The first shot of the day as we walked out of the parking garage in downtown Annapolis, I caught a couple on Easy Street. What a way to start life. I wish them good health, good fortune and lots of love.
And to be technically correct I believe they are standing on Francis Street off Main. But I still like the Easy Street on the awning.
I just pulled the lens cap off as fast as I could and shot this first one because I could sense they were finishing up the shoot. Photo by Mike Hartley
Fortunately they had a professional working. I did capture a few other shots of the streets of Annapolis, which I’ll post later tonight because I have a few other tasks to catch up on first.
Each day we are offered choices. Which path will we take. Where do we go, with whom do we go with, what time do we leave and return. What tasks or fun do we choose? Do we stick with the same profession? Or in the same relationships.
Do we have that bowl of ice cream? Do we leave on time, so not having to speed to get to the destination? Do we get the tires replaced or squeeze a few more miles out of them. Do we take that loan or pay one off early?
I was about to throw this photo out when I noticed all the different directions people were pointed. I walk the city and beach a lot when I’m at the ocean. I feel like I’m going a dozen different directions at times. About the only time I don’t is when I’m on the treadmill.
I believe this is from Bethany Beach looking south.Photo by Mike Hartley
My better half says we walked close to 5 miles today. And I have time to get on the treadmill for another few. I do have a lot of editing and printing to do for the family. And I haven’t even downloaded the shooting I did in Annapolis today.
Random Thoughts of the Afternoon
Kids at play are the coolest.
Ah, I see more market destruction.
Veterans are being fired. And VA services being cut. I’m thinking of organizing a protest anytime Trump thinks about visiting Arlington National Cemetery.
Prices up, mindless cuts being made and important services about to disappear for good. Interesting what Fox News calls success.
Ran into a lot of friendly people today out walking. Bet it was the weather that put everyone in good spirits.
The way Trump is treating Veterans should really help the recruiting efforts. NOT
I slept longer than normal and now I’m feeling rushed. There is much to accomplish today so I best make use of every minute. I haven’t had time to create much new work on the photo side, so I grabbed a shot I hadn’t used before to get this week off to a colorful start.
The only shooting I did this weekend was from my granddaughter’s birthday party. Which I have to edit, send and make some prints from later today. I did charge the batteries up for today if I get the opportunity there will be some new images later.
The weather today looks nice so some time outside will be had. I love soaking up the sun. It’s almost, warm enough in the afternoon for shorts and tee shirts. Like I said, almost and that is only a few hours in the afternoon. But hope of even warmer days is ahead and I’m pumped.
Random Thoughts of the Morning
Watching another beautiful sunrise over the Atlantic this morning.
I wonder what the tipping point will be in support of Trump. There is one coming, I’m just not sure which or what combination of events will trigger it.
There is a ton of pollen out there already. And I’m ready to sneeze through spring.
It’s almost warm enough to move the woodworking outside. Less cleanup that way.
We might be skipping further into history than I thought. Maybe near the fall of Rome.
It’s National Crabmeat Day. And in Maryland, that is something to Celebrate. Who picked this date, is my first question? Our season in the Chesapeake Bay runs April 1 to December 15th this year. What is with March date? Okay, I won’t obsess with that.
Instead, I think I’ll make a point to get some crabmeat this week and maybe for dinner this evening if I can talk my better half into at least a crab pretzel or cup of crab soup at the local establishment.
We LOVE our CRABS here in Maryland. I can’t wait to teach my grandson how to pick them. I don’t think my granddaughter was thrilled with that though. Maybe in a few years.
Crabacake Photo by Mike HartleyBloody Mary from the Crabcake Factory. Photo by MIke HartleyI could claw my way through a few of these. Photo by Mike HartleyMaryland Crab Photo by Mike HartleyLeeLynns crabcake sandwich. I’m the one who added the bacon. Photo by Mike HartleyGet ready for the home stretch of sun, beach and crabs. Photo by Mike HartleyCrabs everywhere. Photo by Mike HartleyFor those of you not from the Maryland/Virginia area, Old Bay is a seasoning that we love to put on crabs and other seafood dishes. Photo by Mike Hartley
Each summer is a feast of these critters. Prepared in so many ways, all of them great. From picking them fresh out of the steamer to crab imperial, you can’t go wrong.
There is no way I’m going to be able not to have some kind of crab today now that I’ve spent the last few moments thinking about it.
My son and I attended the final game of the regular season for the Maryland Terps men’s hoop team yesterday and relished the victory. It’s been a special season. One that was unexpectedly very successful. It appears Maryland will finish in 2nd or 3rd in the Conference when they were picked to finish 11th on average.
It’s also been a rarity of a season in many ways. I’ll start with the coach. After last season he was already on the hot seat, despite not having much talent. An entirely new starting lineup this year with the exception of one player. That one player is a senior. What? A senior still playing for the same team for 4 years. And not a bad player at that. He could have transferred when a coaching change was made in his time. He stayed. He is Maryland Pride.
Julian Reese and his teammates have come together as a unit in a unique way very quickly. The success the entire starting unit dubbed the “CRAB FIVE“, a takeoff of the old Michigan teams “Fab Five” has had together is special.
Anyone on that starting unit can score 20-30 points a game. All 5 starters average in double figures. The team averages 81.5 points a game. But the strongest part of the team is their defense. They are stifling. Defense has kept them in every game this season.
And while the bench hasn’t been the scoring machine they have provided some pressure defense and a few key plays this season to keep victories alive.
I so hope they do well in the Big 10 Tournament and the Big Dance NCAA Tourney. It would be nice to send the seniors off with a championship and keep this train rolling. Because when this team is playing well, they can play with anyone in the country. Go TERPS.
XFINITY center needs another Championship Banner. A great way to end the regular season and enter the playoffs. Photo by Mike Hartley
This has been a festive day. It started it off in a good way and in good spirits. There is a birthday in the family to celebrate, it’s Friday, I’m retired, and was nothing pressing on the agenda today.
Sand and stones. Photo by Mike Hartley
That sun is feeling stronger by the day. Soon the call of the sands will become impossible to resist. It’s 54 days till Cruisin Ocean City May 1-4. I know I’ll be doing at least a daytrip one of those dates. From my limited attendance I like the fall show better. And now that they moved the spring show earlier in the month that means cooler temps are possible.
I don’t know if I can wait that long though. I can see one of these warm 80 degree late March or April days triggering that itch to throw the beach towel, flip flops, floppy hat and cooler in the car, put the top down, hat and glasses on and head east.
Reflection
I used to like having our old Post Office close by. The shot below is from 9 years ago. It has since been torn down and a row of townhouses now occupies this space and some of the woods that used to be there.
The old Woodstock Post Office. Photo by Mike Hartley
This, like much of Howard County has been carved up. I live here, and have a hard time keeping up with all the changes going on.
Random Thoughts of the Day
The treadmill is a walk of the mind.
It’s not the lie, it’s that people believe the lie and perpetuate it.
When I’m alone, I miss having a pet. That is a lot of the time.
With the huge drop in circulation at both the Baltimore Sun and The Washington Post it seems like the area is ripe for a Middle Left publication. The Baltimore Banner is trying to fill that void but they are digital only. Not that many people read print anymore.
A nasty line of weather is set to pass through today. Along with some high winds for a few days. That means I had better get a few scheduled posts ready in case we lose power. Last year was rather stormy at the beach. I hope this year is different.
In Ellicott City. Photo by Mike Hartley
I wonder what this gate is protecting.
Random Thoughts of the Morning
I don’t feel as guilty working on the computer when it’s raining outside.
And here I thought I was going to DC to sightsee this year. Looks like I’ll be adding protest to the agenda.
There is never a wrong time of day to cook bacon.
The morning has gotten away from me. Time to get a grip on the afternoon and ride it out.
Almost time to report to the diamond and Play Ball. The major leaguers are at it and I’m guessing the kids are out soon. I’ll have to drive down to Wallace Park and see if I can catch the kids practicing this week. As I said, I need to practice my sports photography.
I almost cropped out #13 on the left but though that might be bad luck. Photo by Mike Hartley
Random Thought of the Afternoon
There is looking at what needs to be done and doing it.
Life is too short to waste an hour or two of it between 9-11pm tonight. I’ll read about it.
My photo paper and ink came today. Time to combine the two.
I’m glad there are some great videos of the band Aerosmith. I must have seen them 8-10 times live, and they were always blowing up equipment or so high the show wasn’t their best effort. There were a few great shows but at least half had some kind of mishap.
Just seemed like a good title for this photo. This is a great day for peaks.
National Harbor. Photo by Mike Hartley
I think I’ll try to post some more photos and less words. I need a better balance here.
Wow, after a few hours with the rake and pruners, my fingers aren’t the coordinated group they usually are. I did have gloves on so no blisters to deal with and I rarely get them from just a few hours even without gloves.
Felt good to be outside in the yard and getting it ready for the seasons of rolling around in it with the grandchildren. Pulling them around in the wagon and riding on my lap on the tractor.
Well back outside I go. It’s too big of a yard to rake in one day.
In my second year of retirement, I’ve switched back to breaking down the day into segments and filling them up like I did when working. Things like blocking out times for exercise each day. I make sure to touch each of my hobbies every day.
Filling my daily to-do list to the brim, just to challenge myself to see what I could get done. And now I need to get back to creating more posts each day.
I’ve always wanted to sit behind a set of drums. Photo by Mike Hartley
I’m flexible on my start time each day. Somewhere between 2-5 am is normal. And I’ll go till 10pm or 1am at night. Yeah, I’m still not sleeping much most days.
Getting a good focus and being at peace with myself, while difficult some days it’s something I try to regain even as the day or situations get away from me.
Random Thoughts of the Day
Helping a friend isn’t something that needs thought, just action.
Now I know why their MAGA hats are Red. Have a good day, comrade.
I wish I could charge my batteries as easily as I do with my cameras.
Ah, it’s Tariff Tuesday. Is this what will bring prices down? Or was that the stock market you meant?
I switched from taking my meds with dinner to first thing in the morning. That way I don’t forget when I skip dinner.
Feeling like I could have accomplished a bit more but content with what I did. Tomorrow gets a very early start and a massive effort to complete a few projects and move forward on others.
Northside Park in Ocean City MD. Photo by Mike Hartley
Woops, I just checked the weather forecast. We might have to adjust plans. I think I saw something about a sunny day and 60 degrees.
That fact might add a cruise in the Miata being added to the days activities. Just for sanity sake.
Random Thoughts of the Day
I got the best reward this evening. A short Facetime with both my children and grandchildren. Even though we don’t use it much, when we do, it’s my favorite app.
Tariff Tuesday. Destroying relationships with neighbors one brick at a time. Also I’m guessing that is going to help lower prices? Not.
Too many good people doing very important work are losing their jobs for no good reason making us all less safe.
Ignorance has led us to an ugly place in time. And it could get much worse.
So off to make it a better place, after a few hours rest.
Sometimes I sit and laugh a bit at various times of the week reminding me of my old schedule. For instance, now at 6:30am on a Monday morning, I would normally be finishing up my first night of the workweek of 12 hours and either driving 50 miles home or marching upstairs to bed if I was lucky enough to be working from home that night.
Today is full of possibilities. I’m going to try to make them good ones, but I’m sure there will be opposing forces. Well, let’s get it on, no sense wasting time. A few appointments and errands are on the morning list but the day is relatively free.
I had better take advantage of it because the end of the week is very busy.
Wax On. Photo by Mike Hartley
Random Thoughts of the Morning
If you’re comfortable with yourself, and believe in yourself, you can make it.
I’m not convinced that the biggest load is given to those who can handle it.
Find your own way because if you take others paths you rarely will be happy.
I love watching deer around our homes. I think this guy was asking me about this recent cold snap and when its leaving. Watching them wake, stretch and emerge from the shadows is always fun.
And a good day to you also. Photo by Mike Hartley
We met our son and grandson today for the Maryland Home and Garden show at the state fairgrounds and had a great lunch together afterwards.
Photos by Mike Hartley
Politics
Unsurprisingly to me, the rest of the world seems to be alarmed over our recent alliance with Russia. As displayed recently with the horrible meeting between the leader of Ukraine and Putin’s Puppet. Well, there are a ton of people in the United States that are against this also. And I am one of them.
For some reason people and officials in power who have condemned the Communist Government of Russia for decades are all of sudden kissing their ass. Well far as I’m concerned you have traded sides and can no longer be trusted to have the best interest of this country at heart.
You have completely sold out not to condemn this crap. Lindsey Graham, you can go to Leningrad and talk that crap if you want brag about being proud of Trump’s display, but don’t peddle that crap with me. There was a famous line in the 90s from the show In Living Color. And that line was “Homey don’t play that.” And I hope most Americans all don’t either.
Maybe Trump’s nickname for Marco Rubio “little Marco” was right. Because he never looked smaller than he did sitting there and watching that display. I never thought we would populate the Government with a bunch of Communists loving idiots. Anyone who thinks Russia has our best interest at heart is a FOOL.
If Obama or Biden started conceding to Russia the Republicans would have wanted them removed from office and shot for treason.
I’ve been looking at some items from World War 1, World War 2 and Korea from my father and grandfather. I can’t make them proud by remaining silent.
And I’ve had it hearing about tax breaks for the rich and telling us we must live with less.
Random Thoughts of the Day
It doesn’t feel like a Sunday.
Trying to focus on what I have instead of what I don’t.
I don’t even want to see what Comrade Trump is up to this day.
Here’s a thought. Do you think someone might want to cancel midterm elections?
There are times I’m consumed by thoughts. And problems either I haven’t stumbled upon the solution for yet, or there is none. And that usually leads to a lot of wheels turning from the neck up. And that affects what I get done which is counterproductive.
The only thing to do is keep trying different things, move on, and survive. So, time to put feet on the treadmill and then get ready for a busy day.
I’ve also been contemplating. Photo by Mike Hartley
The long-range forecast doesn’t inspire me. Regardless I’m looking forward to getting outside more. There is a local trail that rolls along the Patapsco River that is several miles that I’ll explore this month.
I’m off to a much stronger start this year and at the same time feeling like I should accomplish a lot more each day. The feeling of guilt for relaxing and maybe not utilizing a day fully, is creeping back into my world. I wish I could lose that anxious feeling.
Part of it is physical. With age it’s hard to tell what is normal and what isn’t. I feel better aerobically and strength wise than I have in years. I’m maintaining a healthy weight and eating better. But pain is a daily companion. Plus, my balance isn’t what it was, and without glasses I’m sight challenged.
And I feel so lucky to wake each morning, able to get up and move about, have a roof over my head, food to eat, and thankful to watch the sunrise.
Random Thoughts of the Morning
There is a grandson waiting to hug me today.
This movement last Friday (economic boycott) has inspired me. I see there is an Amazon boycott coming March 7-14. Well I’ve decided to switch as many of my purchases away from Amazon as I can on a permanent basis and I started that this morning. Don’t worry, it’s not going to Walmart either, I’ve never purchased anything from them in my lifetime. I’ve always been opposed to big box stores because I feel they kill local businesses.
I heard a hockey player refer to his young son as a human Zamboni. That would be me ice skating. I could roller skate but that was back in the day when there were 2 wheels side by side instead of inline.
The people will probably wake up far before those who govern do. Or at least one can hope.
Below is someone working with their camera. This is exactly what I need to be doing this weekend. I’m not sure I’ll be able to get to the waters edge but I’ll find something interesting.
Photographing the Photographer. Photo by Mike Hartley
I hope to see some family which I haven’t in a while also. And who knows, maybe I’ll step foot outside the house. I was a bit of a hermit yesterday.
Old Town Alexandria VA from 2018. Photo by Mike Hartley
Random Thoughts of the Morning
Schedules are nice if they are packed.
I’m usually up earlier than sunrise. But I always try to take a few minutes to watch in.
It’s not the talent of the individuals that wins games. It’s how well all the talents on the floor play together or don’t that usually determines the winner.
I don’t work well with people that expect to have their ass kissed. Therefore I will not be returning to the workforce.
I’m upset that this week has flown by so fast. Here we are at Friday and while it’s been a good time, there is so much more I hoped to accomplish. I do have 3 days to cram as much as I can into it though, so busy I’ll be.
Shake it up. Photo by Mike Hartley
I’ve been craving some ice cream. I think I’ll get my better half and go to the local spot I’ve grown to like very much called Brusters tomorrow. I haven’t tried The Crazy Mason Milkshake Bar in Ellicott City but I’ll be doing that in the next month or two when I’m down there shooting.
Random Thoughts of the Day
The treadmill goal for March is 4 miles a day.
It felt good getting busy uploading new images to my photo site.
Trust the Science. Don’t wait for the government to act.
A surprise breakfast is a nice treat.
It’s nice to finish the month on a strong note.
The level of disappointment I have regarding my former employer (The Washington Post) just seems grow and grow.
Something very special happened yesterday. I got a delivery from an unknown angel. And I’m guessing it was related to a post I did on last Thursday the 20th called “Missing.“ At the last paragraph I talked about getting a case for the burial flag that was given to us at Arlington National Cemetery for my father.
Well, a case for it came unexpectedly and I’m blown away. I’m so touched that someone reached out in this special way. Besides being very thankful and excited to get his flag out of the chest I have it stored in with other belongings of his.
But I do want to thank the individual who gave me this generous gift. Like I said in that post, I’m going to hang it over the picture of the WWII Destroyer he served on. I’ve always had that in my office near the old cherry desk of his that I still use to this day.
I would like to thank you personally but if you would like to remain anonymous I can also respect that. But you have my sincere thanks, love and appreciation.
This has made me think about passing it forward and I’ll get busy with that this evening and let you know what contribution or gift I’ve decided on in tomorrow’s post.
I apologize for the late reply about this. I’m not feeling 100% today.
Down to the last few days of February and that feels both good and bad. Another month has flown by which always bothers me. On the good side the cold is starting to abate and the 3 seasons I love are around the corner.
The moon stands over our lights. Photo by Mike Hartley
Also, right around the corner is BaseBall. Little league fields to Major League ballparks. I need to practice shooting some sports/action shots, so maybe I’ll start with a few trips to Wallace Park.
Sunrise Inspired
Another beautiful sunrise over the Atlantic Ocean this morning. The water looked so calm. I can’t wait to be down there in person for that feeling. Most day trips to the ocean, I leave about an hour before sunrise so I can see it come up as I cross the Chesapeake Bay Bridge.
I think I’m going to pick a warm night and leave around 2:30am and get to the ocean before sunrise. Take some photos as I like to do at that time of day and then take a nap on the beach in the warm morning sun.
Wake and wander over to Happy Jacks Pancake house and get some calories. Cruise from Ocean City up to Bethany Beach for some DB Fries and more sunning before heading back to Ocean City for a light lunch at Saltwater 75 for a crispy shrimp po boy.
Back to the beach for a few hours and watch people on the boardwalk. I’ll catch a shower and change someplace and head to Fagers Island for sunset on the deck there while a light dinner is had. Listen to the band for a while and then head west towards home again.
Politics
With the US voting with Russia again the latest UN Resolution condemning Russia for invading Ukraine. It gives a whole new meaning to the Red States in America, doesn’t it?
I have friends and family on Medicaid. And they are the people who can least afford cuts to their healthcare. Giving tax cuts to the rich and cutting benefits to the poor, seems ass backwards to me.
Cuts to medical research and people who protect our food supply seem short sighted to me.
Control the media, control the message.
So many thresholds, guardrails and boundaries are gone that we have crossed over into uncharted waters.
We decided to take a ride to New Market Maryland and have an excellent lunch at The Derby. Then a walk of the town and friendly exchanges with one or two residents. I’ve got to get back here this spring and do some more shooting because this is a colorful little old town. From 1793 I read. Most of the buildings are historic as you will see.
I missed the ambulance pulling out by a minute.
I always find it good to get off the main streets and into alleys for hidden gems.
There seems to be a community effort to keep the color and contrast between homes and business in some beautiful shades. I believe I read the population is about 1,600.
I like the saying on that plaque in the middle photo. It reads “Don’t follow where the path may lead…. go where there is no path and leave a trail.”
It didn’t appear the General Store was a general store any longer.
Here’s looking at you kid…… rock
People have put some real special work into some of these homes.
Theme home.
The Village Potter has inspired me to make my own sign.
All Photos by Mike Hartley
Felt good to get out and shoot a bit today. Lets see if I can get in gear again tomorrow. Have a good evening all.
I’m feeling inspired this morning. The day ahead outside is going to be a beautiful one. And if I’m lucky I will be spending more time outside today than yesterday. The camera did come out of its case, but I didn’t spend more than a few minutes shooting while trying to get a bit of exercise.
Photos by Mike Hartley
Another restless night. Just before 3 am the eyes opened wide, so I got up and started the day. Which means I’m either going to need a nap or I won’t be long for the Tuesday evening ahead. This is turning into the house that doesn’t sleep well.
For me there are obvious explanations for my nocturnal existence, but I worry about my better half. While she still gets a good amount of sleep it’s much more restless than in the past.
A fun tune with a great title just came on. Finish What Ya Started, by Van Halen is rocking my basement and at the same time reminding me to get my ass up and finish a few projects. So off I go.
Random Thoughts of the Morning
Feeling relaxed is important, it’s just as important at the office, as it is at the beach.
Getting lost in music is good for the mind.
I’m guessing there is a more complex answer to why Trump continues to kiss Putin’s behind.
It felt good to take a walk outside today. And it reminded me to put my knee brace on if headed out. I can do the treadmill without it but uneven ground is a killer right now.
I was doing some purging of old photo directories and almost trashed this shot. But something made me stop for a second. It made me think about being that old and standing side by side with my better half admiring a view we have many times before together. I so want to grow old together with her.
I so want to have that view and many more. Who knows, maybe you will find us out on a jet-ski or in the lounge chair at the pool bar. But I’d be pleased with holding her hand for hours just glad to have had this time together.
A view for the ages. Photo by Mike Hartley
So, this photo and couple have given me something to look forward to. I’m guessing they got about 20 years on me, so my goal is to be at this spot in 2045 and blog about feeling like the luckiest people alive.
Random Thoughts of the Evening
It had been so long since I had the inclination to put the car window down, I had to fiddle for the buttons today. But boy did that fresh air feel good.
I spent some of the day discovering some new music and that is always a good thing.
It’s hard to lose track of what day it is when you have a lot of things you do daily.
If I keep this pace up and more, it’s going to be a great year.
I feel like a bear coming out of a cave after a long winters nap. I’m hungry, looking to stretch my legs and check out my territory. I’m not the only one that needs to stretch my legs, that little Miata sitting in the driveway needs some exercise.
It just may be the first TOP DOWN day of the year tomorrow. The 50 degree mark will passed by a few degrees and the sun out. This coming morning will be grooming (detailing the ride).
Ocean, sand, sun, SOLD. Photo by Mike Hartley
Random Thoughts of the Day
Sunrises are nice, but those minutes just before it are beautiful also.
Sometimes I answer the home land line and not look at the caller ID to just be surprised. It’s too hard to avoid on the smartphones. And when its one of the children, it’s like I got a prize.
I’m so tempted to take a nap. Well, what do you know, I did.
I hope the Senate and Congress wake up before we are calling each other Comrade.
It’s a good morning so far. Up and exercising, which is a fine way to start the day. I’m staying on terra firma though. My days of climbing ladders are behind me. I was never crazy about heights anyway.
Heads up. Photo by Mike Hartley
Boy does that sunshine feel good coming through the window. I’ll wait till later to let the sun get a bit higher and warm things up a bit to head outside.
The home is mine this morning, so we have some music permeating the airwaves with the exception of the dust particles being blown off the speakers.
Random Thoughts of the Morning
A photo doesn’t need a frame to be good.
The song (Simple Man by Lynyrd Skynyrd) is one of my favorites.
I wonder if people realize the impact of cutting government funding to charities does, especially to the poorest states. I read an interesting article from the Urban Institute that might be of interest on the topic.
Waking at 2:30 am and realizing going back to sleep wasn’t going to be in the cards, I found myself at the computer wondering what marvels the day will bring. Ah it’s a Sunday morning. One of my favorite days now is that it’s no longer the start of my work week as in the past.
Off the Ocean City coast. Photo by Mike Hartley
Some mornings I’m still a bit giddy at being retired. This seems to be one of them. My exercise is off to a good start today. I also cooked some bacon and made a fruit smoothie.
I’m excited to get outside and work in the yard this afternoon. It might just be an outdoor week ahead with warmer weather starting to return.
I’ve been restless to get outside again. I love my house but spending the days inside and when going out involves lots of discomfort one gets a little stir crazy. So, balance will return this week and that is good for the spirit and health.
When my doctors are concerned, upset, anxious and generally outraged at RFK Jr as United States Secretary of Health and Human Services, it concerns the hell out of me also.
It will be very interesting to watch his response to the measles outbreak. I hope we are not talking down the line about the number of deaths that could be avoided.
Another added danger to our daily lives, we didn’t need.
Random Thoughts of the Morning
The last week of February makes me smile. We are entering the home stretch of getting out of my least favorite season.
I’m not rich in dollars or toys. I was blessed with a girl and a boy.
If we have enough sunny people, we might have a sunny future.
It’s a shame that more bands don’t use a saxophone player. I was listening to Marc Russo with the Doobie Brothers, and it sounds like it was meant for their music.
I’m not so sure I like the ride I find myself on during parts of the day. I’m certainly concerned about who is at the controls at times.
Ocean City Maryland. Photo by Mike Hartley
I like rides where I’m at the wheel. I know the maintenance is right on my ride.
I know inspections have been done on my ride. I know where my ride is headed when I’m in control.
The ride I’m on when not at the wheel of my car or at the computer is feeling a bit tenuous.
Random Thoughts of the Day
I’m as good as the effort I put in today. The words I communicated and wrote. The handshakes and hugs I gave. The smiles and laughs I shared. The photos I took and prints I made for others. The enjoyment I allowed myself. The exercise I put into it. The remembrances of those special. Reaching out to loved ones.
Aerosmith is one of those hard rock bands that makes me smile and hips move at the same time.
Got my blood pressure under control again. They throw em, I hit’em.
The last couple times it’s been time for a haircut I’ve thought about letting it grow again. But I already do enough things to make my better half shake here head, so I haven’t skipped one yet.
Vive la Résistance – lots of us have chainsaws Elon.
I lost all momentum Friday evening. I’m having trouble processing a lot of things. Not a comfortable space to be. I haven’t had some of these thoughts since my youth. I need to make changes, adjust expectations and refocus.
But hey, life is about adapting and moving forward. And no better time than now to move onto a better space. So, I’ll hop on this plane and strut my stuff. I’m just glad I have another day to improve life.
Photo by Mike Hartley
I’m looking forward to seeing my brother in-law this weekend. He’s semi retired and about to be fully retired soon. We might develop into walking buddies when the weather warms up.
I’ve got a book I want to power through this weekend. And I started a new charcoal piece. First I’ve got to get my exercise in this morning so off to the treadmill. I’m finding that a good way to start the day.
Random Thoughts of the Morning
Good thing it’s warming up outside, I could use a good cruise in the Miata with the top down.
The art of seeing others. I will get better at that.
Smile during difficult times, as well as good ones. It might not seem to make sense at first, but try it.
There are times that I feel I know my father very well. Or what he might have felt. Or what little tidbits from my mom indicated at times, he dealt with. That might seem difficult, being next year will be the 60th anniversary of his death. I didn’t get a chance to know him as I hoped for, many times since that day.
I made the mistake of turning on the TV this morning. Got me wound up so I took it out on the treadmill for a bit and I’m relaxed again. I do see a few things I’d get enjoyment from today that I will spend a few minutes watching.
Like the first Spring Training game for my New York Yankees this afternoon, so I’ll peek at that for a bit. There are also a few good college basketball games on this evening. But the effort will be with the hobbies today.
I did go take the cover off the go cart. There are rumors of 50-degree temps returning. Kind of hard to relate to the last few weeks. I’ll believe it when I feel them.
My hands actually feel good again today, so I think I’ll pick up some drawing implements. And why not turn on some music. Any suggestions maestro? Ah, a fine suggestion below.
Attending Maryland basketball games has always been a load of fun for me. And tonight was no different. A victory over USC 88-71 and a tie for 4th place in the conference. CBS and Sports Illustrated had them predicted to finish 11th in the conference.
I went through several other newspaper publications around conference schools and found that 11th ranking about the norm, there were a few 10s and 12s. The nice thing is there are games left and we could win the conference title. That would be a nice way to announce ” We’re BACK”
The college game has an excitement about it that few other sport events do. Maybe Olympics but that’s national instead of local. While it feels like the same spirit, there isn’t the local connection with the athletes that the university and its alumni and regular fans develop with those institutions.
The shot below was from before a game a few years ago. Tonight, the place was rocking, but I’d still like to see a few more of those season ticket holders in the good seat show up. Or maybe donate your seats if you can’t use them.
Photo by Mike Hartley
Random Thoughts of the wee hours of the Morning
I wonder if anyone has coined the phrase “Parking Garage Racing Stripes”, because I would always cringe when I saw that white or yellow paint from a cement pillar dug into the paint job of a vehicle that got, too close on a corner.
Could people be realize someone isn’t doing things that could help. And could possibly hurt many people.
I see 6-7 thousand IRS employees are losing their jobs. If people can’t get their tax returns, someone else might lose their job.
Funny thing, it seemed there was a lot of support for years for Ukraine on both sides of our elected officials. Not so funny how that turned on a dime, when Putin came calling on Trump. Maybe he is teaching his Republican party to say Hello Comrade in Russian.
I think I figured out what was missing in my home office. I have a small desk flag but what I had behind my office at work was a bit more obvious.
My old office at One Franklin Square used to be very near these flags. If I turned my chair around, I had a good view of them. I’d pass by them on this wall display, several times a night going up to the Editorial floors or out to the computer rooms.
They were the flags that flew outside the entrance to The Washington Post on 15th Street. In meetings on the 3rd floor from that site I would see them waving outside. I really liked the 15 Street building. It felt like a real newspaper. Even after the presses were moved out it still had that feeling.
Since my retirement just over a year ago, I thought I might have more trouble stepping away from the intensity, pressure and that daily deadline cycle of excitement. It was surprisingly easy except for the sleep issues. I don’t miss that grind. I certainly don’t miss the commute. And with the return to the office 5 days a week, that wouldn’t work for me any longer.
I feel for those friends who don’t have the flexibility they once had.
Management told me the times are changing. And they did. Ownership change, technology change, location change, personnel change, all things I’ve experienced before, many times. I changed with them for 5 decades, but it wasn’t the natural fit it always had been in the last few years.
And that’s okay because nothing lasts forever except some loves and passions. All my work experience has been great. Oh, I had bad days and ran into some bad people, but you’re going to get that just about anywhere. People can make or break a job no matter how much you love your work.
Thankfully a majority were good. Some great. I’m still in touch with a lot.
But back to what is missing. I think I’ll get one of those nice triangle frames that could hold the flag that was over my father’s casket at Arlington. I’ll put it over a nice pen and ink sketch of the Destroyer he was on in WWII. The office needs some more family touches.
I found another shot of this Mustang GTA I believe a 1967, but I could be wrong. This kind of car really gets my motor running. It kind of got me excited about attending our next car club meeting. The weather should be turning soon. Things will again be green, like my envy in owning a classic like this.
Sleek, stylish, striped, strong, sexy and seen in Sykesville Maryland.Photo by Mike Hartley
The cover will come off this weekend. A quick clean of the interior and if the forecast holds true there might be a temptation to put the top down during a ride on Monday or Tuesday.
Those first few days in March that sometimes warm into the 60s or low 70s that the motorcycles convertibles and hotrods suddenly appear in mass. Even if it’s a mid-weekday that the first nice weather hits you have tons of people calling in sick and taking to the roads. It’s great to see those big smiles coming in the opposite direction.
The first show I might do is Mikey and Mel’s in Maple Lawn on the 22nd of March. That seems to get bigger and bigger each year with monthly shows during the fair-weather months.
My personal motor is running well so I’m going to drop another mile on the treadmill and then get ready to attack the day.
Random Thoughts of the Morning – version 2
I stepped outside. I was in shorts. I now know why they call it biting cold.
I once worked with a friend who was from Russia. I wonder if I should call him and ask him to teach me the language?
I believe I heard it was the first game of Spring Training for Major League Baseball today. Okay, now I can put that excitement behind me and get back to loving College Basketball. I’ll resume my baseball love when the season starts.
Sometimes I feel like my ship is taking on water. Life seems like a constant series of bailing out. Between personal challenges, family challenges, financial challenges, professional challenges and then the society challenges that are mounting daily.
Our government has checked out creating new challenges. The climate extremes are presenting new challenges for both food and species. The pace of changes causes me to Google strange things. Like where I live is 318 ft above sea level. So, I ask if the ice caps melted how much would the sea level rise? The answer the USGS gave was it would be an increase of 230 feet.
Hey, that makes my trip to the ocean a lot shorter.
Just a little work and we will be off again. Photo by Mike Hartley
But enough worrying. Time to get on with life and solve some of those issues. Time will be limited to fixing world issues, so I’ll concentrate on those closer to home.
I have to be responsible and pay a few bills. And schedule a second estimate for upgrading my attic insulation. We must pick up some supplies for a gathering this weekend. I hope to enjoy watching the Maryland basketball game later and maybe do some drawing.
There are photos from yesterday to download, the office could use some cleanup and I could spend an hour outside picking up downed branches. But first, a little exercise.
Random Thoughts of the Morning
I’m listening to more comedy and laughing more. I knew there were solutions out there.
Chocolate – not just for dessert.
Age is wonderful. I’m all the time wondering, is that new pain something to be concerned about, or just aging?
I’m starting to get encouraged. Could we be finding our voice? Vive la Résistance
Tuesday was both a productive and relaxing one. Feeling more at peace with myself today. That little fact, is key in me getting some good work done. It was also good for some rest after a good workout.
Baltimore’s Inner Harbor in 2019. Photo by Mike Hartley
I should be able to get out in this frosty weather and get a few shots in the local area. I’m going looking for some natural beauty in the winter season. I might be hard, it’s a little brown out here and the sun won’t be out today. I’ll have to work hard for some contrast and color.
Then again, maybe a good day to photograph people because I need some symbols of COLD and today it’s starting out at 15 degrees at this hour. Add on some stiff winds and I should see some people bundled up.
Food
I mentioned we went to Oscar’s Alehouse the other day and I forgot I took a few shots of my meal. The Steak and Cheese Egg Rolls with Queso sauce is one of my favorites and I get that almost every time there.
I will go for the Fried Pickles or Spicy Tex Mex Eggrolls also quite often. The Tsunami Shrimp have also been good.
Damn, now I’m tempted to go back and get some tomorrow.
I like their Cream of Crab soup, which is a little thicker than some but I’ve always found a great bit of crab in it. I’ve had the French Onion soup at the Eldersburg location but not here yet.
The Monte Cristo w/raspberry jelly to dip them in.
Photos by Mike Hartley
I’ve sampled several of the Craft sandwiches, and also the Burgers and Pizza and always been satisfied. The service has always been great, and the food always out promptly. There aren’t as many booths as the Eldersburg location, but that’s not too much of an issue.
I’m going to put them to a few more test. I’d like to see how their ribs measure up and some of the other Entrees. I hope their all great because this spot is very close to us and the kids and grandkids like it.
The bar is bright, large, and seems to also do a good business.
Random Thoughts of the Day
Watching the sunrise over the Atlantic Ocean from the beach at Ocean City is something I love. Even if I have to watch a webcam of it.
There is what I hope to get done, and then there is the end of the day.
People like to laugh. People want to laugh. I’m here to help. At least my kids seem to get a kick out of me.
Took a very important step today that will bear fruit this year.
I see Putin has reattached the strings to his puppet again.
Irony – those who said we weren’t safe are working hard to make us even less so.
Mirrors are good reality checks.
I liked the days at the bank where you could stand in line for the teller you liked.
One thing that was kind of nice on a motorcycle, was crossing the Chesapeake Bay Bridge on a warm summer day heading to the ocean. The Atlantic, is just short of a 3 hour ride from home, but an hour into the trip I hit the bridge.
The official name is The William Preston Lane Jr. Memorial (Bay) Bridge. In truth, it’s two bridges. 2 lanes going eastbound and 3 lanes on the westbound span. They do us that 3rd lane to go east when summer traffic is heaviest.
A touch over 4 miles long and a max clearance for ships of 186′ in height. And it has some great views. It’s just beautiful in good weather and frightening in bad weather. We were at the top when a hail storm started in a light car one time. It felt like we were going to be blown off the bridge.
I’ve experienced some strong cross winds on the bike that had me leaning on the tank for a lower profile also. But most of the time it’s at sunrise on my way to the beach. And in the convertible it’s a real treat.
One of these days I’ll have to have my better half take the wheel so I can shoot with abandon. It will be one of my favorite targets this summer, with a good friend on Kent Island now I’ll be riding it much more than the past.
I’m not crazy about heights but and this one is high, but for some reason going over it has become fairly easy. So here is to a few dozen safe trips over and back this year.
Random Thoughts of the Day
Fitness used to just be part of my daily life when I was young. Being I’m pretending to be young in my advance years I thought I’d incorporate fitness again.
I had to retire my favorite pair of glasses. But I can see clearly now.
Too many cooks in the blog can make a mess of a post. It’s already crowded in here with me, myself and I.
Another snow event on the horizon. And here I am, flip flops in hand waiting for summer.
Another holiday Monday I was able to enjoy. Way to go retirement. Not working holidays is something I might say till I pass this world because I know what working holidays all the time feels like.
Time with my daughter and granddaughter with a great lunch together at Oscar’s in Woodstock. Then back home to play the afternoon away. What a great way to spend a Monday.
Fire out. Photo by Mike Hartley
Looks like that mid-weed snow fizzled out completely, which is fine with me. I’d like nothing more than to put the snow shovels away for the season.
I can’t believe it’s almost 9pm, and I’m just getting my first post of the day in and the first mile on the treadmill. That’s okay though because hearing my granddaughter laugh is medicine that my ears needed today.
The warm hung and words from my daughter that she is good. My kids are an immense sort of pride that always puts a smile on my face.
Aside from me being a little undisciplined, it’s been a fine day.
I started the lumber collection, (downed branches) that are now littering the yard. I’ll wander over to my neighbors tomorrow and see if they need help with a tree that came down across their driveway.
Random Thoughts of the Day
I love being able to put a smile on someone’s face when I give them prints I’ve made.
I thought I smelled bacon. I didn’t, so I took a pack out of the freezer to cook tomorrow morning.
I don’t think I’ve ever seen someone overweight driving a Miata.
I brought enough structure and got better results in first few weeks of this year, that adding more seems like common sense.
Up early doing a little prep for some possible power outages today. We have high wind warnings from noon till almost midnight. The ground is wet and more rain on the way and wind gusts of 60 mph give us a fairly good shot at losing power.
BG&E on the job. Photo by Mike Hartley
I’d be shocked it we didn’t have at least a short outage. I haven’t even finished picking up all the downed branches from last week’s winds. If we do lose it, I hope it’s able to be restored before the mid-week snow is expected. The number of multiple day outages has decreased in recent years, but we have experienced several of them over the decades here.
I just finished scheduling a post for Monday and I’ll get one ready for Tuesday just in case. I hope I can finish a few posts today also if we are one of the lucky areas that can come through unscathed.
To the power line techs out in this weather, thank you and please be safe. As well to the other emergency personnel who are always out and about every day.
Medical
I used to look at the United States as a leader in the world in medicine. Well that just came to an abrupt halt with RFK Jr. being installed as HHS Secretary. If you’re not terrified at that thought now. Give it time, you will experience it.
I always relied upon my own doctors because they kind of went along with the standard recommendations of our country. My trust in this administration’s ability to give me factual information is about zilch.
Do I feel safer with him in charge? NO. I just can’t see this ending well for many people. We might be about to witness how deadly ignorance can be.
Random Thoughts of the Morning
Just apply yourself and see what happens.
Take a sip of life, if it burns, find a chaser.
I was noted throughout my professional career as being outspoken from time to time. I might have to bring that part out of retirement.
Despite the threat of bad weather, I feel a productive day ahead. On the other hand if I lose power I could miss the Maryland game and the SNL 50 year show which would really give a bad start to the week.
A good friend of mine said he was just looking to be happy. Sounds like a simple thing but many know how difficult this is.
There are a good number of things that are landing in my unhappy zone and I’m having trouble snapping out of it. There are a few escapes but they are temporary. Because reality is there waiting for you.
Well, maybe I just need to change my reality a bit. Not a bad thing to evaluate periodically. I believe the first change I need to make is to stop expecting others to make me happy. It just doesn’t work that way. I need to be happy myself first. And I need to learn to just be happy with that and that alone.
It’s a lesson I should have had down long ago but I didn’t. That’s okay though, live and learn. Staying busy is a good way to go. Finding new passions and interest. Seeking ways to relax and relieve the tension I’m feeling.
The remaining minutes of the day are too few to turn it around. But tomorrow is another day to maybe catch some good vibes.
Rods at the ready. Photo by Mike Hartley
Random Thoughts of the Evening
Just a reminder to RFJ Jr. You mess with my families health, I’ll mess with yours.
I hung a few more prints today. and that felt good.
If we lose power tomorrow. I’ve got the book picked out that I will read.
Early to bed this evening, early to rise on Sunday.
Another chilly start this morning. How I look forward to the day where I can step on the back deck in only my gym shorts and feel the sun and warm breeze on my skin. Standing at the corner of my deck this is the view through the trees in the backyard in the mornings during summer.
The warm sun on a summer morning. Photo by Mike Hartley
There are some heavy rains followed by some strong winds forecast. I’m going to get a couple of posts finished today for early in the week in case we lose power. A common occurrence with winds in this area. It has improved but there are so many trees and lines that share the same space, it just happens.
Preparing posts for days in advance has been a seldom used practice in the past. Well, I’ll give it my best shot, because I want to keep my daily streak going. But first there is the now, present, this moment, right here. And right now, my better half isn’t sleeping well. That is not good. She excels at sleep. So, for her to be restless worries me.
Today I’m playing around with some close-up photography. There will be two subject matters. Shells and my family’s camera collection. Trying to learn more about light and angles. Practice makes something. I couldn’t say perfect because I’m too far from that goal.
A metal sculpture at a beach home we used to stay at. It was made of metal and about 5 feet across.
It’s another photo of mine I almost threw out, but having eaten some Maryland Blue crab yesterday I thought that would be disrespectful.
Random Thoughts of the Morning
I’m motivated and disheartened at the same time. Strange combo.
Criminals much be jumping for joy at the thought of reduced law enforcement numbers to keep them in check.
I love putting new prints on the walls of our home.
I wonder what happens when Shock and Awe hits MAGA at home?
Time to prepare the home and electronics for storms. But as MacArthur said, “I shall return.”
My better half likes T Birds. The more recent ones though. But this is a classic and I love classics.
When cars had style. Photo by Mike Hartley
I was just doing some organizing and clearing some old clutter (photos) from the files and ran across this treasure. Not the best photo but the car. I just couldn’t bring myself to throw out a classic. I think it’s from the late to mid 50s if I were to guess.
I’m from the 50s myself so I guess I’m getting to be a classic. And like any classic I’m probably showing some signs of age. I’m not as fast as I used to be. I don’t start as easily. The shoes are a little worn. I’m so old I didn’t come with emergency flashers. See that little toy in the back window. We used to ride up there as kids.
I’ll be looking for some more classics to photograph soon. I can hear those car guys in there garages now getting ready to take the battery off the trickle charger and reconnect it for its periodic restart. Checking fluids and belts.
I can’t wait till they start to roll out on the first nice weather days of the spring. I was reading a article from Canon from photographer Larry Chen, on shooting cars and that has given me some new thoughts for the coming year.
And I can’t wait to attend my first show or catch some guys out on the street. Drive safe.
Random Thoughts of the Evening
My mother always taught me to try to look for the best in people. There has to be a limit on how long you have to search for it with some people though.
The NBA wouldn’t need an All Star weekend if they were playing competitive games throughout the season.
Sometimes when I get down I forget to remind myself my family has its health.
Speaking of the NBA. How many generations have to suffer through the Washington Wizards before someone develops a team worth watching?
Vive la Résistance – I think I’ll end each post with those words.
We had a wonderful lunch at Kelsey’s in Ellicott City today. Great service and food. My first wagyu smashburger along with stuffed mushroom and crab toast appetizers, were very tasty and something I’ll return for. Then we stopped at Brusters for a small ice cream. I love their chocolate raspberry truffle.
Blink. Photo by Mike Hartley
I had better get back on the treadmill this afternoon after that rich food. I’ve started 4 other posts today but finished none of them. A few were the kind where I had gotten on my high horse and I need to temper some of that.
Others I’m still finding other images to go along or I had the idea for an illustration to go along with it. So I’ll be back later between miles on the treadmill.
Random Thoughts of theDay
Getting notices of spring car shows and meets, might just be the thing that gives me the needed hope that I’ll make it through winter.
When you see mass resignations of good people who uphold justice, it may be time to start thinking about how to protect yourself. The rule of law is now being made up as we go along each day.
I’ve never subscribed to a streaming service before. But I’m thinking of trying Netflix. I hear it’s good for comedy specials.
I’m moving the few purchases I make off Amazon. I’m going to encourage my better half to do the same.
Decided to get some work done late this evening and some reflection. Thursday was a good one in terms of accomplishing goals. I would have liked to gotten another midday post done but was busy with traditional arts.
I’m looking forward to a good sunrise later this morning.
I’m not the only one admiring sunrises. Photo by Mike Hartley
I did fit in unexpected some reading time on a book called “How to Know a Person” which I’m enjoying. Also did a few illustrations for later use on some of my work history posts.
Today is Valentines Day. We stopped spending money on this other long ago, except for the kids/grandkids. I guess we did things the first few years we were married but quickly realized we could do something the following week at half the price with half the crowd.
I have no knock on Valentines Day. Any day that helps spread and share love is a great day. So why not have a day a year dedicated to love. But maybe instead of buying those chocolates, and flowers and dinners and jewelry, we as couples share it with those who can’t afford the basics? Just a thought.
Random Thoughts of the Evening
Decisions, you got to make them. The middle can band together or get swallowed by the edges.
Strong wind has a scary sound to it.
I see the desire to eliminate some departments in government by the current administration. I think they should tout the formation of their new one. The DOI (The Department of Injustice)
Few things are as calming as petting a pet. Then enjoy it also.
Having more flashbacks to the days of my youth lately. Sometimes a song, sometimes an article, sometimes the mention of an old name. Maybe the passing of an old favorite hotrod on the street. Sometimes it’s passing by an old landmark.
As I sit here contemplating the choices in front of me today, I’m very torn. Basically, the whole day is mine to do as I please except for making a few appointments. There are many chores that I could attended to here and at the same time I’d like to just get out and go for a ride and take some photos. But it would be hard for the weather to suck any worse than it is now.
I do want to watch the Maryland basketball game later and it’s always fun with the boys, being we’ve been rabid Terps fans for decades. I’m just not sure I’m in the right frame of mind. We will see how the day goes.
Right this minute, I feel like I’m paddling upstream. But I’m not going to reach today’s goals with this type of propulsion. So first I’ve got to expel some negative energy on the treadmill. The beard needs a trim and then a shower.
Wonder if this boat still runs. Photo by Mike Hartley
And then we will be ready to get production underway up in this beotch. No time to worry about what various body parts don’t feel good this morning. No time to waste hoping for what might have been yesterday or the day before. Purging negative thoughts and turning the volume up.
The first thing is to order some more paper and ink. I’m going to punish that Canon Pro-100 printer this month. Next, I think I’ll work on that pastel piece and think about where I want to treat myself for lunch. The weight is back to normal, and I can return to some normal meals.
I got to return to some blogging regularity. I’ve been slacking in that area lately. Even though I did spend a few hours yesterday, cleaning up my drafts folder which had grown to over 360 items. Yuck, some good ideas I need to work on with some trash also.
Well, I just received the sweetest picture of my granddaughter before she set on her 100th day of school. She started kindergarten this year. That sure turned my morning around. Onto bigger and better things. I’ll return later hopefully with some new images.
Random Thoughts of the Morning
You won’t find me complaining about the heat this summer after this freezing winter.
I like the song “I Can’t Explain” by The Who. I love their songs.
I’m pissed off at the weather forecast for Mon-Fri next week. Highs in the low 30s and then falls to the 20s for highs, and then teens at night. I’m through with this nonsense.
I’m starting to use the photos on my office walls to make me feel better when I’m down. They do bring a smile to my face.
I’ve got an attitude tonight, and unfortunately it’s not a positive one. I wish I didn’t have one. They are a waste of time and energy. I don’t like being angry. And I don’t want this to spiral out of control and cost me more time. It’s not always anger, but disappointment lots of times. Trouble is that turns into anger. I know, anger is ugly. I do my best not to show it or share it.
Over time I’ve gotten better at shaking off negative attitudes. As they say practice makes perfect. And I can turn it around pretty quickly sometimes but there are times I still struggle. I got the music on as I’m editing some photos and writing this between some time on the treadmill.
You can spiral up or down. A lot of times its our own choice. Photo by Mike Hartley
Exercise and music is always a good start to put that smile back on the face. I think I’ll open a book a little later and that should help me sleep at bit if the body will let me. I so wish it was a warm summer night. I’d grab the keys, put the top down and go for a cruise.
Opinion
I hate when sports talk shows talk about this person or that person winning or not winning a super bowl or world series. The individual doesn’t win or lose the game, the TEAM DOES. Placing the blame or success on one individual is wrong and should be stopped.
Random Thoughts of the Day
I was counting on doing some full moon shots this evening but the skies have other plans.
The uncertainty and pain of all Federal Workers about their job security must be awful to start each day.
Oh by the way, attention UNIONS. They are coming for you also. And not just federal ones.
We are in more danger today than yesterday.
The cast of clowns is almost complete.
I got an heating oil delivery today. The bill should have come with some lube.
I think peoples first thought when hearing “how much,” they think of monetary meanings. I think of it in time. There is nothing more valuable than time. It’s usually non-negotiable. Being a little older now I think of time a lot. Well, I don’t think about it as much, as I do try to use it wisely and as much of it as I can.
I finding myself getting more selective about who I spend it with and where. I’m making choices more about what I’m doing with that time. I’m not manically going from one thing to the next, in fact I do take more time now to appreciate moments that I would just move too quickly from in the past.
While I’m anxious to get more work created, I still take time to listen to a song or a little humor from a comedian so I can laugh and smile. After watching the grandkids for the day I’m walking around picking up toys with a painful back, but a smile on my face for having the time with them.
Taking the time to watch the sunrise and sunsets is one of my favorites.
Each wave is like a life event. They just keep coming, till they don’t. Photo by Mike Hartley
I spent a lot of time in my life working. A lot. Probably more than I should have. And it’s too late to change that mistake. I don’t sleep well so I probably am awake more than the average person so that gives me a few more hours a day. Of course I may pay for that down the road.
The time it took my children to grow up went way too fast in looking back. And now the years seem to be passing quickly again watching grandchildren grow.
So what do I do with the wonderful gift of time I have today?
Random Thoughts of the Morning
I think the thing I liked about the band The Who, was that they all wanted to play lead and each one the loudest.
There are a tremendous amount of good people. I just wished they would speak out more often.
That morning shower felt extra good today.
This is one of the rare occasions I get to use Mother Nature against herself. I’d guess there is about 4 inches of snow on the ground. Some rain is predicted later and tomorrow it will be near 50. Melting is preferable to shoveling.
Boy was that bed comfortable this morning. I fell asleep early last night in the basement, and woke a bit after midnight. I worked for a bit and went to bed later.
I love the comfort of my home. And while it’s no palace, it suits us just fine. I liked it when we pulled up to it the first time. Going inside make me think more than once though. We have done a good bit but it could still use a lot of work.
No, we don’t have expensive furniture to sit or lay on. The basement stuff is all used or hand me downs. But that queen size mattress that we got a few years back, has been the best buy of comfort I think we have ever made.
And while my hammock might be more cost effective, and is extremely comfortable, I’m not spending the night in that. Both of my office chairs suck. The recliner we have is too small for me, but I make do.
The seating position in that Miata is comfortable, I just wish climbing out of it was easier.
Can you swing it? Photo by Mike Hartley
But the best comfort is reaching over and grabbing my wife’s hand in bed and she immediately squeezes mine.
Random Thoughts of the Day
I feel like I’m just starting to touch the surface of relaxed.
I read it was the warmest January on record for the earth. We in central Maryland would be glad to accept any unwanted warmth, because we are freezing our behinds off.
I must be getting older. I stopped, when I saw an advertisement on recliners. Good thing I still own a little sports car to motivate my backside out of a chair like that.
I’m trying to listen to a few new pieces of music every day now.
Used to be a political discussion was once about issues and civil for the most part. Now everyone is Inflamed and needs to Vent.
Me, I just want to drive. Photo by Mike Hartley
Me, I can’t wait for spring to crank up the car show events again. So we can get back to the arguments of rat rod or street rod or Ford vs Chevy or what gearing is best or if you can see over that blower and still drive.
Working early in the morning is rewarding. If I get a couple miles of walking in before noon the rest of the day is better. If I get a couple of posts up by noon it’s going to be a good day. If I can get a note off before the kids head off to work this morning it’s a chance it might put a smile on their faces.
So far this morning has been a success.
Random Thoughts of the Day
I can always tell when weather events are coming by watching the birds and animals. Looking up also helps.
I see the benefits of organization. But I must enjoy the chaos of laziness.
It’s a good day, just awaiting snow today and stepping outside this evening and listening to the quiet snow provides.
Few things that test the boundaries on the term “no limits” like stupidity.
Going it alone, is a lot of fun so far. I worked for someone else all my life, and now it’s my time. I love seeing my efforts of lack thereof on full display each day.
Keep on churning along. Photo by Mike Hartley
I’ll be pounding away, like the waves on the shore. Little by little, on some days, some massive steps forward on others.
I’m up early today, but not expecting much of a sunrise. Hopefully I’ll be surprised. Photo by Mike Hartley
Anticipation
A few days ago I was anticipating a substantial snow. Now it just appears to be a few inches. That’s Mother Nature, she swings on a whim. So it’s best to always be prepared.
There is anticipation when I finally finish a carving. The first is the point to where I’m happy with it and that means the work part is complete. Then there is the anticipation of making it a gift to someone.
Even though I loved what I did professionally for decades, I woke with a mixed sense of anticipation each day because I wasn’t in control of it. Today in retirement, I wake with a sense of excitement and energy, I’m in control.
The anticipation of my better half waking, and that morning hug. Looking out at the snow together and maybe going out and clearing it together. The comfort of spending the day as we choose. I believe I’ll take her to lunch today.
The more I anticipate about future events the less happy I am, so I’m going to live in the here and now. That doesn’t mean I’m ignoring what is happening, I just can’t spend my day focused on some of the really negative things possible.
My largest anticipation for any sport is building the next few weeks and then we enter MARCH MADNESS.
Each day now I anticipate exceeding the previous days exercise effort. It doesn’t always work out but I do like the goal.
Random Thoughts of the Morning
Welcome to the Wild Wild West.
The older I get, the less I care about how neatly my beard is trimmed.
I like watching a piece of wood take shape.
I just can’t seem to get warm this morning.
There is a new painting to add to the wall in my office from my granddaughter.
Some ideas are still seeds. Some are buds yet to open. Some are just beginning to blossom. And there are some coming to full bloom.
Photo by Mike Hartley
The exercise commitment is working out well so far. The increased communications with friends and family. The daily work on the hobbies and spending time in enjoyment with my better half has worked well and seems to have achieved a balance.
My commitment to read more books is below average. My photography goals are falling below expectations in getting new images. The work done on expanding the photo library website keeps moving each day. Sometimes, just a few images, some days a few dozen, and every so often over a hundred or two added.
I’ve failed to work on the family history organizing much. The cold has impeded our travel. I’m keeping up with the logistics of surviving in this world, but I do have to make some modifications. Because the world is changing.
Two things have changed for me. I believe we might have to be in a position to be self sustained for a period of time for food or power or maybe other services. So I think I’ll make an effort to lay in some more previsions.
I also feel less safe. I’ve never felt the need for a gun for safety. I’ve owned a shotgun since my youth when we enjoyed skeet/trap shooting and through the years. I’ve gone to the range many times with my son shooting various handguns to become proficient with them. But never owned one and still don’t plan on one.
I am thinking of adding a rifle and becoming proficient with that though. I’ve been giving society more credit that it may deserve. I hope I’m very wrong. But I guess it’s just the decades of IT work that trained me to have at least 2 levels of disaster plans ready and tested frequently.
My day is packed at tight as this group of flowers. That little space in between is me moving from one activity to the next. I’ve got a good start and the future of the day looks as bright as this group also.
Come on Spring. Photo by Mike Hartley
I don’t have any skin in today’s football game. But I do have a lot in the Maryland Basketball game at noon. It’s a blackout day do I’ve got my black MD tee shirt on and I’m ready to give Rutgers University hell. Well, not hell but a good butt whipping. I wish I was there for the game today. There are times I get inclined to remind the officials it’s a HOME game.
Today will be a challenge with food. I finally got that back under control the last few days and those extra few pounds are fading away. They come on more quickly than they leave. My better half made something that could easily add a few pounds so I’ll try to practice moderation.
It’s a great day and week ahead to put a productive effort forward. And snap out of the funk I’ve been in.
I’ll drop another post or two today and hold myself accountable for some work.
Despite the call for mixed snow and ice today, I’m sending up signals to Spring that I’m behind an early bloom, if they are so inclined.
I slacked off on the tradition exercise a bit yesterday and watched my grandson, which uses an entirely different set of muscles. Like the ones that move me across the floor, but not walking. Actually its good exercise to get up from the floor as a senior. I always feel a few muscles I don’t normally use after watching kids.
Today though, I will catch up and get back on track.
Create
Today, I hope to create something new. Be it a photo series, chapter in the book, filling out the photo site, drawing or sanding. I’ve got a good start on a few things this morning. It would be nice to work on all of them.
I’ve got a nice drawing of the kids first pet that I’d like to transfer to wood for them.
And I’ve got to get a few new meals planned.
This is the year I complete more things.
Random Thoughts of the Morning
Don’t get me wrong, I like eggs but if the price of bacon goes up, you will be hearing from me.
Trump installing himself as Chairman of the Kennedy Center is like the arts dying a slow death.
I feel like a logger. I just keep chipping away at things.
A rather uncomfortable day physically, yesterday. Starting off a little better today so life is good. And a busy day ahead it is, full of opportunities.
Sports
Between NBA, MLB, NFL and Colleges, it’s extremely hard to keep track of WHERE THE HELL ANYONE IS PLAYING, from day to day, month to month and year to year. Before when I wrote about this it was from the relationship of the fan and the players.
This week I saw a different side. All these guys know it’s a business. But they develop friendships and when those go for a few years and more sometimes, it’s hard to split ways. And that has to take an emotional toll and affect locker rooms. Most people could see and feel it with the AD for Luka trade.
I know they work hard on building the new chemistry immediately because of the constant pressure to win especially after big trades or free agent moves or portal transfers or whatever colleges call their teleportation method.
It’s just like what has happened to the workplace. The first 3 decades I worked with people that had worked for their companies for multiple decades. The last 2 decades I worked with people who rarely made it to their first decade at a single employer.
It used to be such a treat to see a college coach get player for 4 years and develop and mold them both individually and as a team over a period of time. Now its year to year with new players all the time. If they are real good they move pro immediately.
If they are good but not with a big enough program the move universities and bigger conferences with more exposure. If they are average in a big program and not getting playing time they transfer to a smaller university to play.
It drives me friggin INSANE. Because I saw how it once was and seemed to work for both the players and the game. No it wasn’t perfect then either but I just can’t see this sustaining itself.
And the most important thing both player and athletes are missing, is that long term relationship. One’s that yield an intense bond with people. That turn into decades long friendships that last beyond the job or team.
Random Thoughts of the Morning
I got one of those Yankee candles for my office. I kind of like it. I think it said Ocean on it.
Mother Nature looks to give me more snow photography opportunities this year.
Sometimes I think I’d like to just pick up and head to a warmer climate for a week in the middle of winter. Then I think about how I would miss my family and friends and the comfort of my home. And then I step outside and that trip looks good again.
We had better start paying attention to what is going on and try to change it. Because it’s dangerous to us all.
“Well, I’ve been waiting for this moment, for all my life” from a Phil Collins song, In the Air Tonight. A strong line for sure, maybe one I’ve listened to in the past. Waiting for that moment. That feeling. That enlightenment. That path or direction. That love. Thankfully I woke up decades ago and stopped waiting and started making moments.
As our friend Capt Dan would say. Yeah, Buddy. Photo by Mike Hartley
Because life is just a bunch of strung-together moments of pain, peace, and pleasure. Lots of times all on the same day. So today’s moments while maybe not the ones I was waiting for, will be great nonetheless. A lot of it starts with being at peace with myself which has been a struggle all my life.
If my mind was the weather it would be one endless series of warnings, alerts, and actual storms. Some very strong ones changed the landscape of my life. Many others always leave me looking at the sky even on sunny days.
Some days just feel like incredible challenges. Others, are packed with disappointments and trials. Don’t get me wrong, I have a ton of joy, and that is what I focus on. Along with the wonderful gifts and place in life I’ve been given, worked for, and created, good or bad.
Queen of the Jungle Photo by Mike Hartley
Each day we all get up, some ready to run through a wall with desire and energy. Others are terrified to take the blanket off and get vertical. Days can be filled with great anticipation and some with terrible dread.
I found out when I was young, mainly from my Mom, you just keep going. You suck it up and run through that wall again the next day and the next day and the next. You try to look for the best in life and in people. You don’t care that others might be more successful or had easier roads. You help those less fortunate than yourself. You are grateful.
I’m going to miss the game with the boys tonight. The strong embraces and handshakes. A few toasts to old friends, memories, and then a discussion of future plans. Then cheering Maryland onto victory. Just not feeling right today. A couple of old injuries bothering me and some new pains.
Random Thoughts of the Day
I wonder if it’s too late to add being a musician, to the list of things to try in retirement.
I’m one of the people looking forward to tomorrow. Despite the unknown executive orders.
Did I mention I dislike cold? Oh yeah, sorry.
Imagine what could be accomplished if we worked together. I wonder if people spent as much time thinking about that instead of what they would do with the lotto winnings that aren’t coming their way, it could be a real force.
A brisk 31 degrees with some light freezing rain falling this morning. I feel like I’ve been hibernating for a very long period. All I can think of is a warm summer breeze, eating a crabcake sandwich with a nice frozen beverage on the deck, and then walking out to the gazebo over the water at Fagers Island, and watch the sunset.
Sunset over bridge from Fagers Island gazebo. Photo by Mike Hartley
We will venture towards the shore a few times this year and certainly dine here a time or two.
I like the music, and the food in either the casual or fine dining is great. The atmosphere is very relaxing and fun for me.
Always a great crowd of people here. Photo by Mike Hartley
But I’ll have to wait a little longer till Old Man Winter decides to sound the retreat so I can hear the 1812 Overture they play as the sun sets each night.
How many restaurant parking lots give you this view. Photo by Mike Hartley
Sometimes on day trips by myself this is the last stop and after the sunset I’ll point the car back west and head home. But it’s best when I return to the condo and hear the laughter of my children and grandchildren and continue to enjoy that warm salt air breeze.
Now where did I leave my big coat, it’s cold out there.
Oh this shot made me pause. The thought of throwing my leg over the saddle and cranking a V Twin makes me drift back. No time to waste reflecting on the past when I can ride into the future. But my ride is different. Oh, I can still ride a bike without issue, but I know I don’t have the reflexes or balance I used to have.
And while those might not be needed 95% of the time, the 5% they are, they wouldn’t be there. And that is bad news on 2 wheels. I believe Mr. Eastwood said it best in one of his movies – “A man’s gotta know his limitations.”
Leaning over a balcony is always fun. Photo by Mike Hartley
Things are jumping at the homestead this morning for me. A good workout started and finishing some editing. I probably added over 100 photos to various galleries yesterday and I hope to double that today.
I was just about to grab the flashlight and head outside to see how thick the ice is. Looks like the surrounding school systems are all going in 2 hours late today but our county closed schools last night. I think someone responsible for the decision just didn’t want to get up early or go to work today.
Random Thoughts of the Morning
Time for a photo print paper order.
I’m adapting and overcoming better lately. I need to make it a trend.
I would give some people a warning but those people wouldn’t be listening or care if they did hear it. And it’s very important to know who those people are.
I’m not a fan of rain but the sound of it falling on a dark morning well before sunrise is nice.
Given the severity of the cold so far this year I feel I have been very controlled in my response. I just happened to look at the forecast for just this evening. Here are the various descriptions of the weather on the by hour chart between 7pm and 9am tomorrow morning.
And then I look further and I see snow predicted for 3 of the next 7 days.
I don’t know who keeps the book on whom is eligible for a snowblower but I’ve put in over 6 decades of shovel work and I’m wondering where I am on the list.
I guess I shouldn’t complain, I have enough money for a shovel and a walk and driveway to do it. Always a bright side my mother would remind me. Plus it’s good aerobic exercise if you take it easy.
I’ve got the cover on the car again and just have to go put the wind strap on it. My better half had an appointment so I’m blowing the dust off the speakers while working on my health, this blog, some illustrations and photo editing.
And in the spirit of keeping my daily streak alive, I better schedule a post for tomorrow in case our power is lost this evening.
It’s a damn good day here, despite the cloudy day. Feeling thoughtful and motivated. That quick ride in the fun cart yesterday made me feel alive again even though it was only about a 20 minute loop. Some idiot tried to ruin the trip by tailgating me something fierce. Few things on the highway bother me as much.
Had a great lunch at The Canopy with my better half, and about to resume some exercise I started this morning. I think I’m going to leave the TV off this afternoon and concentrate on my hobbies. So off I go to catch up on some photo editing.
The less the cranes in the background move, the less the boats in the foreground move.
Baltimore Harbor area. Photo by Mike Hartley
While the photo below might not have contrast in tone it has contrast in subjects.
2 Pair – Baltimore Harbor area. Photo by Mike Hartley
Stormy times ahead. We all may be carrying a heavy load soon.
Baltimore Harbor area. Photo by Mike Hartley
These were shot in the summer of 2021. Found them in my last chance pile. Decided to try to salvage a few. Maybe I should have let them sink?
Baltimore Harbor area. Photo by Mike Hartley
I never know what is good and what isn’t. Yeah I know the technical details. Even some composition and content concepts. But when an image is lacking a few but still catches my eye for some reason I can’t help wonder is this just trash or something to share.
So I padell out into the storm and hope for the best.
Baltimore Harbor area. Photo by Mike Hartley
Random Thoughts of the Day
I’m plotting on how to discontinue FaceBook as one of my social media accounts. It might take a little bit, but its a goal.
When you put a criminal in charge of the government, why would you be surprised when he fires or does buyouts for FBI, DOJ, and CIA personnel. Who needs law enforcement getting in the way of a good thing.
I believe our local county is going to enact a phone ban in schools. While listening to the story, I believe I heard kids spend over 2 hours a day on those devices in school, and 6 hours on it a day on average. Holy crap. I get mad at myself if I spend an hour a day. No wonder we aren’t learning anything. I think its a good thing all schools should adapt.
The body is talking back to me for the first time in a bit. I guess I should maintain this level before pushing on too soon.
I see by the flood of emails from organizations I support, it’s World Cancer Day.
The V Foundation says- It’s a day of encouraging those faced with cancer, honoring those who have been taken from us, and celebrating those who are now thriving after their cancer journeys.
Those are some good points for the day. And I’ll make a donation later today.
Wristband I wore during treatments. Photo by Mike Hartley
I kind of fall in that last category but I’m not celebrating. Nor does it feel right to celebrate being lucky while so many are engaged in difficult fights. I’d rather share compassion than celebrating my good fortune.
Oh, I’m trying to live each day well and don’t think that these events haven’t given me a special appreciation for life.
After a few years following the first successful surgery and good tests I was in a celebratory mindset. But a second cancer and a second surgery came along a few years later. And I wanted to celebrate but radiation was needed. It’s been some years since then but being tested often doesn’t lend my mind to celebrate.
I’ll celebrate when I’m a very old man, with grown grandchildren and having lived a long, somewhat healthy life.
Cancer still scares me. I don’t even like hearing the word. I’ve been one of the very lucky ones. I’m still here typing. I’d rather not tempt fate again.
There was a cancer support group at my job. It was a private Slack chatroom that was used to support one another. I miss that in both supporting others as well as getting support. I don’t talk to people about it much now.
NOTE: I’m repulsed at the thought of RFK Jr as Secretary of Health and Human Services.
I’m finding one of my keys to exercise is to do it early. I’ve been able to get most of my workout in before noon recently. I’ll be walking around shooting today and that will help put a few more miles on the body. A friend who is an avid walker is getting geared up for the outdoor season. I’ll have to venture over the northern Maryland border, pay him a visit and see if I can keep up with him.
Trail along the Patapsco. Photo by MIke Hartley
Random Thoughts of the Morning
I never thought I would be applaud so much by people that I thought had integrity.
Maybe I can capture that photograph that changes the world today.
When I roll my neck this morning it sounds like a truck going down a gravel road.
I was tired of winter before I looked at this weeks forecast of rain, freezing rain, sleet and snow.
I’ve been putting on the miles this Monday and if I keep up this pace, I’ll exceed yesterday’s total. So far the knee is holding up. I’d like to say its getting stronger but I’ll be patient.
Along the Patapsco River.
Water reminds me to stay fluid in both body and mind. I’m using some of the time on the treadmill to ease my mind as well.
Along the Patapsco River.
Photos by Mike Hartley
Random Thoughts of the Day
I see the Kite Loft in Ocean City will be celebrating it’s 50th anniversary this year. I can’t remember taking the time to fly a kite in well over 50 years. I think I’ll purchase one this summer, and be a kid again.
I still don’t get what people see in that fake wrestling that is so popular.
My apologies, for the idiot trying annex Canada. Most all of us below your southern border don’t want this.
I think I’m going to have to resume a med I thought I was finished with.
Feeling alive this evening. There still is time to fit in some more exercise, start to set up the basement studio for some shell photography, and work on the pastel abstract I’m almost completed.
Swallow me up. Photo by Mike Hartley
I’m feeling good about the start I’ve gotten this month. I’m getting a balance of varied work each day. Some time carving, drawing, photographing and writing.
This season needs a little color. Photo by Mike Hartley
Tonight calls for a little organization though, along with the fun. Both sides of both desks are littered with notes and prints and clippings and slides. Time to declutter.
Random Thoughts of the Evening
I wonder if the weatherman is pulling my leg with 2 days above 50 degrees outside coming up?
I wonder if the Presidency has a morals clause?
I wonder if we have seen the last Royal Farms commercial with Justin Tucker?
I wonder if we will go to the movies this week?
I wonder if people will be cutting back on making Easter Eggs?
I’ve heard it said, be careful of snakes in the grass. But here is proof you have to beware of snakes everywhere. I move hoses more carefully now than in past years.
Good thing it wasn’t a black snake, I would never have seen it. Photo by Mike Hartley – beauty by nature.
I had just read an article on the Lunar New Year and it being the Year of the Snake from NBC News recently when I ran across this shot I took a while back. The article made me think about the idea of shedding bad energy. I think I’ll read more on this concept.
It sounded like something that might do me some good.
Random Thoughts of the Day
A spasm can redefine flexibility at times.
The control of all information is their goal. This is just a start as the NYT illustrates.
I’ve been able to get two days in a row of good rest. Feels strange.
“Some pain” might be the understatement of the year.
I woke this morning with the thought of my grandchildren. They are a lot of fun and a source of many smiles. Be it a picture from their parents, or Facetime call. And best of all, the times we get to watch them ourselves, or be together as a family.
We just had a great stretch of time with them this past week. I think, I only have one opportunity this coming week, so I’ll have to stay in touch other ways. I’ve been sending my granddaughter cards every so often, so I’ll get one ready in the mail to send off tomorrow.
A third is on it’s way soon. I’ll have to get a new shot of all of them hand in hand. Photo by Mike Hartley
My grandson loves my tractor and wants to get on it or see it each time he comes over. I’ll have to make that a priority this month on the first warm day and get a battery and see if it will fire up for it’s 27th year, I believe.
I wonder how much of an opportunity I’ll have with the grandkids as they grow up. I’ll have to find ways to stay connected. I’ve got to lower that basketball hoop in my driveway because the granddaughter is old enough to shoot at it.
I’m just thankful they live close enough to be in contact and help out when needed.
Sports
Another day of exciting college basketball. But the blockbuster I woke to this morning, was the Lakers and Mavericks swapping star players. AD for Luka. Amazing what happens behind closed doors. It kind of makes sense for both teams. Just that nobody saw it coming.
It it my belief that online gambling will not only destroy many lives but it will destroy some sports. Every address in this country has part of Vegas in their yard or home. And if it’s easier than walking into a casino with cash and I believe it’s also easier to continue betting longer than you would at a table or machine.
The stats I read on it are staggering to me. These online services have appealed to a huge group of people who use them actively. It is my goal to never download one of those. I’ve gambled on sports. A friendly bet with my son each week during football season so we can stay in touch more. Or one on our rivalry with the Orioles and Yankees. I might play an office pool for March Madness. And if I lose money its to family and friends, no Casino taking their cut or the winnings.
6 Days and 17 hours till Spring Training.
Chiefs and Eagles – Going with Andy Reid’s experience.
Random Thoughts of the Morning
Hope to exceed yesterdays exercise effort. And I set the bar high, to start the month off right.
That is some bone chilling cold out there this morning.
As the quote on the top of my To Do List says – Make the rest of your life, the best of your life.
Looks like it could be a beautiful sunrise this morning.
Alone with my thoughts again. Been spending some important time with them recently. Learning about myself and others. Figuring out how to move forward, in relationships.
I’ve looked at a lot of history and recent encounters. With those close to me and those acquaintances. And some of it is disturbing to me. Things are more strained in many situations. I’ve already adapted to many situations already. But some need more work.
Ah, I see he followed through on the tarif threats. I guess he thinks that’s going to bring prices down. I can’t wait for his own people to start turning on him.
Random Thoughts of the Evening
I can do a lot of things when I set my mind to it.
Going to sleep early and get an early start on Sunday.
The last of 3 doctors appointments in 4 weeks is this week.
With Monday and Tuesday in the 50s, I’ll be outside a good bit more.
I guess I’m old school, I still have wall calendars.
Well, hello February, nice to have you on board. Feels like the world is spinning out of control again, but I’m going to bring a little sanity to my corner of it today. I’ve got an early start and the morning workout is under way.
It’s nice to take a second and appreciate when the body is feeling good. And this morning after some stretching, I’m good to go. So treadmill, here I come.
My goal is to watch the up and down of the sun each day this month. Photo by Mike Hartley
I’ve gotten a bit off base with healthy eating in mid January. It’s time to cut down on the sweets and snacks.
Random Thoughts of the Morning
I think I’ll start working on a secret coded language today. Just in case this free speech thing goes away.
I love being up a few hours before sunrise. I guess I’m having a hard time shaking that night shift schedule.
Time for some car detailing today. No not the fun one, the daily driver that we just acquired. It needs a little love.
I’m going to enlist some help. I don’t have the time or the proper tools to digitize all the old slide my parents took. So I’ll be finding a service to assist.
And people thought crime was out of control before.
Started the day at the optometrist early yesterday morning. All is well, except for the expected age related issues. The new glasses I got last year are still good, and I’ll see the good doctor again next year.
I love early appointments, no waiting usually, back home in a blink of an eye. A little (very little) vision humor.
Are you giving me the eye? Photo by Mike Hartley
I’m developing another type of seeing. I feel I know people much better now. Of course that comes with some risks also.
Taking a few days to pause and absorb the tragedy at National Airport. That ballet we do in the air is usually a spectacle of beauty, a choreographed dance between partners in the air and on the ground. That was not that case last night.
A day the rest of us will take for granted next year, will be the first of many painful anniversaries of this tragedy for many families. I hope they can get through the grief and remember the love and best of the ones lost.
And yes, who is the one person who could make something like this worse. Yep you guessed it.
I know where I’ll be spending one spring day in another month or two, in St. Michaels Maryland. On one of the many paths and small streets with beautiful homes, bed and breakfast, restaurants and shops. Brewery/Winery and ice cream shops.
I believe this is along Cherry St. Photo by Mike Hartley
Random Thoughts of the Day
If you thought you faced tough decisions before, just wait.
My goal is to volunteer this month. Not sure at what yet, but getting a start.
Having a backyard that goes into the woods allows the grandkids to have experiences they don’t see at home. It’s one of the first things my grandson does, is grab the stool and look out the back bay window for deer, squirrels, groundhogs, foxes.
This is what I want to be doing this weekend. Working at creating. And I’m only about 8 hours away from making that a reality. I’ll be tryin to squeeze in bits and pieces between now and then but I’ll be off to the races later this afternoon.
Maybe a brush in my hand like this lady. Or in my work gloves with the Dremel tool. And certainly with my camera in hand at several points this weekend.
Painter in St Michaels MD. Photo by Mike Hartley
Had a real good time with a couple of my best friends last night. Lots of laughter. This morning I hope to keep my grandson laughing and happy. I’ll be back later this evening with a few more posts.
Random Thoughts of the Morning
Choose your words as you would your brush strokes.
Goodbye January, it’s been an interesting month, full of highs and lows.
One part of a good life so far is never having to take any of the drugs advertised on TV.
Half ass efforts yield half assed results. Yet I’ve already defeated those who never tried or failed at starting. And all I have to do is apply the other half of my ass to be a success.
I wonder if I should borrow this machine for the coming weekend, because we may set the place afire. Kicked it off last night with a University of Maryland basketball victory. The party continues today with a slight pause to play with my grandson tomorrow morning.
I believe this beauty is from the Bethany Beach Volunteer Fire Department. I caught it posting up in the Ocean City inlet lot a few years ago. Photo by Mike Hartley
Saturday and Sunday are full of hobby plans and possibilities. I do know the Miata will hit the road for our club meet.
The week has been a success because of one thing. A family member finally reached out for the first time in a while. I’m glad, they have had a tough life. A little communication to start and hopefully continue. All you can do is hope.
I’m giving the benefit of the doubt at all times because I haven’t suffered the pain/trama they have. I also try not to take them stepping away unexplained for short or long term periods personally. That is difficult sometimes.
I’m not ignoring the recent events. Just trying to find words.
Sun and warmer temps along with a very gusty wind will thaw things out a bit today. I had the chance to stop by Centennial Lake today and catch a few frames.
I keep telling myself I’m two thirds the way through winter. Photo by Mike Hartley
Despite the 50 degree reading the strong wind blowing across the snow and ice made it seem much colder.
I think I’ll make this one of my warm good weather walking loops this year. Photo by Mike Hartley
But some can brave that weather and run like the wind like our jogger below.
Working on their tan early. Photo by Mike Hartley
Random Thoughts of the Day
I’m finding my sweet spot. It’s between the candy and ice cream isles.
It’s possible someone is getting out in front of their skis.
I wonder if my optometrist knows the title of my blog?
I’m looking for that spark this morning. I’ve managed to knock out a few tasks already, made some prints for my granddaughter and did some writing. I’ll be heading outside this morning to capture some fresh images on the camera.
The Terps are playing Wisconsin tonight so I’ll be watching that and “engineering them on to victory” as our group says. The students are back so the Xfinity Center should be rocking. That red you see in this photo will be replace by the Gold Rush tonight.
That Gold crowd shot always looks good on tv. I’ll be attending a game later this season with my son.
Photo by Mike Hartley
Food Thoughts
I’m looking forward to grilling season again. I didn’t do well on my goal to cook a lot more last year but the opportunity is here again for me to take advantage of. And each time I grill, I’m going to try to incorporate onions, peppers, zucchini, squash, mushrooms and corn. Or at least a few of those depending on the meat or seafood.
I’d like to try some some grilled grouper this year. I’ve never tried lobster on the grill either. Maybe some mahi mahi, for some tacos. And of course from the great state of Maryland, the fresh rockfish from the Chesapeake Bay.
Now I’m hungry. Too early to think about lunch so I’ll go get some exercise till it’s time. Have a good morning all.
Random Thoughts of the Day
The first decent temperature day we get in a long time and at the same time possible 50mph wind gusts.
I can see the grass again. The birds and deer are tearing those melted spots up this morning.
I love Eddie Van Halen guitar intro’s to their songs.
An afternoon of paperwork ahead. Hey, something has to balance out the good times I have.
Okay, I’m back in control. I was away from home today, and that got me out of sync. I had to spend a few hours on the Baltimore Beltway at rush hours. Then I made the mistake of turning on the tv, and some of the days news highlights. Too much, it’s overload.
So it’s great to be back home and listening to some music, exercising and creating.
As the group Motley Crue sings:
I’m on my way I’m on my way Home sweet home Yeah, I’m on my way Just set me free Home sweet home
Photo by Mike Hartley
Even though the sun set hours ago, I’m feeling I got a more than a few hours left in the tank now.
I just got a note about our Maryland Miata Club meeting this weekend. I’ll probably attend because it will be over 40 degrees. The January meet was just too cold for me. The rains this Friday should remove the salt from the roadways so I don’t have to mess up my clean ride.
I’m longing for some nice weather, winter is getting to me as it does most years. And I believe I heard February is the month we get the most snow in Maryland. Just frigg’in great. I just have to keep my eye on the prize. The average high temp hits 50 degrees at the end of next month.
Random Thoughts of the Day
It’s hard to pretend everything is okay when a family pet is getting ready to pass.
Sometimes I think most of pets I’ve had or known have looked deeper into my eyes than most people.
Petting a dog or a cat is comforting to both parties.
Being new rules are being made up as we go along, do you ever wonder if someone is coming for you someday? Ah, you think you’re safe, you haven’t done anything wrong, your a citizen. So you think, they just haven’t found or made up the one they like to make you guilty yet.
Photo by Mike Hartley
Just for the record, I won’t be going peacefully. Learn from history, don’t repeat it.
I was wandering through some old shots I hadn’t used for street photography, and found this one I liked. At the same time. a song from The Who came on called “I Can’t Explain” and that would be my caption for this shot.
Photo by Mike Hartley
I’ve been slacking on new shooting, so today I’ll work to correct that. Ran into a few obstacles to work through. but I think I’m on the other side of part of it.
Random Thoughts of the Morning
Early morning between 1am and 4am is very peaceful.
College basketball is the most exciting game.
Only those with an ego so large could make a fool of themselves and be proud enough to repeat it day after day.
I feel like eating breakfast but some sleep might be good first.
Hoofing it, an old term I used to use when I walked to work some days in my youth. It was fairly common growing up. It just meant to walk someplace. I think that is why most of us were so thin. We walked and ran a lot. And when we were on wheels it was a bicycle.
Well it’s a Monday morning and I’ll be hoofing it again today with lots of walking. Some with my granddaughter, some photographing, and some on the treadmill.
Might as well get moving early. Photo by Mike Hartley
Soon I’ll have to help get breakfast going and then some drawing with my granddaughter. I’ve got an easel set up and I’m going to go over the different types of papers to draw on and the different materials used. And then we will make a few drawings together.
I love helping her explore the arts. I’ve got a camera battery charging for her to take my old digital out and take a few photos and I’ll make prints for her.
I’ve been reading a few things that are making me reevaluate how I’m spending my time. And sometimes making some hard decisions, because it involves people. But I’ve made some things a priority in my life now and I want to complete them.
I’m trying to reduce some things that are time drains. I’ve been steadily dropping my screen time on my smartphone. I don’t want my face in that thing. I’ve got to reduce the time I spend reading on it more though. It would be nice to get that time down to 15-30 minutes a day with just phone, messages, a weather check or two and maybe 2-3 news articles. Not that I’m dropping my news intake, its just easier to read on the computer or listening to something while also working.
But back to people. Another blog by Sadie reminded me of the effort I make to keep in touch with friends that isn’t reciprocated. Maybe they just don’t have time or just don’t care to keep in touch. Either way I’ll be dialing back this year the time I spend keeping in touch with everyone. Like I said I got a new set of priorities.
Not that I’ll completely lose touch bit it probably won’t be as frequent as in the past.
Random Thoughts of the Day
I was trying to appreciate the sunrise, but the clouds over the Atlantic ocean weren’t cooperating this morning.
People know right from wrong. It’s ignoring the wrong and doing it anyway that makes it really bad. For those people I have no sympathy.
I was renamed the Cover Monster by my granddaughter as I used this big quilt to chase and cover her occasionally.
Age just keeps bringing on new pain experiences. It’s getting pretty good at perfecting it’s craft.
I was editing some photos and came across this shot I was just about to trash and remembered taking it because it was a unique bike rack I found I Berlin Maryland on a visit there. Riding a bike is a lot of fun. Good exercise but a great way to see things.
We usually ride bikes at the beach and some at my friends bay home on Kent Island. But I don’t own my own bike yet and I think I’ll change that this year. When it warms some I think I’ll go pick one out. And maybe look at a bike rack for the car so I can take it with me.
Custom Bike Rack. Photo by Mike Hartley
Weather
Finally, a slight break from that frozen grip of winter. I think I’ll start to build our home and emergency preparedness in the coming two years. We are already going to upgrade our less than adequate attic insulation.
Our gutters and roof are in good shape but our doors and windows could use some work. WInds in this area seem to be more prevalent than in the past. So some trees that are in falling distance of the house on my property might get a trimming or removal. We have two beautiful oaks out front that have been struggling the last two years. At least I can save those for firewood.
I’m going to work on a few drainage issues also. Some neighbor made some changes that is causing excessive runoff into my lower back yard along the property line. I’ll get some stone and build the gully back up and make it so it won’t cause washouts like it does now.
Then it’s on to power issues later this year. I have a small generator but it’s not tied into our panel so our well pump won’t run without power which means in addition to lights we have no water. So it might be time to look into something beefier and tied in.
I could go on but I’m seeing more extremes in weather so I’m going to do our best to prepare.
Wishing everyone a peaceful and happy Sunday evening.
It’s almost dinnertime here so I’ll leave you with a family dining outside on a summer afternoon in Berlin Maryland. By the way if your there the Atlantic Hotel and Rayne’s Reef are great. I think we will pay this town another visit this year. Maybe their Peach Festival.
There is nothing, that beats a family meal together. Photo by Mike Hartley
Random Thoughts of the Day
I guess I’m getting older. Scammers are sending me more texts, emails and phone calls.
Sleep is something your eyelids need.
I have been a bit slack this month in keeping up with some of my favorite blogs.
Spending time with family, is a good way to get my priorities right again.
Unfortunately I’m a history buff, and that is why recent events and words make me fearful for my children and grandchildrens
It has been a wonderful family weekend. And it continues this morning with the children and grandchildren. But eventually everyone will be going home between today and tomorrow. We do have the luck of having one of the grandchildren stay another night tonight.
The more I’m around children, the more I become one again.
We had a wonderful meal at Oscar’s Alehouse in Woodstock last night. It was great. The shrimp and grits I had was excellent along with the steak and cheese egg rolls. Everyone’s meal was on point and service was great.
And that is why I left our server a nice tip. There is a lot of talk about tipping now. I’ve never been a cheap tipper. And when service is real good I go extra. Like yesterday with a couple of small children and a big group.
Watch out for the Beetles this Spring.
I’ll go with the ragtop. Photo by Mike Hartley
Random Thoughts of the Day
I went into a Hallmark store Friday. I’m no spring chicken myself but I was the youngest in there by far. I wonder if the next generation will send cards.
There is a wealth of information at your hands. It’s your choice to open them.
Not much better than the smell of bacon on a Sunday morning.
I found something better. Hugs from my grandson and granddaughter first thing in the morning.
Caught this lad early one morning skimboarding (I think it’s called that) on the beach in Ocean City last summer. I feel like I started over a few times this past year and again this new year. Hey, I’ll start a hundred times a year if it results in more progress.
It’s never too early to start practice. Photo by Mike Hartley
So we begin a very busy weekend early this morning. Preparing for a celebrations, sleepovers and sports that will leave me winded by Monday evening. Crap, I just looked at the calendar for the coming week and every weekday is booked with something.
That is okay with me, I need a little interaction. I’m looking forward to some laughs, playing with grandchildren, watching the Terps with a best friend and the easiest doctor’s appointment of them all, the eye doctor (optician) for a check up from the nose up. Along with several other appointments and tasks.
No doctors appointment is really easy. My eyesight has been suffering for over a decade now. The glasses I got last year seem to still be perfect so I hope I haven’t gotten any worse.
In some ways this has been a very productive week. It just hasn’t shown itself here and that feels strange but I’ll take it as a win. And here is another start to a better blog.
Random Thoughts of the Day
A very special day for a very special person.
Searching for places to go is fun. Going to them is better.
You always remember your parents on their birthdays, if they are here or not.
I just can’t get the chill out of the house this morning.
I see protecting all citizens in known danger is out the window.
Every once in a while the wall of reality checks in with me. Thinking I can just power through most situations or outsmart life.
Well I ran head onto the fact that I can’t go without sleep. I also know I can’t get all the goals I’ve set for myself accomplished unless I change some time dynamics.
If you run into a wall, build on it. Photo by Mike Hartley
So time to regroup, replan, refigure, recalculate, reevaluate and rejoice. Because I will get back on track and do the best I can in the time I’m allotted.
Random Thoughts of the Morning
I see hope in the future forecast this morning. But as I walk outside its still 17 degrees.
A haircut first thing in the morning is a good way to start the day.
Great to see the Maryland Men’s hoop team get a road victory last night.
Days that start without sun are less than inspiring.
I’m feeling overbooked today. But, better busy than not. I’ll be back out today trying to find some color in this drab season of winter. It felt good to shoot a bit yesterday, so I’ll keep that motivation rolling.
We also have a packed family weekend ahead so shooting time will be limited. Maybe I’ll head out in the early mornings.
Here it is mid-afternoon and I’m feeling behind. Appointments made for tomorrow. Shopped at Costco this morning and came out much lighter in the wallet.
Sports Thoughts
The University of Maryland basketball teams have some big games today. Go Terps.
I’m pulling for the Redskins (opps) Commanders the rest of the way.
My thought is the Chiefs will beat the Bills again.
I seem to be turning in on a lot of NBA blowouts this year.
I captured some guys ice fishing this morning. Too busy to download the photos now but later today.
Cold Thoughts
Nail biters have a hard time of it this time of year.
Nobody cares how humid it is this time of year.
People drive with a little hole in a snow or ice covered windshields can be shot on sight.
If you have trouble driving on a warm sunny day, just stay home now please.
I had an old used Audi 5000 one year. That thing would go through any snow.
I rode a motorcycle year-round once. I remember being so cold once I couldn’t get my foot down quick enough to keep from falling over. Good thing, I just got home and parked on the sidewalk in front of the house so we both fell in the snow with no damage to either.
Random Thoughts of the Day
I was proud of myself for ignoring rudeness today.
The clown show is off to a fast start.
I ordered a cake so I could say “let them eat cake.”
Getting a haircut always feels great. Except for that time, I had my pony tail cut off.
I guess I’m doing something wrong, my stats are down. I’m too old to worry about numbers and that isn’t the reason I do it anyway.
I’d like to salute anyone working outside in these conditions. Workers repairing water main breaks, delivering heating oil or collecting trash. To our fire and police out and about in these temps. And many more braving these conditions.
Next I ventured out today to utilize a few minutes after a few errands. Sweat suit w/hoodie and big coat on top of that. I lasted about 40 minutes. I’m going to have to buy some long johns if I want to stay outside for a while in this weather. I’ll wear that one piece body suit tomorrow. Gloved are the issue. I’ve got some old biker gloves I might try tomorrow with the fingertips cut off.
I did manage to capture a few shots on the Patapsco. And the Nikon zoom worked great in 16 degree temps.
Wildlife is remarkable.
When I started out I didn’t plan on shooting ice.
It just caught my eye.
And what illustrated cold more than ice.
I’d rather look at this ice instead of the ICE that seems to be popular in the political ranks now.
I might hit a couple of other bodies of water tomorrow.
Looks like something tried to add to this sculpture.
I was longing for some warmer weather, or at least warmer thoughts. This is a long way off from the frozen tundra outside now. But one can wish.
Hang on there buddy. Photo by Mike Hartley
What’s wrong with the NBA
The NBA has more talent in it each year.
My first thought is what about the game of the past did I like? That isn’t part of it now. The amount of mobility of all players including stars. And the movement is so frequent getting attached to a team and people you like is only a one-year deal between the fan and team. That is not sustainable.
Another thing that came to mind is the intensity. Regular season games had meaning at one time. Either players were having fun competing to show who was best or they were almost at blows. But both were intensity driven. I don’t see that intensity, almost like they are going through the motions during the regular season.
Go to a college game and then a pro game. People sit on their asses at a pro game. In college you’re standing a lot. That is a tough one. There could be just too many regular season games but that wasn’t a problem decades ago.
Connections between fans and players don’t exist. I’ll speak on that one personally. Neither my son or I who both love basketball are not following players and teams anywhere like we used to. The connection between player and team isn’t there anymore so how can it be between a fan and a team or player. What incentive do I have to buy a jersey when the player is wearing different colors the next season.
Or the team you followed for decades is just a collection of miscellaneous pieces that change several times even during the same season. It’s impossible to develop a relationship with those factors.
Oh, and the two factors that keep me from attending any game from the pros. The ticket price and on top of that you aren’t guaranteed to see the players you’re paying TOP DOLLAR to see play. At one time I could accept that due to injuries. Now players rest during the season. And if you live in a area with a mediocre team, the chance of seeing the best play isn’t good.
And the elephant in the room. The 3-point shot. I know it’s a copycat league, but jeez, could someone just try big men again. Actually, two or 3 big men would be a nice try by a GM. Think about it, if you find a Shaq and two other big guys and just pound the ball in the paint to those three and let them dunk or get fouled and foul out the other big guys.
Figuring you score like 75% of the time to offset the other team shooting 35% from 3. Teams average about 90 shots per game. Taking all 2 points and hitting 75% would equal 136 points per game. Teams average about 14 3-point shots made per game. That’s 42 points a game. A team shooting 36% from the field has taken 40 attempts. So that leave 50 shots and lets say you average 60% from the field that is only another 60 points. Which is 102 per game.
I’ll give the fact that the small team will get some fast break points and I’d give them a few more points a game for that but the big team should own the boards. I’ll even give the 3-point shooting team a 50% average from 3 because they won’t be defended as well. So instead of 42 a game off 3’s it would be 19 made and 57 points but you add that to 60 and maybe another 10 for fast breaks, that’s still only 127 a game.
This years 3-point attempts per game. 37.6
10 years ago it was 22.4 a game
20 years ago it was 15.8 a game
40 years ago it was 3.1 a game
Just a thought for an up and coming GM. Then again I was never a math major so there could be mistakes above. And I’m sure they have run so many statistical models that this isn’t possible. But the fact that nobody it trying it and therefore nobody has come up with a defensive model for it might be worth a shot.
Or maybe they came to the same conclusion I have. The Refs would never call it fair, guys can hang on big men all day but just lay a finger on a 3-point shooter and you have a 3 free throws and maybe the occasional technical for flagerent finger touch.
Anyway, note to NBA – you had better come up with something because the game is getting away from both of us. Plus I hate the influence its having on the college game.
Random Thoughts of the Day
I have to go outside today. Therefore I will curse the cold out loud. My apologies in advance for the language.
Time for a third political party. One right down the middle. Who’s with me.
I didn’t turn on the tv for a long period yesterday and I think I’ll shut it off for a large portion of today.
Crypto and Trump. Not that one isn’t scary enough, why not combine them.
I’m feeling strong, but I also feels like something is lurking. So there is no alternative but to keep moving forward. I have my work cut out for me today, more than I’ve been doing, but I can adjust.
Fly Strong. Photo by Mike Hartley
Life
Every time there is a holiday now I get kind of giddy. Because I don’t have to work them anymore.
There is nothing fake about a dogs affection towards you.
I miss the voice of my granddaughter this morning.
If your not extremely comfortable in your home. Think about moving.
Plumbing
You’re always working in a space meant for a person half your size.
You always need a tool you don’t have.
The odds of having a leak are pretty good.
The odds of leaving some of my skin on a pipe, wall or beam is good.
Sports
I think I hit a wall last night. I passed out at the kickoff of the National Championship game. That’s about how much interest it held for me last night.
Congrats to Ohio State. It looks like money well spent.
Only 18 days till pitchers and catchers report for spring training. So says the countdown counter.
The problem with the NBA is the games aren’t close anymore and they look like they are going through the motions till they get near the playoffs.
College Basketball will help me survive the cold months of February and March.
Politics
I didn’t watch a minute of yesterday’s Inauguration or its coverage. I’m changing the way I handle the next 4 years. The contrast in the two men at the forefront of attention yesterday is remarkable. I don’t want to waste time and energy listening to all the babble. Just what he does and doesn’t do.
I don’t agree with the pardons of the Jan 6 rioters and it disgusts me.
Pausing the ban on Tik Tok, proves again national security means nothing to him.
I don’t agree with ending birthright citizenship.
I don’t agree with implementing Scheduled F affecting federal civil servants.
I disagree with the withdraw from the World Health Organization and Paris Climate agreement.
The mandate to have federal workers return to the office 5 days a week is shortsighted.
Creating
I like to create each day.
Creating, makes me feel alive.
I love when I start something and then it spins off several other ideas.
I didn’t do art for a long time because I was concerned what other people would think. Stupid
Life creates restraints that you should ignore as an artist.
Random Thoughts of the Day
It’s cold
It’s too cold.
I can’t think when it’s this cold outside, so I stay inside.
If I had a temperature gauge I bet it wouldn’t register this morning.
But remember, its never too cold for a bowl of ice cream. Just put some hot fudge on it if your chilled.
I’m pulling together a list of travel ideas for future consideration. And being the new year is here I’m ready to pursue those locations. When I saw the picture of this spot it really got me itching to get away. This picture is nothing like the rain, sleet and snow coming down from cloud covered skies this past weekend.
That call of the ocean, one of my favorite spots in the state of Maryland is the eastern shore be it the bay or ocean. It’s only mid January and I can hear that whisper “where are you, Mike?”
We have stayed here a few times but prices have risen, as with everything.
I could easily live at the beach, even year-round, only the love of my children and grandchildren keeps me rooted in Howard County. Along with a few very close friends.
Some might think I am living at the beach because I do plan on beating a path back and forth quite a bit from April till October.
I’m sitting here envisioning it because I’m chomping at the bit and drawing on my reserve of memories of hot summer days with the top down and that smell of the salt air as I cross the bridge into town.
Hitting that sweet spot on a target feels good. I didn’t hit all my exercise goals every day last week but I did exercise each day and maintained my previous standard and had 3 days of matching new goals. Adding more miles, is adding more time commitment. There’s the rub.
I see none of this in the 10 day forecast and if I’m lucky I won’t see any more. Photo by Mike Hartley
I’m maintaining the communication targets I try to keep with family and friends. But as the grandchildren get older I’ll have to increase time with them. I’ve already started to send the kindergartener cards and letters by mail.
I’ve certainly missed my target of shooting new images this year so far. Some days okay, some not so good. I’ve been to the workroom for 4 days straight now and sanding a few projects. And I got back to work on the abstract pastel I started a while back.
I’ve missed my target of 4 posts a day. Kind of unrealistic in some ways given all that balls I have in the air at one time. But in other ways it is very simple. I could just get back to posting some images without a lot of words and that doesn’t take much time at all.
With a third of the month remaining, there is much to do. But getting my priorities right and not wasting time is the key to success.
Looks like a busy Sunday evening ahead. Two more miles to go on the treadmill to meet today’s goal. Another game to watch this evening. And then outside to remove the snow and ice from the walks, driveway and vehicles.
Sports
Each year I remind myself mid-season to tempter my expectations. Especially when it comes to college basketball and the University of Maryland basketball teams. Sports, even college and high school have such high expectations of winning all the time, and when you don’t you’re bums. Well not really, but a segment of the population looks at it like that.
Nothing but net. Photo by Mike Hartley
Don’t get me wrong, I think and hope they can win every game they play. When they play well early in the season which they often do, then expectations build. There was a win today but it wasn’t pretty and I’m sure made many more than me think we may have thought we were better than we were. No disrepect meant towards the Nebraska program which played very hard and smart today.
The wonderful thing about college sports is how well teams of young people jell and mature throughout the year or don’t. There are a dozen games left in the regular season. More than enough to make an impression and be invited to the Dance in March. I hope it’s a special one this year.
Some see these kids as pampered athletes, they still are affected like you and me when traveling, which they do a lot of. They have studying and tests to take. Most are 18-22 years old and still developing physically and mentally.
So while the mental lapses are frustrating. And the effort sometimes might seem lacking. Or that they are pushing too hard at the wrong times or being impatient. I’ll hope for the best, try to point out the positives which there are many.
This is a team that if it were to gell, has the potential to go very deep into the tournament.
Food
I love tacos. My better half makes up a good taco dinner. But we started last night at La Palapa Too Mexican Grill & Cantina off John Hopkins Road with some Shrimp Tacos which were very good. My friends had the Fritias and they looked and smelled great. Tonight some meat tacos and the spicy shells I like.
Weather
I’m not ready for that cold tonight, but I’ll power through it. And when I say power through it, not with power tools, but by hand and shovel. I just stepped outside to see what its like and it’s bitter. I’ll have to see if I have the energy in the morning to maybe get out and take some images.
Another week in the books for 2025. A productive one and fun one. A week of extremes, sadness and joy. My week of exercise was also up and down unlike the previous consistent weeks. Maybe this coming week I can work to restore a balance in life.
Social Media
Not that it affects me, but it seems to be near the top of many concerns today is the Tik Tok ban. In short if experts say it’s a risk, let’s mitigate it. Even if it comes alive again, I won’t be joining.
A good friend of mine this morning started a discussion about dropping Facebook. Boy would l like to. And I may one day but right now it provides connections to a lot of old work friends of over 5 decades through alumni groups and a few old friends no longer living in the area. And of course, the occasional posts I see from family.
That is tough to disconnect from now, but as time has moved on this past year it has become less important. I don’t find myself even checking it each day.
Weather
I haven’t seen the snow I expected. So either it’s coming later than forecasted, or isn’t going to be much of anything when it comes. Whatever does come down I’ll clean immediately because it will get frozen tonight.
The real cold weather gear is coming out. The big gloves, scarf, heaviest coat and 1 piece insulated suit. Oh, the knit hats and hoods will also be employed.
Please stay safe this coming week, dangerous cold is on its way.
Politics
Some interesting times ahead. But that is true no matter who is in power. I’ll continue to support some issues I believe in. I’ll continue to vote at every opportunity. I’ll be doing more reading than listening to the talking heads.
As always, I’ll try to find out what the truth is. A mission harder and harder as time goes on.
Sports
I picked both winners yesterday and hope for the Ravens and Rams today. Not that I’m gambling apart from the small bet I make with my son to just stay in touch each week.
It was disappointing to see a less than optimal effort by the University of Maryland men’s basketball team. Yes it’s good to get that victory but they won’t compete with the Top 20 teams playing that way. But there is always the next game, to turn it around.
The first nice day we get this year, I’m going to head to Ocean City for some sun, sand, and ice cream sodas. One of my best friends said that is a long drive for a day trip. It’s a little less than 3 hours each way so it’s no big deal for me.
Hell, I used to spend a minimum of 2 1/2 hours a day, getting back and forth from work on a good day. Plus, I love to drive that car with the top down. And if I get tired on the way home, I have some old friends in Easton that I could stop and see and recharge if needed. For me, not the car. You won’t catch me driving an EV.
Skulpture behind Convention Center in OC. Photo by Mike Hartley
This cold weather leaves me depressed. The beach draws me like a magnet and always has. I love photographing there and have a big series of images on one of my basement walls. I don’t mind going in the offseason at all but I want it to be comfortable enough to be outside. And that day looks to be a while off.
Actually, the first trip will probably be with my better half. We do need to get away for a day or two soon. The next two weeks are just too cold to be out at the ocean. And we are pretty busy anyway. Maybe the next month or two. Better yet a destination closer near by with some indoor activities.
Random Thoughts of the Day
I love sports. I get wrapped up in my favorite teams. I also remind myself it’s just a game.
A pretty good morning. Got the body straightened out after some morning stretching and light weights. That doesn’t always do the trick but it helped this morning. I’ve managed to get several notes to loved ones and friends off already. The music has me swaying in the chair singing along.
I have a few free hours to do some shooting today. I also need to do some outside walking being this is the last tolerable day outside for the next week.
As usual 24 hours before it’s going to snow here I got the following predictions. Channel 11 says the 2-4 range. I just checked Weather Underground and they say 3-5 inches. My iPhone said 5-6 inches so anywhere from 2-6 inches. tomorrow. Have fun at the stores today.
The song “Searching” from Lynyrd Skynyrd isn’t a bad tune to start the day with. Especially the live version from the album, One More From The Road.
I’d rather see smoke from tires than exhaust but its that time of year. Photo by Mike Hartley
Quotes I liked reading today.
My secret to staying young… Having no sense of time. – Steven Wright
There’s a great power in words, if you don’t hitch too many of them together. – Josh Billings
“Life should not be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside in a cloud of smoke, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming, ‘Wow! What a ride! ‘” ~ Hunter S. Thompson
Random Thoughts of the Day
The clouds did a great disservice to the sunrise this morning.
My office chair, is like a airplane out of control. We can’t maintain an elevation.
I feel like an athlete resting up for the games later today.
I wonder if I look like a suspect being I wear a hoodie in the house a times.
A relaxing morning, a great lunch at Black Flag Social House Brewery Restaurant in Marriottsville yesterday. It was our first visit there and we will be back. We now have two local spots we love, Oscars Ale House in the Waverly Shopping Center and now Black Flag at the corner of Rt 99 and Marriottsville Road.
Yesterday’s meal was great. We had the Bourbon Bacon Wrapped Shrimp. This is an appetizer we have had at many establishments in this state and more. These were the best we could remember. The shrimp were very large and the bacon done just right. The sauce was great.
We each got a pizza, one Shroom’d with Roasted Shiitake, Cremini, Maitake, Truffle Oil, Fontina, Everything Bagel Spice for my better half and I had the Carnivore pizza that had House Sauce, Pepperoni, Sausage, Bacon, Ricotta & House Cheese Blend.
It had been a while since I had finished a pizza by myself. This was no problem. The problem I faced which I hadn’t had in ages was to save the last slice for later because it was so good or finish it. There wasn’t a long thought process before it was gone.
The beer and wine lists looked like they could keep many happy. I’ll bring my son next time for the beer review. I can’t wait to try out the outdoor deck seating when it warms up. It’s not a huge memu but it has a great number of things I like that are still to be tried. I’m sure we will visit again very soon and next time I’ll try not to come in famished and pick up the camera before the fork or fingers.
I’m having withdraw from one of my favorite things. Those casual cruises mid morning or afternoon when traffic was light, heading west in Howard County on country roads dotted with farms, woods and fields. Of course on a sunny day with temps that allow the top to be down.
My go-cart is under the cover for now. Well, I do have to pull it off today and start it and let it run for a bit and move it slightly. But it will get wrapped right back up
I’m so hoping that that it can be a good Friday. It’s the only day my better half and I don’t have other plans this whole week. So we can make of the day, what we will. That’s a nice feeling to start the day with. At least I know I can fit my exercise in throughout the day and evening.
I hate being strapped for time. It seemed I lived my life in that mode. It’s so nice to have some control over it again. Having removed the bounds of employment, the ability to take in that deep breath of life is so sweet each morning.
The clock in my old area of IT. Guess they couldn’t find anything to anchor it to the concrete pilar. I was always entertained by their solution. Photo by Mike Hartley
I’m hopeful my better half is feeling good and would like to get out. She has been on the move a lot lately, so I could also understand her wanting to just relax at home and if that is what makes her happy than that is what we will do today.
I don’t mind a day relaxing myself. Especially with a busy weekend ahead. I’ve got to get the attic project going again. Taking the last two items (kids first bikes) out and then start to remove and seal off attic ceiling fan. And I need to schedule another estimate for adding insulation.
Finding dozens of things to keep busy with, is no problem. And I’m thinking cooking might be one of them because I’m hungry.
Recently I had a friend say to me. “I’m not retiring and sitting around the house all day doing nothing.” And I felt for him in many ways. I don’t know if it was the limited preparation and thought, I took before it happened. Or if it was just my attitude going into it. Maybe it was the anticipation of having a chance to complete something I wanted early in life, but didn’t seize the opportunity.
Of course part of the excitement of retirement for me that other can’t always share because of distance is the fact I have my children and grandchildren within driving distance. Not short, but doable. And the extra time with them has been wonderful. Tiring but wonderful.
And the simple fact I don’t report to anyone but #1, not me stupid, my better half. Not because she is in charge, were partners. And we share being boss which takes the pressure off sometimes when needed. Because life in retirement can be challenging also.
Time to move on and maximize the remaining 15 hours of the day here.
Random Thoughts of the Day
You learn more by letting others talk and listening.
I’ve been using Chapstick more and more this winter yet my lips are still chapped. Either I’m not using it enough or this stuff doesn’t work. I think I hear Mother Nature laughing.
It was difficult watching Maryland lose in overtime last night. But they live to play another day.
I think I’m practicing great restraint not using this blog as a daily critique of this ultra cold weather and sharing my feelings about it. But seeing the 7 day forecast, be prepared for a RANT.
Being sidetracked from tasks for fun, is fun again in my senior years now. Sort of what I remember it being like when I was very young. You could step away from things without serious consequences.
I’m found an untapped source of energy this evening. Maybe it’s the hard driving Rock and Roll I’ve been listening to. That has always been one part of my inspiration in life among many things.
Sometimes it’s certain lyrics, or an amazing guitar riff, or the rolling bass or thundering drums. Maybe a horn section or a wizard on the keyboards. Every vocal instrument from Steven Tyler’s screams and harmonica to the operatic Freddie Mercury and piano.
This world needs more music. I know I need more music. It makes me feel good. It makes me think. It makes me move. It’s a great exercise companion. It helps me know I can. It aids me in imagining something special. It takes me to a place of tranquility. It can inspire me with untapped courage. It makes me feel passion. And oh, my can it fly through the gears on a stick shift like nobody’s business.
I love music and now that I have time to really enjoy lots of it instead of snippets here and there. You know having to turn it down or off to concentrate on life’s questions or tasks. I got far less of those so if I want to duck walk around the house like Chuck Berry or Angus Young I certainly can. I’m far less stressed so if I want to play drums like Neil Peart while sitting on the tractor cutting the yard, so be it.
Or maybe just sit back and tap my foot to some groups doing unplugged versions of hits that are rhythmic masterpieces. Or maybe sit and listen to “Wish you were Here” by Pink Floyd and maybe shed a tear for those I miss dearly.
I’ve been to a good number of concerts over the years. Most of them are in my younger years but I think I’ll check out a few more this summer. But tonight, it’s been a concert in Woodstock.
The books are under way. Daily writing on these projects is now part of the day. I’m working on 3 separate efforts and progress is good. I wrote a lot this evening.
I shot a bucket list item tonight. I’ll post those photos later in the morning.
I’m not detecting the first light of day yet, so sunrise is a bit off. Let me switch from my nocturnal self and morph into the day walker environment.
And on a bah humbug note. I’m not thrilled about the very cold temps and forecasted snow.
Photo by Mike Hartley looking over Howard County Conservancy off Rt 99.
This is why I got my son the sign that reads “My Dog has a Licker Problem.”
One last bout on the treadmill and then the shoes will be off for the day and I might even kick back in the recliner for a few minutes. The day is about done. It sure went fast. An ever increasing trend. I’ll grab 3-4 hours sleep and be up and at it again.
Tomorrow I have to put my mind to my better half’s upcoming celebration. Time to hit the party store for some decorations. I have a lot of writing to do and some carving in the morning.
Living and Loving each day is the fountain of life. Some days are filled with both. Those are good ones.
Outside the Gaylord Hotel at the National Harbor. Photo by Mike Hartley
Today was one of those. It felt good so I think I’ll put it on repeat tomorrow.
Random Thoughts of the Day
I said “I love you” to my kids this morning by email. It’s much better by phone or in person.
There are 7 pairs of glasses in my office. I thought the 4 on my 2 desks were a lot till I saw the 3 pair of sunglasses in the bookcase.
I’m working on challenging my property tax appraisal. I think I have a case. Just like I did last time when I got it reduced. But they have the say and the power.
There is a hosts of places I’m thinking about eating tomorrow for lunch. But I’m thinking BBQ
Good morning fellow frozen ice cubes. A balmy 18 degrees with a feels like temp of -8. when I started writing this in central Maryland. I’m going to create some warmth with the morning workout and then I’m going to shake the creative tree today and see what falls out.
And low and behold, the song Low Rider by the group War came on as I was editing a few Miata club meeting photos. A nice combination to thaw out the chill in the air in my office. My baby is under the cover and freezing outside. I wish I had a garage. Even more I wish it was warm and I was pointing it EAST with the top down and not stopping till I hit the Atlantic Ocean.
Maryland Miata Club meet. Photo by Mike Hartley
The first warm day we get this year that is what is going to happen. It will be a spur of the moment call one morning. And I’ll be gone, like we would do in our youth with the infamous “ROAD TRIP”. We used the phrase a few years before Animal House made it famous as I’m sure other before us had.
Sorry about getting sidetracked, back to the creative endeavors. Today is a great opportunity for progress, and maybe completing the beach project. The goal this year is to be a better finisher. Having a lot of things competing for my interest is sometimes a distraction, and also a help if I run into a block in one area.
Interesting life observation. Photo by Mike Hartley
I think I’ll go add a few things to that pastel drawing I’m working on before hitting the treadmill. I’ve got some shots from last night to download and process. After a few miles and some weights I’m going to crank up the color printer and exhaust my paper supply.
Random Thoughts of the Day
Taking that next shot is better than thinking about that next shot.
Made a great fettuccini dish with red pepper, mushrooms and bacon last night. The point now is I’m trying to avoid having the leftovers for breakfast it was so good.
There is a time and a place and that time is now and that place is here. At least for me.
Almost time for another beautiful sunrise over the ocean.
We have lived in this house a long time. I thought I’d give myself an assignment to try to make some interesting shots of our interior or items within in a quick walk around this morning.
From a stone and brick hearth in the basement to the dining room table.
To my energy sources of the furnace and A/C to the Treadmill.
Shedding a little light on our homestead and the bathroom vanity.
I hope your a fan. We try to stay cool here.
Our kitchen was our latest renovation.
And while it has some new angles.
It’s filled with old treasures like these old bathroom tiles.
And a mix of old books from my father and father inlaw and my limited collection, that I hope to build on.
I think we need some pictures on our mantle over the fireplace.
