What sacrifices have you made in life? – An interesting question from the daily writing prompt.
Some might consider things we have done as sacrifices, but most of them were life choices that included sacrifices to meet a goal. Most of it comes down to time and giving.
We lived off one salary for a good while to have one of us home with the children when they were young.
We saved, so our kids could do something we didn’t do, get a college degree.
I’ve driven a used car most of my life. Some without A/C. And one without heat. Then there was the year I rode a motorcycle year round, because I didn’t have a car.
Packed lunch most years instead of going out.
Worked my ass off and missed a lot of fun and sleep.
Caregiver for elderly parents.
Natures smiles. Photo by Mike Hartley
Lots of life is appreciating all you’ve been given, not what you don’t have. And those sacrifices above all were worth it. And I guess that doesn’t make them sacrifices.
Giving a kidney, going into a war zone to fight for country, donating your time and effort to a charitable cause. Those are sacrifices. I don’t have a full set of kidneys, I’m a bit old to fight unless Trump or Putin want a piece of me, so I guess I better get busy helping others.
We took a short trip on Monday and returned Tuesday so I’m feeling a bit refreshed. The visit to the Rocky Gap resort was fun and relaxing. We hiked several miles along the Lakeside Loop Trail. We had some good steaks for dinner. We spent some time in the casino and came out only down $10. Normally we walk out winners but not this time.
The drive there was sunny and pleasant. The drive home, not so much.
It’s a beautiful place to stay. We had a room on the 4th floor overlooking the lake.
Hiking around the lake and that is what we did on Monday while the weather was nice. We lost the sun to the cloud’s midafternoon and the nice breeze we had at the start faded. I’m glad we are both healthy enough to get out and hike a little bit.
Some days are meant for this. Today is not one of them, here in Maryland.
Photos by Mike Hartley
I’m following up on that blue theme from yesterday. I wish it was a sunny day where the top could be down.
It’s going to be a busy day of editing. But that means I’ve done some shooting, so life is good. Catch you all later today. Lots of goals to accomplish.
Random Thoughts of the Day
I’ve got to start writing my memories down.
I love sunshine when it comes through the window and cast a shadow next to you.
Some of the simplest photos of mine have great significance to me. I bet it’s that way for a lot of people.
I’d better get out of this computer chair and get some real work accomplished today.
The sky on Saturday was a beautiful clear shade of blue. Every once in a while I see a shade of blue here on earth that throws a challenge flag to the sky and says here I am. Clouds today and much of the week will obscure that bright blue that comes in spring on low humid days.
I bet lots of people can picture themselves behind the wheel in that. Photo by Mike Hartley
Random Thoughts of the Day
I’m taking things a bit more relaxed this week.
Despite the coming rains, I hope to spend more time outside this week.
I lost my discipline and I put on a few pounds. I’m back on track and shedding that now.
Working on my education this week is a priority. But so are some fresh images.
A happy Mother’s Day to all. I’ve been busy celebrating with family today which means it’s been a great day. I haven’t even answered the daily writing prompt yet. I had better get back to work this evening. That day of playing with the loved ones set me back. But in the best of ways.
This truck was something. The paint job was beautiful. Photo by Mike Hartley
It’s left me in great spirits. I got to hold my new granddaughter for a good while. I played with both my grandson and my oldest granddaughter, to give their parents a break.
I always want them to remember being here a great experience and I think we pull that off.
Let me get back to answering another writing prompt and then start on tomorrow’s plans and challenges.
At least this weekend we won’t have to worry about rain running off our feathers. It looks like there could be enough of that because my phone forecast says it will rain Monday through Saturday. Isn’t that sweet. It kind of rules out going to the beach.
There was a pond that I hadn’t seen before behind the parking lot where the car show was today. Stepped down and grabbed this shot. Photo by Mike Hartley
I will be too busy with appointments this week to consider it anyway. But the following week might be a different matter altogether.
I think I’ll crash early tonight. Been a full day and I can record the late NBA game and watch it early. I’m tired and sore. Also, kind of hungry so if I stay up, I’ll probably eat a bunch of junk. Plus, I want to wash my car at sunrise and take an early morning ride.
Went to the car show at Mikey and Mel’s in Maple Lawn this morning. Met up with a very old friend from the neighborhood we grew up in. We also graduated together but lost touch after high school. We are both into cars and always have been.
Both of us really enjoyed the reunion and will be meeting together again. Oh, be forewarned, I have other car photos to share.
This guy was trying to mimic the color of the sky today. Photo by Mike Hartley
This was the only car at the meet that wasn’t showing any pollen on it.
My daughter’s favorite color. Photo by Mike Hartley
I saw a saying about kids the other day that made me think I haven’t lost the total child in me.
I don’t mean to interrupt people. I just randomly remember things and get excited.
Random Thoughts of the Day
Feeling invigorated again.
How long can Fox News keep up the charade? Only time will tell.
Sun and a weekend, what more can we wish for.
The calm before the storm should be called not the storm.
No time to chat, I have to get out and mow. I’m not one of those retired people paying someone else to work on the homestead yet. I guess that day will come, but not this year.
I almost went right by this one when I noticed the stacking of stones. One an old bridge, one an art project.
Build it and they will come. Photo by Mike Hartley
Along the Patapsco yesterday morning I came upon this green scene. I hope to take another walk along the Thru Trail and hopefully catch some wildlife tomorrow.
Today I have an acre of property that needs attention. I’m about 2/3 of the way through it and some other maintenance, but I think I’ll finish the rest tomorrow before that hike.
Things got green quickly. Photo by Mike Hartley
The grass was so long I had to cut in low gear. Boy, was it nice doing it on the rider again. That would have taken twice as long with the push mower. I do have to do the lower hill with the push, till I get that path to the lower back made.
I guess summer is on simmer because it certainly isn’t getting off to it’s usual early start here in central Maryland. Have a great evening.
Random Thoughts of the Day
Kids do the cutest things.
For being in a drought area, I’ve been cutting the grass fairly often.
I’ve got to get to the beach this month. And one of the spots I love to visit is the Dumser’s Dairyland Ice Cream Soda Fountain and Restaurant. I love their cheeseburgers and follow that with my favorite Cherry Ice Creams Soda.
This dining room is packed with families when the season gets rolling. We were there during the offseason, I still have to stop for ice cream. Photo by Mike Hartley
Another goal is to get back to shooting. I’ve been my own worst enemy and allowed things to interfere with that effort. I’ve done a little the past few days but it’s time to step it up. I also have to take one of my Nikons to Service Photo for a cleaning and checkup.
I think I’ll head out now for a couple shots in between the storms rolling through.
I was much more into Sunday’s sunrise over the ocean than the mist filled one this morning. I grabbed a snapshot 5 minutes apart starting at 5:57am from the Grand Hotel webcam yesterday. I’ve stayed at the Grand Hotel in Ocean City before and been very pleased.
I thank them for the great view most mornings.
I must prepare for a family invasion later this week. That means prepping the basement and moving a little of my studio into the office. Also locking the workroom and taking care of the mess, I create.
This will be the first gathering of all of us at the same time with the new baby. I better charge the camera batteries and get the tripod set up for a group shot.
I hope the weather is good because one of them is going to demand a tractor ride.
Random Thoughts of theMorning
I can’t believe I’m interested in reading the AARP magazine.
Wishing those who celebrate, a happy Cinco De Mayo. I have two friends on vacation that are making up for any lack of celebration on my part.
I’m too old to be practicing my mechanical skills.
Sometimes pain is just exhausting, not just physically but mentally.
We were in a D2 severe drought level in central Maryland on the map I saw on May 1st. I’m not sure what it’s going to change too, but those rains yesterday and continuing wetness today and beyond will certainly move the needle.
So, balance is being restored. I’m usually not into rainy days but I’m trying to adapt and utilize them.
I did capture a few drops. Photo by Mike Hartley
I was highly unsuccessful in capturing some of that wind driven sheets of rain yesterday. That was impressive. My monopod was in the car, and I couldn’t hold the door and the camera steady at the same time because of the wind. Next time I’ll know to shoot from a window.
We did lose power for a few hours yesterday. I hope there won’t be any repeats today with more thunderstorms.
Random Thoughts of the Morning
There is a mess in this office waiting to be cleaned. This is where I need a staff.
I’d really like to get some prints made today. I just got the printer fired up and loaded with photo paper.
Feeling different recently. Some good and some bad. But that is the way things roll.
I’ve got more done this morning than a few others put together this week.
List the people you admire and look to for advice… – A deep question from the daily writing prompt for a Sunday morning.
I admired my mom, her advice and examples have helped me through life. I have my lifetime partner and better half to make up that missing part and thankfully much more. I’ve been seeking my wife’s advice for many decades now, and she certainly has my admiration. I even get the bonus of getting advice when I wasn’t really looking for it.
I admire close friends and look to them for advice from time to time.
The list of professionals I admire and took advice from is huge, and I’m a lucky man to have worked so closely with so many talented people. In most cases these same people had very good views of life also and have remained close friend’s decades after working together ended.
I admire my father and his service. I didn’t get a chance to get much advice from him. Though from time to time in my life I think some things have come through.
One of the “Old Guard” at the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier. Photo by Mike Hartley
I’ve had both a busy and lazy day. Wrapped it up with a nice dinner at Kelsey’s Restaurant and Irish Pub in the evening. Great Crab Toast app and Burger with coleslaw. We decided to go out when the power went out from the storms.
My better half’s parents used to dine there often. The place is growing on me. The booths are very nice, and service has always been great, like the food.
BG&E was working earlier in the week on the pole in the backyard and several of the electrical boxes along our street. I’m all for what they are doing because there are less outages and when we do have them, they have been corrected quickly.
This contraption crawled into my backyard to work on this utility pole. Photo by Mike Hartley
The trip to Home Depot on a Saturday wasn’t the smartest idea but we survived. They didn’t have one thing for the mower even though they carry John Deere products.
I did manage to squeeze off a few shots between the clouds, sun, and rain.
Photos by Mike Hartley
I’ve had a major setback. The mower I wanted to purchase won’t fit into my existing shed. And a new shed isn’t in the budget right now even though we need a bigger one anyway. I store a push mower and pressure washer inside because there is no room for them.
So. I guess I’m looking at fixing my old one for the time being, so I don’t have to push cut the whole yard. I’m so ready to be done with the issues with the old tractor. Step 1 is pulling the old dead battery out of it and find a replacement. Completed and it started.
Got the air and oil filter part # and I’ll be off to the store this morning for those and some oil. I hope it last another year till we can get a bigger shed.
I don’t have anything against these bees. But once they start drilling into my deck it’s another matter entirely. Photo by Mike Hartley
Random Thoughts of the Day
I feel like I’m turning nocturnal again.
The only ink on this body is when my grandchildren draw on me.
He’s lied to you. He will continue to lie to you. Because that is all that one trick pony knows.
I went to a new dentist for the first time in almost 4 decades this week. I was pleased.
What gives you direction in life? – This answer to the daily writing prompt could take a book but I’ll limit the response.
I could say the Navigation system in my car but I rarely if ever have used it.
It must be some kind of deep-down gut feeling that helps me set my direction. They always seem like the ones to be making decisions on directions. Do I go after that new position at work? Do I ask her to marry me? Should we have a family? What car do we buy. Do we move?
I can think of a lot of different ways to answer that question. One could be my eyes. I have to see where I want to go. I have to see an opportunity to alter my path.
Some days when I have time to take a joy ride, the car provides the direction. It usually takes the twisty roads.
But the truth is many things. As if I thought one boss to give me direction might not be enough, I started a family. And they started families. Now I have lots of bosses. My 6-year-old granddaughter just told me a few weeks ago that this was her house. I must have missed the signing ceremony.
Family has always provided me with a healthy direction.
Friends have provided many other directions. Some crazy and fun ones indeed.
My professional life in newspapers gave me direction and taught me many important lessons along the way not just about work, but life.
Having made it to retirement, I find myself, for a change of pace, setting the direction. The arts give me direction now. I love trying to create.
Loving my own children was a great experience. Loving my grandchildren now is like this bonus gift that can direct lots of my activities. But they will grow fast as my own did and again I’ll be left with more time to redirect.
Life can be a lot like being at sea. You’re always adjusting your course every minute.
Select your direction wisely. Photo by Mike Hartley
I was on a bit of a hiatus early last week. Helping my son and daughter in-law by watching their son and dogs while we were being blessed with a new granddaughter. They returned home on a bright sunny day and to everyone’s waiting arms.
I hope the homecoming was as special for them. It felt special to me. Watching their son interact and talk to his new sister. To see her not even startled by the bark of the dogs.
My better half remembered to bring decorations, so I got up early with some crea paper and assorted streamers, my roll of tape and a chair. I’m not sure how many more years I’m going to be climbing around my home and others preparing for celebrations, but this one was without injury.
Life is great with an infant in your arms, they melt your heart. It’s funny though, after a little while I noticed an old pain when I noticed myself in hunched over position holding her that was creating it.
Then again it could have been that almost 3 year old toddler running full speed at me and launching into my arms for 4 days. He didn’t catch me off guard once this week. The dogs ran a couple of crossing routes that NFL receivers would have been proud of and picked me off coming down the stairs, without a flag being thrown. Good thing the wall saved me from falling out of bounds.
Sorry about the football references, it is draft time.
But back to the important stuff. The name my son and daughter in-law chose is very dear to me because her middle name is my father’s first name. Not that all my grandchildren haven’t brought a tear to my eye, but this one was made very special. It’s been almost 6 decades since my father’s passing. He saw so little of his own family and never my own, or my grandchildren. I’m looking at the picture of him on my desk with a big smile. I’m smiling for him today.
In 4 days the Cruisin’ Ocean City event starts. There are two possible conflicts this week in the way of doing a day or two in town. The first is they moved the event up two weeks this year. And the long-range weather doesn’t look comfortable for my convertible. More like early spring temps with a chance of rain on the day I was going to drive down.
The second is we may have to be available to help a growing family. Again, the date changed and moved it closer to the birth of our granddaughter this week. And family is always a priority.
So, I may just have to look forward to the October event, my monthly club meeting and the local car shows till then. We will play it by ear as some say.
I wonder if the early date will affect attendance?
What topics do you like to discuss? – Keep on probing daily writing prompt.
That has changed a good bit in the last couple years, having retired recently.
A quick list my discussion topics in no petiolar order.
Sports, cars, music,
Arts – photography, writing,
The human condition – observing, interacting, laughter, love, emotions, family and friends and now that I’m older, health.
Nature, environment, weather
Travel
History
My focus on technology in my professional years is still there but much, much less of a focus of discussions.
Oh, my apologies for those not so silent burst of profanity. That is just me talking to pain. I try to keep those private but sometime they get out in public.
Have a great day.
Flooded Main Street Ellicott City from Agnes. Photo by Mike Hartley
I had my phone charger. What I forgot was the PHONE. I was away for 4 days without my phone.
The experience was friggin great. My better half had hers and I was with her the whole time so it wasn’t like I was out of total communication, but I didn’t borrow it once except to take a few pictures.
It has inspired me to make another concerted effort to leave that thing alone. Life is not about my face in that for more than a few minutes a day. I’m going to try to make another effort to get the daily usage of that device to less than an hour. If I limit it to just text, calls and a few photos, it might just be a few minutes a day.
Actually, it allowed me to have a better time with my grandson because I had no distractions from that device to interrupt us. It’s so easy to get distracted from life with phones. Yes, it has use, but it’s so easy to abuse.
I spend enough time on the computer each day working on this blog, and other writing as well as some photo and design efforts. But those are my activities/passions. And I think I keep a good balance away from them and participating in real contacts or experiences.
Come to think of it. When did I make the transition from putting a few nickels, dimes or quarters into a phone to make a call. Or just a few dollars ($2-4) per month for a landline. I think I’ve been suckered.
Maybe I’ll install one of these and get back to living life. Photo by Mike Hartley
Random Thoughts of the Day
There is a lot of beauty in the minutes before sunrise, just as there are after sunset.
I’m trying to figure out when I’m going to squeeze in some photography today.
Spring adds a soundtrack of nature that winter doesn’t provide. I love hearing the birds sing outside.
I hope it warms up quickly, I have a lot of outside work to do today.
Write about a time when you didn’t take action but wish you had. What would you do differently? – A difficult question from the daily writing prompt.
I was on the tail end of my work career when Jeff Bezos purchased The Washington Post. I had worked in the newspaper industry for just about 4 decades at that point. We were leaving the home I had for years on 15th street in DC.
The company was also going through a huge shift in people also, and many of the old timers like me were either leaving on their own accord or by other means. I actually think they thought I would leave also after they decentralized my UNIX Admin group.
I was moved to lead another group at nights again, but it was different work than I had enjoyed in the past. I should have left then but the lure of working at a newspaper I admired at the time and a new challenge was interesting.
The first year wasn’t bad, but that changed quickly and the last 9 years were difficult at best. And boy was I wrong about those things that kept me there. I should have moved to a government gig and got the medical benefits after retirement but I didn’t.
Thankfully all that nonsense is behind me and I’m retired. I did enjoy most of my time at the Post. I saw the other day it was Don Grahams birthday. I started there when his mother Katherine Graham was running it. Those were special days. And I consider both of them Special People.
Lobby of the old Washington Post building. Photo by Mike Hartley
Opinion – I think Jeff Bezos missed one of the great opportunities in history. He has a platform to stand up to that crap that is going on in our country now, and he chose to buckle under in the name of greed and kiss the orange ones behind.
How do you use social media? – An interesting question from the daily writing prompt.
Ah, maybe they should have asked how does social media use you? Just kidding but it’s a thought.
Anyway, I’m on a few things but I try not to overdue any of them. Blogging is my dominate social media activity along with my photo site on Zenfolio, that I’m always building out. I do a lot of reading online and blogs are a good percentage.
I have a Facebook account but I’m trying to spend less and less time there. And I only share with a couple of private groups there like my car club and the two companies where I worked for decades for alumni groups.
I’ve never had a Twitter, X or any of those type of social media apps. I have an Instagram account, but I believe I have one or two images there. Not something I’m pursuing now.
I have a LinkedIn account but being retired I use it far less.
I do get lost in YouTube videos from time to time. Comedy, educational, music, news. I’m going to try to make more videos myself in the coming years.
I enjoy watching sunrises and sunsets from the Ocean City Maryland webcams each day. There is a dozen or so to choose from and it’s a great way to start and complete a day.
Opinion – I’m older and grew up without all the phones and computers and games. And I think that was a very important part of my life because it gave me a balance when I became involved in technology for several decades as an adult.
I worry about the effects on young people. The emphasis and importance placed on it and those people interacted with is entirely out of proportion. It’s very addictive and easy to get lost in.
My real close friends and family rarely interact through social media. But we communicate often and directly through text, email, phone calls and direct meetings.
People measuring things through the number of Facebook friends, followers or likes are shorting themselves. Yes, you can build some wonderful contacts and sometimes develop some real friendships in social media. But you shouldn’t measure yourself that way.
Real life exists outside those devices.
I think our local school system just banned smartphones in school. I agree with this move.
A Happy Easter morning to those celebrating. I’m looking forward to the day because family will gather and share some quality time together and a fine meal. And that is like a shot of energy and well being that I hope will carry me throughout the coming week.
Photo by Mike Hartley
Kind of a strange day for me, which I’ll explain tomorrow. I got an early start today because computer time is limited. Completed some yard work yesterday, so that is off the agenda for a few days. I’m going to give the body a rest from that activity.
I liked this store window in Westminster MD. And it happens to be the name of this shoe business (Run Moore). I like this town. It has lots to photograph yet.
I’ve got to add a little color to my footwear. Photo by Mike Hartley
Okay, I’ve prioritized the day, and the chores will take the morning slot and the afternoon will be for some cruising and photography.
The car show is monthly, and I like that bright sun to work with and that ain’t happening today. There is another show next week (Howard Co. Sheriff’s Car Show April 26 9-2 Rain or Shine 6751 Columbia Gateway Dr Columbia, Md) that I might check out. And there is a good chance I might take a day to drive to Ocean City in the beginning of May for that big event from the 1st to the 4th, so I’ll have many chances.
So, it’s off to the gas station to fill the 5 gallon can and get to mowing. I need the exercise and it’s not the humidity of summer, so I’ll be good to go.
Random Thoughts of the Morning
Oh crap, I forgot it was Jazz appreciation month. I’ve got some catching up to do on music.
Excitement fills my heart. A new grandchild is near.
The battle with Mother Nature has started strong on both sides. She keeps putting them up and I keep knocking them down. I really hate those sticker bushes though. That is where she gets her revenge sometimes.
This morning was a little cool, but it warmed nicely.
Took a hike with my brother in-law who is also retiring. I can see us doing these walks regularly in the future. Except in the dead of winter. This shot was about 13 years ago. We went over some rocks today but not like these.
We can walk a good distance, but gymnastics over trees and streams are limited. Photo by Mike Hartley
Describe a random encounter with a stranger that stuck out positively to you. – A good question from the daily writing prompt.
We recently met a man, slightly older, as we were standing along the inlet in Ocean City MD. My better half and I were just admiring the beauty as he was, and he spoke up about it. Also, about how to appreciate the time and take in life.
He then spoke about some health challenges he was battling and had faced. Some were exactly like mine. He was positive and relaxed. At peace with himself and the world it seems. He seemed to have a grasp on life and making the best of a tough situation. We had a wonderful conversation with a stranger for a good period of time.
Both my better half and I thought it was a very interesting meeting and conversation. We spoke about it afterword’s, that it was uplifting and eerie at the same time.
Crap, I missed the Thursday Doors day again. Good thing they have a flexible deadline. I haven’t gotten out to shoot some fresh Thursday Doors, so we have some things from my photo archive. I didn’t realize all the doors I get in shooting places various places.
That didn’t fit through that door on the right.
Keep the motor running. Photo by Mike Hartley
Nice color.
It’s the season for Green. Photo by Mike Hartley
All over our proud state.
Just some sun and the two most important flags to me. Photo by Mike Hartley
I’ll get back to posting some new shots this coming week.
Check out the little friend at the bottom of the door. Photo by Mike Hartley
Thanks again to the creator of ThursdayDoors and the link to Dan’s site to see many others works of doors.
Describe a decision you made in the past that helped you learn or grow. – Wish sometimes the daily writing prompt might narrow things down.
Wow, life is about decisions, and we make so many millions of them in our lifetime. So, what one should I pull out of the hat today. Hopefully most decisions, right or wrong, help us learn and grow. But some of us are hardheaded and need repeated lessons. Guilty as charged.
The decision where I said, “will you marry me, and I do.” And even though she may strongly argue my point, I’ve been learning and growing ever since. Learning love, responsibility, friendship, change, ambitions, hardships, loss, joy, parenting, caregiver and many more.
I’m still learning what not to say, do, suggest, share, wear and others. Who would have thought she would be such a persistent teacher after so many decades.
Get out and enjoy the weekend. Photo by Mike Hartley
My tank is full and ready to go. It would be nice to ride a bike again, but those days are probably behind me now. But my mind is ready today and regardless if the body wants to cooperate or not, I’m about to release the clutch.
I saw this beautiful color tank in Westminster Monday.Photo by Mike Hartley
I do have to squeeze in some chores for the yard and home, but the cameras will be out again today. It’s a bit cool and windy but I won’t let that deter me.
Random Thoughts of the Morning
There is a fine line between relaxing and laziness.
The clouds are moving faster than I am this morning.
2 realities being spun is one too many.
Love regardless of the situation.
I know I shouldn’t cook that pack of bacon. But I can’t resist.
I had the best lunch ever with my daughter today at one of our favorites, RockSalt Grille. And a lovely walk around the town of Westminster after that.
I couldn’t be prouder of my children. The talk was the best. It’s so rare we get the one-on-one time where it wasn’t rushed with one of us or both having to go somewhere, or she wasn’t tired from having worked all day.
East Main and Railroad Ave. in the heart of Westminster Maryland. Photo by Mike Hartley
Between this afternoon and the car meet I probably shot over 150 frames. The club meeting gave me a chance to practice my photography and meet some new people. Actually met 3 first timers. I just edited and posted 59 pictures I shot on our FaceBook group.
And no, the car below is not part of the Miata group. I was peeking between buildings and caught a glimpse of this and had to come around to see this work of art.
It probably needed a paint job anyway. I hope they didn’t use watercolor. Photo by Mike Hartley
Random Thoughts of the Day
Tomorrow is more work than play, see I’m trying to bring balance to the universe.
I decided not to listen to one falsehood today. Feels pretty good.
The attic calls me tomorrow.
I didn’t get the cover on the car in time before the rain.
I can see tough times ahead. I guess it’s good we have some previous experience.
I took a break Saturday and laughed with friends and ate well (broiled crabcakes and fried oysters) while watching a scenic view. And though it was a misty, cloudy and very windy cold day in mid-April it was still a good break from the norm.
Sunday just a few chores and some good family time. I should have worked harder, but I have a few hours to try to finish the day strong.
Today is booked with great things for a Monday which makes it kind of a bonus.
No cropping, just a little zoom-zoom. I’m just starting to get busy with the Nikon P950.
Photos by Mike Hartley
I believe my friend who was looking up the ship positions on the Chesapeake Bay yesterday said this one was a car container ship. Probably had just dropped the load at the Port of Baltimore.
Random Thoughts of the Morning
It feels strange to like Mondays, but retirement put a new perspective on them.
Today I got back on my photography horse.
This is going to be a great week.
It still boggles my mind that RFK Jr was confirmed. And his policies continue that process.
Beautiful sunrise this morning at the ocean. Wish I was there.
Where do you see yourself in 10 years? – A question I used to ask a lot of people as professionals. So, the daily writing prompt waits till I’m old and retired to ask me what I’m doing in 10 years.
I’ll be really happy to be waking up 10 years from now. I’ll be elated so much I might just mark down this date to jump out of bed. Boy, I hope I’m lucky enough to live that much longer. Something to think about young people. This crap ain’t infinite.
I see myself still engrossed in my hobbies. In 10 years the grandchildren will be old enough to mow the lawn for me but it my own kids are any indication I guess I shouldn’t be counting on that help. So maybe I’ll be cutting the lawn, (hopefully on a new tractor).
I’m certainly still going to be driving that Miata that is in the driveway now. It might need a paint refresh and a new convertible top by then but those are replaceable. Hopefully I’ll be taking it to the beach in the summer.
We will still be in the home we have been in for decades. I will still be grilling out. And of course, hosting family and friend gatherings.
I’d like to think I’d have a nice gallery of work completed by that point. I’ll continue to build on for as long as I can.
I hope to be reflecting on more good times and laughs. And that my family and friends are well and with me.
The problem with this fine picture is our current leadership is trying to screw up plans that I worked very hard for during many decades. I want what’s mine in Social Security and Medicare and if we don’t get it there is going to be HELL TO PAY.
Looking forward to 10 years from now. Photo by Mike Hartley
My dentist is retiring. This is not a good thing. I’ve been going to see him and his hygienist for decades. I do love going there also because it’s in my favorite little down right on Main Street. And I feel they took excellent care of my choppers. I’m not a fan of dentist/doctors, but these things made it a breeze.
Also, he is one of my favorite neighbors and has been for decades. So, a salute to my wonderful dentist Dr. Bob and his hygienist Dawn. Both have decided to retire and I’m very happy for each of them.
I believe in his post in FaceBook he indicated that he was the last of 6 dentists to occupy that same spot on Main Street in Ellicott City since 1900.
The green arch under the flag next to the Wine Bin is the entrance to DDS Robert Boman. Thanks again Bob.
Change 2
This getting old stuff isn’t going to be easy. They shell that carries around this twisted mind is feeling its age and in need of some maintenance and a change in style. I’m adjusting daily expectations and cutting back on how many hard physical things I do in a day.
No more working for hours straight or all day with just short breaks. I also need to slow the pace and be more deliberate. Slower down the stairs or hilly ground to reduce fall risks. To think before lifting something with the question, should I? Lots of little things that if I’m smart will allow me to keep upright and active.
At the same time, I’m going to increase my work on the things that are important to me. Speaking of which, I need to go charge another battery for today’s shooting.
Random Thoughts of the Morning
Just saw another beautiful sunrise over the Atlantic from Ocean City. Too bad it was on a webcam. And it only lasted about 3 minutes before going behind clouds. But I SAW IT. Great way to start a day.
Try to make the best of life. That way when you get older the time you spend saying “I should have done this or that” will be at a minimum.
I hope the 3 days of rain we are going to get help solve this drought we have been in.
I was surprised by a friend’s news yesterday. It was a big decision for him. It probably is the right one for him.
Not getting all the sleep I need but I’m working on it.
Describe one positive change you have made in your life. – A softball question from the daily writing prompt.
At a young age I was developing a serious drinking problem. For close to a decade, I was a heavy drinker. My better half helped me get a grip on it and I’ve been fine since. I didn’t have a drop for about 2 decades after that.
I might have a shot with the boys once in a great while. Or a frozen cocktail while on vacation at the beach but nothing else. Drinking was almost like a competition sport with our group. And I was pretty good at leading the pack.
Booze and I are not a good combination. I’m not a mean drunk, quite the happy one in fact, but it would take over my life. For it almost cost me the most wonderful woman in the world. And I’m not taking that chance again.
The shots I do now are at the range. Photo by Mike Hartley
Rolling down the boardwalk, soaking up rays, enjoying the sights. Yeah sure, I could do that. I enjoy riding as much as anyone. Spent a lot of time in a bike seat. Both pedal and motorized. From my own legs to 1100cc, I’ve always loved 2 wheels.
I only saw this one rider with the OC Ryderz. We didn’t rent bikes there on our last visit. I’d like to buy some and get a carrier for them. But having had surgery on both shoulders I think my days of hanging on to ape hangers are over.
For as much as I cruise this town when there I wonder if I could get membership for my Miata.
One of my friends had those ape hanger handlebars when we were young. Not for the faint of heart if you’re going to do any trail riding. Almost suicide, at least you won’t go over the handlebars, you will catch them and take the bike flipping over with you.
So I’ll be on the plain jane old man single speed bike with the nice cushioned seat. Ride safe regardless what you ride and where.
I looked to my right, while having dinner with my better half last week at Harpoon Hanna’s in Fenwick Island Delaware and saw this colorful display. I’ve always liked this restaurant. It was a great meal. I had a Fillet and Crab Cake. Treated myself.
I’m working on a much simpler wall piece for my side deck area that used to be a pool. I saw our neighbors across the street getting their pool and deck area redone. Pools can be a ton of work. Glad that is off my daily chore list.
Photo by Mike Hartley
Hope to make the best of a dreary weather week ahead. I’m going to have to cram some outdoor chores into the next two days because they are the only ones the sun will be out. It’s time for the first cut of the year. It’s going to be a tough one with the push mower so a trip to the tractor store is also going to be on the agenda.
I’ve also got to stop by a local mower repair shop and see he much they might give me for the old tractor.
Random Thoughts of the Day
Short sighted leadership equals long term pain.
Teams win championships.
Children make me forget about the children in authority now.
Grandchildren give the best surprise hugs.
RFK Jr going to the child who died of measles is a sad irony. I wonder how many more funerals he is willing to attend because there could be more on his hands.
If you could be a character from a book or film, who would you be? Why? – Not the kind of question I’m into this morning from the daily writing prompt, but I’ll give it the old college try. Whoops, I didn’t do much college.
Jake Blues – From the movie The Blues Brothers – The man has a goal, works hard to achieve the goal and has a good time doing it.
After watching some news this morning and the thought of losing even more money I think the appropriate character would be Howard Beale, from the 1976 movie Network.
In one impassioned diatribe, Beale galvanizes the nation, persuading viewers to shout, “I’m as mad as hell, and I’m not going to take this anymore!” from their windows. He is soon hosting a new program called The Howard Beale Show, top-billed as “the mad prophet of the airwaves”.
A semi productive Saturday. Had to pause earlier than I intended. One of those signals from the body that I pushed too hard. Enjoying some Final Four action. I had hoped to go out and enjoy it but taking it easy this evening and regaining my footing.
Truth be told I passed out before the second game started and I was up early Sunday morning watching the replay.
Not my favorite bird. Photo by Mike Hartley
This guy flew in front of me and landed and just posed for a minute for his mug shots.
I’m not sure I like either side. Photo by Mike Hartley
Random Thoughts of the Day
Some days your body reminds you of your real age.
Rainy days used to bother me. I guess the option of not having to go out in them is nice.
It looks like the people are starting to mobilize. I’m encouraged.
I have a weakness for Easter candy. You’ve heard of Cookie Monster right. Well, I’m JellyBean Monster.
What job would you do for free? – Interesting question from the daily writing prompt.
I guess the ones I’m doing now. Amateur photog, blogger, artist and yardman and handyman. Don’t earn a dime from any of it. Probably couldn’t if I tried. And that’s fine with me also because I enjoy them.
Even though I don’t consider these things a job, I certainly put a lot of time and some money into them. Along with some very hard physical work on the yard and home ones.
Other things I’m thinking about doing for free if time allows. Working at the pet shelter, picking up trash while I’m out photographing nature, babysitter, chef, and writer are just a few off the top of my head.
Then again, beach bum always had a certain appeal to me.
We just returned last night from a few days at the beach. We haven’t been away this year and needed a break because it’s going to get boo-koo busy soon. What am I talking about, it’s been busy as hell so far this year.
Semi Back is a good title for my own back. Some days the spine and muscles work well, others it’s a pain. Another post or two are possible and that’s semi back into my blogging routine. I didn’t do much shooting while away so I should continue to pick up the cameras more today and get back in that grove.
Photo by Mike Hartley
The beach is one place we will always be back. Well, as long as that thin strip of land on Maryland’s eastern shore is there.
Offseason is a nice time of year we both love to be there. Almost
Random Thoughts of the Morning
I’m always proud of my children, but yesterday my daughter turned up my pride meter a whole lot.
When you don’t hear the truth, it’s hard to make good judgements.
Salt air is refreshing.
I wonder if we will get to watch a cult crumble.
The ocean was angry when we visited it.
He meant to say, “prices will go down the 1st day I’m out of office.”
How would you improve your community? – Another interesting ask by the daily writing prompt.
In one sense I’m kind of disappointed in my community. Everyone seems to be so out for themselves and angry. We live in one of the richest counties in the country. Yet we still have hungry and homeless people.
I contribute to food banks and local organizations. If I see someone in need I try to do the courteous thing and help. Be it helping someone with shopping bags load their car if I see them struggling or just smiling and exchanging pleasant greetings when I pass people.
I’ll keep eyes on neighbors homes while they are away. I’ll pick up peoples trash when the wind knocks over cans. I’ve mowed neighbors lawn when they have struggled. I’ve shoveled others driveways and walks. All things people do for each other. Well, some people, well, few people. And that’s the issue.
I support local small businesses (I don’t like big box stores). We attend community events have supported our local schools.
Everyone is so busy, few if any take the time to say hello or even wave. Communication is broken and that is due to many factors like politics, economic and ethnic differences or beliefs. Intolerance seems to be at an all time high. I try my best to accept people for who they are and the differences we may have. But I’m tiring of people with people who have no respect for me.
You see the selfishness daily on the roads around here. Courtesy and trust seemed to have eroded. Things have gotten to the point in my own neighborhood that some of the extremist have me so concerned that I’m adding to my weapon collection. For they have told me I’m the enemy because of my political beliefs. So, I’m going to be ready to rock and roll if they want.
This all is leading to the breakdown of society as we know it. And if we don’t get control of ourselves soon we will be fighting each other in ways that harken back to the 1800s.
I think the big part of the community I live in problems are due to a huge growth spurt and change in the community. This used to be rural farmland and now its a thriving metropolis. Instead of lifelong residents its a transit community with no foundation anymore.
What are your morning rituals? What does the first hour of your day look like? – This daily writing prompt certainly likes to investigate my personal life.
I’m up early most days so I’ll flip the outside lights on and peek at the weather and look for nefarious creatures lurking outside before I step out. I’ve always been in the habit of stepping outside first thing in the mornings.
I didn’t want to lose that when I retired. Now I have a few minutes to stand there (if its nice out) and listen to the sounds of nature. Be it the rain or wind blowing through the leaves and trees. Maybe the hoof pounding of the herd of deer that I disturbed.
I’ve never been a coffee drinker. I love the smell of it but no on the taste. So, my morning beverage is a 16.9 oz Coke. Sometimes a Cherry Coke. I’ll pound about half of that and put it back in the fridge.
At this point it’s one of two directions. If in pain, I spend some time stretching and maybe a mile on the treadmill. For some reason walking will sometimes free the back. If pain free, a quick stretch and off to the computer for email check and maybe check a few blogs. Put the headphones in and turn up some music. Start my first blog of the day, maybe 2-3 separate ones if inspired.
I try to write my children 3-4 times a week, so most mornings include a note to one of them. Sometimes one to my best friends. I usually turn the tv on but most of the time don’t watch more than a few minutes if that. Don’t know why I do that still. It has been getting less frequent.
I’ll pick up the dumbbells and do a few sets of various exercises if the stretching earlier was successful and if the pinched nerve in my neck isn’t causing pain or numbness in the arms or hands.
Back upstairs, grab the daily meds/vitamins, maybe plug in the camera batteries, sit back down at the computer and edit a few images while eating a nut bar. By this time the music is sounding really good and I might break into some air drums or guitar. Singing at this time of morning would be disruptive to my better half’s sleep.
Oh, if I oversleep, I watch the sunrise in the first hour of the day.
I’m guessing this morning’s sunrise will look like this with the low clouds on the horizon moving further offshore. Photo by Mike Hartley
Every once in a while, I get this smile on my face as I’m sitting here working. Especially on a Sunday night/Monday morning where that would be the start of my workweek. It’s been 15 months of retirement now and I’m still grinning ear to ear this morning thinking about not starting the work week for someone else.
Now don’t get me wrong, I’m one busy SOB but it’s doing the things I like or working on my home and yard or things I make for my children or grandchildren. No more worrying about what Mr. Bezos is going to do or say or support.
Ending March on a high note. The music is rolling this morning, and I hope to keep it part of my whole day. The collection is big, and I’ll have no problem listening to different songs.
With the warm temps the last few days I find myself looking forward to summer and riding bikes with my better half.
Beach and Bikes go together. Photo by Mike Hartley
I was listening to an old group 38 Special and the song – Hold on Loosely – and I loved the following lyrics. A good reminder to me to not overwhelm my better half.
Just hold on loosely But don’t let go If you cling too tightly You’re gonna lose control
Your baby needs someone to believe in And a whole lot of space to breathe in
It’s so damn easy When your feelings are such To overprotect her To love her too much
Random Thoughts of the Day
I can’t remember the number of times I worked 24 hours straight. And not just when I was younger.
I can remember the days I worked 36-48 hours straight.
I probably averaged at least 60 hours a week for my career. And that is with vacations bringing the averages down.
Which aspects do you think makes a person unique? – This requires some tough thinking for a Monday morning which might not be in the cards.
The first thing that came to mind was the MIND. If we think we’re different on the outside I bet the mint that the mind is imminently more unique to each of us than anything else. The power of the mind dwarfs the body. And the way they are wired combined with the intake through life makes it the winner in my book.
Our environment makes us unique.
The skills we learn and become experts at.
Those personal experiences we all have form us and make us more unique.
How we see things are infinitely different. How we taste food differently.
The focus on self vs others.
Loss and pain make us unique as hell.
I’ll end on a happy one – Our taste in cars and how to style them.
Photo by Mike Hartley
And as the back of this car is aptly named Bucket List, I’ll get to work on mine this week. My 2 seater has a bit more room.
Do you ever feel like unplugging? Until recently, I never really had that urge. I try to keep a balance and I’ve been pretty good at that. But the reason I’d like to unplug isn’t the use and joy I get from working online but the security aspects. I got a note today that one of the medical facilities I’ve used in the past had a data breach.
Unplugged. Photo by Mike Hartley
I’ll take the needed steps and try to protect myself as best possible. But the numbers working hard day and night against us stand a decent chance of wreaking havoc on honest people as far as I can see ahead.
Times have changed and you can’t really unplug.
Like that feeling when I give someone cash. I get this stunned look or even “we don’t take cash” reply.
Life has changed, I used to be able to see the thief coming.
Random Thoughts of the Day
I’m definitely seeing more classic cars riding around this area.
I gave myself a gift today. I didn’t watch or read one word of politics.
Sat on a bench with a couple of older couples eating ice cream this afternoon. And for me to say a couple of older couples that means there were a lot of old people sitting there.
Another grandchild on the way soon. I pause, gather my thoughts of anticipation, joy, wonder and happiness.
I gave myself a break from yard work today. I will pay for that tomorrow.
If you could have something named after you, what would it be? – A bit of a pretentious question from the daily writing prompt, but I’ll go with the flow.
My first thought was if I were to name something after myself it would be a convertible sports car, but only if I were to design one. But I wouldn’t use my name, just my nickname. (The Doctor) because it would be a ride that cures what ails you.
Finished washing the car and cleaning the rims, dusting off the interior and glass. That always makes me feel good. I started the day off in a funk. Just a lot to work out mentally. Isn’t that always the case though?
A nice ride this afternoon to split up some home/yard chores. Then another quick trip to pick up a prescription that turned into a 45 minute ride.
Random Thoughts of the Day
Good thing I retired, this grandparent business is a pretty busy role.
I’m not sure which is more colorful, spring or fall?
I do know which season doesn’t include mulch.
Taking away vaccines, that’s one way to trim the Social Security recipients.
I really try to be nice to everyone, tailgaters make it so difficult though.
Friday mornings are sweet with a beautiful sunrise. On the other hand, the season for the Maryland basketball team came to an end last night at the hands of Florida. So, It was a great morning and afternoon because our grandson and son were visiting today.
I love having them over. It was a great day, and it keeps me from drifting into the rage the news brings about in me. I’ll relish in the things I taught him today. He saw a ladder I had out for pulling the final things from that attic.
I taught him about where to position and move his hands along it. How to use each leg and make sure you have a firm footing before going up more. And how to come down slowly and safely. Of course, his father panicked when I let him climb up and touch the ceiling. I had a hold of his body all the time of course.
He was grinning ear to ear. He also liked my snowball and the pizza and games and destroying the castles of Lincoln Logs I built. But he really got into the shredded paper pile I made him.
Tomorrow is going to be a fine one. I’ll be out at daybreak pulling the cover off the car and begin the bath. Then some detailing, maybe even a nice wax job. Armor All the tires and turn up the tunes.
Check the fluids, tire pressure and engine. HIT START, Reverse out of driveway. Shift, Smile, Sway, adjust volume, head bob to the tunes and become one with the car. Head west, seek some twisties.
Random Thoughts of the Day
The grass isn’t growing yet but I can hear it taunting me already.
Time to take a trip to York Automotive. Handling and ride height adjustments.
These big business leaders that backed Trump, like the auto barons are now seeing they backed the wrong horse. Good luck trying to educate bonehead about supply chain. And the nice thing is I’m not going to be buying a new car for some time so shove those price increases where the sun don’t shine.
I’ve come to realize that some of Maryland basketball fans are idiots. Booing Willard was a classless move yesterday. People who don’t think he can coach are idiots.
Ship, sunrise, and surfers. Took this at Virginia Beach years ago and was just cleaning and had never noticed the Navy ship in the distance, just to the left of the sun before.
I can’t wait to put the toes in the sand. Photo by Mike Hartley
Random Thoughts of the Morning
Would someone remind Spring that it’s Spring, because it certainly feels like winter this morning.
The Madness resumes this evening with the home team (Maryland) playing a #1 seeded Florida. Go Terps
I’m starting to be more satisfied at the end of each day.
Sleep was difficult again last night. A busy day ahead. Maybe a quick nap this afternoon.
What’s something most people don’t understand? – – This could be a long list if the daily writing prompt isn’t more careful.
Funny, my first thought was song lyrics. But I’ll think a little harder about this for a minute.
Sometimes I think most people don’t understand how interconnected we are. A few more things off the top of my head.
Climate change – Government – Technology – Science – Finance – Medicine – Internal Combustion Engines – Plumbing – Love – Space – and given the season, Taxes.
What I see on the roads leads me to believe people don’t understand how to drive. Okay, it’s not most people but the percentages are still way too high.
The fine print we don’t read at the bottom of everything we sign.
Oh, here’s a good one – Religion – If we understood it correctly we could have avoided a number of wars. And a lot of other unethical stuff going on.
Sorry for the sarcastic post. Still not feeling 100% and I’m tired.
I chose the title for this post “I can’t explain” from a song from The Who I like.
I’m having trouble stringing my guitar. Photo by Mike Hartley
Truth is sometimes hard to get at. Sometimes it’s right in front of everyone.
Words for thought. Photo by Mike Hartley
I would pass by this a few times a night. I always liked it.
Good thing I can lose myself in my young grandson for a few hours this week to help me cope. And I’ll be absorbed in basketball this weekend. The trouble is I’ll worry about his and all our safety.
Like the soon to start Major League Baseball season, I’m feeling in the swing of things again. The body is recovering slower than the mind, but we are on the mend and excited to get moving and thinking creatively again.
I was cleaning out some of my parent’s things and found some more goodies. This is one I found a good while back but being were talking baseball, it has some classic names for a minor league team. The tall guy in the back row with the big grin is Chuck Connors, one of the few players to play in both professional baseball and basketball. He also became a well-known actor and was probably best known for his role in The Rifleman.
Montreal Royals Baseball Club International League AAA 1948.
Don Newcombe is also on this team before his trip to the majors and becoming the first pitcher to ever win the Rookie of the Year, MVP and Cy Young.
Clyde King another baseball player, coach, manager, general manager and front office exec for MLB
This was the minor league team of the then Brooklyn Dodgers, who my mom followed because one of her good friends was the wife of pitcher Bud Podbielan. I have tickets from Ebbets Field that they didn’t use.
Only 2 more days till the sound of the crack of the bat against the ball and the cheering crowds return. I’m looking forward to attending a game or two this year. I like the ballpark smells and sounds. And the O’s stadium is very nice.
I’ll be tuning into ESPN on Thursday at 3:05pm to hear someone yell. PLAY BALL.
But I’ll be watching my real passion March Madness later that day.
It’sMaryland Day – And being a longtime resident I’m going to celebrate. I was sick all weekend when events took place but hey, I’m feeling half human again and I don’t mind joining in late. I read the meaning of it and have put it at the bottom of this post.
But first I wanted to take a minute on what it’s meant to me.
I like the climate. I like the state flag. I like the mountains. I like the beaches and the Bay. I even like THE Bridge. I like the beautiful highways, on a warm summer night around 3-4am (the only time they aren’t jammed).
Ocean City Maryland Beach and Parasail Photo by Mike Hartley
I like the states university. I’ve liked our Governors, both Republican and Democrat ones. I like the states importance on its natural resources. It’s education system, did okay with my generation and my children’s. And I’m hoping for my grandchildren.
I like the small towns where people look you in the eye and say something like “Good morning” or “beautiful day” or at least node in acknowledgement. I have met many many more good people than bad.
I like the trails in the parks and along the rivers.
Maryland Blue Crabs – I LOVE THE SEAFOOD. Sorry, I didn’t mean to shout that one so early. The proud home of The Naval Academy in Annapolis. Pass the Old Bay please.
Of course we like deserts – Smith Island Cake, Berger Cookies, Fishers Carmel Corn, Fountain Soda from Dumsers (cherry), and The Snowball stand a mile from my house.
I’ve watched large parts of the state become well integrated melting pots. While not perfect James Rouse did something special with Columbia.
Memorial on boardwalk
A short drive to the Nation’s Capital. A short drive to Baltimore. A short drive to the mountains and a short drive to the shore. And oh yeah. Like the license plate on this car says – DOOKSUX – Translation Duke Sucks
MD vs Duke could happen this year if they both continue to win. Photo by Mike Hartley
Meaning of Maryland Day lifted from the site linked above
Maryland Day, March 25th, commemorates the formal founding of the colony of Maryland, when the newly-arrived colonists erected a cross on St. Clement’s Island, offered prayers (perhaps by saying Mass), and took “possession of this Countrey for our Saviour and for our soveraigne Lord the King of England.” According to one of the three versions of Father Andrew White’s account of the voyage of the Ark and the Dove, this event took place on 25 March 1633/34 at the colonists’ first landfall in Maryland. In the liturgical calendar of the Roman Catholic Church, this day is the Feast of the Annunciation, or “our blessed Ladies day” as Father White termed it, referring to the Virgin Mary. After consulting with the “Emperor of the Piscataway” and the “King of Yaocomoco,” Leonard Calvert, governor of the colony, negotiated the purchase of land on a nearby tributary of the Potomac River. This became the site of St. Mary’s City, the colony’s first settlement. Marylanders began observing Maryland Day in 1903, when the State Board of Education designated it as a day to be devoted to the study of Maryland history. In 1916, the General Assembly authorized the celebration of Maryland Day as a legal state holiday.
Congrats Lady Terps
Not bad. The University of Maryland Women’s Basketball team won in 2 OT’s to also make the Sweet 16 this year along with the men’s team. Truth be told the Women’s program has had a lot more success over recent years than the men’s, but this year they both are riding high.
Random Thoughts of the Day
Funny when you’re well, normal life seems so routine and boring at times. When you’re sick, normal life is this special place you yearn to return to with a passion.
All our lives are more at risk now than just mere weeks ago.
The cover comes off the car today.
Sorry Canada, I didn’t vote for the idiot. Ditto to EU, and the rest of the world apart from China, Russia and North Korea.
How often do you say “no” to things that would interfere with your goals? – Damn good question from the daily writing prompt.
The short answer is not too often. I mostly adjust my schedule to fit the important people around me. So, saying no isn’t a high percentage at all. If I can shuffle something, I do. Been doing it all my life so it doesn’t seem abnormal anymore.
But as I get older, I find myself saying no a bit more often and I imagine it will continue to uptick because time is getting shorter for my goals. And I’m setting them as a higher priority all the time.
Don’t get me wrong. Those things I didn’t say no too were really my goals that I just didn’t know about till they were brought to my attention by family or good friends. Because their happiness and success are my goals also.
Work was always getting in the way, and you can’t say no to the job that pays the bills. But those days are hopefully behind me. Now I have some time for my goals.
And my goal today is to pick up the camera and do some shooting, after I finish chores.
Amature photographer (me) photographing what appears to be professional photographer in green. At least I got rid of my spare tire. Maybe he needs that to balance out that long lens. Photo by Mike Hartley
For the first time in a few days I was inspired to come to the computer and write. I also plugged the camera batteries in because I need to get back to work this week. I lost some production time for sure. The clarity of thought is returning, I’m looking forward to leaving the house again Monday and a positive mindset is returning.
Photo by Mike Hartley
I’ve got 4 sick days on my calendar where I keep track of my treadmill miles and I’m looking forward to putting numbers on there again.
I’m missing a family event today. Few things frustrate me more. Actually, nothing frustrates me more than that. I’m on the mend but this persistent cough I’m sure would have made others uncomfortable and my energy reserves would have been severely tested. I get winded and coughing going up the stairs.
I’ll make it up to my daughter and take her and her daughter out to dinner soon.
Sports
The Maryland Terps play tonight and if they win they make the Sweet 16, something nobody predicted. At the beginning of the season and they weren’t even picked to make the tournament this year. Picked to finish 10-11th in their own conference (finished 2nd).
Our group lives for these games. Some of my friends, became quickly spoiled this year when the early games showed a lot of promise. Forgetting the complete unknown they were before the season started. No idea how 4 new starters would jell with the senior fixture in the center.
It’s a credit to these young men and the coaching staff that they made the round of 32 and if they win tonight, the round of 16 which before the season would have been unheard of. There is something special about this group and I hope they go further. But I thank them for the excitement, promise, and opportunity to really enjoy the March Madness.
I was able to attend 5 home games this year. And what fun they were with friends and my son. I have one wish for that program and they really need to fix this. The good seats are sold out but rarely completely full. Sometime embarrassing partially full. There has to be a way to get those seats that aren’t being used to kids and families that someday might be inspired to play for their home state. Get my drift. It solve two issues. It helps with recruiting and it keeps the stadium packed.
Oh, retaining this coach would be a good first step before anything else.
What is your favorite type of weather? – A simple ask by the daily writing prompt.
Warm summer days and nights are my favorite type of weather. Blue skies and sunshine and a bright moon at night. I love summertime with passion, always have and always will. Ideally 85 – 90 degrees and low humidity but that is asking for a lot living in the mid-Atlantic region.
I’ve got to admit I was almost tempted to put down extreme weather. I find storms mesmerizing. Lightning, wind, snow, ice, and hail all intrigues me. But there is too much of a downside to that type of weather to be my favorite.
I think my fever broke last night and hopefully I’m on the upside today. Like getting up off the mat after losing a fight. This guy beat the hell out of me. I guess age is a factor in fighting viruses now. I only have half a kidney on the right side due to cancer and when I’m sick it feels like George Forman (RIP) was giving kidney shots for 12 rounds.
My better half was sick earlier in the week and some friends seem to have had the same thing and they all were saying it takes 4-5 days to start feeling normal again.
Hopefully this week I’ll be able to get back into the surf of things.
Photo by Mike Hartley
Frustration
For the first time this year I couldn’t put some miles on the treadmill. I was sick on my daughter’s birthday. I had to move 3 days of planned to do list items to future days. There was a nice day when I missed riding with the top down on my car in the warm sun. I haven’t picked up a camera or worked on a piece of art in 3 days. I haven’t worked on yard or home in 3 days. It bothers me that I haven’t kept up with blogs I like.
And now the sun has set, and my cough is coming back and I feel warm. Maybe a premature prediction of life returning.
Politics
I see our Commerce Secretary Howard Lutnick was quoted saying “Let’s say Social Security didn’t send out their checks this month. My mother-in-law is 94, she wouldn’t call up and complain. She just wouldn’t. She would think something got messed up and she’d get it next month,” he said. “A fraudster always makes the loudest noise, screaming, yelling and complaining.”
Well I’m no fraudster Lutnick, and yes I’m going to be pissed as hell if I don’t get my check on time. You took it out of every one of my F’ing paycheck so do you part and get it here on time or there will be HELL TO PAY for it.
71 Million Americans will be letting you know how we feel about missing even one social security payment.
Random Thoughts of the Day
I believe I’m going to start to supporting the organization Democracy Forward.
Mess with my Social Security and I will FUBAR YOU.
If you don’t have your health, it seems to stop life.
I seriously doubt we will make it 4 years without major unrest.
The winter season which ended today was a good one. I managed to stay healthy the whole time. But waking this morning with sinuses draining, a fever, cough and body aches, I’ve picked up what my wife has been fighting the last 4 days.
The timing couldn’t be worse. Our March Madness party kicks off today and I’ve never missed it before. Well, a first time for everything because today I’m going to take it easy and stay home. I’d just succeed at getting everyone there sick if I went.
I’ll see if I can cross the health bridge tomorrow. Today I fouled out and I’m riding the bench. Photo by Mike Hartley
This really sucks because March Madness is probably our group’s favorite sporting event to gather and go wild. We go all out on food an spend the first Thursday and Friday of the tournament watching basketball from noon to midnight or beyond.
And if our team is successful, we will gather again on Saturday and Sunday for a few games. And each of the following 3 weekends we watch as much as we can all the way to the Final on Monday night.
I won’t know what to do with myself today. The house won’t have all that good grub. There won’t be anyone too high five or running around yelling OOHHHH after someone gets jammed on. I’ll be missing the laughter and jokes. The taunting and disagreements. The friends that come that we don’t see regularly. Lots of things I’ll miss out on today.
Well boys, have a great time and I’ll be with you in spirit today.
Random Thoughts of the Morning
I won’t be signing up for any of these betting apps/services. I think they are bad for society.
The sun is out this morning, but the weather is telling me to get the cover on the car.
I refuse to watch anything on Fox anymore. And I’m going to boycott as many of their advertisers as possible.
Some might be successful at removing pieces of history on some government sites. But nobody is going to forget the history that is being left behind now.
If you know someone on Medicaid, you might be expecting them to be asking for a loan sometime in the near future.
I feel like I’m running on empty today. I’m not refreshing my internal tank enough. And I’ve increased my physical work with the outside coming into play again.
Okay, I brushed off the last yawn and I’m back in gear.
Mother Nature and I have entered the ring again for another knock down, dragged out, brutal war to maintain the yard and keep the woods at bay. Round one is a tie. I’ve managed to get the raking, weed and feed down and beat back about 10 feet of wood encroaching on more of the back yard. I’m trying to return it to the original tree line, so I have another 10 feet to go along the back.
I always feel good being able bodied enough to do battle. Though I’m getting a bit old for extended periods and the extreme heat of the summer takes its toll. I still remember looking out a window one summer at someone else cutting my yard while I was recovering from a cancer surgery. I still remember that thought that I’d never complain about yard work again if I was healthy enough to be outside doing it.
So that battle comments aren’t so much as a complaint. More out of respect for the opponent.
Random Thoughts of the Day
The leaf blower fired up for another season of work.
I think Comrade Trump should be banned from Arlington National Cemetery. He doesn’t care about living Veterans, you know he doesn’t give a damn about the deceased ones.
I had the pleasure of spending some time outside. A beautiful sky, warm enough to get down to a tee shirt and shorts in the afternoon. And it leaves me looking forward to tomorrow which should be even nicer outside.
I’ll be sailing into March Madness starting this evening. Photo by Mike Hartley
I think I’ll spend the evening exercising, watching hoops, and doing some drawing. On the other hand, I’m tired, have sore hands and back from raking.
Random Thoughts of the Day
Most of my friends and neighbors have yard services. I guess I’m just a glutton for punishment or poor.
Excuse me but I think the market seems to be in a free fall. I thought it was the prices at the supermarket that were supposed to fall.
I’m trying Instagram but I’m not sure I’ll stick with that.
Some people don’t want to wake up from a lie, even when they finally know it was a lie.
Control is an elusive thing at times. We think we have it, and it’s gone. Maybe it was an illusion that we never had any in the first place. Yes we have control over decisions we make. But a lot of times those are made within a constructed framework of options.
I felt like I regained some control of life when I retired. But when I watch the news, it reminds me of the late 60s when everything seemed out of control.
It’s good to let go of control. For instance, as your children grow up.
Control goes to a lot of people’s heads.
Those that think they have control might want to double check that assumption.
I’ve been told I’m out of control at times.
The only thing I control right now is when this post started and ended.
I guess the warmer temps spurred a little green in the fields, in rows. I wish I could see some green days ahead, but all I see are warning yellow and danger red ones.
So, I will venture out today and look for some positives in life and keep my spirits alive.
Along Route 144 just before merging with Route 40. Photo by Mike Hartley
Random Thoughts of the Morning
Things are beyond scary. Most just don’t recognize it.
Life puzzles are the most difficult ones to piece together.
I’m feeling good about today, even though it’s fairly packed.
That sunrise was a little late, about 7:40am, it had to clear that cloudbank near the horizon.
Wait until we all see what we have lost by the cuts to our government.
What was the best compliment you’ve received? – An interesting thing to reflect given to us by the daily writing prompt.
I guess life has been good for me because I’ve received some nice ones. So, this very lucky person will share a few below
Family
The first one that came to mind is the one I got yesterday from my granddaughter, “You’re fun Papa, I love you.”
Almost simultaneously I thought about my own children saying, “thanks for being a great dad, I love you.” Followed by big hugs.
From my better half – “I love you”
A few of my in-laws who shared in the caregiving of their parents thanked me for stepping up and helping in their care and sharing our home. It was my brother-in-law whose words were preceded by a firm handshake as he expressed his thanks for taking such good and loving care of them and stepping up so much. And every so often he will thank me again. I know it meant something special to him.
Professionally –
I’ve gotten lots of nice complements over my career and those are the things that really kept me going over my career. That personal appreciation for the hard work and knowledge. But one always makes me smile because I finally felt I had the admiration of my future boss.
A major system had gone down on my way home and I had to turn around and come back. None of the UNIX Admin leads on it were available. This is back when we still had pagers. Directors were all around and furious and wanted the system online YESTERDAY. I sat down and got the thing back up but I ignored what I was being told to do by the Director because I knew it was WRONG. He wanted the system to be brought up in the wrong order. I pretended to do what he wanted while doing what I knew was right.
The Marine manager of that group called in just as the system was coming online and asked what happened. I told him and I believe his complement was “Good job, nice Balls, damn good job, show me how you pulled it off tomorrow” with excitement I never heard from him. He hired me about a year or two later as a UNIX Admin.
St. Patricks Day is something I never really got into. But to all who choose to celebrate, please be careful. And please don’t get on the road if you’ve been drinking.
Luck in Writing. Photo by Mike Hartley
I haven’t had much time at the computer or behind the lens today because it’s Granddaughter Day. We are just watching her for the day. Her school was out but her mom’s county was still going so we got a bonus day.
And what a day it was. She was just a joy to be with. and she drew me some pictures. We sat at the computer and printed out shots I took from her birthday party. I had pre-edited them and just let her pick which she wanted prints of.
Spent a few minutes teaching editing and what to look for. Had a number of similar shots and had her look for certain things like expressions, sharpness, content. The excitement when she saw the best one was exciting for me. Taught her to change ink and how to handle prints, where paper is loaded and how to tell which side to use.
Of course, we played and ran and had pizza for lunch. I also got her a cannoli to try for the first time. Liked the icing but not the shell so much.
I’m sitting here smiling but a bit sore. I always use a few muscle groups when grandchildren visit, that don’t get exercise normally.
I believe I’ll sit at the easel a bit this evening and see if I can draw something myself.
Random Thoughts of the Day
I’m sick of sports talk shows talking football year-round.
Courts may not stop him, people will.
I’m sick of sports shows so focusing on individuals within teams, more than the team. These are team sports we are talking about, NOT Javelin, NOT Golf, NOT TENNIS – team sports. Individuals don’t win or lose games, teams do.
Just figured out what was wrong. I haven’t had music on for an extended period.
Some seasons ended last evening. Some in very disappointing fashion being close to the Dance but not getting that invite. The team I follow has been on the outside looking in a few years. Sometimes in extremely tough fashion.
From the NCAA history section – The NCAA tournament field grew to 16 teams in 1951, doubled to 32 in 1975 and expanded to its current size of 64 teams in 1985.An opening-round game was introduced in 2001. Three more games were added to that round in 2011 for the inaugural First Four to take the tournament to its current size of 68 teams.
The 1975 expansion was partially due to one of The University of Maryland’s best teams ever, being denied entry to the tournament despite being the #3 rated team in the country. Back then only the ACC Champion from the ACC Tournament went. And that year it was NC State who eventually became the National Champion.
Some shoot no longer. Photo by Mike Hartley
While I feel bad for the schools that were left off, but let the games begin. There were a few this year who shouldn’t be in (North Carolina), but fate is what it is.
As a basketball junkie this is the fix season. One and done. Drama every game. Emotions on display. Great basketball.
Pools are nice but the real excitement is in the game.
No, I’m not crazy about seagulls screech, but each has our own voice. If you didn’t have some off key notes, you wouldn’t know what perfection sounds like.
Random Thoughts of the Day
Time to try harder.
Found this image and post started 8 years ago. As you might have noticed I’m cleaning out my drafts folder.
I’m beginning to wonder if this country as a collective whole is too stupid or lazy, to change the direction we’re headed.
We have lost power 3x today. I was hesitant to even turn the computer back on to post this and I see the skies darkening now.
Who is the most confident person you know? – This is an easy one from the daily writing prompt.
One of my best friends is the most confident person I’ve ever known. A lot of it is his competitive spirit. He believes he can win in any situation. He does it by working smart, working hard and then harder than the other guy. He also knows he won’t win in every situation but that doesn’t deter him from thinking he will win from then on.
He strives for win/win situations but if that isn’t possible, he wins. He will also take a loss and try to turn that into a win in some fashion. Or if he feels he lost unfairly, boy I don’t want to be on the other side of that in business.
I guess I would equate him with the old Vince Lombardi mindset when it comes to business. He’s still very confident in his personal life but turns down the highly competitive nature.
I’ve learned a few things about confident people, having been around a few personally and professionally. Some people mistake it for arrogance, when it’s just confidence. Some see confident people as too aggressive or taking too many risks. Confident people can be seen as know it all’s.
A lot of confident people know things because they have done many things. Those learned experiences have built confidence. Smart confident people constantly learn, adapt and communicate well.
Confident and competent people inspire confidence in those around them. And build confident mindsets in their families, friends and work teams.
Even confident people can get overly confident. Confidence without humility is a dangerous combination. Confidence unbridled turns into Cockiness and that’s ugly.
I’m not a confident person by nature. I’ve had the pleasure and good grace to be around many confident people. That has helped me both personally and professionally.
My better half isn’t a confident person by nature either but the two of us together are pretty good.
I always felt confident on one of these. Even though the margin for error is very thin. About the width of the tire on the road.
I was up early but my productivity has been slack. Still trying to feel comfortable in my skin today. And I’m not going to feel comfortable outside. It’s cool and damp. And those nasty storms that are killing and hurting so many in the south seem to be headed this way tomorrow.
It’s time to step it up this evening and knock out a few things. I was doing well with my To-Do list, but it’s filled up again. Adding those outdoor activities takes some significant time out of the schedule.
Steps at the State House. Photo by Mike Hartley
I need to get back on the exercise routine. Some pain slowed my roll on, Friday and this morning. Yesterday hurt my monthly average and I’ll have to hustle to make it up.
Politics
I’m disappointed in the following members of the Senate who voted for the budget yesterday. Senate Minority Leader Chuck Schumer of New York, Sen. John Fetterman of Pennsylvania, and Sen. Catherine Cortez Masto of Nevada, Dick Durbin of Illinois, Brian Schatz of Hawaii, Gary Peters of Michigan, Maggie Hassan of New Hampshire, Kirsten Gillibrand of New York, and Jeanne Shaheen of New Hampshire—as well as Angus King, a Maine independent who caucuses with Democrats.
It is my opinion they showed an incredible lack of a spine.
Random Thoughts of the Day
I read about a long list of people who are stopping posting on X. I’m proud to say I never even had that crap, when it was Twitter.
I guess the plan is to wipe out our life’s saving, and then bring prices down.
I enjoyed reading John Feinstein a sportswriter, author and former Post employee. He passed yesterday. A nice tribute to him by a former co-worker Eugene L. Meyer, found here.
Tough loss today for my Terps. But we go dancing next week.
What activities do you lose yourself in? – Great question from the daily writing prompt.
Music is something I often lose myself in. It moves me even if I’m just sitting in the chair like this morning typing away with shoulders swaying, fingers matching the rhythm of the tune. Sometimes pausing to play that imaginary set of drums in front of me or get up and dance.
Drum set in window of Bill’s Music in Catonsville. Photo by Mike Hartley
I get lost in playing with my young grandchildren at times. It’s a good reminder to turn off reality and just imagine, if just for a few moments.
I lose myself out on drives to nowhere. One of the advantages of a convertible, warm summer days and retirement.
Sometimes I’ll lose myself laughing at some comedy clips on YouTube and just keep going for more. It must be some tank within me that I have to refill.
When I was young, I used to lose myself in the game of basketball. I should step out in the driveway and shoot for a while and see if I can regain that feeling. Oh crap, forgot about the bad knee. I guess I’ll lose myself in March Madness instead.
Now that I have more time for my hobbies, I find myself getting lost in them for hours each day.
I always lose myself in love.
I’ve had a few lost weekends with my best friends.
I might have to evaluate life again. I seem to be losing it fairly often.
A little late in the day for my ThursdayDoors entry, but better late than never.
Shot in Annapolis a while back on a warm summer day.
Yes that is a flip-flop door knocker. I like the Security Cat. Photo by Mike Hartley
These remaining 3 shots are from Chesapeake City in Maryland.
The next shot will show you what is guarding the entrance. Photo by Mike Hartley
I’ve got to take my better half here this spring. It’s been 8 years since my last visit.
Love this entrance. Photo by Mike Hartley
It’s a nice spot to take a day trip. And the charming little place below makes me think of a bed and breakfast also.
I’m going to have to see if this place is still there. Photo by Mike Hartley
Thursday Doors is a weekly challenge that I’m trying to participate in. Share your link in the comments’ on Dan’s site, anytime between Thursday morning and Saturday noon (North American Eastern Time).
Good day Maryland and beyond. I’ll do my best to keep things civil today and dispense fair rulings on many subjects.
I’d like to commend the road crews out patching the numerous crater like potholes dotting our fine state. I thank you, my tires, rims and shocks, thank you.
Next on today’s docket. I see Howard County stepping up to support Federal workers. While job opportunities around here seem to be plentiful, I’m not sure the sudden volume of unemployed workers from the Federal side can find enough work.
The Senate Chamber of the State of Maryland. Photo by Mike Hartley
The weather gets an unfavorable rating this morning with cool and cloud conditions blocking my sunrise. This is followed by clouds all day and a high of 56. FAIL.
This shot from my visit to Annapolis the other day made me think of my own son who will be having a daughter soon. Luckily, I have a daughter to share my heart with also. It’s hard to put those feelings into words that are adequate.
Sometimes a photo does help though, as these two below have arms tightly around each other, at the water’s edge, it’s that kind of trusting, secure embrace a father looks so forward to giving and getting.
There are so many good/great choices to eat in Annapolis that we could have stopped at a dozen places and been happy. We went to one of our favorites there called Carrol’s Creek Cafe for lunch.
It has a nice view of the harbor area and looking across at the Naval Academy. They hadn’t opened outdoor seating yet but I’m guessing it’s any day now.
The BBQ Shrimp wrapped in bacon and the Baked Oysters topped with horseradish, house made bacon and cabot vermont cheddar were really good. The Rockfish Tacos and Salmon Salads were excellent also. As usual, service was top notch.
Then it was over to Storm Brothers for some ice cream.
Annapolis is only 45 minutes from us (non-rush hour) so it’s an easy trip. Parking is getting a bit expensive, and I might have to look for alternatives instead of downtown.
Random Thoughts of the Morning
Another sunny day ahead puts a smile on my face.
A note from my daughter this morning will make that smile last all day.
The only thing that was missing at the White House yesterday was one of those air-filled balloon characters that flop around as the President was trying to sell cars.
I may be repeating myself, but RFK Jr is an idiot. And a dangerous one.
Being a Miata owner, I like the phrase Zoom Zoom. I also like a zoom lens on a camera. Yes, there are drawbacks. Namely slower, and not as sharp throughout the whole range. But as I’ve gotten older the option of always getting closer is tougher than it used to be.
I’ve got a couple of zooms that I’m loving and learning to use. The cameras have different sensors so a comparison wouldn’t be fair, but I might post some from time to time. I had the opportunity to test out the range on this camera and found a good subject while shooting from the dock in Annapolis Maryland. Those two towers in the distance in the center have a smaller one at an angle just to the left of the two.
Annapolis MD looking east past the Naval Academy. Photo by Mike Hartley
That small leaning tower is a crane. And behind the crane is the Chesapeake Bay Bridge. Not bad for handheld. Thought I didn’t have it extended all the way.
I zoomed in a little more trying to get the guys working on the barge but couldn’t get anything sharp. Photo by Mike Hartley
I’ve got to start at least taking my monopod out with me with this camera, if not the tripod. Because in addition to being slow they aren’t light either. I’ll give details on the equipment later and some same shoot comparisons this summer.
Random Thoughts of the Morning
When my better half is sick, nothing else matters.
Once my legs are in shape, I’ll move up and work on the core.
I wish I didn’t get frustrated when I start a new drawing, and it doesn’t work out.
Random Political Thoughts of the Morning
Worked very hard, all my life for that Social Security and Medicare I paid into, and it’s mine you meddling moron.
I wouldn’t rely on elected officials to wake up and stop this direction we’re headed in. Maybe it will be the people.
Elon calling Senator Mark Kelly and 25-year Navy Veteran, a traitor is hysterical. Then again if you take Elon’s Nazi/Communist and greed viewpoint, he might see himself as justified in saying that.
The first shot of the day as we walked out of the parking garage in downtown Annapolis, I caught a couple on Easy Street. What a way to start life. I wish them good health, good fortune and lots of love.
And to be technically correct I believe they are standing on Francis Street off Main. But I still like the Easy Street on the awning.
I just pulled the lens cap off as fast as I could and shot this first one because I could sense they were finishing up the shoot. Photo by Mike Hartley
Fortunately they had a professional working. I did capture a few other shots of the streets of Annapolis, which I’ll post later tonight because I have a few other tasks to catch up on first.
Each day we are offered choices. Which path will we take. Where do we go, with whom do we go with, what time do we leave and return. What tasks or fun do we choose? Do we stick with the same profession? Or in the same relationships.
Do we have that bowl of ice cream? Do we leave on time, so not having to speed to get to the destination? Do we get the tires replaced or squeeze a few more miles out of them. Do we take that loan or pay one off early?
I was about to throw this photo out when I noticed all the different directions people were pointed. I walk the city and beach a lot when I’m at the ocean. I feel like I’m going a dozen different directions at times. About the only time I don’t is when I’m on the treadmill.
I believe this is from Bethany Beach looking south.Photo by Mike Hartley
My better half says we walked close to 5 miles today. And I have time to get on the treadmill for another few. I do have a lot of editing and printing to do for the family. And I haven’t even downloaded the shooting I did in Annapolis today.
Random Thoughts of the Afternoon
Kids at play are the coolest.
Ah, I see more market destruction.
Veterans are being fired. And VA services being cut. I’m thinking of organizing a protest anytime Trump thinks about visiting Arlington National Cemetery.
Prices up, mindless cuts being made and important services about to disappear for good. Interesting what Fox News calls success.
Ran into a lot of friendly people today out walking. Bet it was the weather that put everyone in good spirits.
The way Trump is treating Veterans should really help the recruiting efforts. NOT
I slept longer than normal and now I’m feeling rushed. There is much to accomplish today so I best make use of every minute. I haven’t had time to create much new work on the photo side, so I grabbed a shot I hadn’t used before to get this week off to a colorful start.
The only shooting I did this weekend was from my granddaughter’s birthday party. Which I have to edit, send and make some prints from later today. I did charge the batteries up for today if I get the opportunity there will be some new images later.
The weather today looks nice so some time outside will be had. I love soaking up the sun. It’s almost, warm enough in the afternoon for shorts and tee shirts. Like I said, almost and that is only a few hours in the afternoon. But hope of even warmer days is ahead and I’m pumped.
Random Thoughts of the Morning
Watching another beautiful sunrise over the Atlantic this morning.
I wonder what the tipping point will be in support of Trump. There is one coming, I’m just not sure which or what combination of events will trigger it.
There is a ton of pollen out there already. And I’m ready to sneeze through spring.
It’s almost warm enough to move the woodworking outside. Less cleanup that way.
We might be skipping further into history than I thought. Maybe near the fall of Rome.
Write a letter to your 100-year-old self. – This is kind of an interesting task from the daily writing prompt.
Hey Mike,
Wow I just can’t believe you made it to 100. Some people didn’t give you much a chance to make it out of your 20s. You dealt with multiple cancers and surgeries in your 50s and still lived a very long life.
If I had known we were going to live to 100, I wouldn’t have felt so rushed to accomplish a lot right after retiring. I would have kicked back a little more and been more relaxed.
What a blessing to live a very long life. Our grandchildren are all grown adults now and we probably have great grandchildren. I bet you can’t do the same things I’m doing now, with the current great grandchildren.
I’m so hoping that my better half is still by my side and if I’ve made it to 100, I’m pretty sure she is. That would put us past our 75th anniversary. I was hoping to live to our 50th, so I far exceeded that goal.
Sitting here thinking about living to 100, there also must be a profound sense of sadness because many friends have probably passed. Maybe most of them. The history shared and laughed about and loved, is now a solitary memory.
I hope I’m still fun. That our sense of humor hasn’t been lost. That we still have hope for the world. That we did the right things along the way at difficult times.
Boy if you’re still snapping pictures and at the easel or writing still, I’m very proud of you. I hope you’re being pleasant and kind to those around you. Remember you said you learned by taking care of our parents what not to do to be a burden to your children.
I’m oh so curious to see how we came out of the present time we are in now.
I so hope that even at 100 I find things to love. Be it simple things like the smell of spring, or the sound of water flowing over rocks. Or complex things like still trying to keep up with technology. And of course, the most important thing, time with family.
I recall a line from my mom and other seniors as they grew older that I heard in my 60s. “Growing old takes courage” so you must be one tough individual.
I wonder if Smucker’s Jellies are still celebrating seniors turning 100 like they used to do on TV. Good old Willard Scott.
Well, I must end by saying congratulations and I got an idea. Get someone to help you out to the basketball court. Hit the short rims because your arms probably aren’t strong enough to shoot regulation. Take a few shots, remember the days of your youth and joy at running and playing game after game after game. Then sitting on the court in the dark with the guys drinking beers and laughing the night away.
Pond along Rt 99 near Waverly. Photo by Mike Hartley
It’s National Crabmeat Day. And in Maryland, that is something to Celebrate. Who picked this date, is my first question? Our season in the Chesapeake Bay runs April 1 to December 15th this year. What is with March date? Okay, I won’t obsess with that.
Instead, I think I’ll make a point to get some crabmeat this week and maybe for dinner this evening if I can talk my better half into at least a crab pretzel or cup of crab soup at the local establishment.
We LOVE our CRABS here in Maryland. I can’t wait to teach my grandson how to pick them. I don’t think my granddaughter was thrilled with that though. Maybe in a few years.
Crabacake Photo by Mike HartleyBloody Mary from the Crabcake Factory. Photo by MIke HartleyI could claw my way through a few of these. Photo by Mike HartleyMaryland Crab Photo by Mike HartleyLeeLynns crabcake sandwich. I’m the one who added the bacon. Photo by Mike HartleyGet ready for the home stretch of sun, beach and crabs. Photo by Mike HartleyCrabs everywhere. Photo by Mike HartleyFor those of you not from the Maryland/Virginia area, Old Bay is a seasoning that we love to put on crabs and other seafood dishes. Photo by Mike Hartley
Each summer is a feast of these critters. Prepared in so many ways, all of them great. From picking them fresh out of the steamer to crab imperial, you can’t go wrong.
There is no way I’m going to be able not to have some kind of crab today now that I’ve spent the last few moments thinking about it.
My son and I attended the final game of the regular season for the Maryland Terps men’s hoop team yesterday and relished the victory. It’s been a special season. One that was unexpectedly very successful. It appears Maryland will finish in 2nd or 3rd in the Conference when they were picked to finish 11th on average.
It’s also been a rarity of a season in many ways. I’ll start with the coach. After last season he was already on the hot seat, despite not having much talent. An entirely new starting lineup this year with the exception of one player. That one player is a senior. What? A senior still playing for the same team for 4 years. And not a bad player at that. He could have transferred when a coaching change was made in his time. He stayed. He is Maryland Pride.
Julian Reese and his teammates have come together as a unit in a unique way very quickly. The success the entire starting unit dubbed the “CRAB FIVE“, a takeoff of the old Michigan teams “Fab Five” has had together is special.
Anyone on that starting unit can score 20-30 points a game. All 5 starters average in double figures. The team averages 81.5 points a game. But the strongest part of the team is their defense. They are stifling. Defense has kept them in every game this season.
And while the bench hasn’t been the scoring machine they have provided some pressure defense and a few key plays this season to keep victories alive.
I so hope they do well in the Big 10 Tournament and the Big Dance NCAA Tourney. It would be nice to send the seniors off with a championship and keep this train rolling. Because when this team is playing well, they can play with anyone in the country. Go TERPS.
XFINITY center needs another Championship Banner. A great way to end the regular season and enter the playoffs. Photo by Mike Hartley
What is your middle name? Does it carry any special meaning/significance? – So asks the daily writing prompt this fine Saturday.
My middle name is Alan. Any significance wasn’t explained to me from family. I like it. It’s short. Most of the time it’s just A.
Now that I think back about the name, there is only one person I remember using it. And that was my mother and I was usually in trouble. When I heard Michael Alan, I knew I screwed up. Boy do I miss hearing that.
I was too young here to have messed up so she was probably just whispering Michael in my ear.
This has been a festive day. It started it off in a good way and in good spirits. There is a birthday in the family to celebrate, it’s Friday, I’m retired, and was nothing pressing on the agenda today.
Sand and stones. Photo by Mike Hartley
That sun is feeling stronger by the day. Soon the call of the sands will become impossible to resist. It’s 54 days till Cruisin Ocean City May 1-4. I know I’ll be doing at least a daytrip one of those dates. From my limited attendance I like the fall show better. And now that they moved the spring show earlier in the month that means cooler temps are possible.
I don’t know if I can wait that long though. I can see one of these warm 80 degree late March or April days triggering that itch to throw the beach towel, flip flops, floppy hat and cooler in the car, put the top down, hat and glasses on and head east.
Reflection
I used to like having our old Post Office close by. The shot below is from 9 years ago. It has since been torn down and a row of townhouses now occupies this space and some of the woods that used to be there.
The old Woodstock Post Office. Photo by Mike Hartley
This, like much of Howard County has been carved up. I live here, and have a hard time keeping up with all the changes going on.
Random Thoughts of the Day
The treadmill is a walk of the mind.
It’s not the lie, it’s that people believe the lie and perpetuate it.
When I’m alone, I miss having a pet. That is a lot of the time.
With the huge drop in circulation at both the Baltimore Sun and The Washington Post it seems like the area is ripe for a Middle Left publication. The Baltimore Banner is trying to fill that void but they are digital only. Not that many people read print anymore.
What is the one question you hate to be asked? Explain. – The Daily writing prompt asks.
When is your next cancer check? I know people are well intentioned but that is both a little personal and I don’t like to be reminded of it. It’s okay with immediate family but beyond that I’m going to keep that close to vest.
Wristband I wore during treatments. Photo by Mike Hartley
A nasty line of weather is set to pass through today. Along with some high winds for a few days. That means I had better get a few scheduled posts ready in case we lose power. Last year was rather stormy at the beach. I hope this year is different.
In Ellicott City. Photo by Mike Hartley
I wonder what this gate is protecting.
Random Thoughts of the Morning
I don’t feel as guilty working on the computer when it’s raining outside.
And here I thought I was going to DC to sightsee this year. Looks like I’ll be adding protest to the agenda.
There is never a wrong time of day to cook bacon.
The morning has gotten away from me. Time to get a grip on the afternoon and ride it out.
Almost time to report to the diamond and Play Ball. The major leaguers are at it and I’m guessing the kids are out soon. I’ll have to drive down to Wallace Park and see if I can catch the kids practicing this week. As I said, I need to practice my sports photography.
I almost cropped out #13 on the left but though that might be bad luck. Photo by Mike Hartley
Random Thought of the Afternoon
There is looking at what needs to be done and doing it.
Life is too short to waste an hour or two of it between 9-11pm tonight. I’ll read about it.
My photo paper and ink came today. Time to combine the two.
I’m glad there are some great videos of the band Aerosmith. I must have seen them 8-10 times live, and they were always blowing up equipment or so high the show wasn’t their best effort. There were a few great shows but at least half had some kind of mishap.
Just seemed like a good title for this photo. This is a great day for peaks.
National Harbor. Photo by Mike Hartley
I think I’ll try to post some more photos and less words. I need a better balance here.
Wow, after a few hours with the rake and pruners, my fingers aren’t the coordinated group they usually are. I did have gloves on so no blisters to deal with and I rarely get them from just a few hours even without gloves.
Felt good to be outside in the yard and getting it ready for the seasons of rolling around in it with the grandchildren. Pulling them around in the wagon and riding on my lap on the tractor.
Well back outside I go. It’s too big of a yard to rake in one day.
In my second year of retirement, I’ve switched back to breaking down the day into segments and filling them up like I did when working. Things like blocking out times for exercise each day. I make sure to touch each of my hobbies every day.
Filling my daily to-do list to the brim, just to challenge myself to see what I could get done. And now I need to get back to creating more posts each day.
I’ve always wanted to sit behind a set of drums. Photo by Mike Hartley
I’m flexible on my start time each day. Somewhere between 2-5 am is normal. And I’ll go till 10pm or 1am at night. Yeah, I’m still not sleeping much most days.
Getting a good focus and being at peace with myself, while difficult some days it’s something I try to regain even as the day or situations get away from me.
Random Thoughts of the Day
Helping a friend isn’t something that needs thought, just action.
Now I know why their MAGA hats are Red. Have a good day, comrade.
I wish I could charge my batteries as easily as I do with my cameras.
Ah, it’s Tariff Tuesday. Is this what will bring prices down? Or was that the stock market you meant?
I switched from taking my meds with dinner to first thing in the morning. That way I don’t forget when I skip dinner.
Feeling like I could have accomplished a bit more but content with what I did. Tomorrow gets a very early start and a massive effort to complete a few projects and move forward on others.
Northside Park in Ocean City MD. Photo by Mike Hartley
Woops, I just checked the weather forecast. We might have to adjust plans. I think I saw something about a sunny day and 60 degrees.
That fact might add a cruise in the Miata being added to the days activities. Just for sanity sake.
Random Thoughts of the Day
I got the best reward this evening. A short Facetime with both my children and grandchildren. Even though we don’t use it much, when we do, it’s my favorite app.
Tariff Tuesday. Destroying relationships with neighbors one brick at a time. Also I’m guessing that is going to help lower prices? Not.
Too many good people doing very important work are losing their jobs for no good reason making us all less safe.
Ignorance has led us to an ugly place in time. And it could get much worse.
So off to make it a better place, after a few hours rest.
Sometimes I sit and laugh a bit at various times of the week reminding me of my old schedule. For instance, now at 6:30am on a Monday morning, I would normally be finishing up my first night of the workweek of 12 hours and either driving 50 miles home or marching upstairs to bed if I was lucky enough to be working from home that night.
Today is full of possibilities. I’m going to try to make them good ones, but I’m sure there will be opposing forces. Well, let’s get it on, no sense wasting time. A few appointments and errands are on the morning list but the day is relatively free.
I had better take advantage of it because the end of the week is very busy.
Wax On. Photo by Mike Hartley
Random Thoughts of the Morning
If you’re comfortable with yourself, and believe in yourself, you can make it.
I’m not convinced that the biggest load is given to those who can handle it.
Find your own way because if you take others paths you rarely will be happy.
I love watching deer around our homes. I think this guy was asking me about this recent cold snap and when its leaving. Watching them wake, stretch and emerge from the shadows is always fun.
And a good day to you also. Photo by Mike Hartley
We met our son and grandson today for the Maryland Home and Garden show at the state fairgrounds and had a great lunch together afterwards.
Photos by Mike Hartley
Politics
Unsurprisingly to me, the rest of the world seems to be alarmed over our recent alliance with Russia. As displayed recently with the horrible meeting between the leader of Ukraine and Putin’s Puppet. Well, there are a ton of people in the United States that are against this also. And I am one of them.
For some reason people and officials in power who have condemned the Communist Government of Russia for decades are all of sudden kissing their ass. Well far as I’m concerned you have traded sides and can no longer be trusted to have the best interest of this country at heart.
You have completely sold out not to condemn this crap. Lindsey Graham, you can go to Leningrad and talk that crap if you want brag about being proud of Trump’s display, but don’t peddle that crap with me. There was a famous line in the 90s from the show In Living Color. And that line was “Homey don’t play that.” And I hope most Americans all don’t either.
Maybe Trump’s nickname for Marco Rubio “little Marco” was right. Because he never looked smaller than he did sitting there and watching that display. I never thought we would populate the Government with a bunch of Communists loving idiots. Anyone who thinks Russia has our best interest at heart is a FOOL.
If Obama or Biden started conceding to Russia the Republicans would have wanted them removed from office and shot for treason.
I’ve been looking at some items from World War 1, World War 2 and Korea from my father and grandfather. I can’t make them proud by remaining silent.
And I’ve had it hearing about tax breaks for the rich and telling us we must live with less.
Random Thoughts of the Day
It doesn’t feel like a Sunday.
Trying to focus on what I have instead of what I don’t.
I don’t even want to see what Comrade Trump is up to this day.
Here’s a thought. Do you think someone might want to cancel midterm elections?
There are times I’m consumed by thoughts. And problems either I haven’t stumbled upon the solution for yet, or there is none. And that usually leads to a lot of wheels turning from the neck up. And that affects what I get done which is counterproductive.
The only thing to do is keep trying different things, move on, and survive. So, time to put feet on the treadmill and then get ready for a busy day.
I’ve also been contemplating. Photo by Mike Hartley
The long-range forecast doesn’t inspire me. Regardless I’m looking forward to getting outside more. There is a local trail that rolls along the Patapsco River that is several miles that I’ll explore this month.
I’m off to a much stronger start this year and at the same time feeling like I should accomplish a lot more each day. The feeling of guilt for relaxing and maybe not utilizing a day fully, is creeping back into my world. I wish I could lose that anxious feeling.
Part of it is physical. With age it’s hard to tell what is normal and what isn’t. I feel better aerobically and strength wise than I have in years. I’m maintaining a healthy weight and eating better. But pain is a daily companion. Plus, my balance isn’t what it was, and without glasses I’m sight challenged.
And I feel so lucky to wake each morning, able to get up and move about, have a roof over my head, food to eat, and thankful to watch the sunrise.
Random Thoughts of the Morning
There is a grandson waiting to hug me today.
This movement last Friday (economic boycott) has inspired me. I see there is an Amazon boycott coming March 7-14. Well I’ve decided to switch as many of my purchases away from Amazon as I can on a permanent basis and I started that this morning. Don’t worry, it’s not going to Walmart either, I’ve never purchased anything from them in my lifetime. I’ve always been opposed to big box stores because I feel they kill local businesses.
I heard a hockey player refer to his young son as a human Zamboni. That would be me ice skating. I could roller skate but that was back in the day when there were 2 wheels side by side instead of inline.
The people will probably wake up far before those who govern do. Or at least one can hope.
Below is someone working with their camera. This is exactly what I need to be doing this weekend. I’m not sure I’ll be able to get to the waters edge but I’ll find something interesting.
Photographing the Photographer. Photo by Mike Hartley
I hope to see some family which I haven’t in a while also. And who knows, maybe I’ll step foot outside the house. I was a bit of a hermit yesterday.
Old Town Alexandria VA from 2018. Photo by Mike Hartley
Random Thoughts of the Morning
Schedules are nice if they are packed.
I’m usually up earlier than sunrise. But I always try to take a few minutes to watch in.
It’s not the talent of the individuals that wins games. It’s how well all the talents on the floor play together or don’t that usually determines the winner.
I don’t work well with people that expect to have their ass kissed. Therefore I will not be returning to the workforce.
