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Cool to me

What’s the coolest thing you’ve ever found (and kept)? – Asks the daily writing prompt. In my answer last year, I focused on some seashells in a post called Things Kept

This year I’ll share another thing. In going through some of dad’s things many years ago after he passed and I found two postcards that I keep over my desk. They were addressed to me when I was barely a year old. They were from my dad when he was in St Albans Naval hospital in New York.

My mom must have tucked them away after he passed. The ink is fading badly on one. It’s one of the few things I have with his writing to me. On the address he wrote out my full name with middle initial. But started the card with – Mike, this is your first postcard. I love you and your wonderful mommy. Don’t get in bed with Mommy. – And he signed it, Jim.

The second says – Dear Mike, Daddy is thinking of you and hope you are being a good fella for your mommy. Kiss mommy and little Lorri for me. Be a good little boy and lots of love. Dad

I’m not even sure why they have come to mean so much to me. Maybe it’s the time we didn’t have when I was an infant and toddler and then at 9, he was gone. The time we had after that was the most difficult time in his life. And that is saying something being he grew up in the depression, enlisted in the Navy a year before WWII started and was also in the Korean War and went on Operation Deep Freeze.

I know postcards don’t sound cool. But to me it’s kind of special, sort of like a connection to him from the start.

I’ve also found several ribbons and medals and photos of his years in service. But I found an old box also that I believe was his father’s because it had things from WWI in it including a Purple Heart.

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Things kept

What’s the coolest thing you’ve ever found (and kept)? – The Daily Writing prompt asks this fine morning.

As I glanced at my office, I found the answer.

We were at the beach with our two very young children. I was having a rough time as a new parent, in a very stressful job working way too many hours and still developing a relationship with my better half.

I was running my hands through the sand for a few seconds I wasn’t keeping an eye on the youngins and found a shell, then another. The first was smooth and round the second kind of triangle in shape, thick with a rough top and edges. Then two smaller shells. I thought to myself this is us. Me being the one that’s rough around the edges.

I put them in my pockets and remember thinking I’m taking this back to work and using it as my support system. I’ve had those shells on my desk for almost 4 decades now, regardless of what office I’m in. They now sit on the shelf above my desk and I see them when I stand or sit as I did for years at work.

Some periods I looked at these shells a lot. When things got tough on the job, I would look at these shells and remind myself of the family and suck it up and not worry about having to pick up work from a slacking co-worker or not tell a superior they don’t know their ass from a hole in the ground or on some terrible days, not punch someone’s lights out.

But the more I looked at them the more they gave me peace of mind and strength. They made me smile for many decades as they do now when I glance at them and they make all that other nonsense seem like small stuff.

My Family

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Have a great morning. I’ll be back soon.