What do you enjoy doing most in your leisure time? – The daily writing prompt asks today.
I like to create. I like to eat. I like to laugh. I like to spend time with my better half. I like to write and photograph. I like to write to my children and grandchildren if I can’t see them. I like to exercise. I like driving. I like to listen to music.
Sorry about the short response this morning, there is snow to shovel.
Word is there is a white out on the way in Central Maryland. Just a little moisture coming. So, I’ll think of spring.
I guess I can deal with a few drops of moisture.
But after stepping outside a few minutes ago it’s the cold I’m worried about. I guess I should make sure the batteries on the cameras are charged because this kind of weather takes a toll on them fast.
Random Thoughts of the Day
Our children again gave my wife the wonderful gift of time for her birthday. They came yesterday and spent the night and morning with us. I spent the afternoon cleaning up and recovering. I love playing with grandkids so much. And the 9-month-old girl is so precious and expressive she reminds me how special life is.
My spirits are up this evening after catching up on some rest. I figure I’ll be out in the middle of the night shoveling a bit depending on how fast and much is falling.
Which reminds me if you don’t see me for a few days we may have lost power. Otherwise, I’ll be right here spitting out some snow pictures and thought of the day.
Random Thoughts of the Day
I’ve always thought of life as one continuous thing as I was going through it. I never broke it down in stages. Maybe because it’s been kind of scrambled. I was doing a lot more mature things when I was young and sometimes behaving like a youth when much older. And too busy most other times to be concerned with anything other than surviving the next day.
As I was working throughout my career I wasn’t thinking about retirement till the last 4-5 years of it. And that was because I wasn’t happy where I found myself at the end of the run. It wasn’t that I disliked what I did though.
There were a few factors like the night shift which after many years was getting to me like it didn’t when I was younger. The new ownership and changes in upper management were something that I also thought was going in the wrong direction and the personal feel and draw it once had was gone. As were many old friends.
Here I am now 2 years and 3 weeks into what is coined “Retirement” and I’m loving it more each day. In some ways I’m still adapting to it. Sleep is still an issue. I go back and forth between establishing some routines and then going freestyle.
I think the word retirement gives some negative connotations. In some ways it could make one think of someone no longer being of use or being put out to pasture. That knowledge or value was no longer keeping up. Or maybe no longer working on anything.
I do know that even though I have Retired on my LinkedIn profile, I still get a lot of contacts about people wanting me to come back to work. Thanks, but no thanks, I’ve found some things I’d much rather spend the rest of my life doing and pursuing.
In some ways I didn’t think about retirement as I was going along for a few reasons. The ride was a wonderful one and why get off a train, that is so fun. And of course, the financial needs of providing for a family.
But the incentive I also had periodically was people my age and younger passing away. Not that I hadn’t had my own personal wake up calls a few times, but the balance of having enough money vs the time in life left to enjoy a few more days with my better half and children was swinging towards the latter.
Wanting to spend time with children and grandchildren, old and new friends was overwhelming. And experiencing some places, adventures, foods, loves, feelings and sights that work couldn’t make time for is something I finally have prioritized.
Just having the time to work on my favorite hobbies while doing these other things has been a great opportunity that not everyone is able to enjoy. So, I feel fortunate. I have friends my age and younger that probably can’t afford to retire.
We won’t be jet setting around the world. Don’t have the money or desire but some trips are possible, I hope. And we are smart enough to know that we can enjoy a day trip as much as an extravagant vacation.
The daily writing prompt asks – Name an attraction or town close to home that you still haven’t got around to visiting.
I’d like to get to the National Air and Space Museum Steven F. Udvar-Hazy Center. If you would like to see large aviation this is the place. The Concorde, A B-29, The space shuttle Discovery, and the SR-71 Blackbird spy plane. Plus, admission is free. Parking is $15 I hear.
I’d also like to see the National Museum of the American Indian in Washington DC. I’d better get to this one quickly the way someone is trying to erase history.
Finding the right spot in life is never ending search.
I’ll be finding my peaceful spot on Sunday while shoveling snow. It’s always so quiet outside early in the morning. I’m always the first one outside. Especially when it’s going to be a deep snow, I’ll do it in a few sessions. Now if the back will hold up for the duration, we will be good.
The weather is about to turn to crap. So don’t leave the door open or be a pushover for the cold wind.
A mishmash of doors from small towns near me.
As always, thanks to the creator of Thursday Doors and please follow the link to Dan’s site – No Facilities for far more talented posts. I hope you’re continuing to feel better Dan.
I’m sliding into another Thursday Doors a day late, unprepared and having to dive into the archive again, so I thought it appropriate to start with a sliding door.
This door is closed but they also post a sign that says Be Happy in the window.
Watch your step outside that second story door.
Isn’t anything open today?
Photos by Mike Hartley
The daily writing prompt wants me to – List five things you do for fun.
Be with my children and grandchildren. Spend time with my better half. Drive my roadster. My artistic hobbies. And spending time with friends.
No, it’s not the 4th of July. But I still like the burst of color and if you use your imagination, you can hear a boom. I’m not feeling as spry as this flower and there is still much to do today.
Interesting, it will be almost 10 years to the day that this area had its last big snowfall. 2016 was 2 feet or more. I’m not sure just like anyone isn’t about this weekend but each day the target on us seems to grow.
I’ll need gas for the generator which I’ll get today. I also have a few other tasks before test starting it Saturday afternoon. Then I’ll bring it back inside and hope it isn’t needed.
The shovels are at the ready. I’ll be doing it in stages. Hopefully it will be light and I can plow it.
In editing some photos this morning, I ran across this image just as I was contemplating either a pop tart or piece of cinnamon toast for breakfast.
The waffles, strawberries, and grapes look more appealing than that pop tart in the foil wrapper. Saturday I’ll be cooking a big breakfast for the family. Well, I’ll be helping with the bacon, sausage, toast and muffins, preparation and cleanup. My better half is making the main dish.
I almost didn’t recognize this as our kitchen. It’s got to be almost 10 years old. The table is gone, the walls are not green, and I know the floor has changed. My better half redesigned our kitchen, and it’s beautiful. I know she wants to get into the basement, but I’ve kept her at bay so far.
Random Thoughts of the Day
If you could make your pet understand one thing, what would it be? – Asks the daily writing prompt.
The one thing would be that they are loved. And yes, I believe I’ve made all my pets understand that. And I’m glad that skill and ability is in my children also.
This girl was our most recent love and yes, she did love us. She was so affectionate and playful and even though she was our son’s dog, we treated her as our own. She passed recently so our hearts are still heavy.
This was still an active fire station growing up and even when I worked in the town in the 70s. Those sirens would blare through our building and especially the pressroom when the loading dock door was open, which it was most of the time unless it was cold.
That was about the only noise that could drown out the roar of the press. I always liked that the guys would come in from the pressroom to get the plates for the next run, and they would forget they weren’t standing by the press, and they would yell, and then catch themselves and laugh.
In 1977 the Montgomery Road fire station opened. I missed the sirens when they left.
Today it’s The Wine Bin. A great store that anchors the top end of Main Street.
Had a very productive day in many aspects on Tuesday. Lots of logistics and orders taken care of. Spent some time editing and uploading images, added some images to a few picture walls I’m working on and got dinner ready.
WordPress just sent a note that this is my 12th anniversary with them. Time does fly. I’ve had fun sharing some photos and thoughts. I like this community.
Our grandchild sitting got postponed so I’ve had a lot of time to devote to the computer and get some exercise. I’m so glad I have that treadmill with this bitter cold outside.
This old body and very cold temps aren’t a good mix. I’m starting to look forward to that workout like I do working on the blog. Each day, every day.
The daily writing prompt is asking – Write about your first name, its meaning, significance, etymology, etc.
I think I did this before, but I’m not even interested in looking that post up. Or looking up again what etymology means again.
My first name is Mike. Some other first names I’m called by friends, Mikey, Doctor, The Judge, Dirty and Admiral. And no, I’m not explaining any of them.
I’m also Dad and Papa to my children and grandchildren.
I’m sure in some of my less than stellar moments in life some co-workers or even my better half have had some choice names for me, but I didn’t hear them so we’re good.
A fitting name (The Capital Wheel) for something going round in circles overlooking DC.
Those on the plane could be smart for getting out.
I didn’t know I had so many shots of the wheel.
I’m drawn to Ferris wheels for some reason.
I’ll have to do a cruise on the Potomac River someday.
Photos by Mike Hartley
A good Tuesday morning to all. I guess most of you are back at work and school today. Feeling kind of inspired again today myself, but I no longer have those commitments. Not that I don’t continue to learn and keep active, just no job or classes to attend.
Music always helps things move in the right direction. Do you remember the days when the DJ on the radio had control over your playlist? Whoa, I just dated myself.
I was just thinking back when I started to listen to music on the AM radio in the car in the early 60s. There was still a record player in the house that played 78 rpm vinyl records. And I still have some of those from my parents. The holiday music was nice, but they had some big band and orchestra records that were kind of upbeat.
I believe in 66 I got a 33-rpm record player and stereo. Music took on a whole new meaning because of two things. The sound quality on FM and more progressive formats introducing new music and albums instead of early Beatles singles on 45 rpm disk.
I’ve gotten so tired over my lifetime replacing my music. Albums, 8 tracks, cassettes, CDs, iPods, MP3s, iTunes and Streaming.
When I found out that the new models of the car I like don’t come with CD players, I decided to keep mine for much longer. It’s got all the technology I need so I’ll just rebuild it as it ages.
I like listening to instrumental music when I paint. I like classic rock most of the time but especially when driving and exercising. I like ballads when reflecting on something. There are a couple songs (Hey Jude, Wish You Were Here, House of Pain), that give me pause and make me miss some close people.
Blues and Motown sometimes while writing. Maybe some hard rock while photo editing. Maybe that is why I’m so ruthless when first going through fresh images. It does help my pace though.
The daily writing assignments wants to know – What’s your dream Job? – A little late for that question for this guy. I’m retired, but I’m still working hard in many ways. And I guess you could call it my dream job.
I’ve become my own little publisher here. I’m enjoying some photography and arts. I’m my own event coordinator and exercise mentor. During the warm months I’m a roadster driver with the top down.
I’m working hard on becoming a grandfather the grandchildren remember and admire. I’m studying the balance of exercise and challenges while acknowledging my age and not hurting myself.
A chef hat is occasionally worn, and I hope to add party host to the list of titles I’m working on.
I’m still playing landscaping crew and home handyman. I dream of subbing these out someday.
A great meal was had at Kelsey’s Restaurant Irish Pub on Sunday afternoon. We started with Crab Toast which is always great. I had the Wagyu Smash Burger with onion straws, and my better half had the Veggie Bowl with Steak. And both of those were excellent.
Service was good as usual and they had the early NFL game on all the sets, so life was good as the food.
We did go there with a bit of a heavy heart. My better half lost her uncle, and they used to eat there with her parents when visiting from Philly. So, maybe the 4 of them have a table together again.
When you see a review it’s at a place that we would return to anytime. I’m not going to do bad reviews. As mom said, if you don’t have anything good to say about someone or something it’s better to not say anything at all.
I never thought about living in a police state. One where freedoms are illusions. But that certainly seems to be the direction we may be headed in. Calling out the military will be the last step. It will just expand from there and the election will be in jeopardy.
If I’m not mistaken the term Marshell Law comes to mind. Hey, I’ve been shocked about the last 12 months and the failure of both congress and senate. And they say take people at their word and he has said to beat, shoot or hang those that oppose him.
I guess it’s possible. There are countries where that is the case. Ones controlled by criminals.
The current administration is the closest thing in my time to feeling that. Basically, if you disagree with anything he proposes, says or does, you are the enemy. And I’m fine with that. Never thought I’d be labeled the enemy in my own country but hey, this isn’t the first Civil War.
And I have no problem being the opposition to the orange one. Bullies are never as tough as they pretend to be. We can make a difference.
Sometimes words provide an insight into life and purpose that we know is there but not defined well. I went back and found some words that I think provide those insights from the man whose day we celebrate today.
Important Quotes from MLK I like.
It is always the right time to do the right thing.
May I stress the need for courageous, intelligent, and dedicated leadership… Leaders of sound integrity. Leaders not in love with publicity, but in love with justice. Leaders not in love with money, but in love with humanity. Leaders who can subject their particular egos to the greatness of the cause.
The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy.
The SILENCE of the good people is more DANGEROUS than the BRUTALITY of the bad people
We may have all come on different ships, but we’re in the same boat now.
Never, never be afraid to do what’s right, especially if the well-being of a person or animal is at stake. Society’s punishments are small compared to the wounds we inflict on our soul when we look the other way.
History will have to record that the greatest tragedy of this period of social transition was not the strident clamor of the bad people, but the appalling silence of the good people. Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere. We are caught in an inescapable network of mutuality, tied in a single garment of destiny. Whatever affects one directly, affects all indirectly. He who passively accepts evil is as much involved in it as he who helps to perpetrate it. He who accepts evil without protesting against it is really cooperating with it.
Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere.
Life’s most persistent and urgent question is, ‘What are you doing for others?’
No work is insignificant. All labor that uplifts humanity has dignity.
If you can’t be a sun, be a star. For it isn’t by size that you win or fail. Be the best of whatever you are.
The daily writing prompt wants to know – What makes a good leader? – A question I answered in a post from my own experience as a leader and being managed by other leaders called History Has Taught Me.
I liked reading that again. One of my better observations. It took me back to some days and situations that I tied to the word leadership. Being retired now I’m leading myself and maybe the family still.
But I’ve thought about getting more involved in some causes and maybe some of my background could be helpful.
I will add that what we have parading as leadership here in the states is a joke and should be removed before we have the second coming of the 1940s. And a message to the rest of the world. While it may not seem like it, many of us are working to change this direction.
Bigfoot beach flash.
No photoshop, just an interesting crop and sculpture.
I was looking for a sunrise this morning but that doesn’t seem to be on the agenda. When I checked the webcams at Ocean City this morning I saw overcast and rain. Out my window there is light snow mixed with rain. Crap.
I’m missing my sunrise this morning and that is not good for the inspiration. I get a lot of energy from the sun.
Looks like I’ll have to find the inspiration within this day. A good start was made on the treadmill already and I hope to keep the exercise going strong. I’ve also done some studio work today and have a hundred or so shots to download and edit.
We are having a meal out today so maybe a food review later. Certainly, some painting today. Maybe even a little football watching. What’s not to like about this day.
I remember this question from before. The daily prompt asks – If you could un-invent something, what would it be?
Yep, found my answer to this from back in 2024 in a post titled Take It Back and it’s pretty much the same. Except I’d add that I’d un-invent this question.
So instead, I’ll answer the question – What should I accomplish today. I’d like to take my better half out to lunch or dinner. If there is snow, I’d like to snap a few frames. I’m going to knock out 2-3 more designs and maybe another 15-20 prints.
At least an hour on the treadmill. Watch some football and continue the basement cleaning. Write or call my children. Call one of my best friends who just returned from vacation. Crank up the fireplace and maybe fall asleep in front of it.
Of course I’ll write, download, edit and even pick up a brush. Maybe continue sanding down 4 wooden mugs that I’m going to do some carving with.
Providing I’m given the privilege of waking up later this morning, I hope to accomplish this and much more.
There is a saying “Strength in Numbers”. Time to make it felt before it goes off the rails.
In a photo like this it’s hard to tell if that steel is hot or cold to the touch. In some videos, some things become very clear to see.
My Hero today is my better half. See made brownies.
Okay, who stole the beach? I used to like these walkways to the beach at Bethany before storms took them away. Nature gives and nature takes away. Maryland and Delaware spend tens of millions of dollars on beach replenishment almost every year.
Luckily these and other efforts sustain these beach towns we all enjoy. And while storms have certainly been severe, none have been of the destruction you see with the hurricanes in south. The thin beaches and dune lines get taken away or pushed back often as it is.
I fear what I see happening in the Outer Banks, possibly happening here one day. I just hope it’s not in my lifetime.
You might have noticed I haven’t been crowing about my favorite University of Maryland Basketball team as much in previous posts. I still love them, I knew it would be a tough year replacing the whole team and coaches. I’m still going to get to games. I’m enjoying the regular season because chances of making March Madness go down early in the season with key injuries, but our chances were still slim. I have no less enthusiasm for them. I’ve adjusted expectations. Something a lot of fans do, because you can’t win every year.
Random Thoughts of the Day
The daily prompt asks – Can you share a positive example of where you’ve felt loved?
The most recent location I’ve felt loved was at my son’s house when my grandson saw me and was so excited to hug me, he tripped coming up the stairs. Notice how I interpreted that literally.
I’ve felt loved when a stranger smiles at me. I’ve felt loved when someone lets me in on a crowded highway. I’ve felt loved when someone said they loved a photo I shot. I’ve felt loved when good friends hugged me. I’ve felt loved when I get an extra pickle slice with my Reuben. I’ve felt loved when I get a drawing/painting from my grandchildren. I’ve felt loved when that bag of candy hearts comes home unexpectedly from the market. I’ve felt loved when someone de-iced my windows and warmed my car up. I’ve felt loved when my daughter squeezes my hand.
Feeling loved is important to everyone. If it isn’t, you’re really missing out on a big part of life. There are times in life where you don’t feel loved and those are painful days.
Feeling loved is a complex thing. It can be spoken and unspoken. Many actions express love from a simple touch to a note that says I love you to a romantic weekend away.
My parents have passed long ago but I still feel their love in the faces in the pictures of them I look at often. My children are adults now and have their own families but our love for them is just as strong as it was day 1 of their lives.
That is one of the toughest parts about your love for your children. You have to let them go and have their own lives and families and share them. But in every note, or text or call or visit that love comes through, which carries the minutes of the day without them with love.
Love can ebb and flow. It grows and diminishes and grows again. Have a smile on your face and be ready to catch it.
The daily writing assignments asks – Where can you reduce clutter in your life? Not a bad question and one I’ve been pondering this year. Sounds like one I’ve also answered before. No problem, time moves on and conditions change.
I’ll start with my office. Then move to my workroom, next to the space between my ears. Oh, maybe my bedroom dresser top. Otherwise, we are good.
Now if someone looks back and I’ve said the exact same thing, I’m not making much progress, am I?
Sometimes we are good at controlling clutter. Other times we are less successful.
The sun has set. The dinner consumed. The days chores behind us. My better half is asleep early. The feels like temp is -9 degrees so it’s too cold to venture outside.
I guess I’ll have to be content with the tools in my office and basement to be happy this evening.
Random Thoughts of the Day
Which pond do you swim in. One might be safer, but the other may present more opportunities. We make these decisions about jobs throughout our lives. I might not have made the right ones from time to time, but I guess it’s okay in the end.
In some ways I thought I was through with those choices when I retired. But when I think about how to use time, it’s the same way. Do I choose a comfortable path or maybe challenge myself more. The calm or choppy waters.
I find it harder to leave my comfort zone the older I get. I have to fight that and challenge myself more.
I’m digging into the archive again. Not that I’ve been lazy, just a few other things taking priority. But I’m on a mission to be here regularly and start a few more challenges this year. I’ll come with a stronger selection next week.
As always, thanks to the creator of Thursday Doors and please follow the link to Dan’s site – No Facilities for far more talented posts of this week’s doors and much more.
I can’t let the week pass without commenting on how many NFL coaches have been shown the DOOR. Or have chosen the exit stage left door.
I’ve got to admit, the first door on Time Bomb Tattoos is missing in action.
And this door with the no trespassing sign on it, with the don’t walk crossing light and traffic guard. Pretty building for not wanting business.
Nature’s Front Door
You Rang?
Usually there is a candle on the table I work at with my easel. I was closing up the other night and had turned off the lights and was walking away when I noticed I hadn’t blown it out. I walked back and put my head down to do it and saw my dad’s flag in its case about 10 feet behind it on the wall.
Took a few moments to think about him.
After I smiled, picked up the camera from the coffee table that was acting as a studio spot and took this shot before heading to bed.
Oh jeez, another question from the daily writing prompt that doesn’t inspire much enthusiasm. What is your favorite animal? – Cat – Always have been and always will.
So, time for my own made-up questions.
How much wall space in your home is taken up by kids or grandkids pictures, artworks, awards, certificates, handprints, height charts on doorframes?
We have quite a few pictures up in frames upstairs. We have 3-bedroom doorframes that measure the height of our constantly growing grandchildren. The fridge has pictures. We have a digital picture frame. In my office I have half a wall of grandkids artwork and another wall with a collage of 200 family pictures so far, it’s still a work in progress.
Here is another question. What was my favorite quote I heard recently?
A Ford UAW worker shouted “pedophile protector” at Trump at a visit to the plant in Detroit. More guts than most reporters.
And the last one. How many bobbleheads are in your home?
I believe we have 3. Not counting me.
This might be a question you’re careful in answering from the daily writing prompt. In what ways do you communicate online?
I use email quite a bit. Very little Zoom. Little to no chat anymore. Through this blog mainly. An occasional comment on Facebook. With other bloggers with comments on their topics and observations.
I hope to communicate with my images through my photo site. A work in progress.
Obviously support for everything from your doctors to your dishwashers has moved online. And with AI the chance of getting an actual human being to help you is getting closer to 0% each day. So, everyone is communicating with businesses, governments, hospitals and pharmacies, ordering food and everything else under the sun online now.
I’m thinking of reducing my fingerprint online. I have an Instagram account but I’m dropping that because I never use it. LinkedIn is about to go this month or next because I’m retired.
I’d love to drop Facebook, but I keep up with people I worked with for a long time, my car clubs and some old school and neighborhood kids I grew up with. But I’ve cut back on it a good bit. I comment on almost nothing because there are too many hateful uneducated people willing to drag down most meaningful conversation. I will send individual messages.
Good communication is being taken away from society. I refuse to go to those self-checkout isles because I like talking to people taking my money and wishing them a good day. Hopefully, exchanging smiles and maybe some other pleasantries.
I walked out of McDonalds a while back when I realized there was nobody to take my order other than a kiosk. I don’t order online, I still call it in, and I pick it up.
I guess I should count startling my wife as she comes home at the front door with my voice coming through the ring camera is online communication. I like that one.
Make time to Communicate with Nature.
Feeling at peace with myself early this Wednesday morning. Both relaxed and excited. The anticipation of seeing some of my grandchildren this week is putting a smile on my face. Spent some time with one of my best friends, Tuesday evening identifying and fixing the problems of the world.
I was tempted to do a food review. We went to a local spot that we know has good food, but other things bring it down. And I’ve vowed to just do reviews on establishments that leave me feeling good on a lot of levels. Therefore, I can say positive things I like about the restaurant and make everyone happy and maybe not misjudge someone having a bad day.
Unfortunately, this isn’t the case here because it’s the same issue repeatedly. Too bad because the kitchen does a nice job. So maybe a good food review tomorrow.
So, no more words, just a picture to bring some calm to a tough day. I’ve got to get to work on the daily writing prompt.
Random Thoughts of the Morning
Dentist and Doctors. We all see them, well at least we should. Recently the dentist asked me to come back for work that must be scheduled to get done. I’ve never had more than a few cavities in my lifetime. I need my first crown I’m told. Anyway, I asked questions about this procedure and the reasons for it and they satisfied me.
In a sense that’s a no brainer. But other decisions get more difficult as time goes on. I’ve seen it with our parents and older friend. From tough decisions like hip and knee replacements to more serious ones like treatments for serious health challenges.
Health to me comes down to quality of life. I’m trying to prepare myself all the time for adjustments I may have to make. For instance, my hands one day won’t be able to type with the fluid motion I once had. I already noticed I’m not as fast as I used to be. I may have to use voice recognition at some point in the distant future.
Mobility has also changed. When younger, there wasn’t obstacle or path that couldn’t be overcome. Now I stick to better trails because I don’t need a torn ligament, broken ankle, kneecap or hip. I even use the treadmill some days that it’s nice outside just because each step is predictable and not challenged by me looking around and not watching where I’m going.
A while back life started being about adaptability to change. Not to just those external things but within your own body and mind. Of course, we are the lucky ones. Many face these challenges early and have lived a lifetime with a disability or disease and persevered.
While each of us will be faced with our own challenges and decisions, we all have to make a collective decision on how to move ahead with healthcare. By not making a decision, we are making one to leave a significant part of the population without healthcare while at the same time making hospitals and ones who have insurance pay for those uninsured because they will go to hospitals for treatment covered or not.
It’s a moral, financial, logistical and industry discission. It’s too complex to be taken as separate pieces. In my opinion it must be fixed as a whole. It’s going to still include painful decisions. Do we spread the cost for those in need of the greatest financial care due to the complexity of their illness or disease. Or do we change them much more for insurance, making the cost for others less.
How do we structure prescription and insurance industries. How do all the hospitals survive, do the profitable ones share with the rural ones struggling? Same with people, those decisions are being made every day in every country including this one. Many different levels of care are available to those with the money for it than those without resources.
There are some brilliant articles from many scholars on the issue of healthcare. Many with some good ideas. But it comes down to you and I and how we vote to solve this. I don’t see anyone on any side pushing any plan that will get to the heart of the issue because it all involves tough choices.
So, we push the broken barrel down the road for another year while the system gets worse. And more people go bankrupt each year from medical bills, (you should look at those numbers). Hospitals continue to struggle till they shut down. People in the profession get burnt out or don’t have the supplies, tools or meds needed or aren’t paid for the incredible job they do.
And when lots of people go bankrupt, hospitals and doctors don’t get paid so they pass it on to those of us still able to pay.
It seems we’re starting from a strong point. The following is an assumption on my part. I’m guessing we have some of the best hospitals, doctors, equipment, prescription meds, research, caregivers, Ems, insurance people and systems in place for healthcare in the world. How we work on it, change it, modify it again, or just push it down the road will say allot about us as a society and the leadership we choose to address it.
We need to talk about this and many other issues. We need leaders who have plans that can adapt and modify to make a better plan and then get consensus and implement.
Found this link below for the Maryland folks wanting to know about what is going around the state now with flu, covid and rsv.
The daily prompt has asked me to – Think back on your most memorable road trip.
Okay, I did that. What a time. Most details are classified as are most of my memorable road trips with friends. We were young, our early 20s. Maryland to Daytona Beach Florida in my 74 Camaro with stops in Greenville SC and Vienna Ga on the way down. What I can say is that trip was the week the movie Animal House was released in 1978, and we saw it on the way down near Clemson University on day 2 of our 11-day adventure. The rest of the trip was spent topping that.
Some of the simplest road trips are the most pleasurable. These are with my better half and are so enjoyable. We have taken many road trips to Western Maryland and some to the Eastern shore of Maryland. Both very beautiful places. Sometimes day trips sometimes overnight. Sometimes a few days trip to different spots.
I think back to the memories of taking our children on vacations, mostly to the beach. I still can’t figure out how I packed all that stuff and people into a small car. But if the kids had a good time, it made our trip.
If it’s up to me, I prefer a road trip, no planes, ships, buses or trains. I don’t mind trains but the other three I can leave. I love to drive so road trips are my favorite form of travel.
This year I’m going to make a lot of road trips in the Miata. Mostly pointed east towards the shore but many other destinations also.
If I may add one thing. Could we all just try to get along on the roads and stop trying to kill each other for a car length or two advantage.
Some things hold power over me. The call of a beach is one of them. But what is it? The sound of the waves is lovely. The smell of the salt air is unique. The warmth of the water in the summer months is a welcome feeling. Nope, it’s something else.
But those feet touching the sand as the flip flops are slipped off. The feeling of the ground molding to the shape of your foot. The sudden tug on the calf as you’re using leg muscles not challenged on a hard surface.
Warmth from the sand heated by the morning sun while the cool breeze is still coming off the water. Kids excited voices and screams as the touching of the sand signals the start of a beach day. The many toys and buckets lugged to the beach by parents and grandparents occasionally dropping and being picked up.
That older couple walking towards the beach that suddenly join hands as they hit the sand. The teenagers and young adults running as footballs and Frisbees are thrown around on the way to the beach with the random towel snapping at each other.
The rabbit or fox sitting on the sand dune watching people walk the path to the beach. The blankets and beach towels are all laid out. The sound of music (loosely defined) fills the air. And then begins the endless trips to the shore and back to the family area of the beach to build the foundation of the Great Wall of Maryland. Well until the kids decide to play Godzilla and knock it to pieces while laughing their heads off.
And then at times it’s the coolness of the sand that is so embracing. That early morning walk as I turn on my camera as I touch the sand an hour before sunrise waiting for the morning painting of the sky. Or that evening walk with my better half on the cool sands after a nice dinner, while a warm summer breeze makes it a beautiful evening as the moon rises over the water.
Maybe catch some of the fishing fleet leaving port. If you’re out early you can catch the surfers entering their realm.
Or the father putting up the tent staking out the prime spot on the beach.
There is nothing I don’t like about sand. I don’t care if I get caught in a wave and it’s in my shorts. I don’t care if kids accidentally kick it in my hair. I don’t mind if I’m covered head toe in it when I leave the beach. I don’t even care that the car is covered with it and needs a deep cleaning upon return from the shore.
Sand is very cool with me. I could use some sand, but weather people are talking about snow.
What snack would you eat right now? – I was hoping for better quality questions from the daily writing prompt.
A Hershey’s cherry filled chocolate kiss. Maybe 2 of them.
Now onto something more pressing. A good question to answer. How about this – Do you think you could write a year of fresh and interesting daily prompts?
I think I could, but I’d have to be honest there might be a few clunkers in there just like the questions we get now and then. It’s hard to write anything good. You just have to keep trying.
Or this question. Do you check for bed bugs when checking into a hotel room? – I haven’t but I’m thinking about starting that practice.
Maybe this question. If you had to lose one of your senses which one, would you choose? I think I would choose smell.
Well, enough new questions, I’m sure I’ll have to come up with some more because there are questions from the daily prompt, I have no interest in.
A busy week ahead with lots of goals to be met. I’m going to force myself out of the house more. Rumor of some snow later in the week might provide some weather shots I didn’t get a chance to take advantage of in December due to flu.
It hasn’t been the most productive day of the week yet, but there are still 6 hours left to finish strong. It’s been a good week. Got a few dozen prints made and uploaded images, took care of some computer issues, read a bit, learned a lot, played with Canva, spoke to friends and made plans with family.
I’m trying to take the whole of days into account when I think of what I hope to accomplish. That is taking exercise and rest into account when summarizing a week now. This was a well-rounded week. There were a few restless nights, but also a few with good sleep.
I worked on my photography and writing mostly, so I’ve neglected to increase my painting skills or lack thereof so far.
This week is going to be even better. I started to push myself a little harder yesterday in the exercise area and I’m keeping it up today. Now to stretch it out all week and make it routine.
Random Thoughts of the Day
Some neighbors build bridges to each other.
Not so much here but maybe I’ll work to start changing that. I met a new neighbor who is replacing one of our longtime neighbors whose children grew up with ours. He seemed very nice. We haven’t had the chance to meet his wife or son yet.
As the weather warms, I’ll be walking more outside so that can lead to some interaction.
I grew up in a time when everyone seemed to know everyone in the neighborhood. And these weren’t small communities. The kids were the main source of bonding the community and there were a ton of us. Back when people didn’t lock their doors unless they were going away and then several neighbors probably had a key. Because everyone watched everyone else’s pets when they were away.
I don’t remember anyone locking their car doors. Lots would give a quick knock and stroll right into a home. I remember our next-door neighbor Mrs. Mulligan giving a quick yell “It’s Me” and in she came. Some didn’t have to knock or yell because you could hear the basketballs bouncing from several homes away or the sound of wooden bats tapping concrete all the way to the front door.
Most of our time was spent outside unsupervised until we got hungry and raided someone’s home for lunch. And then back outside till dark or beyond or till you heard your mother calling both your first and middle name which indicated you were more than late. Wow, so much has changed since my own youth. And it changed again when we had kids. And now it’s changed again for the worse for our grandchildren.
Lots of us don’t know our neighbors. I can’t say I know most of them. I think I’ll work to change that a bit.
Come up with a crazy business idea. The daily prompt asks.
Why don’t we start a TV network that can take actual things you see like January 6th, 2021, and make you believe it was something other than it was. Ops, we already have that.
How about a security firm that protects every school in the country. I mean what parents wouldn’t want that now with all the school shootings.
How about starting a TV network that would tell the truth about things. Ops, we would never get a license now.
How about a company that could take all the gambling away from sports and return it to the people who play and love to watch it for the love of the game itself.
Maybe start a firm that takes up the tremendous amount of food waste in this country and feed the poor and homeless and sheltered animals.
On a large-scale water management for the country. We either have way too much water or not enough just about everywhere, every year. Oh, throw water safety in that loop also.
I hear this country is in need of a new electrical grid. Got to think big at times.
Now here is one I’d like to pull off again. Start a local community newspaper. I know, they all died off. But look at what you’re left with.
Create a device that captures all the ideas we lose before we get to the computer or to a piece of paper.
I’m feeling my age today. Maybe, a bit older. Time to get some exercise before I stiffen up more. I’ve been pretty good at walking every day, but the weights haven’t been moving much. Feeling younger takes a bit of work regarding the body.
The mind has no problem thinking or acting young. Like tonight, I’ll stay up way past normal and probably work on several areas of photography.
Even though the mind thinks young, it’s not telling the body to do the active things it did in its youth. And there lies the issue. I’ve really got to turn that around this year. Besides walking and light weights, I have to add another aerobic activity.
It’s going to be tough because I spend a lot of time seated working on the computer and reading. I did hear my neighbor’s son outside with his basketball and hoop. Maybe I should get outside myself. I had it out a few weeks ago dribbling keep away from my granddaughter.
I think I’ll work on some of my favorite nature shots. I guess I should order some more ink tomorrow because I’m going to be doing some larger prints. Now I just have to find room or people to give them to.
In between those coming out of the printer I’m setting up something to test my lighting and angles on some old cameras as subject matter. Have a good evening, all. Go Packers.
Random Thoughts of the Day
The daily prompt asks – Describe and item you were incredibly attached to as a youth. What became of it?
I have two things that I was attached to as a youth. My Louisville Slugger baseball bat from little league days, and my first camera. I still have both of these. One is now a security device and the other sits with all the old antique cameras I have collected over the years from the family.
When I was trying to discover what I wanted to be in my teens, I thought I wanted to be an artist and photographer. I spent my first and only year of college as an Applied Art and Design Major.
The term starving artist exists for a reason. And I was scared to move ahead because of that and the fact I saw more talent around me and wondered if I could compete over the long run. I was used to having money having worked a lot of my youth. But not in the art field.
I was worried about making a living. Having funds to go out, keeping my car running and fueled, keeping my own engine fueled. So, when offered a position as a cameraman in the engraving department in a publishing operation I jumped at it.
It was an easy out of my initial dream and I didn’t look back till a few years before retirement. I discovered I still had that desire. But this time the pressure is off. I can pursue those interests without the financial pressure of having to support a family.
I still do things on a shoestring budget. I ask for printer paper for birthdays and Xmas. I stretch life out of every computer and camera I use. I pick up a pad of drawing paper and paint when I can. I make old scraps of wood come alive.
At one time before I retired, I thought I might make a business out of my arts and photography. But I discovered I don’t do this for money. I do it because I like it. I’d rather give something I’ve created as a gift than earn a dollar from a stranger. Not that I won’t give a gift to a stranger.
What is my mission? – Asks the daily writing prompt.
Well, let’s see. I need to write to both of my children this morning and get the cover on the car before any rain starts. I’m thinking of someone very close to me undergoing some test so my mind will be there for some time.
I’d like to work on my photography skills today in shooting and editing. I’d like to get some thoughts between the ears to paper or computer. I’d like to finish the book I started today. I’ve got to call the garage for an appointment.
I’m going to pick up the paint brush and put a few miles on the treadmill. I’ve got a few more blog posts to make and then do a little sanding on the dolphin I’m working on for my granddaughter. I might work on planning a short trip and setting up my makeshift studio.
My mission is to smile. To make other people smile. To be a good father and grandfather, to love. To be a good friend, to be truthful and ethical. To have a good time this weekend and maybe watch some sports. To get the fireplace going and trim my beard.
To clear some wall space for a new photo project. Hang a few more hooks in the storage room ceiling for grandkids toys I’m tripping over. Work on some illustrations and order some Chinese food.
I’m probably forgetting a few things on my current mission. The mission is modified day by day because life changes minute to minute. Missions are important, but sometimes it’s also important to let life just come to you. Like if you hear a song you like, get up and dance if so moved.
And if my better half doesn’t like the idea of Chinese food today, I’ll suggest some Mission BBQ.
I had some doors from the Eastern Shore of Maryland I don’t believe I’ve used here for Thursday Doors. It’s a mish mash of sights. I hope to get out this weekend for some fresh images.
As always, thanks to the creator of Thursday Doors and please follow the link to Dan’s site – No Facilities for far more talented posts.
This first shot was from doors at Secrets Distillery in Ocean City.
I believe this home below was in St Michaels MD.
And a building with several stages of doors in Easton MD.
I’ve heard that line “Live long and prosper” somewhere in my lifetime.
The daily writing prompt wants to know my thoughts on the concept of living a very long life.
I hope to live a very long life. In some ways I’ve already have. I’m thankful for each day and the healthy ones especially. I hope to grow old with my better half and watch my grandchildren grow into young adults.
I have a lot to do and accomplish myself. I’d like to live it as healthy as possible. The concept of living a long time in ill health worries me. Whether mentally or physically it would be a struggle. Of course that is asking for a lot.
I’m guessing the percentage of people who grow very old and healthy, and then just pass peacefully in their sleep is very low. I’ve seen some of the end-of-life struggles and it bothers me, but it’s kind of out of our control.
Staying sharp both mentally takes work just like keeping the body in shape physically. I haven’t done the best job here but it’s never too late to start. I think we all have started over several times with these goals.
The thought of a long life like living till my late 80s or early 90s makes me smile. I can see myself shuffling through the bleachers to watch a grandchild play a high school or college game and attend their graduations. I can feel myself holding my better half’s hand on the deck as we catch some sun. Well, I’ll catch rays, she will be under the umbrella.
I can see myself in what will be then a very classic Miata that I have sitting in the driveway now cruising down some back roads and remembering what was there decades ago. I hope I still have a camera in my hands and that the hands can still tickle the keyboard with speed and agility.
Each doctor’s appointment now scares the hell out of me. Ever since some medical challenges in the previous two decades I fear that I might not be able to see some of those plans. Just as any senior fears when they get to this age.
A while back I learned and then relearned the importance of living in the present. So, it’s going to be a great day today and productive day.
I get cravings for food often. Like daily because I love to eat and drink. My mind wandered to a warm summer day thinking about a large pizza from Tony’s on the boardwalk in Ocean City. Some Shrimp Jammers and a cold drink on the deck part above the restaurant below.
Unfortunately, Tony’s is no more. Well yeah, I heard the new owner/operators have a small carry-out, but rumor is it’s nothing like the old Tony’s pizza. We will miss that spot. The family would always make a stop there every vacation. And I’d get a slice or two if I was down on a day trip to the beach by myself.
Anyway, I got to thinking what is my favorite Pizza in Howard County Maryland. And said to myself why not a post about the search. Notice I didn’t say the best pizza because that is too subjective and not everyone likes the same toppings. And that matters a lot in how pizza comes out and tastes.
I’ll describe what I like about each one. I’m trying to keep a positive mindset so hopefully there are many great things about each but I’m sure I can find something good to say about each. Even if it’s the box it came in.
Just kidding. It’s hard not to like pizza. There are some frozen ones that could test your love for pizza but most you get at a restaurant are going to be pretty good.
I like thin crust so that is the style I’ll be ordering. Sorry to those doing the deep dish as their specialty.
And what better way to begin, low and behold we have a Tony’s Pizzeria right here in Howard County. Not affiliated with the one in OC but special none the less. We went there for subs mostly because they have great cheesesteaks.
The Fat Tony Meat Combo Pizza appealed to me – Yeah that heart attack can’t get here quick enough. Anyway, I ordered a medium because my better half wasn’t joining me for lunch. Which also allowed all the meat toppings she wouldn’t normally go for. Sausage, ham, bacon and pepperoni.
This was a very good pie. Very generous on the toppings and they all had a nice flavor. Good crust, sauce and cheesy. Cooked perfectly. I’ll be back.
This is actually the second post on pizza. Here is a link to my thoughts on Anthony’s Pizza in a post called Pizza in Howard County from December 25.
The decorations are down, and everything is bare again. That is the part of the season that I dislike. There is something about holiday decorating that raises my spirits. Now we are back to the grey winter months. Yes, there is a birthday this month that the cray paper and balloons will come out. And I might have a gathering for some old and good friends.
But those lights and the smell of a fresh tree and ornament’s hanging signals a time of family and smiles and peace to me. Here we are a few days into the new year, and they are gone again.
As I boxed up the last of the lights, I think how quickly this year came and went so in no time we’ll be pulling these boxes out again.
What could you do differently? – Now that is one open question from the daily writing prompt.
I’m guessing all of us have a long list of things we could do differently. I just spent a few minutes and came up with a list. Now I’ve got to add these things to my many existing lists.
It’s a music day. My better half is out so there is no need for headphones. Just speakers belting out the tunes for me to feel. And I do feel music. The lyrics, the beat hit my soul. Even in the toughest times it can put a smile on my face.
So, my shoulders are bouncing and the swivel in the chair is getting some action, and I can still type fairly accurately. It won’t be long though till I have to get up and move with some energy.
A day of errands and chores ahead, but some fun will be had for sure. The streets are dry, so I think I’ll exercise the Miata for a few minutes. It’s so strange driving that car with the top up. I rarely take it out in the cold, but I miss driving it, so I do when the roads aren’t bad.
Now tomorrow is another story with the temp maybe hitting 55. That’s the magic number for folding that top back. Now the side windows will be up most of the way and maybe the seat warmer on, but with the sun it will be nice.
History
This day January 6th is a disgusting day in this country’s history. And what has been done since regarding that day’s activities is an injustice of justice. A warning and message we didn’t take and was changed into a different narrative to suit his followers. A hateful day that everyone condemned and then many changed their tune.
Why so many continue to bow to this false narrative and continuation of other lies is one of the many that continue to puzzle me.
Creativity Ebbs and Flows
Some days the words flow like a lazy stream. Relaxed, rolling and free. Effortless positive thoughts flow along with the images.
Other days words are dammed up. The mind in turmoil, the body tense, painful and rigid. I get more of these days. I work hard in overcoming them and not making them apparent. So far, I’m pretty good at disguising them. A word actor. An actor in life.
Some days I’m reluctant to pick up a brush or a camera. Others I can’t get enough of them.
Today feels like a good creative day.
Random Thoughts of the Day
If you had a freeway billboard, what would it say? – Now there is an interesting ask by the daily writing prompt.
Wow, that is a tough one because my mind raced through several emotions and messages. And I quickly realized I’d need a lot more billboards. Here are just a few that covered my first 5 minutes of thought on the topic. Wish I had the time for some artwork for each.
Respect each other – Love each other
Hold on, it can get worse.
If all decisions are made with children and grandchildren, in mind. The world would be a better place.
Democracy takes work. No more sitting around expecting others to do it for you.
Welcome to Maryland. Safe driving times are between 3:00am and 3:30am. Except holidays, full moons and weekends coming home from the beach.
We are at a very important point in history; the decisions we make now will affect generations to come.
I’d like to send the Seal Teams against Scammers.
Malignant Narcissism and Dementia = Great name for a carnival ride but not a President.
I won’t wait for winter to end to visit the Eastern Shore of Maryland again. One of these days I’m going to have to eat crabs out on the deck at the Crab Claw restaurant in that red building across the water here.
St Michaels and Easton have lots of good spots to eat and I love walking both towns. Speaking of walking I need to get on that treadmill today and make up for the slack effort put forth on Sunday.
But the ocean calls and I’m going to start a countdown till I’m sitting at the bar at The Wedge watching the boats go in and out the inlet while eating a crab flatbread and a cold beverage.
But today I’m also working on sorting out inputs to get control of. For instance, I can stay well informed while not getting overwhelmed with politics. So, I’m reading more and watching less TV.
Getting back to listening to more music as I work and exercise is a good feeling again. I got so away from my norms in December when under the weather. They feel that much more special as I resume them again. A reminder that health is everything.
I’ve got one appointment I’d like to avoid today but that wouldn’t be smart. So, I’ll knock that out and return to the office and easel and work hard this afternoon and evening on my passions.
The daily writing prompt asks – Do you spend more time thinking about the future or past? Why?
I guess it depends on the day and situation. Most of the time I’m thinking about the future. Holidays and certain anniversaries I’m thinking about the past and reflecting. Certain locations or events might trigger more past thoughts.
I like looking forward but I also have a lot of good memories so looking at the past is nice sometimes also.
Now I’d say I spend more time thinking ahead than behind. Trying to live more in the present.
Changing my approach to change. I’m trying to combat the forces of age and nature that resist change with advancing years.
Changing speeds in my motivation is a beginning that will help with everything else. I’m already feeling and seeing the difference in productivity and results.
I’m trying to make a big change in terms of letting some things go. Some old family items, at least a third of the stuff in my workroom, some materials I’ve been saving for who knows what project.
I’m trying to change the focus here to more of my original intent with a photography focus but here I am contributing more grey matter.
Some changes are in relationships. The ones that require me to be the giver most of the time, become less attractive.
Some are changes in interest. This one has been happening for a while now. Since my retirement I have had less in common with a lot of people because I’ve dropped what I was doing professionally almost entirely. My hobbies now don’t register with most I’ve known for a while, with a rare exception here and there.
Many changes are out of my control, but they could have big effects on me. Things like friends moving away or passing. Of course, I’ve been touched by people close to me passing as we all have. But most all my best and longest-term friends have always lived close by. That will be tough as those things change.
In some cases, I might be forced to accept change and that is probably the most difficult. I’ve been lucky enough to maintain my own home and property for many decades here. But those days are numbered. I still enjoy it and can do most of it, but the heavy stuff is taking a toll. And there are parts of this yard it’s very easy to fall on which I’ve done many times.
Well, it’s late and time to change into exercise man, watch a little of the Ravens game before returning to work here for a late-night post. Don’t worry, I’ll change it up so it won’t be a serious post.
The daily writing prompt asks – What is the greatest gift someone could give you?
Well, I guess it’s a toss-up between mom and dad who gave me life and the people who love me throughout life.
Oh, almost forgot. Each morning, I wake up with my health.
The second wind has arrived, and I’ve got the sails up and running with it. Maybe it’s that full moon out there tonight. or the glow I have from the time with the family today. Whatever it is, I’m in a positive frame of mind and have some time to tinker with my crafts.
Some more time on the treadmill for the body and mind. About to put the printer to work and finish the holiday family prints for the kids and my wall.
Also feeling inspired to sit at the easel for a bit and let the brush flow. I’m turning nocturnal again. Well, I might as well go with the flow.
We went to Kenilworth Mall to meet the family today and look at the train garden.
I love watching the kid’s reactions to trains and the villages created.
There were a few fathers who seemed to take a keen interest in the sights as well.
A way to see the circus in the middle of winter.
Nice work to the people who set this one up.
Oh, if you’re hungry may I recommend Italian Gardens Restaurant. Very good pizza, flatbreads and salads and wonderful service.
It’s so funny to watch the kids get lost in looking at the displays and then realize mom or dad isn’t next to them and the panic in their face till they see you. Well in this case seeing Papa made him happy.
Photos by Mike Hartley
A rather populated set of windowpanes. Reminds me of me. I love looking out of our windows at home. We aren’t at the top of the hill but near it, (elevation wise) so the view is nice for both sunrises and sunsets. Oh, there are lots of trees in the way, but this time of year it’s easy to see through them.
When we moved here there was nothing but woods behind us. Now during the winter, you can see faint lines of 2 homes in the distance and one home in a court off to our right. But I’m not looking for that anyway. I love watching wildlife. And there is a nice variety in the area to view if you’re patient.
So many colorful winged friends. And others so well camouflaged you have to have experience in spotting them. Sometimes I’ll look out the window and see a deer sleeping, then another and another and yet another. And I’m probably not seeing 2-3 more.
Most of the time I’m looking out and up. That is till you see a snake and then you gaze down a lot more for a few weeks. That isn’t a concern this time of year though.
There are homes with better views. But I’m very good with mine.
The daily writing prompt asks – What colleges have you attended.
I’ve attended the School of Hard Knocks. Graduated with honors in Life. Nah, really, I only attended one year of college at Catonsville Community College. I think it’s been renamed the Community College of Baltimore.
I started as an Applied Art and Design major but dropped out for work after the first year. Really pretty much after the first semester because in the second semester I started working more than full time at the same time. I concentrated on my art and photography classes and dropped English Lit class.
Like high school I got intimidated and wasn’t confident in my abilities and work. So, I had to learn that over my career and grow up in a few ways. In making a climb from the bottom you sometimes learn some important lessons you don’t get in school or college.
I learned a lot about perspective, persistence and people along the journey. I enjoyed learning the art of learning after leaving school.
When I see my children and grandchildren, I’m given wings. Trouble is the grandchildren climb on my back before I can get airborne.
Contrasting that concrete deck.
We opened the blog shop early today (couldn’t sleep) but then we closed for a morning doctor’s appointment and a visit to long time neighbors who are moving away next week.
To the left of this monitor is a picture of our son and daughter and their 2 daughters and son. It’s at the bus stop for elementary school. I had them all face me shoulder to shoulder straight faced and then had them turn to the side and look over their shoulder at me and smirk. It looks like a lineup.
Where have the last 3 decades gone? We are so lucky they are all healthy and doing okay.
The neighborhood is starting to have some turnover. I saw that happen to my parent’s neighborhood and now it’s happening to ours. That’s life, constant change.
After a quick refueling (lunch) the shop is open again and the printer has just fired up to complete the Christmas day prints of the family celebration. Then upload some new images to the photo site and spend a little time organizing there.
But first back to the treadmill.
Do you play in your daily life? What says “playtime” to you? – A kind of upbeat question from the daily writing prompt.
I had to think for a second about if I play in daily life. But only for a second or two and then I smiled about the little things I do that would be considered play. Like sneaking up behind my better half. Trading barbs with friends. Taking a few minutes to look at some cartoons from artist I follow or a comedian and laugh.
Sometimes I’ll play at being a plumber, electrician, carpenter, landscaper, mechanic. Sometimes successful but most of the time I come to my senses and call a professional.
Many might say I play at my hobbies all day. I play little games with myself to keep me motivated.
What says “Playtime” to me, is my grandchildren. When they come running to me and grab my hand and take off running saying “play with me” I almost lose my mind with happiness. My grandson wants to ride the tractor each time he visits. He’ll grab me as he gets out of the car and lead me right to the shed.
My granddaughter gets so excited with the sprinkler and splashpads when it’s warm. And of course, one of her favorites is playing Diner with us. She makes up signs and sets up a restaurant and announces her opening and we have a meal. Or she’ll run down the hallway yelling “draw with me” as she ducks into my son’s old room which is “the drawing room” to her.
Ah, play, yeah, I play. But I still think back to when I was very young, and we could play all day outside. That was play. Sports, building forts from woods, riding bikes, skateboards, sleds, tag, ping pong, and every board game known to man.
Those days were cut short for me. Maybe that is why I’m so happy to be part of my grandkids play and fun.
I was beginning to fade this morning when an Imminent Threat Alert from the National Weather Service came at 4:29am and the phone made an unfamiliar sound so of course it got my attention. Well, I got up and saw what this snow squall line is about.
If you were driving, I could see it being a white out condition. The winds were certainly very impressive, but the snow wasn’t heavy enough for a total white out except for brief periods. It did coat the roads and I’m sure that it was slippery.
The snow left as quickly as it came. Leaving a dusting that was mostly gone by the time I got back up later this morning. I’ve had it with the below average temps and strong winds though.
Photos by Mike Hartley
Sometimes I feel a bit off step with others. And I’m fine with that now instead of being self-conscious about it. We each have our own beat and lyrics.
I marched to others tunes for so long I’ve had trouble getting in step with my own. But going into the new year I feel different. Could it be it took me two years of retirement to unwind and get back my own path.
No more stealth mode or hiding my head. Time to throw it to the hawks or against the wall and see what sticks or is devoured.
Can’t believe I stayed awake to see the New Year in for 26. Still young in mind even though the body may disagree.
The daily writing prompt asks – What are your biggest challenges?
Challenging myself and then getting out of my own way. Staying motivated and making the best use of each day.
The challenges I see are the ones in front of me each day now. If I choose to devote the energy and resources to the task or goal. I used to make things more complicated but it’s really pretty simple. I just need to do the thing.
And then move onto the next thing. And on and on. That’s when challenges become fun, because you’re in a rhythm and what was once a challenge is routine. And new challenges present themselves and your appetite for them just grows.
I don’t make resolutions, but I do take the beginning of the year to refocus, renew efforts, rebalance or start over. And then of course it’s always wise to maybe drop things that weren’t productive or fun.
Coming off being sick for a bit this month I feel especially inspired. So, I’m off to enjoy the last hours of 2025.
Physical
In 2025 I got off to a strong start regarding exercise. Spring and Summer were active and even early fall, but after that I fell off the table and got slack. Grade for the year C+. So, I fired up the treadmill earlier this week and that will again be my daily companion till the weather warms. I’ve also decided not to measure distance but in time, walking, jogging or lifting weights.
Photography
This will be my primary focus. I believe the saying goes practice makes perfect. I’m going to set aside 3-4 hours a day minimum to shooting and editing. More if possible.
I could fill a post with just things on the list to learn. My own equipment to start with. Lighting and different aspects and areas of photography. Like more street shooting and many more.
Then there are the printing goals and building out the photo site on Zenfolio.
There are several projects I hope to attempt both shooting and presentations.
Writing
I hope to Chime In on many topics for the coming year here in the blog, but I’ve got to get going on the books I started to write. So those two will be competing for my time all year.
In terms of my written communication, I will probably continue to keep the pace I have now. I write to my children a few times a week. My friends fairly often and even extended friends periodically.
Arts
Well, if I’m increasing time spent on my other hobbies I might as well declare that here also. And given I did more drawing and painting in the last few months of 25 than anything previously I might be on a roll there.
Food
Oh yeah, I love to eat. So, you will see me sharing those great meals more often. And I’m committed to getting in the kitchen more often myself.
Focusing and Results
Lots of ideas and weak execution. Time to change that dynamic. I’ve been enjoying the flexibility of retirement and maybe spending time on the wrong things.
A Happy New Year to you and wishes for good health and happiness in your lives.
Best pizza in December 2025. Anthony’s Italian House in Clarksville. Great crust, good sauce and cheese. A little light on the toppings (1/2 Bacon and 1/2Mushroom) but excellent taste overall. Also have had great cheesesteaks subs and will be back to sample some other Italian dishes.
Great service also.
Lost power for a few minutes, from those winds. Being outside for a bit yesterday, I thought a warmer image was the way to go today given the temps felt like the single digits with the winds.
Only 14 hours before we start a new year. Might as well put them to good use. Mixing some exercise and music for a bit, then back to work on the computer. I’ve got at least 50 shots to edit this morning and some to print.
I’m finishing a book I got from Xmas I started yesterday. Reading more is something I failed on in 2025 but I’m taking strides to fix that in 26.
The camera also came out of the case and did that feel nice in my hands again. I’ll have to download those and begin those edits. And see what else I can visualize today.
Random Thoughts of the Day
What makes you feel nostalgic? – A fine question for the last day of the year from the daily writing prompt.
In no particular order.
Talking to very old friends. Talking to old friends I’ve worked with for decades. The smell of ink. The smell of newsprint. The sound of a press. The sound of a newsroom in action during a crisis.
The sound of my grandchildren playing and realizing they’re no longer my children.
Seeing the church, we were married in. Driving into the neighborhoods we grew up in.
Hearing any V8 roar to life. Any classic car, the smell of high-octane fuel being burning. Any V-Twin cranking up and that roll of the throttle on exit.
Seeing my wife’s face today and seeing the same girl that said yes to my proposal many decades ago.
The feel of sand between the toes. The smell of Thrashers french-fries and steamed crabs anywhere in Ocean City.
Seeing hundreds of photos on my office walls of history with family and friends.
Oh my, I couldn’t forget about music. The number of songs that make the hair on my neck stand up or dance like the Blues-Brothers. The notes that make me throw my head back and do a windmill on the guitar. Knowing and singing all the lyrics to many songs going down the road. There is also a drummer in this body dying to get out.
Seeing our first home/apartment complex. Seeing our first single family home.
Arlington National Cemetery.
Having a snowball and each time feeling like it’s the first one I ever had. The sound of bells from the ice cream truck.
Family Xmas ornaments that have been passed down or accumulated over the decades.
The sound of a basketball bouncing on a driveway and off the backboard or through the net.
The backup at the Chesapeake Bay Bridge. Walking the boardwalk.
Oh, so many pictures and movies and memories of pets passed.
My 50th high school reunion.
I guess the older you get the more nostalgic you have.
Tonight, will mark the last evening of work at my old career, 2 years ago. Two full years of retirement seems to have gone by quickly.
My last night was supposed to be December 31st, but they weren’t going to pay me beyond midnight, so the boss gave us New Years Eve off. A parting gift, I guess.
As this Tuesday fades into the evening. I think back on when 6pm hit and I started my overnight shift. Something I won’t return to or recommend to others to pursue unless it meets your needs. And if it does, don’t do it for long, it’s rough on every part of life.
I’m not falling into that trap of being hard on myself for all that I didn’t accomplish this year. I’m pretty happy with what we did fit in given the hectic nature of the past 12 months.
Yes, I continue to sail in these uncharted waters of the blogsphere. It’s a community I find fun in and much more civil than other platforms. It’s a challenge and one I hope to devote a bit more time to this year.
Random Thoughts of the Day
What relationships have a positive impact on you? Not a bad question to ponder given that relationships change over time.
Luckily for me there are a great number of relationships that have had a positive impact on me. All my close friends and family of course. A great deal of professional relationships has positively affected my life.
But instead of the typical praise upon a person or group, I’m going to reflect on an unusual positive impact. It’s not a person.
It’s my car. Each time I get in my car I feel good. Each time I start the ignition it feels better. And when I get out on some back roads it feels great.
It’s the first time since my early youth that I’ve had a car I’m proud of and that is fun to drive. It’s nothing much, just a little Miata MX5. But there is something from the first time I saw and drove it that I fell in love with.
The relationship hits 10 years now, and I’m certain it will start giving me some problems to deal with but that is okay because the upside is so great.
Wow, what a useless question from the daily writing prompt. If you started a sports team, what would the colors and mascot be? Very lame.
Well, I’ll take a pass on that one and answer the question of the final Monday of the Year of 2025. What should we do with our granddaughter today? Of course, we will build forts, she is really into creating her world through the cushions and blankets and chairs and couches in the house.
She will get her choices at lunch and dinner. I’d like to take her out for one of those meals. Mainly because I’d like to get out. And I do enjoy trying to get her to try new foods.
She likes a game called Cover Monster where I chase here with big blankets. I’ll see if she would like to paint with me a bit. Maybe I’ll have her help hang some things on my office walls.
We have high wind warnings today and into tomorrow so outside play will be very limited. I hope we don’t lose power.
I’m making her some bacon this morning. She used to love that but now seems a bit indifferent to it this morning. That’s kids for ya.
While it’s always a bit of work watching a 6-year-old, it’s also a fun way to spend the last Monday of 2025.
They went there. The daily writing prompt brings this question – How have your political views changed over time?
Yes, they have changed. I never could understand or phantom how someone like Hitler could come to power and take over so completely. Nor did I ever think it was possible again. I was wrong and I now understand.
Here is what I look for in someone who I will vote for. I’m looking for the best person, with the best ideas with ethics and integrity.
I get the same expression as this couple below quite often now. Either something someone says, or does, or acts in an inappropriate way. Things that used to stand out as exceptions are more commonplace and almost dismissed as normal.
There are far more good actions taking place each day of course. At least I’m hoping more of us see the good deeds being carried out, big or small. From common courtesy, to acts of compassion, or the jobs that EMS, Police, Fire and Nursing do every moment.
I’ve always enjoyed people watching. I haven’t done that much street photography. I don’t take shots to make people look bad. I don’t think anyone looks bad because we are all unique and I was taught not to judge size, shape, color, language, nationality, handicap or disability. My mom taught me to respect everyone.
I think I’ll try to look for more smiles this coming year. That might be a big ask given the climate but hey, I like a challenge.
Random Thoughts of the Day
The daily writing prompt says – You get to build your perfect space for reading and writing. What’s it like?
To start with, that would be two separate places. My office is where I write and it’s perfect for me except the chair I sit in and the occasional mess it becomes when I’m not maintaining it. Which is most of the time.
I like to read in a comfortable chair. The recliner was nice till that broke. So, this spring, summer and fall I think I’ll read outside on my patio. It’s a nice big area, with lots of sun and a privacy fence around it. It has my hammock and an outdoor patio set with a big umbrella for shade if needed. I do bring my beach chairs out and they are comfortable.
Besides, instead of taking the time to build out my perfect spaces, I’d rather utilize what I have and write and read more.
I downloaded the shooting from Christmas day of the kids and grandkids unwrapping some gifts and around the house. But I found two images in the beginning of the batch that I didn’t remember even taking. Shot on 12/14 which was about 10 days into my flu battle. That was about half-way through the total fight.
I must have opened the back door, looked out and took these shots of the sky, trees and part of my small shed and looked the other way towards the neighbors behind us.
That was the only activity that camera got in 20 days and having no memory of doing it is strange. I know my better half couldn’t have because she doesn’t know how to turn it on.
But the camera and I are back in action. Partners in crime and all that nonsense. I think I’ll head out this evening or tomorrow night or both and collect some holiday lights in the county we live.
Random Thoughts of the Day
I could spend a few days answering the question posed by the daily writing prompt, but I won’t subject you to such an extensive list of wonderful cars I’ve driven from the 60s to present day. The question is – What is your all-time favorite automobile?
Style Wise – the 1971 Z28 Camaro split bumper. Runner up is Eleanor from the movie Gone in 60 Seconds.
Performance Wise – This is a tough one. I’m going to define it by becoming part of the seat when the clutch is released. In no particular order. And yes, I’ve ridden in or driven all of them.
1970 Plymouth Roadrunner with 440 6pack. – 1970 454 Chevelle LS6 – 2012 Corvette Grand Sport heavily modified – 69 Z28 Camaro 302 with all the racing works.
Fun Wise – The car I have now. A 2016 Mazda Miata. It’s no power demon, it’s just fun to drive and be in. It’s a convertible (my first) and it’s a roadster.
I wish the freezing rain wasn’t coming. I’d take the cover off and go for a ride today.
How am I creative – asks the daily writing prompt.
I try but I’m not sure how successful I am at the creative hobbies I dip into. I’m trying to paint again. I love to photograph but I’m stalled there the last few weeks. I like to write but I have a long way to go there in creativity.
Sometimes I’m creative with the grandchildren successfully.
I have been successful at making my friends laugh. That I like a lot.
I’m going to get a lot more creative in the cooking department this coming year.
I’m feeling a relaxed and joyful day ahead. I hope the same holds true for you also.
I’m what you might call the last-minute man. This year more than ever due to being under the weather most of the month. But the shopping was completed yesterday, the little I do, and that brings me to the tradition of wrapping gifts on Xmas eve.
From years of fretting if I got the right gift for my better half, to putting together the many toys and bikes for our children.
These days it’s much simpler. Mainly due to my better half being such a good shopper for our children and grandchildren. And we don’t exchange big gifts between ourselves anymore. We like to go someplace or an event instead. We still do a lot of stocking stuffers, but that is it.
Now the kids and grandkids we splurge on, and I love that I’m able to do that. Those decades of hard work and fun along the way were also part of busting my ass, putting up with some bad people from time to time, poor pay, long commutes and lack of appreciation. Those days are behind me now and I’m in charge and trying to enjoy my remaining time.
Christmas Eve has always been a significant night each year. Filled with great emotion and a mix of joy and fun. And always a lot of wrapping. There are so many memories of these nights.
I worked a lot on Christmas Eve’s and Christmas mornings. Our business was daily, every day. The years I worked night shift, getting off between 3am and 7am depending on the year and position was the worst. I was so tired on Xmas day it was hard to power though some years. A lot of them I’d be working Xmas night also.
But there were years I did have Christmas Eve evening off, and I’d still be up wrapping gifts at 3 or 4am before grabbing a few hours sleep. The same will be true tonight. I have a few notes to drop people, I’m storing away the many boxes of decorations, maybe putting up another string of lights because the kids enjoy them.
I’ll also spend some time in thought and hopefully smile at some pictures that will stir some great memories.
The daily writing prompt asks – Who are the biggest influences in your life?
My better half is probably the biggest influencer in my life. She helped me overcome my alcohol problem which was substantial coming out of my late teens and early 20s.
We have made a family together and she helped me be the best parent I could be.
Right there at the top with her is my mother. A woman who set me on the right path in life with many insights, wisdom, ethics, compassion and love for all people.
I have a couple of best friends who have also influenced my life. Sometimes in the way my better half doesn’t approve of, but we have had some wonderful times and adventures. We have gotten together almost weekly for decades.
We are all professionals, both at work and play. We challenge each other, we support each other, we love each other like brothers.
I’ve been blessed to have many others also who have supported me both personally and professionally.
Guess I’m one lucky guy.
I do my best thinking, along this shore. For here it doesn’t matter if I’m rich or poor.
The sound of the waves and the warmth of the sun. Reminds me of life’s possibilities and fun.
Sometimes I’m with family, sometimes alone. It’s a place where I never take my phone.
This has been a nice diversion from the cold winter season. I’d love to return to it, just give me a reason.
Sharing what I know about the year I was born is the ask of the daily writing prompt today.
Being a car guy, I’ll start with one of the classic cars of the generation – the 57 Chevy.
Jackie Robinson retired from baseball. – My mom’s favorite player in her day. The Dodgers announce the move from Brooklyn NY to Los Angeles California.
Burger King introduced the Whopper. – Always better than Micky D’s.
Wham-O produced the first Frisbee. I still like throwing one around.
Dr Seuss The Cat in the Hat is published.
Average yearly income was under 5K a year.
Elvis Presley bought Graceland.
Oh, being a techie this caught my eye. IBM sells it’s first compiler for the FORTRAN programming language.
Being in my senior years I have a lot of past Christmases to look back on. From the days in a small apartment with mom, dad and my sister. Too muted Xmas celebrations after my father passed. Then celebrating with my better half and our families together or at each home during the holidays.
And as parents transitioned from their homes, ours became the focal point for family gatherings. Both our parents have been gone a while now even though at this time of the year always seems closer than it was.
Holiday are times of highs and lows for me. Not much middle ground. Our children and grandchildren provide much of the joy. But those times alone and even when together I get pains of those who were so loved but missing now.
Sometimes I smile when thinking of Christmas’s past. Sometimes it brings tears to my eyes. I guess those strong memories will never fade and always be part of the celebration and sadness.
So many struggle with the perfect gift. So many are under the pressures of travel and stresses associated with that. Then there are the struggles of family who aren’t on the same page. We have a few family members who have removed themselves from everyone. My own sister being one of them. I kind of feel sad for them but that was their choice and the only thing I can do is control how I feel and not worry about their decision-making process.
It’s hard to remember some Christmas seasons after a significant loss. I’m sure my son and his family will have mixed feelings, this one being the first without their beloved pet. She was such a part of celebrations because I’ve never seen an animal unwrap gifts like a human before. So gentle to just remove the paper.
I’ll be spending a lot of time checking in with friends and extended family the next few days trying to spread some joy and cheer.
The question today from the daily writing prompt is – Are you a good judge of character?
That is a tough one. I’ve certainly made some misjudgments over history. But I’d also add I’ve made better evaluations than bad ones.
Being a good judge of character is very important in life. Picking the right friends, the right people to work for.
Sometimes though you are thrust into situations where others lacking character are either around you or even maybe a boss.
I’ve been in situations where co-workers have lied and I’ve challenged them and won. I’ve had bosses ask me to lie and refused and been taken to task on it, all the way to a VP for refusing to support my bosses boss lie. It really pissed him off, but I refused to do it and was not punished.
I’ve had bosses try to physically intimidate and it hasn’t worked. As a matter of fact, it backfired, on them because he then knew one or more of us would kick his ass. Because he heard us say it out loud and walked away.
Once a boss came in drunk on my night shift and started to physically push me around when I was very young. That didn’t work out too well for him either. That was the closest I’ve come to being that mad and hurting someone seriously. Pressman and editorial folk separated us and took him out of the building. He didn’t even remember it the next morning when he came in. Being an alki has the effect on some. He was also my boss’s boss at that time. Good guy when sober but a mean drunk.
Character isn’t what people just say, it’s a lot of their actions.
Don’t always judge people by their looks to judge character. I rode a motorcycle for a long time. I’ve come across some big burly intimidating looking bikes from time to time. Most of them have been good people.
We used to get downtown Baltimore quite a bit but haven’t in a long time other than doctor’s appointments. And those aren’t fun. So, when the weather warms I think we will give it another go. Maybe an O’s game at Orioles Park. A beautiful and fun venue for Major League Baseball.
I’ve been to the Maryland Zoo which is in Baltimore several times in recent years. But a visit to the National Aquarium is a few decades overdue. The last time was when my children were young.
I’ve got to say it was quite disappointing to see the Ravens go down tonight against New England. But injuries, mistakes and missed opportunities look to put the playoffs out of reach.
There are 3 museums I’d like to visit this year in Baltimore. The Walters Art Museum, The Baltimore Museum of Art and The American Visionary Art Museum.
There is no shortage of great places to eat and that is also one of my favorite pastimes. Which makes me think of a midnight snack and I’ve got 9 minutes to prepare it so till tomorrow.
The first day of winter is today. That is a bunch of bull because it’s been very cold for weeks now if not 2 months. And now we are headed for the coldest month of the year, January in Central Maryland, and I’m depressed.
I hate cold with a passion, and it’s been too cold already. The only time it’s appealing outside is when there is snow covering everything. Otherwise, it’s grey and drab. And that eventually turns to slush and mud. My negative attitude about this season will only start to dimmish in March.
So, in a few months I’ll start to turn the corner and get back to my normal self and my open hostility towards the season will fade and my morning smile will return to start each day.
Random Thoughts of the Day
When are you the most happy? – the daily writing prompt wants to know.
When I’m playing or holding my grandchildren. If I can make them smile and laugh. If I can teach them something. If we can share a meal. If they open a present. When they want to ride the tractor with me. When we run through a sprinkler or swim in a pool on summer family vacation. When I get to wake them from their afternoon nap.
Bonus happy – if their parents (my children) are also there watching us play and be happy.
Time has flown by the last two weeks, and I have little to nothing to show for it. I haven’t touched a paint brush, and the cameras have been in their cases for the most part. The energy needed to be in my workroom just wasn’t there.
I’m good at writing to both my children very often and that was on hold for two weeks. I just got back in that grove yesterday.
I haven’t seen my best friends in almost 3 weeks now and that this about the longest we have gone this year or more. I haven’t been out to see any holiday decorations and experience shopping.
Yesterday I got started by hitting the grocery store with my better half. But boy did that wear me out. Got a good night’s rest for a change of pace so I’m on a mission to accomplish a lot today.
If you are a senior citizen, please take this new strain of flu called Subclade K seriously. It’s nothing like what we have had for years, and we are pretty good at dealing with the ones the flu shot has covered previously. It’s the first time I’ve thought about going to the hospital in years and has changed my future perspective if I get that sick again I will.
Random Thoughts of the Day
The daily writing prompt asks – What was the last thing you did for play or fun?
Now there is a question I usually could answer easily but being fighting off the nasty flu bug the last few weeks hasn’t lent itself to much fun or play.
I guess the last thing that was fun was picking out our Christmas tree. And that is stretching it a bit because it wore me out and was more expensive than I thought.
So here are some fun and play I hope to start incorporating very soon. I got the cover off my Miata and hope to take a ride today or tomorrow and that is always FUN. The top will have to stay up though.
There is a chance we will see our children for a short bit this weekend so that is GREAT.
I think I’ll get together with one of my best friends tomorrow or Monday and catch a football game.
The daily writing prompt wants me to – List your top 5 grocery store items.
Instead, I’m going to the following that needs to change.
More people are going hungry than ever in this world. More people will be going without adequate health care or insurance or both. More people can’t find that job that sustains life or creates a better path forward. More people in the middle are in less of a position to help those in need which are the same people who support those in need the most.
More and more people thankfully are starting to question our misguided government and the spineless officials in office supporting most of this collapse.
Support your local Food Banks please. Help others have a better holiday season so maybe they can get 5 items.
Describe a man who has positively impacted your life. Not a bad ask by the daily writing prompt.
I have a very good friend named Pete who early in my professional life probably changed my future accent. He did that by instilling confidence in me. Something I severely lacked at the levels I was moving into.
We started off at a company together in the early 70s but worked in different areas. We worked very hard and saw that in each other. We also had some talent and insights on how to do things better in a changing profession.
We gained huge skills and knowledge working for this company and it was our life. And then the ownership sold it into pieces and tore it all apart. Luckily, we were picked up together by the new firm. I think there were about 70 openings for over 400 people who worked there.
We quickly rose over 2 different areas of production and ended up in management roles in addition to our technical and production duties. You wore lots of hats in the old days. But the time together over 2 decades gave us great opportunities and great growth.
But we had a ton of fun along the way. We worked for a very progressive company and were surrounded by people who also believed in us, and we took that organization through several significant technological changes and much success over those years.
I can’t even begin to describe the pressure and fun we had at the same time. As all good things do, this came to an end, and we decided along with another partner to start our own business. We were successful in starting something that no one thought would even get off the ground. Bigger businesses tried to crush us. It didn’t work.
I went another way, less than two years into it because of personal reasons but that business under him and our partner was very successful for another decade till it was bought out by a daily newspaper.
Even though we separated professionally we have always stayed close. Really, he gave me many more things than confidence. He gave me friendship, support, laughter and guidance in life. He is an incredible human being and one who is very special to me.
He is one of the most quiet but effective people I have ever worked with. He is smart beyond any degree, certificate, certification. He is compassionate and funny. He is a family man, he is an ethical man, and one of the few people I hold in admiration.
Pete has been and still is a lifelong friend. Someone I consider a brother. Yeah, we are close.
Thank you, Pete, for all you have done for me over so many decades of my life. Love ya brother.
Is your life today what you pictured a year ago? – An interesting question from the daily writing prompt.
Apart from trying to recover fully from this nasty flu bug my life is how I could have pictured it a year ago. A beautiful new granddaughter entered our lives this year. The family is healthy and surviving some troubled times.
Some friendships have changed a bit. Some up and some down. Time will do that. I’ve greatly enjoyed working on my hobbies and I need to do a lot more in that regard. I’ve enjoyed taking rides to where the car points its nose, instead of destinations for work or chores.
I feel like I’ve done a fair job regarding my health by keeping my weight in check, exercising a little more and trying to eat better. That last one still needs a lot of work.
I am surprised how quickly age is affecting my body. Been dealing with a lot more pain this year than previous ones. But hey, I’m getting up, able to love, think and pursue good times.
I had no idea our government was going to break down is such a dramatic fashion though and while I had fears of it, it’s worse than I thought and getting deeper into the darkness day by day. I will fight to change this. I didn’t anticipate spending so much time on this, but it’s now for my children and grandchildren not to leave pieces of crap like our current administration in power.
The daily writing prompt is asking – What skills or lessons have I learned recently?
I’ve been learning some brush techniques while trying to paint. Today I hope to learn how to photograph interesting things in my own home, being I’m not 100% and don’t want to go out in this cold for fear of catching pneumonia.
I learned that dealing with companies AI phone systems is a very frustrating experience. I’ve learned that age does affect your ability to fight off illness.
I learned that what came about to create WWII is possible again. When people won’t stand against corrupt power.
I’m working on skills to improve my writing and photography.
Even though I’m retired Monday is still a kickoff day. One that I tend to get organized and formulate a plan for the coming days.
Unfortunately, I was still less than half. A complete lack of energy has set in for both of us. A friend said he spoke to another friend who had this for a month. I’m only about 11 days into it and it’s a slow go. Last night I learned my granddaughter is ill with the flu and I’m hoping my daughter doesn’t come down with it.
Tis the season they say. With the joy comes the viruses we love to hate. All I know is I don’t want to be sick again this season so I’m going to be masking up when in crowds till spring.
Random Thoughts of the Day
The cities I’d like to visit this coming year.
Charleston South Carolina — Key West and Key Largo Florida — Ocean City Maryland
Bethany Beach Delaware — New York City NY — Washington DC
I’m sure I’ll add a few more to the list as the new year rolls in but this is a quick list that the daily writing prompt asked for.