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What will your life be like in three years? – Deep question from the daily writing prompt.

I read last year’s answer to this same question and it was my idea and dream post called Life Plus 3. And after year one we are on track with most of that.

Today though, I’m not thinking that far ahead. I’m trying to live in the present as much as possible. Decisions and actions we take or don’t take today and tomorrow all factor in on that 3-year projection. And so many things could happen between now and then that may be out of our control.

It’s fun thinking long term.

Triple the Pleasure. Photo by Mike Hartley

Those used to be some of my favorite questions for people when I was doing performance reviews. It’s especially good for young people to think about. We would talk about short term/yearly goals in the meeting but near the end I would ask where do you see yourself in 3-5 years and then in 10 years?

It was fun watching people respond to that. Some at those younger ages hadn’t thought beyond getting out of a review alive. Others might talk about a personal passion. I had a couple guys working for me whose dream was to be a musician.

I know one of them did get their wish. He is very successful (David Sitek). Worked for me at Patuxent Publishing Company as a photo reproduction tech.

It’s good to evaluate those long-term goals regularly. They do change over a lifetime.

My goal in the next 3 minutes is to get something to eat. In about 3 hours I’m going to catch another hour or two of sleep. In 3 days, I’ll see my son and grandson. In 3 weeks, the house will start to fill with the smells of Thanksgiving prep. In 3 months, I have a important doctors appointment. That’s as far as I can look ahead this morning.

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Life plus 3

What will your life be like in three years? – More dreaming questions from the Daily Writing prompt.

Alive and healthy I hope. If my loved ones, friends, and I have our health everything else is cake.

I’ll be enjoying my elementary and preschool grandchildren, teaching them the arts and if the knees still work I’ll be outside playing with them all.

By my better half’s side and looking forward to a trip to the beach together. Still retired and pursuing all my interests of today and picking up a few more in that period.

We will still be in our home, I’ll probably still be cutting the grass and laying in the hammock afterward.

There is an excellent chance I will have modified my Miata a bit by then. Which means I’ll be enjoying driving even more.

To have that same thirst and energy to go out and get that next great shot, start that next carving, or begin the next drawing.

I hope to be struggling to find spots for all the artwork I haven’t given away to family, friends, and strangers yet that I’ve completed over the past 3 years.

Sitting back at family events listening to my children update me on their careers, parenting challenges, and all the funny stuff that happens. (just as I do today).

There are also some tough changes 3 years from now. One of my best friends will be moving further away. Not out of driving distance but it will be a trek. Another one of my best friends might also be moving in that timeframe.

If I keep up the work I started this year, my body should be in excellent shape and tone.

My age might say this

Photo by Mike Hartley

But my mind and body say this

The dogs name is probably Blue. Photo by Mike Hartley

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