Working on being a better gatekeeper of my time and realizing how important that is. The better I am at it, the happier I seem to be. I allow myself to get sidetracked too often, but I’m working hard on being a finisher.
I was proud of myself when I saw my screen time on the phone to 1 hour a day last week. That is my goal to stay under that each day. And I’d like to get it down to 30 minutes a day max in the future.
Making my gate stronger than this one. Photo by Mike Hartley
I’m reducing my TV time and spending some time on the treadmill while watching.
Focusing and concentrating on important things is the key, even when you get tired or distracted. Returning to the mission, not getting discouraged and finishing what is started.
So let the good things pass the gate, proceed past the small pond and continue the path along the wood line. Success is out there someplace.
Fall colors are starting. Photo by Mike Hartley
Random Thoughts of the Day
Yesterday was very relaxing.
Weather forecasters are really good about telling you what it’s going to do in the next hour. See you can find something nice to say about someone if you try.
A good day is when you speak to all your grown children.
I wonder if a movement to support a federal worker is needed. The people that are responsible for managing them certainly are failing.
I didn’t do much shooting yesterday, but I did a ton of editing and uploading. I need to reverse that today and take advantage of the color outside.
The daily writing prompt asks – What is your favorite form of physical exercise?
I’m looking forward to a new favorite form of exercise. I just was reminded of this as I walked past my son’s first bike that I had pulled down from the attic. I pumped up the tires, oiled and cleaned it and thought about where I was going to get some training wheels so his son can ride it when he comes to visit.
All my grandchildren are growing fast and will be using our big front yard for many games in the future, so you know I’ll be playing along, trying to keep up and getting some good exercise watching the smiles of my favorite people.
I can only do my favorite form of exercise in a very limited way and really haven’t in a long time. That is playing basketball. Yeah, I can walk around and shoot and dribble with both hands well, but my right knee is injured and probably needs surgery if I want to run again. It feels a lot like the torn MCL that I had decades ago in the other knee. It’s the only limb I haven’t had surgery on.
As lame as it may sound, walking, dumbbells and learning some stretching and exercises for my back are my favorites now. I get a lot of exercise taking care of things around the house and yard but those aren’t my favorites.
Washing and detailing the car is fun and exercise. And on a sunny summer day when I’m headed to the beach with it the exercise of pushing in the clutch and shifting is great exercise for my mind.
I’ve been persistent with this blogging for over a decade now. Still cranking out posts with some frequency with a vague purpose most days. Some chronicling events and plans of the day. Some thoughts of the day. Some pictures of the day.
Let’s go racing. Photo by Mike Hartley
Occasional commentary on life, politics, sports, kids, grandkids, education, cars, nature and whatever strikes me each day. A lot of feelings and observations from my perspective and experiences. Some of my career points, experiences with friends.
But for what purpose. Yes, I’m still true to my original thought of sharing my photography through my blog which I do by using all my own images. I do it because I thought it would help me grow in that area. And I need to make images more a focus.
The writing part is something that just came upon me as an interest. I know I still have work to do in this area but again the practice may lead to something good eventually. I think I’ll do less writing here and more on my book ideas though.
Automotive design used to be a stunning thing. Photo by Mike Hartley
Doing this blog sometimes while working was difficult. Free time and pressures of the job certainly impacted creativity and productivity.
Now it’s something I look forward to each morning to get me thinking and doing. And as time allows a few more posts here and there.
Okay, time to leave this chair and go out and catch some fall colors I’ll share tonight. I’m sure nature can give the paint shades of red above a go for the money.
Random Thoughts of the Day
I listened to Pink Floyd Dark Side of the Moon this morning. Money is a great track, but Time might be my favorite from that album.
Life would be difficult without glasses.
Not allowing military leaders to speak to Congress is dangerous. And the takeover continues.
I’m trying to look at what I accomplish more. It helps balance what I see in front of me and keeps me going. Taking a few seconds of pride or just appreciating that chapter of the journey is okay. Satisfaction should come along the way and not just at the completion of a project.
The other day I was learning how some new bits for the Dremel tool and was just pleased with some of the test cuts I made. And it gave me an idea of how to use two of them on creating hair texture.
I saw many wonderful, completed marvels at the car show. The people that were really excited were those in mid project. Like the guy at our hotel whose car was just primer grey, and he added yet to be replaced, dry rotted window seals. And yes, he was heading home with it on the trailer before the rain.
But I heard and saw his car run and he’s got the mechanical part down pat. Him and others I ran into that were talking about their builds clearly the best excitement besides driving the finished project was the doing it.
Or the father/son I met on the boardwalk discussing their Ford and Chevy projects. The smiles and grins said it all. And then when something similar road by the eyes would widen.
Speaking of doing it, I’ve got to get back to several things if I’m going to make the best use of this day. And get my own grin and smile working.
My apologies to the bloggers I follow and to the ones I haven’t discovered. The last month or so I’ve been slack on interacting with the community and I’m going to resolve that starting now by carving out some time each day.
Yes, there might be a day here and there that I might be traveling or it’s a beautiful day outside and I only get to a few regulars, but I will be more active in consuming and responding to the wonderful work you all produce.
Not only does it enlighten me, but it also inspires me further in my own work. The wonderful words and images, the hobbies and knowledge, the perspectives and thoughts I’ve encountered here. Views of the world I probably won’t get to personally but appreciate but have through other eyes.
But I’m back to viewing the many wonders of fellow bloggers. My motor is running again.
I’ll be purring along like this monster. Photo by Mike Hartley
Random Thoughts of the Day
Just once, I’d like to hear a doctor say, “see you next year.” Besides my optometrist.
I saw a dozen examples of colors I’d love to have my car painted this past weekend. That is going to be a project when the time comes.
Some knowledge I’d rather not have.
If someone hits me and says it wasn’t me, it was my hands-free driving vehicle. I might hit them and say it wasn’t me, it was my hands-free body.
I’m neither short nor tall. I guess average for my generation. I’ve always thought it is good to be very comfortable with what you have been blessed with.
This dog may need some counseling.
Walking in St Michaels MD. Photo by Mike Hartley
Missed Her
Saturday my better half was out all day with family. I missed her and always have when she isn’t with me. But I have the pleasure again of her company all day today.
How much is Enough
I’ve always considered myself one not in need of a lot of material things. Especially expensive, status and luxury items. Oh, I like them, I ogle over them at car shows or a boat show, but I’m not a buyer.
Now would I be if I had more? Would I be drawn into the same trap that money can make me happier? I hope not, and not at this age I believe. Possibly when I was much younger and didn’t have some basic wisdom.
Drivers
I’m out for less than 5 minutes on a Sunday morning and a BMW 840 passes a car on the exit lane on Rt 99 and the car he passed was going over the speed limit. All just a couple hundred feet before the elementary school. Luckily, he didn’t do that on a weekday when parents were out to witness it.
Some parents might have taken upon themselves to FUBAR the driver.
Everything has been more out of whack on the highways since Covid. The empty roads were speedways when nobody went out much. Now they are full again and we have people that can’t adjust. Or that they are so self-entitled that they will hurt someone without a second thought.
I was out for a total of about 20 minutes on the road and saw another driver run a red light and got cut off badly by another driver trying to get to HIS turn lane.
Here’s hoping for a smoother drive this afternoon.
Department of War
I see Trump has told military leaders to handle the enemy within. I guess that is me. He declared the company I worked for decades for “the enemy of the people” in his first term. I’m a registered democrat and he defines that blocks as radical left lunatics. I’ve always thought I was rather middle of the road.
I’ve never had any thought ever about raising arms against my own military but jeez, if you’re going to send them, I guess I have no choice. My father and two uncles are probably rolling over in their graves thinking they defeated the one and only Hitler.
A lot of military leaders, troops and even local police have some very important decisions to make soon it appears. I’m right here. Same address I’ve been in for decades. Thanks for the warning of war against your own citizens you took an oath to protect and serve. Much appreciated.
It felt good to get the Dremel tool out and do a little work with it. I was playing around with carving some seashells. A theme my granddaughter loves – the sea – and I do all I can to encourage her. Broke the first few, but I’m getting the knack of it.
Sort of wishing I was at the shore with this view. I could use a nice cold frozen drink. It’s still a beautiful day right here today.
The beer was my sons, and the wine is his better half’s. Photo by Mike Hartley
Football is a far thought from wasting time on. I’ll catch highlights later. It’s not that I don’t like the game, I do. It’s just to beautiful outside and there won’t be many more days like it.
I’ve put in a few hours work, now it’s time to play before I light the grill. And maybe a late night-ride later.
Random Thoughts of the Day
I feel out of place in most places.
I read a quote that said, “Happiness is only real when it’s shared.” I might be less happy than I thought.
Not knowing what I’m doing isn’t a problem. Lots of people tell me often.
Action is one of the keys to telling you about people. Inaction can tell you a lot also.
I keep trying to get a handle on life, but it keeps illuding me at times. Some doors are locked. Some are stuck. But I keep trying to find the handle each day that opens to something to make me smile.
Turn please. Photo by Mike Hartley
All kinds of concerns today. A grandchild under the weather. Many decisions and plans to be made. Not feeling my best this morning. Lots of chores facing me but haven’t had any seat time in the car the last few days.
We need to hit the store, but I hate shopping. I miss my kids, but they are busy. I’d love to spend the day photographing but I have week’s worth of landscaping ahead of me.
Life is about choices, and I’ve got a lot to make. But that is the norm in life, it just seems to get overwhelming at times.
I guess I’ll start today by getting that electrician list together and measuring the gravel area so I can add pavers. And clean the firepit and grill for later use today. Then move the woodworking tools outside. Sounds like a good start and fine choice.
Have a great morning all and try to make the best choices for yourself.
What are your favorite types of foods? – Now there is a question from the daily writing prompt I can sink my teeth into.
This could be an extremely long list. But it’s early Sunday morning here and I don’t want to get too hungry this early and eat my way through the day so I’ll keep it short.
Meats – Baby Back Ribs, Fillet Mignon, Pulled Pork and Bacon
Seafoods – Maryland Crabs prepared several ways. Shrimp, Scallops and Lobster.
Fruit – Strawberry’s, Pineapples, Raspberries
Nuts – Cashews, Pistachios
Cheese – Mozzarella, Parmesan, Brie, Blue Cheese, Cheddar, Havarti, Provolone and Swiss. The favorite depends on what it’s being put on.
Milk, Eggs, Pizza and Cherry Ice Cream Sodas.
Well, I failed, I’m hungry now.
Note: I’m fortunate not to be hungry as many people are, looking for a basic meal. That is why I contribute to the Maryland Food Bank. If you are fortunate, share that with your local food bank please.
Seasoned Lobster ready for the grill. Been a long time since one of those on my plate. Photo by Mike Hartley
If you’re looking for help, see THEFIXR. I know my 2-seater fixes whatever is ailing me. I think I’m going to have to look into one of those personal license plates. I’ve worked hard all my life, might as well personalize it a bit.
Now there is one car I’d love to drive. Photo by Mike Hartley
I have seen some instances of people putting these big V8s in Miata’s but that is a substantial rebuild for that car. But if I ever played the lottery and won it would probably be sent out for that change before the first check came in.
There have been a few periods in my life where I haven’t had a vehicle I enjoyed driving. I can’t believe I survived those times. I loved driving a lot and when I had my 74 Camaro or the 85 Honda Shadow 1100 and my Miata now.
All 3 are great cruising machines. Not so great in the off season of winter, being rear wheel drive and manuals, but a guaranteed smile any other time of year.
I’ve got to get up from here and get to some chores so I can do some road time when the temps warm in a few hours.
With a good support system life is a breeze in the shade on a hot summer day. If you’re missing a few struts, replace them. Strong friends and family keep life supported.
I’ve been neglecting one of my support systems and I finally went to a podiatrist yesterday. My toe is on the mend. Life and stability return.
If you’re well supported, you can strut your stuff. Photo by Mike Hartley
Random Thoughts of the Day
I wonder if my children now feel like I did in the 60s.
I’m tired of working in the yard, time for a shower and a ride.
Do you see yourself as a leader? – Now there is an interesting question from the daily writing prompt.
Yes, I see myself as a leader. I try to lead by example. For instance, the saying on the tee shirt I have says, “Those who say it can’t be done, shouldn’t interrupt the people doing it.” I noticed one of my friends (who’s the president of a large company) reading it and smiling.
I’ve been in lead positions professionally as a manager. Even a part owner at one time. I try to lead my family in the right direction.
Leadership is stressful. It’s taking responsibility beyond yourself. It’s a ton of work. You will never please everyone. If you’re a leader you better be able to communicate well.
Life is simpler now. The only leadership responsibilities I have now are leading grandchildren from one game to another, when we are watching them.
Then again, I might get active again and try to replace the leadership of this country.
After a two-week hiatus I’m returning to the Thursday Doors vigil. Sorry for the absence but it was unavoidable.
Come join the fun of Thursday Doors. The link to Dan’s Site – No Facilities to see many more talented displays of grand entrances. Have a great week all. And as always thank you Dan.
The first shot is the backyard of the Pink Cabbage shop just outside Ellicott City.
The town of Ellicott City is full of great doors.
Of course, the place is so old that most of them don’t fit or close well.
Doors on hills are always interesting.
Notice the bottom of the door cut off. I should have stood down there with it and gave it a better perspective.
What’s your favorite word? – Asks the daily writing prompt.
Another softball question today that I’ll just leave a short answer for. My favorite word is Papa. A word I don’t say often but love to hear from my grandchildren as they see me and run at me. Or throughout the day when they want to play or have something to eat. I say it when they leave our home, or I say goodbye to them at their home. I’ll say Papa loves you.
Yesterday was a free afternoon so I headed out for some cruising time with the top down. I just don’t get some people with convertibles. I understand I can tolerate heat and cold more than most. And that people might be on their way to an event and be done up nicely and not want wind damage.
The people running around with the tops up on beautiful days is astounding to me. So, to each their own. I’ll provide the balance in the force by going topless more often than not. The top is up when it’s under the cover and if I get caught in a rainstorm.
I traveled the back roads of Howard County for the most part. On a sunny day there are beautiful tree lined ups and downs with twists and turns.
Not today though. Rain and clouds are obscuring a beautiful day. I’ll use the time to catch up on some indoor tasks and work on a few hobbies.
Random Thoughts of the Day
The weight scale and I are on speaking terms without cursing again.
Lies and bullshit usually becomes obvious to the majority after some time. But I believe incompetence will hit everyone first.
Rain sometimes gives me a pause from yardwork that I didn’t know I needed till it was here.
Learning to overcome things is a valued skill to get through life.
What personality trait in people raises a red flag with you? – An easy question from the daily writing prompt.
Wow, it’s not so easy. So many popped onto my fingers I didn’t know where to start. I guess I go with Selfishness being a trait that raises that flag.
Don’t know what to say except that I try to work hard to stay away from bad personality traits. They just make life more difficult and alienate people.
Some seem totally unaware of these traits or in total denial of them. I’m sure I’m guilty myself. None of us are perfect.
My cat probably thinks here he comes again with that damn camera. Photo by Mike Hartley
Describe your ideal week. – Now there is a question for a Monday morning.
My mind wandered into the realm of what ifs, when thinking about an ideal week. But I’ll keep it reality based so it’s possible that this week is an ideal week.
Waking each morning healthy next to my better half, who is also healthy and happy, would be a nice start. Sharing breakfast together and planning day trips and time with the children and friends.
During the weekdays we hit small towns or a city like the Nation’s Capital and discover new places to eat. I photograph like I have endless time to process all the images. I paint and draw some. I carve and blog.
I share warm embraces with family and stories around the firepit. I raise a little hell with my best friends.
Spend a few hours with each grandchild.
Some romantic dinners/evenings with my better half.
Get some exercise.
I put the top down and absorb the sun on a day trip to the beach.
Take the time to help someone or do something for a stranger or maybe share some kind words.
Reach out to friends I don’t see often enough and chat.
Spend a few minutes in the hammock looking at the sky. Skip cutting the grass.
And if I still owned a motorcycle. I’d be heading to Bike Week in Ocean City MD this weekend.
I hope to get a grip on my steering wheel and shifter today. And that be the guide for the day on getting a grip on enjoying life. I’ve been working too hard for the last few days. Time for some fun. And with a sunny day of 80 degrees what is not to like.
A shot from a recent car show. Photo by Mike Hartley
Some upgrades to the home this week, that are long overdue. New front doors and a new cover for the well head in the front yard. I’ll share some photos of before and after later when work is completed.
Being it’s a new month I thought I’d get back to walking on the treadmill instead of sitting in front of the TV. Welcome September.
No time to be sitting here any longer when it’s so nice outside. Time to put a few miles on some outside trails. Have a great holiday Monday.
It’s good to look deep into the mirror once in a while. A good chance to be honest with yourself. A chance to see how many grey hairs are moving up from the beard to the scalp. A time to see the lines that life has left. Maybe catch the sight of a surgical scar. A time to evaluate how much life is left in those eyes.
Mirrored firewall, nice. Photo by Mike Hartley
A holiday weekend is upon us. Time for a cruise and maybe a stop at the town ice cream shop later. I hope to fire up the grill and cook some burgers and grill some scallops.
It’s funny how things changed so quickly. I remember being giddy with joy at having holidays. I worked a great number of them the decade before I retired and many before that. So having a holiday like most people was this strange thing for me.
Now in my second year, I’m taking that joy for granted already. Weekdays, weekends, holidays kind of blend together. Which is okay with me because every day is a holiday. Unless there’s a doctors appointment.
Time to step away from the computer and knock out a few chores before grilling and a spirited ride in the go-cart.
Random Thoughts of the Day
Music strikes many emotional chords in me.
I can’t believe it’s the traditional end of summer already. I’m disappointed in my beach attendance.
Would the world lose its mind if the internet went down?
If we ever sell this house, I’m going to have to cut out two bedroom doorframes that we have used to mark the grandchildren’s growth.
Why do you blog? – The daily writing prompt asks us this morning.
A very good question and one that I should examine again. Because a flood of thoughts just raced by.
I started blogging to share some of my photography an occasional thought, observation or opinion. As I first wrote on my About page “I hope you find or have found something here that moves you in some way or inspires thought or illicit emotion.”
I blog for myself because I want to be creative in this medium is one of the ways I can express myself and my outspoken opinion.
When starting it, I was thinking about a business off it but it’s really a hobby that I work hard at. Even though the content or quality doesn’t always hit the mark, I occasionally touch someone.
Having worked in the publishing business for almost 5 decades I’m getting to play on the side I supported for many years. I wasn’t a writer or photographer or artist. I worked on the technical and production sides for most all my career.
I admired the work of those writers and photographers for all those years. And now being retired I get to do my own daily publication.
Maybe someday my kids or grandkids or friends will look back at what I’ve shared in life and maybe a thought or image will stick with them and that will make me very happy.
I blog to increase my knowledge from reading other blogs and connecting with the many positive people who do blog.
I blog to examine my own thoughts. I photograph to capture moments in time in my eyes and share them if I like them.
I blog because it starts my day off actively and in a positive mindset most of the time. It gets my blood flowing.
I blog in hopes of occasionally making someone laugh.
I blog to help me become a better writer so one day when I get going on a few book ideas that are in various stages of development a real run at completing a work someday that would be worthwhile.
I blog to become a better photographer.
I think I’ll step outside again this morning to catch another sunrise. Photo by Mike Hartley
The wheels are turning in my head again and it feels good. I’ve had some good ideas and have started working on them. I’m also getting better at doing things instead of talking about them.
Looking up Old Columbia Pike from Main Street. Photo by Mike Hartley
Some wheels don’t have to turn at high speeds because they are constantly rotating. I’ve been slack on keeping my creative wheels turning on regular basis. I’m on a mission to change that and this week was a great start.
I’m working on a shell necklace for my granddaughter. Also spent some time sanding a few pieces and working on my photography. And I hope to make good use of this fine but cloudy Sunday.
Hoping your Sunday is a fine and happy one.
Random Thoughts of the Day
I better start writing these memories down before they are gone.
It’s sad that sports won’t have the same meaning too much of our youth as it did to my generation. Gambling has not made it a game any longer.
Spend time learning instead of regretting time wasted previously not learning.
I just looked at two flower pictures I have framed. They were favorites of my Mother-in-law because they were from her garden. When I see gardens, I think of both of my mothers.
Donated yesterday. I hope to make that more common practice.
The grin on Snoopy’s face in the driver’s seat reminds me of the one I have when behind the wheel. But today isn’t one of those days with drizzle and showers. With more of the same expected tomorrow, I won’t be getting my go-cart out till Thursday.
Outside E.C. Pops. Photo by Mike Hartley
I’ve got some time to get some fresh images today and that has me excited. And the deck gives me enough cover so that I can put the workbench outside and let nature collect the sawdust. So, I have plenty to keep me busy despite the sketchy weather.
Despite feeling a bit down I’m filled with optimism and things to do. And I should get up from here and get to a few of them.
Random Thoughts of the Day
Trust is a difficult thing, because it’s a difficult thing for so many people. And that is a shame.
When you’re older the RIGHT amount of exercise is very important. Because that window of right is much narrower.
Make each encounter with your grandchild special. When I have seen that in people’s lives it has made a big positive impact most times.
Some days I feel like dancing. Yep, today is one of them. Probably has something to do with my better half being out and the music a bit louder than usual.
So many thoughts racing through my head today. Things are being accomplished but I’m lacking focus. I know I’m out of balance.
I also know there are a ton of responsibilities ahead of me this week and next. So, the remaining days of August will be a blur.
But also, some opportunities. We will be staying closer to home and that should allow me to make some progress on gathering images for the book for my son and doing some woodworking.
I just have to keep a positive mindset and power forward. Then spend some time in September winding down.
I love color in the engine bay. Photo by Mike Hartley
Random Thoughts of the Day
Find someone to make proud today. Even if they are just a memory.
The feet feel like dancing.
You can still get soaked standing in a misting rain. I may need to change.
I’d like to get that spark back, that I had once.
I’ve never seen a one size fits all, actually fit all.
I noticed yesterday that I had a 365-day streak going on. A year. I went back last year and looked to see what broke my last streak. Ah, the good old 30-hour power outage took it away. I believe the streak at that time was 246 days.
Those are just numbers, but in some ways important. When I started blogging over a decade ago my goal was to post each day. I’m no more prepared now than I was last year to keep streaks alive. I don’t have posts scheduled in advance much. 99% of what I do is spur of the moment. I don’t have a backup power system besides a small generator.
I remember being bummed out about breaking a daily goal. But I’m more relaxed now and if it happens, it happens. It’s life. But I still have my personal goal.
Keeping a white car clean is a constant challenge. I had one once. Photo by Mike Hartley
I’m feeling good from the yardwork exercise, and I’m headed back out for another hour or two in the sun. Then a shower and into the convertible to test the coordination between my left knee/foot and right arm/hand going through the gears. Respectfully of course.
Random Thoughts of the Day
I sense a wild week ahead. Then again, I could just be inspired.
Being retired doesn’t mean you don’t still have a ton of responsibilities.
Grandkids grow up too fast just like their parents did.
Sometimes the keyboard feels like a musical one. I wish my words had the feeling and beat of a good song.
A late start for this daily blogger. Just in terms of posting though. I’ve just returned from a short family vacation at Ocean City Maryland. We pulled out of town before 9am to head home. A quick stop at our favorite Eastern Shore Produce stand Wrights Market for some sweet corn, bread, squash, onions, raspberry preserves for my son, BBQ sauce, cantaloupe and some salad dressing all made by them. Oh, also some apple butter.
Sunset on Isle of Wight. Photo by Mike Hartley
The weather was great, we spent time on the beach and pool. Had some good meals and did the Boardwalk with the kids one night.
The storms that rolled through Thursday night were something. I got a few shots right before they hit the inlet area that I’ll post later tonight.
My better half and daughter had a wonderful day together. I love seeing that. And I know her mother and mine would love to see that relationship.
What a beautiful day it was. Mostly sunny but a few clouds gave me a break from the sun every so often. Spent some of it mowing which is my meditation time. I’m trying to relax a bit more and let go of some things.
Wow, the Prince of Darkness John Michael (Ozzy) Osbourne has passed. Another soundtrack of my life silenced. A couple of my favorite Ozzy tunes – Changes – Mama, I’m Coming Home and of course Paranoid, Iron Man, I Don’t Know, Crazy Train, Close My Eyes Forever, No More Tears.
Doing this blog in relative obscurity isn’t a bad thing.
I think Stephen Colbert said it best to Trump – “Go F**k Yourself”
I don’t spend a lot of time looking at stats. And I rarely look at all time stats, but it caught my eye this morning that this will be my 4,000th post.
When I started blogging in 2014, I really didn’t have a great idea of where I was going with it and what I wanted in it. And over a decade later I still don’t fully know, apart from a few things.
I wanted to share my photography and a few thoughts. I haven’t done as much, as well or as often as I hoped, but I’m still here trying.
I’m sure I’ve used too many words, some incorrectly or with incorrect punctuation. And maybe at the end not a clear point. But I’m trying.
I know it’s an unorganized mess. I’ve got an old theme I need to get rid of and move on to something current. I don’t utilize the tools at my disposal. But I’m trying.
Sometimes I question whether I should be doing something different or focusing my energies elsewhere.
I hope it’s something that has touched a few people. I hope it’s something my family and friends might reflect on someday.
All I know is it needs a lot more work, and I hope to get the opportunity to do it and make it something that I’m proud of. Here’s to the next 4K.
Just looked at the list and it’s a very packed week. So much for the schedule I was thinking about. I’ll adjust because that is what life is about. A never-ending series of adjustments and modifications. And being a senior, it’s going to be one after another.
But the few free minutes I will have I’ll make very good use of it. I’m going to work my behind off this evening. Oh yeah, catch a few minutes of the Home Run Derby.
I was thinking back when I started blogging and I would use photos I had taken to kind of inspire the days thoughts or topics. I’ve gotten away from that, and I feel the need to return to that formula.
Color me. Photo by Mike Hartley
This flower made me think about all the beauty possible but the UGLYNESS killing it on so many levels is making me sick and it’s time to rock and roll against it. This greed and lack of compassion is out of control, and it only keeps being reinforced by those in power.
I’m going to have to work harder for a change. Not for me, but for my children and grandchildren.
Random Thoughts of the Day
It’s good to be feeling better today. Whatever attacked my sinuses this weekend has abated.
There are Monday’s and then there are MONDAY’S.
I feel like I’m in a washing machine that has lost its spin cycle. You feel wet if it’s raining or not when stepping outside.
As one of my best friends is commonly heard saying, “it’s time to turn it up.” And he isn’t talking about just the music.
What are your daily habits? – The daily writing prompts getting all personal again.
Wake before sunrise most days. Take meds. Do some morning writing and photo editing or printing. Read, watch or listen to some news. Emails/texts/calls to friends and family. Read some blogs. Home and yard chores.
Spend time with my better half, exercise, tinker in my workshop. Listen to music, find something to laugh about, and try to eat well.
Get outside and if the sun is out, soak some of it in and look at the sky for a while. Listen and look at nature.
If I’m lucky I’ll spend some time photographing and drawing.
I used to work for daily newspaper and work every day, but those days have ended.
Contemplating the morning commute. Photo by Mike Hartley
How do you use social media? – An interesting question from the daily writing prompt.
Ah, maybe they should have asked how does social media use you? Just kidding but it’s a thought.
Anyway, I’m on a few things but I try not to overdue any of them. Blogging is my dominate social media activity along with my photo site on Zenfolio, that I’m always building out. I do a lot of reading online and blogs are a good percentage.
I have a Facebook account but I’m trying to spend less and less time there. And I only share with a couple of private groups there like my car club and the two companies where I worked for decades for alumni groups.
I’ve never had a Twitter, X or any of those type of social media apps. I have an Instagram account, but I believe I have one or two images there. Not something I’m pursuing now.
I have a LinkedIn account but being retired I use it far less.
I do get lost in YouTube videos from time to time. Comedy, educational, music, news. I’m going to try to make more videos myself in the coming years.
I enjoy watching sunrises and sunsets from the Ocean City Maryland webcams each day. There is a dozen or so to choose from and it’s a great way to start and complete a day.
Opinion – I’m older and grew up without all the phones and computers and games. And I think that was a very important part of my life because it gave me a balance when I became involved in technology for several decades as an adult.
I worry about the effects on young people. The emphasis and importance placed on it and those people interacted with is entirely out of proportion. It’s very addictive and easy to get lost in.
My real close friends and family rarely interact through social media. But we communicate often and directly through text, email, phone calls and direct meetings.
People measuring things through the number of Facebook friends, followers or likes are shorting themselves. Yes, you can build some wonderful contacts and sometimes develop some real friendships in social media. But you shouldn’t measure yourself that way.
Real life exists outside those devices.
I think our local school system just banned smartphones in school. I agree with this move.
I was editing some photos and came across this shot I was just about to trash and remembered taking it because it was a unique bike rack I found I Berlin Maryland on a visit there. Riding a bike is a lot of fun. Good exercise but a great way to see things.
We usually ride bikes at the beach and some at my friends bay home on Kent Island. But I don’t own my own bike yet and I think I’ll change that this year. When it warms some I think I’ll go pick one out. And maybe look at a bike rack for the car so I can take it with me.
Custom Bike Rack. Photo by Mike Hartley
Weather
Finally, a slight break from that frozen grip of winter. I think I’ll start to build our home and emergency preparedness in the coming two years. We are already going to upgrade our less than adequate attic insulation.
Our gutters and roof are in good shape but our doors and windows could use some work. WInds in this area seem to be more prevalent than in the past. So some trees that are in falling distance of the house on my property might get a trimming or removal. We have two beautiful oaks out front that have been struggling the last two years. At least I can save those for firewood.
I’m going to work on a few drainage issues also. Some neighbor made some changes that is causing excessive runoff into my lower back yard along the property line. I’ll get some stone and build the gully back up and make it so it won’t cause washouts like it does now.
Then it’s on to power issues later this year. I have a small generator but it’s not tied into our panel so our well pump won’t run without power which means in addition to lights we have no water. So it might be time to look into something beefier and tied in.
I could go on but I’m seeing more extremes in weather so I’m going to do our best to prepare.
Wishing everyone a peaceful and happy Sunday evening.
It’s almost dinnertime here so I’ll leave you with a family dining outside on a summer afternoon in Berlin Maryland. By the way if your there the Atlantic Hotel and Rayne’s Reef are great. I think we will pay this town another visit this year. Maybe their Peach Festival.
There is nothing, that beats a family meal together. Photo by Mike Hartley
Random Thoughts of the Day
I guess I’m getting older. Scammers are sending me more texts, emails and phone calls.
Sleep is something your eyelids need.
I have been a bit slack this month in keeping up with some of my favorite blogs.
Spending time with family, is a good way to get my priorities right again.
Unfortunately I’m a history buff, and that is why recent events and words make me fearful for my children and grandchildrens
A pretty good morning. Got the body straightened out after some morning stretching and light weights. That doesn’t always do the trick but it helped this morning. I’ve managed to get several notes to loved ones and friends off already. The music has me swaying in the chair singing along.
I have a few free hours to do some shooting today. I also need to do some outside walking being this is the last tolerable day outside for the next week.
As usual 24 hours before it’s going to snow here I got the following predictions. Channel 11 says the 2-4 range. I just checked Weather Underground and they say 3-5 inches. My iPhone said 5-6 inches so anywhere from 2-6 inches. tomorrow. Have fun at the stores today.
The song “Searching” from Lynyrd Skynyrd isn’t a bad tune to start the day with. Especially the live version from the album, One More From The Road.
I’d rather see smoke from tires than exhaust but its that time of year. Photo by Mike Hartley
Quotes I liked reading today.
My secret to staying young… Having no sense of time. – Steven Wright
There’s a great power in words, if you don’t hitch too many of them together. – Josh Billings
“Life should not be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside in a cloud of smoke, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming, ‘Wow! What a ride! ‘” ~ Hunter S. Thompson
Random Thoughts of the Day
The clouds did a great disservice to the sunrise this morning.
My office chair, is like a airplane out of control. We can’t maintain an elevation.
I feel like an athlete resting up for the games later today.
I wonder if I look like a suspect being I wear a hoodie in the house a times.
I’m so hoping that that it can be a good Friday. It’s the only day my better half and I don’t have other plans this whole week. So we can make of the day, what we will. That’s a nice feeling to start the day with. At least I know I can fit my exercise in throughout the day and evening.
I hate being strapped for time. It seemed I lived my life in that mode. It’s so nice to have some control over it again. Having removed the bounds of employment, the ability to take in that deep breath of life is so sweet each morning.
The clock in my old area of IT. Guess they couldn’t find anything to anchor it to the concrete pilar. I was always entertained by their solution. Photo by Mike Hartley
I’m hopeful my better half is feeling good and would like to get out. She has been on the move a lot lately, so I could also understand her wanting to just relax at home and if that is what makes her happy than that is what we will do today.
I don’t mind a day relaxing myself. Especially with a busy weekend ahead. I’ve got to get the attic project going again. Taking the last two items (kids first bikes) out and then start to remove and seal off attic ceiling fan. And I need to schedule another estimate for adding insulation.
Finding dozens of things to keep busy with, is no problem. And I’m thinking cooking might be one of them because I’m hungry.
Recently I had a friend say to me. “I’m not retiring and sitting around the house all day doing nothing.” And I felt for him in many ways. I don’t know if it was the limited preparation and thought, I took before it happened. Or if it was just my attitude going into it. Maybe it was the anticipation of having a chance to complete something I wanted early in life, but didn’t seize the opportunity.
Of course part of the excitement of retirement for me that other can’t always share because of distance is the fact I have my children and grandchildren within driving distance. Not short, but doable. And the extra time with them has been wonderful. Tiring but wonderful.
And the simple fact I don’t report to anyone but #1, not me stupid, my better half. Not because she is in charge, were partners. And we share being boss which takes the pressure off sometimes when needed. Because life in retirement can be challenging also.
Time to move on and maximize the remaining 15 hours of the day here.
Random Thoughts of the Day
You learn more by letting others talk and listening.
I’ve been using Chapstick more and more this winter yet my lips are still chapped. Either I’m not using it enough or this stuff doesn’t work. I think I hear Mother Nature laughing.
It was difficult watching Maryland lose in overtime last night. But they live to play another day.
I think I’m practicing great restraint not using this blog as a daily critique of this ultra cold weather and sharing my feelings about it. But seeing the 7 day forecast, be prepared for a RANT.
Being sidetracked from tasks for fun, is fun again in my senior years now. Sort of what I remember it being like when I was very young. You could step away from things without serious consequences.
I’m found an untapped source of energy this evening. Maybe it’s the hard driving Rock and Roll I’ve been listening to. That has always been one part of my inspiration in life among many things.
Sometimes it’s certain lyrics, or an amazing guitar riff, or the rolling bass or thundering drums. Maybe a horn section or a wizard on the keyboards. Every vocal instrument from Steven Tyler’s screams and harmonica to the operatic Freddie Mercury and piano.
This world needs more music. I know I need more music. It makes me feel good. It makes me think. It makes me move. It’s a great exercise companion. It helps me know I can. It aids me in imagining something special. It takes me to a place of tranquility. It can inspire me with untapped courage. It makes me feel passion. And oh, my can it fly through the gears on a stick shift like nobody’s business.
I love music and now that I have time to really enjoy lots of it instead of snippets here and there. You know having to turn it down or off to concentrate on life’s questions or tasks. I got far less of those so if I want to duck walk around the house like Chuck Berry or Angus Young I certainly can. I’m far less stressed so if I want to play drums like Neil Peart while sitting on the tractor cutting the yard, so be it.
Or maybe just sit back and tap my foot to some groups doing unplugged versions of hits that are rhythmic masterpieces. Or maybe sit and listen to “Wish you were Here” by Pink Floyd and maybe shed a tear for those I miss dearly.
I’ve been to a good number of concerts over the years. Most of them are in my younger years but I think I’ll check out a few more this summer. But tonight, it’s been a concert in Woodstock.
The books are under way. Daily writing on these projects is now part of the day. I’m working on 3 separate efforts and progress is good. I wrote a lot this evening.
I shot a bucket list item tonight. I’ll post those photos later in the morning.
I’m not detecting the first light of day yet, so sunrise is a bit off. Let me switch from my nocturnal self and morph into the day walker environment.
And on a bah humbug note. I’m not thrilled about the very cold temps and forecasted snow.
Photo by Mike Hartley looking over Howard County Conservancy off Rt 99.
Good morning fellow frozen ice cubes. A balmy 18 degrees with a feels like temp of -8. when I started writing this in central Maryland. I’m going to create some warmth with the morning workout and then I’m going to shake the creative tree today and see what falls out.
And low and behold, the song Low Rider by the group War came on as I was editing a few Miata club meeting photos. A nice combination to thaw out the chill in the air in my office. My baby is under the cover and freezing outside. I wish I had a garage. Even more I wish it was warm and I was pointing it EAST with the top down and not stopping till I hit the Atlantic Ocean.
Maryland Miata Club meet. Photo by Mike Hartley
The first warm day we get this year that is what is going to happen. It will be a spur of the moment call one morning. And I’ll be gone, like we would do in our youth with the infamous “ROAD TRIP”. We used the phrase a few years before Animal House made it famous as I’m sure other before us had.
Sorry about getting sidetracked, back to the creative endeavors. Today is a great opportunity for progress, and maybe completing the beach project. The goal this year is to be a better finisher. Having a lot of things competing for my interest is sometimes a distraction, and also a help if I run into a block in one area.
Interesting life observation. Photo by Mike Hartley
I think I’ll go add a few things to that pastel drawing I’m working on before hitting the treadmill. I’ve got some shots from last night to download and process. After a few miles and some weights I’m going to crank up the color printer and exhaust my paper supply.
Random Thoughts of the Day
Taking that next shot is better than thinking about that next shot.
Made a great fettuccini dish with red pepper, mushrooms and bacon last night. The point now is I’m trying to avoid having the leftovers for breakfast it was so good.
There is a time and a place and that time is now and that place is here. At least for me.
Almost time for another beautiful sunrise over the ocean.
Yeah, that’s right, the magic keyboard. The slayer of sentences. The pounder of the paragraph. The crusher of chapters. The builder of books. And then I thought what if I couldn’t use that tool? That gave me a pause.
What triggered this thought was when I sat down a few weeks back, my nerve pain overwhelmed my arms and hands, and I couldn’t work for a few minutes and was slowed for hours. What an unsettling feeling.
Photo by Mike Hartley
I’ve got to adapt my photography by using a tripod more. Weight was certainly a big factor in my last purchase. I won’t be leaving home without the monopod and tripods if I’m using the Nikons for any duration of time. Old man, slow lens = tripod if I want sharp shots.
And then I thought as I always do, how do I adapt if needed? Getting older is a lot of adapting. Things you took for granted for decades are suddenly an issue. Pain and eyesight are a few I fight.
The eye doctor’s appointment at the end of the month should help with the latter. And I’ll power through the rest and adapt.
Today we are battling the cold. I’m headed out this afternoon for a few minutes of photography combined with exercise because I’d love to find a spot to hike down and get some partially frozen streams.
Random Thoughts of the Day
Something that can make you feel old. The invitation to your 50th high school reunion.
I love that deer use my lower back yard as their beds in the winter. Looking out and seeing 2-8 sleeping is nice.
Sometimes I’m thinking about tomorrow, but today I’m thinking about today. But in a few minutes, I could be thinking about yesterday. But then there is next week.
I’ve got to get back to work on 2 carvings and finish them this week. So off I go.
What a destructive and deadly foe. Hard to watch the families who have lost everything in California. The sights of the devastation is hard to look at and not be touched. Whole communities erased, schools, churches, businesses and homes. Landmarks and history, infrastructure and vehicles. And worst of all some human life.
A good day to keep warm. Photo by Mike Hartley
When I hear destruction is larger than some of size of our large cities in this country it gives a sense of the scope of the damage. It won’t take weeks and months to recover. It will be years and decades.
It’s also made me think about my personal situation and how well or not we are prepared. Maybe there are a few things we should be keeping in a safety deposit box. But it also got me thinking of being more prepared for future events where services like power or food might be limited.
I have a small generator for short term issues. But I have no fuel storage. I also need to tie in my well pump so I can have water if the power goes out off the generator. Tons of things to consider. As years keep getting warmer and warmer as they have over the last few decades, we might not be facing wildfires but hurricanes coming further north is a real possibility.
Regardless, I need to be prepared for more extremes.
Where to go for a day or two of relaxation is the question racing across my mind. We need to get away for an evening. Not sure when but within the next month for sure. I was thinking a night in Annapolis might be nice. There is a hotel I’ve been looking at there that looks nice. Also has an indoor pool and if I can’t get away to the south for an extended period, I’ll take a swim here.
Regardless of where we go it’s still winter so maybe a place with stores and shops as well as a few outdoor sights if it warms enough.
Random Thoughts of the Day
Beautiful sunrises are a great way to start the day.
A lot to think about today and absorb.
Facebook getting rid of fact checkers. Maybe Mark and Elon can merge and form the largest F’ed up communication system the world has ever known.
Do you ever have an appointment you wish you didn’t have to keep. I get a few of those a year for medical checkups that I don’t care about. It’s not so much the appointment itself it’s the possible ramifications.
It’s like going to a casino in some ways, give some blood or take another test and spin the wheel of results. I got one of these coming up. I’ve got a busy schedule between now and then, so I won’t dwell on it all the time but it’s in the back of my head.
Many are wandering around thinking about that next appointment. Many have so many appointments they blur together.
At the hospitals waiting rooms I always try to be very positive and smile. I see a few others doing the same, but I see more that are having trouble smiling. Either due to concern or knowing results and there for treatments.
So how do I react to this? Getting to work is usually a good one and employed often. Adding some music to the mix is also helpful. Focusing on another aspect of life for enjoyment. And I’ve got some of that planned with friends and family.
It’s a waste of time thinking and writing about it. I should get busy and put the morning to good use.
I need to make each days outlook this bright. Photo by Mike Hartley
Random Thoughts of the Day
Feeling good about the exercise start to the day.
Doesn’t it make you wonder how much money gambling is raking in if they can afford to advertise more than pharmaceuticals, insurance and energy. I don’t know that for a fact but it certainly feels like it some days.
An old friendship was on the mend. And then came politics again.
I wanted to make a snowman but these past snows weren’t good snowman material.
I wonder how much further the rule of law can bend. We might be on our way of finding out.
I was losing momentum and getting down. Life will do that to you every so often, but I’m on the right track again. As a friend tells me “it’s not what happens to you, it’s how you react that matters” and as usual he is right. So, I’m going to stay positive this weekend.
One thing I feel really good about is my goal of walking a few miles on the treadmill each day besides the other regular walking in life and photography hikes I take. I see the Red Cross has a 100-mile challenge/fundraiser for the month of February.
Take that walk, pause and reflect. Photo by Mike Hartley
I’m tempted to try it but I’m only averaging 2 miles on the treadmill each day and that will require 4 miles a day. I do a fair amount of other walks throughout the day most of the week, but my right knee has been an issue with pain for a couple of months now.
The short-term goal is to sprinkle in some 3 mile days and then make that the norm for maybe another month and then evaluate. The thing I like about it is that even if I have a lazy and catch some sports and just tinker around the house, I’m still getting a few miles walk in and some light weights.
I like the treadmill because it’s an even surface. Yes, I love getting out also but I step much differently outside. I’ve torn my ankles up enough for several people over the years.
It feels like it helps my balance which was getting suspect for a bit. It helped me relax and unwind. Also using it to multitask. If I’m going to watch a game, why not walk and watch. I’m also thinking of things to write about as my mind wanders during commercials.
I see yesterday January 10th was quitters day. I believe I read somewhere, a study said 80% of New Years goals will be given up on by the second Friday in the month. Luckily for me its full speed ahead on exercise as well as a few others.
I watched a beautiful sunrise on the Atlantic Ocean this morning from one of the webcams in Ocean City MD. There is still snow on the beach and boardwalk there. And some more on the way later today.
It’s time to trim the beard before I start looking like Grizzly Adams. Even though it does provide a little extra warmth at this time of year.
In looking at the images of the devastation in California, it has moved me to make a donation to the Red Cross this morning. Someone has to start asking the question, “should we build here” when these events happen. They asked those questions after other disasters like Katrina. I hear insurance was difficult to get even before the fires. It’s going to be impossible for anyone to get it in the future.
Other parts of the country could be in store for more events like this. The population of many coastlines are in jeopardy. And its far from the only area of the country that experienced drought.
Had a few friends visit outside my back slider door this morning. This guy had me in his sights. It’s so friggin cold out today they would sit, duck and close their eyes at times when the wind would gust. Then just as fast hop up and fly away.
If my mom were alive I could call her and ask what they were, and she would know. I did keep a few books of hers, and I think one was a guide to birds. I might have to go rummage around for that if I intend to keep posting wildlife.
Photos by Mike Hartley
I love to blog but I need to improve my content. I started off this year trying to increase the number of posts I do each day. My goal was 4 a day. I’m averaging 2.6 so far. Good thing I caught myself slacking already 10 days into the year.
The thought was the more post would inspire me to do more photography. It does but that is an additional production to fit into the day.
Time is mostly the limitation, but not utilizing my time correctly is another. I’m good at starting early and getting the first post out most days. And sometimes a follow-up one before noon. But the second half of the day, I’ve been allowing too many distractions.
I have increased communications with some people which is a good thing but it takes time. I’m also trying to read and learn more which is great, but producing at the same time is difficult.
Of course there is life which gets in the way. Doctors appointments, social visits, babysitting, appealing my property tax, insurance comparisons, to mention just a few this week.
But I will get back to my goal and at the same time try to get some better content.
I woke this morning not feeling 100% so I’m going to take it easy today. No morning walk outside being it’s 17 degrees with a stiff wind making it feel below 0. So I watched the sunrise cam in Ocean City this morning while tending to some office cleanup.
That snow is blowing off the roofs today with those winds. Photo by Mike Hartley
I’m waiting for the Tylenol to quell the pounding headache. Once that happens I can get back to some hobby fun. I had grand plans for last night but they fell by the wayside. I couldn’t get warm and huddled under a few blankets and being I was in the recliner that didn’t last long before I got up and went to bed.
I can’t get over the devastation and pain so many are suffering in California from those fires.
Random Thoughts of the Day
Snow will tell you how much wildlife you have around your home. It looks like a small army has marched through my back yard.
I always had this feeling my children were growing up too fast. I’m getting that same feeling now with my grandchildren.
I wonder when peoples breaking point will come with so many stupid things going on the highways.
It’s depressing not seeing a day in the long term forecast that will allow this snow to melt.
Good timing this morning in taking the car to the garage for a tire issue. Caught the sunrise off Woodstock Road going towards Route 99. On the way home it was in the clouds already.
The phone camera is good in a pinch. Photo by Mike Hartley
I’m not enjoying the cold, but I am enjoying getting out early in the day. I think I’ll try to make a habit of it this year. I’m always up early, but this home is so comfortable it’s hard to leave it.
Photography Journey Day 68 – 1/8/25
You may have noticed I skipped a few days/weeks update. It’s not that I’m not editing, shooting, uploading, downloading, admiring my new monopod, reading or unsuccessfully trying some new settings. I’m just not disciplined as I need to be with updates, so I’m hoping back on the wagon.
This morning I’m reading Street Photography Tips from StreetsOfNuremberg.com – this is an area of my photography that I need to practice much more of. So hopefully some more work will be shown here soon.
Also working on finishing up the holiday prints for family. That will be another 50 easily. Then upload the high-def batch to the family vault.
There is a good chance I’ll get out and do some more snow shooting today. I’ve already stepped out back and shot some snow drift patterns. Trouble is I have one of those sinus headaches going strong.
I need to get back in gear. A great start to the day, but I faded fast. Working out in the cold can take it out of me. I can work all day out in the heat. Not the cold though. That first 3 hours of the day outside was like 8.
Then off to an important meeting and I had to engage the brain after that physical work this morning. By this afternoon I was toast and took some comfort in the recliner. Been fighting a headache the last few days.
So tonight I get back in the swing. Some treadmill time to get the blood moving. Some music to get me inspired and a relaxed mind to create.
I hope to do a few more posts tonight. Maybe on some medical thoughts, maybe just a few more images I run across editing some previous work. It could be a rant on drivers passing on blind spots on our single lane road and what I’ll do to them if we meet. Or maybe thoughts on the conversation I’m going to have with a neighbor who likes to speed through the neighborhood. I wonder how much a set of spike strips cost? Just kidding, I’ll have a rational conversation with them first.
Random Thoughts of the Day
I hate missing calls from friends.
Beef Stew is a hearty cold weather dinner.
I made a lunch date with my daughter which gave me a smile for a long while today.
I love the way sun makes snow sparkle.
Each time I think my knee is improving, I tweak it and we begin again.
I saw a video of my granddaughter sledding and giggling on the way down. That was the sweetest sounds I heard all day.
Again my hearty thanks to people keeping the roads clear and all those struggling in less than good conditions to goods to market.
Lots of stuff could be better but I’m up and smiling this morning. Looking forward to some exercise and working on my hobbies today. I’m having trouble deciding if I’m going to make the Miata club meeting this afternoon. I’m sure they are going to be treating the roads, and my ride is all clean under the cover right now.
On the other hand, the roads are going to be a real mess with snow for at least a week with nothing above freezing happening in the 7 day forecast, so this is my last chance. It’s so strange driving that car with the top up anyway.
Well, I’ll contemplate that dilemma later, right now I have some good music inspiring the morning and thinking of the possibilities. So, I took a break from writing and decided to continue the editing project and the song “Walk This Way” by Aerosmith came on as I opened this photo.
A good reminder to keep it slow and steady.
Determination. Photo by Mike Hartley
And here I was tempted to throw this guy away before that moment. He’s a visitor each summer and made me wonder how old these box turtles live. Google says 25-35 years but possible up to 100. I’ll just look at it like we are sharing the land.
I’ve almost hit him a few times in the yard with the mower. That’s another thing I don’t like about these lawn services with the huge mowers that go so fast. They aren’t worried about what might be in the way. I stop for snakes, turtles, frogs.
I should get some exercise and finish a post about a co-worker who left the job. Have a great morning all.
Random Thoughts of the Day
37 Days and 18 hours till Spring Training opens. Hey Hey Baseball
Once the cold gets in my body it’s hard to get out.
I had better brush up on my snow settings in the camera. It’s been a great while since we have seen significant snow.
All people change over time. Just watch out for which direction that is.
Finding my creative cycle is a rather elusive thing at times. I feel like a cat chasing its tail. I catch it and it’s loose again. Like cats it’s sometimes active at nights. Sometimes wildly so. Maybe I’ll be that cat roaming late tonight.
Too many things stopped my creativity over the last year. The supply of excuses and things that could stop me in my tracks are too endless to list. This year I’m trying to retrain myself. To let loose, to not let things stop me, to not get distracted, to not get frustrated, to not worry, to not let no or less flattering comments slow me.
Now I’m learning each day, and working longer, harder and more effectively. I’m seeing opportunities and it’s amazing and the more I see and get to work on the more that seem to open up.
The biggest thing is to just keep working even in the most difficult times I’ve learned. The holidays are always tough for me. Apprehension about medical appointments. Maybe an argument with my better half or a family member being distant get me out of sorts and I slow or almost stop.
Yes things will give me pause. Like learning about the loss of an old work friend the other day and the issues mentioned above and others, but my focus is on creating and if I’m working, I’m able to recover and regain my footing and energy.
Tonight I’m staying very busy to keep my mind from wandering down other paths of concern.
This Sunday is the Maryland Miata Club meeting. I’m going to go and join in for an hour before returning home and covering the car for the upcoming snow on Monday. I just threw the cover back on the car this afternoon for the dusting that’s on its way today.
The meets usually last 2-3 hours easily but when it’s 30 degrees, even the strong will move inside or head home after an hour. One thing I’m looking forward to is a slice of Three Brothers Pizza. They took over the old Neo Pizza spot. And that’s the lot we meet at.
I’m a ragtop man. So begins a year of travel, but first the long season of cover on, or top up. Hence the name on the logo below – Full Circle Road Trips. Those sunny days and warm summer nights are balanced out with the cool temps and snow.
This year is the year of the destination. I hope to make my travels, a little more part of this blog this year.
I tinkered with the logo below that I’ll use to detail my road trips this year.
There won’t be too many this month in the Miata but that won’t stop the other vehicles. Between the weather and appointments this January is busy. I did take the fun machine out Thursday night because I hadn’t started it in a week, so I thought I’d exercise it a bit with a trip to my friends home.
May you enjoy the drive and the bad drivers be on another road than yours.
Here’s to safe travels and exciting miles ahead in 2025.
Maryland has some great roads. Photo by Mike Hartley.
A line in the song Aqualung, by group Jethro Tull I heard this morning, “Do you still remember”, and the answer is YES, I remember. The days when you had to go to the box office to get tickets to concerts. Sleeping out overnight at the Capital Center or Merriweather Post Pavilion for concerts like Led Zeppelin or The Eagles or The Who. Or one of our favorites also Jethro Tull.
We didn’t pay any convivence fee, or delivery fee or parking fee. But we did get some damn good seats at some concerts. They did set limits on how many you could buy but I think it was something like 10 per person because I can recall 2 of us bought close to 20 for one concert for all our friends.
Ah, what great experiences, both the purchasing process and concerts. Sleeping out overnight on concrete or in a car.
The days when both your hands were in the air because you were clapping or playing an instrument or both while singing along. No phones recording the whole concert. Your mind recorded it. I think that is why the hair on my neck stands up for some songs still decades later.
Music has and always will be an important element in my life. The enjoyment and inspiration it brings have been immense. The emotions and feelings some songs hold, and grip me like a hug.
Concerts were and still are this great shared experience with others who hold those lyrics, notes, beats, and choruses in reverence. It’s one of the great unifiers in our universe. The SONG. They cross any land or ethnic barriers.
My tickets from the early 70s are so faded you can’t see details without a magnifying glass. Photo by Mike Hartley
Random Thoughts of the Morning
I guess it’s time to think about taking the decorations down. I like the thinking about it part more than the doing it. I’ve thought about it and I’m not starting today.
That cold wind this morning is going to test my patience today.
Some places have a 2-drink minimum. I have a 2-mile minimum on the treadmill per day. I exceeded that 2-drink minimum many times as a youth. No need to re-live that element of my hard charging days.
It’s not that I don’t care or feel about the nasty events that happened on New Years Day. I just have to compartmentalize life because that crap goes on every day around the world, sometimes in larger numbers or many smaller ones but it’s there in our faces every day. I have to live and stay positive and work to change it for my children and grandchildren.
After the 2024 year with the WordPress Daily Writing Prompt I’ve decided to move onto my own mind and not rely on something like that. Or at least that is my hope. Finding things to explore in a variety of topics or observations or trains of thought.
Despite the title it doesn’t have anything to do with football, even though that topic will be broached in the future. It’s the kickoff of a new year and new possibilities.
So, I’ll start with a simple one. In November and December, I was doing some photography along the Patapsco River along Howard and Baltimore counties. The scenic photos got good notice but what really got people’s attention, was an area people were using as a dump.
It got me thinking about my photography and how I might use that in the future to help change things. If nothing else, it sheds a light on what could improve or use help. And I’m putting a trash bag in my car so when I’m out in nature I can pick up a bit from those less considerate of the world we live in.
I was also looking at the train bridge that crosses River and Ilchester Roads. From an inexperienced structural engineer, that one looks suspect. So maybe while I’m doing structural photography, I could help our infrastructure engineers maybe catch a weak spot before something happens.
I’ll capture the homeless if out and about. Another problem so few seem concerned with.
Homeless but not helpless. Photo by Mike Hartley
I am out of balance with my complaining and actions. If I spend more time trying to correct things, then I have no problem shedding my light and opinion on things. But if I’m not lifting my own weight, it’s a bit hypocritical.
So here’s to capturing some more images that focus not just on problems but some solutions and actions along the way. Anything I can start doing to make a positive difference.
A fairly productive Monday so far and lots of time left for more work.
Photo Journey Day 18 – 11/18/24
This post is looking a little grey even though its light on words. I have one more batch to edit from shots I took at the end of Henryton Road. I’ve been sharing them with a Patapsco group on Facebook and gotten some interest so I’ll keep trying to do my best to see if I can pick up some tips from others on spots to shoot from or trails to hike.
I’m getting better at hiding from them. Photo by Mike Hartley
I’m spending more time on WordPress learning today than photography which I don’t like but I really need to pick up my game here with this tool also.
Leave me alone, I’m trying to have dinner. Photo by Mike Hartley
A pretty good Saturday with some family. Glad we stay in touch and do a quarterly lunch together and then desert back at one of our homes.
On the downside I learned I’m on a discontinued theme here in WordPress so you will be seeing a change here in the future as I decide among the masses to choose from. Ran into a bug with tags. But I love this platform and I’ve needed to update this sites look for some time now. About 10 years too late in some peoples view probably.
I noticed images also displaying weird so I got to get moving on this change.
Photo Journey Day 16 – 11/16/24
The journey today is just a learning one. I’m too tired and other plans absorbed the day away from me and I’m not in the right frame of mind to shoot this evening. I’ll do some reading and editing tonight and probably upload some images to the photo site.
I promise to be up early and double up on the effort tomorrow.
Listening to some music this morning when an old song I hadn’t gotten down to in a little while made me really pause. The song was Find the Cost of Freedom by Crosby Stills Nash and Young.
I can’t remember this country being so divided since the Vietnam war era. And somehow I think this might even be a more dangerous time.
It’s possible we are about to find out again what Freedom Cost.
Hillside, Headstones and Wreaths at Arlington National Cemetery. Photo by Mike Hartley
Why do you blog? – So ask the Daily Writing prompt on this fine Thursday.
I blog because I love writing and sharing my photographs and thoughts. Doing it daily and hopefully well has been and is still my goal. It’s been a lot of fun over this first decade of blogging, but I hope I’ve just scratched the surface of things I’d like to do.
I’ve been in a daily publishing routine and business for so long that even when I retired I thought keeping this going daily was a good idea. I hope to become a better writer so my work on books is more effective. It’s a good way to start the day. A little music, sharing some thoughts and images I’ve shot.
That is why I do it now.
When I started blogging life was in turmoil. I had been a few years recovering from my first cancer and a second one had started so the feeling of life being finite entered my mind. I was pissed at myself for not acting after the first health scare and got my ass in gear finally. I felt like I had this creative side and desire from a youth, I didn’t pursue as I hoped.
So many changes at the job had taken place, many were quite disruptive. Little did I know what was to come for the last decade. It was a great escape and one of the positive things to focus on for my future.
Here we are in retirement and I’ve got a good head start and ready to spread my wings more.
Amature photographer (me) photographing what appears to be a professional photographer. I used to have one of those spare tires, glad I lost it. Photo by Mike Hartley
What do you enjoy most about writing? – The Daily Writing prompt inquires.
I love that it gives me something to look forward to each day. I like the opportunity to possibly write something meaningful to someone.
My writing would surprise my mother and my high school English teachers but make them both proud I believe. I happened to have failed 9th grade English and had to take summer school to make it up. One of my mother’s many skills and jobs was a proofreader and a damn fine one who I’ll never measure up to without the help of technology.
The challenge of writing a book or books is in front of me. I’ve been blogging for a decade now and have written over a million words here. I will most likely continue it for the rest of my days because it allows me to express myself.
I don’t know if you have heard the adage “think before you talk” or “engage brain before mouth” or the variations of that thought. Sometimes I’m good at expressing myself verbally, sometimes not. My emotions can override my brain.
Writing allows me time to think and hopefully express my real thoughts in a well-communicated manner. While at the same time writing with feeling and emotion. I like the opportunity to pair the right photo I’ve taken with the right words or thoughts.
Writing has moved me to read more and that is also enlightening.
Ops, I might have rambled on too long answering a simple question. Onto the next post or chapter. Enjoy the day.
If you’re lucky, you get to write about life or anything you want. Photo by Mike Hartley
What do you listen to while you work? – Another very vague question from the daily writing prompt.
Being recently retired I don’t listen to anything while I don’t work anymore.
This morning while blogging and editing photos I’m listening to the birds sing as the sun started to approach the horizon. Most mornings I’ll listen to some music, something inspirational to get the juices flowing.
When doing other “work” like mowing the yard or washing the car I like to have some light classic rock on because those are mellow activities.
Other times I just like silence when I’m working.
When I worked at the College Park printing plant I would listen to the presses running in the background.
This was my favorite plant to work at. The old College Park facility. Photo by Mike Hartley
Good morning, just taking in the view and planning a great day. I have a ton of images to download and edit. I’d like to make use of this good weather and be outside a bit. There are several posts I’ve started that I should finish and publish.
I see you. Photo by Mike Hartley
It’s going to be a busy weekend again filled with family and friends. Life is great.
List your top 5 favorite fruits. – You got to be kidding me. Okay, let’s see if we can have some fun with the lame question from the Daily Writing prompt.
Pineapple – Strawberry – Avacado – Kiwi – Apple
Dennis Leary – Sam Kinnison – Lewis Black – Steven Wright – Don Rickles – Top 5 favorite fruitcake comedians.
Hugger Orange – Plum Crazy – Sublime – Go Mango – Cherry Red – Top 5 favorite fruit car colors. Note: my daughter is a Banana Yellow fan.
What are your favorite brands and why? – So inquires, the prying Daily Writing prompt.
I don’t get hung up on brand names. I like what I like. I don’t do brands because of status. I do them because they work or are quality. Like the top 2 brands (Apple and Microsoft). Do I like those companies, not especially, do I have an iPhone and Windows running on my computers, yes?
I looked at a list of top 100 brands, from Visual Capitalist at what I might not have thought of off the top of my head to round out my reply. And because I’m still half asleep.
Coke – the best soda ever made. I started with them and I’ll finish with them. I just finished my morning one.
Mazda – a lot of luck with their vehicles over several decades. Low cost of ownership and reliability. Chevy is a close second in the automotive category because I love the Camaro I had and my best friend’s car a Corvette.
Old Bay – I like that seasoning on my Maryland steamed crabs.
If you’re not from the Maryland/Virginia area, Old Bay is a seasoning that we cook crabs and other seafood dishes with. Photo by Mike Hartley
AT&T – That is the brand I went with for my phone service. Time will tell how it works out but so far so good.
IBM/EMC/Cisco – I loved working on their UNIX systems. Bulletproof hardware and I just clicked with the OS stuff. These experiences are from a decade ago and before so much has changed in this field.
Breyers Ice Cream – mmmmmmm, ice cream. Sorry, even the thought of it at 7 am makes me pause.
Nikon – It’s a love-hate relationship. I have one of their cameras and lenses and I love it. They make incredible equipment. I’d love to buy another system but they are out of my price range.
Canon – I like their printers.
John Deere – My lawn tractor is 26 years old and humming along nicely. Just basic maintenance and it cuts like the day I got it.
YouTube – entertaining – real life is always better than fiction.
Honda Motorcycles – My answer here would have been Harley Davidson but again when I purchased a large cruiser, the Honda was half the price of a Harley. And never being rich I went with the lower-cost bike. And I didn’t regret it at all. The 85 1100cc Honda Shadow was sweet and I enjoyed riding that bike for many years.
Opinion Section:
I’m not a fan of Walmart, Amazon, and other big-box organizations and what they have done. And at this point, it’s probably not reversible. They have killed so many local businesses and when these big chains decide to pull out it leaves a huge void in some areas.
I’ve never purchased an item in Walmart and only stepped foot in one once to follow my better half who wanted to get something. I’ve always tried to use my local hardware instead of the Home Depot and Lowes, both of which, I’ve had less than stellar experiences with.
I try to patronize local food instead of the chains but I do hit them once in a while.
Well, I’ve rambled on enough. Have a good day all.
List the people you admire and look to for advice…. – A serious question from the Daily Writing prompt for a Saturday morning. Not sure I’m up to it with my eyes half open.
Admiration is a funny thing. Most of us admire the traits or actions of an individual, not always the whole person. All of us have flaws. So if you’re looking for that perfect package you might be disappointed in your search.
I also realize the people you admire and look to for advice could be two different people.
I’ll start with an easy one of a sports star I admired. The first would be Derek Jeter. A class act, kept a close group of core people around him, focused on his craft and family, played his best every day, showed up every day, and respected the game and opponents. Showed gratitude for the appreciation. Showed character in difficult years. Showed greatness at key moments.
I admire my parents, and always will. They grew up in the Depression era, fought wars, knew hard work, and sacrifice, and passed on some wonderful values.
I admire my better half. Such a strong person in such a small package.
I’ve admired some of my bosses and coworkers over time. I admire our public servants like Fire and Police and those who serve in our military. I admire healthcare workers. And many who do thankless jobs that keep our world running smoothly.
I admire artists of many types. I admire children for their honesty.
I admire volunteers. I admire the happiness of the little girl I used to sit across waiting for radiation treatments. I admire the common man who steps up in emergencies without hesitation.
I admire the friendships I have and have had.
Advice, like opinions, everyone has some for you. I take advice from those very close to me and total strangers. If a professional photographer, I’ve never met offers advice it’s probably wise of me to listen and absorb it.
Sorting out the advice you take is key in life. Letting others make decisions for you may not suit your desires in the long run. So I go with my gut, listen to that voice in your head for advice. Enjoy life. As far as any of us know it only comes around once.
A day full of chores and tasks. It feels good to have a few more completed. With the weather turning wet the focus will shift indoors.
Some things didn’t work out today as I hoped for personally, but that’s life. Off to the next adventure I go.
Another home for sale in the neighborhood. 2nd one in 3 weeks. A couple of nice neighbors are leaving the hood. It’s changed so much in the close to 4 decades we have been here. It’s a great and crazy place at the same time. I’ll go into that another day.
I’m holding my own against Mother Nature. She has gotten a strong start but so did I. The property is looking good.
A day’s end. Looks like we won’t be seeing that orange glow for a while. Photo by Mike Hartley
I hope to attend two car events this month, one local at Mikey and Mel’s in Maple Lawn and the Spring show in Ocean City. I was thinking about a few days in OC but a scheduling conflict will make that a day trip.
This month I hope to shift my walking outside. I’ve already started that a bit in the last week, it will get me photographing more. Speaking of that I got to find a good day to get a few more shots of the old Columbia Flier/Patuxent Publishing Building before it’s torn down.
I imagine a piece of me will die that day just as it did when the old Washington Post building on 15th Street was demolished. Between the 2 locations, I spent many decades, in those homes away from home.
The memories are never erased no matter if the physical structures are gone. There is a good chance we might be able to pull off another impromptu meeting/party/reunion/memorial/thank you before it is laid to rest. I’ll have to call one of my best friends tonight and get that in motion for next month.
For a second, I was mad at myself for not shooting anything new today. And then I realized, I have 3 hours left this day. So let me get to work. Rest well all.
Random Thoughts of the Day
Genuine hugs from your children are special.
I feel like treating myself tomorrow to a good meal.
Looking like, I’ll have to get the sweatsuits out for the next two days.
With a high of about 90 degrees today I soaked in the heat and sun in preparation for this weekend’s cooldown.
But it’s a day to savor for many reasons. One is because each day is special. It might be filled with problems, challenges, and frustrations or overflowing with joy, fun, and solutions.
No hesitation in that first step. Photo by Mike Hartley
It could be a simple day, filled with chores, music, a cruise with the top down, and some photography.
I may gather with friends for dinner and a refreshing beverage.
3 glasses, 3 friends tonight
It could be a momentous day. All I need to do is try.
Random Thoughts of the Day
The evenings of restless sleep and short cycles are returning, unfortunately. I didn’t dream it would be this hard to escape the many years of night shifts.
I have to do some planning for my granddaughter’s visit tomorrow. My hope is she looks back at these times here as some of the happiest days.
I sense a possible night cruising this evening.
Topped yesterday with today. I hope to do the same tomorrow.
Do you have a quote you live your life by or think of often? – Another good question from the Daily Writing prompt.
I love looking at quotes. I usually check out different ones each week. I also like writing so there are many in my Thoughts of the Day at the end of most of my blogs.
This first Quote below I’ve had over my desk for many years.
There are two types of people – those who come into a room and say, “Well, here I am!” and those who come in and say, “Ah, there you are.” Frederick I. Collins
This quote is on the top of my To-Do-List
“I choose to make the rest of my life the best of my life” – Louise Hay
Others I like:
“If you want others to be happy, practice compassion. If you want to be happy, practice compassion. ― Dalai Lama
“Live with intention. Walk to the edge. Listen hard. Practice wellness. Play with abandon. Laugh. Choose with no regret. Do what you love. Live as if this is all there is.”Mary Anne Roadacher-Hershey
“It isn’t what you have or who you are or where you are or what you are doing that makes you happy or unhappy. It is what you think about it.”― Dale Carnegie
“Count your age by friends, not years. Count your life by smiles, not tears.”― John Lennon
Art is not what you see, but what you make others see. – Edgar Degas
I just realized we finished the month of April. I feel good and disappointed at the same time. I was less balanced that month. Things are either going right or wrong.
Great smile. Photo by Mike Hartley
April had far more productive days than not. However, I’m still way behind where I thought I could be after the first 4 months of the year in many aspects of life. I can’t fix the past, so changes going forward. And today looks like a good day to start.
Attempt 3 blog posts a day for May. I pulled that off in April a few times but not consistently. Improve and organize content better for each post.
My physical workouts in April improved, but I need to increase reps and steps this month.
I took a step back in dealing with troubles in April and didn’t bounce back from them like I know I can.
I picked up my shooting but need to get the cameras out every day, without fail if I’m to improve. And get that pastel and charcoal in my hand each day and create.
Time to get out of this chair and into another one. Have a good morning all.
Morning observations
The first order of business is to flip the calendars.
Glad I put the cover on the car because it rained well last night.
The first Coke of the day always tastes best.
I like rising early, around 4 am.
I have a good portion of the day to make of it what I can. Will I choose chores or fun?
What are your favorite emojis? – So ask the Daily Writing prompt.
I’m into real emotions, not emojis. Try living life outside that smartphone or computer. There isn’t an emoji for what I feel when I enter Arlington National Cemetery. There isn’t an emoji for the thankful feeling or how much I love my wife and children.
There isn’t an emoji for the level of hell I’ve raised with friends and how much fun we have had. There isn’t an emoji for something beautiful I see in nature. There isn’t an emoji for how much I enjoy eating Maryland crabs this summer.
There isn’t an emoji for what I feel when I dance or play air guitar. I haven’t seen an emoji that comes close to pulling a big fish into the boat way out at sea. There isn’t an emoji for the feeling of a wheelie on a motorcycle or a 145 mph speed run.
There isn’t an emoji for being told you have cancer that I’ve seen. There isn’t an emoji for going around a corner on a warm sunny day with the top down in the Miata or the motorcycle or pulling onto Ocean Highway and smelling the salt air and warm breeze.
I could go on with other great and brutal emotions, but EMOJI’s don’t hold a candle to the real thing. Try creating your own. I do it with pictures.
This question sucks (sorry to complain writing prompt person). I don’t use them much at all and I rarely pay attention to them. I’m old school if you haven’t noticed.
Hey, if you are happy about something tell me about it, I’d love to hear the details. If you’re sad and need support pick up the phone and tell me to come over. I’m into communication, not guessing.
My apologies for the long rant. Short answer below.
I use the heart occasionally when texting my children or wife a bit. But I’m using the words, “I love you” to my wife and children in addition to that heart. Maybe sports-themed one or two to my son, I can’t remember.
I’ve got a much better flow going this month. Each day I’m more excited to see what I can accomplish. And each day I feel I do better and better. At the same time, I’m able to relax, rest, and regroup after years of hard work.
Inner Harbor Baltimore. Photo by Mike Hartley
I’m cranking out prints, editing, and taking more photos daily. Tonight I’m going to catch up on reading some blogs I follow. I’ve been neglecting that in the last few days, and that isn’t right.
I should spend some time on the treadmill also. As I look to the right I see a couple of photos that need frames and hanging. Retirement is being excited about all the stuff to do.
The week ahead is booked tightly. Some responsibilities but time for some fun also. I think I’ll try to do 3 posts a day starting this week and try some organization at the same time.
Random Thoughts of the Day
Hugs from a toddler are so genuine and special.
The upper 70-degree temps agree with me. But I sense sneezing ahead.
Nice start to the season by the NY Yankees. The Evil Empire Returns.
I love listening to the song Simple Man by Lynyrd Skynyrd early in the morning.
Thank you, my better half. You give me hope, calm, support, and love. There isn’t a light as bright or comforting as you.
Some people provide a wonderful path through life. Photo by Mike Hartley
Blogging
I just realized I passed the 3000 posts mark a few posts back. I saw the 5400 image mark passed a while back. Not bad over the 10 years but a drop in the bucket I hope to do over the next 10. I’ve only been retired for 3 months now.
I also found a list of goals from January and February of 2014. I thought about starting a business in Photography, Blogging, Book writing, and other arts. 10 years later I want nothing to do with business, but everything to do with pursuing those roles. If a business comes from it later on, so be it.
All I want to do is create. And several of the ideas on this 10-year-old list need to be fulfilled. Sometimes I’m glad I’m a packrat. Hidden gems appear now and then.
I feel like I’m on this unfinished journey to realize something I feel the need to communicate and create.
When I started, I thought it was just for my photography. I discovered I enjoyed writing (running on at the mouth without talking). It’s the practice to learn and develop so I can get a book or two completed.
But I use blogging for a lot of things. Simple ones like just getting moving and motivated every day. It makes me think, reflect, and sometimes share what I’m feeling about what I’m hearing or seeing. It’s something that family and a few friends occasionally look at.
It reminds me to pick up the cameras, turn on the music, get into a positive mindset, and begin the passion I feel each day.
I get to share the random crap that crosses my mind, and my photos and hopefully make someone else feel better and myself at the same time.
Random Thoughts of the Day
The sounds of pickups and trailers unloading huge mowers have started again. Maybe someday they will be pulling up in front of my house. Of course that comes with a COST.
Good friends, good food, March Madness. Blissful Sunday morning.
The news is the news, it’s there every day. I’m more of a history buff now being retired from news organizations. I catch it when it’s convenient with me.
I fall a little short of writing my children every day but at least that reminder is there and I have a fairly good batting average.
I have two dead batteries this morning and only one charger.
My weekend starts today. It’s packed with activities and commitments and time with family and friends. What could be better.
And after many hours of basketball watching we will be down to the Sweet 16 on Sunday night. Brackets will be busted. I will be tired as hell. I may have put on a few pounds. I probably only post 2x a day between now and Sunday and they may be shorter than my normal rants.
Game after game after game. I’m ready coach, send me in. Photo by Mike Hartley
Hey, I got a few vices left and watching March Madness is one of them.
Like many, my brackets are filled out. It used to be people would just do one. And it was just for fun when I started doing them. Then pools started at the jobs or in families. Then some started doing more than one as gambling became more associated with it. The term “Bracket of Integrity” was born to show your friends if you were betting head to head.
The tournament is still a great thing. College sports on the other hand is in trouble. Not that the Pro’s aren’t headed for issues also. Gambling will be one of the many death blows of sports. Players, refs or team officials or owners are going to get CAUGHT. And when they do it’s going to blow the trust, like there is any in the world of gambling to begin with. The only rule is greed.
The transfer portal on top of the one and dones are killing College sports. It may have killed it in it’s first few years. And of course money. The days of a group of 18 year olds entering college together and winning a national championship 4 years later together like the 2002 Maryland Terps are HISTORY.
The days of your favorite superstars like a Cal Ripkin or Derek Jeter staying with the team they started with are pretty much in the past. Yes it still happens but its the exception now to what used to be more of a rule.
It’s BULLSHIT and it’s causing me to not enjoy what is a GAME. Well it used to be a game, now its big business. All of it. Way down deep into high schools and even middle schools I bet.
I haven’t even touched some of the other sports that are dead to me. Gold for instance. I’ll never watch another stroke on TV. I might play it once in a great while but no more. NASCAR is another. When they got away from production cars years ago I lost some interest and when Earnharts left it I was out.
Pro Football keeps doing things to lose me and the emphasis on gambling has me watching much less.
I still enjoy the game itself. But what some do to make it something else diminishes it. Sorry, I didn’t mean to do a long rant on sports. It’s just that something so beautiful has been so tarnished.
Random Thoughts of the Day
What the hell is going on? It’s below-freezing outside this morning. Someone get Mother Nature on the phone right now and file a complaint.
I need to be careful starting the day off with too much inspirational Rock and Roll.
I was going to wish that everyone could enjoy the beauty and peacefulness of the sunrise. Then I remembered if everyone was up it wouldn’t be peaceful.
There should be a video of the 3 of us friends shopping for the day’s food and drink supplies for watching 12 hours of basketball for a group of maybe 8-10. It’s got to be comical. I know we laugh a lot and get lost with 3 different baskets.
I’ve got to get on a schedule, like the trains. Predictability is good. I never had the time to make that a part of my blogging. Just time to pull together an image and a few words while working and living was a goal I had trouble doing daily.
Now, without a full-time job, I can crank out a few posts a day without much issue. So why not try to start a routine for this mess of a blog?
Trains are rolling art displays. Photo by Mike Hartley
This train will run 7 days a week. Track maintenance (doctor visits) might affect the schedule. There will be multiple trains each day that may run anytime day or night. The engineer has a weird lifestyle and many other loves, passions, chores, and obligations.
This train might go off the rails at times. It might seem to be more off-track than on.
This train has many different speeds and will go at whatever is inspiring it, or slowing it down with negative vibes.
Train getting ready to cross Woodstock Road Photo by Mike Hartley
This train has many unscheduled stops along the way. If the conductor or engineer feels the need to stop and look at something beautiful, then enjoy it.
This train may be an express at times and only a start and reach its endpoint.
This train has a dining car. For Food Reviews of course.
This is also an auto-train. Yep, it stops and we get off for some 4-wheel adventures.
This train hauls freight so some baggage might be unloaded from time to time. But also some important presents here and there.
I worked for a short time, in a building just to the right of this bridge. Photo by Mike Hartley
This train may go through tunnels of darkness but don’t worry, we always emerge out the other side.
This train has many stations and new ones, constructed all the time.
I read that trains are symbolic of progress, destiny, change, and transitions. Maybe some of that will rub off here.
Random Thoughts of the Day
Feeling the need to listen to music today. And we know that inspires the feet to move.
Way too cold for the first day of Spring. I’m staying inside as a protest.
It’s bracket-picking time. I’ve talked my better half into doing one. I’m going to do it like one of those ab lib games. I’m just going to give her the names of both teams and fill out the brackets. The odds are she wins it all.
The Daily Writing prompt asks – What was the best compliment you’ve received?
The first thing that came to mind was compliments about our children’s happiness and behavior when they were young. No specific one lept out, because it was a long time ago when they were young, it was just that sense of pride that felt good when they came.
I’ve gotten some nice compliments at work over the years. Ones that were extremely special and touching. Many performance reviews but the more important ones from co-workers whom I admired.
Right near the top would be the compliment “You’re a great friend, you’re like a brother to me.”
But these two are the tops for me. They are important because you have to work hard at it and earn it. And those compliments are when my better half says to me “I Love You” and when my children say “You’re a great dad.”
Nothing like a father-daughter walk. Photo by Mike Hartley
Communication – I love it if it’s both ways. Otherwise, it’s a lecture, I’m not always big on those.
Just passing by at an interesting angle. Photo by Mike Hartley
Good day, I wish I had gotten an earlier start. No problem, I’ll stay up later today working on my passions.
I have a love-hate relationship going on with my property. I love my yard so much and then there are days like this and I look at the work in front of me and sigh with dread. Charging the battery for the rider is the first thing today. I don’t want the grass to get out of control from the get-go. I’m guessing in a week or two, it will need its first cutting.
It does feel good to be outside. That sunshine feels nice even though it’s much cooler this weekend than the last few days. I still took some outdoor furniture back outside, if there is sun out, I want to enjoy it.
Random Thoughts of the Day
The earlier gouge on my hand reminded me to use my gloves before working outside today.
Our shed is old but in pretty good shape still. It’s small but functional. And like the mower in it, both will need to be replaced in the coming years.
There is always one power tool that will give me trouble in the spring.
Taking stock is difficult. Taking a flier is easy.
My willpower is fading, I’m hungry. I have to keep active. Back to work in the yard, I go.
The Daily Writing prompt asks – What activities do you lose yourself in?
I lose myself in a lot of what people might consider normal activities. For instance this one, blogging, and writing my poems or books. I can lose myself and find myself at the same time.
Music would probably be the main activity that I lose myself in. Be it, hearing a song on an elevator I like or at a live concert. It causes my body to move and my mind to be at peace and open to new thoughts and ideas.
Driving my Miata now or my motorcycle in the past especially when they are pointed to the beach with some music on a warm sunny summer morning. I love driving and can lose myself on those endless ribbons of asphalt or just cruising slowly on some twisting back roads.
And of course, life wouldn’t be complete if it didn’t start with losing myself in the arms of my better half.
I lose myself and become a child again when playing with my grandchildren. I lose myself each day wondering how my own children’s days are going.
In my hobbies, I can get into a project taking shape and lose myself, and half a day is gone.
It’s impossible not to lose myself on the beach, just letting sand run between my fingers looking out over the Atlantic Ocean, and hearing waves crashing onshore. Floating on my back in a pool or on a float.
Sometimes on the treadmill I’ll shut my eyes and go into a scene I’ve walked outside.
I used to lose myself in my professional work. Here is a public service announcement. It’s great to be professional. It’s great to be dedicated and hard-working, applying yourself to the fullest. It’s not OK to be a slave to the work or to lose your perspective where it’s affecting other parts of your life.
I lose myself in the hammock looking at the clouds overhead.
I can get lost eating a huge pile of steamed crabs or grilled rockfish or steaks or ice cream.
Wow, it looks like I spent a lot of time losing myself with all the above. Don’t send out one of those senior alerts, I’m fine, but if anyone finds me, just return to sender.
The fish are in the other direction young man, I’m just a photographer. Photo by Mike Hartley
Are you superstitious? So ask the Daily Writing prompt.
No, I don’t think so. No. Maybe when I was younger. Nah never. Maybe once, no that was the night we drank too much. Well how bout the time, nope science explained that one.
I never believed in Friday the 13th because there is no such thing as a bad Friday.
I’ve had umbrellas open in the house. The only thing that happened was the floor got wet.
Well, I have to admit, the entire time I played baseball I never stepped on chaulk line going on or off the field.
I’ve found many pennies and they made me a penny richer.
I had a black cat once. It crossed my path so many times people now refuse to walk beside me.
I’ve walked under ladders. I’ve stepped on many cracks.
Holly crap, no wonder I’m so screwed up.
That’s why I only write with this pen. Ops, that’s only a 3 leaf clover. No wonder I can’t write.
It’s too bad we don’t recognize how great things are when we are going through them and experiencing them.
Sometimes that relentless pursuit of perfection clouds the real accomplishments.
I wasn’t working for the money all these years. I was working for my family.
Before you know it you’re past it.
Mother Nature reminds us we are here and under her control every once in a while.
The more time I spend watching the sunrise and the sunset and filling the time between with family and friends the less I give a hoot about the Internet or Politics or any man-made object.
I hope to see a ton of these this year. Photo by Mike Hartley
I’ve been on a sugar rush the last few days and it’s time to put a halt to that. There are a few candies I have no resistance to and one of them is Jelly Beans. The other is Smarties. And low and behold there was a bag of each in the house.
Now on the Jelly Beans when I say a bag I mean like a 1/3 of a bag. Because that is all there is when it’s unopened if you hold it by the end. Don’t get me wrong, they were fresh and great as usual from Brachs but come on. Stop skimping on the BEANS. Give’m up guys.
Keep on Truckin’ people. Photo by Mike Hartley
Trucking along with activities and chores. Took a few minutes to snap some early flower photos. I’m prepping the Chevy for sale and got the interior completed. I’ll finish the exterior on Sunday. Got one offer on it today but will look for a stronger one.
Now if that old Chevy I had looked like the one above you would never catch me selling it.
Random Thoughts of the Day
Making something from nothing today. And seeing it take shape is a good feeling.
I will not let this month slip by. I’d like to finish at least 2 new chapters.
It’s ok to ask for help. So I’ve heard.
I sense some power working ahead. Or is that power washing?
March Madness is upon us. I think I’ll use it as a springboard to start playing a bit each day myself.
The state of our union is just fine. Happily married to my original better half and loving life.
So I thought I’d spread the cheer with the shot below. Spring is on the doorstep and summer will soon follow. Summer is the season that brings out the youth in all of us.
You know who gets to carry these monster stuffed toys if you win it, don’t you? Yep, it’s the Dad. Photo by Mike Hartley
The agenda is packed today. And I can’t wait to get cracking at the free spaces in it to capture some images around town.
I’m also going to appreciate the last few days of an old Chevy that has been a trooper. After 16 years and a couple of young female drivers taking their toll, it’s still cranking up every time and getting from A to B and back. It needs a bit of repair I don’t feel like making, a window that is off track and replacing an old motor for the said driver’s side window. A few other things also.
I’ll be getting rid of it in a few weeks and moving onto another used vehicle as our around-town beater later this year. Miata’s are not winter vehicles. At least mine isn’t.
Random Thoughts of the Day
There is a lot to be said for following your dreams. Too bad you don’t realize that till you take action.
It’s a very special day for a very special person in my life.
I’m working on a surprise for someone tomorrow morning.
Looks like it’s going to be one of those years where I’m going to be powering through some pain.
I feel like telling the couple below the same thing I’m telling myself. Hold on, spring is coming and summer is soon to follow. We made it through another winter and soon the warmth of the sun and the laughter of children outside again will be ours.
Wanting to be first in line for Skee Ball. Photo by Mike Hartley
A few important tasks were completed this morning and after an errand or two, I’ll have time to create and print. My photo paper stock has been replenished so life is good.
I have neglected to write my children the last few days so that is a priority today.
It’s a Super Tuesday and it has nothing to do with politics.
Maybe I have two desks in my office because I’m of at least two minds?
People are so smart with me nowadays, my own body is even giving me crap.
Time to stop making excuses and pick up the cameras today.
The Daily Writing prompt asks What are three objects you couldn’t live without?
Beyond the things in nature that sustain us, I went with a few things in my life.
Let’s see, I’ve lived without technology in my life so I know computers and smartphones, I’d rule out. Yes, I was around when those things weren’t for the most part as you know it today. And I do love all this stuff now but won’t include it.
So what 3 objects have been with me all my life that I can’t live without? From a very young age I can remember being interested in the cameras around the house. The slide projector of my Dad’s service days clicking along on the screen. I love photography and I’ve continued that love all my life so the first object is a camera.
Some of the cameras of family and mine through time. Not my current tools but I find it hard to get rid of these relicks. Photo by Mike Hartley
The second one would probably be a car. I almost said motorcycle but I’ve learned to live without one even though that has been difficult. But a car has been part of me from the day I started remembering things. I love to drive and always have and will, especially my Miata. And it looks like a top-down day today.
This last one is hard to confine to one object so I’ll put them in a box together. All the little family things that have no value to anyone other than me. Things that I have tucked away from each family member, my better half, my two children, and now my grandchildren and of course my parents and sister.
This message was rather striking on an early morning walk in Old Town EC a few weeks ago. It also reminded me I’m going to fall far short of reading a book in February. I haven’t touched the one I started in two weeks. I guess I’ll have to move things back or double up in March.
A shop window in Ellicott City. Photo by Mike Hartley
I would like to apologize for not following along with the postings for the last few days. I’ve been horizontal with a bug since Wednesday night and I was away 2 days before that. Hopefully, tomorrow is a better day and I can return to normal reading and production.
Random Thoughts of the Day
Health is everything.
It’s hard to type while shivering.
Despite the poor start, this is going to be a great month.
My sleep has been so disturbed, it’s almost like I’m back working night shifts again.
Do you enjoy your job? So asks, the daily writing prompt.
Yes, I enjoy the hell out of my job now. After 48 years in publishing, I’m now retired and working for myself learning to become a professional photographer, writer, and artist.
It’s a lot of fun, I set my hours. I deal with who I want to deal with. I’m the only person I have to please. I do my reviews and provide my incentives. I photograph what I want, write what I want, and sketch what I want.
No sitting on the front porch for this guy, not yet, at least.
We took a quick trip to the beach and felt rejuvenated. A wonderful time and I didn’t take the computer. I did a post on Monday morning before we left. Did another one and scheduled it for Tuesday and now I’m back to catch up and have fun again.
But I hear the weather report behind me and talk of 40-50 mph gusts of wind shortly so I’ll do a quick one in case I lose power. I’ll do the daily writing prompt for yesterday and today if the power stays on but just share this quick note now.
I have a ton of observations about being on the shore in the off-season. Tons of photos to edit but 2 quick ones here to keep my daily streak intact and add it’s good to be home and back in the saddle.
Ocean City Maryland always puts a smile on my face. Photo by Mike Hartley
Coast Guard Tower in OC inlet with the sun behind it. Photo by Mike Hartley
Why? Because everything has its timeline and we get frustrated when it surprises us. Why? Because we have the illusion of control when we don’t. Why? Because hope seems futile till it gets you through some things. Why? Because some people are born bad. Why? Because some people are born unlucky. Why? Because some people make bad choices.
Why Not? Place a bet, everything is a gamble. Why not? Order that steak, you know you want it. Why not? Sleep an extra hour to feel rested. Why not? Live today like it could be your last day. Why not? Share something special. Why not? Do your own thing. Why not? Rise above the rest.
Photo by Mike Hartley
Random Thoughts of the Day
Old is when you saw the NBA Logo play a game.
All the things I don’t know overwhelm the feeling that I know a lot of things. And that is a good thing. It keeps that learning things gear engaged.
My first red car I got a lot of speeding tickets. My current red car has no tickets. But my current red car is faster than my first red car.
I wonder if my kids will laugh at some of the things I collect.
I was thinking back because the daily writing prompt asked me to “Describe the most ambitious DIY project you’ve ever taken on.”
Let’s see, I’ve done the typical home projects like a deck, landscaping, and basement but I did have help from friends with those so I guess that’s not a true DIY.
And then it popped into my head, what I’m doing now is the most ambitious project in my life. I’m starting a new career as a photographer, writer, and artist and I hope to become a professional in each. Yes, a lofty goal, one that will take a ton of work. The time in this career won’t equal the 48 years in Newspapers so I’m under the gun to make my mark quickly.
So I work at them every day. It’s kind of easy in one respect because it’s a passion. In reality, it’s tough as hell because it’s real work. And it’s all me doing each piece. Each day I realize I didn’t start that sketch I thought of, work on that photo project, or complete that chapter in the story I’m writing. So each day I fall a little short of my goals and it’s a little frustrating. But that fades with sleep and the next morning I’m excited again.
And then there are the mornings I’m kind of riding high because of the previous day’s accomplishment when I realize that I forgot to charge the camera batteries as I’m going out the door. A good reminder that it’s a lot of little things that make you good. And also that I’m finite, which is a limitation.
Today is another day to build on the most ambitious project of my life. What more could one ask for? The opportunity to build an original.
The dog’s name is probably Blue. Photo by Mike Hartley
I was looking at my blogging drafts folder and what a mess. Hundreds of ideas started. Time to weed out that mess and trash, or finish and publish. I guess I got spurred along to do this because I finally cleaned out and organized one of my email accounts and that felt great.
Weeding for effect. Photo by Mike Hartley
I’ve started to look at things and was reminded I’m a bit of a pack rat. So here is to a fresh start of getting things back to a manageable level in a few areas. Cleaning up the photo library, the office, the workroom, and the filing system to start with.
Doing this to kind of restart my start. I got busy and made a ton of progress immediately upon retirement last month. But all kinds of logistics, commitments, appointments, changes, and as always unexpected emergencies left me with unfinished business.
So I’m going to use the few remaining days in February to get my act together.
A few verses I like from a song called Something for Nothing by Rush
No, you don’t get something for nothing You can’t have freedom for free You won’t get wise With the sleep still in your eyes No matter what your dream might be
What you own is your own kingdom What you do is your own glory What you love is your own power What you live is your own story
In your head is the answer Let it guide you along Let your heart be the anchor And the beat of your song
Oh you don’t get something for nothing You can’t have freedom for free, no
Random Thoughts of the Day
Damn good start to the morning.
There is strength in silence at times that is stronger than speaking out.
I miss having a pet.
I’m a resilient son of a bitch.
Experience and life are teaching me some of the reasons people stop writing. I won’t be one of them though. Learning to use things for inspiration.
The Daily Writing prompt asks – Who are your favorite people to be around?
I’m a fortunate person. I got lots of people. There are so many it’s hard to give everyone all the attention they deserve.
My best friend and better half of course is #1. She is the love of my life. Next are my children and grandchildren.
I’m blessed with some very good friends, some so close they are family. Many of them actually and that has made life very special also. There are two special ones and we have been together for so many special moments and for each other through many many decades that we are brothers.
But there are more that I feel related to in special ways. From long-term work experiences that developed and continued into special relationships long after the work ended and continue to this day. To old friends from my youth that gather every so often.
I have a few relatives I like and spend time with. And my sister when she’s available.
I like being at the University of Maryland basketball game when there are 17,000 other rabid Maryland fans in attendance and the Terps are winning.
And sometimes I’m my favorite person to be around. Like the times I feel I need to get away by myself and point the Miata with the top down towards the beach and take a day to listen to the wind and music, the sound of the waves, the laughter of kids and families on the beach, and enjoy a cherry ice cream soda by myself at Dumsers.
I respect my friends and families privacy so I ran a shot of my ugly self. I’ve lost a few pounds from this shot.
Today was not a day for my creative endeavors, but it was a very productive day. Tons of family planning for trips were made after exhausting searches and coordinating schedules. It’s also tax season so gathering all that info has been almost completed, mostly by my better half but I contributed several things also.
A haircut was squeezed in this morning, some financial planning this evening, and family and friend communications. Two of those were very important because of close friends with ill family members. A good reminder of how precious life is.
Streetlight and early morning dawn on this snow-covered tree made it look like it was in bloom. Photo by Mike Hartley
This is a packed week and may be a good test for me to see how much creativity I can cram into a few minutes here and there. A few days with grandchildren, a day of automotive and power equipment repairs, bank and financial appointments, some home repairs, and doctor appointments to make.
Taking advantage of time is so important. Like right now I’m multitasking by listening to some music, editing photos, writing a blog, and making a few prints, before getting back to a few chores.
Could it be, nah, don’t tease me, weatherman. What is this string of 60+ degree days next week and SUN you talk about? It’s got me smiling already and it’s a week away but I can’t help myself. I’ve had it with winter and the snow that is still on the ground and night temps in the 20s.
I’m ready to cut loose in so many ways. Warm up the roads and tires for some cruising. To find my shorts and tee shirts and walking/running shoes. To step onto the porch or deck with bare feet and feel the warmth. Hell, I might just peel the shirt off next week and start working on the tan. Hell YEAH.
Because sunshine and warm weather just inspire me to be outside. Plus the faster it warms up the faster my local snowball stand will thaw out, open, and no longer will look like the shot below.
Photo by Mike Hartley
Random Thoughts of the Day
Just when you’re ready to give up, DON’T.
Things take time. Good things take more time usually.
Upbeat music, upbeat thoughts.
Let me go charge those camera batteries before I forget and get caught short tomorrow. Cold takes a toll on them when outside for a while it seems.
I got outside before sunrise today. Felt good but a little too cool for my liking. I knew it was going to get windy and blow the snow off the trees so I wanted to get out early.
Shots around in Ellicott City and Woodstock this morning.
Random Thoughts of the Day
I have to work on my patience.
No pitchers and catchers reporting in Maryland today.
That fine line between wet feet and dry is the height of your boots.
My back is sending pain signals earlier than usual.
The song Take Me Home came on last night as I started the car to head home from one of my best friends. It brought a smile to my face with that warm thought on a cold night.
I don’t believe I could be comfortable in another home at this point. This place has become so much a part of me that I can’t imagine moving.
Moving would hurt my children I think. I always remember going to my Mom’s house as an adult and there is just something about wandering around the house you grew up in. I can see their comfort level when they come to visit to this day.
We hope to live out our days together here. I hope we can make that dream possible. Because it will always be home.
I’m eventually going to have to hire someone to shovel/plow the driveway though.
I figured this was an appropriate shot being we are getting snow tonight. Photo by Mike Hartley
Random Thoughts of the Day
Music moves me to move.
Time to change the look of my office and workroom today.
I’ve got to start pushing myself a little harder in my new profession. I’m not satisfied with the results in the first 45 days.
Time for some snow shooting tonight. Now where did I leave my snow boots?
Have you ever unintentionally broken the law? Asks the daily writing prompt.
As Eddie Murphy said in Beverly Hills Cop. “I may have fractured a law or two as a kid”
Photo by Mike Hartley
I guess I never thought about the jaywalking I was doing at night in DC when I would cross the streets at night because there wasn’t traffic. It wasn’t like the daytime where you had to use crosswalks and it was still dangerous.
We didn’t know pulling the cars up and using there lights to play night basketball wasn’t legal.
That makes all the other times intentional. Because there is a phase that goes “ignorance of the law is no excuse. “
As Sergeant Shultz used to say “I know nothing, nothing”
A Happy Valentine’s Day to all. We used to get caught up in the excitement of the day when we were younger. I remember the pressure and feeling like I didn’t get it right some years ago. As we aged, and grew wisdom, we knew it was more important to celebrate the spirit of the day throughout the year and not focus so much on an overpriced commercialization of Love in one day.
Yes, it’s fun to get your better half some flowers or take her to dinner or a gift of her liking, but it can be a waste of money to do it for this day. Everything is overpriced, over-crowded, and overdone.
On the porch of the Lighthouse Club in Ocean City. Photo by Mike Hartley
Some years ago we just started taking a night away someplace local, but on another evening than Valentines Day. I like getting her flowers or treating her unexpectedly. It’s just as important to do this throughout the year as it is today.
Love the vanilla crème doughnuts this time of year. Photo by Mike Hartley
Little tokens of love each day, that’s the best gift.
Random Thoughts of the Day
I seem to get more excited at the prospect of each new day. Appreciation is a good feeling.
The sound of that cold wind outside is not consistent with the warm sunshine coming through the window. Sort of like a head fake in basketball where I’ll be sailing into the clutches of winter.
I had two bags of the Conversation Hearts candy in my hands yesterday. I stood there and put them back down. My better half said she was proud. I’m sitting here thinking I should have bought them.
Pain is the winner again, despite a strong start to the day.
The Daily writing prompt asks “If there was a biography about you, what would the title be?”
Ah, another reflection on life. The title I first thought of was “The Box” so I’m going with that, which I’ll explain. I started thinking about my life and how someone would look at it. And I thought about the different sides or panels of me and my life, therefore The Box.
Photo by Mike Hartley
I thought about the first decade filled with turmoil of world events, turmoil in personal life and so much contrast in what I was seeing and experiencing as an infant and youth. This is the bottom panel of the box.
The 4 sides of the box are: The Doctor – The Husband/Father – The Professional – The Foundation/Building
The Doctor – A wild period but surprisingly a period that instilled a lot of responsibility and work ethic. But it was out of control a lot. Which made for some great times.
The Husband/Father – What a learning curve. Thankfully my better half is a patient person and we and the kids survived. The most wonderful experience of my life.
The Professional – The work life in newspapers and IT. What a ride. Filled with great times and some tough ones but out of it came a lot of wonderful personal relationships and a sense of accomplishment.
The Foundation/Building – What my better half and I build together. Through good times and bad. But a common goal that was a good foundation.
The top of the box is like a jack in the box springing open – We made it to our senior years. No small feat, being some of the medical challenges we both faced. We are still together and in love after many years and many challenges. We worked very hard for a very long time. We have been blessed with grandchildren.
And just like when the jack in the box opens the arms usually spread wide. And that is us looking forward to what isn’t written yet. I mean I’ve only been retired for 44 days so I better have a lot of chapters to expand on. Lots of love to share, lots of things to create and share, and of course lots of good times to share.
I’m going to admit it, I’m a winter wimp, if there is a choice to go outside for almost anything, and it’s cold I’ll choose to stay in. Especially when it’s really cold like earlier this January. I can hold my own in the summer heat while those around me melt. I just need to make it through a few more weeks and the difficult part of the year will be behind me.
A dusting this morning. Photo by Mike Hartley
I can’t stay warm in the winter. Anything under 40 degrees is not comfortable outside. I’d prefer it be over 50 which is really my minimum tolerance level.
Through the back window early this morning. Photo by Mike Hartley
So a wet, rainy, snowy morning and windy afternoon is a very good reason to stay inside today. But duty calls and a few errands must be run but that will be this afternoon after the flakes stop.
Buds delayed. Photo by Mike Hartley
Random Thoughts of the Day
Clearing clutter slightly faster than creating it is the key.
You don’t need to change your location to change your view.
I’m on another roll. Lots done before the noon hour today.
I think I have a creative way of learning portraiture.
What were your parents doing at your age? So ask the daily writing prompt.
That one required a little thought and addition. My father never made it close to my age. Passed decades before it. After being in the Navy during WWII and Korea and expeditions on Operation Deep Freeze, I won’t forget the sacrifices he made that provided me and others our freedom.
My Mom, still a widow was doing some part-time work at card stores, traveling, and doing volunteer work for the Red Cross at Bethesda Naval Hospital.
Then again she might have been fighting one of the many medical challenges she had in her senior years. But that didn’t stop her from helping others and when she wasn’t under the weather, she was out busy doing something.
Help raise someone’s spirits today. Photo by Mike Hartley
Now what was Mom really doing? She was busy being loving, generous, and kind to people. She would help people, donate to charities, and always look for the good in people. She had a great smile. She was warm. She believed someone always had it worse off even when she was suffering. Not that she didn’t notice every ache and pain, but she also acknowledged many had them and worse. She spent great effort and time loving her family and friends.
As time has passed, those examples aren’t front and center as they once were. Sometimes when our parents come up in memories our kids might say something like the above, and I’ll smile. I also know as time passes their recollections fade even faster because they are shorter.
So I’m going to try to remember those many good qualities my parents had and the ones my mother and father-in-law also had and keep them going so our children take the positive and good ones and pass them to their children.
This was the first Super Bowl I’ve watched from start to finish in the last decade. Working Sunday nights for those years kind of made it just another thing I was missing out on. It was a competitive game so it was fun to see from kickoff to the end of overtime.
Dad showing me the proper grip on a football. Photo by Shirley Hartley
I had just turned 9 in the photo above, we never got to watch a Super Bowl together because he passed just a month before the first one was played. I’m glad I got to watch a few with my son.
Another milestone also in the form of a holiday Monday next week. If a holiday fell on a Monday we were working. Also the Sunday night before the long holiday weekend. I was kind of giddy being off New Year’s Eve and New Year’s Day. And then off for MLK Day and now Presidents Day.
I find myself smiling and rested on a Monday now instead of exhausted. I look forward to holiday weekends knowing I’m available and can be at events with family and friends.
Random Thoughts of the Day
I thought it was a better-than-average year for Super Bowl commercials.
The more I accomplish each day, the better I feel.
Decisions are just a part of every day. Making the right ones makes the day easier.
A day full of errands, I think a pizza reward is in order.
The Daily writing prompt asks: If you had the power to change one law, what would it be and why?
If I were to change one thing is that it would be to keep the violent offenders and rapist in for their full sentences at least. To hell with early parole and that good behavior bull getting their sentence cut.
We are a nation of laws. But we seem to still be troubled. We are the solution, we have the ability to change small and big things.
The powerful and wealthy have their justice and the other end gets another form. If laws aren’t applied equally, justice is slanted. We can right the ship if we try.
Write about your dream home. So ask the daily writing prompt.
The sun comes in my bedroom window in the morning and I watch it set from my front porch.
It has loving pets.
A home that raised children and grandchildren and has the height marks on the doorways as evidence.
It has a brick front with a warming entrance.
A deck that gets both morning and afternoon sun and a nice breeze. And large enough for family meals.
A large bay window to overlook nature and wildlife.
A basketball hoop in the driveway.
A fireplace in the family room.
A basement office with an outside door and window.
A large front yard and a sloping hill in the back.
A roof that keeps us dry and a furnace that keeps us warm.
A pool to cool and play in during the summer.
One where laughter and joy can be heard.
This is pretty much our home from the mid-80s. It’s not much, but it’s home. A 3 bdrm Rancher, the pool was filled in years ago after the kids grew up because it needed too many repairs. I’ve always longed for a garage but never had one. So I would add that to this dream home I live in.
Yeah, it would be nice to have that dream home on the beach. But my family and friends don’t live at the beach so there you go.
Having a huge dream home of the imagination is nice but in reality, you either have a ton of money for a staff to maintain it or you become a slave to it. And a small home on an acre is more than enough for this guy.
The warm sun of morning on the back of my home. Photo by Mike Hartley
Decided I needed to do some walking outside yesterday and skipped the treadmill. So I took the go cart (Miata) out to Ellicott City, parked at the upper lot, wound my way up to the old courthouse and down by the old fire station. Back up the street to the Wine Bin and back down the street to the Trolley Stop and admire the river for a bit and then back up the street through a couple of back ways and lots.
I sat outside the old Times building and the Stone building at the bottom of the hill by the river which both used to be my offices. But really I went down to see some major changes in the towns where buildings are being torn down for the new flood tunnels and park area I believe.
Lower end of EC. I’d like to see this town bounce back in a big way in the future. Photo by Mike Hartley
The next time I’m there I’m going to try that Milkshake shop called The Crazy Mason Milkshake Bar.
Window at the Phoenix Restaurant. Photo by Mike Hartley
It’s also been a bit since having a meal in town so I’m going to have to change that also. More photos from the shoot coming later. Busy morning ahead.
