Where to live. One of the toughest questions in life. My better half and I were discussing the choices we have made. In the beginning, it was being close enough to our parents to help them. Then to be close enough to our own children to help them out and be able to see our grandchildren.

Would it be nice to live at the beach or out in the country a bit more, sure would. But only for a short time. Because the distance to loved ones and friends would be greater and create a whole new set of challenges I’d be uncomfortable with.

I love being part of my grandchildren’s lives. It’s tough sometimes but very gratifying. I know being a parent wore me out. Trying to keep up with grandkids requires some resources you have to dig deep for as a senior. I’ve injured myself a few times thinking I’m a kid when playing with them.

But oh, the joy in hearing them laugh or the determination you see in them to get around you to destroy the Lincoln Log tower I just built without them seeing. Or how they settle in your arms as you read them a story or 10. Or the chance to help mold them and impart knowledge and skills.

I’ve watched the dynamics of families who live close to their children and ones who live great distances. I’m making no judgement on other decisions, but I see at times those who do live that distance, longing for their children’s and grandchild’s contact.

I see the 2022 it reported: Nearly six in 10 young adults live within 10 miles of where they grew up, and eight in 10 live within 100 miles, according to a new study by researchers at the U.S. Census Bureau and Harvard University.

All I know is when I get a text saying, “do you want to meet at the park?” it’s nice to say yes and be there.

Random Thoughts of the Day

• There are those who have to finish first, and can’t just enjoy being in the game and contest.
• Excitement and anticipation. College basketball season is about to begin again.
• The more, bad decisions you make, the tougher it is to move past them.
• Our ability to ignore how fragile life is can be remarkable.