power through as always.
Stepped outside this morning and about 15 feet from a monster size buck (deer). He snorted and ran off but in the dark, it was a bit startling because I didn’t see him till he made that noise and as he turned to run, he rose up on his back legs, so he looked even more huge.
Random Thoughts of the Morning
Stop discounting moments in your life. Even simple things are special.
One of the best feelings in life is a manual transmission and rear wheel drive.
I have a taste for a bacon and cheese omelet this morning. I know, I should have bacon, but it’s BACON.
There are some chores remaining but easily accomplished in time for some rest. The sun has set on today. A far from perfect day but one with most goals met. And despite feeling progressively worse the team of me, myself and I are spreading out the discomfort and planning for a better day tomorrow.
Sunset on the Chesapeake Bay looking towards Annapolis. Photo by Mike Hartley
Random Thoughts of the Day
I felt lazy and very productive in the same day.
Watching the joy of a close friend share the enjoyment in the story of his 4-year-old grandson waking him up at 6:15am was a pleasure in itself. Almost like you were there.
I’m not what you would call well read. On the other hand, I’m well informed and I read a lot.
That’s it, I’m making an orthopedic appointment. I have a buffet of issues for them to choose from.
Sleeping in feels good some days. And today was one of those days. I was out later than normal last night with friends and that combined with a couple of restless nights before contributed to the need for rest. Didn’t do much for my back but my mind felt fresh again.
It’s FRIDAY again and that means it’s all downstream from here baby. Got to wind up the go-cart again today and put the top down and enjoy a ride today.
Patapsco River. Photo by Mike Hartley
I reminded my working stiff friends last night that it was Early OUT Friday. Especially the one that has to travel across the Chesapeake Bay Bridge. Traffic this weekend will be heavy.
Textures is a project I’m working on now. It feels great to have that printer humming again. Made about 40 8x10s the last day or two. Searching through the archive for images that I feel fit the narrative is also a lot of fun.
The night is packed with chores and finishing up some projects before a little fun this weekend. At least the mowing is done for another week.
Random Thoughts of the Day
I reversed my normal listening routine this morning. I started off with the more aggressive tunes and now I have the mellow stuff working.
It feels good to have grass dominating the yard again instead of weeds. I think I’ve successfully run off the mole that was wreaking havoc.
The amount of money being spent by big money individuals and businesses on the upcoming election will be sickening, disgusting and excessive. Find out who they are spending it all on and vote the other way.
Tailgating bothers me more than most other traffic transgressions. Of course, running past stopped school buses also makes my blood boil.
This is probably what I need. Strengthening my core is certainly something that could use some improvement. I remember hula hoops from my youth. This device looked a little different.
Recently I tried a hula hoop at my grandson’s birthday party. I failed after a few attempts which made me think I’ve either lost my coordination or have really poor hip control.
Lake Elkhorn Columbia MD. Photo by Mike Hartley
All of this points to the need to challenge myself a bit more physically and get my muscle tone and coordination working a bit better.
Yesterday I got a good bit of physical activity. A little walking and some strength training at home. Let’s see if I can keep this going again today.
Random Thoughts of the Day
There is a lot to be said for making your own schedule. I’ve noticed some people are troubled by it.
Companies that eliminate work from home are shorting themselves of good people on purpose.
To the kid who passed me on the shoulder on a motorcycle less than a half mile from the Ellicott City police station doing at least 55 in a 35. Dumb shit like that is going to get you killed.
And why are doing a nuclear deal with Saudi Arabia?
Will the majority find common ground and good leadership in the future and get all our wheels back on the ground at the same time. Just a thought.
Raise your tires if you support car shows. Photo by Mike Hartley
So, I’ll start with myself and make sure I’m well-grounded and listening as well as talking. That’s what we used to do. Then negotiate either in public and or private. I think we’re going to have to set the example from the bottom up instead of top down because that doesn’t seem to be optimally functioning.
An example of the effort I’ve been talking to a very old friend, a very special old friend. One I’ve called a best friend for many years. But one thing I never suspected separated us like it has done to many families and friendships. We are taking it slowly and just talking about a few old interest that we shared and enjoy. Maybe an old reference to a story or fun days in the past.
We haven’t gotten to the politics and that is fine because that was never part of our relationship before Trump. He probably never knew I voted every chance I got. My reasoning for that is he wasn’t active in elections before.
And I’m not foolish enough to believe that I could or would want to talk to people who aren’t willing to listen themselves. I’d like to get back to addressing issues instead of personal attacks on each other. I’d like to hear ideas instead of rhetoric. Maybe each one of us can do our part.
Spending some time in a horizontal position is what my back needed. I was hurting around 6pm last night so I laid down and was going to rest for an hour. Well, 6 hours later I wake and find the lower back relaxed as this snake below. What a great surprise, I’m just hoping it’s not temporary.
Looks like a busy day ahead with 16 items on the ToDo list and another 20 on my Hobby list. I guess that is why I’m never at a loss for what to do. I just consult my list. And I have tons of them. I used to keep most of them between my ears, now I have to write them down.
Sand and Snake. Photo by Mike Hartley
Since I took my Maryland Eastern Shore Exhibit down, I’ve been torn on what to replace that with. So, I started running across a few photos I liked and started the presses. That would be the Canon Pro-100 printer.
Early this morning I was making prints for a series on Textures and found this shot that I hadn’t used here. It feels strange being in a good mood, working on things that make me happy and at the same time the country may be facing a great crisis.
It’s a difficult thing to reconcile each day. But one must keep their sanity so I’ll march on again today.
Random Thoughts of the Day
Having doubts is okay. Dwelling on them isn’t.
The further west I go in this state the better the drivers are.
I’m getting very near my target weight.
There is a good stretch of weather coming that I hope to take full advantage of.
Got out and put the top down before daylight and went for a ride. I was hoping to catch a sunrise, but the rains are on their way this morning, so it was pretty muted. It was warm and sticky. That’s what 100% humidity is when it’s not raining. You feel like it is, but nothing is falling from the sky yet.
Shipping under the Chesapeake Bay Bridge going into the Port of Baltimore. Photo by Mike Hartley
The few morning chores are complete and I’m going to get some lunch and then work on my hobbies the rest of the day and evening. Maybe an opportunity to photograph some bad weather this afternoon.
If I were a betting man, I’d say there is a better than average chance we are going to lose power later so if I’m absent the rest of the day you will have at least one suspect. And as always, thanks to the linemen out there after the storms restoring normalcy.
Random Music Thoughts of the Day
Geddy, Alex and Neil had the most incredible timing between them.
Simple Man is a great song.
Which version of Come Together – Beatles – Aerosmith – Godsmack
Do you wonder if you’ll leave any visible tracks in life. I didn’t think about it much going through life, but after living almost 7 decades it’s a thought that crossed my mind.
What memories will I leave behind? What will become of all the work I’ve produced in my hobbies? What books will my kids keep if any? Will one of them take my father’s desk which became my desk.
So far, the only thing I’ve done is start a list of what was important to me and significance. It’s far from complete.
Who cares, I’m too busy living, creating and having fun. Speaking of which, let me go charge the camera batteries and knock out a few chores so I can hit the road. Maybe the tires will leave a few tracks today.
This was one busy Sunday. A fun day, but one thing to the next all day long. I did get so see my daughter and granddaughter so that was special. Had a very nice breakfast and knocked out several chores.
I have some tools to store before dark.
Sorry to say but more service members have perished in the war with Iran. I believe the total is 17 now. Ironic, I was editing some old folders and came across some images from Arlington National Cemetery as I was listening to some news.
Photo by Mike Hartley
It seemed like an appropriate time to use them.
Photo by Mike Hartley
We ask so much of so few.
Photo by Mike Hartley
My condolences to the families and friends of the fallen.
The month of July is going by so fast for me that I can’t believe we are past mid-month already. Another busy day ahead so getting an early start is key. Got some cleanup from those storms that rolled through yesterday and the yard needs cutting.
It always feels good when I put the hammock outside again after a storm which I just did. That means it’s going to be a nice day and if I get lucky, I might lay in it for a few minutes.
I’m guessing lots of car shows were cancelled or postponed yesterday. So today I hope to see some of you out sporting your clean ride as I take a cruise for a few minutes sometime between chores.
When I got out of the shower this morning, I looked in the mirror and the song, A Touch of Grey by the Grateful Dead came to mind. And then I remembered the chorus.
I will get by I will get by I will get by I will survive
Random Thoughts of the Day
When you see a beautiful stretch of weather forecast it’s a good idea to make some plan to be out in it.
Sometimes instrumental songs still speak to me.
Ants are industrial little suckers.
When you get older, the days you don’t think or give a crap about your age are nice.
Woke this morning to discover some light rain snuck in while I was catching 4 hours sleep. I just finished wiping down the car and throwing the cover on it. No car show, even though the rain stopped. Even though the rain will probably hold off till this afternoon, the roads are still wet and that means DIRT. The mortal enemy of car enthusiast. That is the weather around here. Spotty and inconsistent. We sometimes take our chances but today isn’t one of them.
Such is life. I think the saying goes “into every life, a little rain must fall.” But I won’t let that deter me today.
In Texas they have way too much water and flooding. On the other hand, Lake Meade is at critically low levels. And here we are at war, each side bombing desalination plants in the Gulf region taking away water for people.
Not sure why my focus was on water except for the unexpected shower this morning. I’ll look out at the rain this afternoon with calm and anticipation of having my feet in the water later this summer.
But right now, it’s time for some water in the shower.
Random Thoughts of the Day
Isn’t it wonderful how music can inspire so many different emotions in people.
Bacon, it’s good on everything. Current tip = Replace lettuce with more bacon.
It’s no use trying to figure out what some people are doing or thinking when they don’t know what they are doing or think.
Which outdated technology do you miss the most, and why? – Another tech question. No problem.
I miss a lot of older technology.
A good turntable for albums seemed like part of enjoying the music. Taking care of the vinyl records. It was part of the listening experience.
I love digital photography now. But I do have warm feelings of darkrooms and chemicals.
I miss the video game Pong. It was the only technology of the day that worked back then.
8 track tapes. Keeping them moving at the right speed was an artform. Folded matchbooks and other small wedges to keep the tape in place. And later, pencils to go with cassette tapes that got unruly.
Black and white TVs with rabbit ears. Only 3 channels and no clicker to change channels. Didn’t cost a thing. No cable bill, no streaming bill, no internet bill.
Paper maps. Once you figured out the route you remembered it and committed it to permanent memory.
Speaking of memory, I used to like remembering the hundreds of phone numbers between my ears.
It’s not gone yet but future generations will never have the pleasure of driving a manual gearbox. I pity them. It’s one of the great joys of driving.
I should go back and take a shot this afternoon from the same spot. It would be a good contrast to the image below with that smokey haze out there today. If I go out, I will get it, but it was super uncomfortable this morning going to the hardware store and it’s getting worse.
A quick walk on Tuesday before a dental appointment gave me the opportunity to get this great sky below. This building is about 100 feet from my old dentist’s office. He retired and I’m on my second one in as number of years. I think I’ll stay with this one. More comfortable there.
Ellicott City at the corner of Main Street and Ellicott Mills Drive. Photo by Mike Hartley
Watched the news at noon and they recommended everyone stay in. It seems it’s at the unhealthiest air quality outside. To the point they were recommending masks. So, unless a breeze comes along and clears things up a bit I’m staying in.
Just turned on some classic music from my youth. Life is good.
Random Thoughts of the Day
I like the lyrics to The Who’s song “Join Together.”
Heat, humidity and smoke. At least it’s not earthquakes, floods, hurricanes, fires or sandstorms.
There is a ripple in the force. The weekend must be upon us. I don’t feel it because every day is a weekend. But the vibe from so many others is contagious.
One of my more productive weeks despite many appointments and not feeling my best.
Sometimes a little bit of good news or a little voice can save you.
Too early for the sun to be up so I’ll provide a little brightness to start the day. Some soreness woke me up early, so I decided to get out of bed and do some work. Not a bad thing because I love the work I do now. Well, I could do with a little less physical yard work but that keeps me in shape.
The work on my hobbies is gratifying. I look forward to it every day. The chance to create something I like and maybe some others would enjoy.
Photo by Mike Hartley
This weekend we’re providing some pet-sitting services. Nature is going to provide us with some rain on Saturday. I’m going to do some providing for my mind today. So let me get to work on that and prepare for the real sunrise. Have a good morning all.
The daily prompt wants to know – What is the best excuse you have heard lately?
The one I gave my friend last night when I said my mouth hurts from the dentist appointment yesterday afternoon and I was staying home. It was honest and to the point.
On the other hand, I didn’t listen to the liar last night trying to find excuses on why he lost an election that he can’t admit he lost. A sorry excuse for a human being.
One of the better excuses I heard while managing people was a call that came in early one morning stating that he was going to be late. When I asked what time, he thought he could make it he said, “Well, I’m in jail and I have to see a judge so I’m not really sure.”
I’m trying to find an excuse not to cut the grass later today. The smoke from the wildfires in the air would be a good one. It’s going to feel like the upper 90s today would also qualify as a good excuse.
But when I think of excuses I think back to my very early days at work when managers were direct. So, when I gave an excuse for being late, he spoke and said, “excuses are like a**holes, everyone got one, and you just used yours, so don’t be late again.” And from then on, I’ve been early to work and rarely sick.
No thank you, I’m scared of heights. Photo by Mike Hartley
It’s still a novelty to me, each morning thinking of all the people going off to work. And I get to be at home setting my own schedule. Well, mostly my own schedule. I would never have scheduled a dentist’s appointment for my first crown if it was all my choice.
The afternoon could be filled with the smokey haze from wildfires. Photo by Mike Hartley
I got an early start and was outside at daylight working in the yard. Stopped that activity because the feel like temp is almost 100 and it’s 10am.
Despite this I will venture out for some photos today. I’ve got to gas up both cars and finish some caulking later. Down to my last two tubes of that. Hope that is enough to finish.
Hopefully I’ll get a chance to work on a few carving and painting projects also.
Random Thoughts of the Day
I can see clearly now that I’ve cleaned my glasses.
It feels good to be utilizing my printer again.
If I’m a little warm inside during the summer, even with the AC on, I just step outside and then the inside feels so much better.
I think the phrase “the good old days” will be more prevalent in the future. But it will be speaking about recent years, not the far past.
Nope, not going to watch or listen to lies later today.
Our family spent last evening before sunset doing family photos with a professional photographer. It was a gift from our children to us. A special one indeed, especially for me because I’m usually behind the camera. I’m in very few photos because I’m usually taking photos which is my passion. One that I’m still perfecting so I have no issue with the amateur status.
The children were wonderful. The parents were happy and my better half had some beautiful smiles, so I know this was special for her. It was so strange looking forward to a lens for me though. Being conscious of smiling when I’m normally smiling while the camera is to my eye.
I can’t wait to see the shoot and try to edit out our favorites for prints. I’ve watched other photographers like the one below working with family. I’ve tried to pick up some of their techniques and what where they shoot. And I picked up several things from this event.
But this was a strange experience, and I hope I had the relaxed look this guy had with his children.
Landing in a good spot in life is a very fortunate thing. So many are thrust into unfortunate situations. Watching children being raised in a stable environment is so comforting to observe.
Photo by Mike Hartley
I’m no expert but I feel the pressures on families now are greater than when my generation raised families in the 80s and 90s. While many challenges are the same. Childcare is costly and almost takes away the incentive for both to work. We tried something that wasn’t ideal but work where we worked different shifts for several years. That has downsides also and it’s not for everyone. And not available for every career path.
Also there seems to be far more financial pressure on the middle and lower income now. Jobs are probably in the most difficult to predict where the future skills and opportunities will specifically lay. Even if you’re lucky enough to get retrained in something, it could be an upheaval for many.
Broken families come in many different forms and ways. There can be illness, passings, divorce, or just disfunction. A lot of us have seen the devastating effects of any one of those.
Children are always the unfortunate victims. Some survive fine. Some repress things for decades. Some develop the same traits of disfunction in their own relationships later on. And some lucky ones just don’t have the latest games or clothes in their childhood but are smart enough to know that doesn’t make happiness.
There is no perfect family. There are a lot of people working for it and that is all you can do. Each day you’re reminded it’s going to take an incredible effort and even with that, some things go wrong. Things you might not have control over like health of a family member.
Some families will fracture and splinter. Some elements will float like a solar system and make infrequent appearances. All will have different lives and experiences. Some will want regular hugs and handshakes. Some will want to be held at arms distance. Some will put great distances between you and their voice is what you get. And unfortunately, some will disappear.
Sometimes that is better for the rest of the family. And the remaining family members continue to pull strength from each other.
Time doesn’t heal all, but I have seen time help families mend. And that is a pretty good thing to witness.
A good family never stops being a good family. Even in the tough times. Especially in the tough times.
It’s hot and dry outside and I doubt we see any drops on the flowers till the weekend. An image like this makes me think of the word relief. I dodge raindrops now, but I didn’t when I was younger. I think I’ll see how it feels again.
Photo by Mike Hartley
Random Thoughts of the Day
Wildlife is really taking a toll on the gardens this year.
The trauma we put our young children through because we won’t deal with some of society’s problems is embarrassing.
This will be a good night to be outside.
Water might become an issue like fuel cost in the future for some parts of the world. Including the US
Such highs and lows. For some too much.
There is a possibility that fruits and vegetables could be spreading this cyclosporiasis. No problem here, I can avoid those and still be very happy.
Off to the dentist today. One of my least favorite things to do. Not that I’ve had many problems in the past, but age has apparently caught up with me and I’m probably going to discover the crown process. I think just x-rays and exam today, but who knows, they might just start work. My guess is it will be scheduled later.
My tips for good teeth. Drink milk each day. Brush well each day. Don’t smoke. See the dentist.
The teeth in this grill need a little work. Photo by Mike Hartley
It’s that time of year when the prime driving time is before and just after sunrise or just before and any time after sunset. With the temps hitting triple digits again this week I can tell you from experience that riding with the top down in that weather isn’t the most comfortable thing even when moving. When stopped, it’s completely unacceptable.
So, these 70- and 80-degree nights are prime time cruising. And I hope to take advantage of a few of them.
Random Thoughts of the Day
It’s not too late to change the world, but it’s getting closer.
I like meeting nice people. Thankfully there are more of them than not.
The next 6-12 months are going to take an incredible amount of courage from a lot of people.
The feeling of a clean car is nice. Especially when you did the detailing yourself.
Don’t you miss the days when bands could get a stadium full of people’s hands in the air clapping at the same time. Won’t happen again with those damn phones.
Do you ever think about all the things we take for granted that could so easily be taken away?
What’s a piece of technology you’re convinced will exist in 20 years? – Now there is an interesting question from the daily prompt.
Well, if I’m around, in 20 years, I hope to have my Miata still running. That means I might have one of the last manual transmission cars on the road.
Some say the pace of change with technology is going to dwarf any past periods. So, the next 20 years could bring about great change. But being old school, I’m going with an old school technology because I for one have no idea where this technological madness is taking us.
So, my answer is a Bicycle
I was going to say a hammer a chisel, because it’s always possible that we might just bomb each other back into the stone age.
Beach and Bikes go together. Photo by Mike Hartley
Not sure exactly why but I’m feeling fortunate today. Even though things aren’t perfect, it’s okay, they rarely are for anyone. Any day that we are all in good health is a win.
Filled to the brim. Photo by Mike Hartley
Maybe, just maybe this is the week I capture that special image. Or capture a series of great brush strokes. Or maybe just admire the carving I finish flipping it over and over in my hands.
Maybe I’ll string some words together that make a difference. Or that snowball will taste extra special on a really hot day this week.
Whatever is in store, I think I’m going to make it a special week. So let me get to work at all of it.
Random Thoughts of the Day
The important test in life is not in school.
I see opportunities galore this week.
If you like heat this is our week.
I see a pleasure drive in my future today.
A government of lies is upon us. Vote out the Nazi’s.
Peace seems a little further away this morning. Don’t worry, I’m not giving up.
Good day all. Photo by Mike Hartley
I’m feeling at peace this morning. Not a normal feeling for me. The body and mind are relaxed for a change of pace. And while that could change at any moment, I’m going with it.
Maybe it was my grandson’s birthday party yesterday. Seeing children happy is a wonderful gift. Watching them see the world and each other is a joy to watch. I look at their creativity and I’m envious. It was a great day, and I was worn out from entertaining kids. Too many children grow up without the love and support they need.
It could be that this Sunday’s agenda is FREE. Well, some normal yard and home chores, new tags/registration on the car, unclog some more gutters and maybe a trip to the hardware store. And that is a pretty free day so I should be able to get some new images here and there. I’ve charged up 2 of the 3 camera batteries earlier this morning.
I’ve started a few illustrations and hope to get some reading done. I just turned on the printer and will get that rolling shortly because it’s still too early to be making noise outside.
Sundays used to be the day I would dread. They would start around 6 or 7am. Be family/friend orientated during the day and then work the overnight shift and maybe get to bed at 8 am on Monday morning. Now I look forward to Sundays so much because when I get tired now, I can go to sleep.
Are you a lifelong learner? – Asks the daily prompt.
You bet I’m a lifelong learner. For if you’re not, life can be very difficult and short.
Learning is a lot more than books and school knowledge. Even though those are good foundations. Learning about people and your environment is important also.
Learning is fun whatever way you do it. It makes life easier and helps you understand why some things are the way they are. And discover new ways and techniques to live and get by.
I’ve slowed down a bit in my learning in ways. Being retired I no longer keep up with technology like I used to but I’m using that space with my arts and learning there.
Learning by doing is what works best for me in a lot of cases.
I’ve made mistakes thinking I know everything at points in my life. Thankfully those times are long behind me in most cases. But as I get older, I feel I fall back into that trap sometimes, either out of laziness or overconfidence.
A recent example is the new tractor I just got. I’ve been driving them for decades. Doing maintenance on them and usually making them last. Already did my first cut without the manual being opened. Just a review of controls when it was delivered. I could easily be over-confident but I’m going to RTFM as I used to extort to my co-workers when I was helping them first and then directing them to the information.
Learning opportunities are all around us each day. Take advantage of them and hit a new level.
Sometimes fog before daylight is a photographer’s friend.
Centennial Park. Photo by Mike Hartley
I’ve been feeling a bit in a fog myself. I think it’s been this off and on rain for days. It could be the feeling of being a little overwhelmed at times. Maybe the uncertainty of doctor and dentist appointments. The always present and pressing financial decisions.
I don’t want to be one of those one in four Americans strapped or bankrupted by healthcare bills. I hope we can escape that fate.
Daybreak at Centennial Park. Photo by Mike Hartley
I’ve got to clear my head and get busy again. I let Thursday get away from me and the coming days are packed. Of course, that flies in the face of my doctor’s suggestion to increase the number of hours I sleep. Doctors make a lot of suggestions. Most I listen to, but sleep hasn’t been one of them.
The wetness is supposed to subside today but it’s summer in the mid-Atlantic so it can rain at any time. Regardless I’m pulling the cover off the car and taking a ride later.
Oh, one other highlight of the morning. My new tractor was delivered and now I’ve cut the yard the first time with it and what a pleasure. Both reduced time on it and a better-looking cut.
What’s a chapter of your life you’d title “The Hard Years”— and what got you through it? – Asks the daily writing prompt.
I’ve had a lot of challenges throughout my life. Physical, mental, professional and personal. So, it’s hard to pick a set of years. But I’ll qualify that by saying that I’m thankful for every one of those years. You learn a lot about yourself and others during hard times.
Also, I’d like to say my hard times don’t hold up to people who really experience real hard times. I’ve been hungry but never starving for one example.
I’ve had cancer a few times. After a couple of different surgeries, I needed radiation for a few months after the last one. I would sit across from this little girl in the waiting room who had a tree full of bags of meds on wheels she would take with her as she went into her room for treatment. She had no hair and looked thin. But she sat up straight, had the most beautiful smile and spirit with her mother by her side. I’m thankful for her reminder that I wasn’t having a hard time.
There were times when jobs overwhelmed me. In the sheer number of hours and mental/physical effort over long stretches of years. I think my refusal to fail got me through those times.
If you’re married or in a long-term relationship there are hard times, but you shouldn’t have hard years.
Raising children can certainly be a challenge and a very hard one for many years but it’s the most rewarding thing you can do.
I’ve experienced painful losses in our family early on at times. Those were very difficult years but there was hope, to get us through.
I’m a senior now and I feel the hard years are ahead of me. The time that you start losing those lifelong friends and family members. People that are important to you, loved and have a lot of shared history. The ones that will leave holes in you. Those thoughts scare me the most. And I don’t know how I will get through those most difficult times.
Maybe I’ll remember the phrase a US Marine I worked with would say. “Improvise, Adapt, Overcome.”
Just a few shots below from a while back on a sunny morning. The small town of Ellicott City is one I love to shoot in. It feels like home.
Along Main Street. Photo by Mike Hartley
Had a great meal at LeeLynn’s with my daughter yesterday. It was so nice just to catch up together without other family or children around. Not that I don’t love that, it’s just taken over most of the time we have together. So those one on ones are special. And we are planning to make it a more regular thing.
Which I like because there are some things I’d like to share with her and my son as I get older.
It’s easy to get to, just a right turn before the B&O railroad museum. Ops, that’s by train. A few trains still pass through here. Photo by Mike Hartley
Maybe I’ll head back out after the rains today for some night shooting in this sleepy little place.
I’m drawn to this town for several reasons. It’s close by. It’s scenic. It has water running through and around it. The train goes through town. It has museums. Locals are friendly. As are most who visit. Several good places to eat.
Got married in this town. Worked in this town. Walked with friends and family in this town. And now the HoCo Arts Council has moved to the old Circuit Court building, so I’ll be going there to check out local artists regularly.
Random Thoughts of the Day
So many young kids now don’t know the sounds of bells coming down the street mean the Ice Cream truck was on its way.
I made a decision and I have a new tractor on the way. This should save me time and energy. I think cutting the yard with that little push mower one more time might have killed it.
Sometimes when I’m exhausted, I’m really at peace with myself. Like last night.
I figured out why my back hurts. We used to have to get up to change the channel.
So were back at war again. This is something that will span into the next administration because of one idiot.
This was a nice sculpture I saw at the National Harbor. I love the strength it projects. And what I wouldn’t give to see some blue sky today. This ugly weather pattern is getting depressing.
I wish it was easier for me to work in 3D. Probably because I don’t practice it enough. Even though I’ve picked up productivity in other areas, this one has been slow. I did some sanding on a dolphin I’m making for my granddaughter. That and a project for my son I should finish this month.
Created by Albert Paley in 2008, it features two massive stainless steel eagle sculptures perched atop 60-foot poles. Each eagle weighs 4,500 pounds and boasts a 14-foot wingspan.Photo by Mike Hartley
I crashed early last night so I woke at midnight. The headphones are on I’m editing some shooting from the holiday weekend and uploading that to the photo sight. Also did some writing so it’s been a productive morning.
The mission has started for the second half of the year. Changing mindset and schedule. I started a transition in June and I’m off to a good start in July.
Less time on the phone and in front of the idiot box (TV). More exercise. More reading.
Trying to upload new images each day to the photo site.
Get in my workroom every day.
Photograph each day.
Make a few display prints each day.
Paint or draw each day. (a slack start on this but I have put in a little time)
Try to keep my office clean. (a losing battle)
Random Thoughts of the Day
Will the majority start pulling in the same direction again?
Music is JOYOUS and Inspirational. But there are a few songs that cause me to pause and shed a tear.
Trump is a national embarrassment and a stain on our history. The unfortunate thing is he isn’t done yet.
I’d like to get my hands on the throat of the people who make these automated phone systems for businesses.
I’ve noticed I get a little edgy when I don’t get to drive my fun machine for a few days.
Today I pull the trigger on the new mower purchase.
I bet people watching me trying to get out of my Miata think I may have had a drink or two as I kind of roll out of it.
This looks like something I’d like to take a ride on. I like both the National Harbor and Old Town Alexandria.
The Alexandria to National Harbor Water Taxi. Photo by Mike Hartley
Busy morning with an early health appointment and catching up on some correspondence.
The afternoon is what I can make of it and that is a nice feeling. The captain of the ship. My better half is with friends and as one of my shirts says, “In my defense, I was left Unsupervised.”
I’ll do my best to stay out of trouble. And not get pinched.
Get a grip buddy. Photo by Mike Hartley
I think I’ll get out and hope for the sun to make an appearance and be ready with my camera.
If you could live anywhere in the world, where would it be? – I bet a lot of people like this question from the daily prompt. I wonder what percentage of people live right now, where they want to live, if they had this choice.
I live right where I want to be at this moment in my life. To live further away from my children and grandchildren would be unacceptable for us.
I’ve always thought about living at the beach. Maybe Bethany Beach Delaware or Fenwick Island. Even though that desire is strong it’s not going to happen because I’m loving watching my grandchildren grow and being here if my children need help. Now once they are grown, and if I’m blessed with a long life, I might think strongly about that move but at that age it would probably be too disruptive.
So, like the couple below we will visit the beach often as possible and dream about a home there. But also smile on the way home because we get to hold and play with those little bundles of joy.
Being observant is a good skill to have. Being aware of your surroundings. As a wanna be photographer my eyes are always on a swivel. While this guy is hunting for a good fish. I’m fishing for a good shot.
Photo by Mike Hartley
Besides shooting a colorful bug this morning I haven’t lifted the camera to my eye. I should try to get some images this evening, but my energy is low. At the same time, I’m trying to work harder on my passions.
Being I work alone I should make self-evaluations a more regular part of my work cycle. I’m thinking that might help me improve my consistency at least and maybe even get me to another level.
Random Thoughts of the Day
Sports used to be inspiring. Gambling has turned me off of watching it like I used to.
The amount of AI that is already being used in businesses phone systems has already pissed me off.
The only ones that will turn things around are the ones that you see in the mirror each morning.
Okay, I’m tired of the rain.
I hear thunder, let me post this before my power goes out again.
The nice thing about Mondays in retirement is that I get to choose the agenda and schedule for the day. But many important decisions await. And I have a little more flexibility that my better half and daughter are spending some time together, so more hours are available for my hobbies.
No sun this day, just clouds. Photo by Mike Hartley
The first decision I need to make is whether to attend the monthly meeting of the Maryland Miata Club at 5:30pm when the rain is supposed to start. Now given this is Maryland that forecast is only 9 hours from now the chance of it being right is 50/50. So, if I go and it rains, I’ve got to clean my car again. If I don’t go and keep the cover on and it doesn’t rain, I’ve missed an event I like.
But remember this is a car club. And most car guys don’t bring their rides out in the rain. Oh yeah, while checking my mail and Facebook on the other computer I see the leader has postponed the meeting to the following Monday. Decision averted.
Next is a decision I can’t avert or delay. Deciding on where to purchase the new lawn tractor. I’ve contacted both local dealers and hoping they will respond today after the holiday weekend.
It’s not the best day for photography but then again there is never a bad day for photography. I just like sunlight and that is obscured by clouds so far.
Well one dealership has responded nicely and promptly, and the other hasn’t so I’ll visit the one who did respond this afternoon.
Random Thoughts of the Day
The good thing about the clouds and cooler temps. The A/C doesn’t run all day long.
Making a good life is key. But not at the sacrifice of others or our planet.
You know what I’m starting to hate. Every medical appointment I have this time-consuming questionnaire to fill out.
Staying well informed takes a lot more work than most people are willing to do.
I have to get the 28-foot ladder out. And it only clears the gutter by about 6 inches. Not a fan of being that high on a ladder.
There is no substitute for the sun. But being its AWOL this morning here in central Maryland, I’ll try to provide some inspiration.
Photo by Mike Hartley
There is no substitute for good health. I kind of started to take getting out of bed each morning for granted. I used to pause a bit and be more thankful. I’ve got to get back to that feeling to start the day.
There is no substitute for exercise. Another thing I’m not doing enough of.
Anyone who tries to substitute turkey bacon for real bacon should be arrested and tried for fraud.
People try to substitute a lot of things in place of love.
My basement is a substitute for an art studio.
Substituting one addiction with another usually isn’t a wise move. But I guess it’s better than adding one on top of another.
Sometimes against better judgement, I hit the publish button anyway.
Sykesville Maryland is a small town and one of my favorite local ones. It was my first time attending their July 4th celebration. Just a few images from yesterday morning.
The bright colors on display.
Old cars and floats.
Some small cars also.
The flag is everywhere
Hats off to our 250th birthday.
You really need some shade.
And the really big wheels.
Sharing the Joy.
John Deere, Massey Ferguson and others on Main Street instead of the fields.
Young and old loving the day.
I thought I’d seen pictures of previous years without the barriers on the street.
And yes, she did catch it after doing a spin while it was in the air.
Photos by Mike Hartley
I saw a lot of smiles yesterday.
We had a great lunch at The Local Motive and will be back to visit that establishment again.
Braved the heat yesterday morning for the Sykesville Maryland July 4th Parade. And while I was there, I captured a door that I liked. I’ve missed the last few weeks of the Thursday Doors Challenge so I’m getting a head start on this coming week. I hope everyone had a safe and happy 4th.
Photo by Mike Hartley
Today we turn up the outside temperature again and probably another round of storms late in the day. I’ll take it with a smile, for we are lucky not to have the hurricanes, tornados, floods and earthquakes with the severity of other parts of the country or as often.
I have beach 2 hours to my east and mountains 2 hours to my west. We have all 4 seasons. Sometimes rolled up into one day it seems.
It’s far from a perfect state, but I like it and it’s pretty good when compared to most others.
Well, I have to get back to editing the parade shots I took yesterday and get them published.
Random Thoughts of the Day
When I saw a severe thunderstorm watch for my town of Woodstock Maryland and the town of Woodstock Virginia in the same alert, I was right in preparing for a big one last night.
It felt good to get the camera up and running again.
I like small town parades. I think I’ll start attending a different one every year.
Today we fire up the grill. That put a smile on my face.
The daily prompt wants to know – Who is your favorite blogger to follow?
I don’t like questions like this because I’m always going to leave someone out that I will regret after I post this. I also don’t like this question because I’ve been slack in following and interacting with some of my favorites the last few months. And that makes me disappointed in myself.
I like the blogging community that I’ve experienced, and I hope to continue to expand this group that I follow.
The pictures and words from their travels and recipes from Sheree at View from the Back always make me smile. I enjoy Dan’s work at No Facilities and appreciate the efforts he puts into his work and challenges, plus his insights.
The nature photography by Catherine of Leaf and Twig.
Sometimes I just like to stop and appreciate the view. It can be day or night. At home or at the beach. In Ellicott City or Washington DC. At my friends on Kent Island overlooking the Chesapeake Bay or along a trail by the Patapsco River.
Peaceful hugs are nice. Photo by Mike Hartley
I hope to find a good view to appreciate today.
Random Thoughts of the Day
Don’t sit on knowledge, share it.
Almost Cut My Hair is a great tune from CSNY.
Physical pain can cause mental anguish. And mental anguish can cause physical pain.
I’ve never owned a real hat. Nothing more than a baseball hat. I’m going shopping for one soon.
Another holiday I don’t have to work. That is still a nice feeling after putting in so many at the job.
My nephew is a surfer. I’ve never picked it up myself. Sometimes I feel the equivalent of it when driving my go-cart on some back roads. It’s important to have something you connect with. Skateboarding as a youth was great. Spent some time on a board on the hills in and around the neighborhood.
Riding a motorcycle was a bit like surfing. Choosing your line, angle and lean.
This has got me inspired to go out and put some miles on with the top down yesterday. I go out and the car is covered in moisture after daybreak. We have 91% humidity and a dew point of 73. It’s sticky out. I wipe it down anyway and 5 minutes later it’s wet again. I don’t want to put the top down when it’s wet, so I waited for Mr. Sunshine.
That was a hot ride. 88 when I left and 94 when I returned an hour later. It was fun though. Though there were a good number of people not paying attention to what they were supposed to be doing like DRIVING.
The only comfortable spot outside yesterday and today is getting into the water and staying there.
Random Thoughts of the Day
People are still not pulling over for emergency vehicles. I don’t understand how they can be so selfish.
Will it cool off enough to for me to mow the lower back later.
I read where we will soon surpass the number of measles cases of all last year. Thank you very little to our MORON RFK Jr and the rest of the paranoid anti-vax supporters.
Now it’s just a matter if the military and law enforcement will be directed against our own citizens and their reaction to the orders.
Seems difficult to celebrate our 250th anniversary when we are being divided. But I’ll give it a shot and see what new shots I can come up with to get in the spirit of the day.
Happy 4th. Photo by Mike Hartley
Be safe out there. Watch that heat, preferably from the comfort of the AC or a body of water.
The neighborhood got an early start to the fireworks last night.
What do you do to improve your sleep? – Now that is a timely question today.
I laughed at this question for a while because just before this and old friend and I were trading emails about lack of sleep in our lives.
And for example, we have tonight. I fell asleep at 8pm last night and woke before midnight. I’ll probably be up the rest of the night/morning now. Even though I’ve been retired for 2 and half years, that last decade of working the overnight shift screwed up my clock badly. My body is more comfortable now, being up late at night.
I sleep in little shifts. And I do get more than I used to when I was working. Taking advice from me might be suspect but I’ll offer some anyway.
I suggest a hammock, great for sleeping.
Can you swing it? Photo by Mike Hartley
The most important factor in my sleep is my mood. If I’m satisfied with the day and my life, I can rest easily. If I’m troubled, it’s a crap shoot. Sometimes listening to a little music or watching a little comedy will put me in the right spirits and make going to bed easier.
Finding a way to wind down and relax is big for me. I can be physically exhausted from watching grandkids and not sleep well. It’s more mental for me. Letting my mind slow down and downshift a few times enough to have some good thoughts and fall asleep.
Quiet is also essential. Remarkably my hearing is still in good shape, and I’m woken easily by sounds. I rarely sleep in a storm. Sometimes the basement has helped in that regard.
If I’m sleeping well, I go with it and sometimes get 7-9 hours. It’s not often, but here and there. But if it’s not working, I don’t lay there endlessly looking at a seam in the wall that could use some touch up. I get up and get to work and hopefully take a nap later.
Naps are cool. I took them long before I retired. Being I wasn’t getting a lot of sleep some days, I would catch sleep as I could. When you’re trying to sleep during the day it’s not like the rest of the world stops and says, “hey we got to let these night shift workers get some sleep, can you keep it down.” Quite the contrary in fact.
So, I learned dark out curtains are important. Silencing phones and shutting the door to my room. This is where I will also acknowledge that the effort of my better half to work in silence while I slept for a few hours was remarkable. Living on opposite schedules 4 days a week is difficult on both parties.
Then I flipped back to a day schedule to participate in family and other normal activities that day dwellers did. An interesting life, I don’t recommend it with one exception. In my younger days when we started a family, I worked nights and my better half days and we shared watching the kids so one of us was available for them and saved having daycare costs.
As I thought about how to wrap this up. I thought about the weirdest place I’ve slept in. I once slept on the 18th green (no I wasn’t a member). I’ve slept in and on my car. I’ve slept on my desk and under it at work. I’ve slept on a roll of newsprint (those are big). I’ve slept on a beach and in a boat. Under the stars in a sleeping bag. I’ve slept on a roof and on a pool float. I even fell asleep once on my motorcycle once.
Sleep On a Beach – great for sleeping with the sounds of the waves. Get a dark pair of shades and umbrella.
Always something flying at the beach. Photo by Mike Hartley
Whatever you do, get your sleep on, because it’s important.
My nectar this afternoon is work and blogging. Taking a break from the heat and in between finding a photo or sharing a thought.
As I was looking at this shot, I was reminded of all the development in this county. How much of the natural beauty we have replaced with concrete buildings and asphalt parking lots. Or multi home communities and strip malls. I’ve lived here for over 6 decades now and the change is nothing less than dramatic.
Today I’m not going to judge the past mistakes or greatness of the development. There is a good bit of both. But looking forward, the pace just can’t continue. Many feel we crossed the tipping point long ago. We may have. There are parts of the county that have become a congested mess.
No matter how many lanes we add, the traffic still comes to a stop.
I see a few Farmlands Forever signs when driving the country roads of the county. But how many will survive our future and not be turned into residential or commercial properties?
Farmland Forever. For without it, what would we eat? Photo by Mike Hartley
I’ve dealt with the changes by moving to a part that was remote, but development has caught up to us over the last 4 decades bit by bit. Sometimes large chunks like Waverly Woods which I think were around 700 acres. It’s no longer woods.
But a lot of small track development also. Neighborhoods shoehorned in between existing ones and some packed so tightly you can spit and hit your neighbor’s house. And these are close to 7-digit homes. McMansions built on postage stamp lots. And then you have the real rich who like their 3-10 acres spreads with custom built spectacles that now dot more and more of the county.
Think I’ll get involved and try to slow this down. Maybe county officials just haven’t heard the right argument yet.
Howard County Maryland has been a great place to live. Lots will complain about it. Maybe I just grew up in the right time and place in it.
If you can’t be in the water, it might be a good idea to be out and about early or late in the day. Because the heat furnace is going to crank up to another level today. Dangerous ones if you’re not careful. So please be careful.
Frederick Maryland. Photo by Mike Hartley
I know I’m treading lightly today. I put the top down and went for a ride this morning between 9:30 and 10:30am. It was hot so I’m guessing anything after 12 today will be brutal. I knocked out a few chores outside early. But this afternoon I’m staying in the AC.
Fountains along Carroll Creek. Photo by Mike Hartley
Okay, enough about the weather. Onto more pressing issues. Let’s see what the list holds.
What flavor snowball do we get?
Will I finish reading the book today?
The decision to either venture back out in the heat for lunch or make that grilled chicken wrap.
Will I go out to take some night photos?
I’ve got to decide on a new tractor soon. Good thing it’s so hot out. The grass grows slower if at all.
Challenging myself to get my better half and daughter a great spot to stay when they go away overnight.
Be a good day to thin out some of my old clothes and donate what is in good shape.
Random Thoughts of the Day
It’s time to pay a visit to the local bicycle store and see what I might be interested in. I need another physical hobby.
I have this dreaded feeling that things are going to get very ugly this fall and winter.
Using exercise to keep a better balance in life is a wise move. And in old age balance is important.
Time to call a few old friends.
Setting a new standard for Grifter and Chief.
That was an unexpectedly brutal evening of discomfort.
If there is one consistency in life is that all of us think we’re in better shape than we are.
Choose to be something before you get too old. And while it’s never too late as I’m hoping to prove, it’s wiser to get an earlier start than I chose to.
Photo by Mike Hartley
Choose to make wise choices in life. Sometimes it’s the harder path. Take it.
Choose to love. Yes, it’s painful. It’s also the best.
Choose to take a chance. You will regret it if you don’t.
Choose to be there for people. You will have their respect.
The Dog Days of Summer are coming for us this week. Mowing will not be pleasant. I’ll have to get an early start on that activity to avoid the hottest parts of the day.
We will eat you from the ankles down. Photo by Mike Hartley
One or two things happened. Then again, it could be a combination of both. Heat never bothered me till last year and again this year. I grew up outside. And when inside either home or at work the early years there was no air conditioning.
Summer has always been my favorite season. I remember my family looking out for me at the beach. I’d be out early making sand sculptures (not the best ones) as the sun came up and they would be calling me from the balcony at the end of the day to come in and get ready for dinner or when the shadow of the building would overcome the beach.
I think this was my first one for the kids.
I could power through most any heat. Just a few years ago I remember riding around with the top down when it was over 100 degrees. Or mowing the lower back with the push mower and having energy left. Last year I had to start taking breaks during the hottest days for the first time. Now I’m even having problems working in the hottest part of the day.
So, either it’s gotten hotter than it used to be or I’m older and can’t tolerate it as it did for decades. Or the combination of the two so I’m going to have to adapt. We already have an excessive heat watch out today so let me get outside now before the real heat hits.
One thing it won’t stop me from doing is a late-night ride on a hot summer night.
Random Thoughts of the Day
I still get goosebumps listening to some of the old CSNY and the live shows they did.
Sitting here wondering if that is what is missing today. Music with some revolution to it.
I’m so disappointed in myself for not making it to the beach this month.
If we all knew each other better, the world would be a more peaceful place. Your neighbors extend beyond your own street.
The daily prompt asks – What do you love now that you hated when you were younger?
I hated working in the yard and gardens when I was younger. Especially mowing because I had bad allergies when I was young. I outgrew them thankfully and enjoy cutting the yard now. My better half is the gardener, but I pull a ton of weeds throughout the year and kill many others.
I take pride in my yard looking good. It’s far from perfect but it’s well kept.
Yeah, I thought that was a strange one also. But it’s the first thing that came to mind.
I don’t mind being alone now. When I was younger, I was always with people.
Alone with nature is nice now. Photo by Mike Hartley
I like the phrase “I reckon so” from the movie The Outlaw Josey Wales. It’s a phrase I say to myself a bit to help accept some situations.
Life is about outlook. And life is hard so having that positive outlook is challenging at many points. Personally, I just have to keep my eye on the goal of being happy.
And today I’m accomplishing that by picking up my hobbies again. Yardwork, dog sitting and foundation sealing have had me occupied the last few days, but we are almost caught up there.
A lot of people might not want to dine outside later this week.
In St Michaels MD. Photo by Mike Hartley
Then again, this week may be too hot for some of you. Not for this kid. I like it and yes that 100+ will be uncomfortable but it won’t keep me from being out and about. This shot also got me thinking about having a meal outside. I haven’t been to LeeLynn’s with my better half in a while and I’ve always liked their food and service.
I’ll move the workbench outside and will do some woodwork after getting a haircut in the morning. I’ll make sure the camera batteries are charged and hopefully sit down at the easel for a bit.
Beauty by nature. Photo by Mike Hartley
Random Thoughts of the Day
It always feels good to have a more productive week than the previous week. I just have to keep building on that.
I’m having beach withdraw. I’ve got to solve that soon.
The definition of spotty showers was this past weekend.
There are two goals I have for today and they seem in conflict. I’d like to do a lot of shooting, and I’d like to spend some time in my hammock.
Early yesterday morning I stepped out and saw a fawn along the tree line in the lower backyard. Quickly stepping back inside for the camera.
Photo by Mike Hartley
I thought that was odd because there is usually a pair grazing and playing in the open space with mom nearby. No mom, no second fawn.
As I stood silently while this one ate, maybe 100 ft from me, something caught my other eye.
Photo by Mike Hartley
That something else was the second fawn just below, maybe 10 feet from me. The hill in my backyard drops off fast.
Photo by Mike Hartley
I had time to raise the camera slightly and clicked this frame before I got it to my eye, so I didn’t have time to change focus. She ran down to join the sibling.
Photo by Mike Hartley
They stood at the woods and looked till I heard an odd sound from the woods which they ran to immediately. Bet mom was watching all the time.
A rather wet day ahead so I’ll be ducking and dodging raindrops if we choose to leave our humble abode. While this spot missed the overnight rains that won’t be the case after daylight. Notice I didn’t say sunrise because I was just outside and that cloud deck isn’t going to present one.
Dancing in the rain makes me think of an old movie my mom loved called Singing in the Rain and the dance scene with Gene Kelly. Sorry, showing my age again. Anyway, it got me thinking that I don’t have that many foul weather shots and maybe I should get out and see what I can capture with the camera.
I’ll have to see if I can top this as my favorite rain shot.
Sunflowers in rain. Photo by Mike Hartley
I’ve got to start to develop a different attitude about rain. It usually depresses me a bit. Takes away my motivation to get outside. For some reason, I always feel stiff on rainy days.
It’s just starting to drizzle here now. I stepped out for a few minutes. That drizzle quickly turned into some steady rain.
Splish Splash. Photo by Mike Hartley
So, I took a few seconds to capture 2 new rain shots before retreating inside.
The kids love riding in this. Photo by Mike Hartley
Random Thoughts of the Day
Dogs have the eyes of young children when they want something.
The lies have always been a sad joke. Just more people are waking up to that now.
One thing this country has always been good at is responding to disasters. The earthquakes in South America need our help. I just have to figure out which organization I’m donating to.
A new frozen treat. Snoopsicles are ROLLING out to Costco’s soon.
Life goes by way too fast. Don’t reflect with regret. Reflect on memories.
Photo by Mike Hartley
No time like the present to get going on making some more memories. I would have liked to gotten out for a cruise but that wasn’t in the cards today. Prep for the coming rains and some cleanup from yesterday’s efforts and work. Plus, we are busy babysitting a 4-legged baby. Well, my better half is the favorite, so she gets the lion’s share of the work.
I could so easily be in a situation of regret. I’ve seen a couple of friends expressing regret about choices they’ve made or haven’t that have cost them dearly. Of course, we all have regrets. It’s part of life, every decision isn’t correct. Lots of them aren’t.
What constitutes good memories that take the place of those regrets. Family, work accomplishments, doing for others, fun times.
I’m puzzled by what some look to as a good memory. I went to Vegas once for a work/trade convention. It was around our 5th anniversary, so I stayed, and my better half joined me. Haven’t been back since. Oh, I’m sure it’s bigger, brighter and better. But I don’t need to be there for a good memory. I can double or triple memories on the same money someplace else and be much happier.
I’m not saying don’t go to Vegas and enjoy it if that’s your fun town. It is for lots. But its appeal is waning I feel.
For me it’s the little things. When my daughter holds my hand and gives it a squeeze. When I think, my son is going to shake my hand, and he gives me a firm hug. Sitting around the firepit with friends after a day of eating and drinking together listening to the waves hit the shore.
Maybe an overnight trip with my better half. Or a solo day trip to the beach and back. 6 hrs. in the car but worth every second. I have memories of the clouds moving across the sky as I laid in the hammock after cutting the yard. Or stopping at the snowball stand on a 95-degree day and I’ve been out cruising with the top down and those first bites and then brain freeze as I devour it.
Sometimes I think money is a curse. I’ve seen a lot of cases where people’s lives aren’t enhanced by riches. Or maybe it’s just the way my mom raised me to be appreciative of everything that comes your way. Especially simple things. A meal, a garden, helping others.
That last one (helping others) I really need to spend more time working on.
Well, I’ve rambled on too long when I just found a photo of a reflection I liked and went with it. Plus, a great guitar riff just came on and I have to windmill.
Not all snakes are in the grass. Not all black snakes remain black when they crawl beside a red car on a sunny day.
Onto more pleasant things. The ride I took before sunset last night was beautiful. Local traffic wasn’t bad and I just cruised leisurely. Some teams were still on the fields at Wallace Park. Some people on porches watching the end of their day.
A few other convertibles appreciating the opportunity to have the top down. Businesses starting to close up shop. The night shift beginning for the crews working on the tunnel project for Ellicott City flood prevention.
Still a lot of good things in this area. And I hope there are still a lot of good people. I was disappointed with one statistic on voting recently in the county. I believe it was the percentage of eligible democratic votes in this primary election was less than the previous mid-term primary. Personally, seeing declining numbers before a general election isn’t what I had hoped for.
Come on people, it’s so friggen easy. Get a mail in ballot if you’re working and it’s not convenient. The only way to make things better is if we are all working on it.
Random Thoughts of the Day
The feeling I have is that the Supreme Court isn’t so Supreme anymore.
Rain is like the other side of the coin.
4 years old is a wonderful age for children.
Close to The Edge isn’t just an album by Yes.
I would think we would want to learn about prescription drugs from our doctors if we need them, not from commercials.
Looks like someone might be playing a little beach autocross at night. There certainly are enough cans and chairs. I’ll use this opportunity to commend the guys up all night cleaning the Ocean City Beaches. Keeping them pristine each year.
Ocean City Maryland. Photo by Mike Hartley
It’s going to be an interesting day. Visits from the children and grandchildren. Might go out to dinner. Definitely taking a ride today.
Random Thoughts of the Day
I’m disgusted with our throw away society. I’m going to start teaching my grandchildren differently. And I’m going to find ways to cut down on my own.
Best joke I saw today. MAGA – Making Algae Grow Again.
There are songs that when played I just stop and listen or play along. Those songs are the ones that raise the hair on my neck.
It’s hump day for those working away. That midpoint that inspires hope. Maybe thoughts of making it an early weekend after Thursday have come to mind. Those meetings today don’t seem as important as the weekend weather forecast.
I guess I shouldn’t have noted that it’s Hump Day because I went out to mow my yard and the mowing deck belt broke as soon as I engaged the blades. So, I push cut for hours today. And when I say push, I mean push. I don’t have one of those self-propelled jobs.
And there are now a few more things on the to-do list. That tractor is so old I haven’t been able to find any YouTube videos on how to replace the belt. It’s at least 27 years old and as one of my best friends reminded me, I usually keep things like that till I kill it. And a belt isn’t a killer but getting someone else to do it because this almost 70-year-old body isn’t good on the ground under tractors anymore. Yes, I can do it. Yes, I could pay for it to be done. Yes, it isn’t dead. But is it smart money spent or the time and effort?
I’m beginning to think it might be time to replace it. Plus, that will give me time to fix the old one when I can get my sons help and give it to him when he gets a home with a bigger yard. Push cutting the whole lawn this size in the coming heat won’t be smart and I won’t do it.
Onto more pleasant things. Like nature which I’ve been enjoying being outside today. Let’s see, some baby snakes, many varieties of birds. Oh, and my favorite hawk buzzed the backyard. This morning was a mother deer with her fawn again. Another newborn couldn’t have been more than a day or two old. And now just after some dinner I see our woodchuck grazing in the backyard.
I couldn’t tell you all the different smaller winged objects I saw buzzing around me today. It was nice to be out, even though it was working.
In looking this guy up, I learned there are 25 types of blue dragonflies. I’m no expert so when it wasn’t a choice of two or three, I folded. Photo by Mike Hartley
Random Thoughts of the Day
Making prints for my grandchildren is a labor of love, I do have to finish it up before they get here tomorrow.
These are the beautiful mid-Atlantic days of summer. Low to mid-80s, mild humidity a breeze and sun with just the occasional cloud.
I hear my car saying let’s go for a ride tonight. And I might just listen to it and put the top down.
You will have to excuse me for a bit. I have to go wash off a day’s worth of work. More madness to come later.
Monday was a very special day in my life. It was a simple day, a short trip to an amusement park. A few raindrops and some lines, but otherwise it was one of the best days.
We got to spend it with our children and grandchildren and one of their friends and children. A day at Hershey Park Pa. that came off perfectly. We went with THREE – 1-year olds, TWO 4-year-olds and a 7-year-old.
Spending a day making little and big kids smile is the definition of satisfaction. I’m beat, but a wonderful kind of beat. I’m even a little sore but I’m sitting here smiling ear to ear.
Times like this are hard for me to describe. It’s such a simple thing but at the same time so important in my memory book. Kids held my hand, wanted me to carry them, wanted to go on rides with me, played with my beard, got hugs for winning them prizes, pushed some in stroller, shared my lunch. I almost smuggled a sip of Mug Root Beer to my grandson, but my son caught me and said no. We got gifts and kept them dry when it rained.
It was a blast making stupid faces, playing peek-a-boo with them, tickling them, and watching all the strollers so the entire family could ride together as I waved to them on each circle of the merry-go-round. I danced with them when the band came by and gave the older grandchildren high fives each time they finished a ride. I helped them hold their bag while they picked what candies they wanted from the bins.
I just realized that I spent the entire day making others smile and I couldn’t be happier myself. I was so busy I didn’t even have one piece of candy the whole day I was in chocolate town. I did have two small Krackle bite size bars when I got home.
It was over a 14-hour day for us, and we slept like we missed a night’s sleep the night before.
I must admit I was a little apprehensive of how the day would go with all those young ones. Plus, the weather forecast couldn’t have been worse (rain all day and thunderstorms that never materialized). But it couldn’t have been better day.
We’d taken our children there decades ago. The park certainly has grown. It’s a park we will go back to with the children again and hopefully put some more files in the mind that I can recall as my time here fades.
I’m breaking one of the rules I have. I don’t normally run pictures of myself or family. But I was so touched by the children’s smiles and love and my own children having a great day with us and them that I’m sharing 2 of myself holding both my granddaughter’s hands that my family sent me last night.
We got to the park as they were opening.
I can’t believe how much this 1-year-old wanted to walk. Most of the time with just one of us holding on or on her own.
This one really likes my beard. She ran her hands through it as I held and walked with her.
Happy Father’s Day. It’s not an easy role, but a very rewarding one. I work hard to be a good dad to my children and always be there for them.
Being a dad is the proudest thing I’ve done in my lifetime.
It’s a lifetime commitment to make. Many don’t realize that.
In the title of this post, “Best job I ever had.” The word job and father don’t seem compatible. I don’t look at being a father as work. But it is an incredible job to have and tremendous responsibility.
I had very limited time with my dad, so I’ve been kind of winging it since the beginning. My children will be the judge of how successful I’ve been.
Now I’m working on being both a great dad and granddad. The rewards of being a father just keep coming.
I can’t believe you’re going to eat that DAD. Photo by Mike Hartley
This shot reminded me that my son is taking his young son to a game soon. We are watching his baby granddaughter that evening.
I forgot that power washing is tough on the back. About 5 hours straight on the front privacy fence and I’m a bit sore. I’ll recover shortly and get mobile again.
Once I find the keys I’m going to go wind up the rubber band on that Miata and put the top down and enjoy a short ride.
Random Thoughts of the Day
Rumor is its Father’s Day weekend. I sense a good meal ahead.
My better half and I stopped on the way home from some shopping and had lunch. We listed about a half dozen fast food places and some others but was coming up St John’s Lane and decided to pull into DGHD. It’s right next to Rita’s.
This is such a great diversion from the standard fare along Rt 40. And I will be back for some more of their off the wall combinations.
Today though I tried the, Lucky Luciano – Mac n’ cheese / bacon / crushed potato chips
My better half had the OG with everything except the Dijon mustard. Both were very good. I think I’ll give the Ma Barker or the Kingpin a try on the next visit.
A father/son operation that is local. One in Sykesville and one in Ellicott City.
Random Thoughts of the Day
Tried Dr Browns Black Cherry soda today. This is on my list of unhealthy things I like.
The good thing about physically working on something is that you can see progress easier.
I think the Art of The Deal just screwed us again.
Kickstart My Heart is a great song if you need a little motivation to get going.
I wonder if people who retire and miss the aggravation at work take up golf on purpose.
The sign says, “BACKYARD BOATS” and it isn’t lying. I once had a pool, and yet I feel a boat could be infinitely more expensive than that.
Photo by Mike Hartley
A good start to the day. I’m swimming along without a boat or paddle. Just pulled the cover off the fun cart (Miata) and we will be putting the top down sometime today.
Music is filling the home this morning and I’m about to fire up the outside box. Been working on some foundation sealing and hope to finish that project tomorrow. I need more supplies so back to the hardware.
We are going shopping for something I like today. An outdoor lounge chair to replace the one my behind, fell through a week ago. It was old and even though I would get in and out of it gently, it finally gave way.
Some days you just walk by something that you wish you had the keys to.
Beauty by Chevrolet. Photo by Mike Hartley
But back to reality. A beautiful morning breeze complementing the sunshine. My camera battery is fully charged again, and I’d like to get another hundred or two images taken today. But the mower called my name and now it’s afternoon. A trip to the hardware for supplies for more work this weekend.
I did take a quick joy ride for about 40 minutes and now the day is almost behind me. I’m going to have to buckle down and work on the hobbies this evening with a vengeance.
Random Thoughts of the Day
Is it really better to be alone with your thoughts? I guess it depends on the day and thoughts.
There may be a lot of intelligence in the USA. I guess we have chosen not to utilize it.
People make a lot of commitments they have no intention of filling.
If your parents are alive, make it so you don’t have to look back and say I wish I knew them better after they are gone.
Trump is a cancer that has metastasized and is killing this country.
Don’t know where I’m headed, but it will be forward and with a smile.
Just like a good handling car it’s good to have a nimble mind to handle life’s twist and turns. Photo by Mike Hartley
Random Thoughts of the Day
I have lots of pictures on my walls because I like the memories they invoke when I get a moment to pause from the screen.
There is a sticker inside the trunk of my car that says, “I’m on island time.” I like seeing it when I load my camera equipment.
The need has started to look up finger exercises because these digits don’t seem as strong and nimble as they used to be. I fear arthritis may be coming.
We took a trip to Frederick Maryland today, which is west of us. And what a beautiful place to walk on a sunny but very comfortable day.
And a good opportunity to take my camera out.
Photo by Mike Hartley
Our first trip to The Wine Kitchen and a wonderful lunch outside. Both service and food were excellent. And we will be going back to try dinner someday soon.
Photo by Mike Hartley
We walked the Carroll Creek path which is 1.5 miles after lunch. We will incorporate the park next time, which I think I read this is a 3 mile walk total. We also walked a bit of the town.
Photo by Mike Hartley
There were a small number of lilies out, but peak season is July and August I believe.
Photo by Mike Hartley
The skies were that indescribable shade of blue today. Because as the day moved along so did the shades of blue.
Photo by Mike Hartley
And as the sign below says, “FOREVER FESTIVE FREDERICK” and it does seem like a festive place. I always leave happy.
What a beautiful day to be out and about. It’s your choice of what you want to do with it. You can be laid back, with the years showing but still rolling and relax and enjoy OR you can meet the day like a ball of fire and burn through it with many adventures and rowdy behavior.
Today I’ll try a little bit from cup A&B.
Rolling art. Photo by Mike Hartley
Got a good night’s rest for a change of pace and ready to attack the day. The body isn’t in full cooperation yet but were working on that.
It’s going to be a good day. I’m going to will it into effect. Be it here, there or everywhere I go.
Random Thoughts of the Morning
A rarity, I was up before sunrise but so busy I missed it.
I tried to talk to the deer out back this morning, but they weren’t having it.
Never take a shower for granted.
Found a new source of inspiration today.
I dread to look at what the Commander and Crook is up to this morning.
What is something you wish you could tell your 20-year-old self? A good question from the daily prompt.
Wow that is a long list of things to tell myself now that I have almost 50 years of experience beyond that age.
First, even though I was serious about my work I was busy raising so much hell I probably wouldn’t have listened to much advice. You think you know a lot by the time you’re 20.
I’m going to give two quick answers even though the list I have running through my head now is a long one.
You only have one body. Take care of it and don’t abuse it.
Your mind is your strongest asset. Have confidence in yourself. Make good decisions. Choose friends wisely. Be inspired. You’re capable of much more than you think you are currently, so go for it.
Lots to do this fine Monday in the Mid-Atlantic. Some great weather ahead following those storms of last night to do it in.
I love early mornings. Sometimes long before sunrise. But watching light come through my window while I’m working away is a nice feeling. This isn’t the view out my window but it’s a 5-minute walk away.
Photo by Mike Hartley
Random Musical Thoughts of theMorning
Live life like Angus Young plays guitar.
It’s not a bad idea to start the day with a song about love.
If it’s too loud you need to think younger.
I got up around 2am so Train Kept a Rollin All NIGHT Long here.
I always have my eye open for colorful shots. I’m not sure how to describe this one. But it’s one I’m leading with tonight because like those shirts I feel bright and happy.
And there is good reason for this. My one-year-old granddaughter said Papa Papa today. And I got to play with my grandson most of the afternoon.
Shot in Old Ellicott City. Photo by Mike Hartley
I didn’t get out to shoot because before the children came, I was mowing grass. And that’s not a short task. The sun was bright today and hot. Not as bad as yesterday but still a warm one.
In keeping with the goal though I will find something to shoot before the day is over. I did get some photos uploaded to my Zenfolio space. That is going to be a big effort this summer. Getting images into that system every day.
I’m not a big flag waver. We put some out on Memorial Day and July 4th but that is about it. Just a few small ones along the garden. But today is Flag Day so I thought I would participate here.
Our flag, it doesn’t belong to the right or left, it belongs to all of us. Photo by Mike Hartley
I have a military funeral flag from my father’s burial that is displayed in a nice case some kind person sent me and is displayed in front of 34 8×10 prints of my favorite shots from Arlington National Cemetery where my parents are buried.
Beautiful headstone at Arlington National Cemetery
A neighbor up the street has a flagpole and had theirs up all the time before they moved. They have sat empty since.
Flags at attention today. Photo by Mike Hartley
For the last 9 years of my career, I looked out my window at these two flags that flew over the Washington Post building on 15th street NW. For the first 17 years I walked under them to enter the building.
Part of blogging in my opinion is the interaction. I started off with a nice balance and maintained that for many years. This last year as I’ve increased my own production and worked harder on some of my other hobbies creating, I’ve dropped off reading and interacting in WordPress.
That was a bad development because a lot of the enjoyment of working in this environment is reading and seeing all the wonderful work others produce. I started to pick up my reading this past week but I’m going to start carving out more time to look at the creations of others.
In a lot of ways even my own creative efforts have been part time. Time to cure that oversite also. I’ve always hated the thought of being on any schedule in retirement, but without one I’m not accomplishing my goals. I’m off to discover a better mix. That might mean cutting some other things out. Or finding more efficient ways to do other things. Taking advantage of opportunities, I’m missing now.
An easy adjustment is to reduce my time on the TV. Also, I’ve got to find a more efficient way to get my news. I waste time on both those things.
Yesterday I was pretty busy working around the house and yard, but I said I’m going to pick up the camera every day. So right before I got in the shower at the end of the day, I walked over to my neighbor’s garden and snapped a few flower shots.
I’m going to get more efficient in the blogging process. Preparing more posts in advance and working on more weekly challenges.
Then the hobbies that have gotten off to a much slower start than I had hoped for. Both painting and drawing are way behind, and I have several unfinished carving projects.
Long as I have my health, I know I can turn this thing around.
Random Thoughts of the Day
I hear there is a big party in NYC this coming Thursday.
Though I complain about the aches and pains of life, I certainly have great appreciation for all the years I’ve been given.
We can pull his name off buildings but it’s going to be harder to erase the stain on this country he’s made.
I thought someone was trying to break into my house this morning. It was a red-headed woodpecker pounding on my fence near my back door.
Now I know why my mom had so many magnifying glasses around her house.
MAGA fans don’t forget to get your $11,999.99 Trump coin before their sold out.
I thought I was good on automotive history, but I completely whiffed on this one. I had never heard of Fisker before I shot this picture when I was in NYC and looked it up as I was editing what I thought was a throw-away shot. I’m not sure I’d want a vehicle with Pacman painted on the roof.
We need to get out on the bay or offshore on the Atlantic Ocean soon. We always had more than just a good time together. Epic weekends for the history books are the norm.
The 3 brothers and Kim and I make up the Allview Fishing Team. We lost one teammate a bit over a decade ago. And the rest of us are no spring chickens, so we better get our behinds in gear and get out on the water again.
I was a little heavier on this trip. It’s been a while since this team was out together. We might have to rectify that situation soon. Rumor is that 2 of our team of 5 was out yesterday on the blue waters off the Florida coast. Photo of me, by Capt. Dan McMullen if I remember correctly?
I rarely if almost ever run a shot of myself. But this one reminded me of some good times. We have caught marlin, sailfish, tuna, rockfish, shark, and mahi mahi, if I remember correctly. Nothing like fresh caught fish and prepared that day.
Sort of reminds me of the younger days catching crabs off my friends dock and steaming them up and having a feast. When I was very young my Uncle Frank taught me to fish on Lake Ontario, when we would visit in the summer. Unfortunately, most of the time it was around a funeral.
Even though I love to fish we have been caught in a few storms which always makes me respect the water. Fortunately, we had good captain’s and came through fine.
I won’t be needing my sea legs today unfortunately. I do know I’d rather have a pole in my hand than the weeds I’ve been pulling half the morning.
Oh, the eye patch is a joke. One of my nicknames has pirate in it.
Like this young man dancing on the piano keys below, I wish I had the freedom that youth allows, to create magic. I feel like time has taken some of that away from me. That is why I like watching my grandchildren so much. To see them explore and create freely. Without too much thought, without delay, without preconceived parameters.
At the FAO Schwarz store in NYC. Photo by Mike Hartley
It’s still inside me. Just pushed down by the weight of time. That magic that just gets you working with abandon. I’m going to work to unleash that again.
So, if you see me dancing down the street on my imaginary keyboard just smile and say he found his mojo.
In addition to driving a Mazda, I also have a Zoom lens.
Skyline looking out to Statue of Liberty. Photo by Mike Hartley
I’m just getting back to doing some editing of some shooting I did when visiting NYC. There is so much more to see there that another 2-3 visits will just scratch the surface. I’d like to get out to the Statue of Liberty next time. Instead of reaching out through the camera.
Zoomed in from the same spot above shot was taken. Photo by Mike Hartley
Another spot I needed my monopod that I didn’t have it. I’ve really got to start taking that with me every time I step out with the camera.
We will do some local trips before heading NYC again or other destinations. This weekend it’s going to be too steamy, and we have grandchildren commitments.
Random Thoughts of the Day
The Grifter and Chief
Age sneaks up on me most of the time when I see a mirror.
It’s pizza for dinner. Life is Good.
Nobody is noticing I’m letting my beard get longer. I guess it’s a gradual thing.
This month is moving by too fast. Flipping my daily calendar is like flipping a day away.
I love riding bikes. I don’t do much of it anymore but seeing this group got me thinking about visiting the local bike shop again.
Photo by Mike Hartley
There had to be a group of 30-40 riders along Route 99 that day. It’s a great stretch of road between Rt 32 and Rt 94 and beyond really. Everything going west is good.
It’s going to be tough working outside. Feels like temp is 102 now. Looks like it’s time to sweat a few pounds off.
Random Thoughts of The Day
I said it a while back and I’ll say it again. The Knicks look like a team of destiny.
Those moments where you’re doing things and then a few more things and suddenly realize that you did them without pain of any kind. It’s like this victory that nobody saw. And then a pain of some kind returns and normal life resumes.
Bank of America is pissing me off again.
Keeping a positive mind is a lot of work at times.
The most colorful couple I saw today. I love seeing people hold hands.
Photo by Mike Hartley
The winner of the largest family in town today.
Photo by Mike Hartley
And the winner for best seat in the house goes to this at the back of parking lot D.
Photo by Mike Hartley
A spot I’ll be trying next week for breakfast or lunch. The Little Market Cafe.
Photo by Mike Hartley
Stopped by and saw the participants and winners of the Paint It contest by the Howard County Arts Council. They will be on display for a while and there were some wonderful pieces at the old City Court House 8360 Court Ave.
I hope your Wednesday has been a good one.
Random Thoughts of the Day
Feeling unusually tired today.
I wonder why we are allowing an unstable person to have the nuclear codes.
Didn’t get caught in that thunderstorm today. Still got a walk in, luckily.
I see the circus has come to the White House lawn.
Ellicott City looks stronger than it has in years.
I used to look forward to the end of the work week and the beginning of the weekend. After almost 2 1/2 years of retirement that feeling is pretty much gone. Only the calendar, pill box, and other people’s schedules that are still working keep me on that cycle.
I do have some weekly goals that do focus on that timeframe but not like a work week. It’s very liberating but also a sense of detachment from the rest of the world. I stay as flexible as possible and try to accommodate other’s schedules.
My professional life in newspapers started off on a weekly basis because I worked for a weekly firm that published 12 local papers and did printing for several other weekly or monthly commercial products in the region. So, everything was tied to a weekly schedule. That went on for 23 years.
I do miss it, the smell of newsprint and some great people, not the grind. Photo by Mike Hartley
Then a sudden shift to a daily newspaper for the last 26 years of my career. That is a strange existence. Daily means 365 days. No break, no holidays, no weekends. It just all blends together. The only differentiation between the week was when I was getting called at home on the weekend instead of being there.
And sometimes during my career the weekend was during others workweek. Most of the time there it never really felt like there was a weekend. So many were interrupted or spent working. I’ve worked hundreds of holidays over the years.
Daily businesses always do their critical work like upgrades, at the least busy times. Could that be weekends, nights, holidays? That was the most exciting and pressure filled work I’ve done. I loved the work I did and the areas I got to work in. It was also brutal on life.
Now I’m into the rewarding part as a senior in retirement. I still have a boss in my better half, and truth be told the kids and grandkids think they are assuming control. My granddaughter has already told me this is her house. And my almost 4-year-old grandson claimed my tractor a few weeks ago
I’ve completely made life about looking at just the next day. Yes, there are a few errands and chores, as there is every day. But that need to get up and go work for someone else for 5 days is history and I feel for my family and friends who are still in that cycle.
Today I put my heart and soul into my hobbies and those close to me.
I’ve written before on some fears I’ve overcome, and how I did it. – But the daily prompt insists on asking it again.
For a while after retirement, I thought the number of fears I had were increasing. Now a couple of years into it, I feel less fear than I did before.
Some have changed. I used to drive back and forth to Washington DC and some of the busiest surrounding areas. So, driving in some of the most congested and dangerous areas was nothing. Now the beltways and interstates aren’t that comfortable anymore now that I’m not competing in the daily death race back and forth to work.
As I was getting into my 50s, I used to fear getting older and sick again. That fear is faded because I guess we all eventually accept the inevitable. I just make the best of each day now.
I never feared speed before. I don’t think I fear it now; I just don’t have that desire anymore. I don’t think it’s out of fear, but I guess anything is possible.
You ever stop fearing for your children or grandchildren. I just spend as much time loving them and with them and that helps.
I used to fear people who I thought were super intelligent. Then I realized that most of them have big deficiencies in other areas.
The thing that scares me the most now are those ads for these meds with all the nasty side effects like death and things like that yet living. I hope I never have a need for them.
My main fear now is the messed-up world we are leaving our children with. I’m going to try to overcome that fear by working on changing it for the better.
I think a lot about paths. I’ve walked a few different ones. All 4 of my newspaper companies had unique paths. I remember the day I drove into the Times building on 8307 Main Street in Ellicott City. This was my entry into the field.
Here is this Newspaper plant in the middle of the sleepy town. Across from the lumber mill and a few doors down from the firehouse, which was a daily reminder as they sped by with sirens blaring to save life and property.
This pathway (below) is behind the old Times building in Ellicott City. That used to lead to a dirt/gravel lot used by employees.
A path started in Ellicott City. Photo by Mike Hartley
The small walkway pictured above actually was built on top of that old bridge which if you look closely, you can still see below the freshly constructed walking path. Yeah, we used to drive cars over that rickety structure and park in a lot behind the building.
That is all paved nice big parking lot D now. Both of those bridges are gone now courtesy of the floods last decade and weren’t replaced.
One day my path took me to that Times building where my mom worked to pick her up from the job on the way home from my first semester in Community College. There were two guys just a little bit older than me arguing in a hallway leading to the Composing area. We might have called it flatting back then I think. 1975 was a long time ago so bear with me.
Anyway, the argument escalated and someone said, “you’re fired” and then someone said, “I quit,’ And I heard one gentleman mumble now I got to hire someone. BINGO. I spoke up and said I was looking for part-time work. And so, my career (didn’t know it at the time) began. That part-time gig quickly turned into full-time with as much overtime as I could work, which was anywhere between 20-30 additional hours a week.
I was just starting my second semester at the time and funds weren’t plentiful. Plus, I was working in a photo reproduction/engraving area. Which was somewhat related to my Applied Art and Design major. Well, those hours and paychecks quickly became more important than school so my career in Newspapers had begun and college came to a close.
I always park in that lot now behind the building and look at it. And think of those days over 50 years ago. I was standing on that bridge for the last picture they took of me for last employee edition of the company paper when we bought out in 79.
Random Thoughts of the Day
I like jerk seasoning much better on chicken than shrimp. Secrets in OC has some good jerk chicken.
Some doctor visits can give you a good perspective on what is important in life and what is the small stuff.
I just noticed on the bag of animal crackers that the animals are no longer in their cages. Lions and tigers, oh my.
So much for the rule of law. Being that’s been usurped I’ll be making my own.
Wasn’t my idea but I don’t mind promoting it. Found it outside a shop in Annapolis MD. I do know they got one part of that shirt right. We have lost that lovin’ feeling.
A far more productive week than the previous one has me feeling good this Sunday evening. Concentrating more on what I accomplished than what I didn’t.
So, let’s set the bar a little higher this week. I got a great start on chores today so I should have some creative time to work on a few projects this coming week.
The side of the new River House Pizza. When it opens.
These guys got more painting done this week than I did but it’s the first thing on my list for Monday morning.
My better half has been busy making the gardens look great.
I was going to stay up late and work, but I think I’ll crash and get up well before sunrise and work then.
Photos by Mike Hartley
Maybe I can get out the door well before sunrise for some night shots.
This is Woodstock Road in Howard County Maryland. One of the many single lane roads that connect this county, like blood vessels through a body. Many of these back roads have hills, corners, blind spots and PEOPLE who live on them pulling in and out.
We can do better. That double line is there for a reason. Photo by Mike Hartley
I’ve been run off the road by people passing on hills. I’ve had to come to a skidding halt to avoid being hit. I’m tired of it.
When we first moved here many decades ago, the speed limit was 40 mph. It was probably 20 maybe 30 years ago when the county changed the speed limit to 30 mph. It makes sense given the change in elevations of this road and the serious curves and hills beyond this stretch of road photographed.
That part is even worse with no shoulder, just a guardrail and rock in some spots. At both ends of Woodstock Road are busy establishments that have been here forever. The Snowball Stand and The Woodstock Inn. Both are popular and have patrons walking in and out most of the day and night. Right on the ROAD.
I’m trying to think of solutions because someone is going to die soon. We recently had another long-time neighbor move and one of the reasons was the crazy drivers here and almost being hit several times on this road.
Look, I’m not talking about being a bike rider on this road which I also think is insane but, in a car, and being almost hit. Lots of times it’s just people not paying attention to and crossing the center line. As you can see there is no place to go in spots. This happens almost every time I go out.
This road gets every kind of traffic from motorcycles to 18 wheelers. There is a lumber mill further up the road so trucks with monster trees and dump trucks sprinkled in. I like them because they slow things down and people rarely risk passing something that long.
Hey, this isn’t just a problem here, it’s everywhere. Too many risk takers for a few seconds’ advantage. And on Woodstock Road, that is usually negated by the train crossing at the bottom of the hill where EVERYONE waits.
Have a good day. I’ve got to drive the mower a bit before I venture out to this road. Wish me luck and may you all have luck on the roads today.
I neglected to include this image of one of the talented artists working in Ellicott City Friday for Paint IT in my earlier post about this event. The actual exhibit Howard Country Arts Reception is June 8th from 6-8pm.
Photo by Mike Hartley
Those storms this evening knocked out my power 4-5 times, but they were short outages. The winds were blowing pretty good and I’m sure I have some branches to pick up once daylight hits again.
I’m torn about what I want to accomplish today. Some mental turmoil going on so laying in the hammock, taking a ride, getting an ice cream sounds good. On the other hand, the yard needs cutting, a gutter is clogged, I need to change the oil on the mower, I’m sure the storms have the decks littered with debris and that is off the top of my head before looking at the to-do list.
And then there is my desire to photograph, paint and finish a carving for my granddaughter. I got a good start on cleaning my office last week but there is more to do that would help production. I’d like to read some today.
I guess it’s nice to have options. I’ll end up doing a mix of chores, fun and hobbies as usual, but it would be nice to have a day to just focus on the hobbies all day.
Random Thoughts of the Day
I’m beginning to feel the nocturnal life is more suitable for me.
The stillness after a storm is eerie. Especially at night.
It is my belief that you appreciate the good times much more because you’ve experienced other extremes.
I find it sad that some people going into retirement feel like they don’t have anything left to accomplish. I guess I’m not wired that way.
I used to stretch before playing sports. Now I have to stretch every morning because life is now a sport.
Keep it coming sunshine. I’m loving it. Got out this morning for sunrise.
Left my monopod in the other car so these are handheld.
They were shot at the corner of Route 99 and Woodstock Road in Howard County MD. Overlooking the Howard County Conservancy. I love mornings like this.
I was up well before sunrise and got the whim to head up to the corner by the Snowball Stand.
A nice mix of clouds and clear sky.
Played with a few different settings, angles and focal lengths.
I like getting out on summer mornings. I wish I could make that a habit year-round but that isn’t happening.
Photos by Mike Hartley
Some time with family today will limit shooting this afternoon but I hope to get out this evening for some more images. I do have a few more hours this morning to play. Maybe some bird shooting from the deck. Let me get at it. Have a good morning, all.
Restaurant Review
Grille 620 in Turf Valley MD – It had been a few years since we ate there last. Not because we didn’t like it, there are just tons of great places to eat around here. But I had a taste for a good steak, and I wanted one close by. Both were accomplished.
Service was great. If I remember correctly, our servers name was Gabe. We did two apps; the Crab Stuffed Mushroom caps and the Thai Shrimp which was the best I’ve had. For the stuffed mushrooms I’m used to the shroons being a little more done, but they were still very tasty.
The 8oz. Fillet was perfectly cooked and very tender. The potato/mushroom/onion side was also very good. We split a Creme brulee which was also good.
Outside seating on a perfect evening. The umbrellas took away the sun and made the evening perfect. Inside looked a little dark for me. Maybe it was just coming inside from the bright sunshine to be seated. Overall, a great meal and time. We will be back.
Random Thoughts of the Day
First cortisone injection in my foot. An interesting experience.
Each ride is its own slice of heaven.
The entitlement of some people always surprises me.
Always rely on yourself. That way if others disappoint, you still survive.
The overpopulation of people makes it seem like there is an overpopulation of deer.
I’m not a painter yet. I saw many talented artists out working today at the Paint Ellicott City Plein Art paint fest. So, as well as photographing them I thought I’d try to paint with the camera also and came up with this shot.
A reflection in the water of the stone walls and a tree. I should have flipped it over.
Oh, yeah, I like that angle even better.
Well, enough playing, I’ve got to go clean up dinner dishes. It was good, I haven’t lost my touch.
Been out and about for most of the morning and home for a short bit before I headed out to capture some artist participating in the Plein Air contest. A few shots of some of the artist below.
I also got to attend my granddaughter’s elementary school picnic today. The second chance to attend her school events and I love them. Watching the proud parents interact with the children. The kids playing effortlessly with each other laughing and screaming. The danced together for the parents who all had their cameras on.
The teachers watch with eagle eyes over the children. So many smiles and laughs. Watching them run with abandon, fall, get up laughing and continuing to run, jump, climb, crawl, leap, roll and hug each other. 1st graders are so cute.
Almost forgot to charge my main camera battery before leaving today. I’ve got to get a spare for that.
Paint It! Ellicott City is an annual plein air event that is held in June with an exhibit that is on view through August. There is a juried portion with special awards and a reception hosted by HoCo Arts.
I got to town late and I’m sure the heat made some get out early and pack up early.
There were a few artists still working hard in the heat.
Photos by Mike Hartley
Random Thoughts of the Day
A nice evening for a drive.
When are one of these men or women going to call Trump out for being a rude to his face and tell him that he doesn’t know his own asshole from a hole in the ground.
Must have been a good time this week because Monday – Friday flew by.
Time to attempt to fix my special dish again. I’ll take a picture of it later. Unless I’m starved and dig into it before shooting.
I guess CBS expects to steal viewers from FOX to make up for the loss of everyone else who used to watch. Good luck with that strategy.
Kind of ironic I ran into this shot while editing this morning. It reminded me of last night with my best friends. One of which just had his dog pass unexpectedly. When we get together, he would always bring his dog, and my other best friend also has a dog so they would play and keep each other company when we get together each week.
Last week she knew something was wrong when he didn’t show up with his buddy. This week was even more pitiful. She followed him in, sniffing him relentlessly trying to pick up an essence of her old friend. She doesn’t understand. She spent the rest of the night looking down the hall for him.
Each of us has a lot of windows. I don’t open many of mine too often. But at other times I guess I over share with both windows open and the top down for a full view of the vast empty space between my ears.
Every now and then I feel like I find a nugget of inspiration and success. Be it here in the blog or a photo series I do.
I’ve always driven with my windows open. I’m not an air conditioner type person. I grew up without it at home or in cars, so I guess that’s why I tolerate heat better than most. I’m driving around in 90-100-degree weather with the top down many summers.
Today looks like a hot one so the top will be down on my afternoon jaunt. Speaking of which, it is time to get motoring.
Do you believe in soulmates? Why or why not? – Asks the daily prompt.
Soulmates is a term I haven’t used a lot, but I feel like I’ve had several. So yes, I believe in them.
That connection that is stronger than most. The feeling that they know you and you know them on a deeper level.
Lots of marriages have found their soulmates and their love for each other is boundless and unconditional. Soulmates look into your eyes and you into theirs.
Soulmates don’t lose connection because they are naturally drawn together. You understand them easily. You can understand their pain and empathize with them. You say good things about each other and support each other. In ways that make you both better.
You’re in sync with each other, you listen better and interact with enthusiasm.
The other day I remembered an old childhood friend. We were soulmates. I’ve been married to my soulmate for decades. And luckily a few more are soulmates that I’ve had for decades.
Soulmates can rescue and save you at times in life. And you for them.
Why do I believe in them. I’ve experienced it.
Sometimes soulmates never speak a word but communicate more than most people.
Getting by with a little help from my friends. Photo by Mike Hartley
What issue will get my goat today? Politics, weather, gas prices, waiting to see if the guy doing my A/C checkup is going to give a thumbs up or down?
One of the critters at the Howard County Conservancy. Photo by Mike Hartley
How about none of them. Yesterday was like that. Few things if any got my goat. Well, the occasional bad driver, which is unavoidable if you even start your car, but otherwise it was a stress-free day.
A doctor’s appointment is on the agenda but that is all the commitment I have for today.
The fact that the day is flying by so fast is troublesome but that just means I need to make better use of my time. Picking up the camera bag and doing a little shooting before and after the appointment sound like a good idea.
I hope few things if any get your goat today. It’s too nice outside here for any nonsense today.
Feeling like I’ve got a good jump on being more active this month. Now to sustain that effort each day. This one was easy because it was just one of those early June days with low humidity and just a little below average temps with a slight breeze.
The only downside is the amount of pollen in the air. But we made it through without a sneeze.
Second walk of the month was at the Howard County Conservancy. What a great day for it also.
Nothing but blue skies and comfortable temps in the low 70s.
It’s 232 acres that I plan on fully exploring.
Wear your hiking shoes.
It’s nature so of course there is some color.
I plan on getting to know the 5 miles of trails well in the future.
What a nice stretch of weather. It feels so good to be outside in the sun, watching nature. Life is good again. Been working hard the last few days. But I’m sensing the need for balance so maybe a little relaxing this week.
My friends say I work too hard for a retired person. Maybe I do, I’m not sure. I know it keeps me more active. I know if I hired a lot of this work out, I wouldn’t have a tractor for my grandson to ride on. And I’d have a lot less money to spend on eating out and other things I like.
I do know I want to work harder on this and a few other things this second half of the year so there is no time like the present to get moving.
Yesterday I walked Ellicott City. Today I believe we will go for a walk at the Howard County Conservancy and grab a few images along the trails.
Observation. I saw the county road crew go up and down the street and into each court. I saw them doing some curb repair as I was pulling back into the neighborhood. So did they fix the 3-foot divot in the curb in front of my house. Noooo. That damage wasn’t by my doing either. I got back after a trip and saw that.
I thought the county would fix it when they patch the other parts of our decaying curb structure. Funny I paid my property taxes. Maybe I’ll send a note in with the next one and tell them to take off about 3 square feet on their next assessment. Maybe the supervisor will take a ride by and see they missed it.
Photo by Mike Hartley
Meant to fire up the firepit last night but got tired again. Tonight it will be blazing again.
Random Thoughts of the Day
Trying to make the world a better place, one image or thought at a time.
Getting my weight under control again. Got a little sloppy with the sweets again.
Shell (the gas company) has lost my business for lack of customer service.
Ants are persistent beasts.
When the hell did I start being concerned about gas mileage when buying a new mower?
