I’ve never been so relaxed for the end of year holidays. Not having the pressures of work at the same time has allowed me to enjoy things like putting up lights and decorations. Or enjoy some social time without being so tired I can’t enjoy it.

My better half and I stopped giving gifts years ago and just take a night or two away together in January or February, as our gift. And we are lucky to be able to give to our children and grandchildren.

At the same time, I see friends and loved ones on the edge because of numerous circumstances. So, I will try to help them stay positive and enjoy them as much as possible.

Missing loved ones this time of year is always difficult no matter if it was recent or many years ago. The social pressures and expectation of gatherings and parties. The stress companies are under to finish the year strong and therefore as we all know what runs downhill, it ends up in our laps.

Then the financial pressure so many face, are staggering. The pressures to donate to those less fortunate. There are also others like food and drink which can be done to excess. And those struggling maybe not enough to enjoy the season with a full stomach.

My advice to you is enjoy this year. I don’t see things improving in the next few IMHO.

But on a more positive note. Find a young person and try to live in the spirit they have for the season. It’s infectious.