Do you think we’re shaped more by our experiences or by who we are? – now there is a good question from the daily prompt.
I think that our experiences really shape who we are from a very young age and throughout life. That’s my personal take on it. Events in my life shaped a lot of who I am. Values and respect were things my mom taught me early and I still carry with me today.
Early experiences in life almost cost me dearly. Not to be repeated and again make up how I proceed today. There were also painful experiences early on which changed me.
There are exceptions. There are certain points in life where something within us might rise and shine. There is an innate ability in us all to know right from wrong. Most of us have an innate sense of compassion.
Those things within us are drawn out or suppressed by our experiences and teachings I’m guessing. I don’t have degrees studying the human mind. Just going by what I’ve seen over the decades.
Experiences shaped my decision-making process. Becoming a father and grandfather changed my life and who I am.
I’m shaped by genetics. I am who I am by my experiences.
If you had to be an animal for a week, which one would you be and why? – I’ve really got to start coming up with some alternative questions I can use when I don’t like the daily prompt.
I think I’d like to be a Cheetah. I’d like to feel like being fast again. I used to be fairly quick in my younger days and to feel that speed again in my legs would be nice. Also, cats rest so easily and nicely, and I could use some good rest.
What’s a piece of technology you’re convinced will exist in 20 years? – Now there is an interesting question from the daily prompt.
Well, if I’m around, in 20 years, I hope to have my Miata still running. That means I might have one of the last manual transmission cars on the road.
Some say the pace of change with technology is going to dwarf any past periods. So, the next 20 years could bring about great change. But being old school, I’m going with an old school technology because I for one have no idea where this technological madness is taking us.
So, my answer is a Bicycle
I was going to say a hammer a chisel, because it’s always possible that we might just bomb each other back into the stone age.
Beach and Bikes go together. Photo by Mike Hartley
Are you a lifelong learner? – Asks the daily prompt.
You bet I’m a lifelong learner. For if you’re not, life can be very difficult and short.
Learning is a lot more than books and school knowledge. Even though those are good foundations. Learning about people and your environment is important also.
Learning is fun whatever way you do it. It makes life easier and helps you understand why some things are the way they are. And discover new ways and techniques to live and get by.
I’ve slowed down a bit in my learning in ways. Being retired I no longer keep up with technology like I used to but I’m using that space with my arts and learning there.
Learning by doing is what works best for me in a lot of cases.
I’ve made mistakes thinking I know everything at points in my life. Thankfully those times are long behind me in most cases. But as I get older, I feel I fall back into that trap sometimes, either out of laziness or overconfidence.
A recent example is the new tractor I just got. I’ve been driving them for decades. Doing maintenance on them and usually making them last. Already did my first cut without the manual being opened. Just a review of controls when it was delivered. I could easily be over-confident but I’m going to RTFM as I used to extort to my co-workers when I was helping them first and then directing them to the information.
Learning opportunities are all around us each day. Take advantage of them and hit a new level.
The daily prompt wants to know – What’s one habit that has improved your life the most?
Getting an early start to the day. That has served me well as I feel I get an advantage by getting a jump on the day. Most days I’m up before sunrise.
I was going to say the number of hours I’m able to stay awake. But I believe that might have had some long-term effects on my health in a negative way, so I won’t toute that as a positive habit.
Are you ready to take advantage of another great day? Photo by Mike Hartley
What’s a chapter of your life you’d title “The Hard Years”— and what got you through it? – Asks the daily writing prompt.
I’ve had a lot of challenges throughout my life. Physical, mental, professional and personal. So, it’s hard to pick a set of years. But I’ll qualify that by saying that I’m thankful for every one of those years. You learn a lot about yourself and others during hard times.
Also, I’d like to say my hard times don’t hold up to people who really experience real hard times. I’ve been hungry but never starving for one example.
I’ve had cancer a few times. After a couple of different surgeries, I needed radiation for a few months after the last one. I would sit across from this little girl in the waiting room who had a tree full of bags of meds on wheels she would take with her as she went into her room for treatment. She had no hair and looked thin. But she sat up straight, had the most beautiful smile and spirit with her mother by her side. I’m thankful for her reminder that I wasn’t having a hard time.
There were times when jobs overwhelmed me. In the sheer number of hours and mental/physical effort over long stretches of years. I think my refusal to fail got me through those times.
If you’re married or in a long-term relationship there are hard times, but you shouldn’t have hard years.
Raising children can certainly be a challenge and a very hard one for many years but it’s the most rewarding thing you can do.
I’ve experienced painful losses in our family early on at times. Those were very difficult years but there was hope, to get us through.
I’m a senior now and I feel the hard years are ahead of me. The time that you start losing those lifelong friends and family members. People that are important to you, loved and have a lot of shared history. The ones that will leave holes in you. Those thoughts scare me the most. And I don’t know how I will get through those most difficult times.
Maybe I’ll remember the phrase a US Marine I worked with would say. “Improvise, Adapt, Overcome.”
The daily prompt wants to know – What’s a book you think deserves a sequel?
I don’t know about a book that needs a sequel, but I do know a life that needs one. My dad passed 60 years ago today. That means we had a very short time together. I need a sequel to learn more about him. To know him. To love him again.
You don’t have many chances at life. Some very few. Don’t waste them.
Dad showing me the proper grip on a football a month before he died. Photo by Shirley Hartley
If you could live anywhere in the world, where would it be? – I bet a lot of people like this question from the daily prompt. I wonder what percentage of people live right now, where they want to live, if they had this choice.
I live right where I want to be at this moment in my life. To live further away from my children and grandchildren would be unacceptable for us.
I’ve always thought about living at the beach. Maybe Bethany Beach Delaware or Fenwick Island. Even though that desire is strong it’s not going to happen because I’m loving watching my grandchildren grow and being here if my children need help. Now once they are grown, and if I’m blessed with a long life, I might think strongly about that move but at that age it would probably be too disruptive.
So, like the couple below we will visit the beach often as possible and dream about a home there. But also smile on the way home because we get to hold and play with those little bundles of joy.
Is a little chaos actually good for us? – A rather vague question from the daily prompt.
When I first read the question, my initial answer was yes. If life is predictable, then it can get a little boring. But I do like order and structure in my life. At the same time, I loved to shake things up occasionally both in my professional and personal life.
If you look at the definition of chaos it says – complete disorder and confusion.
When I think about a visual of chaos, I see a huge crowd of people and a loud bang happens sounding like a gunshot and chaos ensues. People running in all directions because nobody knows if it was a shot or where it came from so it’s just pure panic.
Now when I think of a little chaos I think of someone proposing a new process that changes the entire production process that when implemented blows up. But in that chaos new lessons are learned and sometimes that chaos brings progress and new and better ways of doing things.
The danger with a little chaos is that it can get out of hand quickly. Take for example the coming election. The little chaos that comes with people arguing different points and solutions. But if people feel that elections are stolen, then that is a whole new game.
I’m suspecting this is going to be a trigger point for this country. I like listening to smart people. And when a smart person was asked the following, I agree with his response.
“Do you agree that we are covering in real-time an assault on our elections, the upcoming ones?”
“I’m very concerned of what’s going to happen in the next election, absolutely,”
Which Direction to choose today. Chaos or consistency. Photo by Mike Hartley
The daily prompt wants to know – Who is your favorite blogger to follow?
I don’t like questions like this because I’m always going to leave someone out that I will regret after I post this. I also don’t like this question because I’ve been slack in following and interacting with some of my favorites the last few months. And that makes me disappointed in myself.
I like the blogging community that I’ve experienced, and I hope to continue to expand this group that I follow.
The pictures and words from their travels and recipes from Sheree at View from the Back always make me smile. I enjoy Dan’s work at No Facilities and appreciate the efforts he puts into his work and challenges, plus his insights.
The nature photography by Catherine of Leaf and Twig.
The daily prompt wants to know – What’s a lesson you’ve learned recently that shifted your perspective?
I learned that the better listening skills I use, the more I know about people. That and some well-placed questions can really open your eyes.
I learned the better research and investigation I do the better decisions I make. I’ve gotten a little lazy in retirement when a simple task of replacing my tractor taught me that incorporating some of the skills I used long ago when working still comes in handy.
I learned I can’t handle the heat like I used to so my perspective on the part of the day I want to be up for and outside has shifted.
I learned compartmentalizing things is a good survival skill.
What do you do to improve your sleep? – Now that is a timely question today.
I laughed at this question for a while because just before this and old friend and I were trading emails about lack of sleep in our lives.
And for example, we have tonight. I fell asleep at 8pm last night and woke before midnight. I’ll probably be up the rest of the night/morning now. Even though I’ve been retired for 2 and half years, that last decade of working the overnight shift screwed up my clock badly. My body is more comfortable now, being up late at night.
I sleep in little shifts. And I do get more than I used to when I was working. Taking advice from me might be suspect but I’ll offer some anyway.
I suggest a hammock, great for sleeping.
Can you swing it? Photo by Mike Hartley
The most important factor in my sleep is my mood. If I’m satisfied with the day and my life, I can rest easily. If I’m troubled, it’s a crap shoot. Sometimes listening to a little music or watching a little comedy will put me in the right spirits and make going to bed easier.
Finding a way to wind down and relax is big for me. I can be physically exhausted from watching grandkids and not sleep well. It’s more mental for me. Letting my mind slow down and downshift a few times enough to have some good thoughts and fall asleep.
Quiet is also essential. Remarkably my hearing is still in good shape, and I’m woken easily by sounds. I rarely sleep in a storm. Sometimes the basement has helped in that regard.
If I’m sleeping well, I go with it and sometimes get 7-9 hours. It’s not often, but here and there. But if it’s not working, I don’t lay there endlessly looking at a seam in the wall that could use some touch up. I get up and get to work and hopefully take a nap later.
Naps are cool. I took them long before I retired. Being I wasn’t getting a lot of sleep some days, I would catch sleep as I could. When you’re trying to sleep during the day it’s not like the rest of the world stops and says, “hey we got to let these night shift workers get some sleep, can you keep it down.” Quite the contrary in fact.
So, I learned dark out curtains are important. Silencing phones and shutting the door to my room. This is where I will also acknowledge that the effort of my better half to work in silence while I slept for a few hours was remarkable. Living on opposite schedules 4 days a week is difficult on both parties.
Then I flipped back to a day schedule to participate in family and other normal activities that day dwellers did. An interesting life, I don’t recommend it with one exception. In my younger days when we started a family, I worked nights and my better half days and we shared watching the kids so one of us was available for them and saved having daycare costs.
As I thought about how to wrap this up. I thought about the weirdest place I’ve slept in. I once slept on the 18th green (no I wasn’t a member). I’ve slept in and on my car. I’ve slept on my desk and under it at work. I’ve slept on a roll of newsprint (those are big). I’ve slept on a beach and in a boat. Under the stars in a sleeping bag. I’ve slept on a roof and on a pool float. I even fell asleep once on my motorcycle once.
Sleep On a Beach – great for sleeping with the sounds of the waves. Get a dark pair of shades and umbrella.
Always something flying at the beach. Photo by Mike Hartley
Whatever you do, get your sleep on, because it’s important.
The daily prompt says – Hit 5,000 steps today and drop your achievement here – we’re cheering you on!
If the daily prompt is going to give me an exercise mission it had better do it the day before because I don’t respond well to marching orders first thing in the morning.
Yes, if I were at the beach I’d be out walking about now but I’m not at the beach and I haven’t had my morning Coke yet. I’ll get my 5,000 steps in today, and probably more if I cut the backyard with the push mower.
Now 10,000 steps in a day is a nice goal. I’ll report tomorrow if I hit that.
Take a walk on the wild side. Photo by Mike Hartley
What’s the best way to deal with negative thoughts? – Asks the daily prompt.
This is something I have experience with. And while experience is a good teacher, I’m no expert here. Good old negative thoughts are unavoidable so dealing with them is key to survival. This is a subject that probably keeps shrinks in business. The amount of material written on this topic is immense.
My mom said something very important at a young age when I struggled. She said, “there is always someone that is in a worse position in life or health than me.” So, she taught me to be appreciative of each and every day and things in your life.
So why do we struggle throughout our entire lives with this? In some way it might be a survival instinct. You know the old hope for the best but prepare for the worst.
I’ve learned to use negative thoughts to inspire me to action. As example I got disgusted with myself for being overweight a while back and use that as daily motivation to keep it in control and be at or very close to a very healthy weight.
The political situation has spurred lots of negative thoughts. A situation largely out of our control. But I vote every chance I get. I’ve started to get involved in rallies. I’m making my voice heard. Still, anytime I turn on the news I’m disgusted, depressed, angry and the negativity comes creeping in. Sometimes I have to stop listening as much. Not disconnecting or giving up, just catching a breath to reengage.
You can share your negative thoughts but be careful not to make life about that. Or even the whole conversation. Negativity is not an attractive trait.
Lots of times I’ll try to find humor in negative situations. It does several things. Sometimes it helps put things in perspective. Sometimes just to lighten the mood.
Just moving on from negative situations or people is a positive step and a needed one sometimes.
Sometimes you endure and outlast a negative situation. I’ve done that on the job several times because I’ve liked the people I worked with and the place I worked, and I wasn’t going to let some glorified in his own mind prick going to ruin it for me, so the battle was on.
When I read this prompt today the first thought that came to mind was the movie Kelly’s Heroes. An old WWII classic with many stars. Donald Southerland plays a tank commander called Oddball. He’s speaking to his mechanic, and they are arguing about the tank being broke in the middle of a war. And the following was uttered.
Oddball: Why don’t you knock it off with them negative waves? Why don’t you dig how beautiful it is out here? Why don’t you say something righteous and hopeful for a change?
The daily prompt asks – What do you love now that you hated when you were younger?
I hated working in the yard and gardens when I was younger. Especially mowing because I had bad allergies when I was young. I outgrew them thankfully and enjoy cutting the yard now. My better half is the gardener, but I pull a ton of weeds throughout the year and kill many others.
I take pride in my yard looking good. It’s far from perfect but it’s well kept.
Yeah, I thought that was a strange one also. But it’s the first thing that came to mind.
I don’t mind being alone now. When I was younger, I was always with people.
Alone with nature is nice now. Photo by Mike Hartley
What’s a time you followed your gut, and it turned out to be exactly right? – An interesting ask from the daily prompt.
Wow, nothing jumped immediately to mind on this question. Then again, the 5am hour is a bit early to be contemplating life’s choice. I’m not sure I’ve gotten something, exactly right ever. My gut has made a lot of good decisions, but each new path lays more choices and tests.
I’ve gone with my gut a lot of times. It served me well professionally and even when it didn’t go exactly right, I was glad I stuck with the path I chose.
Several friends throughout my career have told me that I could earn more elsewhere. And I’m sure they were right. My gut said are you happy with what you do and who you do it for and I said yes so I stayed at a few jobs for decades. That was the right choice for me and being retired I think it was right for me and I’m happy with it.
Okay, here is a simple one that came to mind. 10 years ago, it was time for a new vehicle. Instead of going with the muscle car, which was my first thought and choice, I test drove a Miata and bought one that day. I love to drive and that thing is the most fun I’ve had in any car I’ve driven. As the phrase goes “Miata is always the answer.”
A legal go-cart for the road. One unique thing I’ve found is that its interest and appeal span all generations. At our club meetings we have youngsters, teens and early twenties to us old fossils in the 60s and 70s. All with that common love of the feel of driving that car.
Yes, it’s 10 years old and the top doesn’t go down as easily as it once did. There are a few paint chips in the front. But otherwise, she is clean and running well so I hope to get another decade out of her.
Emperor Palpatine has announced open elections for new Emperor – and he’s nominated Darth Vader. You get to nominate one challenger.
And I used to say there were no dumb questions.
Okay, I’ll nominate Jake and Elwood Blues. Black suits vs black robe. Hat’s vs Helmet. 1974 Dodge Monico former police car vs the Death Star. Stormtrooper’s vs the badest Blues Band in the world.
“It’s 106 miles to Chicago, we got a full tank of gas, half a pack of cigarettes, it’s dark… and we’re wearing sunglasses. Hit it.”
And when I have James Brown on my side from the Triple Rock church shining the light on us, I think we’re a shoe in.
Being the old Blues Mobile was destroyed I found them a new one to do battle with the Death Star.
What’s something you used to believe as a kid that seems ridiculous now? – An interesting ask from the daily writing prompt.
At a very young age I used to believe that everything was going to be okay. At a very young age I found out that everything wasn’t going to be okay.
I grew up in an era where most of the major league sports players usually played their careers with the same team. I don’t know how kids now get attached to their local team when the pieces change so much each year.
I used to think that leaders and sports stars were somehow all people with great character. There all just as flawed as the rest of us.
I believed I could become an artist someday. It does seem ridiculous today because I gave up on it for so many decades. But maybe, just maybe if I’m given some more time here, I might make that belief as a kid come around.
It’s the Great Pumpkin Charlie Brown. Photo by Mike Hartley
The daily prompt wants to know – What’s a piece of media (book, movie, song) that changed how you see the world?
When I was young there was a lot of music talking about the chaos in the country. CSNY (Crosby Stills Nash and Young) was one of them that reached me. I was maybe 12 when I started listening to what was classified as counterculture music. The kind your parents came in and said what the hell is that.
Many songs from the late 60s and early 70s were ones that inspired emotions, gave messages that made you think, challenged norms. I know I felt changed by much of it. Like the song title from the group Ten Years After “I’d Love To Change The World”
Comment – This is a very important question moving forward. Media can influence how we see the world. And that has never been more obvious than the current times.
I’m not encouraging you to dump getting information because you fear it’s all tainted. It’s always had a slant one way or another depending on your views. BUT in all that information is the truth. You have to dig, you have to question, you have to read and investigate. You have to find trusted sources but also check them from time to time.
And then Teach Your Children as CSNY said. Teach them to love and look for truth.
The daily prompt with a question I’m totally disinterested in. – If you could change the ending of any book, which one would it be.
I don’t have an answer to this question. But I am interested in writing a book. I’ve started a few and haven’t made a ton of progress but each day I’m plugging away. I have trouble imagining the ending right now. As time changes and life change the ending my change.
Because those are the things that I’m writing about. Life, time and what we do with it. Writing is easy. Editing is another thing. I’m learning I just need to write first and edit later. I get caught up in mixing the two together too often.
I don’t even want to think about an ending now because the journey is still going on and that is the enjoyable part of the process. The end/finish line is the sense of accomplishment. But the writing up to that ending is what makes that special.
A good book on a nice day on patio of Whole Foods building. Photo by Mike Hartley
What’s the best advice you’d give someone younger than you? – A dangerous question from the daily prompt.
Advice can be dangerous. Good advice is priceless. I’ve given a bit of advice to young people over time. I’ve worked with a lot of young people and I’ve enjoyed it. Yes, I was frustrated at times but the energy and new looks they can bring inspired me during my career.
Given the fact that most people are younger than me this is what I do most days. You’d think I’d be an expert by now. But I’m not.
So, I’ll keep it simple young people –
Never give up hope, believe in yourself, find a passion, work hard at it and love a lot.
Now here is some advice, on advice.
Lots of people will give advice far beyond their reach.
All advice comes from someone else’s perspective. That necessarily isn’t bad, but it might not be the best path for you.
Consider the source of the advice.
A lot of advice is best displayed by examples.
If you’re giving advice to someone important to you and it isn’t received the first try, please try to find another way to impart the important information.
Giving advice is a lot about the proper timing for the advice.
People will give advice that was good in their day and may not apply to current times. And that isn’t intentionally bad advice, it’s just what worked for them in their time.
Most of the time people giving advice have good intentions, but there are a few people in this world that will give bad advice intentionally. We’ll let me correct that. There are a lot of bad people in this world who will give you bad advice, but thankfully there are still more good people. But this should be a word of caution on accepting all advice.
I’ve listened to great advice and horrible advice. Don’t beat yourself up over the bad advice and learn from it. And don’t get too cocky over the good advice, remember that came from someone else and you just used it.
The daily prompt asks – Who are you most inspired by?
That is a hard question to answer because there have been different people at different times in my life. My mom inspired me early on. Various co-workers and managers have inspired me over the professional years. My children always inspire me to be a great father.
My better half inspires me. But I think most of my inspiration comes from within.
Upon further reflection, I think my grandchildren inspire me the most right now.
What’s a book, movie, or TV show that you wish you could experience again for the first time? – Interesting ask by the daily prompt.
Let’s see, I plan on spending some time at the beach, so I don’t need to see Jaws again for the first time. And the more I think about this question it’s almost impossible to answer. I think back to books, tv shows, and movies and most of my favorites are linked to that point of time in my life a good while back, so seeing again for the first time now wouldn’t be the same at all.
So instead of those choices I’m going to pick music and a concert because music is timeless and hearing The Who or Led Zeppelin again for the first time live would be wild. Of course we would have to reincarnate a few of the musicians.
What’s a common misconception people have about happiness? – An interesting ask from the daily prompt.
Wow, when I read this question my first thought went to Robin Williams. Someone who seemed so happy and spread so much of it in his lifetime was dealing with such internal pain. Behind a lot of smiles, there can be a lot of pain.
I read a simple term a long time ago. It said, “Happiness is a Choice.” I took that to heart more and the opportunity to use it has been great, but it isn’t always true. Life will throw things at you that take happiness away. Sometimes for short periods, sometimes for longer ones.
I don’t know if you can be truly happy if never experience the other side of the coin.
Happiness most of the time just doesn’t appear. Usually, it’s something you do
There is another phrase that goes, “Happiness is fleeting.” I used to think that when I was younger but now, I’m stringing longer periods together.
And you don’t have to be happy all the time. Contentment, satisfaction, listening, observing, rest and relaxation are cool.
Some people are happy just being unhappy. Puzzles the hell out of me but to each their own.
Money and prestige don’t always equal happiness. I’ve had some of the best times in smaller minor league baseball parks than the major league ones.
It’s not the size of the fan its the size of the spirit in the fan. Photo by Mike Hartley
The daily prompt asks – If you could instantly master any skill, what would it be and why?
I’ve always wanted to know either how to play drums or piano. I just have an interest in those instruments. And to have mastered that and be able to create music all day would be wonderful.
Drum set in window of Bill’s Music in Catonsville. Photo by Mike Hartley
What is one way you have grown this year? – Another good self-evaluation question from the daily prompt.
My beard is longer. Just kidding even though it is a bit longer.
These questions are good for me because sometimes I get too busy making the right and wrong decisions and moving on at times.
I’d say I’ve grown better knowing what I want and using time better and on the right things. Both with people and activities. I didn’t get off to the best start in this area but I’m hauling now.
And speaking of time I haven’t been in the seat of my Miata in a few days and I’m about to put my shoes on and go warm that up, put the top down and show my support for The Manual Gearbox Preservation Society.
What is something you wish you could tell your 20-year-old self? A good question from the daily prompt.
Wow that is a long list of things to tell myself now that I have almost 50 years of experience beyond that age.
First, even though I was serious about my work I was busy raising so much hell I probably wouldn’t have listened to much advice. You think you know a lot by the time you’re 20.
I’m going to give two quick answers even though the list I have running through my head now is a long one.
You only have one body. Take care of it and don’t abuse it.
Your mind is your strongest asset. Have confidence in yourself. Make good decisions. Choose friends wisely. Be inspired. You’re capable of much more than you think you are currently, so go for it.
Write your guide to setting healthy boundaries in relationships. – Not such a simple ask from the daily writing prompt.
Wow, just thinking about this is complex because boundaries are different in different relationships. It’s also something that I don’t think about much. I guess I’ve set boundaries over time that people who know me know what they are.
I think one boundary that a lot of my friends and I have come to in our senior years is that we don’t want a lot of negativities around. Life is too short to negative. Not that we don’t get there now and then on a point, but we don’t stay there and stay on topics we enjoy more now.
Okay, I admit I’m a little soft on my knowledge on the topic even though I feel like I’ve been good at communicating with people on this topic on what mine are. So, I found a chart to help me.
Physical – I’m a physical person. I shake hands with people, I hug people, I kiss those close to me. I respect others physical boundaries and don’t expect them to be the same as mine.
Emotional – I respect other feelings, as long as they respect mine.
Intellectual – The thoughts, beliefs and ideas of others are theirs. And they can have them because it’s a free country. That doesn’t mean I have to accept or agree with them.
Time – this is a tough one for most people. Who do you spend your time with and how much. People have expectations of time, and this is often the cause of tension in relationships. It’s not just showing up on time. It’s the quality of time you give people and would like from them.
Material – property, giving and lending. Be very clear in these areas. As with all boundaries, communication is key.
Spiritual – Wow this is a touchy one. I once had a close friend of many years who became very involved in faith to deal with another issue. He said to me that I’m going to hell because I didn’t believe exactly like he did. Our relationship was changed for the worse when that transpired.
Sexual – Having been married many decades you would think we got this one down. But as we age, that also changes, so you need to adapt and talk.
Don’t forget to set those boundaries and communicate them early. Photo by Mike Hartley
I always have my eye open for colorful shots. I’m not sure how to describe this one. But it’s one I’m leading with tonight because like those shirts I feel bright and happy.
And there is good reason for this. My one-year-old granddaughter said Papa Papa today. And I got to play with my grandson most of the afternoon.
Shot in Old Ellicott City. Photo by Mike Hartley
I didn’t get out to shoot because before the children came, I was mowing grass. And that’s not a short task. The sun was bright today and hot. Not as bad as yesterday but still a warm one.
In keeping with the goal though I will find something to shoot before the day is over. I did get some photos uploaded to my Zenfolio space. That is going to be a big effort this summer. Getting images into that system every day.
The daily prompt with an out of this world questions this morning. – Do you think humans will ever colonize Mars? What would life there actually look like?
The answer to the first question is no. The answer to the second question is, I don’t care. I like life here on earth and if we start taking care of ourselves and this planet it could be a beautiful place.
So, what to pontificate on this Sunday morning.
I think a day trip is in order this week. And I’ll get the firepit roaring in the evenings again, being it’s going to cool off a bit this week.
How to make the best use of today? Stay busy. Take a ride with the top down. Love and play with my grandchildren. Eat smart.
There was a deer with her newborn fawn in my backyard this morning.
The Knicks won the NBA championship. Proving it’s still a TEAM game. No superstar, just a bunch of guys playing together.
Well, it looks like the timing for that bad weather and the UFC fight on the White House lawn are set to kick off around the same time. Thank you, Karma. The place looks like hell. Half the house torn down, cock fighting in the front yard. I’m sure they’re bringing some outhouses in for all those people. All we need is a few cars up in cinder blocks and a few more trailers and were there.
Some high broken clouds this morning in Maryland. Photo by Mike Hartley
The daily prompt asks – What’s a cultural tradition from another country that you wish existed in yours?
I was aware of a few traditions from other countries, but when I looked at some of the others, I was enlightened and somewhat surprised.
One stood out to me that I wasn’t aware of. In Finland, it has been traditional since the 19th century to participate in eukonkanto – the sport of wife-carrying. There’s even a Wife Carrying World Championship.
So, if the World Cup isn’t your thing or coming to the USA isn’t desirable now (I understand and apologize) you can get to Finland for the 2026 championship in July.
What are the biggest mistakes people make when visiting your country? – Tough question from the daily prompt. Hope I don’t misinterpret it.
I would guess people think there is a lot more crime and violence here than there actually is. Another thing I might think people visiting would make is with food. Portion sizes here are large compared to other parts of the world I believe.
I’m thinking America has a reputation of being a rather rude or in your face country. I’d say a small percentage of us behave like assholes. Most of us are very friendly.
When you’re traveling state to state pretend you just entered a different country.
Don’t assume we have competent leadership here.
This is a tip and tax country.
I guess most countries have some form of racing. And some of you might have seen racing in the USA also. Maybe the Indy 500 or Daytona 500. Well, we don’t really separate that from our highways here so if you’re renting a car, get ready to compete.
There is a lot of Natural and Man-Made beauty in this country. It’s also a very BIG country and if you are out wandering be careful and know the environment/weather before venturing out. Speaking of weather, don’t underestimate it. We have it all, hurricanes, earthquakes, tornados, floods, blizzards, ice storms.
There are a lot of chains here in the USA. But just like your home country some of the best places are local independently owned restaurants. Locals will gladly share the best spots.
Have a great visit please. Despite our incompetent leader and his circus clowns we love other nationalities and ethnicities. Those who hate are too stupid to realize they built a lot of this country.
Washington Monument and Capital. Photo by Mike Hartley
What’s a song that always puts you in a good mood? – Now there is a good question from the daily prompt.
I’ve been listening to music this morning as I’ve been working on several things. And I’m in a good mood so the group that has put a pep in my step this morning has been The Doobie Brothers. Here are some songs from them that have been filling my headphones.
I’ve written before on some fears I’ve overcome, and how I did it. – But the daily prompt insists on asking it again.
For a while after retirement, I thought the number of fears I had were increasing. Now a couple of years into it, I feel less fear than I did before.
Some have changed. I used to drive back and forth to Washington DC and some of the busiest surrounding areas. So, driving in some of the most congested and dangerous areas was nothing. Now the beltways and interstates aren’t that comfortable anymore now that I’m not competing in the daily death race back and forth to work.
As I was getting into my 50s, I used to fear getting older and sick again. That fear is faded because I guess we all eventually accept the inevitable. I just make the best of each day now.
I never feared speed before. I don’t think I fear it now; I just don’t have that desire anymore. I don’t think it’s out of fear, but I guess anything is possible.
You ever stop fearing for your children or grandchildren. I just spend as much time loving them and with them and that helps.
I used to fear people who I thought were super intelligent. Then I realized that most of them have big deficiencies in other areas.
The thing that scares me the most now are those ads for these meds with all the nasty side effects like death and things like that yet living. I hope I never have a need for them.
My main fear now is the messed-up world we are leaving our children with. I’m going to try to overcome that fear by working on changing it for the better.
The daily prompt asks a good question today – How do you build loyal subscribers?
We used to have a saying in the newspaper business that “Content is King” meaning if you have good and interesting content, well displayed organized and illustrated, they will come and stay.
I hope something I present here connects with people maybe an image makes them smile or laugh. And I thank you for subscribing if you choose to.
It’s not that I don’t care about people looking at this. I’ve met some very nice and supportive people here and I love this environment more than other social media platforms. Not that I utilize others much. A little Facebook that I’d like to ditch because of ownership, but life is short and I’d still like to keep a few long-distance relationships I have going through that platform.
I’m puzzled by some of my subscribers, some are just doing it to get their site attention and they are selling something. Others in faraway places in the world puzzle me also.
I’m guessing a few may subscribe for nefarious reasons.
But back to the question, (my mind wanders often). Obviously the first change I’d make is to make navigating my blog easier. I’d switch off this out and no longer supported theme. I’d have sections for the work I’m presenting. I’d build more things to promote interaction. I’d build value into the site by providing expertise, experience, information, and views that are important to a target audience.
You find out what your subscribers want and provide that information to them. You can entertain them, maybe it’s finding other like-minded people to that bond to build something bigger and better. Like the challenges that people run.
I do this for fun. I do this to improve my skills. I do this to grow mentally and challenge myself. I do it in bits and pieces between a very busy life. None of this probably builds loyal subscribers. I do this because of my daily publishing background has somehow ingrained in me to publish daily on my own.
One day I’ll get my act together and make this something that will have some significant subscribers because I hope to have much better content. And Content is King.
But it won’t matter a bit to me if that doesn’t happen either as long as keep having fun at it. Thankfully subscribers aren’t what drives this effort. Not that I don’t appreciate them, the comments and likes makes me think someone enjoyed my somersaults.
The daily prompt asks – Share a proverb you think is completely wrong and make your case.
Blood is thicker than water. – That can be true with some family members but maybe not all. I’ve seen and been part of fractured families. I’ve had friends closer to me than family.
Don’t cross that bridge till you come to it. – Wrong, planning is important. If you don’t think ahead, you might not consider the options you have when you get to that bridge.
Every cloud has a silver lining – While a lot of them might, not everyone does. Just like storms, some roll in right behind one another with bad news.
Fall seven times, stand up eight. – I’m all for perseverance but see a doctor if you’re falling that much.
Do you believe in soulmates? Why or why not? – Asks the daily prompt.
Soulmates is a term I haven’t used a lot, but I feel like I’ve had several. So yes, I believe in them.
That connection that is stronger than most. The feeling that they know you and you know them on a deeper level.
Lots of marriages have found their soulmates and their love for each other is boundless and unconditional. Soulmates look into your eyes and you into theirs.
Soulmates don’t lose connection because they are naturally drawn together. You understand them easily. You can understand their pain and empathize with them. You say good things about each other and support each other. In ways that make you both better.
You’re in sync with each other, you listen better and interact with enthusiasm.
The other day I remembered an old childhood friend. We were soulmates. I’ve been married to my soulmate for decades. And luckily a few more are soulmates that I’ve had for decades.
Soulmates can rescue and save you at times in life. And you for them.
Why do I believe in them. I’ve experienced it.
Sometimes soulmates never speak a word but communicate more than most people.
Getting by with a little help from my friends. Photo by Mike Hartley
What’s something you’d love to see in the future, but know you probably won’t live to witness? – Interesting question from the daily prompt.
I’d love to see peace in the world but that certainly won’t happen in my lifetime.
I’d love to see great leadership appear and guide this country in a better direction. I guess it’s a possibility, but it seems so far off.
I’d love to see people live in better harmony with the earth we live on. We are abusing our own home. And I probably won’t be around to see the real damage we have done.
I’d love to see all my grandchildren as adults finding their love and being happy.
The People Tree by Lake Kittamaqundi. Photo by Mike Hartley
What’s a moment in your life that felt like it was straight out of a movie? – Asks the daily prompt.
We were nearing the end of a wild vacation trip that ended in Daytona Beach Florida. We were debating whether to stay another day or two. That morning we were speaking with some friends back home and they told us about a party that evening. We said we’d be back the next day or the day after that.
But after having breakfast we joked about showing up and surprising them. We continued to joke about it but let some time lapse and then looked at each other and said “Let’s Do It.” That became our moto because the movie Animal House had just been released and we saw it on the 2nd day of a 9-day trip.
That drive was like a Smokey and the Bandit or Cannonball run movie.
We had my nice old Camaro and broke a few speed limits, we’ll all of them on the way back in record time and showed up and surprised the crew. We took turns driving, each tank of gas, which that V8 ate like candy.
One of those stupid things you do as a youth. It was the most fun I’ve ever had driving though. And one of the best vacations ever outside of family ones.
I don’t have a good shot of my old favorite, but it looked like this but in maroon color.
The daily prompt asks me to – Go on a walk today and share a photo of something that catches your eye.
I had already planned on going for a walk today. Later this morning in fact and yes, I would have my cameras with me as normal. That is what I do now in retirement. I take pictures when I get the opportunity. I write, draw, paint, and carve also.
The problem in fulfilling this request is that I usually do the daily prompt between 2 and 5am. Not the ideal walking time on a cool first morning in June. Kind of dark also.
So, I’ll share a photo I took on a walk recently. And as always, my intent is as the sign says below. Framing Life’s Best Views is my mission. Along with some levity.
What’s the first book you ever finished and still remember to this day. – Asks the daily prompt.
That is a long time ago to remember the first book I ever read. I still have a few old books on my shelf that may have been the first I remember. The first is Operation Deep Freeze. From my dad that is signed by the author Rear Admiral George J. Dufek who he served under. Dad went on operation Deep Freeze I & II.
It’s also signed by several of the captains of the ships on those voyages. Those go over a few pages, so I just shot the author’s signature.
The other book is American Sports Hero’s by Fred Katz.
What’s the most profound piece of advice you’ve been given? Did you take it? – Interesting questions from the daily prompt.
A wise person once said to me at work. “Mike, you know this area in and out and you love it. You’re an excellent teacher and skilled but I need you to let go of it and be involved in new things that keep us growing.
Yes, I took it and it helped me take some more risks in the future that worked out well.
So, my advice to you is to go for it.
Its green and the town is trying to get going. Photo by Mike Hartley
The daily prompt asks – If you had an unlimited budget for 24 hours, what would you do?
I’m cranky and don’t like questions like this. Spending time in fantasy land instead of doing something productive is counterproductive to me.
Thinking like this fuel’s addictions like gambling. That goal of money and greed isn’t good. But it seems that is the focus of so many of us.
Even if you were thinking of doing good for 24 hours that is an enormous task. And it’s too much responsibility for me to even map out in post this morning. Plus, my grandchildren will be here within the hour, and I have to turn into Mr. Entertainment.
Me, I’m going to stay and spend within my income budget and try to make the world a better place and enjoy the people around me today.
Photo by Mike HartleyPhoto by Mike HartleyPhoto by Mike HartleyPhoto by Mike Hartley
What’s a show that had the perfect series finale? – Asks the daily prompt.
I was always a big fan of the show M*A*S*H and thought that final was good. There were two others that I also liked. The Newhart show and Cheers had good finales.
Of course, Derek Jeter last game at Yankee Stadium was also great with a walk-off hit to win the game in the 9th.
It’s not over till we say it’s over. Photo by Mike Hartley
The daily prompt asks – If you could have dinner with any philosopher, who would it be?
I’ll be selecting my close friends. They aren’t on any list of any famous philosophers of the past or present. But we are all great philosophers and provide endless enlightenment and solutions, far and wide each time we gather.
We have been doing it for decades. For most of our lives it’s been weekly gatherings from the time we were teenagers. We have explored every facet of life with abandon and humor. We never run out of thoughts and almost die laughing together on many of our observations and takes of life.
Were a bunch of nuts who love to have a great time. Sometimes after a day of fishing. Maybe a ballgame. Or just our regular weekly gathering exploring fixes that are sometimes eye opening or very funny and absurd recommendations. Most of the time after a very hard week at work and raising a family and trying to stay sane.
In our younger days we were always gathering after we finished playing basketball together. Watching a football or hoops game or just raising holy hell which we tended to do regardless of the reason for getting together.
We have had so many fun dinners together. Where everyone contributed to the prep, cooking and cleaning. All the while getting toasted as Joan of Arc. Retiring to the front porch to watch the sunset over the water and continue pontificating on the world and everything in it. Then retiring to the firepit for the final analysis and shots for the evening.
When one of our stalwarts tries to stand and asks what round it is and someone says the “fights over man”, and others grab his arms and say “were going to the locker room” as we walk him back towards his house and bed.
Thinking is always better by a fire. Photo by Mike Hartley
How do you handle fear and self-doubt? – Asks the daily prompt.
Interesting question to field so early in the morning. I believe I handle those two differently.
Fear is quick and I don’t let it get to me. Yes, it’s a natural response in situations but it’s how you deal with it. I learned about handling fear when riding a motorcycle.
One of the first things I learned is not to overreact. Grabbing the front brake too hard and you fly over the handlebars. Stomp the rear brake too hard you’re going to skid and lose control. The front brake is about 70% of the stopping power so it’s a balance of using both brakes the right way and staying in control that helps you stop the quickest. At least that is the old logic. It’s been a few decades since grabbing the throttle.
Luckily, I had a good friend explain that to me early on and practice makes perfect. Well almost, it’s still how you react in that situation. But if you’ve done it lots of times it’s more likely you will survive.
Next with fear is fixating on something instead of thinking and looking ahead. You go where you look on a bike and if you’re focused on the problem then you’re heading right towards it. What are your alternatives/actions you can take.
Emergency fear on a bike. Someone once told me that people react in one of 3 ways. Some just shut their eyes and shut down. Some are transfixed on the problem ahead and then there are those who react/avert and save themselves.
Self-doubt I have more issues with. It’s plagued me throughout my life. Few people can beat me up like me. Even when I know I’ve done well or a good job, I’m always picking it apart.
Self-doubt has kept me from even participating in things or taking positions at work.
Age helps overcome self-doubt. That experience leads to more confidence at least while taking the next step and moving forward. Having good people around you will help you with self-doubt because they will acknowledge that you have skills and smarts. And encourage you to do more.
I got much better in dealings with self-doubt in my 30s and 40s and had overcome it in my 50s and 60s at work when I had a duo of confidence and experience to balance it out.
But then an interesting thing happened. Age betrayed me. In my last year of work, I noticed things that used to be root knowledge I was suddenly questioning myself again and looking at my notes to make sure I was right. I was always right but self-doubt had crept back into my life.
And in retirement I feel that more again now not being so sure of things. I guess I have more work to do in this area again.
Holy crap, what a question for an early Saturday morning after a late Friday night from the daily prompt.
What is the meaning of life?
If I had that answer, I wouldn’t be the screwed-up mess, sitting at this keyboard. I guess I should be looking for it being I’m in the later stages of life. Maybe pass on that wisdom to my family. Here is my best shot.
Sharing love, laughter and learning. Leaving the world a better place than you found it. Finding connections with people and opportunities to make yourself and others around you better. To always be there for family. To have appreciation. To find love. To find that thing inside you that makes you happy. To be grateful and share joy. Make a lot of good memories along the way.
What’s a word or phrase that annoys you? – The daily prompt starts this Friday with a negative thought.
The term Work/Life Balance is a joke. Very few of us can ever achieve that.
Another one is Do What You Love. Another dream that few of us can pull off. I did a post recently with that and it was in the context of doing something else my entire life and now just getting the chance in my last years of life to do what I love. A lot of people don’t even get that opportunity.
There was a phrase at work that used to piss me off that management would use. Guarantee this problem never appears or happens again. The only guarantee in life is that you are born, and you will die.
People using the term Fake News in defending untrue positions.
The word MAYBE. Just give me a yes or no.
Another annoying phrase that comes to mind is MAGA. We will be decades making this country great again after the damage 47 has done.
The words HR (human resources) Is Here for You. HR is there to protect the company primarily.
And the last one, I Did My Best. I’ve tried never to say that, to me it means I gave up at some point. Instead, I would explain to the end of the earth my logic and actions. And most of the time someone else would say You Did Your Best or You Gave It Your Best Effort. Usually when people with more knowledge see that they would share more important information or skills.
In my later years at work when I was the one sharing knowledge, I got questioned why I was working more with some people than others and my reply was they showed effort and or initiative.
Okay, this exercise has been good. I thought it would annoy me even more recalling things like this, but I can move on not to more positive thoughts and actions.
How do you plan the perfect road trip? – Asks the daily prompt.
The term (Road Trip) has brought a smile to my face since the day I started driving. I’ve been on a lot of road trips and some of them have been perfect, but they weren’t well planned.
Some of the best road trips were the simplest. Like my solo trips to Ocean City MD. on my motorcycle. Or in recent years in the Miata with the top down. And of course, trips with my better half. Those are better planned than mine.
I don’t think you really plan the perfect road trip. Some of the best things have been the new roads taken. Or the new people you meet. Or the things you discover along the way. And maybe what you do when you hit your destination.
The perfect trip goes with the flow of how you feel. I’ve had perfect timing crossing the Chesapeake Bay bridge as the sun rises. Other mornings I’m at the beach already watching it rise over the Atlantic Ocean. Both of those are perfect. And I’ve rolled into town hours after sunrise and pulled into my favorite pancake house on a whim and felt great.
Of course, the perfect road trip means having a reliable ride.
If everything works out my perfect road trip this summer will be a sunny day in the high 80s inland and low 80s at the beach with a mild breeze. The top will be down on the car, and I’ll ignore the $5 or $6 a gallon for gas. I will be going mid-week and off hours, so no traffic.
I’ll travel light, packing a beach towel, flip flops, bathing suit, cameras and a cooler. Leaving before sunrise and getting to the ocean between 7 and 8 AM. Some breakfast and head to the beach for a few hours of sun, sand and water. Lunch at The Wedge bar overlooking the inlet as boats go in and out.
Cruise Coastal Highway for a bit and maybe head to Bethany Beach for a visit there and maybe some more beach time. Then back to OC for sunset and dinner overlooking the bay. Maybe Fager’s Island where they play the 1812 Overture at sunset where the song ends as the sun escapes the horizon. I think they then break out the Ray Charles version of America the Beautiful after that.
Then the place starts hopping with a band. But I’ll go out for a night cruise and some night photography to go along with the shooting I do during the day. Hitting Dumsers after that for a cherry ice cream soda before heading home or finding a place to stay for the evening.
Considering there is constant rain in the forecast for the next 6 days it will be a bit before this road trip is mobile. I guess that gives me time to come up with more plans.
What’s a moment that made you realize you were stronger than you thought? – Asks the daily prompt.
I’m not sure if it’s good that I have a selection of moments to choose from or not. I guess it’s all part of what makes up life. Moments of great loss stand out to me. There were several of them between the ages of 9 and 29. Those were tough and made me stronger.
I never knew the strength needed to be a father till I was one.
I didn’t know I could stand up for myself on the job till I was faced with many situations that were turning points for me and my career.
Fighting a couple bouts with cancers were more tests. I’m not sure whether you just fight or if I was stronger than I thought. Probably a little of both.
I stopped drinking for decades and only dabble infrequently now. Not bad for a serious alcoholic in my youth.
But I guess the moment that popped to mind was each day. Fighting off moments of depression and great sadness. Some days it’s okay and easy to get past. Other days I shed tears and have to work and fight to get through emotions or the funk I get myself into.
At one point or many, each day the battle ensues. And each day I win because I’m still here.
And what do they say about driving through standing water? YEEE HA. Photo by Mike Hartley
What’s a simple pleasure in life that brings you joy? – Asks the daily prompt.
I’m getting a little out of sorts so I thought it would be a good idea to list more than one thing. And remind me that there are a lot of simple pleasures in life because it gets tough sometimes and these things are forgotten.
Being healthy enough to get out of bed each day.
A warm summer night.
Music
Convertibles and Manual Transmissions.
A warm shower.
The sound of my grandchildren’s voices and their hugs.
Watching a sunrise or sunset.
Washing my car.
A walk with my better half.
Taking and sharing photos.
A fall evening by the firepit.
Beach sand between my toes and the sound of waves hitting the beach.
Observing nature.
Remembering where I left my keys on the first try.
My good friends Flip and Flop.Photo by Mike Hartley
The daily prompt asks – If you could erase one movie from your memory and watch it again for the first time, which one would it be?
If the above were true, I’d sit down with my almost 4-year-old grandson and watch Toy Story again for the first time. It’s been a good while since watching a lot of kids animated movies.
Also, an old one called (The Great Escape) and maybe (The Blues Brothers).
The daily prompt asks – How do you stay motivated when learning something new?
I try to look at learning as an opportunity. If I can put what I learn into practice, I’m usually more motivated. If I see results in what I’m learning that is also good motivation.
I’ve found over time if it’s something you’re interested in, have a passion for, then learning is easy and staying motivated is just par for the course.
I had a hell of a time staying motivated for Oracle database training. I had no desire to be a DBA. Because I love being a UNIX Administrator.
Being with others, learning at the same time and then building on that knowledge together is motivating and fun.
When teaching something to people I tried to make it fun where I could.
I learned that learning got me places and that is motivating.
I’ve turned down titles and money for an opportunity to learn something different.
When working and I wanted to learn something new about an area I would always pick the person who seemed to love his work and or take the most pride in it.
In my last few years of work in my 60s I had the pleasure of working with some younger people. Lots of them with degrees and titles and backgrounds. What motivated me was to prove to them that this old fossil had a lot of important knowledge and could learn about their area and bring something more to the table.
Throughout my career in publishing, we were always learning something new. There was always constant change in technology. And I guess that is what made it fun with all the people I got to experience it with. Well, most of them.
Being retired now I don’t push myself like the old days. Motivation is easy because I’m doing some things I hoped to be doing when I got out of school at a young age.
I’m motivated to see what other bloggers and photographers are doing and learning from them. In doing something myself each day I hope I’m learning and improving my own creative efforts.
The daily prompt with another book question – What’s a book that completely surprised you?
A book that surprised me and helped me prepare for retirement was (The Joy of Not Working). I read it years before I retired but it got me thinking and moving towards what I wanted to do and be in retirement. It also made me reevaluate how I was working then.
It was the kind of book that was about the opposite of what I was about at the time. I was all work and a little more work sprinkled on top. It wasn’t an overnight change that happened but more of a gradual awakening. Questioning myself on my work/life balance, being comfortable with the thought of retirement and then the planning for the transition and getting busy on what my new life would be without Da Job.
Speaking of retirement, I love it. My better half and others were worried about me handling life without work. I keep busy and what I do feels fun and rewarding. And in hindsight, I wish I had done it sooner.
Steps in life, one flower to the next. Photo by Mike Hartley
How can you build a regular fitness routine? – Now there is a very good question.
It’s a question I have yet to answer successfully. One I work on each year, but the plan usually gets out of sync at some point and doesn’t recover.
Routine is the problem. Nothing about the timing of my life is routine. My sleep schedule is all over the place. And there are days my body isn’t up to it. So, I’m not even interested in building a regular routine.
I’m in better shape than I’ve been in for years in terms of my weight. I’m probably 10 pounds away from ideal weight and I’ve been there but the lack of exercise the last few weeks and a few more cokes here and 10 pounds magically appear.
I’ve made walking more a part of my life because I made it a priority. Not because of any routine, but because I do it when I get the feeling or opportunity. And that can be any hour of the day or night.
I’m not a gym person. I’ve got some small weights at home. I gave away my bench a few decades ago. I get a lot of exercise taking care of things around the house and yard. And that is physical work. And I’m trying to stay limber and stretched.
There are the grandchildren also, which is very physical. That part really isn’t fair. The older I get the heavier they get so lifting them with the same energy doesn’t do it as time goes along. So, I guess I should get busy with some more strength training because if I’m lucky enough to see them graduate in many years down the road, I’d still like to lift them off their feet as I do now.
I don’t remember my children being as heavy as my grandchildren. Photo by Mike Hartley
The daily prompt asks – What’s a classic book that you think is overrated?
I would be the worst judge in history to answer this question because my classic book experience is limited. And instead of slandering someone without basis I’ll share this opinion. It’s not that I don’t read, just not many classic books.
I think the world is losing the tactical feel of reading. Maybe it’s just my old generation but seeing a train full of people reading a newspaper or magazine or book was a picture that only lives in my mind now. Holding something in your hands that doesn’t have a battery in it.
In the past you could pick up the local paper and get the feel of a place. Those no longer exist and if they do, they are struggling to stay in business.
Books seem to be the last baston of printed reading holding their own.
Anyway, just my opinion. A smartphone isn’t a reading tool unless you want eyestrain issues.
A good book on a nice day on patio of Whole Foods building. Photo by Mike Hartley
Who are some underrated people in history? – Asks the daily prompt.
I had trouble coming up with some off the top of my head this morning and I went searching for the answer. Wow, there are so many important people I’ve never heard of before or their link to the development of our world. It’s quite amazing, the sheer number of important inventions, breakthroughs, world-changing things people did that I didn’t know about a I suspect few others know about also unless they were in that specific field.
And what I thought as I was going through this multitude of names and contributions is that the answer is (All of US).
I think back to my working days, and I was fortunate enough to work for companies that were team orientated. Oh, there were stars who got public acknowledgement for their work and recognized for it. What I liked is that most were humble about it and shared the credit with co-workers. Not everyone, but a vast majority.
For they knew it was a group effort that made it possible.
All of us are underrated. Some already have made important contributions and live in autonomy and others will make them and be unaware of them.
Maybe it’s something simple like an idea or thought you share with someone that triggers more thoughts and action on a subject.
Many of us toil behind the scenes, people who aren’t the face of companies or leaders who are recognized for their breakthroughs or success. But a lot of us are responsible or contributed significantly towards it.
We get up and go in every morning and try to make positive changes and give supreme effort. We do it because we believe in something. We are inspired to keep it moving forward.
That is what I liked about newspapers. That daily deadline. Getting a complex product of a gazillion inputs, printed and distributed before anyone stirs in the mornings, each and every day. A thing of the past now days, but so exciting and thrilling when it was what everyone had in their hands each morning.
So, to all of us who make the world go round each day, without that fanfare, without the accolades, without the rewards, you know who you are because you probably have the respect of those, shoulder to shoulder with you and that is enough.
Section of press from The Washington Post. The old College Park facility. Photo by Mike Hartley
Well okay, I’ll pick someone. – The flush toilet was first invented by Sir John Harington in 1596, with later improvements by Alexander Cummings.
What are the biggest benefits of minimalist living? – Asks the daily prompt.
I’m not sure what everyone’s definition of minimalist living is so I’ll stick with some general benefits.
It’s probably easier to find your keys being you have a small home.
For a lot of us it probably means living within our means.
You don’t have room to be a hoarder.
You might discover some of those luxury items are a pain in the ass.
Simplifying things might lead you to discover the importance of being content with yourself.
Let’s you focus on life and people instead of things.
Easier to figure out what to wear.
Travel time for vacation is reduced to picking up the folding chair and taking it outside.
You’re not the target of people who will steal.
I love the ability to appreciate the small things in life and being happy with what I have. It makes life a lot easier. I’m not saying I live a minimalist lifestyle, but it is compared to most of the people I know. And that’s fine with me.
You don’t need a boat or beach home to enjoy the view. Photo by Mike Hartley
What’s a thing you were completely obsessed with as a kid? – Asks the daily prompt.
Sports and games were the things that obsessed my early youth. Basketball was top, baseball was second and football was third, but we would play anything. We would sometimes ride bikes or skateboards. Any game would do. Played a lot of tennis and some volleyball.
We played a lot of ping pong in the colder months and board games also.
I’ve got to get back to being a kid again and playing more.
What’s the most interesting local custom you’ve encountered. – Asks the daily prompt.
Well, very locally we all go to the Woodstock Snowball Stand regularly.
The county fair is still popular. And the annual music and arts festival in Ellicott City is still rolling.
But our state custom is CRABS. Steamed Blue Crabs. Lots of them. Spending the day catching them. And all afternoon or evening picking crabs is the Maryland way.
I could claw my way through a few of these. Photo by Mike Hartley
Locally caught and cooked.
Crab sculpture. Photo by Mike Hartley
We are into crab art.
Get ready for the summer of sun, beach and crabs. Photo by Mike Hartley
The sun, a wooden mallet and small knife and you’re in business.
Old Bay is a seasoning that we love to put on crabs and other seafood dishes. Photo by Mike Hartley
If you had to describe your ideal life, what would it look like? – The daily prompt asks.
When I hear a question about ideal life, I think of the movie Tombstone, where Wyatt Earp is talking to Doc Holiday and Doc replies to him. “There’s no normal life, Wyatt. There’s just life. Now get on with it.”
Yes, I think about things in life that could be better, but I feel fortunate that I’ve had the life I’ve been given. I’ve had my share of hardships and losses. But if changing any of that meant changing any of the good things that have come our way, I wouldn’t.
I’ve got a family. That doesn’t always work out for some, but for me it’s ideal.
I’ve got my health. I wake each day and I’m very thankful for that. And I try to make the best of each day despite what may be thrown at me.
We have a roof over our heads and food in the fridge. Is it a mansion or gourmet food? No, but it’s ideal for us.
If I had more time to devote to my hobbies that would be ideal. More time with family and friends would be ideal.
A new tractor to replace the 27-year-old one, I keep patched together and a new shed would be ideal. Actually, having enough to pay someone to do it would be ideal but that is down the road.
I have a car I love to drive. Would I like a stable full of classic cars and muscle cars, you bet. But I’m happy and content, and in life that is ideal.
It would be ideal to spend more time at the beach this summer.
The ultimate ideal is to grow old with my better half and be as healthy as possible while watching our children and grandchildren and maybe even great grandchildren someday all be healthy and happy.
If my better half and I can make it to these seats in a few decades, that’s ideal. Photo by Mike Hartley
What is the best concert you have been to? – Now that is going to be a tough one to answer. I’ll have to go look at some concert stubs.
I used to go to a fair number of concerts in the 70s and 80s. Picking the best is tough. Both The Eagles Hotel California tour Led Zeppelin in 1977 were great shows.
The Who Quadrophenia tour in 1973 and Pink Floyd that same year are my favorites.
The Aerosmith 1975 tour. I’ve seen this band 5 times. 4 of the times either the sound or equipment or musicians were screwed up. But when they get it right, they cook like few others.
And tied for third place is the Doobie Brothers from 1974 and Jethro Tull 1976 tour.
As best recalled from those early years. Those days have some hazy memories.
The daily prompt asks – Which is the best thing to do in your city?
To start, we live in a small town and not a city. We have some nice hiking trails and nature walks at the Howard County Conservancy. And of course, the best thing to do is get a snowball from the Woodstock Snowball Stand and lunch at the Oscars Alehouse or the Woodstock Inn.
There are two major cities we visit that you might recognize. Both Baltimore and Washington are great places to visit. Washington obviously has museums, monuments and memorials that are numerous and moving.
Baltimore, I would say the best thing is Oriole Park at Camden Yards. A ballgame there is a nice experience.
And then there is OUR CITY. Good old Ellicott City. Met my wife who lived there and spent many days at her parents’ home there. Got married in this city. Started my newspaper career there. Went into business with two wonderful partners there. I walk that town regularly now and love photographing it.
Tongue Row EC. Photo by Mike Hartley
Some great places to eat and drink. Shops and businesses are up and running and as always probably struggling. Some struggle successfully for decades. Others change and new ones take their place. It hosts a number of events throughout the year like the Spring festival and many more.
I remember walking out of the Trolley Stop with lunch and seeing this view and my destination on the other side of the bridge. Photo by Mike Hartley
I stand by the river and walk along it many times. The old mill is being redeveloped. Flood mediation efforts are well underway. Trains still pass daily over the bridge at the bottom of town. It’s one of the best changed and unchanged places in the state.
This city has been a big part of my life for over 5 decades now. It’s gone through tremendous changes, and one might think I would miss a lot of old times and people. I do; I will never forget working in this city. Or going to Yates store for some ice cream. Eating a sandwich and milkshake from Dollies by the river. The family walks downtown. My walks with my partners.
I like the fact that people are friendly and helpful. You know locals because we make eye contact and exchange greetings. The best thing to do in my city is whatever I want, because it all feels like home.
A question from the daily prompt – What superpower do you wish you had and why?
I guess what superpower you wish you had depended on how you feel at that moment. Right now, I’m relaxed and fairly content, but my first concern and thoughts of the day as always are my family and friends. So, I guess I’d make them healthy and happy.
Yesterday my superpower would have been to have a lane to myself on that clogged beltway around Baltimore. Unless you like sitting in traffic the why is in the answer.
Last weekend my superpower would have been to have one of the nicest hotrods in Ocean City and free fuel. Because I love nice cars and I like to drive with other hotrods.
It sounded even better. Photo by Mike Hartley
Oh, and I’d also like to remove the bullies of the world. And I know where I’m starting. Why, to make the world a better place.
Oh, one more please. I’d like the ultra-rich to feel some of the pain and suffering and panic that the common working people do. Maybe like when they need the funds for a loved one’s illness and they don’t have it. Or out on the road in a piece of crap car far from home not knowing if you’re going to make it or not and not have a dime in your pocket for help. Or the million and one other struggles people face.
I am working on my superpower to leave a body of work to be proud of. As you can tell, I have a lot of work in front of me.
What’s a mystery from your own life that you’ve never solved? – Asks the daily prompt.
That is a tough one to answer. Quite introspective indeed. As a senior there aren’t many mysteries left if you’re honest with yourself. But if I think hard, there are a few.
The main one is not knowing what traits or attributes that came from my father is a mystery to me. He passed when I was young, so I didn’t really get to know him. In a couple of months, it will be 60 years since I found him slipping away.
Wow, had to pause there for a moment. Still a traumatic experience to remember. Anyway, sometimes you think about how life might have been different if certain events didn’t happen.
I wonder what he would have thought about decisions, careers and family/friends I’ve made.
I mentioned to my better half that I want to get to Arlington this coming weekend or next to visit my parents. His birthday is this month and it’s also the anniversary of my mom passing.
Flags for Memorial Day weekend at Arlington. Photo by Mike Hartley
The daily prompt asks – List the people you admire and look to for advice….
I used to grit my teeth at answering the same questions from the daily prompt. But I realized that times change and perspectives change as well as the people around us. Therefore, I try to update or provide a new perspective and answer the question differently.
But today I don’t think I could provide a better answer than I did 2 years ago so here is that reply.
Admiration is a funny thing. Most of us admire the traits or actions of an individual, not always the whole person. All of us have flaws. So, if you’re looking for that perfect package you might be disappointed with your search.
I also realize the people you admire and look to for advice could be two different people.
I’ll start with an easy one of a sports star I admired. The first would be Derek Jeter. A class act, kept a close group of core people around him, focused on his craft and family, played his best every day, showed up every day, and respected the game and opponents. Showed gratitude for the appreciation. Showed character in difficult years. Showed greatness at key moments.
I admire my parents and always will. They grew up in the Depression era, fought wars, knew hard work, and sacrifice, and passed on some wonderful values.
I admire my better half. Such a strong person in such a small package.
I’ve admired some of my bosses and coworkers over time. I admire our public servants like Fire and Police and those who serve in our military. I admire healthcare workers. And many who do thankless jobs that keep our world running smoothly.
I admire artists of many types. I admire children for their honesty.
I admire volunteers. I admire the happiness of the little girl I used to sit across waiting for radiation treatments. I admire the common man who steps up in emergencies without hesitation.
I admire the friendships I have and have had.
Advice, like opinions, everyone has some for you. I take advice from those very close to me and total strangers. If a professional photographer I’ve never met offers advice it’s probably wise of me to listen and absorb it.
Sorting out the advice you take is key in life. Letting others make decisions for you may not suit your desires in the long run. So I go with my gut, listen to that voice in your head for advice. Enjoy life. As far as any of us know it only comes around once.
The daily prompt asks – Do you vote in political elections?
YES YES YES. And YES again. I’ve always voted even in primaries. Even when my primary choice doesn’t make it to the general election I still VOTE. Everyone should VOTE. It’s part of the problem we find ourselves in, so few people vote.
You don’t just get to sit back and bitch all day if you don’t vote. Actually, you have no right to complain about anything if you choose to not be involved in what affects you.
I can’t remember not voting any chance I had since I was eligible. And that is a lot of elections.
What gives you direction in life? – Asks the daily prompt.
Family gives me a lot of direction, sometimes whether I like it or not. Work used to provide me with professional development direction but being retired I do that myself now and focus on things I like to work on.
Health directs me on what I can do each day. My deceased parents still provide me with the direction they worked hard on providing.
My friends certainly helped me with direction from time to time, again not always the best advice but it’s a lot of fun.
When I’m in the Miata I just head off in any direction that suits me and the car.
I believe in being a good person. I don’t always succeed but I try each day. I try to let common sense guide me.
And if you’re into cars the only direction you saw this Thursday thru Sunday was up and down Coastal Highway at the Cruisin Car show in Ocean City Maryland.
Do you have a quote you live your life by or think of often? – Asks the daily prompt.
I did answer this question a few years ago in a post called Quotes. There are a number of quotes here I like.
I love reading quotes but there are few I live by.
This is my favorite one still. — There are two types of people – those who come into a room and say, “Well, here I am!” and those who come in and say, “Ah, there you are.” Frederick I. Collins
I always want to be the person that says Ah, there you are.
Just like when I see a car I like. Ah, there you are.
The daily prompt asks – What is your favorite holiday? Why is it your favorite?
This is a tough one because I like all holidays now. I worked a lot of holidays over the decades, and I grew very sick of it. So, I savor each one now.
Memorial Day is my favorite. It’s both a holiday of reflection and anticipation and family. I grew up with grandparents who served in WWI and parents who were part of WWII, Korea. I will always remember and respect the members of our armed services. And especially this day to those who gave their lives.
May is a month for remembering my family. I hope to go to Arlington National Cemetery this month to visit my parents. Flags In day is May 21st. That is a beautiful sight.
I like it because I remember what the holiday is for. Not just the kickoff of summer.
Flags lined headstones at Arlington National Cemetery for Memorial Day. Photo by Mike Hartley
Have you ever been camping? – An interesting question from the daily prompt.
I really have to think back about this question. I think I remember camping out as a kid in the Cub Scouts. I know I slept under the stars a few times as a teenager when pulling all-nighters.
I remember camping out all night long for concert tickets when you had to buy them at the box office.
I’ve slept on a beach overnight. I’ve slept on the 18th green. Ah those younger days.
When do you feel the most productive? – Asks the daily prompt.
Usually between 3am and 9am is the time I’m most productive on my hobbies and exercise. From 9am to 5pm I’m most productive on the home and yard work. 5pm to midnight I’m most productive on having fun.
So pretty much all day.
I feel productive if the love I shared with someone is felt. I feel productive when I’ve given my best effort that day. I feel productive when I can look back and see or feel something accomplished.
Float like a jellyfish, sting like a jellyfish. Photo by Mike Hartley
The daily prompt is asking a question (What are your favorite emojis?) that I have no answer for because I’m old and say what I want with words and actions.
My favorite emotions are laughter and love. And I think I’ll try to spread both today.
The daily prompt asks – What topics do you like to discuss?
I used to enjoy addressing issues that face us and our government but that went out about a decade ago. I can talk about cars and sports, but I tend to like deeper issues and conversations now.
The important things in life. Relationships, how to spend the days in retirement. I can talk about grandkids and the pride I had in working in the newspaper industry. Remember the importance of the Sunday Newspaper. Well, a few of the old timers do.
The changes I’ve seen in technology is a topic I can expand on a good bit. I’d like to talk about my hobbies and interests, but few share them.
Food, history, nature and fun things to do are all good topics.
When is the last time you took a risk? How did it work out? – Asks the daily prompt.
Every time we get in our cars we take a risk. Yesterday was no different except the incident was right in my own neighborhood. I’ve lived here for 40 years, and I’ve never been passed on our neighborhood street. Our neighborhood is only one dead end street that is less than a half mile long.
So, on the way home after dinner this car flew past me a few doors up from my home on a curve. I went down the street to see where this person was going. I returned to my home and calmed down for a few minutes before walking down to the home that used to be one of our friends who had just moved a few months before, so these are new neighbors.
I was calm in speaking to the mother who came to the door and didn’t curse or threaten but I made it clear that wasn’t acceptable being I was doing 23 mph in a 25-mph speed limit. I pointed out that there are a lot of children, grandchildren and elderly around and it would be very serious if someone were to get hurt. She said she’d speak to her son.
Well, the father came up later and apologized for the son and said he would be up also to speak to me also. I thought that was great because that is what I would do except I’d have my son with me.
I’m not the neighborhood busy body or police but when someone does something that threatens the community, I’ll say something. Now there are people in the world where this might not have turned out as well. Unfortunately, I’ll probably get a second swing at this because there is another new neighbor who has some friends that come over in their exotic cars and have gotten squirrely in the neighborhood.
The daily prompt asks me to – Describe a risk you took that you do not regret.
Risky things I don’t regret.
Going 140 mph on a motorcycle – was exhilarating.
Getting married – a wonderful family as a result.
Buying a home when we couldn’t afford it was a big risk, but it worked out.
Sharing my work (photos and words) finally.
When I was young and at a fair I went on a ride and it broke while we were on it. They couldn’t stop it for almost an hour. That is one risk I regret and won’t get on amusement rides again.
The daily prompt asks me to – Write about a time when you didn’t take action but wish you had. What would you do differently?
I wish I had told our companies president that I had enough to do at work and that playing his families personal computer technician and home repair/install person wasn’t part of my job. What I would have done differently is to have grown a pair and to tell him to put his family of Mac’s where the sun doesn’t shine.
How do you unwind after a demanding day? – Asks the daily prompt again.
Thankfully most of my demanding days are behind me. I guess taking care of the grandchildren is a demanding day now. And that I can recover from physically, while I’m smiling mentally.
To be honest I enjoyed challenging and demanding days and assignments when I was working. That was till they weren’t appreciated and then it became demanding in another way. And by appreciating, I mean a simple thank you would have been fine a vast majority of the time. Luckily, I had some good managers over the 5 decades who knew how to say that.
Sometimes the most demanding part of the day was the hour or more each way to and from work. Especially when the weather was poor.
Some of the things I used to do:
Sometimes when I got home before sunrise I’d sit outside and listen to nature come alive. Especially on warm summer mornings.
Listening to music was always a go too.
Get a hug from my better half.
The last several years of work I would write a bit when I got home.
Some years ago, I played on company softball teams or bowling leagues.
Pickup basketball games with friends in the early years.
There were a number of years I’d go for a short ride on the motorcycle before dinner when I worked day shifts.
Some years when I got off work between midnight and 3am, I’d just sit in the quiet at home. Now that I think about it, there was always a lot of noise involved in my work. Maybe that is why the quiet sounded so good.
Sports are a great stress release. Then again so is a cold beverage. Photo by Mike Hartley
The daily prompt wants to know – How do you use social media?
First rule of social media with me is to use it and not let it use me. I like some social media, like WordPress and Zenfolio. My blogging and photography sites. I work on them often and enjoy them very much.
I have a Facebook account, but I try to use that less and less each day. I keep track of old neighborhood, school and work friends through that tool. Also enjoying some comedy clips and other humor like cartoons. Oh, and the car club and event meet ups and things at the beach for my pilgrimages there.
I used to use LinkedIn when I was working a bit. Now the only time I check in with it is with an old friend who might be having a work anniversary or new job.
YouTube is something I enjoy for music and comedy as well as the occasional karma video just to reinforce that some balance in the universe exists.
I believe I have an Instagram account and Flicker one but I don’t use them. I should delete them.
I’m proud to say I’ve NEVER done Twitter or X.
I’ve used Reddit from time to time because I’ve found good advice/information on things.
I use email a lot because I enjoy writing to friends and family often. I guess I got that from my mother, she was an avid writer. That’s social, isn’t it?
I’ll go with the short stack of pancakes this morning.
Jot down the first thing that comes to your mind. – Interesting task from the daily prompt.
It was a string of thoughts, first thing this morning. As I sat at the keyboard wondering if I was going to make pancakes or bacon for breakfast, then I read this question while my back is having a spasm and I’m thinking is this going to be an all-day thing or one off.
I get tired of pain. It comes with age, the wear and tear of jobs and activities over the years. The mind changes to accept some or a lot of pain somedays and nobody is the wiser for it. Other times it’s harder to hide.
Pain wakes me, and if it doesn’t it always says good morning at some point.
I’m not sure of the time, but it’s been in the last few years, that I’ve had to start thinking about what activities I do and how I go about them. Something simple like cutting the lawn and trimming and cleanup. It used to be a one-day thing. I split it now into two. I didn’t consciously do this, but I just found myself doing it and realized it in the last year or two.
Finding myself taking a break, after washing the cars before I clean the interiors. All kinds of little things like that. Well at least I’m thankful that I’m still here and up and around to do things I’ve done all my life. Just a little slower.
Reminder, regardless of how I wake, be it physical or mental pain, concern about family and friends, or bills or the car that needs to be replaced. I always pause and smile for a bit for the shot at another day.
As usual I’ve rambled on too long. Have a great Sunday.
If bacon isn’t the first thought of the day, it’s usually in there somewhere. Photo by Mike Hartley
Describe a random encounter with a stranger that stuck out positively to you. – Asks the daily prompt.
While in New York city earlier this week, I saw a couple holding hands. I thought how uncommon it is that I see that now. It reminded me to hold my better half’s hand more often again. Not that I ever stopped but it’s something that should be done regularly.
No we are not going outside. Just talk to the hand. Photo by Mike Hartley
The daily prompt asks me to – Describe a decision you made in the past that helped you learn or grow.
Later in my career I turned down a management position because I wanted to keep pursuing a more technical track that I had been on. I had management experience and positions before that, but I didn’t feel the challenge the technical parts gave me. Turning it down didn’t make the upper management happy.
I was even told the VP didn’t accept no to things like that. Too bad for him. He tried to block another move I made to the UNIX Admin team and he failed there also. I applied for a position in that group and interviewed, was offered the job, accepted the job, was given a transition schedule and start. The VP was on vacation and when he returned, he tried to squash it.
He failed at that one also because either it was that position or I was walking out. That position was one of the best learning experiences I had there. Thank you, Joe and John for sharing all that knowledge.
Plant dem seeds of knowledge. Photo by Mike Hartley
What place in the world do you never want to visit? Why? – Asks the daily prompt this fine Thursday morning.
That is a tough one because until recently we haven’t traveled much. At one time I never thought of wanting to visit Russia. I still don’t but I have a different view of the country after working with a young man from Russia for several years who had immigrated here with his family. He taught me about parts of the country, and you could feel his missing some spots he talked about or showed me on the map from his youth.
I guess North Korea because there is a good chance I’d never get to see any of it and probably never be able to leave.
This gives me a good idea of a post of places I’m going to visit.
The daily prompt asks – Describe something you learned in high school.
Now there is a question that is asking me to go back a lot of decades. I went back and looked at the answer I gave to this question 2 years ago in a post called Early Learning, so I thought I’d give an update to that being my reunion was after that post.
We had our 50th HS reunion last year. Here are a few things observed or heard and learned.
I almost didn’t go to my own reunion. One of my closest classmates and friends passed away. Another best friend and some other close ones in those days also weren’t coming because of distance and funds. There were a few neighborhood friends that were going so that was enough for me to say yes.
Wow, people change. Thank goodness for nametags with pictures from our senior year. At the same time some people stay remarkably the same.
Lots of people moved away or stayed for a while and then moved when they retired.
It was nice to see how easy it was to pick up some conversations with the ease we had in high school. But with an adult version. Watching people smile about family and professional updates.
There were laughter and smiles. Hugs and photos. Arnie and Mike stood side by side again (tallest and shortest guys in our class).
People spoke of trips or wishes for trips. There was a slide show and group photo.
Some were still trying to impress. Some had grown into comfortable adults.
Some retired, some working, some unwillingly retired because of health.
Lots of classmates had died. And in the few months right after that we lost 3 more.
It was a pretty good turnout and time for a class that was a bit apathetic. Of course, those were troubled times and a lot of troubled families.
Severn River Sunset. The sun has set on a lot of people. Photo by Mike Hartley
Describe one positive change you have made in your life. – Asks the daily prompt.
Two years ago, I answered this question by saying I made a healthy body weight. Glad to say I’ve kept that up.
Today I’ll answer by saying retirement was a positive change I made. I’m so glad I did and I wish I could have done it sooner. I worked hard for almost 6 decades and I had enough by my mid 60s but was worried about funds so I continued to work a bit longer. Fortunately for me the company offered a buyout.
Now retirement isn’t for everyone as I’ve found out. Many continue to work of their own choice. Some by necessity. I’m one who has embraced retirement and will use the time to pursue a second career, enjoy life and relax a bit.
Won’t be much longer till I’ll be doing some ZZZ’s here. Photo by Mike Hartley
I’ve moved away from technology to more creative efforts. I’ve moved from a harried pace to a hammock.
What is the most fun way to exercise? – Asks the daily prompt.
Besides the obvious one we all enjoy. I’d say basketball was the most fun I had exercising. But this body doesn’t play much anymore so I like to walk with my camera. I did about 4-5 miles yesterday.
Weightlifting is fun. I always enjoyed playing baseball as a youth but never thought of that as a lot of exercise.
Working on my home and yard is good exercise. Sometimes too much.
Detailing my car is fun exercise.
But the MOST FUN way to exercise for me is playing with my grandchildren.
Who says you can’t get kids to brush isn’t approaching it the right way. Photo by Mike Hartley
Another friggin book question from the daily prompt – What book could you read over and over again.
I need to read the book called “Show Your Work” again. It inspired me to do a lot more and instilled some more confidence in me.
Maybe by the end of this year, I’ll be reading something I’ve written because I’ll probably be moving from the writing part to the editing function by that time.
The daily prompt asks – If you could be a character from a book or film, who would you be? Why?
I would like to be the grandfather in the book my kids gave me called Grandpa’s Wish List. It’s a book I can read to the young ones on all the things I’d like to do and build for them and adventures to go on. It’s a short children’s book but one that reminds me to be that person for them. Not that I have much problem remembering their importance to me.
The daily prompt wants to know – What animals make the best/worst pets?
I’m not sure what is the best or worst. But I am sure of one thing. If you have a pet, you have better be responsible and care for it correctly and love it. I see far too many pets without the love they need.
