Good day all. I feel like this car. All shined up and ready to go, but sitting still. Mostly my own fault. Wasn’t feeling on top of the world earlier today but hope to pull a late gear and accomplish a few things. I was thinking of all the opportunities we are given throughout our life. And then the opportunities we create for ourselves.

A classic 58.
Photo by Mike Hartley

How those things vary from time to time throughout life. I see opportunity better now than in my younger days. Then I was looking for opportunities professionally but limiting where and what. Now the opportunities I look for aren’t professional anymore, they are more personal in nature.

There have been a few professional opportunities I’ve passed on throughout the years. Some good choices and maybe some bad ones. But right now I don’t regret any of them.

I have to envision the sunset over the bay today. Having some old photos helps. I wonder if I’ll make it the entire winter season without seeing the beach.

Looking west coming over the Bay Bridge.
Photo by Mike Hartley

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This community gives me faith that we may survive.

I was trying to find something I like about rain. I stopped trying.

You should feel something deeply each day. If you can feel multiple things, you are a living and feeling person.

Sometime the thing you think is rather routine gets recognized and the stuff you feel is special gets passed over.

I’ve set a fine example throughout my life. Not always a good one but a fine example none the less.

I love coming to the end of the day and feeling fulfilled.

Today I learned something upsetting to my already complicated world. There is a new development going up very near my neighborhood. A community of 28 homes. Right now when I pull out of my dead-end street, I look across to a series of homes lining Woodstock Road. Behind them is a deep vein of woods and usually the nicest sunrise behind them.

That is the spot they are going to develop. And by that I mean some high-end large homes. And by that I mean twice the size and cost of what I live in. And as another day turns, the rural community I moved to 32 years ago becomes a suburb. I already have issues with the traffic out here.

Should I make like the wind and fly?
Photo by Mike Hartley

I’m nearing retirement in the next decade I hope and want to stay in MY home, but I’m going to have to pay more because these places are just going to drive up my already high property taxes. Some will look and say well that increases the value of my home. Well big whoop, I don’t want to sell it.

The last thing I want to do is leave my home. But the development that has happened since moving here has been unbelievable. And it has changed the area. It has changed the feeling. It has changed the landscape. It has changed the people. And yes I’m aware the only constant is change but I’m older now and its my right to bitch more about change. At least that is what I’ve observed of older people as I grew up.

What really pisses me off is there is already a good bit of dirt/mud on our road from them just cutting a path back to the area they are going to develop. I tend to like a clean car so this is going to be an issue. Of course the increase in traffic on our 30 mph street with no shoulder. It could change the view as I leave my home as many other developments have that have sprouted up like the most effective garden in history.

You would think after almost 6 decades in this county that I would be used to the growth. I’m not. In 1960 the population was a bit over 36,000. In 2017 the population was over 321,000. So yeah, I’m used to getting new neighbors (neighborhoods). I’m glad I have an acre or so of property. I’m glad I live on a dead-end street. I’m glad there are big trees around my home and neighborhood. It reminds me of the type of neighborhood I grew up in. But now a mile or less from home I have urban growth.

I guess that is the penalty for being in a wonderful place to live. But it’s getting a bit crowded. Again, I hope to stay here as long as I can. But I do have my limits.

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The ragtop on the car was excited to hear the radio say it could be 65 degrees on Sunday. I was over the MOON. Nothing like the thought of a warm breeze through the hair.

The people I hired to do some tree trimming were able to come a week early. Trouble is they didn’t call. I got to sleep at 7am because I worked all night. I’m up listening to chain saws at 8am. Kind of weird to sleep in the late afternoon, after they finished.

Do you ever think about the enthusiasm or emphasis people have when they say the word FRIDAY?

Time is finally becoming my friend. The less I let slip away, the more I have.

I believe whomever said to be happy with yourself first, was correct. All I can say is it surely makes the tough days with the things out of your control a lot easier to deal with.

Having old friends can mean many different things. I have some very old friends whom I love as close as brothers. I have some old friends who are old friends for a reason. I knew them long ago. I have some old friends whom I still feel a very close kinship with but don’t see that often. I have old friends that have passed who I will never see again, but I still think of them and they make me smile.

Am I making any sense? It’s hard to tell when your real tired.

I appreciate a warm breeze. I abhor a cold wind. So you get the picture that today might not have been my favorite weather day. Busy as can bee can be. Tiss the season for busy. But as you wait in lines to get to the malls, while you circle like a hawk for a parking space, while you go shoulder to shoulder over that sweater, while you wait in line at checkout, when you go back out in that cold wind… Smile and have appreciation for the ability to be out and about and enjoying the season.

Da Hawk and his cousin WIND have come to town.
Photo by Mike Hartley

I appreciate the phone call my daughter made to me this evening. Hearing her voice sets me to smiling. Setting a dinner meeting in December was icing on the cake.

I appreciate the time I have to pursue this and other interest. I find myself happier when I have something to look forward to each day.

I appreciate that the day is coming to a close and much remains to accomplish elsewhere.

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See, there I go putting more pressure on myself. I could have titled it “Random Thought of the Day” But Nooooo.

Good thing I didn’t call it “Random Thoughts that Made Sense”. I’d still be searching for my first one.

Are all my thoughts random?

A window of free time tomorrow is presenting itself. Oh the many things I can squeeze into that window.

It’s Giving Tuesday and I’m going to participate. Please help out if you can.

Please turn your headlights on if its dark or raining out.

Please lift your head from your smart phone while walking because my days of moving out-of-the-way are over. This goes for man, woman or child.

Please respond in kind if someone says hello or good morning or have a nice day.

Please learn how to say please and thank you.

Please smile if you can. If those far worse off can squeeze some out, so can we.

Please stop driving like nobody else’s life mattered.

Please ask someone if they are alright if you sense something is wrong.

Please talk to your doctor if you don’t feel right.

Please have faith that we can overcome the many struggles we face today and tomorrow.

A drop of giving soon springs a stream.
Photo by Mike Hartley

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I have found the perfect yin to my yang. The vacuum cleaner. I put dirt down and it picks it up.

Feeling like I’m starting to snap out of a funk.

Can you dig it? Maybe with a shovel.

Boy do I need to catch up on some rest.

Yep, I’m going shopping. Well not today but sometime in the next few weeks. There is lots of pressure this time of year. I was always a nervous wreck about the gifts I was getting. Hell, just finding the time to shop during the busiest part of the year is difficult. And then the traffic and parking.

Don’t Stress over the Holidays
Photo by Mike Hartley

A number of years ago I started to go at off hours. Early mornings on the weekdays are best. But the most important tip I can give is to think. Yep thinking deeply about the person you’re giving a gift to. You will find the answer easily if you know them.

Yesterday I was lamenting the start of another work week. If it does anything it turns up the dial to full speed and gets you moving. And it did that today for sure with the normal detours or additions to the day. I could have dealt without one of our cars dying. That complicated a number of things.

Obviously by the content of this post you can tell my time is limited. I’m just trying not to break a posting streak I have going. Also I’m horrible once I allow myself to slack off in getting moving again.

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I’m worried that the announced layoffs at GM are just the beginning and tip of the iceberg.

Its Giving Tuesday tomorrow. I’m going to do my part. Please help.

Saw a great idea from an old acquaintance. About sending a Christmas card to the following –  A Recovering American Soldier, c/o Walter Reed Army Medical Center, 8901 Wisconsin ave, BETHESDA, MD. 20889.

Here’s hoping I can come up with an interesting post on Tuesday. Take care all.

I look forward to the day where the beginning and end of the week don’t exist except on a calendar. Where I don’t start each week wishing I was working on something else. Of course that wish is tempered with having to earn a living for a few more years so I’m not trying to encourage that unless a winning lotto ticket is given to me at the holidays.

Photo by Mike Hartley

Photo by Mike Hartley

Photo by Mike Hartley

Photo by Mike Hartley

Photo by Mike Hartley

Photo by Mike Hartley

Photo by Mike Hartley

Wishing that everyone had a grand weekend with family like I did. Seeing my children is the best. And next Thanksgiving the family will be larger by one. And that will be a special one.

As you can see I was too lazy to actually head downtown for those shots. They are a little older from a shoot I did while visiting with family one weekend. I promise some new work this week.

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I’ve had my fill of sports, after this weekend. Of course a good nights sleep will rekindle the interest again.

I’ve had my fill of stuffing and turkey. But I will probably have that for lunch tomorrow. So I stand corrected.

I’ve let myself down by the lack of shooting I’ve done this weekend. But not discouraged at myself enough not to try harder this week.

I’m one of those guys who looks forward to his wife’s calls.

Big game for the Terps this Wednesday.

Got a chance to treat my Son to dinner and the Maryland basketball game this evening. Both were great. I realized that I now look up to my children. Both are so far ahead of me at that age. They are responsible and loving young adults. Their career’s are going well. They have their heads on straight. Hell I was still playing the fool in my late twenties.

To the Point.
Photo by Mike Hartley

The pride and comfort my children give me is something I wish I could bottle and share with the world. Their strength and spirit and drive are amazing to watch. A parent will always worry about their children. But the worries I have about them are just the basics. For health and safety.

What I wouldn’t give for a warm and humid summer morning. I don’t think that is going to happen for a bit. As the space heater sits running behind me fighting off that balmy 30 degrees outside, I wonder if I can make it through a long winter. I’m already thinking of hibernating for a few months. Now if I can figure out how to do that and continue earning a living I’ll be fine.

The evening is getting foggy.
Photo by Mike Hartley

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We are Marshall was a good movie. The Marshall basketball team this evening was far less impressive.

I thought my ankle was getting better, I thought wrong.

My designated shopping times will be weekdays between 8am and 10am till Xmas is over.

Pepsi must be trying again to make inroads against Coke because I see they have added some establishments to their list this year that I frequent.

Well the Lakers are on so I have to cut this post short.

A great morning to sleep in. Yeah I used to watch the Macy’s parade all the time but today I just felt like catching ZZZ’s. Of course if my Mom was alive I would have had to catch it to discuss with her. She used to do department store display windows for some other big stores back in her day. I could tell she always loved putting together the Xmas displays the most.

I’m feeling relaxed finally. Was a stressful week at the job that pays the bills. But that is probably par for the course for just about everyone. So I won’t bark about that or that cold that is trying to come through the door.

Instead I’ll give thanks to all the wonderful family and friends in my life. I’ll remember those no longer with us. I give thanks to my better half which put on a feast and hosted a wonderful family event.

I was fishing for a plate full of food and I found it.
Photo by Mike Hartley

I was all pumped to watch a few holes of golf between Tiger and Phil but then I read tonight its on pay per view. It reminds me this world is about money and it pisses me off. 9 million for the winner. Big whoop, what the hell is 9 million to these guys? 9 million is the bet they should be making with each other with their own money. If you want to create some drama, make it not only about their pride but about their bank accounts. What would have been the best package is to throw those two in a match where they are putting up 10 million of their own money, winner take all. And the network should donate all the tv revenues to charity. And all the money wagered in Vegas that is made by casinos should be donated to charity. And those guys who I know have a heart deep inside should set the example also and donate winnings to if nothing else by taking the game of golf to everyone. Can you imagine the free publicity and goodwill everyone involved would have been connected with.

Can you imagine the tone that would set? Can you see the example when two of the most popular people in their sport on the back nine of their careers, show us that giving to those in real need during the middle of Thanksgiving weekend. There are people who have lost everything with hurricanes and fires in the most recent examples. But NOOOOO. I mean holy crap, I just looked up on Forbes and both of these guys earned over 40 million do$$ars by mid July this year so far. That’s a half-year? This 9 million isn’t jack squat to these guys. Instead I see greed which is very disappointing.

Guess I should get busy doing my part before I ramble on about others.

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To those serving our country out of our country or keeping our homeland and streets safe. I give you my thanks.

This weekend might be one of the best sports weekends of the year.

The more I look for good in life, the happier I am.

I’m without focus today. Had to run a few errands and I’m not encouraged by the selfishness I see of some behind the wheel. But there were flashes of humanity today. I held the door open for those who were behind me with their hands full. There were a few kind words and wishes for a good holiday from the guys at the liquor store. And I’m not a regular.

And I exchanged nodes and pleasantries with a complete stranger while sitting in traffic, we were headed in the opposite directions but stuck in traffic. He gave a node and I thought he said something so I rolled down the window. He said he was just nodding about the car. I told him I liked his also. Ours were the same color and both had black convertible tops but different makes of car. I said I wished it was warm enough to have the top down and he smiled and laughed.

Smithsonian National Museum of American History.
Photo by Mike Hartley

Today I’m going to eat smart. Ah the hell with it. Might as well get a base on for tomorrow. Plus my logic is I’m going to need a few extra layers to deal with these cold temps. I have to go out twice tomorrow just to pick up and return my father and mother in-law, but otherwise its feasting, football, fun and fatness.

I can see the problem now. I’m full as can be. I’ve loosened the string on the sweat suit. And then I hear a voice from the kitchen again. It will yell, Mike do you want a piece of apple, pecan or pumpkin pie. Good thing I have a day to sort out that answer. Of course I’ll have whipped cream with any choice.

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When trust is gone. Chaos and Civil War replaces it.

I wish I had time to read more blogs.

My mind is like a computer that is running too many intensive programs and scripts. And the one eating up the CPU is the one waiting on medical results.

Only another day or two to a full moon. Maybe time for some night shooting.

Here’s to a safe and happy holiday weekend.

I’m guessing that today and tomorrow are going to be brutal with the commute. If people aren’t out shopping for the Thursday feast they are cramming in the last day or two of work but thinking about the long weekend. Then there are the masses who are traveling to friends, family or vacations. I wish everyone a safe holiday weekend. Please be patient. Please be courteous.

None of this type of snow below yet but I can imagine looking outside this winter and seeing this scene. After listening to the forecast for Thursday’s cold it can’t be far away.

See why I hate winter.
Photo by Mike Hartley

I’m hoping to de-stress this weekend. I’m letting the small stuff get to me. I haven’t been my jovial self in a few days. I’m ready for a few days strung together that leave me feeling on top of the world. And seeing family and friends should put me there.

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The pardoning of the turkeys took place today. It was hard to tell which was which.

Funny how “Lock Her Up” has taken on an entirely new meaning.

I read a quote where a person who feels appreciated will always do more than what is expected. A lot of people who aren’t appreciated also do more than what is expected. The difference is one will stand the test of time and the other will fade.

I see Duke the dog who is in advertisements for Bush’s Baked Beans has passed. I wonder if he is sharing the secret recipe upstairs?

OK, had to step out of the funk and get back to a more positive wind. Not going to let the late day clouds and rain dampen my spirits. Looking forward to powering through the next two days and then FINALLY a HOLIDAY. One that I won’t spend working. Hell YEAH.

Sailing in the Baltimore Harbor.
Photo by Mike Hartley

I’m thinking our group is overdue for another fishing trip. Nothing like a day on the water. Unless Mother Nature is upset and I’ve been out in that nonsense and you don’t want to be on the water. Waves picking up a 50′ boat like a surfboard isn’t the most comfortable feeling. Seeing other boats disappear behind waves and then realizing you are doing the same thing.

To see concern and concentration on the Captains face. Good thing we go out with the best guys. Most of our trips have been smooth sailing, blue waters and calm seas. Of course I’d like to skip pulling up the large sharks that feel like you’re trying to lift a refrigerator from the depths.

I’m getting ready to take a bite out of some Turkey.
Photo by Mike Hartley

As you can see, I haven’t had time to shoot crap. Maybe tomorrow between the blood test and other errands. And certainly this long weekend will bring some new images.

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I’m tired of the combative leadership style.

You must be very sick to take some of the meds advertised on TV with all the side effects they have.

At first I wasn’t a fan of the rule changes in the NFL. But I’ve seen some very exciting football this year. And the wealth of young talent is something else.

Teamwork can be an illusive thing.

Positive attitudes requires patience.

I’m looking for where my weekend went just like these kayaks are looking for water. I get so keyed up at the start of the work week and I’m not sure why. I didn’t use to get this way. It dissipates when I start but the few hours before are brutal as of late. At least its a short work week ahead. One of the few holidays I don’t have to work.

Looking forward to the warm days where these can be of use.
Photo by Mike Hartley

So its family week for a lot of people. Actually I’m hoping for a low stress event even though we are having more than a few people over. Looking forward to seeing family and friends though, for it is the time of year.

Have you ever worked alone? I have and it’s not that much fun. But it does have its good points. Obviously I’m in charge. I don’t have to worry about what someone else did or didn’t do. It can be fairly lonely though. I’m a rather social person but I’ve also been able to survive working alone for long periods. Didn’t know I can do it, but it works out.

One real downside is it feels you can’t get sick. I’ve lost count of the number of days I worked through illness. I do have a partner now so it’s not as bad as it once was but when there is vacations or illness we are back to one person. Such is life. I’ve worked in big groups also and that has its ups and downs. The more people, the more variables and personalities.

All I have to do is deal with me, myself and I tonight.

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My better half is a real good cook.

I like a simple life. Must have been that early influence of one of my favorite tunes “Simple Man.”

I have big plans for this week. Hope I can pull them off.

Football is a brutal game. I hate seeing people get badly injured.

I keep dreaming of the time to pursue my passions. I have many passions.

I keep dreaming of the ability to accomplish the goals. I have many goals.

I keep dreaming of the better world I’d like to leave my children. I have many children and much work to do.

I keep dreaming of health and happiness. For I have many that I would love to share it with.

I keep dreaming the Terps will win another basketball championship. And each year is a new chance.

I keep dreaming that I could have new tools with which to work. When I already have been given much to work with.

I keep dreaming that I might do something worthwhile in this lifetime. But if I just look at my family and friends, this dream has come true. Thank you all.

Photo by Mike Hartley

It was nice today to get up and see sunshine. Kind of inspiring actually and has me feeling good. If I could be in the warm sunshine of Florida like I was in this picture below, that would be nice also. But time to deal with the reality that I live in the great state of Maryland. Don’t get me wrong, this is where I’m in love. Minus the winter and traffic, it’s a great state.

Select your direction wisely.
Photo by Mike Hartley

And I’ll never move from family and friends of a lifetime here. Its going to cost me. Might have to even work some if my tinkering retirement passions don’t bring in a few $. But that is a small price to pay for happiness and being with the ones you love. I see the distance complicating relationships and I don’t want that factor.

Speaking of distances and travel. It’s that time of year when everyone is out and about and our crowded highways become crowded parking lots trying to get to the more than crowded actual parking lots to shop. People we have to get our act together. Lets see, the first thing I was reminded of today was if you want to drive at night TURN YOUR LIGHTS ON. I bet I followed this person for 5 miles in the dark tonight before they turned on their lights just as they were pulling into their neighborhood. I tried flashing my lights at them and was going to get out at a few traffic lights but they changed to quickly. Next is to TURN ON YOUR LIGHTS if its pouring rain or snowing so hard that you can’t see but feet in front of your car.

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Any day that begins with a warm scrambled egg sandwich made with love and that you weren’t expecting is a good day.

It really takes time to write no matter how fast I type.

I can envision my Mom spell and punctuation checking my work from above. And yes she is shaking her head. She used to be a proofreader and a damn good one. If I didn’t have spell check you might think I was talking another language.

A big thanks to Mother Nature for melting that mess she left on my sidewalk and driveway yesterday. After 10 minutes out in that rain late yesterday, I realized that 3 inches of slush was going to wait to be cleared.

If Seinfeld can have a show about nothing, why can’t I have a blog about nothing?

Got up at noon and I just looked outside after working all night and it’s snowing like gangbusters. What the HELL IS GOING ON HERE? The snow shovels are still in the shed. I haven’t even removed the battery from the mower yet. There is SNOW on my convertible top. OK it’s sleeting, and finally rain.

The Howard County Conservancy
Photo by Mike Hartley

I’m not liking this season already. Nice 3 inches of slush outside. Hoping it doesn’t freeze. OK enough of the weather report. I’ll just pretend it was 85 and sunny and a slight breeze. Nope, can’t do it while sitting here shivering in a sweat suit.

First song heard this morning – Box of Rain by the Grateful Dead.

I’m trying to redefine the relationship to the smart phone. Found myself wasting precious time. Why do I want to keep up with work email when I’m off. I’ll tell you why. Decades of a bad habit, that’s why. You can get your news about anything on them. Well you don’t need all the news that is published around the world. Yes its good to be informed but come on now. Then there is texting. OMFG. Looking at the market and weather. And I’m not even into all the apps and games and endless tools it can provide. Yes some of it is good but for those of us who lack some self-control, it’s not good.

So today I left it upstairs for several hours while I was downstairs. When I did get it I looked quickly and then put it down again. Did anyone call or text. No, ok, put it away again. I’m only going to use it to make calls and return a few text. I will not have my face attached to that device. I want to reconnect. I can get all the social media and information I need while at the computer. It’s also good to make a clean break from it when I get up from the desk. I don’t need to be wasting time on a screen so small that I strain to read it any longer. And even if I could see it without reading glasses, I’d have to wonder is it damaging my eyes to spend so much time on such small information in such a small space?

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Yesterday I had a random thought about going out early for snow pictures. Good thing I came to my senses and stayed inside and got some sleep and rest. Thursday is sometimes catch up day as well as transition day.

My neighbor turned their Xmas lights on for the first time. OK the gauntlet has been thrown down. They have the advantage, young children probably pestering them.

Don’t know why, but I’ve never had once ounce of interest in Twitter.

The Turkey entered the house today. A beast of a bird. I am so ready for the smells to permeate the home again.

I have a hankering for a milkshake.

Haven’t had one of these days in a while. Just woke in a bad mood. TV disgusted me. Work is irritating me. I’m behind on my chores and that has me stressed. Its dark out and cold, an a winter mess in the forecast. Wasted an hour or two stewing like this. And was having thoughts that this might continue through the day. I think the thing that set it off was getting my referral for blood work in email.

I don’t see any power steering here.
Photo by Mike Hartley

And then I spoke to my better half. And life turned. She always gets me back on course. Sometimes it’s just hearing her voice, sometimes the advice or words of encouragement. And then I decided to listen to some tunes and the first one that came on was Wond’ring Aloud from an old favorite band of mine. And I thought of how she has given me so much in life.

I had to go look up the lyrics and saw beauty. The last lines of “And it’s only the giving, That makes you what you are” is so true.

“Wond’ring Aloud”

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Do I want to go out in the cold and wet for the first snow pictures of the season tomorrow morning?

As the old saying goes “can’t see the forest for the trees” So you can see the forest through the trees (see below). It’s all how you look at it. Just like this post. I had nothing, zero, zilch, nada. Brain cells were not engaging. Panic was starting to peak around the corner. Will this be the day you break your posting streak? Will you do such a lame post your too embarrassed to push the Publish button? Or worse will you not see how bad it is and push the Publish button but regret it when you look at it later?

So I started to look through and do some housekeeping on images for the trash. I ran across this and thought of that old saying. And a post was born again.

Can you see the forest through the trees?
Photo by Mike Hartley

So here we go, where will the spirit within combine with the external inputs take us today. Will I make the choice to go with the flow or set my own path? It’s a nice question to ask yourself each day because the flow is the easy and default choice on many days for too many of us. I used to take it because it was easy. I still do some days for a change of pace.

But I’m trying to take control slowly of this unit and do something productive with my life in my senior years. I can’t believe I’m a senior. Well I’ve been a senior in high school. I’ve been a senior Unix system administrator. My friends have been making fun of me for being old as Dirt. I’m only senior in that regards with my closest friends by a month.

I look at my father in-law and see a man in his young 90’s still in good shape mentally and physically for that age and I hope that I have that much time, because I think I’ll need every minute of it to accomplish some thoughts and goals. But I worry greatly every time another cancer check rolls around.

So it reminds me often to live each day well. It’s good to have that long-term outlook and wishes, plans, goals but remember to have some fun along the way, tell others you love them each day, do something your kids would be proud of. Do something for yourself and then pass it on by doing something for others.

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I feel like Mother Nature has put us in a dunk tank and gets great joy out of being a dead eye in hitting the target.

You can fix stupid, but its a lot of effort.

The commute to DC is getting to be more and more like the movie death race each day.

Pain will open your eyes. Pain will get your attention. Pain can break your concentration. But it won’t control my attitude.

I’m off to the races on one leg. Got a bum right ankle to start the week. So I didn’t make as much progress as I had hoped. I wanted to do a little shooting this morning but after a haircut I had nothing left from a long first day at work except pain.

Beautifully twisted.
Photo by Mike Hartley

This Bonsai tree was at a coworkers desk. It’s a nice one and I thank them for the peace it gives me when I walk by it.

Blooms
Photo by Mike Hartley

I’m trying to find things each day that make me feel better when I can’t be with family and friends.

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They don’t have to tell me this is a record year for rainfall. That new fault that opened in my lower back yard proves that.

I wonder if any of the high school kids from Wisconsin throwing the Nazi salute had grandparents who fought a war over it? And I wonder how they felt if they saw it.

Some days I wish I had a battery backup system for me.

Watching California burn is very depressing.

Holy crap, the winter holidays have sneaked up on me.

Ah, a return to the days of my youth from sprained ankles on the court. Ice, heat, repeat.

Holy crap 2, my barber is thinking about retiring in another year. When I started going to Sal’s, he was a young buck. How the hell did he get so old.

Saw this photo as I was doing some editing and almost threw it out but thought of that line in the movie Animal House uttered so emphatically by Bluto. “HEY!! WHAT’S THIS LYIN’ AROUND S**T. So another Post is born.

Hey, it’s a Sunday.
Photo by Mike Hartley

Its kind of what I’ve been doing the first half of the day. But it’s about to gear up I feel. I’m still working on purging some old computers, cleaning the workroom. I’m a pack rat. I think they use the term hoarders now but I don’t feel that bad. I do keep some things around longer than I need.

What spurred the cleanup – A few things. I mentioned earlier I wouldn’t want someone to have to sort through the mess and wonder what was important and what was trash. So I’m trying to clear the trash. I remember having to clean my Mothers home out, what to put in storage at my home and what was trash. It took forever.

Plus it feels like a fresh start. Something new. Something less cluttered. Not a completely clean slate but dust free again and more room. Oh yeah, the real reason, we have company coming for Thanksgiving.

Life is full of ups and downs. And just like this photo, the future isn’t in good focus. I’ve found it more beneficial to just live more in the moment. And Monday I hope to do some good living. I think I’ll start it off with a haircut at daybreak. Yeah, my barber starts early in the day.

No this isn’t Rolling Road but it could be.
Photo by Mike Hartley

Random Thoughts of the Day

One of the parts about hosting family during the holidays is not having to get in the cold car afterwards and drive home.

I wonder why they call them benefits when they are so expensive?

I don’t tweet. I don’t read tweets unless they are read over the news and I wish they would stop that.

Another work week ahead, are you in the starting gate?

I can’t wait to get to my priorities.

I haven’t seen my ankle so discolored since I was a youth.

Any morning you wake up and can be up and about, is a great morning. So this is going to be a great one because I’m heading out. What I could do without is the wind and cold temps. These strong breezes are going to play havoc with what leaves are left on the trees. Could be a baron look on the commute next week.

Good morning all.
Photo by Mike Hartley

I’m starting to break down the day into smaller increments. What opportunities can I find while doing other things. You know, the stuff that isn’t inescapable. You know, stuff like work and commuting to and from. I’m going to see what I can capture while running some errands today.

This is a renewed effort to really do more of the work I love and would like to share. It’s not going to get done wishing or thinking about it. I’m tired of making excuses that there is too much in the way. I’m tired of wasting time on unimportant things. So off I go.

Actually I’m still full from Thursday. It was BBQ day for this guy. Had some pulled pork, beef brisket and ribs. Along with some mac and cheese to fill in the gaps. Maybe I’ll try a healthier approach to the diet today. But that sure was some good eating. I’m blessed to be able to eat well. It was nice to share that with someone less well off yesterday.

Brisket. Forgot how many hours (est 12hrs) it was smoked. Photo by Mike Hartley

These guys on TV have nothing on a few of my best friends. The ribs my brother smoked for 6 hours and his dry rub was a feast last night. I’m going to get into cooking more when I have the time.

Sorry about yesterdays rant. I was troubled by that event/shooting. Today is a new day and I’m thinking positively again. Actually made some progress upgrading my basement office and workroom. I got to spend a few minutes with my better half and my daughter called so it was a great day.

Ah, there is that warm feeling on a rainy Friday. Just had to look internally.
Photo by Mike Hartley

You know when you have your health you really are in control of your life. And I mean both physical and mental health. I feel like I’ve made it through some tough times with both and probably should have gotten help, but somehow I’ve come through it. And a lot of it is my mental outlook. I’ve never felt more at peace with myself. I’ve never been more comfortable personally and professionally.

And while the end of my professional career in newspapers is in its last decade or maybe less, it’s always their call, I’m relaxed for a change of pace about the job. Funny how it works. I’ve always been scared of keeping my job throughout my career when most said it was never an issue. Now that I’m near the end and not worried about it, I probably should be, but won’t.

I love being able to string a bunch of good days together now.

Random Thoughts of the Day

The more I read blogs, the more enlightened I am.

If you can hear the rain before you open the door, its one of those days to stay inside.

Going to make a few donations tomorrow.

I made two doctors appointments today that I hate making. Because that means test. And I hate waiting for results of test.

Get your winter coat out and hold on to your hat tomorrow.

Ah what I wouldn’t give for a warm summer breeze coming off the water. But more so what I wouldn’t give to a solution or at least a reduction in these mass killings. Why isn’t there more outrage at these events. Where is the political discussion or progress? Where are each of us in pressing this issue for solutions or action? Why are we taking them as normal things now. They aren’t normal for those losing their lives.

They aren’t normal for those loved ones left behind. I saw that grief on that father today who lost his son and I’m crushed. I have children. Most of us have children. Why can’t we relate and get busy?

I love mornings. A shot from this past summer at Bethany Beach. 
Photo by Mike Hartley

I’ve got to get to work on this issue. All of us need to before one appears at our club or school or workplace or event. We need to be proactive in recognizing people with issues. We have to keep deadly weapons from those struggling or suffering from mental illness. We have to be better at raising a flag about those in trouble.

We have to be concerned with the stress and pressure we are putting on our youngest and poorest in a lot of cases by sending them away to fight wars for us and then on multiple tours. And if we do they need our support and love and care and money to recover from that trauma.

We need to get to know our neighbors. We need to keep track of our siblings. We need to talk and support and not let things get so bad for those sick individuals before they snap and go on a rampage. We need to tone down the hate. We need to show respect and kindness. We need compassion and caring instead of the back and forth barking and bitterness. And lastly the last time I looked at a list of these mass murder’s, they weren’t Muslim terrorist. They weren’t Hispanic or Black gangs. They were white domestic terrorist and or sick and depraved people.

I’m all for secure borders. I’m all for vigilance against a great number of people in foreign country’s that wish us harm. But we are ignoring a bigger problem right in our own back yard. We are breaking down in our responsibility for each other. If we keep this up its going to be every man for himself.

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I’ll be watching football but my mind is elsewhere.

Jeez, it’s getting late and there are a good number of people I haven’t told that I love them today.

Looking forward to a fun-filled Friday.

I didn’t know there was an expectant grandparent dance till I became one.

Laughed a good bit today. Remembered some old friends who had passed in those stories we were laughing at. Life sure is short for some. Live every day. Don’t get caught up in the small stuff or small people.

Off to the next adventure. I hope tomorrow will be a better day.

I’ve been on a roll posting each day now. Today is the first day in a good while I just didn’t have a good starting point. So I walked away and hoped time would provide one. That didn’t happen. I thought about not posting being I didn’t have any waterfall of ideas or thoughts or rants.

I figured we are all burned out on politics so that is off-limits. I would complain about it getting cooler but its going down even more next week so I’ll put that in reserve. I’ve gone on about my better half and how much I love my family and friends so that isn’t worthy.

I didn’t have any new photos that inspired some random train of thought or expression. It was an uncomfortable day health wise but there are many far worse off so I won’t go on about that at all. I almost walked away but then I remembered how good it feels interacting with this community. So I put some oil in the lantern and I got to it again.

My Uncle Frank worked for Dietz Lantern.
Photo by Mike Hartley

Actually this blog is partially a self-help tool. I use it to try to be more positive. To work past some of my failings and shortcomings. To improve or develop some skills. To communicate ideas or opinions. And it helps me feel some accomplishment from time to time.

What I do have is a passion to search now for something important each day. For instance I’ve been horrible about my own personal finances and benefits. Good thing I have a better half that makes things work beautifully. But there is only so much she can do. For instance I noticed I hadn’t done a beneficiary for my 401K plan. Bad mistake which I fixed today. I’m sure I have some other things that I need to do so that will be a focus this weekend.

OK now I’m rolling and thinking. Guess the starter was a little cold today. Whoops, I walked away to get a soda and age happened and I lost my train of thought. Crap.

Random Thoughts of the Day

The DOJ is out of Sessions.

Popcorn and Pistachios are addictive and should come with warning labels.

My mind wanders to the coming day of my new grand-daughter.

I’m going to spend some time learning more about my family history this weekend.

Ah who cares about Elections when there is more important stuff going on. Like the start of the College basketball season. Duke and Kentucky will be a nice diversion from the endless results and commentary on the election. Yes that is the important thing. Yes I voted. Yes I care deeply about the results.

Go TERPS
Photo by Mike Hartley

But, my excitement today will be in the kickoff of the College Hoop Season. The joy today will be hearing from my Daughter but that is more personal in nature. So back to college basketball. The Terps (University of Maryland) kicks off their 100th season tonight. Wish I could attend but being out on election night would be a mortal sin in the business I work in. But the March towards March Madness has begun.

I’m glad to see people voting and excited about doing so. I also saw something earlier I wish I could remember. But the message was be humble in victory and gracious in defeat. I’m sorry, you probably heard me laughing. Of course people are going to crow about it on either side. Unless you have been living under a rock, its gotten noisy out their. But I’m going to try to take that advise. I think you earn more respect by acting right.

Remember “we are all made on main.”

Remember we are one nation.
Photo by Mike Hartley

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Being at ease is easier said than done.

Where is the wave?

Well back to the reality of earning a living hitting me in the face today. I have to say it was a somewhat relaxing and rewarding weekend. Felt good to grab a few frames while out and about. Felt good to spend some time with my better half. Felt good to spend some time with friends and my children.

A little closer to home.
Photo by Mike Hartley

Time is getting tight. Holidays are almost upon us. Its time for some of my health test again. It’s the busiest season at the job that pays the bills. Its open enrollment season for benefits and new election and choices are there. Just got a note to renew my trade name. And another letter reminding me its annual physical time again. If I looked at the pile of mail or at my to do list I could probably go on with ease.

Isn’t it great to be busy and alive. I’ve finally learned to just deal with things for the most part without stressing about just everything. But the medical stuff causes me great worry that I just can’t seem to escape. I’m not sure I’ll ever find a way to effectively deal with it. It is what it is. Either a clean bill of health or bad news.

I just read a great piece on Gratitude by Dr Perry.

Well, time to stop horsing around and get working again.

Just a little horse-play on a Monday.
Photo by Mike Hartley

Random Thoughts of the Day

I would like to see more people doing the basics again. Helping open a door for an elderly person or woman or just someone with their hands full. Asking if someone needs help if they obviously have lost their way. You know, the simple stuff.

Thinking of my Daughter this evening. Good luck tomorrow.

Apathy is killing our society in so many ways. What we eat. What we watch. What we participate in and don’t (example-voting). What knowledge we attain and think is important. So much of life is me focused. What is the path of least resistance. We have gotten lazy and stupid. Values our parents taught us are getting forgotten.

How wet is it?  Very

It took me several decades but I’m starting to gain confidence in myself.

Its fun strolling though Ellicott City. You never know what you will come across. Wandering up the street I saw this old military truck and had to look it up when I got home. At first it almost seemed like an active military vehicle. It was in such fine shape except that I then noticed the driver and passenger were a bit older and on second glance I said that truck is a bit older.

Dodge WC-51 Series Cargo Truck 3/4 ton 4×4 US Army WW II Vintage trolling through Ellicott City.
Photo by Mike Hartley

It’s a good thing all things aligned at this time. I’m a bit older now and had stopped half way up the hill for a second wind and they were waiting for the light on Main Street. At first I had zoomed in on the poster of the guitarist and driver in the truck looking at it but there was something about that whole truck so I widened the shot.

Lots of work going on in the old town. Good to see, I’m energized by what seems to have been accomplished in a short time. But tough times are ahead. Lots more work to go.

And the rebuild continues.
Photo by Mike Hartley

I hope I’m around to enjoy the next version of this city. It will always be a home in many ways.

I was going to go into a rant about Governor Hogan using his cancer in campaign ads. I was bothered by this personally. One I don’t believe it was needed. Two I think he should be able to run on his record. It might not have been his idea but he approved it. To me it was a cheap playing the health card.

end of season.
Photo by Mike Hartley

Random Thoughts of the Day

Effort can be self-sustaining.

Another hour of sleep or another hour of fun? Such is the dilemma once a year. When I was younger that was a daily decision.

I’m not having much success at training myself in proper posture.

I had better clean up this office, would be a shame to leave this mess for someone else.

A note from the doctors offices again. Good old testing time. Crap

It was a good day to get some chores done but couldn’t stop thinking about my better half not feeling that well.

I did get up and get moving early today. Felt like I needed a nap all afternoon though. My own fault really, been burning the candle at both ends as they say. Time for a battery recharge tonight. And with the steady rain this evening its a good night to stay in and catch some ZZZ’s.

Grazing morning.
Photo by Mike Hartley

But first a few observation and thoughts. My day was about as tranquil as this shot above. And actually it was three of us today also because my Son came for a visit. As my children share time with us throughout the year its like a Christmas day. Well that is the kind of joy and excitement I get in anticipation about them coming home or any other time we gather. And then after the day is over it’s a satisfaction like Christmas night. Just a warm feeling of being loved.

I’m learning I need to spread these good feelings. There are a lot of lonely stressed out people. Hey, if I can help one or a few with some positive caring then the world is that much better off. I’ve been doing it all my life actually but I think I’ll step up even more. Now that I got a more positive outlook on my own and have the smarts to be thankful for it.

I also have family and some close friends who are incredibly caring people and they inspire me also.

Below is the most interesting Address Marker I saw in my travels on the back roads the other day. I hope to get out and do some more shooting this weekend.

Can’t miss this address.
Photo by Mike Hartley

Random Thoughts of the Day

You show people around you what is important by your actions.

I’m afraid they are going to bust this Wizards team up soon and start over if they continue this path.

You ever see that movie Lethal Weapon where Joe Pesci says – “they always F*** you at the drive thru” Well he was right.

Ah I love basketball season.

Early start, I’d like to give that a check mark but the job that pays the bills got in the way. But I’m off and running now. Thursday afternoons are the greatest. It’s the beginning of MY TIME and LIFE. So let’s get this day rolling. Time to get my behind out of this chair and go snap some frames. Of course I’ll have to have the top down and tunes up along the way to various destinations around the county on this warm day.

I haven’t been down Ellicott City in a while. I left there the last time feeling down. Yeah its great to see it still standing but half the town is boarded up. That is sad and depressing when you’ve known this town for a long time. Almost like you have a close friend on life support. You go, you try to make it better by in this case supporting the few merchants remaining and plans for the future. But it’s also touch and go with this patient.

A brighter outlook.
Photo by Mike Hartley

But on my visit today I’m seeing signs of improvement in EC. Lots of hard work has taken place. People were on the streets. Few but some people. The place should have been bustling though on a day like today. My heart and support goes out to the merchants trying to make a run of it there. You are the foundation.

Step up and support the town.
Photo by Mike Hartley

I was also reminded that no matter the event, this place always seems to bounce back.

Front of Railroad Museum.
Photo by Mike Hartley

Yes the town is twisted. It always was thought.

Just a kink in the building. Photo by Mike Hartley

Please remember to support the town on Small Business Saturday Nov. 24.

A town under perpetual construction. The human spirit on display.
Photo by Mike Hartley

Well, back to living and getting out from behind this station. Have a great evening everyone.

Random Thoughts of the Day

Its incumbent in all of us with our beliefs to only deal in truths. Publishing extreme material that is inaccurate or lies on either side or any perspective is wrong no matter how much you might disagree with the other person perspective. It just perpetuates till it ends with endless violence because people get polarized against one another with untruths.

You know when I’m much older and bored out of my skull I’ll have to go back and see if I’ve ever repeated a post title.

I got to speak to my Daughter today. And I get to see my Son tomorrow. Hey, it doesn’t get any better. Well it does when were all together but I’ll take what I can get each day.

Well, time for laughter and football and a few fist bumps.