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Compliment

What was the best compliment you’ve received? – A fairly simple question from the daily prompt.

I’m not sure which is exactly the best, but when my children say I love you Dad or my grandchildren say I love you, Papa from doing something for them, that is the best. It can be as simple as sharing a snack with the young ones or sharing a meal with the kids. Usually with the young ones, it’s from spending time playing with them. Or the kids saying thanks for our family week at the beach.

When friends belly laughs at my humor that’s a great compliment. When a friend tells me years later how important some photos I took and gave him are to him.

I haven’t been on the professional side for a while now, but I used to like when managers were perplexed in how I saw systems in trouble so early or how I fixed things so fast at times. Or when we discovered fixes that weren’t in the manual or tech data in the early years before the internet. I remember vendors coming to us at times to see what and how we were using their equipment or software.

Cool, animals. Photo by Mike Hartley


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Compliment

What was the best compliment you’ve received? – An interesting thing to reflect given to us by the daily writing prompt.

I guess life has been good for me because I’ve received some nice ones. So, this very lucky person will share a few below

Family

The first one that came to mind is the one I got yesterday from my granddaughter, “You’re fun Papa, I love you.”

Almost simultaneously I thought about my own children saying, “thanks for being a great dad, I love you.” Followed by big hugs.

From my better half – “I love you”

A few of my in-laws who shared in the caregiving of their parents thanked me for stepping up and helping in their care and sharing our home. It was my brother-in-law whose words were preceded by a firm handshake as he expressed his thanks for taking such good and loving care of them and stepping up so much. And every so often he will thank me again. I know it meant something special to him.

Professionally –

I’ve gotten lots of nice complements over my career and those are the things that really kept me going over my career. That personal appreciation for the hard work and knowledge. But one always makes me smile because I finally felt I had the admiration of my future boss.

A major system had gone down on my way home and I had to turn around and come back. None of the UNIX Admin leads on it were available. This is back when we still had pagers. Directors were all around and furious and wanted the system online YESTERDAY. I sat down and got the thing back up but I ignored what I was being told to do by the Director because I knew it was WRONG. He wanted the system to be brought up in the wrong order. I pretended to do what he wanted while doing what I knew was right.

The Marine manager of that group called in just as the system was coming online and asked what happened. I told him and I believe his complement was “Good job, nice Balls, damn good job, show me how you pulled it off tomorrow” with excitement I never heard from him. He hired me about a year or two later as a UNIX Admin.

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The Best

The Daily Writing prompt asks – What was the best compliment you’ve received?

The first thing that came to mind was compliments about our children’s happiness and behavior when they were young. No specific one lept out, because it was a long time ago when they were young, it was just that sense of pride that felt good when they came.

I’ve gotten some nice compliments at work over the years. Ones that were extremely special and touching. Many performance reviews but the more important ones from co-workers whom I admired.

Right near the top would be the compliment “You’re a great friend, you’re like a brother to me.”

But these two are the tops for me. They are important because you have to work hard at it and earn it. And those compliments are when my better half says to me “I Love You” and when my children say “You’re a great dad.”

Nothing like a father-daughter walk. Photo by Mike Hartley